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Thursday, March 21, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
HOT SLAP

Yesterday I and my husband got into an argument and I lost hold of my temper and slapped him ,he got angry and left the house, went to work from wherever he went to and never came back home...

 I have been calling him and he hasnt been picking my calls, I am sitting here in this big lonely house all by myself with nobody to talk to....

I have made up my mind not to call him again, whatever that wants to happen should happen, I just cant wait to start working, just three months of marriage we are already fighting, I have already started having doubts in my heart that we are going to last long in this marriage.





I couldnt help bringing this in as a chronicle so that we can quickly avoid you sending in one...
Madam  what you are doing is Domestic Violence!!....If he had retaliated that slap you would run out saying he beat you right?
Stop abusing your hubby and go for help in control your temper,i have so much respect for your hubby for walking away.

you do not sound remorseful at all and i dont know what your upbringing is and if you see hitting him as OK..Madam go and get help and instead of sitting down with that i dont care attitude,go and look for ways to pacify your hubby.
STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!

174 comments:

  1. if i was his sister, i would come and help him retaliate the slap then the 2 both of us go de alright

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    1. This poster is a very stupid woman, you will scatter your marriage by yourself and then turn around and blame your husband.

      See your mouth like if anything will happen let it happen. I will twist that your sharp mouth for you, idiot.

      Thank God, your hubby is a cool one if it’s some other men, they will beat the living daylight out of your body.
      No body has the right to beat anybody be it man or woman.

      So angry at the shediot!

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    2. Thanks, Prettiest Rosie.No body has a right to slap anyone.

      Even your kids, you don't slap them. You treat them with respect,no?.Let alone a grown adult who happens to be your hubby.*sighs*

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    3. Prettiest rose you dont have to abuse her person. With this you are also displaying a nasty character. Stop being abusive pleaseee!!!

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    4. She has destroyed the marriage already, imagine the trash she wrote. bla bla nonsense!

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    5. Make una no blame the woman. Na the feminist theory dem don learn from this blog she dey act. Una go use una hands spoil una self for this blog.

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    6. Poster
      100000000 kisses to your husband is a man
      Any bv ready to break bed for poster's husband should go ahead

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    7. Anon 15:39, I did not display any nasty character, whatever I wrote there, I think she deserves and more even though I’m glad her husband was matured enough to walk away.

      If my so called abuse will reset her brain so be it, I pray she receives sense not to scatter her marriage.

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    8. I said it and am repeating it again , women turn us to monsters and label us Mosters

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    9. The Boss Lady Aka woman Of Steel, aka Iron Lady, Aka wonder woman..Iyawo slapper I hail thee...

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    10. Stella, thank you for this reply, nothing more to add

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    11. Wife behaving like girlfriend.

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  2. Just imagine! You're sending your husband into the arms of another woman. May God help you.

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    1. What do you mean by sending him into the arms of another woman? Like men are some sort of achievement??
      Well madam you better be very careful to avoid a side Chick taking your husband away. Don't mind those shouting feminism up and down, they are deceivers ooo
      Husband is the pride of every woman so be humble and don't use your own hands and scatter your home.
      BTW,husband is not an achievement.

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    2. But u are still saying d same thing ...side chick taking d husband and sending him to arms of another woman .Madam poster you have serious anger issues abeg ,why slap your husband.You’re obviously very stubborn,go down on your knees and pray for yourself .

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    3. You definitely ain't ready for marriage.

      This reminds me of my situation; I decided not to comment when Stella asked for stories about snatching a spouse or being snatched.

      My husband ran away from this kind of situation and ran into my arms. I snatched him (if you decide to call it snatching). The truth is that he ran away from an abusive, aggressive and uncouth woman. He obviously saw the signs before marriage but he assumed love will conquer all.

      His ex was very abusive – verbally and physically, not to him alone but to everybody. She would lock him outside the house, or lock him in and prevent him from going to work, destroy things in the house and hit him; varied forms of abuse and aggression. Later, he started beating her also.

      She beat his mum in one of her angry moments and that was the straw that broke the camel’s back. He wanted to kill her that morning. He would always say that he knows that either of them would be dead by now if he had stayed in that situation.

      The marriage lasted barely 1 year. We have been together for 18 years now. We have our issues, we fight; get angry, but NEVER physical

      My dear, please don’t send your man into the arms of another woman. Learn how to keep your home. Every man loves a peaceful home

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    4. Fan can you please stop confusing yourself???

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    5. @FAN
      This ya yarn contradict each other; first and last paragraphs
      You don dey confuse me these days.
      Wetin Abuja (Naija) babes don give you chop. I confuse o

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    6. @Anonyhusbandsnatcher??? 16:28
      You are only trying your best to justify your snatching another woman's husband?
      If she drove him with "last straw" why not encourage him to go back to his wife and sort things out?
      Ndi ori amu?

