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Sunday, February 24, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ONE CHANCE RELATIONSHIP



 
Dear Stella,

I met a man via SnM 3 years ago. He was always online in January and I had to ask if he is at work, he said he was on leave. This continued for about two months until he opened up to say he was unemployed cos he lost his job recently.


Since then it's been me paying his bills. Feeding, clothing him because I can't stand sob tales. I send his CV out like a full time job. I pray for him. Fast for him. Encourage him and then we finally met last year. I stay in Lagos and he lives up north.


He visited Lagos and I had to book a hotel for us to stay the weekend. I couldn't take him home even though I lived alone, despite our online relationship, I was trying to be careful. That visit was an eye opener. He didn't have one naira on him. I paid for his transport(booked it myself).



 He will go to the hotel shop- give me biscuit. Give me chocolate.. give me canned juice. Give me. Give me. Give me. I wondered why a man in his late 30s will be behaving like a toddler. Just so he doesn't feel bad when I pay for our food or drink, I gave him 10k to hold as we sat in the open outside bar/restaurant for dinner. Our food was about 3k. But he spent the whole money. He bought suya. He bought grilled fish, he didn't even leave #500. He ate everything.


I was taken aback. Instantly irritated at his behaviour. We got to the hotel room and he stormed out to reception screaming. I could hear his voice. When I stepped out to find out what was happening. He was demanding that the room be sprayed that there were mosquitoes everywhere. He also said that he couldn't find the towel he hung on the bathroom door. I cringed in shame. Not one mosquito in that room. I paid 20k a night, AC was on full blast, mosquito from where? I told him I hung the towel behind the door. He didn't bother checking and went out ranting.



He came back inside and I went to reception to apologise to the workers. I could see the look on their faces...what is she doing with this scum?
I looked for a story the next day and I left. I didn't stay the weekend. I gave him his transport back and I vowed never to have anything to do with him again.
Somehow he already knows my mumu button so he exploited it. " Babe I have not eaten since morning, not even one pure water in the house." I will ignore. He will keep sending messages until I send money. It's important to know that I am not rich. I am a hustler. I work 9-5 and I use my hands to make money by doing buying and selling on the side. He has almost crumbled my business with begging, borrowing and not paying.



Somehow, we keep breaking up and coming back. And I wonder why. He is handsome. That's where it ends.His bed game is zero. Attitude zero.. Although he has an MBA, he has not worked in 6 years. He survives from his parents, siblings (all younger) and myself. He claims only son up and down. He has 5 sisters. He has this sense of entitlement and can beg for Africa. I don't even know why I am with this boy/man.



Long story short. I made friends with HR and was able to get him a job in my organisation. He moves down to Lagos and into my apartment. He comes to me to say he is hungry. He comes to me to ask for money to buy recharge card. He WhatsApps me a million times in the office( we are hiding our relationship). He cannot do his job well. Very simple job, he has lost the job in 1 month. It killed me. He couldn't even do the basics right. Probation is 6 months, but he was let go in a month.



He will wake up and not bath until late afternoon. He will ask to be served his food. His clothes must be clean. He doesn't say it but throws his clothes in the laundry bag. He doesn't have the business acumen of his tribe but he sure has a huge dose of the ego associated with men from his tribe.



He contributes nothing. Not one Kobo. He has some money he was gifted recently. I decided to hide what I have and ask him for money, Oga gave me 1k, grudgingly. He will go out buy pizza,buy suya, eat jekuje and I wonder what is wrong with my brain.



He has refused to introduce me to his family, he talks to them daily, all his sisters. He told them he applied for and got a job. He never told them His babe got the job for him or that he lives with her. When I asked why not, he turned it to a quarrel.



He uses the toilet and doesn't flush. He is stingy, lazy, had no dreams/focus, he has no drive, he is content with smallness, he is wasteful, a spendthrift on himself, he is almost 40 years old.
I just woke up to use the toilet this night and he has left his evidence as usual. I woke him up angry.
I want him to leave my house, leave my life. I want to unlove him and erase his memory. 



I am tired . It's 3:48am now. Since I saw that s**t in the toilet about 2 hours ago, I can't sleep. 



Did I remember to say that he uses the toilet, washed with water and then comes a d sit on the bed. He won't bath. He can s**t 3 times and not bath.
Last week I saw little maggots on the bathroom floor. I don't know but I suspect he washed his bum after pooing and didn't clean the floor so the maggots are busy enjoying a piece of shit he left lying around.


I am tired. How do I end this without my mother Theresa heart getting in the way???
I need tips.
Thanks
Anon BV






*I am too SHOCKED for words......Tongue tied and shocked that a full grown ass woman is settling for this with her two eyes open....What da heck!!!!!!

280 comments:

  1. Between you and the BV who gives her guy 50k salary every month I don't know who is the bigger mumu!

    As you lay your bed now, so you shall continue to lie on it. Continue breastfeeding a grown man. Your reward is in haven!

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    1. Poster pls tell him your mum will be visiting you and staying for a week so he has to leave until your mum leaves. Once he leaves, send him the rest of his stuff and change your locks.

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    2. Enter your reply...haba aunty poster I'm so disappointed in you, even my 15 year old younger sister won't stoop this low he's not good in bed, he's not good at anything at all, but you're still doing all of that for him. My dear your greatest mistake is keeping a married man with kids in your apartment. Some women can be so desperate when they want a man to marry them. In short poster make thunder fire you.

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    3. Can I unread what I just read? Babe, your self esteem is 00.0. how old are you again? Are you still asking questions? You don't have mother Theresa heart, you are just plain STupid. If you are waiting for us to tell you what to do, that means your more silly than average.
      You need HELP. Go see a psych doc. You are badly damaged

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    4. My sister is very easy. Tell him you want to travel and you can't allow him stay while you are gone. He should go home to his people. Then lock the door and stay in a friends place for sometime. Delete his numbers not before blocking him in all your social media. Most of these men that apply for single and mingle are leeches, I stopped applying after my first experience. The first question they ask is where do you work, if you say you are a teacher, they run because they know that most teachers don't earn well. Shine your eyes. See laziness on top poverty.

