STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CHURCH BROUHAHA
Hello Stella and ardent Bvs, I don't know if this qualifies as a chronicle but I do need your advice on this.
I'm 29 years old, and I'm about breaking up with my boyfriend of 1.5 years....
My boyfriend and his family attend a certain white garment church, the one called Brotherhood, at the onset of the relationship, I was a bit skeptical about this as my family is of the orthodox background, but he advised that this wouldn't pose any problem and as time goes on he would know the 'will of God' concerning his church.
Each time I brought this up it always caused a problem between us both and he'd say I shouldn't be concerned about wherever he worships, each time he talks about wanting to start a family with me and at the moment I don't think I can go ahead with this. I personally have certain reservations about the Church talk more of my family, at the same time he goes on deeper in the church taking up one position or the other and lately the choir director.
I am not someone who would want to attend a different church from my husband and this might to some extent cause some rifts in our family later in future, my family would not even agree to this in the first place. I believe certain things which I do not understand should be stayed away from and this is what I want to do by ending the relationship.
Each time I brought this up it always caused a problem between us both and he'd say I shouldn't be concerned about wherever he worships, each time he talks about wanting to start a family with me and at the moment I don't think I can go ahead with this. I personally have certain reservations about the Church talk more of my family, at the same time he goes on deeper in the church taking up one position or the other and lately the choir director.
I am not someone who would want to attend a different church from my husband and this might to some extent cause some rifts in our family later in future, my family would not even agree to this in the first place. I believe certain things which I do not understand should be stayed away from and this is what I want to do by ending the relationship.
I do believe that we can still love someone and let go because of the future, I wouldn't want any issues arising from my marriage because of place of worship which i think is a delicate issue.
Some of my friends think I'm overreacting and going overboard, but I like to think ahead and try to avoid whatsoever problem that might want to arise in future. Please Stella and my fellow Bvs, I need your advice on this.
Some of my friends think I'm overreacting and going overboard, but I like to think ahead and try to avoid whatsoever problem that might want to arise in future. Please Stella and my fellow Bvs, I need your advice on this.
*You have taken the right decision....walk away from what you dont Understand before it is too late..All the best to you!!!
That's the devil's brotherhood. Run, run, run!
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, keep it stepping. You've made the right decision, do not rescind on that.
DeleteBut salvation is personal na, the mistake most people make is to think that what you like is what everybody around you most like, they are so many couples that attend same church but yet have serious issues with their marriage. My aunt is a Christian and her husband Muslim and they are married for over 40yrs and counting. How did they do it? Simple, everybody should mind his or her business when it comes to believes. I personally don’t mind if my wife is a Muslim or Christian.
DeleteU had to b try very careful breaking things off o! Those Pple r highly diabolical b very very gently and allow him to b d one to withdraw pls.
DeleteSalvation is not personal in this case...this brotherhood is a cult and they worship their master, Olumba olumba ogbu OOO....run away before your destiny is destroyed. The so called “church” started in calalabar...it’s just like someone going to guru maharaji...they are not Christians and no true christian will marry them
DeleteIt is better you walked away. Olumba no be am
ReplyDeleteThem full lagos
DeleteWhich one is brotherhood again? Na cult group? There are some churches I can never attend too. Poster pls follow your heart cos it will be difficult convincing him o. But if you love him enough, marry him and keep attending your own church if you can't attend his
ReplyDeleteU get something to say at all chronicles, u dey tire to write?see and pass abegggggggg!
DeleteBrotherhood of the cross and star....
DeleteO.O Obu.
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These are NOT Christians as they do not profess Christ Jesus.
Their Messiah is Oljmba who feeds on flesh and blood.
Poster, hold your ears with your two hands, warn yourself sharply.
Then pick you slippers and RUN!
Marry weitein Modela. You mean she should open her eyes korokoro and marry triple zero person.
DeletePoster, pick four forty helele.
You did the right thing girl. Same thing happened to me two years back, I walked away to avoid problems in the future. Why marry into something you don't understand and risk your children being part of?
ReplyDeletePoster u should not have started the relationship, brotherhood of the cross nd star isn’t a church oooo!! Just try nd Male d break up look like his fault before them use u do ritual spiritually, pls cut it off fast abeg
DeleteYou even wasted too much time sef, imagine one & half years, abeg move forward and dont look back, youre allowed to only look back to spit, those people dont leave their church for anyother, same with Jehovas witnesses, if they tell u theyd leave, its a big lie, he just kept you & was receiving puna free, he knew he wouldnt marry you, if ur friends think ure overeacting dash them the guy.
