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Thursday, February 14, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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ANGRY WIFE SEEKING REVENGE



Stella pls I need help. The most precious thing in my life was my virginity, I lost it years ago in my 100 level to a guy that was on my neck for two years in my town. Based on lies that he will marry me. Fast forward he left me after like a year for another girl. I am married now with kids, but I can't still take my mind off it. My wish was to be disvirgined by my husband.

And now, the fool too is married with kids, he got my number thru a friend and since then he is getting in touch, I blocked him on my WhatsApp and blocked his calls. How else I'm a suppose to deal with a man that ruined my wish?.


I still cry for loosing my virginity to another man. I was and still a very decent person.

Unfortunately I chose the wrong man as husband, but he is the father of my kids and I just have to accept him that way.

Pls how do I get back at this wicked fool that stole my pride. I am seriously hurt.



*You seek revenge is dealing with him?Nobody forced you my dear,both of you were consenting.Be careful what you plan cos it might also drag you along....
You say you Married a bad man ,so what is the use of biting your finger over not being able to keep it?Abeg who virginity help?
Move on already!!!

98 comments:

  1. Why not forgive and move on. Revenge doesn't always end well, move on madam!

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    1. Thank God you didn't marry as a virgin. Else we no for hear word.
      Its your type that looks down on everyone.
      Instead of you to thank your stars you didnt marry the lying as$ . You are here lamenting youu lost your pride.
      Oya na, prideless woman seeking revenge.
      Continue.
      Just don't become obsessed with your kids virginity

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    2. The way some of Una dey carry virginity for head ehhhhnnn.... Na god you dey serve? Anyway my advice for you poster is to see a psychologist for counseling to help you talk through and process the loss of your virginity. Vengeance belongs to God. It is an ill wind that blows nobody any good. Errhmm start by forgiving yourself after asking God for forgiveness. Feel better and wishing you all the best and hoping you make the most out of your marriage.

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    3. Try make that man you married a good man. Go out and get him a bottle of shine-shine bobo and correct peppersoup for Val. He will change for good and always pray for him.

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    4. poster is angry because she married the wrong man and not because she lost her virginity to a lying ass nigger. Move on already and focus more on your marriage. Or do you wanna gbensh him to get your virginity back???

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    5. Gbam... She is not serious at all. If she had married her prince charming, she would have long forgotten him. Madam lick your wounds and move on, I think you are angry with the fact he didn't choose you. Move on and focus on your marriage.

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    6. He didn’t force you na! It was a mutual decision to have sex, he just used his mouth to convince you to spread your legs! If you wanted to keep your virginity nothing or no man would deter that plan except you get raped

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  2. Which is which? Wanna get your pound of flesh from an ex and angry at hubby?...,e be like u want this ex back

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    1. Some girls tho. The only thing they have to offer is thier hymen. She is obviously not intelligent and not a wife material. Reasons why virginity is your pride and you attached too much importance to it that you horriedly married the next moron that showed up just so you can boast that your body count is just 2.
      No wonder bad girls get the best of husbands.

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    2. 1 million likes

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    3. You made sense but whats with that phrase of bad girls getting better husbands? Whats your definition of a bad girl? What are the facts they get better husbands....

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  3. Lol
    I HV nothing to say
    Maybe the bv below me can epp

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    1. My dear I'm looking for will help me to. What won't we read here. Stole your virginity you say, how and where did you keep it before it was stolen?

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  4. childishness, abeg Stella with this types of chronicles, make it 2 2 so that if one chronicle na chewing gum story, another one fit be kolanut type of story, no de waste post and data with just single chronicle abeg.

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ aren’t you shady 😁
      Bur seriously, I’m trying to make head and tail out of the story. Like Stella notes, you consented, he didn’t force you. And I’m sure you accepted his gifts (if there were any) hence why you felt pressured. Just get closure and move on.

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  5. So if this bad husband broke the door to your womb, u woulda being happy? Pls don't live life regretting over a mere hymen, oya go n revenge naa, kill him n go to jail, ur hymen will grow back by the time u leave kuje prisons.

