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Saturday, February 09, 2019

Break The Silence....



Are you guilty of keeping quiet whilst the abuse goes on?

84 comments:

  1. my uncle molested me when I was staying with him & my aunt (they were both mumsy's younger siblings.. and they were single are that time) I couldn't confide in anybody...it still hurts.

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    1. So sorry. Confront him if it will make you feel better,then move on. Don't let an animals behavior keep you tied down.

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    2. I think I was possessed by too many strong evil spirits as a child 5 of my relatives tried that rubbish but d Demon In me will always turn aggressive and dey will pick race, all from my mums side,my mother was too careless with training us, d said uncles and cuz will keep pushing my mum to go look for ' what is wrong with her; she is an Ogbanje'. Usually I will start by avoiding them, den I get very very disrespectful and d verbal abuse in front of dad and mum.. I guess GOD was on my side all along

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    3. Anon 00:53 defending yourself from abusers doesn't make you were possessed by evil spirits, please.

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    4. The scary thing about your story is that five relatives attempted to rape you. Usually a family will produce one bad apple, but there are many evil men in yours. Imagine if you were not born with a fighting spirit, five men would have molested you, maybe even fully raped you before you became an adult, perhaps ridding your body with Stds. People would have called you names, said you were loose and looking for it. Thank God for that warrior spirit it saved you a lifetime of sorrows. I bet all these men are married and fathers to daughters today. This world is something else.

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    1. Let me go anonymous before...

      A distant uncle staying with us then while growing up abused me...i recall him laying me down in our bathroom floor asking me if it was sweet,he used his rod to rub my clit.what i cant recall was if he penetrated me or cum. This was far back 1994 or so. My bro caught us when he opened the door to the bathroom. I remembered my bro using it to torment me anytime i do something bad to him till finally Monday i did something wrong to him and he started echoing "i will tell mummy that..." and i will be there begging him. Till my mum became curious of what he was trying to say. Long story cut short my mum dealt with me when. Stripped me naked and i could remember her going to the kitchen to grind fresh pepper to rub on my butts to continue the flogging. that was the time i realized what we did was really bad. Then uncle had left before the whole thing leaked.
      I became so ashamed,it affected my self esteem too. It affected my relationship with my mum til today sef. Not really in talking terms with my mother not because of anything...i am not that close to her.

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    2. I never forgave that uncle after d flogging by my mum..need i to say years after that uncle behaves like somebody thats not so well...he wasn't doing well in his business not even married till now sef. I later forgave him sha in my mind. I am sure he doesn't know till now that the secret later leaked.

      In my survey too,abusers never do well afterwards in anything.

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    3. You are right. Pedophiles never prosper. You can’t hurt little children and go scot free. God fights for them.

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    4. Alot of them prosper and become presidents and governors, billionaire CEOs and pastors. That’s why they need to get their punishment on earth legally and even death if possible

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    5. Very true abuser never do well.

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    6. Very TRUE. They fall of d cliff at some point in there lives. U r so Right

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  3. Not just wives protecting their husbands, women protect their sons or other family relations.

    I was molested by my cousin my mother's nephew. When I told her about it many years later, she never confronted him!

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  4. Well in the one I saw the abuse stopped.he was beaten my hired thugs.but looking back wish I brought in police for the girl.
    I have also uncovered 3 different girls when I was teaching in Benin their father sleeping with them.i told the mother ND propertress.their mom did this
    1.stopped greeting or responding when I greet her
    2.the mother withdraw the child.
    3.the last stopped dropping or picking the girl.till I left

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    1. Wow the commissioner in Benin was right then.... so sad

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    2. Hmmm na WA for some mothers o

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  5. Good one sisStella

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  6. Crimes continue taking place because 1. Most victims are afraid to speak out especially rape victims because of possible stigmatization. 2. The perpetrators of those crimes usually go scotfree even when arrested. 3. That aspect of the wrath of the law we often hear that people who commit crime will face hardly take effect, consequently, nothing seems to serve as a detterent to criminals and as such they continue in crime. Finally, 4. People often cover their own when they are involve in crime. Some hide under immunity and act with impunity.

