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Wednesday, March 13, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...







 STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BORING HUSBAND



Greetings Stella. Please I need advise.

Call me Lucy. March 22nd will make it a decade that I have been married, I have a daughter who will be 10 in December.
My marriage is that kind of marriage that is just there. Hubby is the quiet type, we can go one week without having a conversation, all we do is prepare quietly in the morning for work and school.

In the evening, I am always asleep before he comes back obviously not straight from work( I have talked, begged and fought for that to change and gave up). Don’t get me wrong, he tries his best to provide for us, I drive a good car and I don’t lack. 


S#x is any other story, we can go 4 months and more without having it. He doesn’t have any desire to have another child and whenever I complain he says and I quote “a lot of people out there don’t even have one, you should be grateful”. He has always been the quiet type from the every beginning but it got worst and I just got tied of complaining so stopped.

I met someone two years ago. He is the opposite of hubby and you can imagine how fast I fell in love with him.

Initially, I just wanted to have fun until he gets married but now I want to be that lady he takes in as a wife. The feeling is mutual, he suggested we elope yesterday with my daughter of course, told him I will think about it.

For the first time in 7 years Hubby came home early yesterday with drinks and suya, sat with us and wanted to have a conversation about politics and election.

Now I am confused, I love my side Bobo very much and I will love to spend the remaining part of my life with him but I looked at hubby yesterday and I feel for him, I am not only leaving him, I am also thinking of taking his daughter.

My fear is, if I stay, will things change? If I leave without my daughter, he can take care of her yes! but what about the new lady that will come in, how will she treat her?

Please go easy with the insult, you will never know how it feels until you wear the shoes.



*I dont get it,you knew he was boring when you married him and now you are complaining and even added another man to the story........You think the one you want to run away with will be better?
You are also part of the problem you complain of,,if there is nothing to talk about,why dont you initiate the conversation you seek?
You want to leave your daughter behind because of what?
Abeg abeg do whatever you want and maybe in this process you will learn one or two lessons....

220 comments:

  1. Na wah o. What a chronicle. 10 years and now your brain is booting. madam you just wanna elope with your side boo. nothing more. I'm sure you've been with side bobo for a very long time. Your biz tho

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    1. Yaba left escapee13 March 2019 at 16:01

      Dont mind her, 10yrs shes been married with a daughter, she still found a way to "Stella" someones fiance!

      Deprived a single woman of the chance to get married.
      Deprived her daughter of growing up with her father.
      Deprived her husband of a wife & his daughter.
      Deprived society of trusting women... all bcus of prick, i see why yesterdays chronicle guy has trust issues! Women are scum!!!

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    2. Madam no matter wat we say ull still elope with ur lover which is good so u can learn the d hard way. But please leave that little girl with her father. A man who can sleep with someone's wife can also molest a 10yr child. No conscience.

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    3. Madam stop acting like a teenager in love for the first time.
      Divorce that man properly and get custody

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    4. Exactly!
      She's just looking for an excuse to elope with her new Bobo.

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    5. Exactly!
      She's just looking for an excuse to elope with her new Bobo.

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    6. People will not understand until they are the ones wearing the shoes. I completely understand this woman 'cos my husband is almost like hers. We have been married for 5yrs with a daughter, I am currently looking for a side boo as we have gone 8months without sex and I can't take it anymore.
      Madam, my advice is TAKE YOUR DAUGHTER WITH YOU!!!
      I personally will not go anywhere without mine!

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    7. Funny, you share same wedding anniversary as me and I have a 10 year old daughter as well. Hey, if you begin to see reasons to elope, you will find plenty. The 'fault' that you see in your husband may be what another woman is looking for. Why don't you begin to look for the things that you like in your husband and to focus on them. Is the other guy really worth throwing away 10 years away? If he can date you, a married woman, then he's not a man of principle, in my opinion. What that means is that he will also cheat on you years down the line. Is this new guy really worth leaving your daughter? My dear sister, think long and hard on these things. What were the things that you did together during courtship? Try and start all over with your husband if you can to make your marriage enjoyable again. Goodluck

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    8. This is so me. Mine is just that side boo is married too. Anyway, its hard decision, but the sane thing to do is to divorce first. Stay on your own for a bit.

      Everybody warns that you dont leave someone for someone else because the new person will not trust you, say it wont work. I can take the risk though, if my side bobo wasnt married.

      One advice, dont let hubby ever know you are leaving for someone else, or it will get nasty.

      Funny he is changing now, he don see say u no send again. Men! They are just crappy.

      As for me, i will continue having my side attraction and keep hubby at home. Men do the same all the time.

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    9. My dear, our marriages are very similar. I've been married for 10 years with a daughter that will soon turn 10. I have been ttc'ing for 9years and my husband has the same reply whenever I bring up the the subject of having 1 child. Your husband also has very similar characteristics with your husband but, you know what? I love my husband laidat. I can't do that to him. If the marriage is getting too predictable and boring, add the maggi and salt to spice it up. What you said is no excuse to cheat. Or did you come here for validation? Any man that is OK with scattering your home is not worth it and will make you regret when he shows his true colours. Communicate more with your husband. And get yourself busy because you are definitely too idle if you have time to spend with a side boo.

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    10. When my marriage turned 7years about 6years ago, i felt like the life i was living with my husband wasnt what i envisaged. Like you i got a side boo and later a second and when i met the third i knew it was time to leave. Took my babies and i left and third boo was soo happy to take us in. Today all i see and know is i should have stayed where my grass was dried and watered it to make it greener. Dear poster, the grass is never greener on the other side so water your side so that the grass can be greener. I still wont go back to former hubby because he was and still is not a responsible father to the children but character wise, i enter one chance. Only decision i have made is, i wont go looking for a green grass any more but will make this grass green or die trying. Somethings come with age and truth is 40years came with the experience of not being a ho

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    11. Have a conversation with your hubby. Dissolve your marriage legally so you don't need to elope and you don't have to kidnap your daughter.

      A man can take another Man's wife but not his child. He will hunt you guys down if he has the means.

      My advice, keep things simple and legal.