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    1. The devil is speaking through you calling hymen mere, Purity is a serious thing, do you not see the heartbreak, bad marriages,diseases Ill treatment and shame women are suffering even with all the education, pls God is never wrong, he said sex must be for marriage and he isn't wrong, do not belittle sex, everywhere in our beloved country is filled with cheap girls raising cheaper girls, do you not fear for thenext generation, girls are now getting addicted on drugs due to pains emanating mainly from sexual issues, baby mamas are becoming common.
      Pls let her grieve for breaking God's law, God loves people like her who feel sorry for their sins and he will show her grace and mercy. Pls also have in mind your kids may one day take any advise you leave on the internet.

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    2. So the bad marriages and supposed shame women face is because of broken virginityπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚Abeg no make me laugh, even with your education you just no get sense

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    3. Anon 16:04, ekwensu that did not attend primary school is prophesying through you, u hear, hahahahaha, yes its a mere hymen.

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    4. Laugh all you like, I know your type that she'd tears when they look at their past life, keep laughing at God's word until his wrath descend on you and you won't be able to mislead our youth, yes illegal sex has caused so many damages leading many to marry whom they didn't plan to because they fell pregnant or contracted terrible diseases or due to the shame of abortion, many girl/ men if given a second chance will never have premarital sex, go to the beaches at night's and see people wasting away their destinies through sex, no Muslim or true Christian will support illegal sex. If you to slums, one thing is rampant, pregnant teens who never had the opportunity to sit with responsible adults and be guided, keep crying till your comments come back to bite you real soon. Somebody like you will also shun a rape victim and say it's mere sex, the poster has conscience don't deaden her conscience, she is a woman of every high morals she isn't like you.

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    5. Black berry it is the same you that tells women not to disclose how many men they have been with, if it is something to be proud of then why do you advise them to hide it? Many ladies marry with lies and terrible secrets knowing that they can never marry if they dare disclose it, I have seen both men and women regret past lives which in most cases have to do with illicit relationships.

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    6. These two old maids, make una free me naa, hahahahaha,ye think God is vengeful, bitter n unforgiving?

      Blackberry gbuo gi dia.

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    7. Virginity is not mere. She's saying her body was taken by fraudulent means. That's serious and we should sympathize. If you want to revenge, feel free. Just make sure not to hurt yourself. Call him and plan to meet, then leave him there. You might feel better

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    8. Sympathise ko, condolence ni. Did the man force her dick into her pussy? Make she go lol the man now cause of ORDINARY hymen..

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  6. Please move on and live your life to the fullest.The man you planned to marry as a virgin,was he a virgin too?Learn to love yourself and drop this tag.There are virgins who married bad men,some are trying to have kids. It's good to marry as a virgin but its not a ticket to happiness or making heaven.

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    1. Thank you Bibire!!!
      Women always killing themselves to be virgins but end up marrying male ashewo!

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  7. You can get your revenge by sleeping with him again because I know that is what you want to do or you can ask your husband to go and sleep with his wife so that everyone will be at par. @Blessed Princess

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  8. Madam poster, no be only you loose virginity to a boyfriend o. make u calm down and let anger not destroy you. the person that disvirgined me, got me pregnant and broke up with me not long after. he is married now with kids , i am still single but, i bear no deep hurt. let is go pls

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    1. You got my respects.
      I wish you the best.

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    2. Avoiding sexual sins is one of the tickets of making heaven. Having kids will not take you to heaven, do not mock God's words.

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    3. May God Almighty surprise you in more ways than you expect

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    4. Anon 16:06 Are you sure you are normal? Pls avoiding sin in general not just sexual sin

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    5. Amen, thanks

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    6. Hahahahaha, so u get duplex for heaven? Its your type that won't even make heaven, and devil will kukuma disvirgin u in hell.

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    7. Lol @devil disvirgin you in hell... πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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    8. Hahaha Blackberry, you be case gaskia!

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    9. 16:06 abi 17:31 you sound like a religious fanatic. Your type drives people from God while chanting God God in everything. You judge everyone and you lack genuine love for people. Why are you mostly concerned with poster's virginity and not her thirst for vengeance?

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    10. Anon 18:07 exactly. The person. Would be a very judgemental Christian .

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  9. "The most precious thing in my life was my virginity"

    Then your life must be empty. You don't have any goals in life or accomplishments?? You based your whole worth on what society told women in 1900s. How are you still stuck with this mindset in 2019?? Don't you have any friends or belong to any society of useful women? Please go for the revenge, you go soon see wetin pass you

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    1. Busybee easy now

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    2. Bussy bee, how can i e-hug you,shes sees that as what makes her existence, wat a low self esteem and thinking.
      i even need to ask her in what way does she want to revenge a simple man that asked for sex and you open your legs wide like Stephanie coker pose.