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    7. I am a man and would kill anybody that beats my mum. I would choose peace and respect over and over again.

      In their case, it shows there is no going back after 18 years.

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    8. He divorced her and we got married legally.

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    9. annony 16;28 see your mouth like we have our own fight I thought you were immortal that will be so perfect, so you people still quarrel, he ran to you and you pacify him with your Toto. continue madam 18 years of marriage, continue deceiving yourself.

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    10. Fan Emmanuel,did you say anything different from what i said? I too know naim go kee una type for this blog.

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    11. Go which back? Make dem kill themselves?
      Domestic violence should not be condoned abeg.

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    12. You all wanting the man to go back to abusive woman are hypocrites

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    13. @ Anonymous 17:25 Why should she encourage him to go back to an abusive relationship? This comment of yours and that one by Unknown no just make sense. @ madam Congratulations o jare! May God keep your home.

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    14. there is no marriage devoid of issues but when it gets physical pls run, the anony who "snatched" the husband wasnt wrong, if she was also violent the man will keep running till he finds his peace

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  3. If u dont want to use ur hands to destroy ur marriage then u better start looking for him to beg him..
    What u did is very wrong and thank ur stars that he did not retaliate.. Get people to beg him and dont ever do it again..
    Just 3month in marriage???

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    1. Madam the slapper, I greet you. I greet you again and even celebrate you. Tough woman, no nonsense woman, boss lady, Keep it up.

      You remind me of a friend of mine who was used to slaaping her boyfriend over the slightest provocation till the day the guy beat her to stupor,,thorough beating where she was begging cuz she took the guy's calm nature for granted.

      I can be tough, firm and all but to raise my hand and slap my husband?? what nonsense, you are so silly and violent. You had better stop forming boss lady and go and beg, I mean roll on the floor and beg and promise never to do such again. When you are angry, walk away Margaret Thatcher oniranu.

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  4. Imagine say na my brother you slap like that, him na Kuku vex machine before. Madam do all you can to apologize. Send text messages, voice note, gather people to beg because you fuck up! He will come around and make sure you put your temper in check!

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    1. She don already zero her mind from that marriage, shes not moved to sustain that marriage, ure here telling her what to do.

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    2. Ozuo!!! Masquerade don enter market!

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    3. But while she's at it, she should please drop hubby's number, I wonder how many nigerian men would endure such insult. He's such a darling, poster please get angry n leave, three months is enough, just kindly drop his contact n I will help you resolve the problem.

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  5. @poster just three months you have started losing temper. Please kindly apologize to him. He is really a gentle man by working away. Please don't break your beautiful home due to temper,learn to control yourself.

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  6. Abi I know talk am; say Naija 21st century wives don dey carry hot slaps dey slap away them marriages?
    Abi I no talk am say Naija girls dey prepare for wedding (day) and never for marriage.
    Make una discuss how married life go be during dating/courtship mbanu, na to fork on every available space; including cyber space, inside car, for on top car boot, for inside bush . . .fork,fork, fork. 3 months, them never even remove wedding gown, oga (wey suppose be on top) don dey receive hot slaps?

    Madam, you better call am beg am, text am, tell am all those sweet sweet incantations una dey chant during those forkship dating; I love you, sugar (wey no dey) for my bounvita, milo wey dry, ofe owerri bla bla bla. Oya begin! 😜
    If you no do am, na pack up you pack ya marriage so.

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Hahahaha! Oh my days!! You really are a case!!!

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    3. Loooolzzzz. You are something else I swear!!!!!!

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    4. Lol. Great sense of humor! Poster, take ur time to think about it, just like he's doing... Sometimes alil space is necessary in a healthy marriage. But U must apologize & truly mean it, he didn't deserve that.

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    5. Hahahaha������ omg

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    6. ANG and her smooth nyash.

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    7. Inside cyber space hahahaha

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  7. 21st century wife, only 3months u have raised hand, that means you guys won't last, wherever he is, may that chic soothe his pains, lol..even if he forgives u, he won't forget u slapped him first, n with your attitude, you guys won't last, but I pray u change n be a better person.

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    1. Blackey's 21st century disciple.

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  8. No one has the right to slap another person o madam. You were wrong to have done that. Arguments should not end in violence for whatever reasons. Carry yourself to his office with lunch or whatever and go and apologize. You were wrong so you must beg. The first 2 years of marriage are hard,trying to adjust to each others different ways of life. If you do not rectify this,you will make your husband become violent towards you. Don't start what you cannot finish

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    1. Take this advice and also learn to control your temper from now on.

