Some men cannot stand their women drinking alcohol.......
Some men encourage their women to gulp down tons of alcohol....
Which side of the fence are you on?whats your view?
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Thats same thing i'd do... I would just cut off totally, it'd change my perception of you instantly, not that ure a bad person oh, but thats just my view.
If a man drinks alcohol and becomes drunk, worst thing, he falls into gutter by the wayside or has an accident. A drunk woman (like that Aboki wey dey sneak out Friday night go shak) can experience the above plus, the girl don become free chop for them dudes wey them rods dey probe every hole including the one wey dey for doughnuts. No be gang rape contract the sisi carry her hand sign so? Na so the men for our society don spoil finish ooo. But I don dey hear say these days, even them (Naija Pharisee) sisi don dey drug and rape men; is it true?๐ Ajuju n' ese okwu
In my own view, I see nothing wrong or bad when a woman or my woman takes alcohol. The only thing I will get worried at is when the consumption is very large, as in taking so much and getting to a drunken stage.
I don't even take above two bottles, most times I am okay with just a bottle and can stay for like months before even drinking.
So for a woman I think a bottle is good, so she doesn't get intoxicated.
Forget that moderately. Alcohol is a drug of addiction. The more you drink, the more your body will crave for it. As a girl who drinks alcohol, you present yourself a loose woman. Be careful.
A woman consuming alcohol show irresponsibility.Alcohol brings health problems especially for pregnant women and it causes big tummy. No wonder many men looks like pregnant men.
I feel that there is nothing wrong in a female taking alcohol, so far is taken in moderate quantity.Each to his own . If you feel that is not your preference then take the normal sodas or juice.But don't judge a lady cos of her preference to alcoholic drinks.
Ndi Pharisees don begin gather for fellowship o. When them go waka go meet them small gods, and he come bring whiskey come tell them say na "to loosen up". Them go shak am more than fish wey dey shak water. And come see them for bed dey meander and devour like shark. Una no fit deceive me o. ๐๐
i have been married for over a decade, Oga doesnt drink alcohol at all - he says he tried it as per teenage vices but never liked it as its bitter - i dont drink lager/cider et al - however i drink wine, sweet (white/red) and i also drink baileys but love cocktails the most.
I dont drink to get drunk cos i cant drink more than 2 glasses before i start feeling headache but till date, oga keeps teasing me that i am the "drunk" of the house
When a woman drinks beer, nothing is wrong and nothing will happen. Some women pretend they dont take so that the guy will see them as good girls. Some again are shy of the people around them. Me.. .i take palmwine, burukutu (when we enter village) , wine and Smirnoff together with hubby (but in moderation) . But not larger cos i dont like it.
i'm actually indifferent about it....so far you drink moderately ...you don't have to be a male or female to drink responsibly..both sex should drink responsibly,,,shikena
Well, star radler has a bit of alcohol too(2percent) so I won't mind plus its very sweet. The thing is anyone can yield for the other as far as the line be of moderation and tolerance is not crossed.
Is star Radler non alcoholic? I took half a glass of that thing and I'd almost passed out. I have very low tolerance for alcohol. Worst is beer I don't try it at all. My favorite is cream and American honey. Of course there's nothing wrong with women drinking alcohol, as long as you don't drink to stupor and misbehave. It's all good.
My husband even encourages me to drink. He will mix guiness and coke for me,occasionally all those vodka, courvo and coke, pina colada, baileys, red wine. The key word is moderation and know thyself, even as a guy you should drink in moderation.
If you cannot date a chic that drinks, make sure you don't drink cuz if you do, you are a hyprocrite.
I for one take alcoholic drinks {especially spirit} occasionally,apart from Beer which I don't like one bit. During a team building gathering I had with my colleague last year,I ordered for a bottle of big stout and some of my colleagues was like ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐๐๐ are you expecting someone or what? Me just bone am,tell am say the person wey want drink am go soon come. As soon as the drink arrived{i like it chilled}i poured my drink and enjoyed myself along with a bowl of spiced peppered chicken. Note.. Where I do have issues with either both sexes talking alcohol is when you don't have a limit to the amount of bottles you take and when it becomes a routine like an everyday affair.I walk pass bar-parlous and I usually wonder if this people don't have family waiting up for them??? Drinking until you get drunk.NO. No matter how responsible you are or you look,that individual has lost all the respect I have\had for him\her
I drink, most times when I'm hanging out with my hubby or we attended an occasion. My husband knows I love star Radler, sirminoff or Heineken Drinking alcohol once in a while is not bad biko
Present yourself to who? So if I go out on a date , I cannot take a glass of wine in a peace. I should drink maltina to present myself as a good girl? Mstchew.
Reminds me of this girl that went out with her boyfriend and his friend in my area last weekend. She drank something that her head couldn't carry, got highly intoxicated and lost her senses. She was practically in a state of trance and didn't know where she was. The boyfriend had to back her like a baby to (l don't know wherever they were going) and people were praying she doesn't die. Na this kind woman you want marry? Best to be safe than sorry
Moderation is key. I take Alcohol. Don't have a preference, its either brandy, vodka, Irish cream or wine. 2 tots is enough for me. Can nurse it for hours. I don't like beer except Star Radler. Beer smells, even if you drink a bottle, you will smell like a brewery. My ex was a chronic alcoholic, Gets drunk every other day. Will never rest till he empties his wallet and account. Will drink and smoke like a chimney. A lawyer for that matter.
The personality of a woman who drinks beer can sometimes seem to be too close to that of a man and it can end up making her less attractive to some men. And for other men, a woman that drinks beer is a turn on.
As understood from that tweet above, the man was attracted to her softness till beer took it all away. Women that drink beer come across as casual, easy going and don't conform to standards set by society and some men can't take that.
