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Saturday, March 16, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BEING FRIENDS WITH THE WIFE OF HUBBY'S BFF


Stellalistic Stella. I hail o.

 Pls i’l want this on Chronicles of Blog Visitor as I need advice from my fellow BVs. I met my husband during my first year in school but we didn’t date because we were both not mature then. 


We lost contact and reconnected again after school. He was still on my case but yet we didn’t date.we talk once in a while. Then some years later I met a girl through a mutual friend. Let me call her Meg.Then I got to know that she was getting married to My husband’s best friend (small world indeed). We were a bit close but not really friends . 


Although I liked her but I guess I wasn’t up to her class of friends. Meg and her guy finally got married.I met DH again and we decided to tie the knot. I found out during our marriage counseling class that he was not in talking terms with his best friend. I asked him and he told me that he dated Meg’s younger sister but the relationship didn’t last long. And Meg told him to stay away from her family after the breakup with her sister. So he stayed away .


DH and his friend got talking again long after our wedding. 

 He visited his friend recently and the wife still told him to stay away from her family despite the kid sister getting married and having her own family .The issue now is from Meg’s body language She wants to be friends with me. She’s called me on few occasions and we do comment on each other’s post on Facebook but can we really be friends?

Considering how lazy I am with driving :meaning DH will be the one driving us to her place anytime I want to visit .How can she want my friendship but doesn’t want my husband close. Although I also like her but I won’t be comfortable knowing that she has not forgiven my husband for not marrying her kid sister. 


Should I call her and ask her about it so I can settle them one and for all or I should just forget about being friends with her. I just need some advise. She might be a BV and she also has a right to reply .The aim is not to ridicule her or quarrel more but I just want a solution to this . Thanks




*Your husbands are best friends?Then i dont see any reason why you cant be cordial with one another...Must you be friends?Hmmm,maybe you should have a talk and find out why she is so mad at your hubby cos he probably didnt tell you the real story....
Just find out what happened so you would know what you are getting yourself into if you wanna be friends with her....Before someone will come and use you to carry out any form of revenge on your hubby oh.....EHEN!!!

45 comments:

  1. Just follow the simple instruction written with Stella's red pen.

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    1. Madam stop being a busybody and face ur front. Was ur hubby's friend not there when the wife issued ur husband a warning to stay off her home? Was he not aware of d beef back then? What did he do about it? Nothing. So wetin mk u feel say u fit do something?

      "Meg" on her part wants ur husband to stay away from her family but she doesn't want to stay away from his family, what does that tell u?

      Dont b an instrument of destruction in ur home. Mind ur biz and as a matter of fact u self tell ur hubby to keep away from them. Friendship is not by force. Dont ask her nothing. If ur hubby is not telling the truth, one day it will play out.

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    2. 👌👌👌

      poster, did you hear @Tessbaby's advice loud and clear?

      Now, that's the best advice you need now.

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      poster, did you hear @Tessbaby's advice loud and clear?

      Now, that's the best advice you need now.

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    4. I'd honestly stay away from that Meg of I were you, friendship shouldn't be that complicated now.
      She doesn't want your husband's friendship but wants yours, No o.

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    5. I do not see why you cannot be friends, but, first, you need to hear both sides of the story

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    6. It’s common sense @ Tessbaby but the poster sadly......*scratches head*

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    7. Please don't hear any story before you hear the one that will break your home. Some things are better not said. Keep your friendship with meg on hi hi you can visit her once or twice in a year. If you want to stat married do not discuss anyhinh with her

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  2. Call her and ask her questions. Tell her if she won't welcome your husband then you can't be friends.

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  3. Forget about any form of reconciliation between them and mind your business

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    1. Poster, forget about them. Abeg, mind your business.... hmmmn!!!!

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  4. That Meg na bad news on arrival. She got a mission to accomplish. Na through you she go get her pound of flesh for ya husband bodi. By the time she finishes her mechanic work for that ya marriage eh, no screw go dey hold anything at all. The fact that she told your husband to stay away mean say she still dey boil for inside her mkpuru obi. Na scatter and destroy she dey come do. NO be Naija babe again?

    Stay away from Meg o.

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    1. Meg wants revenge, how is it possible dislike my husband: stretch a hand of friendship to me.choose your side

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  5. Poster is like that woman want to use you and treat your husband's fuck up.
    you must not be friend with her. limit that friendship to "hello hi" friendship.
    you and your husband are now one . so it's either she accept both of you or she hate both of you together.

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  6. So you were 'not up to her class of friends before". What now made you up to her class; did you upgrade?
    She is coming to kill, steal and destroy your marriage. That kind of girl is dangerous.

    You are a marked enemy for "snatching" that man from her younger sister.

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  7. Somebody like me no get time for stress and unnecessary wahala, she has told ur husband to stay clear off her home u too do same and stay in ur lane if u must greet den do it from afar.i don't buy the idea u wanting to find out whatsup cos it's actually none of ur business and whatever the case was it happened before u came bck in so jst let it be and face ur own home it's not that hard. Forget about it hubby and his friend they are men and will always find a way to hangout and catch up on old times.

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  8. Meg's husband knows his wife doesn't like his best friend. Yet they still find a way to manage the friendship among themselves .

    So Meg will restrict her husbands best friend from coming to the house??

    This is not a safe situation. It's absurd for her to hate your husband and want to be your friend.

    Is there any need finding out 'the real story' ? What if you hear something that makes you change how you see your husband,what then? What's the point of all this cold War and bad blood?