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    12. Madam! Please do what makes you happy.if I didn't know better I would have thrown a stone at you but guess what? I DO. I am one of those women who would frown at infidelity and feel disgusted until it hit me.I have been married for 8years and believe me sister when I tell you I know how you feel.I have been the most patient wife'dealing with a man who is over boring'stuck on his phone and TV on weekends and will never call or chat you up during work hours.gets angry at the slightest thing'will tell you he can't play romance because "the kids are watching" the sex part? Hahaha hahaha I laugh in Japanese! I have called him aside to talk about these things but sisters "it's like Oga cannot change oh.sometimes konji will hook me and you will see him snoring.I tried and tried and tried told him he's pushing me outside.I would do the calling'giving him attention'do the romance thing until I GAVE UP! I'm currently cheating!!!!!! It's still like a dream to me oh.I'm the happiest woman you can think of right now and no! We are not having sex...yet.and you know how this thing works? As soon as you start cheating,your husband sees this glow in you and starts acting right! It's like they know! this new man gives me happiness'attention'love'care I can go on and on and I don't regret cheating.curse me if you want to but that won't change anything.the most important thing is I AM HAPPY!

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  2. U are a confused soul,why did u not marry a crazy guy like u, u knew he was quiet yet u married him, madam plz elope with ur side boo and leave ur daughter with her father, before your useless boy friend will molest her, ekwensu.

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    1. kwuo eziokwu!!!!

      so you be Igbo.
      ekwunwekwana

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    2. Everyone knows ekwensu to be satan, and Ole to be thief... stop looking for BVs related to your tribe, see how excited you are already like youve found gold, mtcheeeew Onitsha market trader.

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    3. Everyone knows ekwensu to be satan, and Ole to be thief... stop looking for BVs related to your tribe, see how excited you are already like youve found gold, mtcheeeew Onitsha market trader.

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    4. Women sef, so because of suya and drink, you now want to stay πŸ˜‚ Follow that Bobo if you desire happiness

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    5. Na Igbos full this blog nah. That's why there's life in this blog. If all the Igbos here should stop commenting, the blog will die

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    6. Angelray na aja eze.....

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    7. Ose minister of Census for Sdk blog @anonymous 16.34

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    8. Igbo keenly.ilk I always say.No No can give you the right way to luv your life.You alone knows how the marriage is to you so think well and make a decision

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    9. Anon16:37
      You are very wrong, so many tribes re here, I ve like 10Northern frds here, So the blog won't die down if y'all Igbos stop commenting πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•

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  3. OMG just watched the video of that collapsed school building that killed more than 100kids, 😒 God why, things like this makes me question God, what a big lost, RIP to those innocent kids, can't really tell the pains the parents are passing through right now.
    God I just have one question for you, why don't the building collapsed during one week holidays for election when the kids are home? my heart is broken right now, my day is so messed up, Stella I know I posted in the wrong post but please enable

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    1. Innocent children, and you'all believe you're serving a merciful God, ok o...

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    2. Like seriously. Why didn't it even collapse early in the morning when the kids were not yet there?

      Just imagine a couple that have all their kids in the school...
      My day has been messed up!

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  5. The grass ain't always greener..
    think deep.

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  6. Can you imagine?...poster see they way you are garnishing and spicing up ur adultery story.saying it as if its nothing.woman,you are a disgrace

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    1. This is just the name I was looking for; ADULTERY!

      Poster weldone

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  7. Madam, the grass is not always greener at the other side!!!
    Work it out with your husband!
    Tell him what you have been lacking from him:the intimacy, communication, family time, etc and see if he will adjust.

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  8. Hubby has sensed the glow in you and suddenly wants to change, madam wipe your phone history - do a factory reset so that if oga is bugging your phone, you will be safe
    That ur oga's change of attitude is temporal

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    1. can i add that when you dump your hubby, your side boo shall also dump you.....its just the rules of the game.

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    2. Minister of cheating affairs, and ur advice is????

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    3. That she won't be the last woman in Sugar boys love life

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  9. Poster you are a long throat woman. You just want something good without working for it.
    How come he's now boring to you whereas he has always been a quiet guy from start? How come you both are young & you can't reignite the fire between both of you? But your only solution is to jump on the next available dick.. .. The same way the relationship with your husband collapsed that is the way this new one will, better make the right decision now before you regret your life... It's obvious you married your husband out of desperation so you could take the Mrs Title.. ..
    Seems majority of marriages in this naija is just some mistake!

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    1. Madam for the fact that this side boo knows you are cheating on your husband with him, he would dump u and cheat on you much later cos he is even thinking what kind of married woman would sleep with another man outside her marriage.. do not trust him.. y is he sleeping with a married woman? See u see regrets... when I separated from my partner , we both met other people but I didn’t tell him I slept with anyone but I knew he did , so when we came back till date he thinks I didn’t sleepwntih anyone else , once a man knows u have someone else he would cheat , this guy won’t take u serious I swear , he would think that u would cheat on him when u are no longer happybin d relationship.. this is a foolish risk to take, talk to ur husband nd work on your marriage

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  10. women too fragile..most ladies dont know what they want..no wonder it was easier for the devil the serpent to convince and confuse eve.you are married and yes you fell in love with another man..not bad but you thinking of running away with him makes you stupid.you think that man you intend running away with is foolish? guy man don see you finish.he just wants to fuck you and abandon you in a way that you arw going to lost everything.use your head.

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  11. Madam come out straight and say you want to cheat,p you just want encouragement. Here it is, please divorce the man in peace and do your do, what nonsense.
    you can go 4 months without 'the do' but it didn't take you 4 months to be doing it with side horse.
    You are part of the problem , stop pointing finger.

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    1. Shes been cheating na

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    2. Shes already cheating. She wants to elope with d lover but confused whether or not to go with d daughter. Shes not asking us if she should cont with her lover or not.

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  12. Will come back to read comment. Very stupid woman you are poster.

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  13. Ashewo wife, you're comfortable but looking for uncomfortability outside your home.
    You want to elope with your boyfriend, make sure you leave his daughter for him.

    You think your boyfriend love you until you move in with him that's when you know what you both shade is lust..

    Your regret is waiting for you in full package. Hoeloshi somebody..

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    1. Na your territory be this o don wonderful opportunity to curse women

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    2. I trust u..u go finish her with insult πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€

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  14. Yaba left escapee13 March 2019 at 15:14

    Love is "shacking" you abi?
    Do you have sense at all? You're seriously considering eloping with another man, and your daughter, skating into the sunset, bomb must be ticking in your head. If you succeed in this endeavor, how long do you think you'd be happily bonded in your "remote sand beach island"?? How long before your daughter realizes how much her mothers happiness comes before hers, you'd steal alot from that 10yr old.
    It'd be better you get a divorce if you're miserable in your marriage & move on.... do things the right way!