But honestly, it's not that deep. It's just a matter of preference, really..as long as you have a healthy relationship with alcohol.
Well in my opinion, i find it offensive seeing a lady drink alcohol from the bottle. But, to each his own. If she can handle it, let her drink away but if not, steer clear of it.
If i were the man in the story above,i would have laughed it off...i like women that stay real abeg....this is why women are living double lives..because they want to conform to society's standard of a "responsible woman"....
That's how y'all miss ur better halves, over trivial things... Watch out for character, some of those who dont drink display either very disgusting/annoying traits or boring to a fault. Then U start to hang out looking for the bubbly ones out there.
Point is; habits differ from personality.. Its an argument i wanna leave for another day though...
There's nothing with that, but me I don't take alcohol at all...
I went out with friends few years back and they lied to me that Smirnoff ice is for female and I saw other girls taking it out, some even took like 3-4bottles... So I told them to get one for me then, I took that one bottle, I started dancing oh, I didn't even finish the one bottle... To cut the long story short, na cab them take carry me go house, cause I couldn't walk home again... Since that day till date, na malt get me
So I just started dating this guy. He doesn't live in Nigeria but he is around presently for Easter and to see me. Met his mother for the first time last wkend and I met the woman drinking small stout and smoking. That thing immediately gave me a funny impression of the woman. She's like 70 and a widow and even very educated. She was Head matron in St Nicholas Hospital before retirement. Just when I felt funny about my boo being a smoker/drinker turns out the mother too is. And I don't drink a drop of alchol.
Drink, behave yourself and don't get drunk,we will be cool.I was a fan of spirits and bottles, but childbirth changed everything, now I can manage anything cream
I like when my wife takes alcohol,we do some bottles of beer together though she prefers spirit. Alcohol opens her inner self and she tells me things i need to know. Gbenshing na bomb too.
I take Alcohol, Heineken to be precised. All my friends knows this, moderation is key. Last Sunday, I went out with my friend and we ordered 2 drinks, one Life and one Heineken, the waitress brought the drinks and gave my friend Heineken and me Life. I Laughed e, she doesn't know that I am the one taking the Heineken, I just corrected her nicely and she and my friend burst out laughing. It was fun sha.
leave me let me shout mbok I DRINK ALCOHOL. My boo knows i love and drink alcohol. We both drink,sometimes get drunk and sleep on the floor with our heads upside down. We wake up the following morning with hangover and be watching each other like zombies lol.
i dont have a problem with men who dont drink just dont come and start preaching nonsense preaching ontop my head for drinking sweet flavoured drink that has the ability to calm the nerves and muscles in my brain thereby making me feel like i am in heaven even when gbese dey wait for me for doormot.
Alcohol saves life if you drink it moderately. but me i like to abuse it sometimes sha.
Anon 13:16, please push ur last line out of your mentality. Its judgemental, experience is the best teacher. People drink for various reasons; to chill & merry with friends (social drinking), to ease off stress (stress reliever), to fight depression (temporal prescription), to view the world differently (U may call this fantasy drinking) or heck! maybe to calm them nerves.
U cant simply conclude a woman is loose when U see her drinking alcohol...
I have nothing against alcohol consumers, me don't drink anything alcoholic, reason is beer don't taste great, its bitter...it doesn't nourish me, its not a vitamin, neither does jack Daniels give blood, lol.
btw i dont drink beer anymore. that thing can make someone have beer belly thereby making you have fats folds round you waistline and you end up looking like micheline tyre. i hate that nonsense. just red wine, white wine, whisky,brandy and vodka skikena.
Let's say a guy and dude drank together. Their friend just snapped them naked with legs ajar and posts on the internet. Next day, who will kit up and go to work and who will lock herself inside the house for two weeks and eventually relocate out of that town?
so you mean to tell me that people that don't take alcohol don't have health issues? ok o, abeg I need a bottle of chilled hero or "33", make I see road.
@13:34 Yes, you PRESENT YOURSELF to those that will want to marry you or recommend you to someone to marry you. Let's not pretend that we ladies don't want to marry or that we do not know that certain characters can spoil our reputation as wives or marriageable.
@13:47 Why any persin wey dey breathe go trust you? Onye anuruma.๐๐ Wey ya second and third comments. That one you will comment and come dey talk say I dey hail mysef. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
If I was able to survive attacks from Ezenwanyi and that other girl wey dey hang her legs for wall (e heee Pastor's daughter -where she dey sef), I go survive all of una ofuma ofuma. ๐๐๐๐๐
Thank God I’ve never met people like u ! Very myopic view Some of us , use to have wine after family dinners while growing up... so are we loose because of this?
I take alcohol but my guy doesn't take and it hasn't affect our relationship at all. I have a friend that will start feeling horny, that type that the clitoris will start 'yimuing' even if it's just a small cover of alcohol.
As a major drunk I'll say women can drink moderately , if at all they want to drink outside they should be selective and classy about it. How would you drink Star, 33 or Gulder outside or in a gathering ? The thing no follow. Shots of tequila okay, long island okay a little gin/spirit mixed with soda okay Smirnoff okay even small stout no bad but not BEER like trophy and star! C'mon.
I know my limit. I never get drunk. I don't like beer it's not sweet. I like wine and anything sour. Hard alcohol I don't do, the only time I do vodka is when I'm playing T or D indoors with a trusted friend.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with taking alcohol just don't abuse it. Guys who don't drink finds it hard hanging out with girls that do sha. I've met one,, we went out he doesn't drink me I can't pretend so we ordered. I jejely be drinking my thing dude forced himself to join me to form man, well he got high I ended up looking out for him. Shame no allow am hang out again.
