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Media Personality Toke Makinwa Says People Heal Differently When Hurting...

Media Personality Toke Makinwa says everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want and however long they want to......








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  1. Yaba left escapee4 May 2019 at 09:32

    .... thats true, but when theres an innocent child in the picture, you should know how to shield them from your "healing", or your healing will scar them for life.
    Another senseless person is this Toke.

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    1. YLE how is she senseless? Please can you explain, for I need to know. You agreed on her statement in your first sentence and went on to say she is senseless.

      Do you agree with senseless people according to your first sentence? If yes, what then are you?

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    2. You're one of those people Toke is referring to. Have you walked in the shoes of the other person grieving? Don't be the judge..

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    3. Yaba you're the senseless person here. Useless cretin.

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    4. Sooo if you've never been suicidal u can't tell some1 who is how to heal? ..thats how people will be killing themselves. Toke is senseless abeg @teejay

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    5. Her supporters are not thinking straight.

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    6. Teejay, you think YLE has your type of strenght to be replying people that dont agree with his comments? FYI he is right, when you have a child with the so-called beast, you shouldnt give him reasons to think his father is a beast & cult member, that physically assaults women, how do u think that kids future will be? You married wrongly, why do u want your kid to suffer the aftermath

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    7. Teejay n Anon...is she the only dumped,abandoned or divorced woman in Nigeria?There are many women she is better than whose husband divorced with more than three kids but she still kept her calm.Tonto is just disgracing herself upandan cos she has a son for him...my landlady behaved like this and now,she is back with the husband after all the disgrace n embarrassments.What if there was no social media? let her keep washing her dirty linen outside.

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    8. This YLE is a big fool ooo chai

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    9. I wrote a very long reply to that old cow up there called yaba left but it just mysteriously disappeared. Oh ,well .

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    10. Toke is senseless as yaba said, there are many reasons to prove it, who has the strenght to start typing all for you.

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    11. @teensy he's even more senseless and useless

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    12. Shooter.. this isn't mac and Kay and clarins.. Shiny nails on an airhead. All you damn know are fugazzi stuff and you hardly make a point without sounding bitchy or daft. Famzer oshi.. no wonder chikito cut rope for you.. ODE. Kill yourself if my anonymity itches you

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    13. We don't pray or rather I don't pray to walk in your shoes. Toke be giving Tontoh high moral. People heal differently shah.

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    14. Tonto was a notorious nightmare even before she met Churchill so if she's truly hurting, it must be from pain that had been there long before she came on screen. This girl has been evil for long, are people that forgetful? I remember how shocked we all were when she found love and got married, why were we shocked if not because she had a terrible character?!?

      Did Churchill also make her burn the bags of her young client, record and send it to the poor girl?!? You guys are not helping Tonto by shifting the blame to Churchill, her marriage to him only helped to reveal her character the more...

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    15. Chikito did what? Lmao!!! You're obviously pained. Senseless mad man. If my comment pained you so much, I can help you hang yourself and feed your corpse to the vultures. Your entire existence is even useless seeing you're thoroughly foolish and insane

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    16. Can you get over that bag for goodness sakes? Haba! Every other post, it’s “burnt the bag, burnt the bag”. Hian!

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  2. Nice one. Don't mind people saying rubbish when they don't know the emotional state of someone.

    If talking can make the person fine or writing a book. It is ok

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  3. Exactly what I said some days back. Most people who castigate people telling their stories, will do worse than those they are castigating if found in such situation. Humans are so hypocritical in nature.

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  4. May God heal everyone
    What happens behind closed doors, God knows πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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  5. Damaged people supporting each other. From Bobrisky to Toke and that nudist call Eti Osa abi etinosa.

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ abeg leave me o....they are truly damaged! Instead of turning your lemons to lemonade, they are busy forcing the public to drink their acidic lemons

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    2. I swear o.. Ah thank goodness there are still people that have sense out there. @aproko queen & @DON I hail.

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    3. This Don ehnn 😁. Afi Eti Osa naa.

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    4. And i just passed that Eti osa this morning🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    5. You think you're funny ba? Mumu

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    6. Aproko, Did Toke not turn her lemons to lemonade? Contradictory much?

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  6. If that was true then mental illness will not be a thing. There is a line you cross and your medical diagnosis is confirmed. E get as fever go hot reach dem go call am cerebral malaria.
    We should not validate every silliness as an individual's right to do as they wish because you are healing. You are free to do as you wish and the public is also free to call out your madness.

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    1. Another judge Judy

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    2. THANK YOU!
      You put your shit out there, we shouldnt complain when it smells?

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    3. Ode @anon9.47

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  7. Na them them, I rest my case. I know Mercy Johnson has proved so many point on this saga.

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  8. True sha.
    Until life hits you, you cant really tell how you would behave. Some girls in Tontos shoes might even go as far pouring Church Acid Annonymously. Obviously she's deeply hurt her way of healing is loud rant.

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  9. I came in to have a close look at the nyash they said was not properly done,ok seen,let me come and be going

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    1. Lol... So what is your observation? But to me that ass isn't bad. Looks so good and seated perfectly.