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    5. So do you mean to say his fine face is what is causing all this rubbish for you? Please send him out of your house first and out of your life next. If you have plenty love and money to throw around please visit thr motherless hone.

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    6. This is the "shitest” chronicle I have ever read, like WTF!! I’m so angry right now.
      This poster is the highest MUMU that ever liveth. I blame you this stupid woman, please go and pick up your self esteem because it’s in shambles. Tueh! For you and that kid you call a man.

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    7. I tire o. This KRONIKU weak me.

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    8. Which kind of story is this for God's sake 😠. What do you want us to do for you. Why do you hate yourself so much.

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    9. Sister you don't know how the kick him out???? Continue!! Iya o tii pa e lori to.
      I won't take this shit even from my biological brother to now talk of one alien somewhere.

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    10. Poster I beg you with everything I hold dear, please THROW that guy away from your heart and your life without looking back. The truth is that this guy will NOT marry you. I don't know why bad things happen to good people. #sighs# @BLessed Princess

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    11. Queen Jay, this one is a bigger mumu. Which desperation will push someone to take all this sh!t? I feel very disgusted reading this. WTF

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    12. This poster is the bigger mumu with zero self esteem. She must be very ugly to cling to the maggot breeding scum.

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    13. Speechless

      My fellow BVN over to una!

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    14. Poster something is wrong with your. I believe this! This cannot be normal . I read this with so much digust on my face. Kukuma buy this grown man diapers and start pushing him in a stroller. Since you want to nuture him so bad.

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    15. I almost puked when I got to the maggot part and yet you want to meet his parents? Like for real for real?? Were you not loved as a child??? Poster this is really bad. You have to kick him out. He goes out doesn’t he? Throw his stuff out, lock the door and disappear. You can’t can you? I guess so. Tueh!

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    16. God abeg ooo...Oluwa mi ejoo dakun let me not acquire any bad habit this 2019. Let me not jam the person that will tank my destiny nor tank it myself. Grant me wisdom, favour and true love. Thank you Lord. Amen. πŸ™ 😎

      Ehen poster, you are not yet tired of his shit. When you are, you will kick his sorry, loutish dirty, ass out with alacrity and without apology. You don't deserve this. Don't do this to yourself.🚢🚢🚢

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    17. It’s find Bowl, piss inside am add one pack of salt, pour am inside ur eye, the JAZZ go clear. This is not normal eye

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    18. Poster I repeat you are a fool for allowing me to read this rubbish. I feel like slapping you. Are you 60yrs old and have given up on meeting someone who is responsible? If your purpose of getting married is to have kids abeg look for someone responsible, get pregnant and train your kids.

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  2. My sister pls wake up and call it quits with him. Send him packing immediately.

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  3. Kai!! In Queen and Boss's voice* Are you short,fat and ugly??

    Babes you are a good lady that deserves the best.

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    1. Poster please send that over grown baby away. Yuck

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    2. πŸŽ΅πŸ’ƒEleyii Gidi Gan...e mu pankere mimo wa!...Oya e bota!πŸŽΌπŸ’ƒ
      ...that's the way you should flog the evil spirit you call your boyfriend out! Oshisco

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    3. Yes, She is a very kind lady that deserves the best. 😱 OMG what did I just read? Biko delete him like a bad habit.

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  4. Chai, Naija girls o
    When it is marriage, brain go vamoose!
    See
    free fork
    free food
    free hotel lodgings
    free bills
    free transport
    free and available tohtoh . .. e remain make the man dash you free belle and free disease join.
    And im for do you Cynthia for that hotel come vamoose!
    chai, which kin mumu girls be these bikonu eh?
    Atu m ngege oooooooooo!🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  5. Are you a grandma of 180yrs old and afraid someone else won't love you? Gush!!!! I almost threw up reading these.

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    1. This story is disgusting, which kind of foolish, dirty nd poverty love is this? I can’t deal

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  6. I don't want to believe this irritating nonsense I'm reading. Poster your self-esteem must be at an all time low.Rubbish!

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  7. It's amazing that a lady like yourself could highlight all that is wrong with a man like this and still be asking for how to leave him. You have withdrawal syndrome, meaning you don't like people leaving you. you better kick this ram to the curb before you get pregnant and the real trouble starts.

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  8. Aunty, that man has no single blame here. It's you who's head is not in order. Are you stupid?? Taking all these for what exactly?? You haven't started yet, you will still see crocodile in your bathroom. Nonsense

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    1. Exactly my thoughts. A pig, a fool, a twerp, an ignoramus, an idiot, an imbecile and after the hotel episode she continued with the situationship. Am disgusted. Thank God av had lunch before reading this trash.

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    2. I just had lunch before I read her disgusting story, yet I felt so nauseated.

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  9. poster what have you gotten yourself into.this is slavery at its peak.pls do away with this short sighted lazy and backward baby man before you come and go and kill yourself.he doesn't deserve you at all at all.leave him to meet his match

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  10. Stupid poster! he has used juju on you ooo! sister girl, wake up and walk away! Jesus! oh my god!

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    1. You just called her stupid and still acknowledged he may have used juju on her, mtcheeew!

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    2. I beg to differ, he didn't use any juju on her. She is just plain stipid

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    3. My concern in this story is how a mother raised a son to be this lazy, irresponsible, dirty and with a crazy sense of entitlement.
      Perhaps he was spoiled rotten being the only son amongst females.
      Behold the repercussion.

      It is better to train a child than repair an adult.

      Poster, RUN.............

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  11. As in Stellz... how desperate can U be ma'am?! Jeez! I'm too shocked for words.. With all of these, U mean U still in love with him? Like whoa!!!

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  12. Poster, is it that you are so desperate for marriage or do you think you can't find someone better?

    Why not go back to Single and Mingle to find someone else because this one no be relationship at all. 3 years wasted just like that.
    You are on this blog reading chronicles daily and still haven't learnt anything.

    MotherTheresa heart ko, mama Tessy ni. I am sure you have female friends and even family members who are struggling but you won't do mother Theresa for them o.