ReplyDeleteHahahahah real candidate
DeleteYou should not have dated him in the first place since you had church reservations. I once liked a guy but when he told me he worshipped at C & S, all the likeness disappeared at once. I am happy you had the courage to walk away.
ReplyDeleteI have not see any problem hear o. As far as is the ssame God we all are worshipping, these should not cos a issue here. Poster are you not a Christian? Pray and fast on it. Follow and heed to your heart advise too. Don't let the devil use you
ReplyDeleteHow can you say they worship the same God?
DeleteHave you ever been to any of their services?
You go run!
It’s not the same God o. Get informed before you just open your mouth and say anything.
DeleteChurch wey dey drink blood,poster you stayed too long with him,I grew up hearing horrible things about this Brotherhood of cross and🌟star. .
DeleteAnonymous 15:08. I’m sure you are not a Christian cos no one that knows Christ can write what you wrote up there.
DeletePoster, why start a relationship with this person in the first place. Anyway pls run as far away as you can get from him.
White garment? 😨😨😨😨😨😨😨
ReplyDeleteBrotherhood of the cross and star😔😔the silent non talking cult,hmmm my sister do whatever suits your conscience because you are old enough
ReplyDeleteSo he should stop attending his church and start attending the one you attend?
ReplyDeleteThis is the problem of the Body of Christ. This Church thinking the other is this or that.
If I were the brother, I would have left you since. Your type will tell him his mother is a witch and he should stop picking her calls.
Anyway, I just discovered I married a feminist. Told my newly wedded wife to take my plate to the kitchen, she said "sweetheart, I want you to know that i am a feminist", HOT cold catch.....
Why couldn't you take your plate there?
DeleteYou are not serious, better clear your dish after eating. What nonsense. When parents dont train boys to be proper men this is the trash they spill
DeleteSo she should go work, do grocery shopping, cook the food, set the table, dish your food, clear your plate and then go do the dishes and still have energy to sex you with enthusiasm afterwards. Some of you men really think a woman is not flesh and bones. You call us the weaker sex yet expect us to do all the work. Be reasonable and understanding. A wife is not a maid neither is she a slave.
DeleteSo, she cook finish and served you. You balanced and finished the food then told her to take your plates to the Kitchen. You are an ungrateful man. So she has become your slave. I wonder what happened to your own heads and legs. Just remember that you are not helpless. Nor be say you de sick sef. See new marriage oo!!
DeleteThis blog is made up of female who are feminist. My guy if u eat finish drop your plate there if she no pick am leave am there till one week if she no still take am find stick Flog devil comot her head
DeleteLol @ flog. Mr controversial you are not well.
DeleteFly away dear. Don't just walk like STELLA said .
ReplyDeleteAm I the only person who don't care about "church"? If u like attend tekewari, I don't care, just don't drag me along, go to ur church n let me stay at home n play ps4.
ReplyDeleteAnyway break up, before u enter brotherhood of blood n water.
You don't care about church because you have not been married. When you get married, you realise your husband's church is important. Most men will force you to attend their churches and if they let you attend yours, what about your children?
DeleteMy dear please end the relationship.Chirch is very important ,you will surely meet someone who is in a church you are comfortable with.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, please run away from that relationship.
ReplyDeleteLet the relationship wither away with 2018. Thank you
ReplyDeleteI fear white garment church goers pass devil. If you attend white garment church we can NEVER EVER be friends talkless of dating. I dated a white garment goer in my early 20s and what my eyes saw my mouth cannot talk. Till now early 30s i know what i faced omo that relationship nearly ruined my marital life. This is from a yoruba female.
ReplyDeleteSis run for your life asap
Abeg spill oo. I wan hear jist
DeleteSis where should i start.
DeleteShould i start where his sister and ex gf boldly came to meet me in the dream to tell me to leave him alone or where his mother came to also meet me that she doesn't like me for her son.
Or shall i started where i saw him being killed in the dream and i was told he has short life when i confronted him he said yes it is true.
Or shall i start where after a year i ran for my life but he got a doll and named it after my enemy and reading psalms to it sending wicked things to my enemy.