I can imagine how lonely he feels. Lawyers dey see & hear some kind evil/morally wrong things eh wey dey scatter brain! & they re not allowed to share/disclose to anyone (attorney-client privilege). They deal with it all alone. It can be depressing, trust me.. Its a blessing & a curse.
Everyone has their preferences. I take alcohol when I want to, hubby doesn’t have a problem with it.. in fact we have days when we just chill together in d evenings with alcohol and weed, sometimes we even invite friends over and we have been married 12 years with 3 adorable children. Though I’m not a fan of beer sha... I prefer my spirits and wine but whatever rocks ur boat.
I don't know what kind of men yall meet,how can you judge someone based on taking a few glasses of wine? Marriages are breaking up everyday and it has nothing to do with alcohol intake, so don't marry character be counting bottles and judging girls as loose.
Hahahahaha. I get where she is coming from. However I feel alchol in moderate quantity is okay for women. However if you are actively trying to get pregnant or you suspect being pregnant. Better you avoid alchol. As it's very harmful to the baby. Foetal alchol syndrome is real. It's a life long disability.
@Dietitian Na so you sabi diet reach? Make you no shak ogogoro when you carry belle o, before pikin eyes come shift go im head. na "fetal alcohol syndrome" them dey call am.
You are just like me. I actually wish I can drink but I don't just like the taste,I find it bitter. See me struggling with just a glass of champagne,everyone will be laughing at me. I have a huge sweet tooth so I rather take non-alcholic cocktails or juice.
13:55 there is nothing like head for it, do you know the alcoholic content accumulated over a large quantities consumed? Definitely there must be a a reaction.
With all the pressures placed on women in the society they can't even drink a beer to relax their minds and spirits. The society want to stifle women in every way possible. My father always gave me sips of what he was drinking when I was a child. I drink moderately today.
I don't take alcohol, tho i came from a family that feels it a sin but i believe it don't get yourself drunk. Even to breathe in an alcohol can make me drunk. i took origin once and i ended up crying for 4 hours till today i'm being mock me over that. So alcohol is a big no for me
Hey Natasha,you got it all wrong, i wish we can post pictures as comments, i would have successfully show you like 3men who drinks well, both beer and wine and their belly is as flat as agbani darego.. so pls put of this archaic mind. Health prolem arise most with pple who doesn't drink than who drinks.
also women drinking isnt showing any irresponsibility, its the consumption or when they are drunk and misbehaved that you can give them (both male and female )names bcs they pass their limit.
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This kind of white lie @ vica....you mean to tell me you almost passed out after taking half glass of star radler but you can drink American honey and nothing will happen ?? I fear who no fear you.
Same thing happened to me,it’s just that mine happened at home, my brother gave me Smirnoff ice and told me it’s for women, I was only half way gone when my head started spinning. I had to go lay on the bed, all of a sudden the bed started spinning very fast I had to hold on very tight to a part of the bedding frame so I don’t fall off. Since that day, anytime I see alcohol I pick race
Stop menstruating all over this comment section trying to prove your lame point. The guy who gave her drink is innocent? Better shift with your out dated mentality .
I don't drink alcohol because i don't have the head for it. But i mix mean cocktails. I always have alcohol in my house,if you want drink i give you. Hubby is also a light drinker,infact when we want to do the do,he would beg me to take a glass of wine to set me in the mood. But for where no head to keep it down.
But there are so many sweet drinks I for one don’t drink anything not sweet. I hate beers can’t stand the smell. I manage star radler because it is sweet. Just give me any sweet drink but I know my limit. I have never been drunk its something I want to experience but I just stop.
@ChyAda Remove that "Jesus" in your name if alcohol is life like you wrote it in caps. Jesus says "I am the way, the truth and THE LIFE" and you said alcohol is your life, so why are you bearing that name?
The first time I took alcohol it was Smirnoff ice and I took about 7Cans and didn't feel anything because I was helping with wedding logistics so I was on my feet walking about while drinking the Smirnoff ice.
It was when I requested the 8th can that my cousin told me the stuff was alcoholic...I don't react to alcohol.
I take my Vodka naked and cock tails without bothering who is looking at me when i am hanging out... But because of judgemental people I keep my alcohol intake very moderate,but when I am in my house I can take a whole brewery and I don't get tipsy or drunk....so if you judge a girl because she takes alcohol then you will miss out on alot of good people because most cool girls drink.
I will never date any lady that doesn't drink. Alcohol makes taking them to bed very easily. Once inebriated, it clouds rational judgment and pants come flying off. Win win. There is even a song called "blame it on alcohol". LOL. I am loving it. Non drinkers are boring.
I tot don’t see anything wrong in she taking alcohol.. beside, it is medically recommended that both sex should consume alcohol sometimes to stablize the body.. I’d encourage my bae to take alcohol once in sometimes to see her in her drunken state and the fun that will evolve with it...Lolzzz
Did i read where someone said you present yourself as loose ..... some people nor well but you dont present yourself as loose right. give me chance jere . can i get 2 shots of Don julio please .... salt and lime to go .
Smirnoff ice, Smirnoff Vodka, Baileys, Rรฉmy, origin, Snapp ....... clink ๐ฅ let za parry begin ๐. In public, i can’t go beyond 2/3 cans or bottles or glass and Oga knows that. Bur at home, chinekeeeee, open thรฉ barrel till it runs dry ๐.
Well.......Alcohol topics are a bit sensitive for me, cos back in the day my besetting sins i.e weakness used to be Alcohol and beautiful women........A woman drinks doesn't make her a bad person....my wife sips red wine, baileys even a Lil gin and juice from time to time. Especially when shes with me, and she's an angel.
I think the danger with it is Over indulgence. Alcohol is quite addictive,a glass can easily turn to a bottle can easily turn to a crate etc.