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    3. busybee.you stupid and foolish.so because she decided to keep her body whole n pure..and u say her life is empty.

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  10. Madam please let it go and move on with your life

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  11. Madam you are here crying over who took your virginity when you should be looking for a way to make your marriage a success. You no get get problem.

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  12. Madam, you are just frustrated because you married a "deadbeat" man and your ex seem to be enjoying his own marriage, you are upset because you are not the one in his wife's position. channel your anger at your man an not the innocent ex, did he r*pe you?..focus on making your marriage work, you made the choice (abi na your ex say make you marry ya "horseband" ) .. your first line thou, very degrading..mmttccww

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    1. No mind am. Na JEALOUSY they worry her..rubbish πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    2. No mind am. Na JEALOUSY they worry her..rubbish πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    3. my brother i follow you mchewwwwwwwwww

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  13. Stole your pride, how?

    Please shift.

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  14. Madam my candid advice manage your home. Kindly block him from contacting. And again ma he didn't rape you I don't know what u want to revenge for. That's why people need to be open minded in relationship if it leads to marriage fine if not life goes on. I'm sure why you remembered your lost virginity was because things are not running smoothly in your home based on the choice you made. Pls forgive. Thanks

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    1. I think the broken promise really got to her and elements of envy may have set in, especially if the hymen breaker is enjoying life with his wife.

      Madam poster it is eating you up, and is a burden. I think you need help because your sense of self worth is tied to your virginity. I think it is good you reached out through this medium. Go seek counseling to help you put things in a proper perspective. Don't end up like that lady in Acrimony. Please if you are a Christian, get back to God, confess your sins and bask in His love.
      You didn't say much on what the problem with your husband is.

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  15. Move on already joo. I don't think that you treasured your virginity as much as you want us to believe, if you do, you will wait till your wedding night. Abeg, stop crying over spilled milk, you enjoyed, he enjoyed, chikena. If you have any contact with him again, he will only gbensh you more oshofree.

    As for your marrying the wrong man, get busier, make more money, do what makes you happy and if you feel that you cannot tolerate your husband, you know what to do. You just need to work more on yourself. Best of luck.

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  16. You are still in love with him and hurt he left you ....period !

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  17. Bia poster MOVE ON ALREADY!!! Losing your virginity to your ex is now in the PAST....biko let it remain so....PAST!!! Oginidi??? Ahn ahn....u are here complaining about your husband....that you married the wrong person okwaya....but you also comfortably jaye ike and kept popping out children....now you're just realizing that you married the wrong man....abegi...a na akogheri....kmt!

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  18. I'm sorry to say this but poster your madness is still in the early stages. You willingly gave yourself to a man because he promised to marry you and just because he left you are still harboring hatered in your heart. Sorry but he didn't force you move on with your life.
    What about me that had to give my virginity unwilling to to a friend, someone that I trusted because I had no other option, I was tired of fighting, I had no energy left in me to fight him off. I hated him from then on, but I had to let go, life continues. If you don't let go of the hatred it would consume you till you become bitter.

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    1. Hes a bastard and will pay for it

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  19. You better let go... Forget about him and move on...

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  20. How do you get back at him??? Oya unblock his number, set a date with him, go and meet all those omila people they will sell gun for you.

    Then during the date with him, when he's talking to you just bring out the gun, shoot him kpa kpa and tell him you're paying him back for your virginity he stole during the muegbesuegbe that two both of you enjoyed.
    Then run home and the virginity will come back..... will that make you happy?

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    1. i laff so much reading this...

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    2. Lmaooooo. Funniest comment everπŸ˜‚

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    3. I’m in tearsπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. Omg pls dont make my wig come off na 😭😭😭

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  21. Madam, how many years ago?
    Do you want to get HBP?
    Do you want to become a bitter old witch?

    You don't have to blame people for your mistakes. Learn from them and move on.
    It's been years and you are still hurting?
    He isn't responsible for the man you married or your unhappy marriage.
    And who told you marrying as a Virgin is a guarantee to a blissful home, etc.
    Do you know how many things I have wished for in life at a tender age and they never turned out that way? Too numerous to mention.
    Do you know how many mistakes I have made too?
    But I am refusing for my mistakes to define me, and recreating my world.
    You too can do same.
    Ask God for help to forgive and forget.