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    1. my point exactly. am sure she has female friends looking for job but she decided to help a piece of d--k

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  13. This looks like tales by moonlight.
    Babe are you for real?. This must be joke

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  14. @ Poster please pick race without looking back..

    Did the guy charm you or what?
    I don't understand you ooo?
    Or you are desperate to settle down with noticing his bad behaviour..

    I can't deal..

    Give him quit notice already.

    Don't be desperate dear.
    What will be will be.

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    1. Poster you are an intelligent person, a prize, but you have issues. Part of it is a low self esteem, part of it is attachment issues. You need psychological counseling. You are functioning fine as a person, but you need to go to the root of your issues so that you develop healthy relationships with the opposite sex. Sorry baby girl, I don't know much about you to make other conclusions, but I sure wish you the best. The money you have been spending on that baby man, use it for therapy and treat yourself.

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  15. What!!!
    How kind can you be to others,that you let yourself go through such torture.
    If you have so much money lying around,invest in fixed feposit/Tbills,so you don't get tempted to be 'too kind'.
    You have get a hold of yourself before this carelessness of yours gets you into trouble.
    He needs to leave your house first,then you can work on leaving him.
    Ask yourself,what is the end to this means.
    Miss marigold

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  16. My God, what the hell is this. Are you under a spell... Kick him out before you loose your own job because of him, how can you take all this without exploding. Girl you really tried gosh. .

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  17. Poster, you be real desperate Ode!

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  18. Omg!!? I want to throw up..... what!! Please let this lazy ass go. Are u so desperate for a man for you to bear all these rubbish. Read my lips carefully! This lazy man wont change. He lives on people. Stop taking this rubbish and throw him out at once pls!! Jezz!!
    That was how I met one guy back then during nysc. From imo state. Tochi is so dirty.... he will use the toilet and wont flush... boxers very dirty nd smelly. To think I use to give him head then... omg!! Very lazy! This guy feed on me and jump on the next girl. Met another one name Tobe... very lazy guy... he will sleep from morning til night no work ... nothing. Omo I ran for my life and I cn tell you I am breathing well now.. babe pls throw him out... u deserve better.
    Maggot???? Omg😎😎

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  19. You are asking us what 2 do with him??? Egba mi ke🀷‍♀️....he's bad energy n should be faaarrrr away!

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  20. When you mentioned business acumen of his tribe, I thought he's Igbo but Igbos don't wash after pooing. How I hate that dirty behaviour! How can I keep using my hands to touch shit each time I go to the toilet? It's just gross!

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  21. Every spiritual, physical, diabolical, emotional ele ozo,spell on this poster,ho.......ly ghost fire..chineke ekwekwala iyeojo.every revelation comes wt victory... For u,to have open up,ur free in Jesus name.... That guy came to kill,steal n destroy. Even if they dash u as husband, better remain single abeg

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  22. Babe, send him away from you ooo. It is one thing to be broke and work hard at getting better, it is another thing to be a sloth, a dirty, stingy sloth.

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  23. They call mother Theresa there until you chop maggot or e shit inside your pot wash yash.

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  24. My God what is this. Please send that man out of your house there was never any love or even heart in this matter. Please tell him you are traveling for a course and you won't be around for sometime and its best he goes back.

    Then as soon as he goes buy disinfectant and clean and wash your whole house including the toilet very well. Please be diplomatic on how you tell him to go cos his type is trouble.

    And the way I am seeing it he won't want to go easily cos he is a leech and they don't let go easily till they have ruined you and messed up your mind in the process

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    1. So poster u hsvecsex sith this dirty scum ? He did t even introduce u to his family?? U better throw the idiot out nd block him on social media, very dirty story, I can’t stand him talkkess is dating the scum

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  25. Somebody call Baba Buhari. This poster is corrupt. EFCC must investigate this girl. Who does all these. Yaba left has a space for someone like u.

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  26. My goodness! What in desperation name are you doing this to yourself for?
    3 whole wasted years!with a good for nothing BOY?
    Dear Lady, you deserve the very BEST in this life. I don't care how old you are but dust yourself immediately and say Enough is Enough!
    You are not his mother and even if you are, he is no longer a dependent or a minor.
    Kick him out of your house and life this minute. What is this?
    I bet you know your self worth and your esteem is at its lowest. Please take that action and decision NOW!

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  27. If he refuses to leave,wait for him to go out one day and change your locks,don't move his things for him, to avoid any stories.
    Get a friend or relative or a hotel to stay,until he agrees to move out. You can involve the police to avoid any stories that touch.
    If you don't have a temporal place to stay,just make sure don't allow him access to your place. If and when he decides to move,make sure there's someone around with you. Don't ever go soft on him again,this situation is a cannon waiting to explode.
    Miss marigold.

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  28. No need advicing you, you'd still open door for him... all he needs is to beg you that he will change. When i trully cut him off you wont write chronicle

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  29. on behalf of igbos i reject that man,and pass ot over to yoroba,becos you are trying to imply he is an igbo guy...go run test for infections

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  30. I swear I read this blog every day I hardly comment but your story brought me out of my shell.
    Dear poster how desperate are you to settle down?
    If you answer this question then you realize it’s not mother Theresa heart it’s desperation you are desperate.

    If you say you ain’t desperate thenhave ypu been jazzed?

    Young lady no body in her senses would tolerate this nonsense up there get up and send that demon away before he ruins you

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    1. She is extremely desperate in fact this one na desperado. Which Mother Theresa's heart? If her friends or even siblings ask her for money I'm sure she wouldn't give. How about the poor people in her area? Poor people are everywhere in this world. Get the hell out of evil situation ship before I slap sense into you. Rubbish. When they see men they loose their senses. Mtchwwwww

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    2. I really do think she is right about herself and really does have the Mother Theresa thing. Only she is not channelling it well.

      There are people who are fixers in relationships, they fall for people they can help and fix, but it usually backfires and causes them misery, because only God and the person being fixed can change himself or herself.

      Poster go get therapy. Even if you don't, try to recognise that you are only human yourself, you also deserve love and care. Do away with that man and be very careful before you let someone into your personal space. Try to get to know them first.

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  31. U better open ya eye,this is not love this is slavery my dear!!!