A lady also has to use her discretion, it might not be wise to go out on a first date and drink a brewery in front of a person you barely know, nigerian men funny atimes. When y'all are more at ease after spending time together you can reveal your true colours
Also if you know that you don't have the self control required to drink and behave properly then don't even get started.
Besides there are certain levels you get to as a Christian where you choose not to drink anymore. Life is a work in progress. I am getting to that stage. I havnt touched Alcohol in months...
I fit sip a bit 2moro friday tho...me and Wifey most prolly be hanging out.
I have a friend who drinks like a fish.mehn that girl can drink for Africa.*she is a Bv* so make i no talk too much.but she is a very decent girl too d core.i can say her vice is drinking.and she is a virgin.make i stop here before she go decode me.
Allow her have an opinion Condescending comments like ignorance, stone age is uncalled for Because someone doesn't agree with your social habits that has a tertible and negative side under the glamour
Alcohol is not innocent at all
It can be done without
Too many diseases, mental, emotional, traffic accidents could have been avoided if the people involved didnt drink
Star radler ๐๐,I don't feel a thing! But that's all I take,Smirnoff ice maybe half can and that was years ago,few times I taste a sip from Hubby's Glass(he's an occasional drinker too)and I wonder how people get addicted to something that doesn't taste good๐ค๐ค๐ค
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Thats same thing i'd do...
I would just cut off totally, it'd change my perception of you instantly, not that ure a bad person oh, but thats just my view.
Alcohol is not bad, drink moderately. When hanging out I prefer a glass or two of red wine or Irish cream.
I don't take alcohol. I do not like it.
Let me read other's view.
ANG how far?
My man knows that my favourite is Smirnoff ice. He's the one that usually requests 4 it b4 placing his own request.
As for Me, I don't see anything wrong with it. If you're a woman and your head can take alcohol, no problem.
My neighbour na brewery. Her drink is life. She walks past you, she smell of life lager beer.
At times am tempted to ask her for a bottle of life sha hahahaha
I drink small once in 3 months
If a man drinks alcohol and becomes drunk, worst thing, he falls into gutter by the wayside or has an accident.
A drunk woman (like that Aboki wey dey sneak out Friday night go shak) can experience the above plus, the girl don become free chop for them dudes wey them rods dey probe every hole including the one wey dey for doughnuts. No be gang rape contract the sisi carry her hand sign so? Na so the men for our society don spoil finish ooo.
But I don dey hear say these days, even them (Naija Pharisee) sisi don dey drug and rape men; is it true?๐
Ajuju n' ese okwu
In my own view, I see nothing wrong or bad when a woman or my woman takes alcohol. The only thing I will get worried at is when the consumption is very large, as in taking so much and getting to a drunken stage.
I don't even take above two bottles, most times I am okay with just a bottle and can stay for like months before even drinking.
So for a woman I think a bottle is good, so she doesn't get intoxicated.
Forget that moderately. Alcohol is a drug of addiction. The more you drink, the more your body will crave for it.
As a girl who drinks alcohol, you present yourself a loose woman. Be careful.
moderation is the key
A woman consuming alcohol show irresponsibility.Alcohol brings health problems especially for pregnant women and it causes big tummy. No wonder many men looks like pregnant men.
Kalabari and Rivers women na their work
I feel that there is nothing wrong in a female taking alcohol, so far is taken in moderate quantity.Each to his own . If you feel that is not your preference then take the normal sodas or juice.But don't judge a lady cos of her preference to alcoholic drinks.
Ndi Pharisees don begin gather for fellowship o.
When them go waka go meet them small gods, and he come bring whiskey come tell them say na
"to loosen up". Them go shak am more than fish wey dey shak water. And come see them for bed
dey meander and devour like shark.
Una no fit deceive me o. ๐๐
Hahahaha this your head no correct at all
nothing wrong about a lady drinking alcohol. my own is that she should no drink herself to stupor.
if her head can carry a brewery, then I'm cool.
i have been married for over a decade, Oga doesnt drink alcohol at all - he says he tried it as per teenage vices but never liked it as its bitter - i dont drink lager/cider et al - however i drink wine, sweet (white/red) and i also drink baileys but love cocktails the most.
I dont drink to get drunk cos i cant drink more than 2 glasses before i start feeling headache but till date, oga keeps teasing me that i am the "drunk" of the house
When a woman drinks beer, nothing is wrong and nothing will happen. Some women pretend they dont take so that the guy will see them as good girls. Some again are shy of the people around them. Me.. .i take palmwine, burukutu (when we enter village) , wine and Smirnoff together with hubby (but in moderation) . But not larger cos i dont like it.
So long as she doesn’t get drunk I’m indifferent
i'm actually indifferent about it....so far you drink moderately ...you don't have to be a male or female to drink responsibly..both sex should drink responsibly,,,shikena
Well, star radler has a bit of alcohol too(2percent) so I won't mind plus its very sweet. The thing is anyone can yield for the other as far as the line be of moderation and tolerance is not crossed.
I will never ever marry a woman who drinks alcohol or smokes. I do not drink nor smoke and wouldn't want any of these bad habits in my kids
Is star Radler non alcoholic?
I took half a glass of that thing and I'd almost passed out. I have very low tolerance for alcohol. Worst is beer I don't try it at all.
My favorite is cream and American honey.
Of course there's nothing wrong with women drinking alcohol, as long as you don't drink to stupor and misbehave. It's all good.
Star radler contains alcohol although it's in quite a small quantity 1.9%.
My husband even encourages me to drink. He will mix guiness and coke for me,occasionally all those vodka, courvo and coke, pina colada, baileys, red wine. The key word is moderation and know thyself, even as a guy you should drink in moderation.
If you cannot date a chic that drinks, make sure you don't drink cuz if you do, you are a hyprocrite.