      You too can walk away during an heated argument to avoid violence, but return home that day Sha o.

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  9. oh 21st century wife,they now slap their husbands,if the man had retaliated she would av sent in chronicles alleging domestic abuse....madam what you did was wrong and i commend ur husbands will power to had left the house without hitting you

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  10. Where are they?
    All the feminist brats will soon go and hide under the black pot. This poster is one of them. If you want to do the satanic feminist of slapping husbands, do no get into marriage. You can survive without a man, isn't it your mantra?
    Always copying the wrong things from westerners and copying out of place.
    Now, who is writing chronicles?
    Who is lonely in a big wide house?
    Ngwanu madam, impregnate yourself, born babies to fill that house and exist in your cocoon. Be both husband, daddy, mommy and wife.
    iberibe gbara uka.

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    1. What is the relationship between feminism and encouraging domestic violence? Are feminists not the ones who campaign against domestic violence?

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    2. @15:50
      You lie. Nigerian feminists are different. You can see one of them right here now.

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    3. Stop making noise.. Everyone here is berating this poster for doing what she did.
      You sounding like a broken record.

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  11. Husband beater. Continue to call him oh. You can send apologetic messages promising not to do it again. I pray he forgives you. Too bad sha. Please don't do that again.

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  12. Yaba left escapee21 March 2019 at 15:12

    He should have seen the signs of violence before marrying such a woman desperately in need of anger management.
    Oga thats how it starts, today it'd be slap then 2mr it'd something worse like spicing your meal with sniper, walk away from domestic violence & dont look back, youre only allowed to look back & thankGod for the strenght to walk away, besides kids arent there yet! With such mindset clouded in doubts, that marriage will never move smoothly, every altercation will be "I knew this marriage was a mistake"... the worae kind of partner u can marry is one without remorse or empathy! Poster, marriage is not for all... its NOT for you

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    1. I also agree that marriage is not for everyone. At least Apostle Paul did not marry.

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  13. There is a demon called "slap him" that has possessed a lot of ladies in this country.

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    1. That demon de fear face na, woman open hand slap me first! I swear that hand you wont use it to do anything for the nxt 2months, not even cleaning ur nyash, cus i'd break it

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    2. Anon 15:20..abeg leave matter.be there making mouth.ur type sef will start crying

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    3. Annon 15:20, i totally agree with you. Any woman wey first slap her hussy shud expect beating. its even wrong for man to slap not to talk of woman

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    4. Na 21st century demon......

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    5. The man that walks away from such deserves the highest level of accolade. All the wife murderers are a result of this type of provocation. Better to jump and pass. He who has ears let him hear. From breaking her hand you fit kill am....that anger go evaporate instantly but the deed would have been done. Learn to walk away

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  14. 21st century wife

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  15. Awon 21st century Wives!!!!

    BV COOKIE

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    1. MIL and Husband slappers. Infact, dem be slappers of the universe.

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  16. Ha poster you went far by slapping your husband. He did well by working away and not slapping or beating you. He probably wants to cool off or is still in shock that you raised your hands to slap him. Whatever it is pray cos things might never remain the same

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  17. Madam you get mInd sha ,see how you are pushing Your man out,,better look for him and apologise.

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  18. My dear marriage is not easy.it only works out if you both are ready to face each storm as it comes.
    First calm down.
    Yea is ok to have doubts at first but u have the power of ur mind cos if u keep up with an attitude like this it will not last...
    U will definitely be acting that way towards your home.
    Madam u are wrong to hit ur hubby.
    Calm down and apologize to him
    If you both don't put effort u will miss it.
    Stop the attitude and ego
    Apologize and talk it over with him.
    Why will u allow him to sleep outside...
    It wrong
    Pls sort things out..
    My dear for two years we quarreled constantly...
    So three months is even small compared to some people's own
    Not that I wish for continuous quarreling
    Ok.
    Pls calm down and drop the ego pls..

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    1. 3 months after wedding no be "storm" I dey see so. Wetin I see be Naija girl wey carry her hand
      break dam, say make river Niger/Benue no flow inside atlantic again but make them empty for inside her
      house.

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  19. Marriage!!!!

    Mehn!!

    It's well ooo.

    Poster that marriage is too young to be experiencing all these.

    You're jobless and abusive?

    Issoraii..

    I can see you want to join the singles club again?

    Abeg, stay pit and work on your marriage, don't come and make this more competitive than it already is.


    Go fond your hubby and prostrate in remorse.

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  20. My own be say.
    I wanted to watch big brother reunion.
    Husband man no gree.
    Was angry had to removed the wall extention and hide.
    He was angry.. I no reason am.
    I shall apologized. He no answer😌so unlike him.
    malice mood activatedπŸ˜“
    Make I say sorry again or lock up?