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  32. What that hell..can I unread this stupid s**t..u need a brain reset poster

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  33. I'm short of words honestly, don't know what i will say to you poster. Kia dumb dumber dumbest only you. How can you allowed yourself to be used like this ? even his family members you don't know.

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  34. I'm short of words honestly, don't know what i will say to you poster. Kia dumb dumber dumbest only you. How can you allow yourself to be used like this ? even his family members you don't know.

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  35. Stella, me sef follow you open mouth o. Ahhhhhhhhh!!!

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  36. WTF!
    I don’t believe this shit!
    It’s must be a lie!
    God!
    I’m apoplectic here!
    Herh, wo y3 KWASIA wati
    Gyimiii
    I thought that it was going to end at the hotel incident and you ended up bringing him to your home?
    Wawu
    You must be really deformed ugly and everything embarrassing otherwise

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  37. Stella, me sef follow you open mouth o. Ahhhhhhhhh!!!

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  38. The guy is mentally sick and you poster you have zero brain and zero self esteem .

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  39. You must be under a spell. I hear some women stay with useless men for the sex, but your own case is a different story. You need Jesus.

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  40. I'm waiting for people to support the man.

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  41. My dear sister, why are you doing this to yourself, ask him to leave and move on with your life

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  42. Madam poster, your self esteem is on - 1000. Oh my goodness, I felt so disgusting reading this. Biko in the name of God and everything female, go and pick up your self esteem wherever you dropped it jeez!!

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  43. Like seriously.....poster, there is no two- way about this. Tell him His you no do again o! Oga pack your load and go! Stay inside water and soap will still enter your eyes. Baby man (tongue clicks)

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  44. And some people will still support this man.

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  45. This one reach fainting. But Biko how do you lady date broke guy, cos I can not fit understand.

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  46. This one reach fainting. But Biko how do you lady date broke guy, cos I can not fit understand.

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  47. She’s thinking she has invested so much money on him. Poster are you ugly short and fat? Because he treats you like the shit in your toilet. *spits*

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    1. What you described is not ugly.

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  48. Chi mooo!!! πŸ™†πŸ™† Madam!! The man use jazz?? Why's your heart soft towards a leech, a pest?!

    Get the police to throw him out or relocate. Send him out stylishly, throw his things out, lock your apartment & go stay somewhere (with someone you trust) for a while till you get your sanity back.

    That man has ruined you!

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  49. God have mercy! What did I just read? Did he use charm on you or what?I beg you in the name of God, please find your square root, before you get pregnant and see the main problem or he even starts to panel beat you because with what you described up there as his character, it won't be long before beating enters the equation. Give yourself brain abeg

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  50. Haba Mana! Sister chase him out. Throuw his things out and change your lock. Kai if possible change your location. If you like stay till you carry belle.

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  51. Enter your comment...you are very desperate woman.shame on you.

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  52. Poster, you deserve a slap to wake up. I was pissed off reading this nonsense. You provided job, food shelter, free gbenshing, laundry and basic utilities for someone that is not ready to introduce you to his siblings.

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    1. Na she be the real MUMU Say whatttttt

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    2. Biggest mumu claiming mother Theresa

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  53. You wrote all this chronicle? It means you know you need help. you better wake from your slumber and shake that mumuism from your blood and send d grown ass man off your life. love ko love ni. yours self esteem is so low. I must marry syndrome is worrying you.

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    1. Let me perch here. Madam poster with all you have said about him you are still worried he hasn't introduced you to his folks. As in if he even suggests marriage you will consider it? Ha! Your case is beyond human comprehension, please seek psychological help before its too late,and the man should also seek spiritual help cos its not ordinary,how can one person be childish, lazy, proud ,dirty and foolish at the same time? As for sending him out of your house,that is very simple just tell him in plain terms that you are tired of the situation ship ,help pack his things and throw him out of ur house!

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  54. How much more desperate can a woman get. Even with all these you are still hoping he would introduce you to his family. I was shocked when I read that part. I have no advice for you. Wait until worms snakes bed bugs take over your home and eczema cover u from head to toe for you to receive sense n self esteem. I feel sorry for you. Maybe you had a bad childhood. But you deserve better

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  55. Poster, who have you offend in this life that used this unfortunate man to curse you..with all the stuff ure going thru, u still opened ur mouth gbaga to say he hasn't introduced you to any of his family members!!!
    Poster, biko tell someone close to u to pour you urine and salt to neutralize whatever uve been fed so u don't end up with this disaster u call LOVER! tueh!!!

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    1. Lol, I actually thought of the urine thing too.

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  56. Poster, who have you offend in this life that used this unfortunate man to curse you..with all the stuff ure going thru, u still opened ur mouth gbaga to say he hasn't introduced you to any of his family members!!!
    Poster, biko tell someone close to u to pour you urine and salt to neutralize whatever uve been fed so u don't end up with this disaster u call LOVER! tueh!!!

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  57. If I say I'm not disgusted reading this Chronicle then I'm a liar. Poster, are you under a spell or bewitched?
    Indeed, you're Mother Theresa. If all you wrote is true, that guy will not change.
    Brace up and ask him to leave. Don't give him any cash again. May be that would reset his brain.

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  58. Madam, please how old are you? I thought I was a mumu ooo, your own mumu go sch collect degree. Wetin!
    You should've dumped him the moment the hotel episode was over instead you continued job hunting for him. See where it led you?

    Like someone said up there, you suffer from a kind of disorder that makes you scared of people leaving you. You need to grow some brain ASAP. If you were my sister, I'll so slap you ehn, sense go rush you.

    Kick that scumbag out!!

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  59. Madam, are you fat, ugly and old?. Who told you that you have a mother Theresa's heart?. If you really do, then start an orphanage and not this nonsense you put up there.
    Don't even say you are in love cos it would be more disgusting. You are simply lonely and desperate.

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  60. Please poster let go off that baggage you call a boyfriend before he drags you down too. Push him out for a better man to come your way, who handsome epp mctheeeee.