And a man consuming alcohol shows what?
I for one take alcoholic drinks {especially spirit} occasionally,apart from Beer which I don't like one bit.
During a team building gathering I had with my colleague last year,I ordered for a bottle of big stout and some of my colleagues was like ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐๐๐ are you expecting someone or what?
Me just bone am,tell am say the person wey want drink am go soon come.
As soon as the drink arrived{i like it chilled}i poured my drink and enjoyed myself along with a bowl of spiced peppered chicken.
Note.. Where I do have issues with either both sexes talking alcohol is when you don't have a limit to the amount of bottles you take and when it becomes a routine like an everyday affair.I walk pass bar-parlous and I usually wonder if this people don't have family waiting up for them???
Drinking until you get drunk.NO.
No matter how responsible you are or you look,that individual has lost all the respect I have\had for him\her
I knew you must show up here.
I don't take alcohol.
I don't like a woman drinking. itImakes her look irresponsible
I drink, most times when I'm hanging out with my hubby or we attended an occasion. My husband knows I love star Radler, sirminoff or Heineken
Drinking alcohol once in a while is not bad biko
I drink it sparingly...most single guys force ladies to drink especially those not used to it so they can shift their paents.
Present yourself to who? So if I go out on a date , I cannot take a glass of wine in a peace. I should drink maltina to present myself as a good girl? Mstchew.
๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ you go fear brewery
Reminds me of this girl that went out with her boyfriend and his friend in my area last weekend. She drank something that her head couldn't carry, got highly intoxicated and lost her senses. She was practically in a state of trance and didn't know where she was. The boyfriend had to back her like a baby to (l don't know wherever they were going) and people were praying she doesn't die. Na this kind woman you want marry? Best to be safe than sorry
Moderation is key. I take Alcohol. Don't have a preference, its either brandy, vodka, Irish cream or wine. 2 tots is enough for me. Can nurse it for hours. I don't like beer except Star Radler. Beer smells, even if you drink a bottle, you will smell like a brewery.
My ex was a chronic alcoholic, Gets drunk every other day. Will never rest till he empties his wallet and account. Will drink and smoke like a chimney. A lawyer for that matter.
The personality of a woman who drinks beer can sometimes seem to be too close to that of a man and it can end up making her less attractive to some men. And for other men, a woman that drinks beer is a turn on.
As understood from that tweet above, the man was attracted to her softness till beer took it all away. Women that drink beer come across as casual, easy going and don't conform to standards set by society and some men can't take that.
But honestly, it's not that deep. It's just a matter of preference, really..as long as you have a healthy relationship with alcohol.
Well in my opinion, i find it offensive seeing a lady drink alcohol from the bottle. But, to each his own. If she can handle it, let her drink away but if not, steer clear of it.
Alcohol shows irresponsibility? Who propagated that theory to you nne?
If i were the man in the story above,i would have laughed it off...i like women that stay real abeg....this is why women are living double lives..because they want to conform to society's standard of a "responsible woman"....
That's how y'all miss ur better halves, over trivial things... Watch out for character, some of those who dont drink display either very disgusting/annoying traits or boring to a fault. Then U start to hang out looking for the bubbly ones out there.
Point is; habits differ from personality.. Its an argument i wanna leave for another day though...
A Woman should do whatever she wants to in but moderation should be the watch word!!!
I cannot even drink 2 bottles of radler.... Lol!!!
BV COOKIE
There's nothing with that, but me I don't take alcohol at all...
I went out with friends few years back and they lied to me that Smirnoff ice is for female and I saw other girls taking it out, some even took like 3-4bottles... So I told them to get one for me then, I took that one bottle, I started dancing oh, I didn't even finish the one bottle... To cut the long story short, na cab them take carry me go house, cause I couldn't walk home again... Since that day till date, na malt get me
So I just started dating this guy. He doesn't live in Nigeria but he is around presently for Easter and to see me. Met his mother for the first time last wkend and I met the woman drinking small stout and smoking. That thing immediately gave me a funny impression of the woman.
She's like 70 and a widow and even very educated. She was Head matron in St Nicholas Hospital before retirement.
Just when I felt funny about my boo being a smoker/drinker turns out the mother too is. And I don't drink a drop of alchol.
I don't like heavy drinkers ,men or women.
Drink, behave yourself and don't get drunk,we will be cool.I was a fan of spirits and bottles, but childbirth changed everything, now I can manage anything cream
I like when my wife takes alcohol,we do some bottles of beer together though she prefers spirit. Alcohol opens her inner self and she tells me things i need to know. Gbenshing na bomb too.
I take Alcohol, Heineken to be precised. All my friends knows this, moderation is key. Last Sunday, I went out with my friend and we ordered 2 drinks, one Life and one Heineken, the waitress brought the drinks and gave my friend Heineken and me Life. I Laughed e, she doesn't know that I am the one taking the Heineken, I just corrected her nicely and she and my friend burst out laughing. It was fun sha.
leave me let me shout mbok I DRINK ALCOHOL. My boo knows i love and drink alcohol. We both drink,sometimes get drunk and sleep on the floor with our heads upside down. We wake up the following morning with hangover and be watching each other like zombies lol.
i dont have a problem with men who dont drink just dont come and start preaching nonsense preaching ontop my head for drinking sweet flavoured drink that has the ability to calm the nerves and muscles in my brain thereby making me feel like i am in heaven even when gbese dey wait for me for doormot.
Alcohol saves life if you drink it moderately. but me i like to abuse it sometimes sha.
And as a man who drinks alcohol you present your self as a loose man. Be careful.
Lol,bush man
I am a woman I rather take a bottle of stout than malt. I will not come and have excess sugar in order to please men.