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    1. Say sorry first for butchering Oyinbo grammar.
      REMOVE
      APOLOGIZE

      Make you no just siddon for house dey chop dey watch big brother (fork).
      Find novels read wey fit brush up ya Oyinbo grammar.

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  21. 3 months Father Lord..

    This thing called marriage.

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    1. Na mind them de use enter oh.
      Only the strong survives.
      Na necessery devil.

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  22. The first line of Stella's caption left me in stitches πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  23. I am sure that if he was the one that slapped you , you would be spitting thunder and divorce as a woke chic but now that you are the slapper, small call wey you call, na it you dan tire already. You should continue to apologize, if he does not come home, go and look for him. And stop being abusive.

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  24. Go to his office and beg him, your husband is a gentle man.

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  25. If you really want this marriage, you had better keep your hands down.

    Just 3 months and your hands can't stay where it ought to be. Apologize to him before things gets out of hand.

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  26. Madam please beg ur hubby before one fresh Togolese girl snatch him away from you. Although we don't know the reasons for the argument but whenever you are angry walk away and give room for peace. If you know you can't respect him you shouldn't have married him. That's the problem with single ladies we think marriage is by flaunting pictures on instagram when you should have known that there's more to marriage. Beg him, pet him, sex him and ask baba God to touch his heart so that you won't end up in the single's market.

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    1. They have given him one correct doggy without condom self, she's here saying she's having doubt, when d guy has released to his satisfaction.

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    2. @Blackey,
      you see ya disciple so?
      No be only beds una dey break o.
      Una don dey break (facial) bones.
      Ara agbabago ndi ara

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  27. Poster, please pick up your phone and call your husband. Tell him to come back home. You both can resolve whatever the issue is without violence. The marriage is just 3 months and many would still be in the "honeymoon phase". You really do need to work on your temper.

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  28. You assaulted your husband and still have an attitude.

    As you lay yo bed, hunni..

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  29. Madam you are very wrong here, learn how to control your anger. Go and look for your hubby in his place of work and apologize to him.

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  30. Madam you are wicked, not even sign of remorse in you. How was your upbringing like?

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  31. The nerve of you, ma'am! And to think you aren't remorseful beats me.

    Just three months in,you already displaying a violent streak.

    I am here wondering if this man is safe with you. Because more arguments would surely abound in the nearest future. For sometimes, that's marriage ma'am....not always rosy. So am scared about your next line of action.

    Learn and try to always have healthy arguments with your spouse. Where you both attack the problem and not your significant other.

    Apologise when he returns and please i beg of you, don't do that ever again or you may not be so lucky next time.



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    1. Poster go for anger management classes. You need help for your life and not just your marriage before it is too late.

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  32. Nawa for you ooo... Please call him and apologize before it becomes too late. You might need to involve family members to settle it for you.
    Your pepper body is too much... Smh

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  33. No iota of remorse in her statement. just 3 months you've started slapping him, abeg carry your wahala go before you kill someone's son.

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    1. She has shown remorae. She is scared so she's saying whatever happens I don't care. She's realizing for the first time that her husband can stay away from her. Poster apologize. Tell your man you sef you're running away from the house toll he returns.

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  34. This how you people look for unnecessary trouble.... Madam 21st Century wives that love to slap thier husband and MIL, if you still want to remain married you better go and look for his besties to help you beg him. Yeye woman! Abuser! Husband beater!

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    1. How she wan take explain to her husband's besties that she slapped him? The thing heavy for mouth. She brought this upon herself, let her fix it by herself.

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  35. The man needs to get you arrested....what rubbish is that? You have no right to lay your hand on anybody

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  36. Stella my husband paid some huge amount of money into my account because he doesn't want to touch the money, now he's asking me to transfer part of the money to him. I refused!
    Even if you put a knife to my neck,that money will not come out. Something tells me he wants to waste it. His own slap still dey warm up,hopefully it will reset his brain. Abi the slap fit send me to father's house?

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    1. πŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜‚fan who do this thing

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    2. Fan darling if you overdo it he won't trust you to keep his money again.

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  37. You definitely ain't ready for marriage.

    This reminds me of my situation; I decided not to comment when Stella asked for stories about snatching a spouse or being snatched.

    My husband ran away from this kind of situation and ran into my arms. I snatched him (if you decide to call it snatching). The truth is that he ran away from an abusive, aggressive and uncouth woman. He obviously saw the signs before marriage but he assumed love conquers all.

