A woman in her late 30’s, Ganiyat Adediran, has told Ile Tuntun Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, that she’s no more interested in her 15-year-old marriage to her husband, Marufu Adediran.
Ganiyat in her divorce suit accused her husband of irresponsibility, battery and infidelity.
She added that he had no regard for her parents and was in the habit of insulting them.
She thus prayed the court to put an end to their relationship, grant her custody of their four children and make him responsible for their welfare.
“My lord, I’ve had enough of my husband’s beatings. I nurse sores all over my body as a result of his constant beatings.
“He’s irresponsible and does nothing in the home order than eat the food I prepare with my hard-earned money and harass me and our children. Since he’s often out of job and is always at home most of the time, he concludes that his primary assignment is to have sex with me day and night. Any time I refuse him s#x, he beats me blue-black.
“Our marriage has produced three children as a result of his high libido, but he does not have the wherewithal for their welfare.
“He reported me to my parents that I refused him s#x and they counseled me it was wrong to deny him his conjugal right.
“He impregnated me again the fifth time and asked me to abort the pregnancy when I informed him about it. I bluntly refused because I feared I could die in the process. He got mad and beat me till I bled.
“I reported him to my parents who made some attempts at mediating in our issue, but he frustrated all their efforts and was rude to them,” the plaintiff told the court.
“My lord, despite always satisfying my husband in bed, he still brings home his lovers any time he has some money on him.
He eventually took a new wife who moved into our apartment with the children she had from her former marriage.
His second wife never gave me rest. She has caustic tongue and is in the habit of cursing me and saying unprintable words.
We once had a misunderstanding and she poured water on me. This led into a brawl, but rather than mediate between us, my husband and his step daughter both beat me.
He later took our children from me and put them in his mother’s care and denied me access to them. He stopped them from picking my calls.
My lord, I’ve had enough of my husband’s maltreatment. All I pray the court is to separate us, “
In response, Marufu said: “Ganiyat is troublesome and would soon snuff life out of me. She disregards me and intentionally flouts my order which informs my decision to take a new wife.
She’s shameless, mean and fights like a jackal. She fights me almost every day.
She also extended her hostility to our neighbours who arrested her with the police four times. I paid through the nose securing her bail.
The last time we fought she tore my clothes into shreds.”
After listening to the duo, the court president, Chief Olasunkanmi Agbaje, stated that more evidence would be needed.
Ruling, he adjourned the case and asked both parties to come with their children and parents.
from tribuneonlineng.com
Just wow.... Na so e Dey be now?
ReplyDeleteMadam, you stayed there and gave birth to 4 children when you said he was always beating you and he doesn’t look after his family financially? Go and do family planning or go on contraceptives. Denying your husband sex is as result of your violent mood swings and the cause of your constant fights. If a man is not satisfied sexually by his wife he cannot be productive financially, he will get mood swing and will constantly be on a look out for another sex partner. You both need to get your priorities right.
DeleteAnon 9:55 is a mad person
DeleteA highly concentrated mad person
DeleteAnon 955 God deliver anyone from marrying you
DeleteTotally mad
DeleteStella wat is horrible about this .... this na common matter na
ReplyDeleteNot trying to excuse his behavior but madam you and your family must have probably let yourselves down for him.
ReplyDeleteYou think saying things like "this my mama own don too dey much" in front of your hubby is cool?, nah!, so check your self first.
Oh Lord!!!!
ReplyDeleteMarriage of this days turning to child's play....
God help our marriages..
which other evidence are they looking for? maybe a deadbody
ReplyDeleteall I saw was a broke arrogant man with high libido.
ReplyDeleteI just don't know why most broke guys come in this format.....with huge dicks too.
DeleteBroke men are so annoying. They alway expect some special kind of respect. This broke man even married a second wife. I don't know what kind of evidence they waiting for lol
DeleteOne person with so many flaws feeling entitled on top?
DeleteChai
This isn't marriage at all. Lord help marriages.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm marriage.
ReplyDeleteHe took the children from her and she is living where. He should just hand over her kids first. Then they can sort the rest later
ReplyDeleteWhy will the judge adjourned the case again. Make the couple go their separate ways already now.or is it when he finally killed d wife ni.i so much hate domestic violence.God help us.
ReplyDeleteThis marriage is quite funny,judge please dissolve their union already.
ReplyDeleteI can't tell who is lying jare. Marriage and it's everyday ish. God please help us all.
ReplyDeletePoor man with Second wife,can't even take care of the First And he want Sex satisfaction..
ReplyDeleteBut don't you think the second wife is worse than the man. Which woman with any personal dignity would stoop so low and bring two children with her. I guess being married and having the title of wife supersedes even common sense with some of these women. How will such a man respect her when she doesn't even respect herself nor her children. She is just a hole to fck and when she can't anymore he will turn to her daughter. Yet, she will see herself as even being superior to an unmarried woman. Women need to get out of the brainwashing of the society that being married to anything is better than being single.
DeleteA poor man married a second wife with children?
ReplyDeleteIt's cheaper than paying a prostitute for regular sex.
DeleteThat's how they increase my fears as regargs marriage
ReplyDeleteSome women are so damn cheap and lowdown dirty. So a woman in her right frame of mind married as second wife and moved herself and her children into an apartment already occupied by a family of six. What a desperado.
ReplyDeleteyou people just stay on your computer and type what u know nothing about. do u know if the second wife was living under the bridge with her children before she met the man? i bet u will agree been a second wife and moving your kids into an overcrowded house is better than sleeping under the bridge. And for the first wife, any woman that deny her husband sex does not have regard for the man, is as simple as that.
DeleteMost women hate to have sex with their husbands because Nigerian men are very selfish in bed. They don't give a shit about you only focused on pouring that their nonsense
ReplyDeleteThat's not true, no woman will deny a man she admire and respect sex, except if there is a concrete reason to do that.
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