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Friday, May 03, 2019

Friday Spontaneous Post...

#fridaycomessofast #controversyfreeish #weekendrocks #sleepinginiseverything #thatgutfeelingwontletyoudown #shadegalore #positivelychargedfortheday #justanothercoldfriday #weddingloading
#mayyoushine #mayyoubeblessed #mayyourhustlepay







Guten Morgen!
Ekaro!
Good Morning!
Otu tu oma!
Digwor!
Bonjour!
Buongiomo!


Hope say una sleep well.....?
Its Friday and I cant keep quiet!
Please i beg you Amebos not bring Tonto's gist into spontaneous post like someone did yesterday,there will be enough posts for it today lol.....

There is no in house news today but you can send in stuff for free advert for next week already.

If you see any ongoing drama anywhere that i might not be aware of,please send me a mail on it.....*wink*

Have a great day!
Kisses!

202 comments:

  1. Good morning beeveeleons..πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

    Happy Easter Friday to us all..πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

    Abeg who knows how much they sell photocopier machine?? Those small ones..
    πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

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    1. You want to add photocopy to the hustle?

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    2. Morning Ola. Use Google na or better still enter these online stores to see and compare the prices

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    3. Their prices are so high.. Then the name I see on them I never hear am before..

      Want to ask if there are smaller ones that looks like printer??

      Not up to 50k sha!!

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    4. Go computer villa nau

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    5. Late comer like me.

      Rhoda congrats to you loveπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

      This is the beginning of greater things to come.

      I go still flog you for what you did.

      Stella the sweetest of all. You're too much. Even when you try to do gragra,the love no still dey hide. Thanks for all you do.

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  2. Glory to God!!!
    This month God's grace will work for you and you'll enjoy all-round favour in Jesus name, Amen

    Good morning lovelies 😘 😘😘 😘

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  3. I am awake,healthy and happy. Thank you Lord for the fulfilment. And yayyyyy it's Friday alreadyπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ... and in another news,Ruth Kadiri is pregnant; so happy for her. Congrats darling and a very pleasant morning to us all. Cheers to the good life..🍾🍾🍾.

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  4. Good morning everyone... #TGIF

    The data giveaway is still on. It's strictly for those that have not gotten before.

    Send me a mail bearing your number with the network provider, because the data will be sent directly to your number. Then a screenshot of your comment on the blog.

    My official email address still remains; sdkblogmatters@gmail.com

    So if you have gotten before but still mailed me... OYO

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    1. Hahahahaha beloved oooooooo good morning sha ooooo

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    2. I sent you a mail since yesterday got no response

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    4. Good morning Stella and bv's, beloved i also want data thanks

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    5. I have sent you a mail, Beloved

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    6. please I'm interested, but my phone cannot screen short.

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    7. Sent... 1st time applying. Thanks

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    8. Data is life. I'm applying

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    9. Data is life. I need one please

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    10. I have sent you a mail, Beloved. pls I need the data ooh

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    11. Runs to send a mail. Aha, let me also be gifted something here. Beloved...🀷🀷

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  5. Good morning my bv people.
    I want advice that is why I borrow data for browsing to chat with everybody for advice.
    I am a NCE graduate.
    And I have 2 work I want to do.

    1) restaurant seller,
    My madam will be dashing me afternoon food and evening food everyday and I will be saving my money of food for marriage.

    2) Officer,
    If I do secetry or typist, my office people will be dashing me money everyday, and I'll be saving my salary for the day I'll do my marriage. But I don't want to have toaster in the office because my friend say that people in the office like toasting secetry.

    So my bv house, help your sister with what I will choose,
    thank you

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    1. Hahahahaha you are funny.

      Na marriage be the koko of these work you wanted.

      Na wa. Do secretary work na since you need husband badly

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    2. The office people told you they will be dashing you money everyday? Like it’s part of your job description or what will i call it

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    3. why are you after money that they will dash you,you sound like a child though.In both places you are going to have toasters:People in suits will toast you in the office and horny hungry men will smack your booty in the resturuant,so pick the toasters you want

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    4. The both of them are ok,it depends on the one you are comfortable with but i don't understand this your save money for marriage,na you want to marry yourself

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    5. It's not even what you want to do that is the problem, it's what you are actually going to do with the savings. You want to save your money for marriage and I guess you mean wedding right?
      Are you the one footing the wedding bills? Oga to be nko? It's not good to put all your savings into a wedding that will last for just one day. People will eat, drink and still there will be complaints of food wasn't enough. Why don't you think of saving towards the marriage? How to reinvest that money? What side business to do with it? Children will come, won't you contribute to their upkeep? Don't start your marriage on zero account balance. Contribute a quota to the wedding, use the bulk to start a small biz (jewelry, bags, pastries)

      On which work to do, I'll advice office secretary. If it's "toasting" as you put it, is it in restaurant that men won't ask you out? It's even more rampant there. It's how you comport yourself that matters. Work as a secretary and upgrade your educational qualifications. A good working environment will push you to be better and you will see people who can advice you on better career advancing courses to take.