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    1. Shameless woman choosing outside prick over her daughter, tueh.
      Then when she grows up you'd come & expect her to love you.
      Travel out with your side boo and see how long it'd last.

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    2. Shatap! Her Happiness, mental and emotional stability is what matters, which will also spill over to her daughter. Na she wear the shoe, na she know where e dey pinch am. If she will find comfort with the side guy so be it. And I bet you the husband won't fret

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    3. This is the most sensible comment so far. its amazing how we are quick to bash people without reading in between the lines. you will never understand how a woman can suffer when her marriage isnt her happy place. speaking from experience. dear poster, i am going through the exact same thing. just that i dont have a child yet and ive been married for 4 years.i would love to talk to you if you want. we can have a conversation and im sure we can always arrive at a decision geared towards your happiness. i am not a counselor though. do have a lovely day.

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    4. Dont mind these idiots talking. You never jam depression caused by unhappy marriage. Judginas ode, you dont know where it pinches till it happens to you. Y'all can continue to dwell in sadness. Poster abeg dont let the insult get to you, i totally feel your pains, nothing like butterflies in your tommy when you thought your love lofe have ended, then bam!!! Glow glow glow with the new love, happiness from above. You cant understand abeg

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    5. Anon 1728 pls I need someone to talk to as well. I'm going thru something similar.

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    6. @Yabaleft
      Abeg call am LUST na, e hard?
      Una no even sabi wetin love be at all at all.

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    7. Ok, will send Stella my number to give to you, or send her yours to email me and I will contact you. Thanks

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  15. Please and please, don't leave your marriage cause you might not be able to reclaim it by the time your eyes will be clear.

    Its not usually greener at the other side like we think.

    I wish you all the best.

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  16. Madam please get out.

    I don't have anything to tell u, obviously ur side bobk has made u see ur husband as a bore, maybe he's getting it from a hot chic outside.

    Abeg both of u should swerve.

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  17. Poster have you actually sat with your husband and had a heart to heart about this. Why don't you try that first.
    Then don't leave everything to your husband. Weekends can't you plan things. There is money. You can plan lunches at restaurants after church,beach on Sat,go to a bar together Fri night. You must not leave everything to him. Do movie night's at home,Netflix,make popcorn etc.
    Then most importantly. You need to have friends. I'm always some1 who has always valued friendships. So my existent and fun isn't based on my marriage and child. It's good to socialize with others. Take your kids on outings togethers,go to weddings,bdays. I believe in having a social life out of a marriage. If you have all this. Along with your job. You won't remember boredom.
    This affair you are having may back fire. You are still at honeymoon stage. When reality sets in and financial comfort you enjoyed from your hubby is no longer there that is when you will start seeing the inadequacies of this man. Is he really ready to be a steo father? Will his family accept You and your child?
    You havnt talked of your husband maltreating you or being irresponsible in the home. So there is still hope. Good luck and think well .

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    1. All this long epistle when she stated that she has BEGGED her husband to change. You people blame women for their husbands cheating: if she doesn’t cook, isn’t fun, doesn’t lose weight etc. Now you see the other side because roles have reserved.

      Although adultery is never the answer

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    2. Poster, take this advice. God bless you Beds and Roses

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  18. Ashewo woman. Stupid owoman. After 10 years it is now you see him as boring. I am sure you have noticed he has klegs, coconut head etc.

    Oya go and marry side boo and let oga continue with his boring life.

    Women.

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    1. I think poster has already made up her mind... She just needs more support to leave her marriage. But please consider your daughter and how this whole ish will affect her, better you get a divorce than eloping madam

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    2. Shut your trap. Ode

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    3. Anon 17:58 welcome poster, lemme add mine. ..you re a useless cheat looking for an excuse to leave your husband. You've been cheating on your husband and now you want to finally leave him for a fuck boy who will end up dumping your ass for a younger chic very soon
      You need resetting slap on the two sides of your face plus correct konk on your head...you better end things with that fuckboy and look for how to spice up your relationship with your husband. .asewo kobo kobo like you.😠😠😠😠

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  19. Poster a bird in hand worth thousand in the bush. Communicate with him more, take him out, love him more and show him more care. Run away from your side boo. Any man that will open his eyes and sleep with a married woman is not worth it. Good luck. Cheers. @Blessed Princess

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  20. Madam watever you do, pls take our daughter along.
    Take your child along to anyplace , any town, any city, any man or woman house you are going, in short do not leave her behind.

    Back to your gist, well have you sat him down to ask if you erred him to warrant such punishment for yrsssssssss.
    inshort there is no love in your home, you need to know the root so as to tackle it.

    how can you go for months without communication and you are living together , that's not a home , you are both tenant camped under a roof.

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    1. You and the poster are mad!!

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    2. You and the poster are mad!!!
      Shebi if the man is your brother you'd advice his wife to run away with his daughter abi? You dont have sense.

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    3. Who's this distinguished fool?

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    4. Ever Bubbling, your head dey dia. They are just enduring themselves na roommates dem be. Live your life and be happy poster.

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    5. annon 15;49 and 15;50 with Don are all mad, even you dont have sense anyways i cant exchange words with pple who read and understand with their anus.

      cant you read in between the lines that the poster is fed up and wants to leave, whatever you all type or say, she will go.

      besides didn't you read where i said she shud have a heart to heart talk with the man and try to live as couple again instead of being strangers.

      all of you spewing rubbish should shud pack for one side..