    If he keeps contacting you, threaten him to tell his wife and you can get your husband involved too (if it will help)

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  22. People really go about this virginity ish a wrong way. Poster, I used to think like you. I wanted my husband to be the person to disvirgin me but I gave my virginity at age 25 to a good man whom I would never marry and I have no regrets whatsoever. He is a great person but I can't marry him. I cannot because of virginity tie myself down to someone I would not enjoy marital life with. Any man that marries you solely because of that, does not love you. It takes more than virginity to get a good man especially when it comes to marriage. Whether virgin or not, you would still marry a wrong man if you don't set your priorities straight, work on your self, apply wisdom and pray for a good partner. The fact that you are not a virgin doesn't make you a whore, gives you license to go frolicking or means that you would not marry a good man. If the guy you lost your virginity to dumps you, then you have to let go, dust your ass, pray and believe that you would get a matured man who is sensible to want you for you and not for your kitty. Madam Poster, please move on and forget about the past. E don happen. You chose to sleep with the guy or did he force you? Then accept your cross and move on..The milk has been split already.

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  23. The most precious "thing"in your life should be your children. Do you think your husband is the wrong man for you because he didn't deflower you? Of course not. Move on with your life madam.

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  24. Why do I have a feeling that you're still in love with this your ex?
    There's a thin line between love and hate...
    You don't love your husband and he probably doesn't love you, that's why you have time for this your so called revenge!

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  25. With all the things going on in the world, it's virginity that's doing you. Poster you wahala for body but no one to tell you this. Next chronicle please !!

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  26. Let me get this straight... You are here to whine about not giving up your virginity to a person who you concluded by saying is ' a wrong man' , ARE YOU OK???
    Look there is nothing wrong if you are still entertaining your lustful thoughts about your first , yes, it's fuck you want not revenge.
    Just don't do something you will regret.

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    1. Don't mind her.
      In her mind she wishes she were married to a cheating lying trash,
      Just because he took her "proud"

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  27. Lmao.
    This is also a chronicle.

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  28. Poster the truth is that you love this your ex more than your husband. You are only asking for suggestions that will bring you closer to him again or the guy has money more than your husband you are looking for a way to get part of his money as compensation.

    Why will someone who disvergined you be an issue. Men marry women for years. Give birth to children and dump the wife and children for another woman. These women have never thought of seeking revenge and you are here talking of how to deal with someone whom you gave consent to sleep with you.

    Keep seeking for revenge ooo. Babe move on joor. This life is too sweet to look back.

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  29. Pls young ladies and men reading, pls do not take the advise of most people here, they want to destroy what they wish they had, plus listen to God and keep your purity, love your neighbours andbekind to people, obey God's law and God will reward, even if you delay in having kids you will end up being blessed with good kids, these women who shun God's words will get their reward through their kids.

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    1. What about you, envious , proud, lying(abi you never lie before?)
      You'll also reap your rewards in your bad kids.
      Since we all want to be silly today.
      FYI, since comprehension is foreign to you, nobody asked anyone to throw away their purity.
      Keep it if u want to.
      For God and for yourself.
      Not to just to please another human and convibce them you are decent.
      @anon 4:10pm

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    2. God's words? You are only addressing those who are virgins. Those who have lost it nko? Have they no hope? I am grateful that the Christ I serve came to save the sinners and the lost.

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    3. I thank you lord for who you are. You are just too much. Imagine if God reasoned like we humans what this world would be like. Look at how anon16:10 has passed judgement on those who didn't marry as virgins. Saying they would experience karma with their kids. So God would punish NHN couture( who he uses as his vessel of hope to a lot of women) because she had a child out of wedlock. Abeg preach the gospel of chastity for keeping but do not speak what you don't know.

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    4. Abeg keep quiet...Yen yen yen... It's people like you that turns the bible upside down when quoting scriptures. Take your hypocritical ass outta here. If you don't train your children well, virgin or no virgin, they would bring you sorrow. Moreover where in the bible was it written that children would be blessed because of their mother's virginity? Is it just for women? What of men who ain't virgins? Or is your the virginity law not applicable to both sexes? Please stop preaching what you don't know. We have enough religion bootlickers in this country, we don't need one more.