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    6. Madam NCE graduate, who do you like thi na? You want to e saving your salary for marriage inugo? Get married like this and you I'll see that your suffering UST dey start....
      From a concerned member of 'BV HOUSE'


      Una doh

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    7. Eyah, you are saving towards your wedding? Is your man not capable enough? Pls don't rush into marriage, give him time let him balance well financially, that way the burden will not be too much on you. Then when it's time, you can contribute but don't use all you savings for wedding, remain part of the money so you can start a business after the wedding.
      Go for the office job, you will have more time, you won't go to work on public holidays and weekends. The people you will meet there too are those that will inspire you. Restaurants don't have holidays, they only give you a day off. Rest is very important to the body. Also in restaurants, you will have more toasters than office. They will even touch your boobs and you must not fight them but in office setting, it is mainly responsible people that will toast you and you can turn them down. You may even meet someone better than your husband-to-be in the office. Don't dull yourself o.

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    8. Anon 8:01 must be Blessed Princess πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

      This is her style of yarning okpari πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    9. Annon 10: 35 Amadioha kill you dere. What made you think that if I want to beg I will not beg wIth my ID? Why do you link me with someone that is begging to save for marriage? Have you heard me talk about marriage here before? Who marriage epp that I will want to start work and I will not calculate if my salary will be okay for me but rather I will be calculating how much people will dash me. Thunder fire that your keyboard.

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    10. LMAO πŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜

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    11. BLESSED haf vex... πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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  6. Stella too like amebo. Lol Morning y'all....

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    1. Naim we dey read and comment pass na. Good morning

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    2. Na the amebo make we tanda for here na..Good morning

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  7. Good morning bvd. May we have a pleasant day.

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  8. 1 PETER 5:10
    But the God of all GRACE, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, SETTLE you.

    I MAKE DEMAND ON THE AUTHORITY OF THE WORD OF GOD;

    In this 5th Month you will encounter GRACE for UNBELIEVABLE SETTLEMENT in all aspects of life in the name of JESUS.


    #SURELY I WILL HELP YOU SAITH THE LORD OF HOST.

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  9. As Africans, where do we learn this kind of prayers I often see people pray this day? People shout, jump on chairs, whip the air and chant die die die. We are Christians and by implication  Christ like, but our attitude and prayer style doesn't show that.

    Christ before raising Lazarus from death, look up to God the father and said, "Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me."  In a strong voice he echoed "Lazarus come forth".

    When he raised the little girl, He took her by the hand and said to her, “Talitha koum!” (which means “Little girl, I say to you, get up!”).

    On another occasion, He slipped His fingers in the man’s ears. Spitting, He touched the man’s tongue. Then He looked up to heaven and groaned.

    “Ephphatha!” Jesus said which means open.

    When he cast out demons he didn't kill them, of course they are spirit being but sent them into the sea. Today, Christians kills the devil and its demons everyday yet the devil still roam the earth.

    At the beautiful gate Peter said, silver and gold we have none but in the name of Jesus get up and walk. That is faith.

    It took only songs and praises to freed Paul and Silas from prison. It wasn't shout of prayers or binding of the devil.

    The walls of Jericho fell down under praises at the seventh time of walkover.

    Now, look at how Elijah prayed before fire came down.

    “Lord, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Israel, let it be known today that you are God in Israel and that I am your servant and have done all these things at your command. Answer me, Lord, answer me, so these people will know that you, Lord, are God, and that you are turning their hearts back again.”

    Do you notice something here? He prayed just like Christ above 'Answer me so that this people will know you are God'

    The reasons you pray in repetition is that, you don't have faith and not in good union with God. If you have a good relationship with God, you only but speak once and see God's manifestation. It's not how much you shout or jump that makes a prayer effective but your faith and relationship with God.

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    1. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ no one could have said it better. What's with all the shout ehhh is God deaf? TEEJAY Good morning jareh

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    2. Couldn't agree more. As Africans we are naturally aggressive, anything gotten easy is suspect. Until we shout and sweat and groan before we get answers we do not value it.
      So that when it's testimony time it will be sweet to recount.
      I.e I fasted for 2yrs, dry fasting and prayed naked at 12am before God answered. It's sweet to tell na.

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    3. It is a carry over of the African traditional religion,cant you see how native worshippers do it,look at a nollywood dibia for example na

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    4. Isaiah 9:5
      For every battle of a warrior is with a confused noise.....