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    6. ever bubbling, your comment speaks so much wisdom. God bless you for that

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  21. You’ve talked and prayed for change, now the change is here but you are inlove with another.
    The day he came home with suya to have a conversation with you, why not ask him why he has not been having conversations with you all the while? I understand that its so frustrating to have a partner who wouldnt sleep with you or talk to you. And to top it all comes home late all day. I can feel your pain. But having extra-marital affairs? Is that the best consolation?
    You can have a lengthy conversation with him if he is still interested in the marriage. He should let you know where his heart is. If he is ready to change, lucky you. But the new catch, how reasonable is a man who is sleeping with a woman who is still married to her husband? Not rly reasonable in my opinion. So please if your husband is ready to change, stay with him. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

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    1. *sigh of relief *
      I'd patiently scrolled down to find a reasonable comment. Thank you sister Jane.
      All of you cussing out the poster did you read where she said she had talked with the hubby and even begged but no change? He comes home late every day. Y'all always scream DV, isn't that emotional wreck?
      The hubby's behavior made her unhappy and she found someone who made her happy (I ain't siding her cheating ass though) and you all come screaming down.
      Poster it's simple, since your hubby's sense is back now, re-introduce the talk again. Make him realise that you cherish companionship and intimacy and that he's not giving up those at all . Your child is older. Plan a weekend together even if it's inside your house and send your child to spend the weekend with a relative.
      Tell him you love him and will want to invent new stuff to spice up the marriage.
      Forget about that side boo for now.

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  22. Men it's like dome of them have a sensor that let's them know when you've finally had enough. All of a sudden they start acting right. When you stay, they change again
    I'm a big believer in love and that you only live once so I can't tell you not to follow happiness especially after trying hard with your man. Don't stay cause you feel bad for him. That's not love. But really think about it. If you're not ready to leave, then give yourself more time yo consider. Also consider that side boo has been cheating with you and sometimes what they do with you, they'll do yo you

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  23. You are very irresponsible.

    You don't even love your daughter and you called yourself a mother?

    By the time that wicked boyfriend of yours is done with you, you will bite your finger in pain and regret.

    You should be ashamed of yourself, you adulterous woman.

    If you love your Life, pray to God for forgiveness, love your husband and enjoy your marriage.

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    1. shut up already

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    2. Shattap jare

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    3. Pls don't advise her,let her dance to the devil's tune.

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  24. Think about your decision carefully before you conclude. Bare it all and tell your husband how his attitude is affecting you. What if the joy you seek from your new guy doesn't last? Talk to your husband.

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  25. Madam I am begging you in the name of God, please leave your husband. Oh God, you have answered my prayers. Please give me your number, lets plan this together. Leave him and present him with divorce papers, so you both can be properly divorced. Don't worry I would not maltreat your child. I have one daughter too and I have been divorced for 3 years now. I also do not plan on having more kids. Please I would love your daughter like she is mine. The man you described as your husband is my dream man. Once you elope, them I would come in to fill the void so he doesn't feel your absence too much. He would slowly come around and we would all be fine. The only thing I ask of you is to allow him see his daughter please. You don't even need to elope, just divorce him properly and I would come in. Everybody in this life deserves to be happy me, you and your husband. I make my money so I don't intend to take bread from your daughter's mouth. She would be properly taken care off by me. You and your lover deserve the best too. Please reply my comment and reach out to Stella if you are really serious. I would also reach out to Stella to connect us. I hope it works out with you and your lover. God bless all of us. Amen.

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    1. Hahahahaha too many kolo people on this blog

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    2. This is loud.. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      You don't know what you got, till its gone.

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    3. Anon 15:18 and the church sayyyyyssssssss AMEN ! Poster over to you.. Trade by barter its a winwin situation

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    4. When i make up my mind i'd contact stella. Thank you

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    5. Lol
      Stella,your bvs are case study!
      What!!!

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    6. Awww! How touching... Everyone truly deserves happiness though...

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    7. LMAO! This poster is the type that will come back chanting "they snatched my husband" when the place wey she elope go no favour her again. If I hear say she drop her number! Give her two years with the new man, she will send another chronicle about how he is chasing skirt and "too vivacious". I pity her poor husband and daughter.

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    8. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜‰πŸ˜„πŸ˜…πŸ˜†

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    9. @ Anon 16:22, did you say give her two years? They can't last till the end of this year. That guy just wants to have a good time with her. Once he's done, he'll dump her.

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    10. Shot your shoot sis 😘😘😘😘

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    11. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚....No time to waste

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    12. Kekorobosoto uroboscali itsekirididi ijawlala😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲 abamen orishe

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  26. Please let your husband know you want to leave him because of his attitude...You can even ask for separation because most Men that sleep with another Mans wife can’t be trusted..
    Telling him may change your situation and please seek forgiveness for Adultery because it’s a Sin against God and your body

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    1. Seconded, DO NOT DO IT.
      Yes, I am shouting.

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    2. Dont do what exactly? Shes already doing things with her pussy

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  28. Don't you think hubby is trying to change to be the man you want? Give your marriage another chance, forget the new man oo..

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  29. this is how person go dey and where dem no dey go dey hungry am.

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    1. YLE, is this you? I hope say chronicle folder never carry virus o. Stellz, Beloved and Martins, abeg shey our anti-virus/spam app don expire ni?

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    2. Yaba left escapee13 March 2019 at 18:02

      Not me oh abeg, ive been taking my drugs religiously.

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    3. Yaba left escapee13 March 2019 at 18:02

      Not me oh abeg, ive been taking my drugs religiously.

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  31. you put yourself in your situtionship.....jst kuku divorce

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  32. Una see naija girls?
    Them go get husband dey look for horseband.
    Madam make you work ya marriage o. That fork boy go dump you like dustbin. You be adulterer.

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    1. ANG of laive!! Na you biko. Na your regular customer send this one. She go kukuma hear whiiiin for ya hand.

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  33. Sis, you are gonna destroy a good marriage with yo own damn hand. Chile, what's wrong with you?!

    Your man is quiet,boring, yada yada..that's your excuse for wanting to separate his daughter from him?
    Don't get me started on your extramarital affair.

    Go with your lover, you hear? we await your next epistle.

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    1. Be honest it's not a good marriage. No sex in four months.tueh

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    2. I'm being honest, Anon. Might not be Good but it ain't a bad marriage either considering all she said. She's just too lazy to work on her marriage. Girl just wanna have fun but not put in work.

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    3. Some Women are just dumb. There are millions of women who don't give a damn about sex.
      There are millions of women who will be very happy if they are able to go to bed before hubby gets home.
      There are millions of women who, would love to be well taken care of by their Men.
      There are millions of women who would love to drive nice cars and stay married to a quiet and non violent Man.
      You, madam have what millions of women are looking for. Have we not read chronicles here where Oga will not let madam sleep through the night without bothering her for sex?
      You think that guy cares about you. Just call him and pretend you have broken up with your husband. He will dump you like a tray of hot potatoes.
      You better call your hubby and tell him how you feel. You already made a great mistake by cheating. Get on your knees and ask God, for forgiveness. Repent and put your home in order. Leave that foolish man sleeping with a married woman alone. He will NEVER marry you because there will never be trust in your relationship.
      If you insist on leaving, Please, hook that poster up there with your hubby. She has promised to take care of your daughter very well. Who sex help?