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  30. So you are one of those people that come on this blog to be preaching your bull cock about virginity ehn poster? You are not okay! So on top the fact that your husband is the "wrong man" according to you, you still wish you had sex with him and him alone. What?!!! People still think like this? My God! This is fascinating. You and the "vriginity taker" actually dated! He left you after a year. Your relationship did not work out. What do you do daily that your vriginity is the most precious thing? I don't even believe in the concept of it. It makes no sense! You are not suffering and you have eaten to your satisfaction thats why. Biko get out of here. At least all ye primitives are showing yourself one by one. Please do not have a daughter, and if you do please let her be trained by sensible people. Do her a favour because nobody should be trained by someone who thinks like you. We don't want another generation of silly women.

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  31. Madam dec ent.
    The blame is all on the man abi,
    When you were having PRE marital sex, you didn't know???

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  32. Wait you said your husband is a bad man and he is the one you supposed to give it to???? So your husband is better than your EX. Madam problems full this country already and instead of you to block ex and look for how to move your family forward you dey cry over virginity like a teenager. Abeg u no get probs. Stella e be like say Chronicles folder don empty.

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  33. Chai my Naija girls.
    But when I talk am say make una keep Virginia, close tohtoh, Whosai
    Una go dey send thunder and hot water enter my smooth nyansh.
    When I come yarn say make una wait till bride price be paid, some of the
    (side) chickens tell me say them go carry fork fork my darling.
    Okay o.

    Nne, the deed don do. Isi akwu dara na ala edetula aja; the palm head wey touch
    ground don touch sand.
    Make you face ya marriage and manage am well. If you pursue that thing wey you wan
    pursue, na jail (or hell) you fit be as another sisi go come train ya pikins them.
    Ndo inugo?

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  34. Madam prideless,
    It's your type that lament
    "I married as a virgin, i dont know why this is happening"
    Meanwhile, they closed their eyes to all the horrible traits, just because the person was her first

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  35. If you weren't raped, then you have no case madam.
    Relax and drink cold NutriC biko.
    He "TOOK" your virginity cos you GAVE him of your own free will. Worry about your decision making mechanism, and not a willing accomplice who agreed to consensual sex.
    You're bitter cos your marriage isn't as perfect as you want it to be.
    Invest more time and prayers in building your home please.

    Meanwhile, your mind is overdue for an upgrade

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  36. What exactly are you angry about? That you lost your virginity to a man you weren't married to, or that losing your virginity when you did made you see yourself as unworthy so you settled for the man you're now married to?

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  37. Stupid letter ,did he forced you,you both enjoyed it, not start a fight you can't finish let sleeping dog lies

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  38. Madam don't start what you can't finish, is better you mind ur business and make ur self and ur marriage happy.

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  39. This should be joke of the day. How can you fight an ex lover over consented sex.

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  40. Was your husband a Virgin when you got married? Virginity is good when both parties are virgins on their wedding night, but when it is only the woman who is burdened with the yoke of virginity then you have to realize that this virginity issue is steeped in patriarchy.

    Your desire to be married was even greater than your desire to maintain your virginity. You quickly gave it up once you were told that you would get married. What is the point of virginity if you lack wisdom to go with it?
    You did not care about being a Virgin, your heart's desire was on being called Mrs., this is also why you ended up with a rotten man. If you had put as much effort into seeking out a man of good character as you cared about getting a ring on your finger you would not be lamenting today. You feel that it is the loss of your virginity why you ended up in a bad marriage, but you ended up where you are because you are fixated on the wrong things. Seeking men to validate your existence never work out. Go create your own glory with the talents that you were born with, this is how you get glory, not through what is between your legs, or a ring on your finger.

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    1. This right here is the truth

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  41. Who even knows if the guy had to escape when he discovered that after hymen there was nothing left except an empty kom kom with a misguided complex and bitter heart. Revenge ko.
    I dreamt of this silly story in the nap I'm just waking up from. Mshewww...

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  42. So poster this one you feel so bad, was your husband a virgin? or you think virginity keeping is for the woman alone. Brainwashed...Another thing is get passed this feeling. You are very sad in your life reason you still feel hurt about losing your virginity. Be consoled and move on, who says he reachedout to you because of....

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  43. From her write up,its obvious the Ex is doing good for himself compared to her hubby..I see jealousy here..if her husband had been rich,she won't be this bitter.

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  44. Marriage na wa sha. Some are dying to get in, others to get out. Thank God for the happy ones. Please sweet chronicle sharers, we need to see more of you.

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