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Thursday, January 24, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

Hmmmmmmmmm....





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BOO WITH MENTAL ILLNESS.



Dear Stella ,
Thank you for your blog.
I read about your post on mental illness.


I am dating a guy who is extremely intelligent . He knows about any thing and every aspect of life . He got scholarships for his undergraduate studies and masters.

We love ourselves deeply , we look forward to meeting our families when he returns home soon.

We have an almost perfect relationship, except he's not a romantic personality as such but I am on the extreme of being a romantic,that I have come to accept because we wired differently.

I have a concern, he forgets things, at first he waved it off as if I'm overreacting until he opened up to me about this problem. You have to remind him . even calling his mum, he forgets .

Aside studying and his personal hygiene , any other matter he won't remember . when you bring him back to it , he will deny ever discussing it with you, thank God for chats ( its a form of reference for him).

Secondly,he hates loud noise and loud talk..it gets his massively angry..
If we are on call and the backgroud is loud or persons are talking loudly , he cusses ," what the f ***is wrong with those market people"
At first it was funny but not anymore , it has become a big concern to me.

He told me when we get married , he won't help with the babies and I have to help tame their cries.. I was shocked..

He needs to seek medical attention before I say "I do" . we learn from others.

Doctors , in the house I need your advice,I would appreciate remedies , journals to read .any material on this.

He said the parents know about it but they didn't take it serious, he is as helpless as I am.



*WOW....what if you Marry him and he forgets that the wedding took place?
Please help him get help and forget about marrying him for now,its too dangerous to bring kids into this situation ad try to find out from his people if it is inherited....

135 comments:

  1. Lol @ forget he got married.

    Poster, try elsewhere.

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    1. Hahahaha, na really what if he forgets the wedding took place. That was epic.

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    2. Nna it's possible oh, he can even come back one day and be asking "who are these riffraffs, what are these snivelling loud monkeys doing in my house" na him children him don forget so oh

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    3. He is a wiredo. Children that you guys haven't had, he is already thinking of how to stop them from crying.

      Don't be shocked he will do the unthinkable. No be my hand I go take type the scenario for you.

      Madam, run as fast as u can

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    4. Cyclone @ lol. Your comment cracked me up.

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    5. Stella your first line was funny but I am with you on this.

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    6. Cyclone na craze walahi LMAO

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    7. My dear carry your Nike trainers and run run run. I dated a guy I suspected had mental illness. This one had anger issues and got angry at the speed of light. Things that should not even warrant argument. We fought about. I started 2nd guessing myself becos I know out of all my siblings they call me the gentle one. How about blocking. It can happen,let's say he sees I'm reading his messages and I don't respond. Next thing I'm blocked. I had to ask him if he had mental illness. He said yes. But he's on medication for it. But the drugs make him manic depressive sometimes so he acts out.
      The fighting was just too much and I was scared it may turned physical so I broke it off.
      He begged and begged. Even threatened suicide. That he will kill himself and send me the video. Lol I wasn't moved.
      Poster you are in a toxic relationship. Marriage is hard already with a normal person. Add mental illness to it and its a receipe for disaster.
      3months after, I met someone I eventually married. My ex even contacted him on Facebook and threatened him. I wasn't moved.
      Move on Poster.

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    8. @Cyclone, you are funny. LMAO!!!

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  2. Tame their cries? . Haahahahah, this one is walking into a furnace with eyes wide open.well done

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    1. I swear..
      The babe get mind die...
      Unto love that isnt sustainable when marriage wahala sets in.

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    2. Lolzzz Cyclone u dey mind her is because She has not collected hot pepper soup slap from him..

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  3. *help tame their cries*. Hmm, let him not go and fling your crying child one day o. The worst part is he'll forget he did it.

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    1. Exactly.
      Poster what if you're not around to tame their cries?
      Will he silence the kids forever because of their cries?

      Stella also made a point 👆 there. What if you marry him and he doesn't remember? He will be like, who is this strange woman living with me?🙄 Poster abeg leave marriage matter first. Let him get help.

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  4. Lol Stella, forgets the wedding. Poster, please dont bring kids into this

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  5. If a Nigerian based guy has this same problem, you for don pursue am.

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    1. Poster if he doesnt get treatment abraod, na naija u expect a miracle?