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    5. @Teejay πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
      The first time I heard my sister in law pray some years back, I felt goosebumps. The gentleness, the simplicity, the conversational tone, the love and reverence in her voice is had to peep if God had come down physically because I felt that. God is our father, a loving one for that matter so bikonu why do we sweat, shout and do acrobatics? Maybe it's the nature of the person praying maybe not but then I find out that the father and child prayer makes me feel like I connected with my daddy. The environment also is a big determinate factor. Have you worshipped in a church on the island or outside the country? Ngwa compare with the one in a local place.
      Also, note that you may have to speak more than once to see God's manifestation and it doesn't mean that you are not on the right standing with Him. Sometimes it's to test our faith, it maybe that it's not yet the right time, it can also be that God wants to give you a much better testimony.
      @Cyclone you have a point there 😟 we can wahala ourselves no be small

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    6. @Ralu, I heard same experience when I first had a Presbyter pray.
      It was our marriage counselling and we had opted last minute to wed in a Methodist church when the Pentecostal church we went to gave us a tough time.
      After some discussion, he prayed for us. I haven't heard it thus before. So smooth, effortless. As if God was seated next to him and he was communing like Father and son. On our way home, I and hubby kept discussing with amazement how sincere the prayer was.
      I still attend the church sometimes and it brings peace, better than some Pentecostals.

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  10. Up and greatful, happy workers day Nigeria

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  11. Good morning Blog visitors

    Thank God it's Friday

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  12. TGIF... Happy weekend people ✌��

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  13. I just read somewhere that people should not buy land at mowe, lotto, pakuro areas for now as the government is creating a power line. So resident home owners and land owners in affected areas are selling off properties.
    Inform others.

    Good morning people

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  14. I want to marry a billionaire, even if he is 100 years old. help a sister Biko, where can I find one?

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    1. There’s one in my villa who is 120 years old .
      Doesn’t have teeth no more and his preek is shrinked .
      He can only big toe fuck you.
      If you are interested, let me know.

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    2. 100yrs old? Cemetery, they are plenty there.

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    3. Reach out to Regina's mum

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    4. Tbabe same with Arab Money. You are the same. I've been noticing your similar comments. You ain't even smart about it.

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  15. It is going to be a blessed day for us all. Goodmorning Stella and bvs.

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  16. Good morning everyone
    Please who has had experience with kidney stones and how did you get rid of them?
    I was told to drink a lot of water and they’ll pass on their own. The doctor wasn’t so encouraging yesterday. Told me I’d deal with it for life.
    Stella please post

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    1. IF YOU CHECK GOOGLE, IT TELLS O DRINK A LOT OF WATER. THE KIDNEY STONE DEVELOPED BECAUSE NOT ENOUGH WATER IS TAKEN ASIDE SOME OTHER THINGS. DRINK PLENTYYYY PLENTYYYY WATER AS TOLD.

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    2. Anonymous contact us. We've got original medicine for the cure of kidney stones. The stones will disappear in little time

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  17. Good Morning One Big and Happy Family, hope we all had a good night rest?
    Whenever I see two identical twins all I do is cherish the wonders of God, I don't care what Science has to say about it. Two different human looking exactly the same, the way they talk, walk, height, weight, dress, God Please I need identical twins two boys or two girls.
    A very big Congrats to Rhoda my prayers for you is from Glory to Glory, God has brought you this far and he will never let you down. And to you Stella the woman with a ♥ of gold, your good name and good things you have done to people you don't know, will be tell from generation to generation unborn, your name will be written in gold in history as the best blogger in Africa that helps people she never knew.
    Stella please let's Saturday IHN gist be about our best advert on Nigeria TV station.
    Have a nice day guys one love.

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  18. You were with a guy for at least 4 years without any form of commitment from him all because you heard the word "rig", " offshore", et al. He didn't ask you out. He made it clear you weren't dating. He was "nice", "caring" and " generous" to you all the while. He'd call you after work for hours. I guess all that made him Mr Nice Guy. I feel for some ladies. You see generosity and "being caring" as the traits of a nice guy. Let me burst your bubble, Playboys are the most generous people. They'd do anything just to get in between your legs. Your own case is even strange. This guy had to string you to the point you practically asked him for commitment! Shame! See what women have reduced themselves to. If you have to ask a man to "define what we're doing", you don't value yourself. If you had any pride as a woman, the moment you noticed any guy wasn't being decisive with you, leave. Don't devalue yourself by asking him self -ridiculing questions. You don't have to motivate a guy for him to realise you're the woman he should be with. Let me tell you something ladies, the moment a guy sees a woman, he knows what he wants from her. But madam poster had to pause her life for him to make up his mind for like half a decade!
    Some years back, I tried playing this card with a lady. She made it clear to me within a couple of weeks that " your fine boy can never make me ridicule myself. Stay away from me". I went back and she opened up once more. I took that for granted and went back to my old ways. This chic disappeared. Stopped picking my calls and all. I was probably enjoying the "game". I didn't know she disappeared for good. That was a girl that knew her value. Agreed, I had no intention of having a serious relationship with her, but her value stepped up when she refused to take shit from me. I still respect her till date. You don't need to be rude about it. Just be firm. You've ended up wasting so many years of your life. Women should realise they're different from men. You have limited time for reproduction. Use it wisely.
    Ladies,any man that tells you his mum, dad, or people will not accept you does not deserve a second more of your time. These women, where una keep una pride sef?