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    4. Some Women are just dumb. There are millions of women who don't give a damn about sex.
      There are millions of women who will be very happy if they are able to go to bed before hubby gets home.
      There are millions of women who, would love to be well taken care of by their Men.
      There are millions of women who would love to drive nice cars and stay married to a quiet and non violent Man.
      You, madam have what millions of women are looking for. Have we not read chronicles here where Oga will not let madam sleep through the night without bothering her for sex?
      You think that guy cares about you. Just call him and pretend you have broken up with your husband. He will dump you like a tray of hot potatoes.
      You better call your hubby and tell him how you feel. You already made a great mistake by cheating. Get on your knees and ask God, for forgiveness. Repent and put your home in order. Leave that foolish man sleeping with a married woman alone. He will NEVER marry you because there will never be trust in your relationship.
      If you insist on leaving, Please, hook that poster up there with your hubby. She has promised to take care of your daughter very well. Who sex help?

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    5. Some Women are just dumb. There are millions of women who don't give a damn about sex.
      There are millions of women who will be very happy if they are able to go to bed before hubby gets home.
      There are millions of women who, would love to be well taken care of by their Men.
      There are millions of women who would love to drive nice cars and stay married to a quiet and non violent Man.
      You, madam have what millions of women are looking for. Have we not read chronicles here where Oga will not let madam sleep through the night without bothering her for sex?
      You think that guy cares about you. Just call him and pretend you have broken up with your husband. He will dump you like a tray of hot potatoes.
      You better call your hubby and tell him how you feel. You already made a great mistake by cheating. Get on your knees and ask God, for forgiveness. Repent and put your home in order. Leave that foolish man sleeping with a married woman alone. He will NEVER marry you because there will never be trust in your relationship.
      If you insist on leaving, Please, hook that poster up there with your hubby. She has promised to take care of your daughter very well. Who sex help?

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    6. Poster is not some. She likes sex so she can leave and he can find those women.

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    7. SHut up please! Wants are different and what makes people happy are different. My colleagues love cakes and cake make her happy but I can't stand cakes. Must what makes other women happy make her happy? ndi ara try and walk in her shoes and come back and tell us this. Anu mpama

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  34. Poster don't try this rubbish your daughter will never forgive you..think about this your side fling wife she deserve to enjoy her marriage just like you did for a decade ...my dear be patience this man you want to elope with might be worse than your husband ;you know how you dey steal dey e dey sweet o than to live together and come o if he loves you too much why did he got married? Be very careful before you leave fry pan to fire ...that car you drive I no even see am ...that good life you are enjoying am still praying for it in my marriage and you want to throw everything away just like that and even leave your female child behind ?what will you advise your daughter of she was in your shoe....please cut this rubbish off and face your home

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  35. Poster don't try this rubbish your daughter will never forgive you..think about this your side fling wife she deserve to enjoy her marriage just like you did for a decade ...my dear be patience this man you want to elope with might be worse than your husband ;you know how you dey steal dey e dey sweet o than to live together and come o if he loves you too much why did he got married? Be very careful before you leave fry pan to fire ...that car you drive I no even see am ...that good life you are enjoying am still praying for it in my marriage and you want to throw everything away just like that and even leave your female child behind ?what will you advise your daughter of she was in your shoe....please cut this rubbish off and face your home

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  36. He hardly has sex with you but comes home late every day... Confirm he's not gay sha...

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    1. Wetin him dey do late outside every night abeg

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  37. You need 100 resetting slaps. Please manage your marriage like that. Try and have more kids so that your house will always be noisy and you'll be so busy taking care of them that you'll forget your hubby's boring nature. See, I've realised that most marriages become like that with time. Even if you elope with your new spark, you'll find out soon enough that boredom creeps into every marriage with time. So find other things to keep you busy and get the thought of eloping out of your mind.

    This is one thing young ladies need to realise when they're being rushed into marriage. Marriage doesn't cure loneliness. So take your time to find the right person you click with. Many married women complain of loneliness and boredom too.

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    1. so having more kids will make her marriage work?? zero sense in your first 3 paragraphs. YOU are what's wrong with women tearing down women.

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    2. How would she have kids when her husband is not interested, is hardly home and doesn't touch her for months. Jeez!

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  38. The grass always seem to the greener on the other side, till you go closer to it. He was quiet right from day one,not like he suddenly started it. I will advise that you try and always start up conversations with him anytime he gets back from work. Talk about your job, your colleagues, ask about his, talk about your daughter and her school work /activities. There must be something to talk about, find it! Naturally,as a couple go far into marriage,the embers get dim or even die completely after a while.It is left for the people involved to always fan the embers,so it doesn't die off completely. Please stay away from that man,you will still get tired of him eventually if you have this mindset. Don't go and break your home over a fleeting romance. Shalom!

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    1. You said my mind! Poster take this advice. It’s not greener on the other side.

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  39. Madam, what exactly do you think elopement means? You're a MARRIED woman trying to run away with another man to start playing hide and seek. Or you think as soon as you leave, you'll be divorced, marry your partner in adultery, and live happily ever after? For a woman who says she's been married for 10yrs, you're very naive. Or your village people are beating the drums of your destruction. May God or commonsense help you not destroy yourself, your husband, your child, and the man with whom you've chosen to disrespect your husband and your marriage.

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    1. Obviously its just pillow talk i guess. The reality is far from that. She just wants to hear what we think.

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  40. hmmmmnnn!!! this life eeehhnn.. some people really need to learn the hard way. poster, as in for real, you want to throw away 10 years marriage just because of D***K? i can't deal.
    chilling with with green tea to read comments abeg

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    1. Poster, don't do this. This new man can't be trusted and you will live to regret it.Cut off all links with the man you are committing adultery with and seek the face of God.I still believe your marriage can be saved.
      On the other hand you may choose to go ahead with your devilish plans to marry the second man.