Anon 13:16, please push ur last line out of your mentality. Its judgemental, experience is the best teacher. People drink for various reasons; to chill & merry with friends (social drinking), to ease off stress (stress reliever), to fight depression (temporal prescription), to view the world differently (U may call this fantasy drinking) or heck! maybe to calm them nerves.
U cant simply conclude a woman is loose when U see her drinking alcohol...
Wonderful,and a man who drinks is what?,drink responsibly,That's all
God forbid.my woman a drunker.i cant abeg. my crush for miss aboki just died instantly immediately she said she is a drunker
ANG is speaking from experience, trust me...
Radler is alcoholic. Low percentage though
You drank star radlee and almost passed out but one of your favourite drink is American honey?,lies people tell
I have nothing against alcohol consumers, me don't drink anything alcoholic, reason is beer don't taste great, its bitter...it doesn't nourish me, its not a vitamin, neither does jack Daniels give blood, lol.
btw i dont drink beer anymore. that thing can make someone have beer belly thereby making you have fats folds round you waistline and you end up looking like micheline tyre. i hate that nonsense. just red wine, white wine, whisky,brandy and vodka skikena.
Let's say a guy and dude drank together. Their friend just snapped them naked with legs ajar and posts on the internet.
Next day, who will kit up and go to work and who will lock herself inside the house for two weeks and eventually relocate
out of that town?
You say what!
Alcohol shows irresponsibility? You don't say!!!
Most guys love their gfs taking alcohol so that they can perform well in the other room.
so you mean to tell me that people that don't take alcohol don't have health issues? ok o, abeg I need a bottle of chilled hero or "33", make I see road.
What if she has the head for it?
@13:34
Yes, you PRESENT YOURSELF to those that will want to marry you or recommend you to someone to marry you. Let's not pretend that we ladies don't want to marry or that we do not know that certain characters can spoil our reputation as wives or marriageable.
I drink and I see nothing bad about it. First day I met my husband, I requested for small stout. I can't come and start pretending untop wetin
I totally disagree...
Moderation is the key,I think its actually a turnoff to some men when they see a lady drinking beer. My fav is Baileys & Carlo Rossi (sweet red
The apple does not fall far from the tree.
@13:47
Why any persin wey dey breathe go trust you?
Onye anuruma.๐๐
Wey ya second and third comments. That one you will comment and come
dey talk say I dey hail mysef. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
If I was able to survive attacks from Ezenwanyi and that other girl wey
dey hang her legs for wall (e heee Pastor's daughter -where she dey sef),
I go survive all of una ofuma ofuma. ๐๐๐๐๐
Natasha, you mean it? Please explain so that people like me can understand.
@Blackey
YOu no dey shak?
How you come sabi even them brand names to the letter "T" eh?
Make una see Onye isi ndi Pharisees o? ๐๐๐๐
Thank God I’ve never met people like u ! Very myopic view
Some of us , use to have wine after family dinners while growing up... so are we loose because of this?
hahahahahahahahaha your ignorance is powered by the sun.
I take alcohol but my guy doesn't take and it hasn't affect our relationship at all. I have a friend that will start feeling horny, that type that the clitoris will start 'yimuing' even if it's just a small cover of alcohol.
No wonder you are the way you are.
How about a woman that smokes sk with a chilled bottle of fanta?
@Goodness
So you take alcohol in order to perform well in the other room?
No be you again?
I and my wife drink alcohol,smoke Igbo join and we re good to go ......
He might be doing weee too
As a major drunk I'll say women can drink moderately , if at all they want to drink outside they should be selective and classy about it. How would you drink Star, 33 or Gulder outside or in a gathering ? The thing no follow. Shots of tequila okay, long island okay a little gin/spirit mixed with soda okay Smirnoff okay even small stout no bad but not BEER like trophy and star! C'mon.
Some guys like their ladies taking alcohol to loosen up the rigidity, & free them spirits, to enjoy the social experience...
Eesah.. See your head like bottle of stout..
So drinking is bad habit abi?? Even buhari your twin Brother drinks..
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Lol,I actually laughed out loud. That's nice
Dis lady you are funny๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ powered by the sun ke
I find it awkward seeing a lady taking alcoholic drink. I'm not cool with it.
I and hubby don't take
I don't like it.
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gbam.
๐๐๐ even the apple still dey ontop the tree self.. E never fall
๐๐๐๐๐๐Sonia abeg I no want laugh.
Na wah oooo
Yeye someborry
I know my limit. I never get drunk. I don't like beer it's not sweet. I like wine and anything sour. Hard alcohol I don't do, the only time I do vodka is when I'm playing T or D indoors with a trusted friend.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with taking alcohol just don't abuse it. Guys who don't drink finds it hard hanging out with girls that do sha. I've met one,, we went out he doesn't drink me I can't pretend so we ordered. I jejely be drinking my thing dude forced himself to join me to form man, well he got high I ended up looking out for him. Shame no allow am hang out again.
Me i hate the taste of bear but i take smirnoff ice and star radler cos of the sweetness.
I can imagine how lonely he feels. Lawyers dey see & hear some kind evil/morally wrong things eh wey dey scatter brain! & they re not allowed to share/disclose to anyone (attorney-client privilege). They deal with it all alone. It can be depressing, trust me.. Its a blessing & a curse.
Anonymous 13:55 Thank God its not me that will marry a third world thinking man like you!
keyword here is 'healthy'... Nice!
Everyone has their preferences. I take alcohol when I want to, hubby doesn’t have a problem with it.. in fact we have days when we just chill together in d evenings with alcohol and weed, sometimes we even invite friends over and we have been married 12 years with 3 adorable children. Though I’m not a fan of beer sha... I prefer my spirits and wine but whatever rocks ur boat.
I take alcohol and anybody that doesn't like it can go to hell,relationship is not by force
Just one bottle of smirnoff ice did all of these? wow! You have got a soft brain.