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    1. What do you mean by limited time of production?

      Your last paragraph is true though

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    2. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    3. Yaba left escapee3 May 2019 at 08:30

      ....is someone actually advicing the ladies 2day? Happy birthday Caesar!
      If 2day isnt your birthday, double sun should be shinning outside, lemme go see.... brb.

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    4. Youre right about that.
      In a month or less, 90% of the men you meet automatically know what they want from you, pussy or future.... the 10% are the slow decision making ppl that need to be xtra sure, so they need that time to see ur attitude or pussy taste.

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    5. Wow Caesar, I totally agree with you. Nice one.

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    6. "If you have to ask a man to "define what we're doing", you don't value yourself." Gbam!!! I keep saying this all the time but they won't hear

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    7. Chukwu daalu!
      Change is a gradual process...

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    8. @Charity limited time of production means that menopause is no respecter of person and does not hear "he is yet to propose to me, he has not defined our relationship, I never marry etc" It's up to you to make smart choices and decisions by taking into consideration that a man can still impregnate a woman at the age of 80years sef but a woman has a window period to get childbearing done unless the woman doesn't want to have a child.
      @Ceaser πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    9. For the first time I'm going to agree with Caesar. You are so apt.

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    10. How about you men stop stringing women along huh?. How about you add value to yourselves and if you are so bored and looking for something to toy with,get yourself a plastic toy. You have respect for the lady till date because she put you in your place but am sure what she feels for you till date is disgust and pity. Do you peeps suffer from esteem issues, ego problem or lack of love while growing up or what?Guys who do this, surely lack something in childhood which they are trying to make up for in older age.Now before you come for me with your bitter self... biko am married to my first boyfriend and I never came across toddlers in men's bodies in my single days.

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    11. Thank you anon11.40. They'll just be stringing girls along for fun.what happened to being sincere and straight forward?

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    12. This days, A whole lotta young men are babies in a man’s body. They really have nothing to offer other than sex, fine face and 6 packs(for those who think they have). Yes, they also have esteem ish but they are very good at hiding it. They bark a lot until you humble them with maturity and silence.

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    13. God bless you anon 1140.

      They would be the one to string you along they would also be the ones to insult you for allowing yourself to be strung along. Confused lots.

      Help me ask them oooo. Like what is it, you children lack when growing up?.
      Was it Love,attention,were you deprived of something,are you trying to fill a void,or was it simply bad upbringing;overindulgence that stemmed from childhood that made you go about looking for who to bring down lower to the abyss of pain, down to the dregs of emotional turmoil. Your mental evaluation should be in the DAM. You guys are sickos.

      A Guy tried this nonsense with me while minding my business. sorry not a guy but A"tata". Within three weeks I could sense he was a useless person I cut him off.But as usual they always come back with full force.

      Friends, then complained I don't give men benefit of a doubt. Okay ooo. So gave him a second chance but he started his useless time wasting propaganda. Wouldn't open his mouth to ask me out but act jealous when other guys show interest.calling me pet names and all that rubbish without saying anything After two months grace I gave him.
      Tried Blocking traffic but refused to move or park his car in the garage.I cut him off forever. Later saw his picture on my friends phone who had no idea I knew him. Learnt he was engaged to her cousin during those time he was wasting my time they planned their intro.

      Some years later, he came to my husband's company to submit a proposal,where i am actually the CEO. A few building projects were in the works and my husband already told me he had it in mind to give the contracts(2)to the company where the idiot worked.You know what happened next? Yes you guessed right😁.

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  19. Never seen anyone as authoritative as a 2year old. πŸ™† Good morning beautiful people.

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    1. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ you are so right about that!

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ it’s like they have a cheerleading squad 🀣. My nieces Dey this group. πŸ˜‚

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  20. Please I have a mind bugging situation

    What do you think of a father that is always demanding knowing fully well that you have your own responsibilities. Before month end he will be blowing your phone.on the first of a new month he will be sending text message as early as 5am.
    Every time its money,money

    I am really sad,after sending him money yesterday.I stopped picking his calls.

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    1. That is the first step you did by not picking his calls
      You can change your numbers too and only use the one he calls to talk to him after that you off the phone or block or put at calls divert.

      Just because they gave birth to you, shoould not mean you will kill uourself for him


      Be firm, he will get the message.u

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    2. Talk to him about it.
      You can also choose to send the money in batches like thrice or twice a month insread of sending it at once. That is if you have a fixed amount you send to him monthly

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    3. Your father is teaching you how to be a grown up. Set very firm boundaries. Only give when you have. Put your own family first and start putting something aside for your own old age so history does not repeat itself.

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    4. Sorry dear. Some parents are like that.
      Make him understand you have responsibilities and won’t be able to meet up his demands sometimes.