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  7. I was molested by my uncle.It was when i grew up that my mind was playing back at those things. He will take me to his room and ask me to be rubbing his hard di**. I am now married with a child but i have not confronted him or tell anyone. But one day shall nlbe one day for him, i will so speak to him that he will be so shocked.I am now always sensitive anytime i see any adult male and a girl child.

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    1. Thank God it was only dixk rubbing. The pervert must pay somehow.

      Mothers please watch out for your little boys too, their first sexual experience is sometimes through the Nanny. An older one at that.
      The choir leader or the Lesson teacher.

      Endeavour to attend Seminars where Child Protection gimmicks are taught. Don't let no good aunty buy him unnecessary gift.

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  8. Why does my blood boils cuz of this comment? i wish there's a way you can expose him and make him pay, if not, nemesis will def catch up with him

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  9. I just got married and i put to bed last year November, I woke up to change my babies Pampers only for me to get the shock of my life, I caught my husband on December 18th last year putting his dick in my babys mouth to be sucking ��‍♀ he pleaded not to do it again and I should not tell anybody about it that it is the devils work, I forgive him not because I want to but because it's a shameful thing, my sisters I didn't know that since that day he did not stop oooo and i didn't put my mind in it again not until day before yesterday night when I catch him again, and my baby was busy sucking it and I asked him why he's doing it , he said he's enjoying the way the baby is sucking him that he's trying to stop it but he can't help it hmmmm,i have decided to end the marriage even though we wedded just last year ��������

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    1. Jesus Christ!! Get out of there fast and make sure you report him to both families. He's an animal, God forbid

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    2. Jesuuuuu 😱😱😱😱 please don’t hide it at all. Make it known. Call for a family meeting and make sure he says his crime.

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    3. Jesus Christ!!!!!!

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    4. ohhhhh chimmmmo, this is really absurd. Gush

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    5. Okokobiokoooo!!! Madam, your eyes don see your ears without mirror. Like WTF! And you still live with him? Yeee!!! My dada don scatter. Only say you no fit get admissible evidence because if he catches you filming him eh, he'll strangle you. RUN with your baby! Run!! He's wacko!! Run out first and report next. Let it be on record that you reported. Haba!! Yes I am shouting in my dialect.

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    6. OMG!!!!I can't believe this.Lady,your husband is sick..very sick.

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    7. Madam i know you might not really leave that marriage. And i am sry to say, you sound careless, if u were careful enough, you would not have dropped ur guards after that first incidence. Pls for the sake of ur baby, do smthn, he would soon graduate to tryin to put his thing in her tiny vagina. God forbid! Pls n pls be on ur guards.

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    8. Your hubby is the devil himself, and it’s not just by divorcing him, you need to shout it to the whole wide world, it can be shameful cus you have to protect your baby but aunty tell your people, tell his silly people.
      Who thinks of a baby in that manner, how did it even enter his head? You need to report him, it’s not easy but even if you take your child he may try this with another baby and when he gets tired of using the babies mouth he may try it’s anus... please report him for the sake of other kids

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    9. Your husband is possessed! His own flesh and blood??? Tufiakwa... too disgusting abeg. I hope you run away as fast as you can and protect that child cos if you stay, he will keep on doing it over and over and over again till the child grows up and the child will never forgive you if he/she grows up and discover the truth. Imagine doing such a shameful thing without any remorse. Chai! God punish devil. He needs to be castrated. End time horseband. Ewobi dan. if he can do this to his own child then nobody is safe anymore. imagine what he will do to another person's child

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    10. Madam
      Pls get an evidence and leaveeeeee
      Video him or chat up the ussue with him on WhatsApp or record you and him conversation while talking about it

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    11. Gosh! and you are still in that marriage, doing what na? Until he rapes the Child ? Ah, na wa o, your tolerance level is high o, you are his accomplice by not doing anything. Marriage , my foot. When it comes to my Children ,I can NEVER compromise. You are not a good mother self. What da heck? I could even poison the he-goat.

