The light-skinned thespian, who doubles as a fitness trainer, revealed to Inside Nollywood that she was once desperate for love and ended up being used and dumped.
“About 10 years ago, I was that innocent young woman who was misunderstood by everyone. I was desperate for love but was used, played, broken and shattered at some point. But today I stand tall. I know who I am and what I want. I have found self-love and fulfilment and I am no longer desperate for anything. I give love as much as I have. I’ve finally found myself,” she gushed.
Advising the young women out there who might find themselves in similar situation of brokenness, the mother of one said:
“To the young ones out there, you have permission to walk away from anything that doesn’t feel right. Trust your instincts and listen to your inner voice. It’s trying to protect you. Create in your mind a vision of what you want and never take your eyes away from it, then the universe will cooperate with you.”
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“About 10 years ago, I was that innocent young woman who was misunderstood by everyone. I was desperate for love but was used, played, broken and shattered at some point. But today I stand tall. I know who I am and what I want. I have found self-love and fulfilment and I am no longer desperate for anything. I give love as much as I have. I’ve finally found myself,” she gushed.
Advising the young women out there who might find themselves in similar situation of brokenness, the mother of one said:
“To the young ones out there, you have permission to walk away from anything that doesn’t feel right. Trust your instincts and listen to your inner voice. It’s trying to protect you. Create in your mind a vision of what you want and never take your eyes away from it, then the universe will cooperate with you.”
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*Beautiful mindset...Super woman!!!
She's beautiful
ReplyDeleteWomen turn to motivational speakers and "romance psychtherapist" overnight after being dumped or divorced... is that the certified souvenir of heartbreak?... and theyre always the victim, na wa o.
ReplyDeleteIt's called learning curve, the body of knowledge learned over time from experience... Teaching self love & giving motivational talks to the younger ones who don't know or even recognize what they might be going through, is very necessary okay? It's not playing the victim
DeleteYABA left Escapee the love i have for you.
DeleteAlways saying it as it is.
Women hate the truth !!!! Turning to motivational speakers when things go sour. They should take their L in peace.
Love, youre wasting your time..
DeleteIf you like write it in their forehead the dangers and clear warning signs of wrong relationships, it wont help! People will make their own mistakes, even her that believes shes now smart, you think she cant enter another one chance? Thats if shes even the one that entered... and not the other way around
True that! Ain't nobody got time for that shit
DeleteEyaaaa... you will find love again
ReplyDeleteShe looks so slim. Wish i could lose d weight like she did.
ReplyDeleteYou can oh, start working out and do portion control.You can do your excercise in the house if you have data.
DeleteI am in the process, I gained 15kg after putting to bed, I have now lost 9kg, i want to lose another 8kg and I am fine.
So all these years youve been single, the universe hasnt cooperated with you to give you what you visioned? Well done ma.
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteGood for you
ReplyDeleteI am glad she gathered herself up and walked away. There is nothing as bad as ticking things out and covering up for an abuser, Last last you end up with your soul, spirit and your body destroyed and the abuser thriving.
ReplyDeleteI dunno, but I like her a bit chubby.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is a poet when shit happens. Na today use and dump start. Still shining my eyes mbok💔🚶🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteNot everyone.
DeleteSome become like vampires.
My love for Uche, take it all to God in prayer and He'll answer you
ReplyDeleteKai! This Uche should fear God small with all this lies. She married the guy because of money and the moment she heard the guys starts abroad to pepper her click of friends and unfortunately for her, she thought that getting pregnant will make things easier and the more money, hunkle come get gbese for the other side. Pls hanty stop shouting use and dump. You wey dey fly like bird upandan forming what you are not.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her. If she got there and the man had money will she be claiming use and dump or she will hold the marriage tight.
DeleteThey just see abroad based,they don't investigate.Sharp Sharp they have opened leg carry belle to hasten payment of bride price.
ReplyDeleteYou see them he proposed on our first date,paid bride price in 1month like it's competition. Do you know him?
You now start killing us with stories when you discover the lies you shld have discovered had it been you took your time to know him.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteEzigbote do you know him?
PLEASE LOUD IT FOR HER
DeletePepperMyfriends gang by any means. She should rest with her sob stories.
DO YOU KNOW THE MAN ??? NO
You're just so right
DeleteWell said anon!!
DeleteYimu @ uche
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha...Don't mind Uche,with her face looking like that dogilla's face in 2019 in that 10years challenge
DeleteChai,women!
DeleteThe way you guys attack yourselves ehhhh
Tuehhhh
I can relate. @Blessed Princess
ReplyDeleteLoving the woman you have become.
ReplyDeleteNice one uche, time heals
ReplyDeleteNo mind her! She got fooled by thinking that every abroad based man is worthy for marriage & to have child with.
ReplyDeleteNow she learnt that the fastest route to end up as single mother is for any girl/woman to fool herself believing that having child will secure them with a man. Especially the wrong type of man like those who r dishonest, lazy, criminal inclined, mean spirited, unready to settle down or have a stable life with a woman, mentally sick or those with twisted mindset that enjoys breeding illegitimate child / and bastardise their children.
Nigerian girls & women need to stop being desperate in life with marriage or to have man anyhow!!!
Focus on ur education, or finding a good job, making a good career, learning a good trade/vocational work that can give u a good life whether single or not married at the end of the day. In that way ur only "worries" or problem will be how to enjoy a good life, live a quality life & to have self fulfillment. Instead of suffering & always desperate for money & how to survive.
impressed@ur transformation...how can I trade my extra pounds for uches' sleek look...Me like
ReplyDeleteStay away from pots of peppersoup, chicken and big stout. Everything must not enter the stomach at once fatso
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