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  9. Nigerian women! Always trying to settle quarrel that existed before they arrived, to answer good wife. Madam, don't you have friends of your own? Even if your husband's best friend was married to someone else, must you be friends? Then, it's now the person you said believed you weren't up to her class of friends, the same person who's still beefing your husband after the sister has married. I think your life is too peaceful; you will soon find the trouble you're looking for.

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  11. There's more to what the eyes can see. Must u be friends with her. You can be cordial with her but friendship shouldn't be in ur dictionary. But try to ask Meg why she's beefing ur husband. I am sure ur husband story is one sided.

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  12. If this chronicle is real, then the poster is daft.

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  13. Seems like you want the friendship more..low self esteem is worrying you.

    Face your marriage, sis.

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    1. Major low self esteem. ' I guess I was not really up to her class of friends abi wetin she write up there? Na wa. Now she is dangling bone of friendship in your face while despising your husband and you are panting after her like what I don't know. By the time she is done with you and your family you will learn.

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    2. Seems like the poster is very glad to have finally been accepted you know into the so called class of friends. Imagine saying when she wants to visit, husband would be the one to drive them there. 🤦🏾‍♀️

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  14. Madam,
    Leave that friendship alone and face your front.
    You should know that she wants to bring problem between you and your hubby, which could degenerate to divorce.
    How can you even consider being friends with who obviously dosent like your hubby?

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  15. @ Poster stay on your lane..Mind your damn busines.
    On the process of settling them many facts,different version of their breakup will come up and you will be ashamed that you did,So avoid stories stay on your lane..

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  16. Poster,maybe her had a rshp with ur husband secretly and next thing was to develop interest where the younger sis dey and finding a means to deal with him he Or did he use n dump her younger sis while they were expecting him to be their in law.You must really be less busy wife for you to be seeking for friendships upandan.

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  17. Poster,maybe her had a rshp with ur husband secretly and next thing was to develop interest where the younger sis dey and finding a means to deal with him he Or did he use n dump her younger sis while they were expecting him to be their in law.You must really be less busy wife for you to be seeking for friendships upandan.

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  18. this definitely divide and conquer,what if she wants to break your marriage bcos of your husb not marrying her sis.....some pple could be crafty

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  19. She is a monitoring spirit. She is still bitter and wants to use u to know what is happening in ur home and probably plot her revenge. Im sure her sister knows about this. Just be careful u hear

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  20. Are you not bothered she wants to be your friend all of a sudden?


    How about also pretending she's not up to your standard? Though your actions clearly shows she's more


    There's no reason for both of you to be friends

    Stay clear and watch things unfold.

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  21. Honey, can't you see that there's something off about her desire to befriend you, while still showing hostility and animosity towards your husband? A lady with no agenda will spread some of the hostility your way because most ladies are petty like that. Haven't you seen where men are best friends but their wives can't stand each other? So when a lady who ordinarily shouldn't like you, is all of a sudden wanting your friendship, chances are she has an agenda.

    Obviously, she's still offended by whatever transpired between your husband and her sister. She might want to use you as the secret weapon to hit your hubby where it hurts most. Like William Congreve said " Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a woman scorned". Do you know the power of suggestion? That lady can feed your heart with so much crap that you will start resenting your hubby. She can sow the seed of doubt and discord in your marriage and before you know what's going on, your marriage will crash. As for wanting to be the peacemaker, darling, why not stay out of it? You don't know the genesis of the beef and your hubby doesn't seem perturbed by it, so why poke the bear?

    Dredging the past can be quite unpleasant, especially when it's the past of your spouse. He may have don't some crazy stuff back then that you really need not know about, because contrary to popular belief, most people's minds are not evolved enough to handle the truth. Are you sure you want to know every disgusting detail of what your hubby did when he was immature and reckless? Once you hear certain things, you can't unhear them and they will begin to fester.

    Don't give her the satisfaction of carrying out her revenge plan with you playing the lead role. You can be friendly but not friends with her. Why would you even want to be friends with a lady who segregates based on class? If you weren't in her league then, why would you even care that she now considers you worthy of her friendship now? A person that shallow will stoop to any level to get her pound of flesh. Please guard your home, protect your hubby, don't give anyone the audacity to speak ill of your hubby. In public my hubby is ALWAYS right and can do no wrong even when he is wrong. When we get home, behind closed doors, I painstakingly point out all the ways and in all the shades he messed up. I'm his biggest critic and his most loyal fan. A wife shields her man from external forces. Never let anyone cross that boundary, your hubby should NEVER be a topic for you and anyone to discuss. Please let her keep her friendship to herself, even if it's harmless. Err on the side of caution, honey, your marriage may depend on it.

    e-hugs and kisses.

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  22. Friendship with a person that have no regard for your hubby I great you oo

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    1. Asin. I don’t get how you want to be friends with someone who despises your husband. Do you have regards for your husband? Abeg face your front

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  23. This is what she wants to do.
    1. Gain your trust.
    2. Set you up with man: Corner you in a room and at gun point command you to strip and enjoy the act
    3. The men will play games with your body on camera (edit off the men's faces and leave yours)
    4. Spray the videos in your husband's phone and online and allow you to hurt
    5. Husband dumps you like thrash -revenge and possible VACANCY for her sister

    I know because it has happened multiple times.

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  24. Meg want yo get back at your husband through you, you can be friends with her from a distance. Friendship is not by force.

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  25. Mind your business
    Channel your energy into your daily activities


    Smile keep at legs length
    Sip water
    Face front

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  26. Anyone who does not like your blood, you shud not be close to such a person.

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