      I pray for you that the Lord will help you so you wont take the decision that will make you weep and gnash your teeth in regret.

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  41. So you really think that a man who wants to elope with another man 's wife is a good catch eh? I pity you!

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  42. tory don land ooo, oya people come and give her mouth but small small oooo
    I will be reading comment

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  43. omo...this marriage tingy aint easy at alll....I am going through the same thing in my own marriage...though it's less than 5 years old now. I cannot blame you for what you are about to do dear....it's obvious your husband might have been burnt outside and now doesn't know who to talk to but to come back to you because all through those years he wasn't really having these convos with you, he was definitely having it outside. Some men are like that...they take what they do outside (hang with friends, colleagues, lovers) more important than their home that is meant to be their NO1 responsibility to build up. But remember one thing though...although he frustrated the relationship btw the two of you, he never left you...remember that because it is important. While i do not blame you for having a side dawg that makes you happy...i will advise you not to leave your marriage....play along with your husband...sebi now it's politics he wants to talk about...talk politics back..etc. Because...you do not know this your side boo very well until you marry him...he may be worse than your present husband...eg, he may be a jealous one, or a wife beater, or pedophile...all those kind of things you never experienced in your 10 years of being with your husband. So...my dear...just sit down, think about it...pray too..don't think God won't listen even though you've committed adultery...WE ARE ALL SINNERS HUN. Think about your daughter too...don't follow your own selfish interest and go marry that side boo of yours...let him be your side boo..when he is tired, he will move on...another one may come...who knows. As for your husband...he is on 'recess time'...that's why he is trying to patch up things with you...once something else catches his attention outside...he's out in his own world be that. But hey...this is the true definition of marriage....there is no 'happily ever after oo'..find other things that makes you happy but try not to leave your marriage. You can even travel out with your daughter...and just stay there while your husband sends money to you guys to take care of your needs...it helps. Good luck.

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    1. You are the only person that thought outside the box. All other people commenting are just commenting for comment sake, typical Nigerians. Poster please listen to her

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    2. This is d only sensible comment here, not those self righteous judjinas insulting d poster.
      Pls don't elope with ur side boo, u won't know his bad side till u start living with him.
      Just keep him by where he belongs, d side, to keep ur spirit alive just d same way I'm sure ur hubby has someone.
      U might even meet someone more interesting, so don't be too attached to d guy.

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    3. Good one. Poster screenshot this comment and read it everyday

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    4. Yes we are all sinners but she should keep committing adultery and still expect God to answer her prayers right. This is our problems as Nigerians, many people have no conscience. What is bad in divorcing her husband properly and move to her side boo. Most people are very selfish and that selfishness is the beginning of destruction. Poster, divorce your husband properly so that he will be free from you. At least no one forced you to remain in a loveless marriage all these years.

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    5. poster. i need to connect with you. the wisdom in your words, i need that. would love to contact you. and no, i am not the poster. just another woman going through the same thing.

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    6. Only a Nigerian will encourage adultery & prayer at the same time..... then her whatsapp group members will say "best comment ever"

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    7. Poster, have snooped to really know why stays out that late and not talk to you? Snooping will help you determine your next move.

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    8. God bless this lady. Marriage na wa. I just look at the people jumping on their wedding day, e go clear una eyes. Lol. I have an aunt who has been married almost 20 yrs, still all lovey lovey with her hubby, but thats all social media and even if its for real love, it is 1 in a million. Thats why oyinbo marry and divorce, no time to be sad for long in a marriage that isnt working out.

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    9. If you marry the right person, marriage will be one of your best achievement. My parents have been together for over 30 years and they are best friends, they tolerate each other, respect each other and are committed to being together forever. As humans we should always ask for the spirit of discernment when we are about to make life decisions of which marriage is one of them. The poster should get a divorce or seperate from her husband rather than thinking of eloping with another man. What will it take people to do the right thing in this life?

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    10. Lol@ adultery and prayer,hmmmm , Satanists disguising as Christians

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  44. Elope darling, leave his daughter with your husband and run away with your new found love. Just damn the consequences and enjoy yourself. You only live once remember?

    I'll patiently await your second chronicle to stella 6months from now, on how you made the biggest mistake of your life by ditching your marriage for a bloody mirage.

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    1. It's not always a mirage. No one knows the future. Some people find great happiness in a second marriage. What's there to lose. She's unhappy now anyway.

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  45. *Leave your daughter*

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  46. I totally understand your plight. I dated a guy like that, it has to do with their upbringing. Anyway your happiness matters

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  47. First of all you knew he was the quiet one from the onset, why complain now?. Like Stella said why not initiate the conversation?, you are sleeping with another man aside your husband and you call it fun? You want to leave your marriage and daughter for another man because he takes you out, comes home early, have conversations with you and obviously love to have kids with you?. I am sure you will regret this decision if you eventually take it. All the best. Like Stella said do whatever you like, you will definitely learn many bitter lessons.

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    1. My friends husband is the quiet type but he pretended for marriage that he can go out small and enjoy. After marriage now, he's beyond quiet. Completely not in the marriage.

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  48. People need to stop reading upside down. This is not about cheating, let's deal with the actual issue before she decided to step out. Nigerians need to read understand not read to respond. Poster try one more time with him, the chances of him changing is very low but no harm in trying for now i will suggest removing all distractions and concentrate on making things work with him if no change then make your mind up on whay you want to do because for all we know he too might be stepping out

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    1. Who's this fool? So you didn't see cheating in what you read up there? Seems you need another pairs of eyes.

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    2. Can you read to understand? Please go see your doctor if you are autistic. Did I say there is no cheating ? I said the issue is not about cheating is about him ignoring her even after she has complained and tried thereby pushing her to another man. Anyway i won't waste my unlimited data on yo was. If you need a doctor to diagnose you let me know

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    3. Thank you Anon 15.47
      It's not about cheating, her husband is not performing other duties asides giving money. I can't imagine living with someone that ignores me for days, no sex for months,doesn't want another kid. Abeg!he might just be gay or have a side chick. Maybe he bought suya to celebrate something or he knows you are planning to elope. Anyway you can try talking with him again. I'm not against you leaving, but do It the right way(divorce)without burning any bridges cos of your child. I ll still advise you not to jump into any commitment to avoid making another mistake, cos your what you have with your sideboo is not a valid relationship. Free yourself, seek your own means and happiness. Good luck

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    4. you shouldnt have replied him. some men are the definition of stupid. which he is an embodiment of.