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  61. Poster where did you leave your self esteem ? what sort of nonsense chronicle is this ? Please invite on of your female friends to come for awhile and give him transport to go back home.tell him she's your cousin and all three of you can't leave together for now. Once he chats you up that he has arrived safely , break up with him and block his contacts everywhere. This is 2019, wake up baby girl. Stop been unnecessary foolish and stupid all because you want to marry.

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  62. You have tried, let it go and allow God give his best.

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    1. Beautiful response. Please poster be encouraged by these words.

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  63. You listed all these 'evils' and you are still complaining that he hasn't introduced you to his people. Is that your priority now. Shame.

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    1. I was also surprised to read that. What exactly does she want to be introduced for?

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  64. You listed all these 'evils' and you are still complaining that he hasn't introduced you to his people. Is that your priority now. Shame.

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    1. My dear, I am more worried for you.
      Pls answer me honestly:
      How old are you? In your late 40s or 50s?
      Did u at anytime receive the award of the most ugly girl in d universe?
      Are you disabled? (Pls no insult meant to those with disabilities)
      Are you a divorcee?
      A baby mama or what?
      You mean after the hotel incidence you continued and even made him your live in lover? What a wawu.
      Girl, your desperation is on another level.
      Your self confidence is minus zero.
      Your self worth/value is zero too.
      It has nothing to do with mumu button but high level of stupidity.
      Get a grip over yourself and kick him OUT asap.
      Change your no if need be.
      And for your info, that guy is married and has no intent even in the next life to settle down with you.
      Wise up.

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  66. Madam something must be wrong with you. Pls tell us.

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  67. May this never happen to anyone I know God! I’m so irritated right now. How do I unread the using the toilet and not flushing part? Maggots from eish! That boy man should never have known your house in the first place. All I can tell you is learn to love yourself. You don’t love yourself at all don’t even argue. 🀦‍♀️

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  68. Honey, there is an underlying problem with your psyche. Something or someone happened that caused you to feel it is okay to endure abuse. You need a comprehensive soul searching exercise to find out why you act the way you do and allow yourself to be raped psychologically and emotionally. If this is not done, no matter the advice we give you, you will go back to this dude or end up with someone similar.

    I can't even be mad at you because my heart aches with pity for you. My darling, you don't deserve this, you deserve much better. This is not the time to ignore the plethora of red flags. This guy has given you 99 reasons to leave him and not even 1 reason to stay. To make an already insulting situation more reprehensible, this dude doesn't even find you worthy of being introduced to his family. Seriously? Nah! Sweetie, you are on a full throttle collision course and if you don't pump the brakes now, you'll be solely responsible for the devastating outcome.

    You started the whole "relationship" on the wrong foot. You can NEVER buy a man's affections. This same penurious guy will start spending on the woman he truly loves, he might already be spending your money on some other girl. The next thing you will hear is that he is getting married to someone else. If you don't respect yourself, why should he respect you? You are his personal ATM, a cash cow of some sort and he will milk you for all you're worth. By the time he is through with you, you will look like something ridden hard and dumped wet.

    My darling, please shut this freak show down! Shut it down now before it degenerates into something truly pathetic. You said you hate sob stories? How would you like starring in your own sob story, cautionary tale for the next generation of ladies? You are stronger than you realise, tap into that strength and kick his a$$ to the curbs.

    e-bearhugs.

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    2. Look who came out of hibernation.

      Hello Ronalda😊😊

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    3. Ronalda😘❤️.. If this is you, please! Come back fully. I've missed you terribly!

      #Smurfy#

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      πŸ’― apt!!

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  69. Pls my sister,wake up nd smell d coffee...

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  70. My dear before I insult you now! Listen hanlele to police station cos i suspect you no get liver asides self esteem. Tell them to give you 2 police men since you have money to do sara on a grown lazy and dirty man. Now listen again! Go home open your door wide, tell him come outside with his uncleaned buttocks that Xmas is over and ya head is now correct. Go in bring out his stuffs, police should follow him to Ijesha Teddo motor park I don't know where that is, give him transport, block his number, go home clean viola! Your problem is over. Hold your ear and say I shall never be in this kind of love cos this is not love it's desperation and stupidity at its peak.

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    1. Hahahaha,this your comment made me laugh. Bad geh.

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    4. Hahahahaha. Na real uncleaned buttocks. It's too terrible a situation. Haba

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  71. Please poster let go off that baggage you call a boyfriend before he drags you down too. Push him out for a better man to come your way, who handsome epp mctheeeee.

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  72. YOU ARE MAD!!!!!! SAY IT WITH ME SIS, FULL TIME MADNESS!!!!!! So all that you have said up there isn't enough reason to unlove him, you're still looking for tips. Oya stay put nah. Maybe you'll know tips when he gives you belle and disease. Grown asso being acting like a cow and you're still housing him. Smh Love gbuo gi there!!!

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  73. Poster are you serious at all? Madam Theresa there is no nice way to end the relationship. Get the piece of shit outta of your life already! Ahannnn I got so angry reading the story sef

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  74. I think she has been jazzed. No normal human will be this tolerant on someone who's not even your husband. Aunty I read here you can pour urine mixed with salt on someone and any jazz will clear. Biko pour yourself that urine make your eye clear.

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  75. Wow,,, are you ugly or have any form of deformity,,, or maybe you feel you can’t meet someone else to fall inlove wit. Madam it’s high time you JAPAA.����‍♂️

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  76. My sister may brain fall on you!!!!!!!!

    You're not single, you're not engaged, you're not married, you're just BOUND. yes Bound!!!! !!!!!!!

    We both know nothing useful will come out of this dead relationship. Nothing!!!!!!!
    So all your big baby boyfriend did to be entitled to all you have done for him, is to be called a man, because society names every person with a pens one abi ?????????


    I have no sympathy for you, this is not kindness, it is FOLLY.
    I have nothing to say to you. Time and resources you would have invested in yourself and other worthy endeavours, you have devoted to a good for nothing (not even for SEX) man.

    You have lost three years of your life already, you will wake up one day to find out that you have clocked 50, with no man and no child.


    So if he even introduced you to his family, you will be ecstatic and do even more as wifeeey abi .