    His ex was very abusive – verbally and physically, not to him alone but to everybody. She would lock him outside the house, or lock him in and prevent him from going to work, destroy things in the house and hit him; varied forms of abuse and aggression. Later, he started beating her also.
    She beat his mum in one of her angry moments and that was the straw that broke the camel’s back. He wanted to kill her that morning. He would always say that he knows that either of them would be dead by now if he had stayed in that situation.

    We have been together for 18years now. We have our issues, we fight; get angry, but NEVER physical

    My dear, please don’t send your man into the arms of another woman. Learn how to keep your home. Every man loves a peaceful home

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  38. Madam you are too harsh and hot tempered. Please work on your anger issues and your attitude . You need to reach out to your husband and seek for his forgiveness. And no matter the degree of provocation never raise your hand and slap anyone including your children. Your home should be filled with love, kindness, goodness, warmth and peace.

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  39. Don
    Food is readyπŸ™„πŸ˜ŒπŸ˜•

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  40. Day i slapped my husband, he slapped me back and almost beat me, na him friend hold am. He begged me after but chai, it wasnt nice dat he slapped me back na, hot slap. Mine was just cold. Remembering this now and i feel like...no wonder we are here, unhappy marriage. This is 8 years after the slap o

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    1. Ya own slap cold, you put am for freezer?

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  41. Do you guys know what the husband did? Do you know if he cheated?

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    1. Will shut dat ur mouth....ow ll u feel if ur broda's wife slaps ur broda in ur presence.Dnt open dat ur stinking mouth and b asking stupid question,nonsense

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    2. Na the cheating come warrant slap?

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    3. I talk am say that girl go come return match.

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    4. MIL slapper has landed to support her protΓ©gΓ©.

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    5. Anonymous 21 you are very stupid. You are an idiot

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  42. Ability to control yourself is of great importance in marriage. There most likely would be times when issues would arise and your spouse would get on your nerves. How you handle it matters a lot. Domestic violence from either party is a No No please. Madame, please dial your husband asap and beg him, yes I said beg him to come back home. Sit down like adults and settle your differences.

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  43. 3months and you're already slapping your husband... When your marriage gets to one year, na beat and kicking.. Please don't stop calling him to apologize, you can even text him... Try and control your temper next time.

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  44. Poster, you were very wrong to have slapped your husband..where is submissiveness. Ples learn to control your anger ooo before you commit murder. Three months of marriage you are slapping already. That means before a year you would have buried him. This is not feminism but stupidity. How could you lay you hand to slap your husband?

    Go n look for who will help you to beg him ooo. He will forgive you but it cannot forget. Don't destroy your home with your anger.

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    1. Poster don't call people to beg him. He won't like it if people know you slapped him. Slapping is bad enough but if you embarrass your man by telling others , good luck to you ooohhh

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  45. My dear calm down,firstly you went too far, usually the first year of marriage is always tough,plenty conflicts here and there,power tussle and stuff.i am having same with my husband,we are just 5 months and we are now learning how to handle conflicts much better.before we would argue I did curse him out and talk to him anyhow even use the F word on him until the man changed it for me one day and shouted at me and warned me,I have never seen my husband that mad,omo I mellow down,I had to have a board meeting with myself and act like a decent well raised woman that I’m,now I am getting there,I talk calmly now small small,I over look his short comings and allow the good part of him carry more weight,I view him as an imperfect being he is and I know he makes mistakes.we are understanding ourselves more and more now.
    When we were dating I did talk and talk anyhow to him if he gets me upset,shut him out and never pick his calls,yet he would call me and text and send flowers,omo I got used to that and wanted to carry that leg into marriage,I just realized the man derserves peace and I would spoil my marriage if I continued to power struggle with my husband.
    Poster beg him and cry and when you reconcile let him see a totally changed woman.
    That man loves you that’s why he walked away stop fucking things up sis.

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    1. A wise woman builds her home, a foolish one tears it down with her own hands. The Scriptures don't lie.

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  46. Madam, just three months and you have started slapping. I hope you're not possessed? And you're saying anything that wants, should happen? I hope your husband hasn't had an accident and is lying down in one ditch, hospital or morgue.

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  47. Stella,ur red pen is so on point,d first tin dat came to my mind wen I finished reading this was that you sound so unremorseful.Poster I put it to you that you lack proper training and upbringing...ow could u even raise dat ur tiny hand to slap ur husband...btw I respect ur husband,he is so mature bt he made d wrong choice,haba

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  48. Stella, the girl will still write chronicle. She will tell you that husband committed atrocity,she will paint him like Satan, tell you that he fked bridesmaid etc.
    Watch out.

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  49. I bless the awesome woman who raised your husband or the circumstances that shaped him to have the wisdom to walk away from that ugly situation.