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    5. Let him know you have responsibilities also. Put him on a monthly salary and make sure you don’t give anything else after that till the following month. Let him know and enforce it. I sat my mum down and let her know I can’t be her atm when I have responsibilities. That salary is it. She ain’t paying fees or rent so she has a lot to live off so she needs to be considerate. She listened and stopped. Have a discussion and be stern. Do not dilly dally else he will not take you serious. Be matured.

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    6. some dads are good,they wont stop taking your calls when you will be blowing there phones asking for money for handout,for food stuff,transport,clothing

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  21. So, I said yesterday that I had no idea how my phone went from a battery of 99% to that of 0% and some bv said that the ba3 is already faulty, and that it is time to change my phone.

    I want to clarify something...
    I bought this phone last four month which is January, and it is a Nokia phone ( Nokia 6). Now, I do not see Nokia products as one that develops fault easily. This phone is still as good as new. If it was a China phone, I would have just started wondering whether I was duped. Except maybe Nokia now has refurbished / fake... Or maybe there are certain things that I wasn't supposed to be doing that I normally do.

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    1. There is China version of Nokia 6 and even Samsung products. They are cheaper than the real deal.

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    2. Who still uses Nokia? If you don't use an iPhone or Samsung then I don't know again πŸ™„

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    3. Change your charger first and see if it continues. It happened to me and I changed my charger and it stopped.

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  22. BVs please, I really need you guys to input in this matter. If you have any suggestions, please do suggest.

    The thing is_ our last born does not know how to read. He tries in mathematics more than any other subject. His first term result was bad (average: 47%) even though I tried helping him with revisions during exam. Now, this second term result moved from bad to worst ( wasn't able to do revision for him this time). His average was 39%. He is in jss1. He came back yesterday crying that his teacher told him he failed woefully that he doesn't want to go to school again. In fact, he wanted to go get his locker from school today but we refused him doing that.

    NB: this my brother fell from a three storey building when he was four years old. Now, I don't really know if that was what affected him even though it was confirmed that he was very okay after he was checked in two different hospitals by the doctors ( he only had broken teeth and he was on braces for three month).

    He is so behind his mate in terms of studies.
    I really need a way to help him cause I believe if he learns how to read very well, he will excel in his studies but I really do not know how to go about it. I know I can read my self but I am not a teacher so I had no idea how I learnt that.
    Please, I need your suggestions on how to go about it. So sorry for the epistle.

    I wanted to send this as a Chronicle but I don't know how long it will take for Stella to post, and I really need urgent solution since third term just started.

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    1. Get him a good private lesson teacher that will engage him most of the time.
      It will cost you good money.

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    2. My cousin fell from the tree in the village 4 years ago and it affected him. He was in the university and had to drop

      I will advice you guys take him to a specialist hospital where they need to examine him thoroughly.

      Please keep on encouraging him. Also get a good lesson teacher.

      It is well

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    3. Eyaaa sorry about him. Encourage him always, he shouldn’t pay attention to anything negative. Then get him small sized short story books with pictures and bold words. Let him start from there, every evening, he finds a quiet place to read and enjoy these books. With each progress, you upgrade the books.

      Please buy the foreign story books not African storytelling books. The foreign ones are very insightful and engaging. That’s how my late dad taught us how to read. Every evening, we read to him for like 10mins, he corrects and encourages us with the words we struggle with then after which, we have the books to ourselves till 10pm when we return it (in good condition- that’s part of the criteria 😁).

      Your brother will be fine. Keep encouraging him.

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    4. First thing you will need is patience. He will get there but it might take time.
      2) Go to his school and have a talk with his Teachers. The words of a Teacher should build and encourage not destroy.
      3)Invest in him. Time and money. Find something or a subject he is good at and spur him on. When he is excel at that, you can then introduce other subjects.

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    5. why not try getting him a home tutor that we help him a lot. and don't fail to encourage him.

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    6. If you can get him a good teacher that can teach him after school,it think it can help
      And secondly,if there's anything he loves doing aside books,it will also help
      Lastly,he is still young and i believe he will learn.Always let him know that he can do it.He needs lots of encouragement
      Good luck with him

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    7. That teacher should never have told him he failed woefully. He should have encouraged him to do better.

      I always ask children who can 'beat' the best student in their class and if they do not put up their hands, I chastise them for it. I tell them there's nothing wrong if everyone comes first.

      That they should never believe that they can't do as good as the first student or even better.

      I am really ashamed of that teacher.

      As for your brother, pls try and get him a private teacher. Watch him for some months and see if he gets any better

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    8. Your brother might be dyslexic. People think such kids are dumb, but really they are just suffering from a disorder that makes reading difficult. Please have him checked out for this and let him receive help.

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    9. You didn't state the age of your brother. First of all he needs to be examined to rule out dyslexia. Get a home tutor to take him through reading foundation which are the alphabet sounds, 2letter words, 3letter words etc. Once he is familiar with the sounds, he will gradually begin to pronounce words individually and in sentences.