It was only God that kept me and is keeping me if not he would have messed up my martial life. Thank God i am married with kids.
He married earlier this year and that is when i stopped seeing him in my dreams after 10 years.
Anything Brotherhood and Olumba... please run!!!
ReplyDeleteBrotherhood of the cross and star? i am quite close to someone who dated someone in the founders lineage and by the time she was done, her life was upside down. R-U-N!
ReplyDeleteDont even bother. Such people should marry within their fellowships. Its better like that. There are guys in your fellowship nau.... find them biko.
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ReplyDeleteOh... and when i left my agnostic boyfriend that year, my good friend told me I was overreacting and its not that deep. Hehehe. When she wanted to marry she went and found a prayer warrior correct church boy. And she no dey even too dey go church.
ReplyDeleteImagine if I had listened to her amd gotten married to him, how stupid I would be feeling now for taking her advice.
Agnostic isnt bad na, they are in doubt of Gods existence, if you strong you can convert them to believers, talk true he had other shortcomings.
DeleteI had an agnostic friend, very nice guy oh, u wouldnt know hes agnostic unless he tells you, ud just assume he doesnt like going to church.
None run run run. Ugburu one kam gwara gi ya. That is definitely no church. I had a room mate during my university days, whom I caught with otumokpo.she boldly told me it was given to her from her church. NDI BROTHERHOOD.
ReplyDeleteI think you should 'Ship out'. I was in love with a guy of the same faith but was disappointed by him. I married someone who is a free minded person who goes to church with me once in a while on the rebound. It's been 25+ years and we have a lovely family but there is that sadness at the back of my mind. I wished I had married a serious Christian. He loves and doesn't stop me from church activities but I know where I would have been in my ministry or in the church if I had married somebody who really loves God. I have my regrets but I console myself with "It could have been better but it could have been worse" White garments are strict with their practices and he could prevent you from going to another church. Think about your future children
ReplyDeleteLearn to count your blessings, ppl that attend same church sef de fight toll divorce, no man complete... you think he doesnt have things in mind you wish u had?
DeleteAbeg love you God alone and stop blaming yourself husband for whatever happens to your salvation or ministry
DeleteSorry, I detest people that blame others but not themselves whenever they make mistakes.
Don, I am not blaming anybody for whatever I feel. I am just saying that not having sae christan values could e difficult especially for a lady who was a youth leader and co might have ended being a pastor or a leader in present church. Some churches will never ordain a woman alone without her husband and present church will not The sky has not fallen. All I am saying is that it is good to marry a man/woman with the same value. Did I blame my husband? s Please read carefully before you jump to conclusions. It will carry you far.
DeleteYaba Left escappe, I understand and really appreciate what you said. Just saying that it is true when the bible says about not being unequally yoked and "Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor either of them falls down one can help the other up.But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up". It happens within the family but I am grateful to God
DeleteNone run run run. Ugburu one kam gwara gi ya. That is definitely no church. I had a room mate during my university days, whom I caught with otumokpo.she boldly told me it was given to her from her church. NDI BROTHERHOOD.
ReplyDeletePoster you have answered yourself already. So if BVs now advice you to enter, you will enter?
ReplyDeleteDear poster, be on your way and dont look back at all. Many cult organisations Using the name church so you wont suspect. Brotherhood. 🏃🏃🏃🏃
ReplyDeleteDear poster, be on your way and dont look back at all. Many cult organisations Using the name church so you wont suspect. Brotherhood. 🏃🏃🏃🏃
ReplyDeleteIt is very dangerous to be married to someone who has a contrary belief system as you.
ReplyDeleteCan two work together except they agree?
ReplyDeleteThe only ish is see here is the 1.5 years you wasted being in a relationship with the guy.
Going forward, never waste time on anything your spirit isn't comfortable with at the very beginning.
Cheers!
Poster you have made the right decision. My husband attends a Pentecostal Church while I’m an Anglican. I had the church discussion when were dating and he said it’s not gonna be an issue. He said we can go to Anglican or catholic (his family’s church) when the time comes or he will allow me go to those churches while he attends his Pentecostal Church. Now that we are married he has changed his tone. He wants me and the kids to follow him to His Pentecostal Church.
ReplyDeletebrotherhood of the cross and stars...olumba olumba things!! ghen ghen!