    As for you: O ma laya o! Let me translate before Tessbaby wee come and deal with me now. "You get mind o!". You don see your husband finish. Energy wey you suppose use pound akpu or yam for restaurant make dem dey pay you small something daily, you carry am dey slap person wey dey feed you. Okay o Madam I-don't-care, as you no care whether your 3month old marriage pack up or not, kukuma move out and text him where to pick the duplicate key to his apartment. Don't bother to wait for him na. Onye nzuzu.

    My friend, will you get your medium *ss up and go and block him at work during lunch tomorrow! Make sure you look and smell nice but remove that cloak of arrogance when you beg that gentleman. I hope by God's grace you find favour in his sight like Queen Esther and he follows you home. I can only imagine what he's been going through mentally and emotionally based on the fact that most men find it awkward or embarrassing to say that they suffer domestic violence.

    Plead with everything you've got and make this right while you also get busy. Idle hands na devil workshop o. Don't coman go and be disgracing yourself and your family inside marriage inugo? Na your type suppose to marry that Oga "I didn't force her" make una two for dey alright laslas. Don't forget to bring updates o. Na dat one be the koko.

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  50. Why exactly did you get married to your husband, darling? If you cannot respect a man enough to acknowledge him as the king of your home, why bother? Seriously, sweetie, how can you raise your hand to slap your hubby because of a disagreement and still be having an attitude about it? Do you honestly blame him for not returning home to you? Is he coming home to the warm loving embrace of his wife or to the fiery wrath of a sphinx?

    Honey, you've only been married for about three months, that's typically well within the honeymoon phase, and there you go unleashing your inner dragon. There's no justification for physical abuse, so whomever deals the strike has lost the privilege of an explanation. Put differently, my darling, I don't care what the altercation was all about, you ought to have stayed grounded and been in control of your emotions. The term "wife" carries with it a lot of responsibilities.

    The comic relief, for want of a better term, is you trying to come across as bad ass! You slapped him, he left, you called, he ignored so he can go to hell. You really don't give a damn yet you had to drop a comment? This is how some unwise ladies inadvertently plot the disintegration of their marriages before it even starts.

    Sweetie, you better start prepping yourself and the home to give that husband of yours the apology of a lifetime. You are a Queen and not a stray cat from some dingy back alley. On no account should you allow yourself stoop to such a deplorable state. Approach disagreements with tenderness and not aggression. While at it, learn to swallow your pride when it comes to your husband. What you just did is wrong on so many levels. You've behaved like a lout. Sweetie, please learn to control your temper and respect your hubby. If you can't, perhaps ending the marriage wouldn't be a bad idea before you gouge out the eyes of someone else's son, or worse.

    e-hugs and kisses.

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    1. Nwada Ronalda,

      That thing wey you yarn na correct yarn (except one for my Naija girls)
      "Man no be king for Naija girls o, na Kingkon" im be.
      Man (for Naija babes) = ATM, sperm donor + supplier of fork, abroad ticket. Chikina
      Women/mothers in Nigeria (like you, Sdk, me 😊 etc.) dey few for this blog.
      Naija (Pharisees) girls na a special entity and this poster dey far left for them group.

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  51. Choi, just 3months of marriage you Don dey Sama igbaju Oloyi. Your hubby Na man for walking away.

    Drop your ego and apologize,this is how you will push him out. Go to his office now before another babe will take over.
    Go and beg him and never repeat it. The devil likes things like this. Need I tell you year 1-3 is a tough one so be prepared if you want a home.

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  52. Madam you are feeling cool right......cos you are a woman. Guess what gender issues is for both male and female but people keep getting it wrong. Rape and sexual molestation, DV, etc applies to both male and female. Your husband should report you for the assault. Alai lojuti obinrin. Just 3 months into your wedding πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘. What happened to walking away when you have issues like that? What if he slumped and died? What if he retaliated and beat the devil out of You? You have the gut to slap a man!

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  53. This lady isn't remorseful at all.
    So egoistic and full of herself even when at fault.
    GOD bless that young man for walking away. You're lucky he isn't the violent type else you would be in the hospital nursing your wounds.

    Satan is dancing skelewu on your head and you don't even know it. Keep allowing Satan to wreck you via anger till he destroys you completely.

    Solomon's capsule, where are you? This lady needs you.

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  54. Madam you should not have slapped him no matter the anger, did you say your is just 3 months? That's too early.