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    2. Yaba left escapee24 January 2019 at 17:14

      The tendency of him being violent & physically abusive is high, you've already spotted with triggers his anger from 0-100° boiling point in no time, in a place like naija with plenty generator sounds & loud street noises, except u can afford the cozy surbubs in the city.. hes a time bomb ticking my dear, you have no idea what youre signing up for, that love youre sailing on right now will change course before eyes when kids come, 60% of that love is programmed to be transfered to your kid(s), ask lactating mothers, the 40% left will be based on his personality & his treatment 2wrds you to keep it on that level, or it depreciates, ofcourse it will, kids can get on your last nerve, thats why theyre kids, utmost patience is paramount... & hes already giving u the heads up that he lacks all that, youre on your own!
      You better not let your heart make a decision for you, the head is better.

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  7. Hahahahha poster sorry i hadbto laff at the part where he is already informing you that he won't help with thr kids when they are crying. Thr guy is really mentally unbalanced and needs to see a psychiatrist.. If he is abroad right now for schooling e can find one there amd start treatment.
    Funny how he remembers sch work and what he has been taught yet forgets conversations..

    Blame puffin as usual for all errors.

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    1. Exactly! Funny how he remembers ONLY school work. Very convenient if you ask me.

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    2. School works os stored in the right hemisphere of the brain, thats the long term part, everythg else is irrelevant

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  8. I don't think he forgets.

    He just doesn't think its priority.

    Asides his books and acquiring knowledge, he doesn't think anything else is important. Things like that doesn't store in his "permanent memory".

    I am with a nerd myself, and even though he doesn't forget stuff like you are saying. I know how his interest can dwindle if its not about me, music, books or God.

    Madam, sorry, you can't change him. You just have to learn to cope with him.

    If you cannot see yourself surviving this(him) for a lifetime...Don't start the marital journey with him.

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    1. Beautiful Anonymous24 January 2019 at 16:15

      For someone that bears this name, you don't know this young man is bipolar himself? Change your name.

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    2. Hes not bipolar...
      Na dementia loading sha.

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    3. It is not dementia. He is mentally ill, probably a personality disorder. He has a very high sense of self importance. I don't think he even loves her. A narcissist, yes.

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    4. He’s either very high functioning autistic or has aspergers. They hate loud noise and can be very self absorbed. It’s not his fault but if u can’t deal then run.

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    5. Exactly! Probably has Aspergers. Google is your friend. I think he’s being honest with you about not being able to stand noise. Like he said, he will not be able to deal with crying children, even if they are his. He is being very honest. We wouldn’t crucify him for that. If you can’t deal, take a walk.

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    6. Yep! Anon 22:00 but Aspergers can also have other mental illnesses associated. It is however clear that he is compartmentalizing to survive. In his mind, school work reenforces his sense of self worth hence, it is important. He needs to be in therapy. Not just taking medicine. He also needs to be totally besotted (near obsessed ) with the person he settles with, that’s the only way he would put in effort to make sure things go well in the relationship and the family balance is maintained

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  9. Hmmmmmm! This is serious, poster it's your choice. If you believe that you can help him, go ahead and marry him. If you can't, jejely walk away.

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  10. Madam I think you should take a walk.He has a problem and does not see it as such how do you now help such a person. So it will be very difficult. This his own is selective forgetfulness.

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    1. No now
      It's not deliberate now
      It's just the way his brain works

      He can get help and counselling to make him value those little things in life
      Cuz those are the things that matter the most

      Events like your wedding day
      Welcoming a baby
      Helping wifey with kid's homework
      Quality family time etc

      He just needs to know how to prioritise events and moments
      With a shift in his mind accepting the importance of these little things that truly matter over the big things like his academic achievements?

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  11. Is being forgetful a mental illness?

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    1. Re U minding the story teller. If you check well, he in the UK. Those 9ja guys over there think we live in caves here. Always playing smart. He wants her to expect and accept all the rubbish he is about to feed her in the future

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    2. Yep. Sometimes it is a symptom. Especially when the person already has a particular mental issue

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    3. Anonymous you are daft and very ignorant...local fowl...

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  12. I just pray that he won't forget you one day

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  13. Wow,this is a serious issue.......Pls,try sort this out before marriage because marriage isn't a child's play when it comes to love. Babies must cry,it is a MUST.YES,ITS A MUST,Abi ,God forbid we give birth to a diseased child. Let him know your fears and concerns. He also need to help around the house when your marriage is still young because your hands will be full or better still,if you have money,get a nanny......may God help you

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  14. Hmmm...
    To be honest with you...
    I dont see happiness in your marriage to him.