Women do what you want to do it's your fucking life!
Imagine ooo...everytime women have to present themselves in a certain way to be married...
That's the story of how a lot of women have married douche bags who feel the world and their spouse should have no expectations from them
Wubbish
Haha nothing do una jareh...
I don't know what kind of men yall meet,how can you judge someone based on taking a few glasses of wine? Marriages are breaking up everyday and it has nothing to do with alcohol intake, so don't marry character be counting bottles and judging girls as loose.
Thank God the crush has died. This one you can't even spell what you don't like, thank God o!!!
For some reason, i like this your comment, your man must be a 21st century type.
Stella ANG is Pepper ose oku....read the comment about Eze nwanyi looool
pepper you don rebrand ni?
She cant possibly be attracted to someone who writes and spells like you. Drinking occasionally doesn't make one a 'drunk' biko.
Time travel...Natasha arrived from the year 1822 it explains her tirade
Hahahahaha. I get where she is coming from. However I feel alchol in moderate quantity is okay for women.
However if you are actively trying to get pregnant or you suspect being pregnant. Better you avoid alchol. As it's very harmful to the baby. Foetal alchol syndrome is real. It's a life long disability.
A confident woman will kit up and hit the damn street to work, unapologetically oo!.
@Dietitian
Na so you sabi diet reach?
Make you no shak ogogoro when you carry belle o, before pikin eyes come shift go im head.
na "fetal alcohol syndrome" them dey call am.
lol. so even clitoris dey yimu too?
You are just like me. I actually wish I can drink but I don't just like the taste,I find it bitter.
See me struggling with just a glass of champagne,everyone will be laughing at me.
I have a huge sweet tooth so I rather take non-alcholic cocktails or juice.
13:55 there is nothing like head for it, do you know the alcoholic content accumulated over a large quantities consumed? Definitely there must be a a reaction.
With all the pressures placed on women in the society they can't even drink a beer to relax their minds and spirits. The society want to stifle women in every way possible. My father always gave me sips of what he was drinking when I was a child. I drink moderately today.
My husband taught me how to drink brandy. I am so good now that I can rightly guess the brand without looking at the bottle.
I don't take alcohol, tho i came from a family that feels it a sin but i believe it don't get yourself drunk. Even to breathe in an alcohol can make me drunk. i took origin once and i ended up crying for 4 hours till today i'm being mock me over that. So alcohol is a big no for me
13:55 is a lady whose life ambition is to get married you all shouldn’t blame her.
Biko nu Ndi beanyi, ALCOHOL IS LIFE. But drink responsibly ๐ท๐น๐บ๐ป
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Hey Natasha,you got it all wrong, i wish we can post pictures as comments, i would have successfully show you like 3men who drinks well, both beer and wine and their belly is as flat as agbani darego.. so pls put of this archaic mind.
Health prolem arise most with pple who doesn't drink than who drinks.
also women drinking isnt showing any irresponsibility, its the consumption or when they are drunk and misbehaved that you can give them (both male and female )names bcs they pass their limit.
It’s a sin to drink in Islam I think. I have some sophisticated Muslim friends who drink. Nothing cheap ie beers.
Anon 13:54 and Funny you guys are savage ๐๐๐๐๐๐
Yinmu ๐๐๐
Ima ife alu ๐ท๐ป๐บ๐
Afi drunker. Is that why you don’t make adequate use of your space bar?
Chai that soji woman at St Nicolas ๐๐บ๐ป๐ท
I love my vodka Biko...magic moment chocolate flavor any time
Wife wey sabi ๐๐๐ป๐ท๐บ๐น.
Babe wey sabi ๐๐๐น๐บ๐ท๐ป. Love you babes.
Double Yinmu ๐
I take alcohol but moderately. Gin, vodka, wine. I don't take beer Sha.
The fact that she drinks doesn't make her a bad person
Couple goals ๐๐๐ป๐ท๐บ๐
Don't mind them ๐.
But a man can consume as much as he wants. Go back to that stone age you are coming from and please extend my greetings to mansa musa
@14:45
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E get anything wey una never brand me; ANG, James, man, Mrs. X, bla bla bla, now Pepper ose oku?
Una see me wahala bikonu: Una confuse o.
Me I be ghost tey tey and I no dey try commot for ghost mode. I better pass you for say, I be
known ghost but you na stray ghost. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ That kin wey dey loiter for graveyard!
My message never change since I begin visit this blog more than 8 years now: no shoot off, no fork before marriage
no snatching and mediums etc. The only thing wey change na my switching to all man yarns.
Make you confuse dey go. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
This kind of white lie @ vica....you mean to tell me you almost passed out after taking half glass of star radler but you can drink American honey and nothing will happen ?? I fear who no fear you.
Same thing happened to me,it’s just that mine happened at home, my brother gave me Smirnoff ice and told me it’s for women, I was only half way gone when my head started spinning. I had to go lay on the bed, all of a sudden the bed started spinning very fast I had to hold on very tight to a part of the bedding frame so I don’t fall off. Since that day, anytime I see alcohol I pick race
Nobody ia talking about pregnant women, breastfeeding mothers and women ttc. Stop talking rubbish at Natasha. Those are clearly exceptions.
Stop menstruating all over this comment section trying to prove your lame point. The guy who gave her drink is innocent? Better shift with your out dated mentality .
Your head dey there..When it becomes an addiction or it is taken in excess that is when there is a problem.
Too much of alchol is bad , be it man or woman .
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For 1 smirnoff? Na your mates dey shack jack daniels during winter oh.
I don't drink alcohol because i don't have the head for it. But i mix mean cocktails. I always have alcohol in my house,if you want drink i give you. Hubby is also a light drinker,infact when we want to do the do,he would beg me to take a glass of wine to set me in the mood. But for where no head to keep it down.