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    10. He doesn't know how to read? Have you considered if he's dyslexic? That can make it difficult to read, or ADHD? He will need educational support if that is the issue but that doesn't mean he's not intelligent because they can be very intelligent, it means he needs a bit of help to overcome the challenge.

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    11. He needs help. With a good lesson teacher, he will improve. You didn't state your location, I would take him up if he is in Ibadan.

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    12. Get him a very good home tutor. You will testify within a short time.

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    13. Thank you so much guys for your contributions.
      Now, I know all I've got to do. THANK YOU

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    14. Very good home tutor, be patient and he should be given utmost attention and encouragement. He's self esteem and complex has to be protected. he should always see himself as the best among equals. "Gifted hands" is an example.

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    15. Gifted hands by Ben Carson

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  23. TGIF..........����������������
    Good morning one and all,
    Up and thankful to Jah
    It's a beautiful morning my people
    Have a good and wonderful day ahead and a fantastic weekend

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  24. Good morning ❤

    Day 3 of

    Month of testimonies and breakthrough from the captivities of the evil men and women. If u believe just key into our prayers today starting by 12pm and 12am each passing day till the 16th of MAY. Let's move God to do wonders in our lives this MAY. By the grace of God I have tabled your requests before the throne of mercy...this MAY is for signs and wonders, freedom from the shackles of disappointment, late marriages, joblessness, ill health, Joyless Marriages, unfruitfulness, unsuccessful businesses etc. We will be praying!


    Join us today 12pm & 12am NGT and pray ur problems out for a mighty turn around.


    Before saying a prayer u have to read a psalm πŸ‘‡πŸ½ which speaks to your problem/plight.

    Powerful Psalms to read...


    Psalm 22 Misfortune away.

    Psalm 57 Fortunate in all things.

    Psalm 62 Holy blessing.

    Psalm 72 From poverty.

    Psalm 34 High pple receive you.

    Psalm 36 Against libel.

    Psalm 32 To receive grace,love and mercy.

    Psalm 28 To reconcile with your enemies.

    Psalm 44 To make yourself beloved.

    Psalm 61 Make your home lucky.

    Psalm 40 To free yourself from evil spirits.

    Psalm 48 To strike terror in your enemies.

    Psalms 6.2, 91 Healing and Deliverance.

    Psalm 113, 128 Conception.


    You can read these psalms any where, any time.

    #PrayersInMAY
    #GodAnswersPrayers
    #InHumbleAdoration
    #WeAreComingWithTestimonies
    #JoinThePrayers

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  26. Talk to him about it.
    You can also choose to send the money in batches like thrice or twice a month insread of sending it at once. That is if you have a fixed amount you send to him monthly

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  27. I will chat some people up on WhatsApp and they will not reply. Some will read and reply days after, some will leave our communication hanging. So, I decided to start paying such people back in their own coin. I deliberately marked them. Now, they have started bugging me and asking me if all is well. I will reply them after 10 days and I will ignore some forever. Friendship isn't one sided at all. People value you more when you don't make yourselves easily available for them.

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    1. So annoying. Na you do me ah do you back be my new name now o.

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    2. OK na. Ndi s& m people. Make una carry go

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    3. I agree. I learnt this the hard way.

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  28. My heart is heavy and no one to speak to that will understand, I cried all night and can't sleep. The story of my life and near death experience I wrote in a book 3 years ago amidst tears, lonelines, false accusations, abandonment even from my family while I was in the prison for 30days and 30 nights on a murder case I was innocent of. My 13yrs old daughter that is not even a baby took her time to tear a full note book into pieces before I got back from work. I have a lot of books, I Intensionally hid that one from her, that is the only book that reminds me of what I've been through in this life and today makes it exactly 3yrs I miraculously gained my freedom. She tore the book last night could it be a coincident ??? I'm not even in the right state of mind to go the office, I'm losing my mind

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    1. You want to constantly remind yourself of the pains you went through by going through the book whereby your heart will be heavy and you find it difficult to let go and forgive. Whe
      When you also pray to God everytime to forgive you and not remember your sin.

      Better go and hug your daughter for doing the right thing. God used her to turn evetything to shred so that you can have peace and also be at peace with God.

      Sprry you went through all that.
      Dont you think God has a plan for you. He wants you to turn your lemon to lemonade


      Peace and it is well with you my dear sister. Dry up your tears.
      You are now in a new page.n

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    2. I am sorry you are going through such turmoil. Your daughter tearing up the book is symbolic to me. It means God wants to start a new positive book in your life. Don't keep clinging on to your past. God miraculously rescued you. That alone should be cause for joy! Your daughter may have torn up the book but the story is till yours now.