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  15. Poster, pls take him for examination and check up. Yes, you need to go with him.
    Also, ensure he takes his drugs unfailingly and abides with the rules of the examination.
    Also, talk to him about these worries and concerns of yours?.
    Take it to God in prayer.

    PS: Are you sure he is still taking his meds?

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  16. And I saw a movie like this yesterday!

    Poster I think you're on the right track
    Try get medical attention and counselling to help him and yourself now and more importantly your future home

    Else at some point it would break you
    You may become a single parent even while married to him
    The pressure
    The loneliness

    It doesn't mean that he is a bad person
    He just needs help
    The sooner the better

    HML in advance

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    1. poster,do not take this advise.marriage is more than what you think.

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  17. Eyaaah,he's suffering from dementia. May God see him through as you seek medical help.

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    1. His dementia is in the early stage

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  18. Please, find help first.
    I can picture this in my cousin"s case. My cousin went into marriage with a man who was not very stable as it appeared then. She was desparate for marriage as age was no longervon het side. They had two kids.
    But believe you me, it was an emotional torture for her.
    He will destroy things in the house. Go into the kids room to strangle them.Every day shout and screaming in the house. The kids were always in tears when they see their father in this bizarre mood. He will destroy their books, kick them, throw anything in sight until he is locked in or taken to hospital. Sometimes, he can be so calm. He can enter kitchen and pour water inside a newly cooked pot of soup. He will rip his clothes. Yet we did not see it as madness. We saw it as spiritual battle.
    He eventually passed away after harming one of the kids who passed on too.

    Please, I know what my cousin went through. Don't talk of marriage Untill road is clear. You can even seek spiritual help. He may appear loving Now, but can't say tomorrow.
    This one that he forgets, will he remember he has a wife or family?
    This is not ordinary. Seek help before marrying him.

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    1. That was crazy. The poor baby died too kai. I pray your cousin can get over the fact that her husband was instrumental to her baby’s death.

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    2. Please poster look well before you take a leap.

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    3. Jesus Christ! That guy was certified.

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    4. "Yet we did not see it as madness" Same way poster's fiance's parents aren't seeing this as anything. Oh no. This is an extreme case of mental illness. If he received help on time it wouldn't have been this bad to harming the kids. Luckily poster's guy is abroad so he can get quality help, but abroad changes us all. Poster may not be willing to be a longsuffering wife when she gets here.

      I always look out for anger, mood changes, mood swings, emotional instability, even inconsistencies in relationships. Once I see it, I get out early.

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    5. Nigerians too mumu...
      Everything is spiritual to una..
      See now an innocent killed was killed b4 una eye open, very annoying!!
      How could you see all that and think its not madness??

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  19. I jump and pass.

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  20. How does one tame a crying baby? Encourage him to seek medical help as soon as possible ,put the family introduction on hold till he sorts His mental issues out.

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    1. By choking or strangling the baby, how else.
      Poster is dealing with a full fledged mad person and is asking JAMB question.
      Buahahahahahahahaha

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    2. Once you have a baby, the baby becomes the boss while you become the servant. If he doesnt have the love and patience required to have kids, he shouldn't.

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  22. he needs to see a psychiatrist, there may be medication for it.

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  23. Poster,hope we are no dating the same man? Is he from delta state ,living in dubai?

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  24. Haaaa,this story almost sounds like mine..poster is your boo oshekiri ,living in dubai?

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  25. The question is what are you looking for in your life partner? Does he check the box you should have set out? If he doesn’t then he isn’t the one for you. Why is it that woman don’t have standards for themselves. Anything goes now abi? He has already told you who he is. You can’t change him ooooh!

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    1. I think its confusing for her cos he has everything she wants but unfortunately it seems he also has a few things she does not want. But those few things are heavy things cos while mental health may get better, there is a chance it could also get worse. Most ladies focus on what they want, forgetting that there should also look out for what they DON'T WANT. So even if he is your type: tall, cute, educated etc, look out for those red flags that can destroy everything.

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    2. Just watch.... she'd say "Theres nothing the lord cannot do" and die there!

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    3. Anon 16:43 - exactly what she will do. And then she’ll be stuck

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  26. He can even forget that he has children... My dear jump and pass o.

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    1. Abi oooo. This one he is already handing them over to her.
      Poster if you can cope with all his bad and good, stay with him but don't complain later because he has told you who he is.

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  27. You really need to take your time to know more about his mental health. How long have you known him? How much time have you spent with him? His case might be worse than you think. Ask questions about him from his friends or his family members but you have to ask wisely because they might hiding some certain things. If you go ahead and marry this man without doing proper investigation, he might wake up one night and strangle you or your crying baby. God forbid!