    Better tell the idiot to leave your house immediately. Don't give him notice before he will strangle you in your sleep . Just wake up and tell him, to please leave, make sure you have a friend by your side when you tell him.

    It is still not clear why you held on to this relationship for this long, were you expecting to acquire this life-long LIABILITY as a HORSEBAND??????? SO that you will be addressed as MRS and nothing more?.



    I'm disappointed abeg.

    Even my house help who is just 20 years has more brain, taste and standards .I have watched her turn my male cousins to her doormat under my very roof, yet she hasn't gone beyond secondary school and we describe her as naive ooooohhhhhh.

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  77. This is the worst chronicle I have read.
    OMG. Lamentations at its worst!
    Common, poster what is wrong with you? How can you subject yourself to all this rubbish?

    Kick him out of your house, out of your sight, out of your life.
    What the hell!!!!!!!!

    Are you ok at all? How can you be doing this to yourself? Are you even sure of the said MBA?

    I can't stand jobless man, talk more of bringing to my house or giving money. He saw free house, free food, free fu**k, free money, free care, free job gotten on a platter of gold. No you get bed, no you dey shake waist, a young dey control and bath lifeless prick. This is so annoying and it's a NO,No .

    Poster, you deserve more. As long as he still lingers, you wouldn't be able to get someone better. No matter your age which you did not mention. But you sound desperate and frustrated.

    Blank out the feelings or emotion. What is even tying you two together? I see nothing in common.
    If you were my sister,i swear,i will so disown you.

    You are messing up your own life. Run! Run!!Run!!!
    Don't look back

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  78. This is the most disgusting chronicle I ever read. Tueh

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  79. Please allow your mother Theresa heart to manifest itself mbok and while your at it, don't forget to send money to his siblings and parents o. Mumu button ko Mumu button ni. Better tell that lazy, dirty, gold digger of a boy that your parents are confidential and you would want him to leave and come back after they are gone. Once he leaves, bar his number from calling

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  80. Let's get down to business poster. Please pack his things in his bags if any,if he doesn't have any bag please go and buy Ghana must go and pack his things. Keep the packed stuff outside your apartment then call him and tell him to take his leave. Transfer some money to him for his transport and make sure you don't come back to your house for at least 3days. Tell him its over,he should take his leave. Be serious and get the leech out of your life.

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  81. What did I just read? Poster ate you okay? I can't even date him for a day how much more ....Your self esteem is on permanent zero,I Blane you from A to Z.

    YOU BETTER WAKE UP AND RECEIVE FOUBLE PORTION OF SENSE.....GOSHHHHHHH

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  82. Stella for once, you upset me. I don't know if I can forgive you for this😣. mbanu.I was expecting your e-slap as a comment.

    Poster you have 0.0000% self-esteem. Don't come here with your mother Theresa talk, okay?. I have no advice for you. Just visit a psychologist, let he/she work on you.

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  83. I feel you have been battered to feel that you are no good, no man will love you, you are too fat etc. Are you also mother Theresa yo your fellow ladies?

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  84. Even The bible says we should guard our heart with all jealousy.
    My dear, I am a natural mother theresa oh. But life has taught me to know where to draw the line. I am a very nice person, due to my upbringing. but when i sense entitlement or expectations from people, I do a complete 360 lock-up-and-throway-key. He is a lazy bum and you have over tried sef. Please this guy will ruin your life. RUN!!

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  85. Nawa o. We women like doing ourselves

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    1. This is disgusting, I feel so uncomfortable reading this. I hope this lady wise up.

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    2. Poster,your joking right?
      Yea right! Mother Theresa my bum!
      I bet you wouldn't do half of this for a lady in need, but here you are!
      Please! Give me a break!

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  86. This is a situation of low self-esteem. I think you never had a good relationship with your dad. Therefore I prescribe you leave this overgrown baby and work on your self-esteem before dating another man. Unless you will be treated again like a doormat.

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  87. This one is worse than a baggage. Madam after all these yama yama you just send us you're still asking for tips on how to dump that condemned iron. Okay go and pay his bride price

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  88. I'm surprised you still want an introduction even after all you've listed. If you marry that man I'm not sure youd live long.
    How desperate can you be girl? After all the signs😳. Wheres your brain? Why are you using your emotions where your head is supposed to work.
    You need to pick your self esteem from the floor and wear it cause it's like you've trampled on it for too long. Get yourself out of that mess, this has nothing to do with being good. You've been good for to long.
    I wish stella had given you one e slap,maybe it would reset your brain. Your Chronicle is annoying and irritating and I cant believe a grown up woman would open her eyes and put herself in such a mess.
    You dont have a mother theresa's heart, you are just a woman that is so messed up and needs help. Better send that thing you call a man/boyfriend far away from you.

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  89. The man doesn’t hav problem, the problem is you. Jesus! He hasn’t introduced you to his family? O lord! You mean you are ready to marry this man? Hehehehehehehe your own desperation is mind blogging. Even if I’m as ugly as shriek and 80 years old, there is no way I was gonna let this man back into my life after the hotel incident. Damn!

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  91. Kindly pack up his stuff and push him out!He is a selfish and lazy person,who will finish you totally if you dont act fast.After putting his stuff out,pay some area boys to make sure he leaves!Pick yourself up,you deserve better.

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  92. No no nooooo I don't believe this shit!!! Poster so people like you exist with humans in this planet earth? Nooooo! Somebody wake me up! OMG sister you are f**ked real time. Its like they have use you to do juju. How? Like How do you do? Poster you know what? Just go to mfm let them pray for you and while at it inform them you have a live in demon that stays with you so they can come cleanse not only your sanity (+brain) but also your environment. Jesu!!! Stella please don't post this stuffs again abeg ooo and if you must just indicate at the heading that it contains irritating shit!!!.

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  93. Poster are you well at all?😠😠😠😠
    Who removed your brain and replaced it with toilet water???

    How can you be housing a useless lazy dirty man and be asking how to kick him out???

    What kind of desperation for a man will make you to be feeding aan almost 40.