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    5. This don is just a mad dog barking up and down.

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    6. Obviously she is dumb. Anony complained of people not readin well and you showed an example of not reading, cos you misread the comment

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  49. Stolen water is sweet. Madam please stay in your marriage and work things out with your husband dont leave your husband for your side boo because you are going to regret that decision down the line. Theres is no perfect marriage anywhere nobody has it all. Please i beg you stay in your marriage and make it work.

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  50. Poster,do not compound the situation by running away either with your daughter or not.
    Do not even think about it.
    I read very carefully to see if there is\was certain form of abuse which of course there's clearly non.

    Madame,this is who he is.
    You have succeeded in turning your marriage into a routine and a boring home. No man will want to return home from a long hectic day of work to boring,tiring home and partner.
    If your spouse is not making you feel excited,be the one to create and start one.
    Since he is either phlegmatic OR melancholic,look for what works with him.
    Now on to the other man who seemingly bring excitement into your life.Babe,that guy go fall your hand last last.
    You're very comfortable, the least you can do to yourself is to on vacation either alone or with hubby.Try and work on yourself, on him,in your relationship and marriage.

    #my kobo

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    1. @ur 2nd paragraph,how did u know she did that? Do u live with them?
      No man will want to return yen yen yen.....
      Ehn he should not return na!
      So it always has to be d woman's fault abi?
      Stupid comment.

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  51. You need Jesus ... can't believe u are willing to leave your daughter for prick

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  52. I will not castigate you my dear poster... It is only d person wearing d shoes that truly understands. The truth is no marriage is devoid of issues or its own challenges. My husband is not a wealthy man, he can hardly take care of me and d kids. I work so hard just to fill the space. We hardly talk or communicate too, only wen he wants to fu**k I get his attention after that, everyone goes their separate ways. It can be drainning most times, I cry, I feel bad but I encourage myself with my kids, come online, read blogs, say my prayers and hope for a better tomorrow. What you feel for that guy now, is lustrous. You'll probably find out wen you eventually elope with him. (pls don't) Your hubby has shown a little green light, work on it, use d opportunity to air your mind and gradually things will fall in place... Remember no marriage is a bed of roses. Focus on his good sides, he cares for you and his daughter, you drive a good car.... I still fly bike with my 2 kids, cater for more than half of their needs. And am still here holding on. If everybody were asked to tell their own stories... I bet you, you'll stay glued to yours cos another story/chronicle might be worse than yours...

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    1. Better days ahead darling.
      God bless your home.

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    2. Hiannnn. Marriage is scary, this one too follow? Olu orun saa nu wa.is it possible this issues don't affect our sanity and stability, how then do you raise normal kids in such a home without worrying that your kids in future won't reflect what they understood to be normal?

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    3. Find your happiness. If he knows you're not going to be there no matter what, then he'll change. We've given our partners a blanket slate because of this no divorce thing

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    4. You my dear is suffering. Only get attention after sex. Tufiakwa

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  53. Wow!
    You want to throw 10 years of marriage just like that? You truly need Solomon's capsule.
    At yesterday's chronicle poster, shebi I said "all women cheat" scratch that "women are scum." Forgive your boo.
    Work on your marriage with your husband. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Go down on your knees and pray. Nothing is too little to ask your maker. God is merciful and still very much in the business of changing our stories.
    #selah

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  54. You are bored?,do things that will excite you, get busier, take your Child out more, go out more, have all the fun that you want but PLEASE, do not leave your marriage, you might regret it if you do.
    Your husband may be aware of your plans, sef , hence the coming home early with suya stuff.
    It is best to have a heart-to- heart discussion with him, pour out your mind to him, let him know that you might leave him, if he doesn't change.

    How well do you trust this your new guy?? Most guys this daysaee with a married woman because of money o, hmmmn, do you trust him with your Daughter?? Well, I don't trust any man with my Daughter sha o .
    Madam, you are a selfish woman, your Child's happiness should come first and your Child will prefer her Father's house over your lover's, for your Child's security, finance, emotion, psychology, stay with your husband.

    I know that you have been really dickmatized , hence your irrational thinking BUT please, apply COMMON-SENSE. A word is enough for the wise.

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  55. Madam,this is the beginning of a bitter ending.
    For him to suggest you guys elope is a huge sign that you guys are not in your right senses.

    Do you even know if your husband feels worse than you feel, and he's trying to see what he can to make ammends. You knew from the beginning that he's a quiet man. Or did it just dawn on you that you are not ready for what you signed up for? Don't be foolish, Ma.

    This is a phase in your marriage you'll be glad you overcame if you stick to clear thinking.

    Try browsing infidelity stories, and you'll see that this is the exact pattern of extramarital affairs...(Woman meets someone seemingly opposite to her husband, who matches her fantasies and she throws her senses to the dogs till she's consumed in a huge pile of mess.) The end will bite you hard if you don't come back to your senses.

    AdaEzE

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  56. Poster,after eloping with u and see u finish.then he will jump to another married woman.what will u do?...for him to be dating a married woman,it means he is so irresponsible.remember after eloping,he will start suspecting that you are cheating on him with another man.its a circle

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  57. one man's meat is another man's posion..... Truth be told, those characteristics u mentioned there are my ideal kind of man.... I don't just like my man everywhere! Quiet and reserved does it for me..... Women can never be contented

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  58. If at all you wanna leave please don't go with your daughter...I don't trust other men around step daughter, in a years timeyear's time she's gonna start puberty....Becareful

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  59. Madam things are not always what they seem to be. You might end up regretting this your line of action. Pls think very well before you do anything.

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  60. Madam, fight for your marriage. Put into consideration your 10 years old daughter.

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  61. Marriage amplify flaws. If something is in someone during the dating period and you brush it off thinking you will be able to deal with it in marriage you better think twice. When you no longer have your own place to go to and you have to wake up every morning to that flaw you will understand why ppl up and quit marriages in the blink of an eye. If you don't like it during courtship you will definitely not like it during marriage.