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    3. So sorry for your pains. It could be symbolic that she was led to tear it. Don't dwell on your past. Look onto the bright future and see what God will do for you

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  29. God is awesome. A friend's nephew almost died yesterday. What happened? He hid at the back of the car when she took him to school. Just because they introduced a new policy of students signing in when they come to school, she got distracted when signing so she didn't watch to see that everybody was out of the car. She drives a big SUV so its easy for a small human to hide at the back.

    She was almost halfway back when she heard a sound at the back of the car. She parked and checked, Lo and behold a small 2yr old was crouching behind the seat. She just started weeping because she was on the way to the gym where she would have stayed for at least 4hours. That child would have been locked up in the car and he would have suffocated before she was done.

    Mercy said no. No loss this month. We are all so thankful that nothing happened to the little boy. Thank you Jesus.

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    1. Thank you Jesus Christ. Don't want to imagine the heat and hotness of this country weather.

      God is good.

      Children are something else. I know what we are facing with our little ones

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    2. Thank God for the wonderful testimony...
      May God be praised now and forever..

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    3. Ha! This is a huge miracle. Thank God o.

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    4. Our God is awesome. Nawa oo kids sef....

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  30. From the Post about the Northern Wife who took her husband to Sharia Court
    Anonymous 2 May 2019 at 21:28
    It could be true. When I was very young. My father and mother had a disagreement. Naturally, my mum will go quiet and not say a word but this very day she was trying to explain and this got my father very upset. As he raised his hand, my step brother that my dad adopted held it and warned him seriously. Throughout my stay from childhood to teenager, it really never happened. And to think my Dad is older than my maternal grandfather, so trust me, my step brother damned all consequences. Even after that, my dad still paid his school fees and saw him through the University. Please don't pray for my step Bro. He slept with me from like 5yrs till I entered the University and ran off to school. Though there was no penetration, he will f..k my thighs. Now that I'm married, that's the only way I get to enjoy sex and have an organ. Do now has to f..k my clitoris, else nothing. I didn't know how to speak up, so one day, I called him an ashewo, he reported me and my parents asked him to mount me on his back whilst I was being flogged. To avoid me running heater shelter. Oluwole A....e. It shall not be well with you. My father loved you and took you as a son but you are just a Bastard. From one of your many sisters you messed up.

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    1. It's an anonymous comment from the post of the Northern Wife who took her husband to Sharia court for beating her.

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    2. May God heal you completely. If your hubby is understanding I think you should pour your heart to him.

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  31. Good morning my people, some peeps were carrying rumor that ippis has started capturing for Nipost peeps in Abuja, we don't know how true it is, before we waste our Money traveling to Abuja.

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  32. Good morning everyone, there is something bothering me, since I got married me and hubby have been doing only missionary style , no other style just because we trying to get pregnant ,our sex life is zero, we do it just twice in a month, and have tried talking to him no changes, what all this sef

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    1. It is because both of you have conditioned your heart and mind to sex for children and not love.

      Sex is enjoyable when done lovingly.

      Why dont you people spice up.

      Babies will come at Gods own time. Dont give up. Both of you can plan weekends away from home.

      Go to somewhere romantic and you will see changes n

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    2. You can do doggy too. It I also good for those trying to conceive. When doing the missionary style, make sure a pillow is under your bum bum to raise it up, when your hubby is about to 'release', raise your legs up, hang them on his shoulders so that the sperm will enter where it is supposed to enter. Then lay down for at least 15mins after the match.

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    3. Yori yori gbam. Poster enjoy sex and forget pregnancy. It will come

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  33. Good morning all and lovely day as we go out to our various hustles.

    God bless and keep us all. Amen.

    Before you rushed out of the bed, did you say Good Morning to our Lord and Personal Saviour Jesus Christ? Too many evils and so many have been marked for destruction. Don't be among.

    Always invite Jesus Christ in all your doings.

    Congrats to those who really needs it and thank God for another breaking of the day.

    Blessed morning all

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  34. ANG my love where art thou??? Waiting to copy and paste ooo. Happy weekend everyone!

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    1. Bingo welcome back!!!!
      I kept searching for you all over ANG's posts yesterday. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  35. Goo morning bvs
    Pls bvs recommend a good facial cleanser/scrub/cream fo my face. I do have pimples, big ones and I also have only face. I'm job hunting and this face will not allow me to be great. My budget is 5k. Thanks all

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    1. facial cleanser neutrogena-1800/ 2000 N SIX- 900(big bottle)

      scrub- Salt srcub- 1000

      face cream, try sivoderm/epiderm or skineal

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  36. Good morning beautiful Stella nwanyioma. Na only you I do greet this morning. God bless you so much. I love you plenty.

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  37. Shout out to all the ghost on watsapp status that will view your status without showing..... Wetin una gain. πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

    I never knew a friend was even on my watsapp contact until she asked for a bag price. I was like where you here πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. That thing is very annoying...if I notice someone on my contact doing that I block them instantly...

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    2. Depends on who you activate to view your status. If it's just those saved on your contact you won't see it.