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    12. Jehovah bu Eze! Madam you are being wicked to your innocent child! What do you mean by you have decided to end the marriage? Marriage you should have ended immediately and reported that bastard to the WHOLE family members.. That child is not safe in that house and God Almighty will hold you responsible oooo.. JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH

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    13. Whattt?... Madam please report your husbandry before he'll deny it...kai..

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    14. Madam you are a very wicked person! You should have never been a mother in the first place, you caught your husband doing that to a little baby of just a month and you didn't think to report him? You left a helpless child in the hands of an evil man just cause you want to be badly married. What if he had killed that child,kai you are a heartless woman. You chose your useless husband over your own child,shame on you! Big shame

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    15. Dem don come o. Abeg make we dey lie small small nah.

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    16. Jeez... Your husband is a sick twisted soul 😨😨😨... RUN!!!!!!! πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

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    17. Jesus!!! Wtf did I just read😳

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    18. Chai,was actually crying while reading this.CURSE be unto your BASTARD husband!!!!....damn

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    19. What am i reading? This is pure evil. A one month old child!

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    20. Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!
      Please save that Baby😱😱😱😱😱😱

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    21. OMG 😱😱 this is scary. Please leave and report him to both families...goshhhh. poor baby

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    22. As in the baby swallows his nonsense????...u see this night,my prayers will be ontop his head.cos I know u will not leave.they God I serve will make him pay for this.....am boiling rite now.thunder blast him

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    23. This is so sickening and so sad, you married something worse than a demon. What are you still doing there? What? You must take your baby and yourself immediately away from him and report him to all and sundry. He is a full blown paedophile, not even a newborn can be around him.

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    24. You know you’re a legal accomplice to this crime and would serve time in prison if you were caught in a sane country.
      So after you caught him the first time you were:
      Sleeping with him
      Cooking for him
      Sharing jokes with him
      Having movie night with him
      Posting him on Instagram
      Doing hallelujah challenge
      Etc

      God please help us. And save us from these EVIL men and the society that makes us prioritise and protect them over our lives and wellbeing EVERY TIME. These men are evil and wicked and every time we choose their stupid selves over our wellbeing and that of their victims were evil and wicked too.

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    25. Madam, you are a wicked woman. Very self- centred, so because of prick, money, marriage, etc, you cannot protect your Child. You are as evil as your horseband. Mofos.

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    26. You are a useless woman, you actually disgust me more than your jinxed husband, 2 useless people. What a shame!!! God is indeed merciful because people like you and your paedophile husband don't deserve children, awon eleribu.

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    27. This story right here is by far the sickest thing i have ever read! Please madam,save that innocent baby na,leave the cursed marriage now! Get him arrested,report him to everyone and everywhere,just do something please!!!!

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    28. Snipper is #500, occasionally drop it in his meal, in very tiny dose, it won't kill him,but it will destroy his internal organs .trust me u didn't Murder

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    29. Two miserable useless animals, you and your husband, that should have been left in a condom and flung in a trash bag.
      So after your husband finishes ejaculates in your babies mouth, you will now hurriedly stuff your wrinkled breast so that the milk and sperm can mix together.
      I spit on the heads of both of you.
      A dead animal is of more value than both of you.
      Beasts.

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    30. I can't believe what I just read. Madam, you saw this the first time and you still dropped your guard down? Why are you so careless with your baby? If you do not leave now, this will continue for a really long time and your child will grow up to hate you. Better leave now and expose that sick man you call a husband.

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    31. Madam, this is not right and it is outright wickedness. First, get that baby to the hospital to be examined. Your baby may be infected and can lead to other complications given that he/she has been sucking on your husband's genitals. There are microorganisms that reside in our genitals that should not be ingested. In addition, a baby's immune system is still developing and they don't have the ability to fight off infections like the immune system of an adult. So your baby may be breeding something that may manifest later. Madam, please, if you love your child, take that child to the hospital.
      I am just a concerned medical doctor.