    Bv's please let us raise our hearts unto the lord and ask for deliverance for this poster because if we leave her like this she would soon start sendingonly to the guys sister out of desperation....Abeg who will lead the prayer pointsπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™


    LEPπŸ˜›

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  94. You knew all these and welcomed him into your home? As a rehabilitation centre?
    Oh Lord!!!!!

    Who did this to you?

    Lord Jesus please keep me safe from all parasitic relationships......

    We all need discerning spirits and common sense to thrive in this world ooo.


    Aunty wake up from this slumber and kick this dude to the curb.


    He's neither family nor a loved one.
    You have done enough, let his family do the rest.

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  95. Its a lie, you are not tired anything. Ordinary maggot, you have rushed to SDK to wash your dirty linen... But I trust you shaa, from what I read, you are a very homely and nice person. I'm sure you have since scrubbed the toilet with a long face yes but you still scrubbed it, Akwa nwaπŸ€—...And I'm sure you have cooked Sunday delicacies for him to gorge himself on, after which you submit the meow which you claim he cannot even handle but you still gum there like chameleon shit.
    My dear sir tight. The ratio of girls to boys in this country does not support you leaving that guy. Cleave to him . Cling on very tight.
    In the end, you will be victorious. You will eventually match him down the altar, whether he likes it or not.
    If he likes let him continue pretending that he can't hold down a job or hustle business wise, don't fall for that. When you start popping babies, he will wake up to his reponsibilities ok, but for now , keep on shouting and quarreling. Don't forget to feed him choice meats and freshly trimmed meow after every bout just to calm his nerves so he doesn't walk out.
    Be strong and soldier on.
    They will soon come here to call you names, like Mumu, desperado, etc , don't mind them. Do you know what they are passing through in their own relationships.
    My dear, he is only testing to see if you are a wife material and so far so good, you are winning. The only place you are getting it wrong is this constant disturbance for him to get something doing... Please you need to stop that, it may not be his destiny to work and maybe that's why you guys met. So that you can hustle hard and care for him. Please bear it with dignity and lengthen your strides. He sounds like a man that's used to good things, please hustle well and care for him or else you might loose him to a more serious person. Babes are not smiling. Goodluck.

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    2. Sarcasm raised to power infinity🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    3. ARE YOU FOR REAL?????

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    4. Sarcasm πŸ˜‚

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    5. Best comment!
      You got it! 100%.

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  96. jeez!!!
    what did I just read
    I'm lost for words, this is emotional abuse.
    GET OUT FROM THAT SITUATIONSHIP NOW!!!


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  97. I pray God delivers you from the spirit of desperation and mumuism, then after the deliverance you need serious orientation about picking up your self esteem.
    Abi na fine Boy you go chop???

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  98. Stay there till he kills you one night and empties your account, Dont worry when he puts sniper in your food your heart will not be a problem cos it will stop beating. oniranu, big time mofo. your self esteem is in the gutter, mumu button indeed. I guy cant do half the things you have done for this guy for a girl they love. Poster I need money o, let me send my sob story to Stella. please give the money to Stella to send to me.

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  99. Jesus this can't be real. I need to flog sense into ur empty brain. Maybe his jazz is working on u well. Mtschewww...

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  100. Aunty what did I just readI hope this not true? how can you allow him to be staying with you? Is there no other men out side? Or you have lost all your self esteem . Please let him go today there way better men outside. So Na his fine face put you in this position? Bed game is zero. You need to stand up and make quick decisions.

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  101. This is so disgusting.How can one's self esteem be this battered.Nobody should advice you because you're brainless and want to desperately marry.Oponu your eyes go soon clear.Pig and piglet....

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  102. This is so disgusting.How can one's self esteem be this battered.Nobody should advice you because you're brainless and want to desperately marry.Oponu your eyes go soon clear.Pig and piglet....

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  103. Poster, whoever do you this thing, it shall not be well with them.

    God pls deliver this poster from whatever spell they have placed on her.

    Open her eyes o lord.
    The guy doesn't do any thing for her,
    The guy don't know how to break bed,
    The guy turns His poop to Hollywood film for her to watch,
    The guy has turned her toilet to maggot breeding ground,

    Oh lord deliver thy daughter,
    Oh lord return her senses from whatever claypot they locked it.

    Bvs can we go to her house n beat sense into her?

    Update us...

    *wipes tears*

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  104. Let me ask you a question pls.
    If this man ask you to marry him. What will be your answer?

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  105. Receive sense. You are not a Disable.

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  106. Poster, I have nothing more to add.
    BVs have said it all.

    BWT,so you actually were looking forward to meeting his family with all the attitude and emptiness? For what nau???
    You really freak me out. Why are women do blind and stupidly desparate for this thing called Marriage? You are even blocking the chances of better men coming to you.
    You need to reset your brain. I think you are not OK. Lack of self esteem and inferiority complex is written all over you.

    I will not be surprised if you still hang out with this stupid gigolo after all what BVs said here

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  107. aunty is dating a selfish lazy greedy useless mentally unstable man, who will end up driving her MAD... aunty's village people are definitely still on her matter, if not, aunty won't be asking how to dislodge a leech, unless aunty is also suffering from a form of mental disorder...

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  108. I have never commented here byt i had to.POSTER YOU ARE A BIG FOOL. BIGGEST FOOL ON EARTH. dont even want ti belive this story is true. get your shit together

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  109. I lack words.... This is where the urine and salt solution comes in.

    On a serious note. ..Poster pray to God to deliver you from this bondage.

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  110. Can you send that man out of your life right away? Please when you done sending him off, work on yourself and stop spending your money on a man that cant reciprocate.
    This is disgusting.

    SEHD HIM OFF AND OUT OF YOUR LIFE.

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  111. I have never commented here byt i had to.POSTER YOU ARE A BIG FOOL. BIGGEST FOOL ON EARTH. dont even want ti belive this story is true. get your shit together

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  112. My dear, I am more worried for you.
    Pls answer me honestly:
    How old are you? In your late 40s or 50s?
    Did u at anytime receive the award of the most ugly girl in d universe?
    Are you disabled? (Pls no insult meant to those with disabilities)
    Are you a divorcee?
    A baby mama or what?
    You mean after the hotel incidence you continued and even made him your live in lover? What a wawu.
    Girl, your desperation is on another level.
    Your self confidence is minus zero.
    Your self worth/value is zero too.
    It has nothing to do with mumu button but high level of stupidity.
    Get a grip over yourself and kick him OUT asap.
    Change your no if need be.
    And for your info, that guy is married and has no intent even in the next life to settle down with you.
    Wise up.