      I can view your status because I have your number saved but you won't see me.

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  38. A child ask God:IG everything is already written in destiny why should I wish?
    God smiled and said:maybe on some pages I have written, "As you wish".

    Good morning to you all.

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  39. I love Fridays. Words cannot explain it. Good morning all

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  40. Good morning kings and queens
    hope una sleep well.

    Stellz thanks alot for the advert yesterday. God bless you greatly.
    thanks a million.

    citizens of nigeria, are we quarrelling? patronize your girl na😊😊😊

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  41. Good morning people.Its a great day to be alive.Thankful.

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  42. Up and thankful.. Good morning everyone

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  43. Good morning bvs
    Happy weekend to you,yes YOU!

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  44. Helloooooo!


    #internationaltailor

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  45. It's my Birthday! Thank you Lord for another year

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    1. Happy birthday Ebony. God bless you beyond your wildest imaginations.πŸŽ‰

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    2. goodvibesonly3 May 2019 at 11:04

      Happy birthday dear

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    3. Awww happy birthday 😘😘😘😘

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  46. Ah Friday getting ready for tommorow's catering work.

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  47. From yesterday IHN

    Anonymous2 May 2019 at 14:06
    She is my best friend but I'm definitely not hers because she got engaged and told the people she wanted to tell and told me months later. I wonder why she did that. I'm not a jealous person or a talkative. I'm married BTW
    Happy married life in addy though

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    The reply that offed me

    Anonymous3 May 2019 at 00:18
    Why did you remain friends With a single girl after marriage? Very risky something. Na God catch you
    My own friend started giving me space after I married, I just discarded her, good riddance. Surprisingly, after she married she started coming close again, I just blocked her, no way. Now my husband is my best friend, I only have females as casual friends.

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    1. The comment from anon 00:18
      Was very disturbing
      I read it twice

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    2. A smart single lady gave her space so she won’t be accused of being funny with her husband and she misinterpreted it. Na wa ooo.
      Omo , I give them married people their space after one jokingly made a comment about not gonna be comfortable having me around when the husband is arand. Childbirth, naming and birthday, I no show, helped her matter the more. I respect myself a whole lot. 😊

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  48. I may not agree with all Tonto’s antics but she is a strong woman
    There is this culture of silence in Africa.

    The culture affects African women. We are constantly being told what to do. Smile but don't smile too much, laugh but don't laugh too loud, pray for him, move on, focus on your children, don’t be bitter, don't report to the Police, keep quiet, suppress yourself.
    This culture of silence is the reason most ladies can't report cases of domestic abuse and rape to the Police. They are faced with discouragement from family and friends. They are asked to keep quiet or no man will marry them.

    Our mother’s inherited that culture of silence, some took refuge in their children, some died in silence, unhappy and sad, most internalized their pain and unfortunately they passed on the silence to their female children. The male children are strengthened, the female children are weakened.
    Tonto is breaking those barriers. It is okay if Churchill grants an interview and bashes Tonto, most women will tell her, ignore him...same culture of silence. An evil man prospers when people keep quiet. He will move on to his next target and continue to mistreat women until someone speaks up. Tonto is breaking the silence. She is speaking up. It doesn't matter if you went through something similar, kept quiet and moved on, it does not make you better than her.

    Let her speak. Most about to be married women are asking Tonto to keep quiet...it is Dopamine that is worrying you, when the transition from dopamine to real love sets in, your eyes will clear. Most newly married women are asking Tonto to keep quiet, it is a combination of horniness and dopamine that is disturbing you. Some male folks that flourishes in the silence of a woman want her to keep quiet. Some divorced women are asking her to keep quiet because they are ashamed of their own story (Divorced women are shamed in Nigeria because of the culture of silence so they become timid and ashamed).

    So the wise ones are asking Tonto to speak. Break the silence. If the YouTube channel is not enough, speak , speak, your speaking has helped some woman out there. Your speaking is riling the patriarchal society. So keep speaking.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. The writeup is beautiful. I think why this culture of silence remains is that we have lived in it for so long. Its become like our second nature. Thats why i cannot bash tonto, not because i agree with all she does but because u cant tell a person how to grieve. Just like u said it doesnt mean that if we went tru sth similar and moved on, it doesnt make us better than her..I just pray that for everyone whose hurting out there that they find solace and they find wat they are looking for.

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    2. Mtcheeeeeeeew

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  49. Goodmorning all, thank God its friday. A little rest for Jack, wishing you all great day

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  50. Good morning everybody in d house😘😘

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  51. Good morning my lovely fsmily,how una dey now..a blessed day ahead of us.

    Stella,job well done and may the good Lord continue to bless you.

    Blog P.A,,i dey here,where is my own data ooo

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  52. Enter your comment...thank God it's Friday.

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  53. Enter your comment...i had a dream that I was denied visa after going through different process and I have never apply for visa or planning to, please what does it means?

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