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  55. My dear calm down,firstly you went too far, usually the first year of marriage is always tough,plenty conflicts here and there,power tussle and stuff.i am having same with my husband,we are just 5 months and we are now learning how to handle conflicts much better.before we would argue I did curse him out and talk to him anyhow even use the F word on him until the man changed it for me one day and shouted at me and warned me,I have never seen my husband that mad,omo I mellow down,I had to have a board meeting with myself and act like a decent well raised woman that I’m,now I am getting there,I talk calmly now small small,I over look his short comings and allow the good part of him carry more weight,I view him as an imperfect being he is and I know he makes mistakes.we are understanding ourselves more and more now.
    When we were dating I did talk and talk anyhow to him if he gets me upset,shut him out and never pick his calls,yet he would call me and text and send flowers,omo I got used to that and wanted to carry that leg into marriage,I just realized the man derserves peace and I would spoil my marriage if I continued to power struggle with my husband.
    Poster beg him and cry and when you reconcile let him see a totally changed woman.
    That man loves you that’s why he walked away stop fucking things up sis.

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    1. You are a wise woman.
      God bless and keep you both!

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    2. Poster you are saying whatever wants to happen should happen as if when it happens you would find it funny

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  56. Your husband must be a gentleman. Some wild have shift your jaw with multiple slaps by now. Try it with me, i will so treat your fuck up, you will never forget in a long time.
    Nonsense

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    1. Ghenghen....... I had Don in mind when I started reading. Bros Emabinu jare πŸƒ

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    2. No be you again?
      You de even find reason to beat woman sef

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    3. No be you again???
      Enjoy your food

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  57. My dear calm down,firstly you went too far, usually the first year of marriage is always tough,plenty conflicts here and there,power tussle and stuff.i am having same with my husband,we are just 5 months and we are now learning how to handle conflicts much better.before we would argue I did curse him out and talk to him anyhow even use the F word on him until the man changed it for me one day and shouted at me and warned me,I have never seen my husband that mad,omo I mellow down,I had to have a board meeting with myself and act like a decent well raised woman that I’m,now I am getting there,I talk calmly now small small,I over look his short comings and allow the good part of him carry more weight,I view him as an imperfect being he is and I know he makes mistakes.we are understanding ourselves more and more now.
    When we were dating I did talk and talk anyhow to him if he gets me upset,shut him out and never pick his calls,yet he would call me and text and send flowers,omo I got used to that and wanted to carry that leg into marriage,I just realized the man derserves peace and I would spoil my marriage if I continued to power struggle with my husband.
    Poster beg him and cry and when you reconcile let him see a totally changed woman.
    That man loves you that’s why he walked away stop fucking things up sis.

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    1. Babe..boyfriend and girlfriend..are not same as man and wife...na 2 different package. And both can be sweet if you do right by yourself and your partner..good luck

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  58. The kind slap i will give my husband this night ehhh.cheating bastard

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    1. See you see correct beating o. I’m sure your husband is not as cool as this poster’s husband. You will get the surprise of the century and I won’t even tell you sorry when you carry your chronicle come.

      No one deserves to be beaten, no matter what, walk away!

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    2. Instead of risking jail time after committing murder, or finding yourself 6 feet under when things go awry after he deals with you mercilessly, leave the marriage.🚢🚢🚢

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    3. Slap will not tame his cheating prick but you slap him and he slumps ..you become a murderer...if you cant manage the situation .biko leave the marriage and dont commit a crime...


      Besides you fit slap am now make he turn round beat you blue black

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  59. Madam please you need to keep pride aside and apologise to your husband. What you did is wrong.

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  60. Your husband must be a gentleman. Some men would save shifted your jaw with multiple slaps by now.
    Try this with me, i will so treat your fuck up, you won't forget it in a long time.
    Nonsense

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    1. Expert in women beating things. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ Comman beat me na...πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

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    2. These are the men who will call neighbours to come, and separate fight, cos their wife is beating them. Talk is cheap

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    3. Don, men like you always go to bed and never wake up from a long sleep. You haven't met the right woman yet, physical strength is not the only power in the world, always remember that.

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  61. Slapper aye,weldone ma! Is that how you use to slap people you argue with? Think twice before raising your ✋ hand next time,if it were to be the other way around, how will u see your husband now? Wisdom is profitable to direct.
    Control your temper don't let it control you, apologize through a text message and do it physically when he comes home.

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  62. What hurts me most here is the fact that, you have no remorse in this post of yours! Shame on you woman!

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    1. Naija girls don dey reject them own o.
      Church agbasago

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  63. This is soooo unbelievable! oga madam, you really need help, work on your temper. its deadly. your anger can kill. Just know what to do and how to get your hubby back and pray this dosen't end your marriage. Your hubby is has self control. if your marriage packs up, its all your fault.
    Am even suprised your not remoseful instead showing attitude self. You need deliverance abeg

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  64. Work on your anger issues. You are a bomb waiting to happen. If you don't do something about it, when you have children, they will also be victims of your anger issues and then you end up having a dysfunctional home

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  65. Dear poster,being idle is not an excuse for your bad behaviour!
    You seem to have married a man you never loved because if you did,you would never have slapped him and feel no remorse!
    You married a good man(yes,he did not beat you like you deserve but walked away).
    You seem to be ready for a divorce because you think you have nothing to lose,maybe you think you deserve better....smh!
    Oya use your hand scatter your marriage,last last you go dey alright!