    Poster, you are bored as hell, horny af, and yearning for another child. You and your husband are on different pages in the marriage. No, you cannot run off with an engaged man. It all seems so simple you take your daughter and off you go off into the sunset to live happily ever after. That man has his own flaws, he may even be a pedophile and you don't know. How will you both make money to survive, find housing and a new school for your daughter. Your husband may file for full custody of your daughter and could win especially in Nigeria, before you know it your perfect little world is crumbling before you, the man will no longer look like a saviour from your boring world but the disrupter and destroyer of everything you knew.

    Negotiate with your husband. Let him know he cannot keep depriving you he has to choose either no regular sex, or no second child but he can't deny you both, after all you are only human. Let that man know what you need. Marriage is a constant business arrangement that you will need to renegotiate the terms of as the needs of each partner and circumstances change. Come prepared with your terms and needs and negotiate. If he wants to sex you twice a year only then he has to give you a child so you have something worthwhile to distract you from his lack of intimacy. If he doesn't want another child then he has to keep you in a state of sexually satiated so you don't have time to think about what you are missing. Negotiate your terms and do not bend.

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  62. Darling, you have to know that a new man will seem more exciting than he actually is because your marriage is stuck in a rot. You are about to make another monumental mistake, the first mistake was having a side boo, as you call him. The second mistake is believing that he loves you as much as you think you love him. You are just a side dish he will keep feasting on as long as you're available.

    Oh sweetie! Don't tell me you fell for the elopement trick? You really think he means it? Awwww! "Frailty, thy name is woman", indeed. Then the most grievous mistake you are contemplating is leaving your angel with her dad and riding into the sunset with your lover! You know why I am not surprised? When your heart's on fire, they say smoke gets in your eyes. This is a strange fire and it's going to liquefy your brain matter if you don't call yourself to order.

    Sweetie, NO MAN IS WORTH LOSING YOUR CHILD!!! I don't care if his dangly bits spew out honey or if he has a minting company. That you are even considering being with him at the cost of your only child, is reason enough for you to know you are treading the wrong path. Now let's analyse this with what's left of your rational mind. Darling, do you really think a good man worth his salt will mess with a married woman? It not like you've filed for divorce. You guys have been messing around while you return to your husband. Do you really think he sees you as a wife material? You think he will be relaxed to have a wife who cheats with reckless abandon? Then you know nothing about the psychology of a man.

    The minute you leave your husband, majority of the excitement will wane on his side because the under G arrangement is what is so thrilling. A man who really wants you will insist you get a divorce before any relationship starts. I'm sure you think you are the only lady in his life. Sweetheart wake up! Wake up from this delusion and make your marriage work. You can't leave your marriage because it has hit a dry spell. If you can have sex with your "side boo", you can initiate sex with your hubby. The truth is you don't want to because you've checked out emotionally. The path you're on leads to only one destination, a town called destruction and regret.

    Ask God for forgiveness. Make sure you do a series of comprehensive medical tests for STDs before you go back to your husband. You chose him regardless of his temperament, for better or worse, no? You have to try to spice up your marriage and put an end to that illicit affair before it puts an end to everything you hold dear.

    e-hugs and kisses.

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    1. Leave matter for Matthias. The new guy has been around for two years. No one knows if husband is even wirking his way out of the marriage

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  63. Use Kayamata for him na. buy the chicken spice and cook for him to eat. i guess it works.

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  64. you started seeing his behaviour as a problem when you met another man..do whatever makes you happy but do not leave you daughter..

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  65. You are very stupid. Repeat after me and say I AM STUPID. Why cheat when you can easily divorce him? Don't worry after your toy Boy uses you lawma dustbin he will dump your smelly arse.
    Stella biko post this as I dey vex.

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  66. Poster can i say! Stage a break up and tell side boo you left hubby, lets see his reaction. Mine ran away o, told me to go back or its over btw us. My mouth open, i couldnt close. Nobody taught me to run back to hubby.

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    1. Lol!! Oya come and see ooo
      Poster you are suffering from Stolen Waters Syndrome... The only reason your lover appears so precious is cause you don't have to go home to him every day and night. It's your decision to make anyway.

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    2. wow. i should try this.

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    3. Abeg close that mouth b4 fly enter. What do you think side boo want other than occasional pussy? You think a sensible man will marry a woman that cheats on her husband?

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  67. Hey ur side bobo will use you and dump you mark my words. You don't understand what marriage is and I pray you won't want to experience your end. I'm sorry for your small sense of reasoning. Iya a je sege si e lara!

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  68. Be informed that your new BF will never trust you as a wife no matter how much you try. You will learn the truth after about 2 years with him and the truth will gradually come out. You are playing with fire.

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  69. Poster,your hubby bought suya and decided to bring up a discussion and you think he's a fool. He's no fool he knows about your side booboo and knows about your plot to leave,be guided. The devil you know is better than d angel u just met.

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  70. Na wahoo so u want to leave ur hubby cos he is on a quiet side?just because of a d***k women please make una get small brain that ur side fool will dump u and boom u are back to square one ,then ur hubby move on with other women the u will be shouting that lady destroyed my home stole my hubby , please love ur hubby that way try to go out with ur kid and have some fun

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  71. There is a saying "The lessons of life are learnt through pain".... I humbly suggest you leave that youruseless boring husband and take your daughter with you, elope with Mr. Fun time and come back in 10 years time to tell us how far.
    Good luck!

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  72. I look forward to the day we advise people and insult them.Everyone is righteous and holy when we judge others.We are all sinners,adultery,fornication,stealing,lying are all sin before God.

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    1. In the old testament, adulterers were stoned to death, and Jesus even gave a go ahead for divorce in case of adultery, that is to say some sins have bitter consequences. Read your Bible well.

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  73. I think I came late but I pray you get to read my comment.Firstly,what you feel for your side boo isn't love,please don't be deceived.When you elope with him the reality of what you really feel for him will surface.Let's leave that aside.You said your husband was quiet before you married him,I want to ask what are those qualities you saw that made you marry him despite him being quiet.Please sit down,think deeply,when you realize those qualities try to build on it and see if your marriage will not be transformed.Your husband may be everything else but from what you've told us he is one million times better than your side boo because you won't find him engage in a sexual relationship with a married woman.
    If after all we've said here you still want to go ahead,I will advise that you separate,give yourself time to think things over.Don't ever be in a rush to be with your side boo.Infact,your side boo is actually a time bomb waiting to explode.You need to be careful dear.So many women have thread this path and I'm sure you won't like their story.

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