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    32. You're a wicked woman. So, good women are praying night and day to conceive but an evil creature like you got pregnant easily and gave birth? Some women are even erroneously praying "just to get pregnant" even if they miscarry - so that they'll be able to say they got pregnant. Yet, see you. Chai, life. Someone will see you outside now and assume you're a sane, responsible human being. I'm sure there are single ladies looking at you and tapping into your blessing of marriage and quick pregnancy - not knowing you're a monster. It would have been better if you were barren and your husband were impotent because you're totally useless. You saw your husband sexually abusing your own flesh and blood, yet you "forgave" him because you want to bear Mrs? You want to keep being the Mrs of such a man. Who knows whether he's not even using the child for rituals? Until your husband penetrates your baby, I know you will still sit where you are. Look at all the terrible stories coming out everyday of people who were abused as children, yet you're still there. I'm now wondering why so many women were up in arms against Morayo - if they're hiding secrets such as yours. Na people like you know wetin una marry. You are definitely a witch! Ah, your poor baby is worse than an orphan. Useless excuse for a mother.

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    33. Reminds me of the story a course-mate back in Lasu told us. One of her mummy’s pupils mum came lamenting how she walked in on her baby sucking on her brother-in-law’s dick. She almost killed the boy(about 19 years then) she now understood why her baby stopped taking breast milk at 6-7 months. It was a police case. He was locked up.

      Please don’t think for a second that your marriage to a degenerate is more important than the baby’s. Get his ass locked up and pay the warden heavily to make sure his asshole is torn open so he can feel your pain. If his own mother didn’t do her job when he was growing up, you should do yours. God gave you an angel, do you know how many people are ttcing? Pleasssssssse, for the love of Christ, get his ass arrested and anyone that comes to plead on his behalf warn them to stay away or they will join him at that banquet. Jeeeezzzz

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    34. anon 5:12 l don't have as much details medically as you have but l was going to mention the medical aspect. U are still waiting to leave the marriage? Are you OK? Do u know u are helping to destroy ur child's digestive system. His system can't break down sperm o. While u are feeling ashamed, he's killing the baby. Get out of that house fast. And shout out his atrocity cos dat your marriage ain't worth saving. Pedophile!proof? Pump the baby's stomach at the hospital. Maybe the sperm mighty still be there

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    35. She is still saying the marriage is only 1yr. As if it is a taboo to leave a 1yr marriage. Stupid woman

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    36. Am still having serious heart ache over this comment. Is there any way to follow up this case. I really blame you...how can both of you be wicked to God's gift to your marriage.
      May God fight for your girl. Your hubby is going to reap the fruit of his evil labour

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    37. @lovetoloveu....I don't think she understands the medical implications. The child is at risk, there are a lot of questions running through my mind. Is it possible that her husband has a sexually transmitted infection? What is his HIV status? The poor baby is at risk. In my opinion, the mother needs to be reviewed by a psychologist as well. There is mostly likely a lot more happening than what she has disclosed. Madam, if you are reading this, please you need to seek help fast. What your husband has done is not normal. I repeat, it is not. He is a paedophile which is a psychiatric disorder. The right place for a psychiatric patient is the psychiatric hospital. Don't be deceived by the fact that he appears normal. There is a saying "many are mad, few are roaming". Having said that, I need you to get help as quickly as possible. Look for a trusted person and tell him or her what has happened. Get your baby treated and please see a psychologist. If you don't have anyone to talk to, go to the hospital, then you can talk to a paediatrician and explain that you need help. Trust me, we (doctors) are bound by an oath to save lives and I am sure the medical team will go any length to ensure that you and your baby are safe.

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  10. a man in my village slept with the daughter continuously and guess she tells her then when he was caught and the village youths wanted to descend on him the wife said they should leave her husband alone imagine! they nearly finished her but the man is more like an outcast now

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  11. Sexual abuse hurt. it is deeper than what is being portrayed. It is only the victims that fully understand. I was abuse sexuality as a child. I'm 27 and It was last December that I really opened up to someone. As I was talking I realised that I wasn't completely healed after almost 20 years!

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    1. My dear its not always easy even after speaking to someone about it...for me I made a conscious effort to let go...
      Cheer up!...

