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Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
HAUNTED BY THOUGHTS OF FIRST LOVE


I need to pour out my mind and rant because I don't have a confidant. I had a big fight with my current boyfriend mid-last year for 3 months and I went back to my one-time ex named TJ cos I thought I needed to be in another relationship.


Little Wonder I have been thinking about TJ of recent. We really love each other. If I'm not with him, it will be as if I can't do without him but I always feel resentful after spending few days together. So, I exited the relationship again last year August.


What I love about TJ; he was my first, met him 9 yrs ago( but we do date and break up)he is tall, and big. I feel wet even before the real lovemaking with him, his mouth smells nice, he is finer than my current boyfriend. I feel butterflies in my stomach when I see him. Lol. I can now see how vain I am after writing this.


These are what turned me off about him when I spent a week with him July last year; He wears boxers for days(so they smell of urine, some are even torn and have changed colours ), he doesn't speak good English( this has been right from time and I thought he would have improved), he gives me UTI anytime we have s#x ( two different occasions 2016 and 2018), I have sore throat if I give him BJ, he always shout on/disrespect one particular girl that disturbs him with calls ( they dated briefly during one of the times I broke up with him), he even sent rude messages to her on several occasions. This lady loves him. I even heard her tell him that she knows he will come back to her after I leave him again. She advised him not to spoil ground too much on her side.


TJ only gets gentle if he is broke. But if he gets small change, he turns to a boss.He is not exposed at all, he says if we marry he can't help with children's homework, we will be sleeping in different rooms but will be coming to my room to make love. I should not be a social media person, he doesn't have money yet. If i ask for 5k, he will say where will he see that kind of money. Hmmmm...when my fiance can give 200k. What do girls really want sef?


He says even if i want to put up a picture on facebook, I should not put up his kids pictures. So I left him last year August. He told me that if I leave, he won't allow us to keep in touch again because he wants to settle down ASAP. I ran after he gave all these rules.


I later contacted the girl and told her that I did not date the guy at all. I told her to check my Facebook handle for proof cos I still have my bf pictures on my page. I did not want TJ to lose in two places. He blamed me for trying to bring him and the lady together. For the period of two months I was with TJ, he flaunted me more his Whats app but I haven't seen him on SM since I broke his heart.


During the time I was with him, my boyfriend and I reconciled. I could not double date. So, I went back to my boyfriend cos I finally realized the grass isn't always greener on the other sides. Some Bvs even yabbed me when I dropped a comment about this. My guy proposed few months after the reconciliation and we now get along so well. We've even fixed our wedding date.


I noticed my guy and I are 90% more compatible than TJ and I. We share the same values, get along easily.


Tj literally told me that he will marry this lady if I leave cos he discovers she loves him more than he does, since loving me more than I do always give him heartbreak. He said he is 35 and wants to settle down. I am 27, the other lady is 30. 


My wedding date is already fixed and my fiance is the opposite of TJ in all areas. I even experienced orgasm for the first time and two consecutive time with my fiance. I have peace and I am more proud of my husband-to-be . I spend more days with my man and I don't always feel like going back to my base unlike when I was with Tj. I know I can't be happy with TJ but why do I still think about him a lot. Why? This "first love belief" is messing with my head and mind


The gist is TJ got has gotten married to this same lady he yabs both on calls and in text messages. The pictures are not on SM yet but our mutual friend uploaded their picture with happy married life caption. It was a "small ceremony" but I don't know why I immediately rushed to the toilet oh. Maybe because I did not know his wedding will be this fast. I was not surprised but I feel somehow. I have a problem but I don't know it.

 Woops! I feel better after putting this into writing. I need Bvs to reset my brain biko. Thanks

P:s, I want to use this opportunity to apologized to those I've bashed for acting stupidly with a wrong man cos of love. I'm now one of you. Sorry



*Mscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

103 comments:

  1. Mschewwwwwwwwww x2

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    1. I’ve never read a chronicle more shallow and stupid than this!
      What the actual fvck?
      Mtchewwwwwww x100

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    2. Asinnn this poster na real ‘arindin’. The sad thing is that someone’s son is getting married to an immature being. Chaiiii


      Mtscheeeww

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    3. Stella, some of these chronicles should remain in your deleted messages Haba!

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    4. What kind of stupid story is this??? Stella I follow u hiss biko... women like suffer sha.. pls be with who love u more. U see man that treat u right u want to marry TJ empty pocket with dirty yash... the other lady self might be desperate to have loved him more.. poster look front and mind your business.