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  28. Story! He is a control freak & an angry human being. I'm sure he's always moody & very heady too. Please don't marry him, he's got be impatient with U & U will be unhappy init.. why hasn't he sought help for himself al this while? Does it mean he doesn't wanna get better, @least for ur sake & the family/home U both re about to build? Then the offensive language, his manner of speaking all raise red flags, nothing gentlemanly about this guy. What does he even mean by "he won't help with the kids?!", he should simply say he doesn't like children. he's manipulating U, girl..please don't settle, go for ur type, he'll so depress U with his unstimulating personality.

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    1. Manipulative and selfish man.

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    2. Exactly. He actually is mentally ill. One of those personality disorders. He has a grandiose sense of self importance, is selfish and manipulative. I am not sure he even loves her, poster is an essential part of what he needs - a woman to warm his bed and provide companionship on his own terms, with no consideration for how she feels or whether she likes his terms. She doesn't just know it yet. He doesn't necessarily forget - it's just not important. Babe, be careful. Violence is only some doorsteps away.

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  29. wow. Really bad

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  30. This is serious, your man really needs help & God intervention. poster please look for a solution first b4 marriage , & don't even think of bringing children to this kind of home because you will regret. I pray you find solution

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  31. Poster, the day he'll kill the kids and tell you he can't remember, and the court sets him free because he's mentally deranged, that's when you'll understand how far!

    Go and watch films like For Coloured Girls and see what Ealy did to his kids because of alcohol/PTSD

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  32. Pls pls don't marry him my ex husband was like that, he woke up one day and told he he can't remember going to Nigeria to marry me talk more giving me a ring., run run far

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    1. For real??????? You are kidding right???????????? What?????

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    2. Yaba left escapee24 January 2019 at 16:46

      This kind thing, you'd always have evidence & facts ready...
      Steady refreshing of his brain. Na wa o.
      But this type of people if you make mistake & cheat.... they will never forget that one, it'd be renewed every morning 😂😂😂

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    3. My dear not joking ohhh, it was like a nightmare for me, he was screaming , he even called the cops that a strange woman was in his house.

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    4. 😂😂😂😂😂.
      Stella come and carry your bvs. On this same blog a horseband will sell dstv and chairs before wife returns from work. Now this one the man does not remember "marrying" his wife.
      Anon sorry for laughing. But I hope before marriage you didn't give his name to any pastor or your mother. Because that is how some over-sabi mother's as soon as their daughter see a prospect they will take the name without even the girls knowledge. The guy proposes and years later the scales fall of his eyes.

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    5. Stella pls Add this to comment stress reliver 😂😂😂.
      Wetin I don read from this blog. I don't know where you people meet these men.
      Lord pls keep such men from my junior sisters and future daughter.

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    6. Anon no vex o. U sure say na clear eye the man take marry u? At least poster own dey forget dey remember. Ur own brain no gree reset later. I remember hearing of a man who woke up and was asking his wife and kids who they were but remembered every other person. Just saying.

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  33. People who are intelligent normally have this mental ish. I have a brother like that. GOD go epp us

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    1. Too much bookuru...
      Pushing the brain beyond its limit, sometimes to be mumu pays sha, not too mumu oh

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  34. The compromises women make in order to marry, plus the compromises they make in the marriage, phew. If it was the lady that had these issues, himself and his Mum plus his family would have pursued you out since.. without writing no chronicles. If you decide to stay, be aware of the burden this could be for the rest of your life. If you decide to leave, be careful and mature about the break up, cos you can't predict how he will react to it.

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  35. If you know your not compatible let him go. He should not come and suffer someone daughter in the name of marriage.

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  36. You've see the red flags now. Don't jump into something against your better instincts. He has told you who he is. If you're smart and love yourself, you'll pay attention and do the needful. Don't be desperate.

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  37. Diagnosis can't be made based on your little observation. There are more to it.You can read up on autism, I am suggesting this because people diagnosed with autism hates noise and bright light. You can as well read on seizure, if he is suffering from seizure, it might have damage some part of the brain resulting in memory loss. You can ask him questions around the symptoms to ease diagnosis.

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    1. Thank you Elisabeth,you saved me from typing. My son is autistic,the poster practically discussed all the symptoms of autism above. Please seek professional help for him..