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  113. You need deliverance from that bondage you call relationship.

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  114. Hmmmmm this is sad.please end the relationship.my own ish is that there is popular radio journalist in nigeria that is still single we are friends on facebook.one day we chatted online and he requested for my nudes i refused i was shocked this is someone that will preach well on good values on radio.i still renain friends with him i did not block him.so last month he chatted me up that he will like to meet me up physically i said no problem but let it be in an open place like an eatery he refused that i must come to his house i insisted no way.he said he does not have money for food at the restaurant so i asked him did i tell you i am hungry besides must we eat.we can take a bottle of softdrink.he said no i must come to his house that he will cook for me at his house.remember he has asked for my nudes before iam scared he might rape me seems he has a hidden agenda like soulja boy did to blac chyna.for now, i have not been replying his chats.why tell me he is a poor man when i did not even ask him for anything.many questions on my head.

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  115. Poster please pee in a bowl, add salt to it and use it to wash your face maybe the juju he used on you will expire.
    How can you be taking that shit from a man? I suggest you wake up at 12am everyday praying and asking God to reveal who did this to you so you can beg the person.
    So after the whole visit to you you couldn't just let the relationship die a natural death you still foolishly got him a job in your organization so he can be come and live with you?
    Jejely respect yourself, change your contacts, block him on all your social media, tell him that your parents are coming over for some time that he should go back to his base then change your locks or better still get another apartment.

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  116. My sister please I beg you let go of this man and situationship. You deserve better and will get better only if you leave him and move on

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  117. Poster if I were you, I would not have date him up to this point. Abeg JAAPA NOW

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  118. Poster, are you sure that you are alright? I almost died of laughter while

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  119. I AM SOOOO ANGRY!!! YOU ARE MAD!! What is wrong with you??? Even if you have no sense go and borrow some. He leaves your life today. Throw the bastard out. Why are you letting him exploit you like this?? Do you not have relatives, parents or friends?? What more can he do to you to let you know he has zero regard for you. Things you are not doing for God, your parents or siblings you are doing for a man who is a parasite, vulture and a leech. Ah, you are a FOOL!!! I hope my insults resets your brain. I want you to become so angry that you throw him out instantly. Mcheeeeeeeew

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  120. Poster, loafers like him are dangerous. If you live in a rented place, move out without telling him, start life afresh. You can tell him you have left your place of work so that he doesn't look for you there. Steal his family's contacts, just in case he threatens you, involve the police and let them threaten him with his family;guys like that could go violent when their meal ticket wants out.

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  121. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere24 February 2019 at 16:58

    Poster, you need to kick that asshole to the curb! If you marry him, you will live a life of regret. This is the worst chronicle I have read so far. Is it that you feel time is no longer on your side and you have to settle for this bullshit. I hope he has not jazzed you because it happens o, you will think it is love and you will not have the willpower to leave. Gosh! Do you have a mother? She has work to do o!

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  122. Jeeeesu mi ooo.. what did I just read? Poster, are you sure that you are alright? I almost died of laughter while readying this. You better rest your brain and send that idiot out of your house and your life for good. This is disgusting. Which family member do u want to meet? There is nothing good about that man at all.
    Please tell him that your mother his coming to visit you, so he should give you sometime. Immediately he leaves, text him never to return n then block him.

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  123. Please run fast....take it from me you don't want spend the rest of your life this way.(that's if he has that intention with you) you are better off alone than with this man child. Save yourself the hassles .kick him out,get on your knees and pray for your own man. Hoping you make the right decisions .I won't be separated @35yrs if I saw half of what you have experienced before marriage .Poster pls stay woke

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  124. My dear, I am more worried for you.
    Pls answer me honestly:
    How old are you? In your late 40s or 50s?
    Did u at anytime receive the award of the most ugly girl in d universe?
    Are you disabled? (Pls no insult meant to those with disabilities)
    Are you a divorcee?
    A baby mama or what?
    You mean after the hotel incidence you continued and even made him your live in lover? What a wawu.
    Girl, your desperation is on another level.
    Your self confidence is minus zero.
    Your self worth/value is zero too.
    It has nothing to do with mumu button but high level of stupidity.
    Get a grip over yourself and kick him OUT asap.
    Change your no if need be.
    And for your info, that guy is married and has no intent even in the next life to settle down with you.
    Wise up.

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  125. Prayer point:
    My father, my father, may my brain not be like popcorn.
    My I not be a mumu in love.
    May no man/woman use my heart to play nairabet.
    My I be sharp in any relationship I find myself.
    Dear LORD, may I be as wise as the serpent.
    Give me the spirit of discernment to walk away when I want to be turned to an ATM machine.
    Thank you sweet Jesus.

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  126. Are you sure you don't need deliverance ni. After reading SDK daily....you are still this sick.. Wow

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  127. Are you this desperate to be called a Mrs??? Yuck.

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  128. Poster, instead of you to leave that "situationship" you're still waiting for him to introduce you to his parents and siblings?😱 Are you for real?πŸ˜•

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  129. You are a very stupid and mumu lady, your mother Theresa spirit will not allow you o delete him or send him packing out of your house? Where do you have such heart from?

    Nne, that foolish guy is using your head to enjoy his life, soon he will be forming husband ontop your property. He is lazy, dirty, shameless, fat lair, arrogant and he want to use you and dump you. Send him packing before he runs you to zero. Who fine boy epp? Na fine boy you go chop? If you don’t know what to do with your money I advise you send it to your parents or sow seed in the life of motherless babes. Why will you be feeding a grown up man? If you continue and belle finally enter that is how you will be feeding him, paying bills and taking care of your children. You better respect yourself and stop this your mumu character. See the way I am here feeling bad, as if I should slap you.

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