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    5. Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ×1000000. Robinson

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    6. You don't understand and miss the point. Poster, please, pray about it. Concentrate on your marriage. Stop looking out for information on him. Don't keep any kind of relationship with him. Don't call and don't pick his calls. You don't want interference in your marriage. Youve made your choice. There's no need for comparison. It's not a competition, though I believe you made a good choice. With time, you'll forget about him. You can't marry 2 men anyway.

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    7. Poster, I understand how you feel. There is NOTHING wrong with you

      I feel this attached to my first love too. But I know I cannever be with the person!

      You have to allow yourself heal from that love. Instead of abruptly cutting off such friendship (it never frees you when you do this), take it to being JUST FRIENDS with NO SEX.

      When you desire the person; call and JUST TALK. The more you talk, the more you realise why this person isn't the right person for your future plans. The more you realise this; the more you lose interest if you truly love yourself.

      With time the feelings will die a natural death and you are done with the person. If not; it's a matter of time before you are back to rubbing privates under the sheets.

      I don't know about others. But this right here worked like magic for me and I am finally free; unlike the days of doing it with force and running back like that's the only oxygen tank left in the world

      All the best

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    8. Aunty you no get problem at all. You are just confused or you want them both. Please face your front biko.

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  2. My head is seriously aching me... What do you want us to do now? Do you want us to beat TJ up for getting married before you or what? I'm lost here😏😏

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    1. My only problem is the girl the TJ later married. I pity her so much.
      Why do women do this to themselves?
      So sad

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    2. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 let's beat him up to save the sisters code

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    3. Anon 16:15
      Do you know if shes one retired olosho? What do u know about her that ure pitying her?

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  3. when village people are using trumpet to call your name........continue till your fiance/husband dumps you because you are are comparing him with an agbero

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    1. Village people don use her picture do billboard for junction

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    2. what kind of smelling chronicle is this, I can smell the dirty boxers through my screen.

      How can a 27year old love getting STDs up and down?

      Please, if you don't love your present boy friend enough to get Tj out of your head, leave him for someone else.

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  4. Another mumu...you think of a man who gives you UTI, whose boxers stinks of urine, torn boxers, smelly balls n peepee, you get sore throat after sucking his smelly peepee, I can imagine the the kind of staphylococcus u have, plus his mentality... Dem swear for you?

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    1. Blackberry are you suffering from a heartbreak? You've sounding angry today.

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    2. Loling at your comment
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    3. @Blackey
      Naija winches bite you for dream eh?
      Ha piara gi utari?
      Biko ajuju m esele okwu o.
      Cool down today inugo and allow Naija girls display
      them ala oma jijiji

      Smile na 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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    4. @annon15:16 pls speak English language...not all of us understand swahili

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    5. @blackberry stop being ignorant everyone has staph on their body... u dn too patronise all dis Agnes nwama herbal medicine.....

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    6. 😁😁😁 I'm not ceaser o...some babes can fall hand.

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    7. She will hear from Caesar 2mr morning

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  5. TJ -he does not speak good English and does not wash boxers?
    😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
    TeeJay, you see as ya babe carry ya legs commot for outside???

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    1. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    2. 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙆🏼‍♀️

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    3. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣 yeye Anonymous

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  6. mumu poster
    so Bcos you feel your mother in-law is a witch, u want to go back to your vomit.
    I bet you that Tj's mum and siblings will do worst that this.

    better endure that marriage and leave a married man alone, and be nice to your in-laws.

    one♥️

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    1. Knock knock lol oga madam, wake up, abeg..lol..The dream don do

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    2. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂anon:15:09,go back and read again.

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    3. Hello hellooo is everything alright??? What are we saying?.... What are u saying??? Wake up pls

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    4. Anon 15:09 chai! Next level, sorry one chance just started today na, why are you carried away, I am imagining the vex you use in writing your comment,sorry read again ehn, we will all be fine Las las

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    5. Looool. This poster is high. He read everything upside down

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    6. Hahaha

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    7. Anon, wetin happen? This seems like you have hay fever with slight typhoid! Please drink Nutri C and read AGAIN.

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    8. Stella come and see hilarious comment ooooo. Chai..

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  7. You should've married TJ with his smelly undies na. Mtschewwww

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  8. His dick is just sweet, simple! Every other thing is a turn off biko... imagine boxers smelling of urine, oh lord! U needed to see the squeeze on my face when I got to that part, yuck! I don't even wanna go further...
    Nne biko, U dodged a bullet right there, U'd be alright las las...