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  66. Madam you are very wrong. Our ability to control our temper is enshrined in how mature we are. Marriage is about learning to leave with each other, learn to tolerate one another's excesses and cope with them.
    Sitting in that big and lonely house, you're supposed to be running a mental check and do an evaluation on the events that led to the altercation, how you reacted as opposed to how you ought to react.
    Did you prepare for marriage or a wedding? My question stems from the way you've already written off your 3 months old marriage.
    Please if you are interested in making it work, get off your horse, your nose off the air, work on your temper, ego and empty pride. Maybe then you'd be less of an expensive mistake to that husband of yours.

    Good luck.

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    1. She obviously prepared for a wedding. She think say marriage na childs play..marriage no be boyfriend ..girlfriend paroles...

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  67. If he's not taking your calls, text him and apologise. No matter what happened, you were wrong for hitting him. He'll come back and please, do well to change your ways.

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  68. Disagreements are inevitable in a healthy marriage. You can't agree always. However, you must ensure that you disagree respectfully. Focus on the issue at hand and make your case clearly. Avoid calling your spouse negative names or attempting to make your spouse look stupid for his or her views. Don't bring up disagreements from the past into the present one. Above all, remember that winning your spouse is more important than winning the argument.

    #copied.

    Poster, get a grip on your emotions before you kill somebody's child.
    Marriage is not child's play.
    It is like a farm, work on your farm, plant good seeds and nurture it.
    meanwhile, go and apologize genuinely to your husband.
    All the best.

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  69. Stella,she doesn't need help to control her violent behaviour.
    I have see ladies with very terrible temper become mugus when they fall in love.
    Na her type dey chop beatings from guys wey dem love...tueh!

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  70. Oh my God! Why did you do it?

    If he had been the one how will you feel?

    Please just find a way to get across to him and tender your apology.

    i wish you well

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  71. I can see she has already decided what to do. Oooooooookkkk all those your single male friends are still waiting for your divorce so they swing in? They are still promising you heaven and earth? I pity your life.

    It will take God's grace for that gentleman to come back to a monster like you.

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  72. The poster would have successfully hide this behavior,because no sane man would have gone ahead to marry a husband beater

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    1. Sic. spanner
      would have successfully HIDDEN

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  73. Hypocrites everywhere. If this same poster sent in her Chronicle that her husband slapped her..alot of you will say she should leave the marriage that she shouldn't die there. Why is no one wishing her husband leave the marriage so that this unremorseful poster of a wife doesn't kill him in the marriage?
    Madam poster you had better find a way to apologize to that man if you truly love your home. What you did is domestic violence ..straight up and the fact that you dont see anything wrong with your actions is really sickening .
    Kudos to your husband for being a good man and shame on you for dishing out a meal you cant bear to taste.
    Madam if you don tire for marriage. Divorce him and bring him here plenty ladies full here wey go marry am and live happily ever after since you are having thoughts of the marriage not lasting. Doing wit for a year to step out biko leave now while it's still fresh...so this husband of yours and have a better life and hopefully you to with whatever human being that can condone your excesses.

    Ordinary argument na slap..na who dey train una sef?

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  74. Too bad... Plz work on your temper.look out for him,show remorse and ask for forgiveness.

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  75. What kind of argument can anyone get into that they need to slap someone? No wonder so many of you abuse your maids and ill treat your children. If you get that angry walk away, leave the house, go somewhere and cool down. I hate violence in the home with a passion.

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  76. Poster pls ask for your husband's forgiveness and then ask God to forgive you and deal with your anger issue. Please note that the first year of marriage is usually difficult for some people and it will pass if carefully handled. Even if you marry an angel tomorrow,you will still slap the angel. Please deal with your anger.

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  77. Very stupid woman. You slapped your husband,and you are saying whatever wants to happen should happen.3months into the marriage o!....later you go begin write motivational post for Instagram with your fellow divorcees. Silly girl ,with no home training.
    When they say read bible, they won't read, they'll be going on Instagram to get motivation from celebs, or listening to spirit devoid lyrics of whoever is at the top of their playlist.
    You'll tell your parents what exactly? That you slapped your husband ,and he refused to pick your calls, so u left the marriage.
    Girl, be gone!

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  78. I divorced my ex wife the the second time she attacked me ...I cant stand violent women

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