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    2. Yaba left escapee24 January 2019 at 19:51

      I doubt hes autistic.
      They have learning disability..
      I know this cus Toni braxtons son is autistic.

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    3. Yaba left escapee24 January 2019 at 19:52

      And poster said he had scholarship, so he doesnt have a learning disability.

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    4. Some austic kids are extremely brilliant. Some are book smart but lack social skills.
      There are different spectrums of autism. It's quite wide. Some function so well so you don't even know anything is wrong. Till you get closer to them socially.

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    5. They are either highly intelligent or not intelligent, you can't generalise based on a single case.

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    6. Yaba left, autism is a spectrum. All autistic kids don't act the same.

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    7. Yaba Autism is a spectrum disorder. There are levels. Some are geniuses in particular areas.

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    8. @Yaba Left Loll @Toni Braxtons son is autistic, as if you are neighbours and you know all about him.
      What do you even know about autism?
      Please go and sit down and don't forget to take your meds.

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    9. Yaba left your own madness is naija jazz induced..anyway autism varies in degrees. Some autistic children are so danm good in calculating. They can calculate 20 figures like a breeze. So yes he can be intelligent, some of them hate noise.

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  38. Hehehe! He still remember your name for now
    Just wait very soon he will ask his mother who is this gel self.

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    1. I remember some episodes of Jenifa's diary. 😀

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  40. He is suffering from autism spectrum disorder. Copied this "Individuals with autism both have specific difficulties with memory and memory strengths. Memory difficulty is not part of the diagnostic criteria for autism spectrum disorder (ASD), but it is a common difficulty experienced by many individuals with this diagnosis" Wikipedia. Don't marry him if you aren't ready to be part of the healing process

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  41. Poster I know you think once you join him abroad it will be better. True, abroad has quality mental health treatment and counseling. But abroad can be a lonely and different place altogether cos you are not close to family. It may change you in many ways. The burden to be successful abroad is heavy already (to take a loan, go back to school and settle into a good paying job takes years). Coupling that with the burden of caring for the kids alone, and maybe caring for your hubby as well (if this is truly a mental case) can break even the strongest women. So have serious talks with him and his family before you proceed.

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  42. Please run. I am the lady that commented that I married someone with mental illness and that he hit me on my stomach when I was pregnant when SDK posted the topic about mental health. My ex was very forgetful and was extremely rude in his speech sometimes. I actually thought his rudeness was because he was shy. It was part of his mental illness. Run! His episodes were aggravated when he was under stress. You can't bring in children to this situation. What if he goes berserk and harms your baby. Sweetheart please RUN!

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    1. I told her the same thing.his type will throw a baby down from a storey building and forget he did.

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    2. Brings to mind the movie. For colored Girls. Poster Google and watch that movie. It's a black movie.
      He suffered from mental illness. The wife did everything to keep him together. He didn't even work but she did.
      I think he stopped taking his meds. Her bosses driver dropped her home and he thought it was her lover. He killed both kids,she tried stopping him,he threw them down the window in her presence.
      Mental illness aint no joke.
      Poster the fact he mentioned kids really scares me.
      GET OUT NOWWWWWEWWW.
      Kids will stress you,give you sleepless nights,scream,throw tantrums. How will he handle it.
      Will you feel safe leaving your babies with their father? Hmmmm

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  43. This guy is just being real and a little extra though, I guess. I dislike loud noise too and decide on what to remember or forget. I don’t put somethings in mind, is there anything wrong with that?

    For the baby taming, it may just be mere talk and nothing serious. This distance relationship self, you guys should try to be together physically for sometime so you can really know him.

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    1. I beg you, do not take this advice.

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    2. I beg you, do not take this advice.

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  44. Poster let the marriage issue slide.. Help him look for solution to this bcx it is a very big one.

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  45. Love will not be enough for this relationship to have long term success. You can maintain a friendship but he is not marriage material. Move on.

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  46. Poster, please read in black and white. You don't need any sugar-coating.
    1. Marriage to this guy is DOA whether it's with you or any other woman.
    2. It's not in your place to 'manage' his mental health because you are not certified.
    3. His parents know exactly what's up and want him to marry ASAP. I'm sure they are super-nice, yeah. They need someone to take him off their hands and probably quickly birth children before a total relapse or degeneration.
    4. If the catch for you is 'moving abroad', I hope you do know you can travel or move abroad without marriage or a man's help.
    5. In marriage, love alone is not enough when other ugly situations begin to come up.
    6. Don't lead him on by getting married so he can help you relocate and then divorce him when you're settled in. He might kill you if his case is worse than what you think you know.
    7. DO NOT mortgage your happiness on this charade. Five years from now, you'd wish you didn't do it.
    8. Pray for God's guidance and for a mentally stable man. It's the least you deserve in this life that's already full of its own hassles.
    9. If you know the secret to 'preventing babies from crying' biko share with your SDK brethren o nne.
    10. I wish you the very best as you make an intelligent decision by God's grace.