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    2. The deformed yansh have been repaired as you can see

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    3. Her nyansh go turn to 'down below' nyansh if she no take care o. With only heel shoes, the nyansh will set but without it, it will look like down below.

      #Runsaway

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  10. Those with kids that they love so much and will give their life for them no matter how bad the situation is, will not be talking like this.

    You suffered to carry your precious kid(s) for between 36-40weeks (in some cases even more) bear the Pains of labour/delivery and some even go through more pains through cesarean birth, and then you go online acting all crazy and displaying erratic behaviors without first considering the pains you're causing your kid(s)... Then, you are not worthy to be a mother. A mother will first consider her kid(s) before going knowingly to remove her clothes at the market square for people to see the size of her mamary glands and how well shaved her pubic region is or the shape of her varginal.

    It is only self-centered and and crazy selfish women that are writing in support of that bipolar girl.

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    1. You have been on Tonto's case, running on every post to blast her, is it not so sick and pathetic of you? She does not even know you. Her son is none of your business! Worry about your divorced and lonely self. You have a son too, why did your husband abandon and leave you? You know you were the problem and that is why you kept quiet, accept your L and keep quiet. MANY OF YOU NIGERIANS ARE STUPID AND PATHETIC, YOU WORRY ABOUT A child you don't participate on his welfare? That boy is an American, what looks like a scandal in the typical angry poor Nigerians, is not for Americans. The same man you people mocked for his English, is making a name for himself in America. Her son will not even grow in Nigeria or study there, he will have a different perspective about life. You are the bipolar here for following a mad person, commenting on all the post, hating on her. Did you even bath your lonely son? You sound frustrated and angry. You are unhappy because you wished you had Tonto gut to the same thing she is doing,but you are too stupid and lack confidence to even call out your ex husband who abandoned you. Get a life, Tonto signed 3 endorsements and it is not even half year gone, she is making money on youtube, more than 12k subscribers in 2 days. How much money have you made since you starred jumping on Tonto matter for the past 5 days? Why are you angry?

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    2. Abeg rest! What did Tonto ever do to you? Is she the cause of your predicament? No go face your dysfunctional life u hear? Na her matter go kill u finally

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    3. Being divorced is not a crime @ angry anonymous!
      I will leave comments on any post I deem fit for my comments. This is a public blog and Stella allows and approved my comments, so, you have no right to tell me on what post to comment on.

      I am divorced but I am not angry and throwing tantrum like a crazy woman.

      I am raising my boy with the support of my ex (you see how different is a lamb from a goat) and I am in good terms with my ex.

      She's been signing different endorsement and she is still very bitter, imagine if endorsement were not coming...

      Oh, thanks for reminding us that her son is American, like you don't know, if she was living in the US acting all crazy like this, the social welfare will be on her case and be knocking on her door!
      And also, she would have been declared not safe to be roaming in the public. She would have been place in one of those correctional centres and be monitored.
      You are the pathetic and stupid one.... You also forget that what look like a scandal in the eyes of the American is not for Nigerians living in Nigeria.
      The most things Nigerians get away with in Nigeria are unaccepted in the US too.

      You are very stupid for assuming that you know anything about me and my ex...

      Birds of a feather.... Keep wailing. The end result will be hypertension.
      Mad women.

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    4. Didn’t know this mrs A is a fool too smh.

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    5. Anon 11:10 I don't know why people hate Tonto that much. If she don't tell her story, who else will? Should she have deny the public the knowledge of what really happened?

      When her ex-husband granted interview, no body caution him but quick to start preaching on Tonto revelations. I forgot, it's a man's world after all.

      One thing with false accusation is that if you don't respond it becomes truth to the public. Churchill granted interview to exonerate himself and Tonto silence would have mean admittance. So we should allow her express herself in whatever manner she deem fit.

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    6. Anon11:10 you need Jesus in your life bcos you sound pained and bitter.

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    7. TEEJAY don't mind the busy bodies, their lives are nowhere perfect and possibly worse than Tonto dike. That fool up there live on social welfare, she has no life and you wonder why she is frustrated on the independence and gut of Tonto. Churchill is a pathetic narcissist, and loser for a man who goes around to talk and grant interview. Imagine him granting 3 interviews in a week and now Tonto is the mad one? Agree Tonto is the mad one, what are y'all doing following a mad person and writing epistle from every post? It is a sign of depression, abroad can be very lonely especially when a husband abandon you with a kid you don't give attention. Lousy angry women everywhere.

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    8. Princess or whatever you call yourself you are a pained frustrated bitter idiot for noticing me being pained. You need Jesus more. Are you on heat?

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    9. Ms A
      You know I love you but your ex husband and Tonto's ex husband are not the same. Both of you didn't pass through similar stages of hurt. Some men still take care of their ex wives after divorce and still take care of their children, some don't.

      You live in a society where things work. Child Support works. The men are evolved in their reasoning. You can't even compare. Moreover you are a strong woman.

      Tonto's Ex is something, he will throw stone and hide his hands.

      Most women don't talk after their divorce not because of the children involved but because they are ashamed. Society has shamed them into silence. Failed marriage is not an excuse to hide under the rock.