ReplyDeleteI don't really understand. He attends both Brotherhood and Deeper Life? If that is the case please run!!!!! These are two extreme opposite. Very very unstable man.
ReplyDeleteI think the lady implies that her boyfriend keeps going deeper in the brotherhood's hierarchy.
DeleteHes getting deeper in the church
DeleteRead to comprehend, you don't need to comment if you can't understand .
DeleteEnglish isn’t too hard to comprehend. Where did you see deeper life?? Please, go read it again before you take the test. I don’t want you to fail again. Only one chance to retake this class.
DeleteGiving advice when you can't even understand simple English. Please go and learn how to read and comprehend .
DeleteYaba left patient please don't bring Jehovah's witnesses into this because no staunch member of Jehovah's Witness will even date a non member talk less of marriage.
ReplyDeleteYimu...
DeleteYou dont even know whats going on under in that your kingdom.
Your members date and fuck codedly, with the hope of converting the lover...
I know 2 colleagues married to non JW. Their wives remain staunch front seat members oh, and evangalize wella.
Hian you de vex oo...na cult
DeleteWhite garments churches are rooted in occultism. My brief stint with a white garment church some years back had a serious effect in my walk with the Lord. It caused a lot of delay for me.
ReplyDeleteSister, your boyfriend may be a sincere but ignorant member of the brotherhood and may not know about the dark side of the cult.
If both of you are sexually involved, you will need to pray hard to break the relationship and the soul tie already established with the guy. You must act fast to avoid unnecessary headache in your future relationships.
Please end the relationship . The brotherhood of the cross and star that read and interpret the Bible upside down..
ReplyDeletePoster 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃.
ReplyDeleteMy dear hop into the locomotive that will carry you away from this relationship , key in the code 4/40 , press enter and zoom off🌪🌪🌪🌪💨💨💨💨💨
ReplyDeleteLocomotive will be slow na. Tell her to board express or jet set.
DeleteSweetheart please walk away. Yours will come. I was in same shoes 2016,i took the bold step and walked away. Today I am married to my own and same faith.
ReplyDeleteBrotherhood that believes olumba is their jesus. My dear, don't just run... Flee.
ReplyDeleteI will never date a woman that attend that brotherhood of the cross and star. To me they are occult.
ReplyDeleteposter, drop that guy and move.. I can't advice you to date him not go talk of getting married to him.
But you fit off her undies abi? Badt niggar
DeleteOne of my very good friend attend that church, she has the look of a goddess and very very nice girl, her voice is one of the most beautiful voice have ever heard. If you see her in her white garment you will think she from the water and what shock me was that her siblings are so ugly she was so different but I wasn't always comfortable with her, I can't get things from her n not get scared, I can't drop my food n just go pick something. I just had to end it.
ReplyDeleteOlumba their voices are the most beautiful. Imagine my friend winning first position in world competition.her voice was not of this world. I do miss her friendship tho
Any brotherhood BV care to throw more light?
ReplyDeleteMake e come divulge their secrets 🙄🙄🙄 not gonna happen 🌝
DeleteRun away. Occult gathering.
ReplyDeleteThe only reason you are worried is because you are 29 approaching the dreaded so-called sell by date of 30. Continue using your tongue to count your teeth. Wasting 18 months
ReplyDeleteone thing I have come to know about life is that when your heart is telling something at that moment you should learn to take action at that moment also because its might end up in oh I should I d mean i knew it from the beginning, my dear follow your heart and let him be on his own, but nevertheless understand matters if you truly loves him and he does too there's nothing wrong maybe God want to use u to bring him back on the main track okay,but from your story you don't like the brotherhood not even your family,its means there's going to be a problem if you proceed dear,my advice is that you should back off, thank you.
ReplyDeleteOga o. My own advice is to do what pleases you. I am newly married and married a Jehovah's Witness. I am not. All his siblings boycotted the wedding. Till date, none have not called to congratulate me. All those one no pain me. The main thing is , in my quest to please my husband, I am gradually losing some values I cherish as my husband is not even a strong JW.
ReplyDeletePlease marry only the person you'll feel at peace with.
Run from him. They are a cult. They believe their leader is Jesus. You can never make progress in life and you will be frustrated beyond belief. A friend married one for many years but she is out of the marriage with her 3 girls
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