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  9. Abeg carry your childish rant one side. Tj gbola must be bigger than your fiance's.. .. Period, mtcheww.

    And wait for the blog dragon against women aka ANG, she is typing.. .

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  10. Senselessness. The time you people should be using to prepare for marriage (not wedding o), you will be using it for sexing upandan like rabbits and after marriage you start writing epistle. Mschew.

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  11. You're not in love, you're just trying to ruin your life. Look at the toxic situationship you're calling first love. The first person you date or fvck is just that, not necessarily your first love. My husband and I dated other people before we got married, but when we got together it was like we had never loved anybody else before. And we actually understood why we couldn't work with others. If you had closed your legs, you wouldn't be in this disgusting predicament. Your case isn't ordinary. If you like, allow your village witches do you strong tin. You're longing for a married man whose boxers stink of urine and has given you UTI twice.

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  12. Bia Naija girls, how do you do it?
    Forking two men and switching them
    like pants you are trying on?
    🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
    Sore throat, STDs, UTIs ... Belle (na this one you omitted because you no
    wan include how you shoot off okwa ya?)
    Ihere ana emekwa unu eh?
    See as shame leave una come dey catch me? 😯😯😯😯😯
    Chineke nna bikonu mere Naija girls ebere o 🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢

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  13. Chineke nna bikonu mere Pharisee TeeJay
    ebere o.
    Make Pharisee TJ dey do im shildren (English) homework.
    😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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  14. This poster village people have use her brain for nkwobi.

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  15. First Love syndrome just messing your head till you loose out.

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  16. Once debe always debe. Okafor's law in full effect.

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  17. Lol poster better delete this Tj pronto, before u will use ur hand and spoil the good, u have a fiancé that satisfies u sexually as well so wetin u Dey find?!
    Between Stella u have refused to post my own chronicles Maka why,I’ve been checking every day. Biko

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  18. Honestly, I didn't understand your story somewhere in the middle but when I got down and saw Stella's response, I knew why I didn't understand. Congrats on your wedding with Tj.

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  19. You truly have a problem! What is wrong with you?
    You better cut off all contacts if you still have with that TJ, purge yourself of this foolishness and face your relationship with all seriousness. You were throwing up?unto what? Are you thinking you missed out on someone as nasty as that who has only sex going for him with a load of STDs? Is it all about his bedmatics ability? See how your village people are whispering your name?
    See why abstaining from sex in a relationship is advisable? because it helps one to think rationally,clears your mind and spirit and balances things out for you. If someone says that, some of you will think that one is acting up and forming holy.

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    1. Please tell them. Abstain. Abstain. Abstain. Flee fornication. The TJ guy is such a turn off, I could never. She's thinking she missed out cos he got married, period. Not sure she loves him, she just wants to be a wife. I wouldn't even envy whoever married such a guy, eeew. Poster please face your fiance and keep away from premarital sex. Use this time to plan the marriage and pray for grace. Goodluck!

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    2. No, oh. They must test and taste first. See as the chronicle sender has tasted till she now misses the taste of urine in her mouth and tested till they've removed her destiny. You think it's clear eye she's using?

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  20. it's been long I hissed , but I can't just help it, this chronicle makes me hissssssssssssssssssed

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  21. Poster what do you really want?? You just confused.

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  22. I only pity the innocent man you are about to drag into this mess of yours.
    You and TJ are mighty pigs.
    I know you will keep fucking TJ even while married.
    Your type is the one that brings another man’s child for the hubby to raise.
    You have no sense of decency.
    SMH.

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  23. Hmmmmmm Ceaser will finish this one tomorrow.

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  24. Jam packed story.....I am not understanding and i even want to understand.........#bye

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  25. Nawa for girls sha!!!
    So in dat ur heart ull prefer somebody with dat kind of poor hygiene? Chaii
    See if u are not ready to b commited to ur guy pls leave him for a babe deservg of him to come along, go back and b a side chick to ur married tiatia boxer wearing tj.

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  26. God save your son from this wreck.
    Na your type go fit spread toto for security guy, driver or even aboki wey dey pass for street.
    " I told her we never dated, I don't want TJ to loose out on both sides' 😵😵 Senior Advocate of Nzuzu (SAN)
    I know you, you will carry your phone and call or text him to 'congratulate' him, he will respond with can we see so I can explain and your Otu mmiri will go into over drive. You will still go and collect that diseased prick and this time your boyfriend will find out and dump you for good.
    Ashigbakwa!!