Your loss, who your crush help???
What a daft illustration!!! Excess of alcohol is harmful to both sexes so don't get it twisted. Relocate ko, suffocate ni.
Chyadajesus, I am suspecting you oh.
Lmao...it's true sha
But there are so many sweet drinks I for one don’t drink anything not sweet. I hate beers can’t stand the smell. I manage star radler because it is sweet. Just give me any sweet drink but I know my limit. I have never been drunk its something I want to experience but I just stop.
Sadducee herodian.
@ChyAda
Remove that "Jesus" in your name if alcohol is life like you wrote it in caps.
Jesus says "I am the way, the truth and THE LIFE" and you said alcohol is your life, so why
are you bearing that name?
Let me borrow space here
The first time I took alcohol it was Smirnoff ice and I took about 7Cans and didn't feel anything because I was helping with wedding logistics so I was on my feet walking about while drinking the Smirnoff ice.
It was when I requested the 8th can that my cousin told me the stuff was alcoholic...I don't react to alcohol.
I take my Vodka naked and cock tails without bothering who is looking at me when i am hanging out... But because of judgemental people I keep my alcohol intake very moderate,but when I am in my house I can take a whole brewery and I don't get tipsy or drunk....so if you judge a girl because she takes alcohol then you will miss out on alot of good people because most cool girls drink.
LEP
I will never date any lady that doesn't drink. Alcohol makes taking them to bed very easily. Once inebriated, it clouds rational judgment and pants come flying off. Win win. There is even a song called "blame it on alcohol". LOL. I am loving it. Non drinkers are boring.
i smoke infront of my husband.. what does that make me???hahahahahahaha
Wife wey sabi๐๐๐พ๐๐พ
love u ryt back babes.
I tot don’t see anything wrong in she taking alcohol.. beside, it is medically recommended that both sex should consume alcohol sometimes to stablize the body.. I’d encourage my bae to take alcohol once in sometimes to see her in her drunken state and the fun that will evolve with it...Lolzzz
Absolutely nothing wrong in that...
Did i read where someone said you present yourself as loose ..... some people nor well but you dont present yourself as loose right. give me chance jere .
can i get 2 shots of Don julio please .... salt and lime to go .
Cutest Pat na wetin happened that day oh๐๐๐๐๐
Anon 14:42 my brain is very soft
Omah, same thing happened to me when I got to the house, my bed was spinning
Anon 15:52 them get strong brain oh๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Really Anon 14: 37. The smell puts me off... No matter how long or hard you brush or gaggle with mouth wash
7 cans and you didn't feel anything, your head strong die. You can go for drinking competition, I swear you go carry the trophy and accolades
You can’t stand a man drinking alcohol but you expect me to stand you drinking it? Totally unacceptable pls
So you're now a madam "drinker" lol
๐๐คฃ๐คฃ๐๐ญ๐ญOmeh why are you like this
Lmao
Very good response
Let him learn the spelling and come.back
Hahahahaha una no well at all. Which one be remove Jesus ๐๐๐คฃ soldiers of Christ ‘we hail thee’.
๐๐๐๐๐๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ Chisos !!!!!
๐๐๐๐ ahhhhhh, una don finish Eesah ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Smirnoff ice, Smirnoff Vodka, Baileys, Rรฉmy, origin, Snapp ....... clink ๐ฅ let za parry begin ๐. In public, i can’t go beyond 2/3 cans or bottles or glass and Oga knows that. Bur at home, chinekeeeee, open thรฉ barrel till it runs dry ๐.
Well.......Alcohol topics are a bit sensitive for me, cos back in the day my besetting sins i.e weakness used to be Alcohol and beautiful women........A woman drinks doesn't make her a bad person....my wife sips red wine, baileys even a Lil gin and juice from time to time. Especially when shes with me, and she's an angel.
I think the danger with it is Over indulgence. Alcohol is quite addictive,a glass can easily turn to a bottle can easily turn to a crate etc.
A lady also has to use her discretion, it might not be wise to go out on a first date and drink a brewery in front of a person you barely know, nigerian men funny atimes. When y'all are more at ease after spending time together you can reveal your true colours
Also if you know that you don't have the self control required to drink and behave properly then don't even get started.
Besides there are certain levels you get to as a Christian where you choose not to drink anymore. Life is a work in progress. I am getting to that stage. I havnt touched Alcohol in months...
I fit sip a bit 2moro friday tho...me and Wifey most prolly be hanging out.
#Moderation is key!
ANG = Triumphant Zion
Lol. You no serious
I have a friend who drinks like a fish.mehn that girl can drink for Africa.*she is a Bv* so make i no talk too much.but she is a very decent girl too d core.i can say her vice is drinking.and she is a virgin.make i stop here before she go decode me.
Lol fool. But truly, they can drink sha though I'm a social drinker
If you all drink and she doesn't
Allow her have an opinion
Condescending comments like ignorance, stone age is uncalled for
Because someone doesn't agree with your social habits that has a tertible and negative side under the glamour
Alcohol is not innocent at all
It can be done without
Too many diseases, mental, emotional, traffic accidents could have been avoided if the people involved didnt drink
It worsens abuse
Wrecks homes and families
It is also a very uncreative way to catch fun
Aunty not with business name
You sounded too defensive
And aggressive
Weed and children in the house
So when is the award ceremony for this your "talent"?
Star radler ๐๐,I don't feel a thing!
But that's all I take,Smirnoff ice maybe half can and that was years ago,few times I taste a sip from Hubby's Glass(he's an occasional drinker too)and I wonder how people get addicted to something that doesn't taste good๐ค๐ค๐ค
Bros this is rape now
Smirnoff na juice na
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