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    1. See ehn, God bless you well well. You have said it all. In short, only comment needed!

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    2. Forget that thing.
      This one will die there o.
      Eyin ride and die babe.
      Babe toh loyal quadrant.
      Wife material all edges complete.
      Let her seek for solution for someone who is abroad and can't seek a solution for himself.

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  47. Hmmmmmmm with children there will always be noise o.. that means he'll run away from you and the kids

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  48. This sounds like Aspergers Syndrome. Pls google it. Not much is know about this esp among our pple. It is a nightmare to live with pple like this!

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  49. Poster,fear anyone with a mental illness,his type can throw the baby in a thrash bin for crying so long and you know most babies disturb a lot.you better not marry him.

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    1. Or forget a child in a car. A sane man did this and the baby died before he remembered, not to talk of one with mental issues.

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  50. I thought this poster was going to ask how to leave, without hurting his feelings..My ex had mental illness..was very forgetful too, and he likes repeating the same questions over and over. He was in the UK too, had to borrow myself sense, and leave. He threatened me, he will go online copy nude pic of girls without their faces, and tag me on social media, telling everyone it was me .I ignored. I thank God for my life ooo.

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  51. I am living with a mad man. Please don’t go through what I am going through. He has extremely bad anger explosions caused by nothing, now he has become deluded going about destroying my reputation on things that never happened. 3 iVF and each time implantation failure or spontaneous abortion because I don’t have peace of mind. We leave in same house, he asked me to move to guest room and stop talking to me. Attimes, he gets enrage when he see me that I lock myself in the room. He has mental illness yet his mum says it is just anger problems. I think he has gotten worst... I am planning to run away.

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    1. Run fast before he gets worse!

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    2. Keep in planning..
      Take 10yrs to pack...
      How long does it take to get out of a car wreck?

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    3. Abeg run before it is too late. You still want a baby when you don't know if his condition is genetic?

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    4. Keep planning and planning and planning and planning.
      Fire never hot reach.

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    5. I am going to say something I never thought I would say in this life - thank God for the failed IVFs. That is God sparing you more anguish!!

      What did you say is the reason you’re still there again?

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  52. Pls don't marry him,dis life is too short to wallow in sadness

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  53. Psychos!!!
    Either they doubt u, or forget everything or they form memory loss about things!
    Ndi ara!!! The most destructive when it comes to family members or in marriage. Run..oh 🏃🏃🏃

    *if u need sex, BUY A VIBRATOR!!!

    *IF U NEED CHILD(REN) ➡go to sperm donor bank service

    *if u need companionship; PLEASE BUY A DOG OR CAT !!!

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  54. Lmao. Sorry poster couldn't help but laugh. Please run away from the relationship before it is too late.

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  55. Posh, why didn't your cousin take the children faraway when she saw how their dad was dealing with them when his crisis starts??? That might have saved the life of the innocent kid.

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  56. Fear Nigerian men living in the UK, it's like they are automatically possessed by a mental spirit whenever they move over there. Unto they have arrived & start acting like mini gods, even those with just Lil change in their pockets

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  57. Marriage is not for everyone though. He should focus his energy on inventing something for humanity. That will be really valuable. Poster God will give you your soul mate. Cheers!!!

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      True sha.

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  58. My son has a spectrum of autism,he is 10years old,handsome for days,thoughtful,can give out his meal to a stranger even when hungry,only thing is he can't stand to be around noise especially really loud ones,he gets helpless around crying babies, I noticed early and have worked round his weaknesses,if you read up on autism you will discover he and I even have it easy as it is a broad spectrum, there are all kinds of mental illness in this world and nobody asked for any,my prayer is for my son to find love with someone who can manage his weakness when he grows up, for her to understand he doesn't love his kids less if he can't comfort them when they cry cause he is capable of love even way more than people who lift crying babies up,poster pls leave him if you can't cope,God's grace he will find who will,as for these thoughtless comments may we be less afflicted with God complex cause who no go no know

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    1. Awww. It's well with him. God has a perfect future prepared for him.Just wait and see.

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