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  27. You did not include you doing abortion while with him,obviously you felt you messed up yourself already hence the guilt.You have been compensated now.Pele omode yi.

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  28. I only pity the innocent man you are about to drag into this mess of yours.
    You and TJ are mighty pigs.
    I know you will keep fucking TJ even while married.
    Your type is the one that brings another man’s child for the hubby to raise.
    You have no sense of decency.
    SMH.

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  29. Kini gbogbo radarada yii nóó n?

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  30. Poster, I can't fault you because you made me laugh hysterically. So, thank you.

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  31. Is it our own TeeJay here poster? If not park well because I don't understand this your tales at all. No head no tail

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  32. I bet if TJ still asks you for a fling even when you're married, you'll agree to it
    I pity your husband to be
    Common sense is really not common

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  33. Do you work?, have a source of income?. All you talk about is going to stay with men for weeks and sex. Maybe you should focus on that first then your head will be correct ...maybe?

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  34. To say na this blog TJ sef i for no too vex.

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  35. Hmm interesting. You are not in love with TJ. You are simply addicted to the bad way he treats you because it is familiar to you. I think you may have some serious psychological and or daddy issues that makes you devalue yourself so much. You need to love yourself enough to choose to be with someone who loves, respects and provides for you. TJ is not your first love. He simply disvirgined you. The spiritual, psychological and physiological implications of fornication is what you are now suffering. Be determined to have nothing to do with that man. Block him everywhere and do not entertain any gist of him from so called friends. He is not as bad as you paint him in some ways. He has been plain with you from the beginning but you refused to accept. Men don't necessarily marry the one they love the most. They marry the one who will give them peace and or is obedient, accepting and surrendered. If care is not taken you will lose your fiance and when you do don't come crying here.

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  36. Please can Caesar come and do the needful?? I didn't know they made women this stupid.

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    1. He will tomorrow morning 🤣
      *some women ✌🏿

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    2. Caesar, Please ignore all those calling you to come do the needful. We all know quite well that Poster is suffering from emotional abuse. She got used to the way TJ acts. I pity th woman too that married a boy like TJ. A boy who wears an underwear that reeks of urine. Some girls de try sha.

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  37. Stella stop insulting our intelligence with stupid chronicles

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  38. Chei poster na who do you this thing.

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  39. What’s the basis of your chronicle? Ladies should try and have self discipline when it comes to issues of dating and having sex with any guy base on fantasy without protection.

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  40. First love ni...last love ko. #LoooooongHiiiiisssssssssss!

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  41. Sweetheart, your story challenged my gag reflex literally and figuratively, the description of the so called TJ. It appears you aren't too particular about hygiene, because...how the hell do you even blow such a slob? Ewwww! You wonder why you ended up with sore throat? Baby, you call it UTI, do you have any idea the microcosm of sexually transmitted diseases streaming through your veins and vital organs right now? How can you be that careless?

    I'm royally pissed at you right now, not necessarily because of your annoying indecisions but how you don't even care how badly infected you could be right now and the potential risk you are to your poor fiance. Honey, going back for a brief romp with a guy who has infected you before, shows there's something fundamentally askew with your mentality and I'm guessing that's the reason for this Chronicle.

    You have a good man, according to you, but you are still latching on to an obvious wrong choice, having anxiety because you heard of his marriage to someone else, sweetie why on earth should you care? Why be a dog in a manger? You claim you don't want him but you are crushed he got married "too soon". Were you hoping he will stay single long enough so that whenever you have a clash with your hubs, you will run back to him to get your uterus more corroded then return to hubs to pass on the "favour"?

    Now darling, read this and read this well, you don't deserve the man you're with but grace has kept him with you. Your wedding date is set and preparations on the way. If you know you don't love him enough to stay psychologically faithful even at this early stage, please, walk away NOW! Perhaps, you need the rigours of being lonely, single and desperately searching. Then bumping into a few punks who will make mincemeat out of your heart and dribble you till you finally hit rock bottom at 35 years. You'll then realise you had it good but you threw it to the wolves because you couldn't let go of an ex who actually wasn't feeling you the way you imagined. That should put things in perspective for you.

    e-hugs, don't know where your lips or cheeks have been. Can't even brave e-kisses.

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    1. 👀your last sentence just made me duck! Damn, poster do you see how distasteful your chronicle is? Please purge TJ out of your mind! The fact that that is so difficult for you makes me wonder if you know what it means to set your priorities right!
      Know that until you do, you are not ready for marriage.

