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Thursday, March 21, 2019

Man Files For Divorce Alleging Domestic Violence

Women beat men too.....

Oluwatosin Bakare, an Ibadan-based businessman, on Wednesday told an Ile-Tuntun Customary Court sitting in Mapo, Ibadan, to dissolve his seven-year-old union to his wife, Enitan, because she frequently beats him.

NAN reports that Bakare, who lives at Labo Owo, Dugbe area of Ibadan, cited frequent battery and threat to his life as reasons for his prayers for divorce.

“My refusal to make a thorough research before I eventually got married to Enitan is the reason behind my problem today.My lord, as soon as Enitan got into my house, she began to act strange. She challenges my authority on most issues.
 I have made efforts to correct her misbehaviour by informing our pastor, but rather than turn a new leaf, Enitan’s attitude worsened, making the pastor’s intervention ineffective.

“In October 2018, Enitan, on entering our bedroom, gave me a deafening slap as she followed it up by bringing out a knife to stab me.I, however, managed to escape unhurt.I can’t count the number of times she had attacked and torn my clothes in the Church and at other public gatherings.
Sometimes, if I leave the office late, Enitan would challenge me and even beat me on getting home.

“On Nov.16, 2018 Enitan attacked me with a chisel in the Church.
I stopped reporting her to her parents because they were obviously not interested in what becomes of her.
Since I married Enitan, seven years ago, she has not conceived. And evidently, there is no more love between Enitan and I, so do separate us,” he said.

The respondent, who, however, opposed the divorce, was unable to deny most of the allegations leveled against her.
Enitan, a Laboratory attendant, instead submitted that her spouse was the best man to be with.

“My lord, our pastor is the problem in my marriage to Oluwatosin.
The pastor has convinced my husband to marry another woman from his Church.I noticed a change in my husband since I had a miscarriage. He refused to show any concern.
He started coming home late and also stopped performing his roles as husband,” she said.

The President of the court, Chief Henry Agbaje, requested them to provide more evidence to substantiate their claims.
He adjourned the matter until April 4, and asked them to produce their relatives.


  1. Replies
    1. Chei, ife nkea atugbo mou ooooo 😁😂😊

  2. Enitan na typical Naija (21st) century wife, she no dey take nonsense from anybody.
    All (husband slapping)Naija girls for house, una ndewooo

  3. Women are terrible.

    1. My brother yes they are!

      As far as no be hermaphrodite born you I TOTALLY agree with you!


  4. I don't know what is really happening to marriage, with all the chronicle we read here,I am speechless.

  5. Fada lawd she gave him deafening slap?
    Whether man to momma or woman to man domestic violence is a no no.

  6. It is well with you both.
    The court should grant them divorce now before stories that touch the jaw surface...

  7. Yes what a man can do, woman can do better. No need to dissolve their lovely marriage. Take heart guy, as marriage is for better for worse, for richer or for poorer; in sickness and in health; to love and to cherish 'till death do u part. Enjoy!

  8. Enter your comment... This woman dy para ooo

  9. Domestic violence is wrong on all levels regardless of who is involved.

    1. I used to beat my husband too in fact he enjoys me beating him. If I don’t beat him he’ll be looking for my trouble upandan.

    2. Anon take it Way with the lies nauu

  10. Pastors and home breaking sha...why did she slap you? You must have verbally and emotionally insulted her and she exploded. Weak man that can not hold a home without involving outsiders. Enitan, better luck to you.

    1. Oh God! do people still reason like this?

  11. Domestic violence is a two way thing.

  12. Why could he not live with her with understanding as the Bible says? Must he involve home breakers hiding behind the cloak? Most Nigerian pastors do more harm than good in a marriage.


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