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  12. I was molested when i was litle by my cousins(male and female).Never really understood what they did back then but now i do and i've never told anyone. The memories flash back in my mind like it was yestetday and i still feel hurt. I usually hear ppl say,with time the victims will heal and let go of the pain but it never really goes away

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  14. How did the world end up with these men bikonu? My heart is heavy especially in the case of that baby that the loser of a father is "collecting' blowjob from. And the mom actually continued staying with him after what she saw!? Jesus wept! She's now contemplating divorce only because she caught him a second time? A paedophile!? I weep for 'our' women. We have glorified marriage above dignity, happiness and common sense. Sad on all counts.

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    1. They would rather die MRS than voicevout their pains and sufferings.

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  15. I was Molested by our houseboy...I remember vividly he will rub his penis against my vagina , till he cums , then he'll use a cloth to clean my vagina... All this never made sense to me till I grew up... I haven't told anyone about this before, but I always feel very bad and angry.

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  16. I used to give our houseboy then a blowjob and I was about 6 or 7yrs old but i don't feel molested, I hardly even remember the incident if not for this post. I've done stop boob squeezing with my cousin, I was about 8 or so. The houseboy is dead tho

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  17. I cringe whenever i read sensitive topics like this one.People are so damn wicked and selfish...I fear this world ooh.Children are mostly the victims to all these abusers.Just because they know nothing.
    The way I will so shield and show love to my children eeh,They will be so open to me about everything that goes on their lives.So help me God.
    Paedophiles are real..God punish una!

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    1. My own na fight and throw punches first, then ask questions later........ I will not shield anyone damn degenerate of a human being if this shit is tried on my children or even my nieces or nephew. Agam egbu gi very well and anyone who interferes will face same wrath. After watching the video of that animal raping that baby, I have refused to take it easy on anyone who does any rubbish around me.

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  18. Madam you are wicked , useless anda careless person. How can you sill stay in that shameless marriage cos you wedded just a year? You think that your sick husband will stop? No way he will keep doing, till your daughter’s virginal is matured enough to take his dick. Leave your marriage for now, go on break from that home, report the case to your family before your husband cook up a story against you. Be sharp dull woman.

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    1. what do you mean for now? you are part of the problems we have in this country, she needs to leave forever and put the oloriburuku in jail!!!!! you are as filthy as this people for using for now instead of forever, in livid!!!!!!

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  19. This woman,you are something else!do you know the spiritual and physical implications if what your cursed husband is doing to that precious one?you are keeping quiet?you are an accomplice o!how do you sleep at all?SHOUT AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS SO NEIGHBORS WILL GATHER.FOR GOD'S SAKE!
    An innocent child.

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  20. Oloriburuku olosi no iwo obirin yii! Someone pls translate.your husband is sick,but you are d worst of the devil/ evil known to mankind.How date you have the heart to sit down in that marriage while your evil sicko husband abuse your baby? U must be a certified thief with deep longer throat,Big disgrace to mothers.

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  21. Oloriburuku olosi no iwo obirin yii! Someone pls translate.your husband is sick,but you are d worst of the devil/ evil known to mankind.How date you have the heart to sit down in that marriage while your evil sicko husband abuse your baby? U must be a certified thief with deep longer throat,Big disgrace to mothers.

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  22. Ahan wat rubbish!you are not a nice mother. How could you just forgive him the ist time without calling for a family meeting immediately. Let his people know he is sick upstairs and walk out of that thing you call marriage before he starts putting his di..k in her small hole. Such an innocent baby!! Your husband is really siccckkkkk.

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  23. Instaead of u to shout and disgarace d useless man u called hubby,ar u sick or wot,don't u kno he will rape ur children,and destroy their self esteem...leave him asap

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  24. Madam, go and find out what 'MOTHER' means and decide to be a mother indeed. You are a helpless being's protector, defender, guard and guide. Fight for your child and heaven will bless you.
    First step is to leave with your child. The. Expose that evil man.
    Let us hope he is not even doing it for rituals

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