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  42. Sweetheart, your story challenged my gag reflex literally and figuratively, the description of the so called TJ. It appears you aren't too particular about hygiene, because...how the hell do you even blow such a slob? Ewwww! You wonder why you ended up with sore throat? Baby, you call it UTI, do you have any idea the microcosm of sexually transmitted diseases streaming through your veins and vital organs right now? How can you be that careless?

    I'm royally pissed at you right now, not necessarily because of your annoying indecisions but how you don't even care how badly infected you could be right now and the potential risk you are to your poor fiance. Honey, going back for a brief romp with a guy who has infected you before, shows there's something fundamentally askew with your mentality and I'm guessing that's the reason for this Chronicle.

    You have a good man, according to you, but you are still latching on to an obvious wrong choice, having anxiety because you heard of his marriage to someone else, sweetie why on earth should you care? Why be a dog in a manger? You claim you don't want him but you are crushed he got married "too soon". Were you hoping he will stay single long enough so that whenever you have a clash with your hubs, you will run back to him to get your uterus more corroded then return to hubs to pass on the "favour"?

    Now darling, read this and read this well, you don't deserve the man you're with but grace has kept him with you. Your wedding date is set and preparations on the way. If you know you don't love him enough to stay psychologically faithful even at this early stage, please, walk away NOW! Perhaps, you need the rigours of being lonely, single and desperately searching. Then bumping into a few punks who will make mincemeat out of your heart and dribble you till you finally hit rock bottom at 35 years. You'll then realise you had it good but you threw it to the wolves because you couldn't let go of an ex who actually wasn't feeling you the way you imagined. That should put things in perspective for you.

    e-hugs, don't know where your lips or cheeks have been. Can't even brave e-kisses.

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    1. LMFAO! Nne, you finished work! 🙌🙌

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    2. Even Ronalda iyaf vex! Mehn you got her pissed🤣🤣🤣

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    3. Great response Ronalda. Except where you said hit rock bottom at 35 years. I know you mean well, but let's stop putting any age pressures on women. Whether 30 or 35 or 45. They all reinforce societal expectations of marriage with a time limit, which shouldn't be so. Some are ready at 35, some got lucky at 21. And vice versa. None is better than the other.

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    4. I apologise, Tobie honey. That was out of line. Pegging a particular age can be opened to the wrong interpretation. I, of all people ought to know better. I believe a lady is better off 40, single and happy than 25, married and miserable.

      I apologise to all my single ladies, please I shouldn't have mentioned a particular age. You should never settle for less because if you go in out of frustration, you may not live long enough to rush out.

      Poster stating that she's 27, made me want to warn her not to misbehave because she feels time is on her side. She may wakeup one day later in life and find out that she threw a good opportunity away.

      e-hugs and kisses.

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    5. e-hugs too dear. Always a pleasure reading your comments and responses!

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  43. You think about TJ because you want to. Because the man you described with dirty dick and drawls is very resistable. I mean someone who gets you sick after every sexual encounter because he's a dirty pig? And an idiot broke ass wasteman dictating rules he cannot afford?
    Your village people are following you dearie

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  44. You are kolomental

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  45. You know you have officially lost control over TJ and this is what is affecting you, if only you can be honest with yourself.
    You cannot run back to him for sex, he is now controlled by another woman.

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  46. Emotional immaturity still dey do some people sha

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  47. Emotional immaturity still dey do some people sha

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  48. Soul ties! Mehn you are messed up psychologically, emotionally and who knows how much physically based on the diseases you listed up there. I don't think you're mentally prepared to settle down oh. Who is this poor guy you have been dribbling? Woman you need to take some time off to clear your mind and spirit of all the junk from that toxic relationship you're still in. You and I and BVS know you will still be hooking up with Mr piggy even when married. This is the power of sex. When it happens with the wrong person, it can fuck you up for life (pun intended) and the soul tie will need to be broken by consistent prayer. Please have mercy on yourself and the man you are about to marry and cut this guy out of your life for good then work on your psyche.

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  49. It is called love. At least let's hope him moving on will be enough motivation for you to do same. God is watching over you, that is why you didn't loose both ways.

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  50. This was me some years ago... But thank God I borrowed myself sense and it's been 3 years now and I am so happy and I couldn't have make a better decision .. Poster just go ahead with the wedding we all are human and trust me sometimes we can't control how we feel.. You will be OK laa las

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