      Anonymous... Please don't ever insult your fellow woman just because she is divorced, you don't know what your story will be tomorrow.

      One love Ms.A

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    10. Kai anon 11:10 you went too far. You are using what Ms A told the blog to curse her
      May God forgive you all that uses someone's pain for pleasure.

      Ms A. Please don't be offended.
      We have lots of angry annoyed and mad people who wakes up from the wrong side of the bed.

      It is well with all. Amen.

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    11. Wow! Anon went a bit far but he or she also made me understand the possible reasons for miss a’s venom a little better because I had been wondering what her beef is with tonto, going as far as saying she doesn’t deserve to be a mother etc. Now I see it’s what a lot of us have been saying. Ms A, please focus on your pain instead of lashing out at other women who dared to do what you couldn’t or didn’t do. You are not God so cannot dictate who deserves or doesn’t deserve to be a mother the same way we all cannot dictate who deserves or doesn’t deserve to be a divorcee. You never lived with Tonto and we never lived with you so stop judging so that others won’t judge you. You also need to stop trying to silence women. Tell YOUR truth and let her tell HER truth. If you decide to be silent, fine. But don’t force that on another woman, a fellow mother like you into silence. As Xoxo said, your ex is different from Tonto’s ex. You can’t expect her to deal with things the way you dealt with it if you’re not constantly being attacked and told lies against like her ex is doing. You said your ex is in your child’s life financially too, guess what? Tonto’s ex isn’t. Instead he’s lying that he’s spending money when he’s busy trying to get her to even pay him to show up in court. You say she should think of her son but Churchil shouldn’t? You know he will grow up to see all the things his father and his family have written and said about her, right? Isn’t it best for him to also be able to see his mother’s side?

      She’s even said in her interview that she tries really hard to forgive him and when she’s about to get to a forgiving place in her heart, he grants another interview to shame her. Does your ex do that to you?
      Even if you’ve been through the same or similar, stop shaming, suppressing, oppressing and silencing other women.

      Oh, and about living in the US blah blah blah. I live in the US too and a lot of mothers act up online all the time without CIS batting an eye. What are you even talking about? Are all those love and hip hop, basketball wives etc women not here in America? Don’t they threaten all and sundry online and even ask to meet at places for fights? All Tonto did is to grant interview with her receipts and you’re claiming her child’s safety would be questioned? Abeg, leave story and come back to reality. You just need more of the sensitivity pill and less of the venom when dealing with or addressing other women who are hurting. You can disagree with her but as a mother too, you should lay off other people’s children rights to be mothers. Remember you live in a glass house. ............. Just Saying

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    12. 11.10 just SHUT UP! You don't know your own future yet you have the nerve to m9pck Mrs A. Your own is coming don't worry.

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  11. I am a big fan of Toke, and its true that people heal differently. But this one Tonto is doing is really crossing the Line of healing in my opinion. This is not healing, but bitterness and self destruction. Sorry if i sound judgmental, but its the truth. May God heal her.

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  12. I agree with this absolutely! A friend was on my case cos we had an issue when I had marital problems . Even her dp status was always about me (karma at work,you ain't seen nothing yet etc). My marriage finally packed up as huncle moved out and started another relationship. It's been 3yrs now, she's facing her own crisis more humiliating than mine. She's not handling it well as bragged-she puts it all out on IG just like Tonto. My own status update now yaff change(Karma is on you babe, life na turn by turn etc).
    Never mock people going their own difficult phase.Life happens to everyone and we may never know how and when!

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  13. Tonto is not healing anything....she wants to write a book on top of your failed marriage

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    1. Even if she wants to write a book, is it your book? πŸ˜‚

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  14. We all should leave Tonto alone, let her hurt the way she wants irrespective of whether she has a son or not.

    Some people are saying she should keep mute cos she is a mother, the same people will still blame a woman who stayed in an abusive marriage cos of her kids...I ask, what's the difference?

    Churchill accused Tonto of doing all lots of things, drinking, smoking, pushing his mum etc.but now TT came out to defend herself( with Evidence) same people are crying wolf.

    If Churchill feels Tonto is lying then he should borrow a leaf from Toke's ex and charge her to court for slander and defamation of character.

    I was never and don't think I will ever b Tonto's fan, but in this particular issue, we all should drink water and mind our business.

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  16. I agree with Toke on this one oooo, if you never go thru this kain pain nor judge ooo. My own papa be like Churchill he drive my mama into depression sotey she come dey drink. When we small we think say our mama naim be problem because our papa nor go talk but when he throw way bomb the poor woman head go scatter but for outside everybody they call am better man.
    Over 10 years he nor pain rent or pay any of our school fees the story plenty.Our mama wey nor talk don make us get wound for life. Tonto dey scream or shout, my own mama na drink, some na suicide etc
    The only thing wey we the children come dey do na to pray and thank God she nor dey drink again. Abeg make una pray for am because na people wey don experience this kind thing go fit relate.
    The old man don die now but him settle with im God before he die

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  17. All those calling on Tonto to stop talking,stop disgracing her self and her son,she should move on already .Please why don't you just pray for her healing? Is it not obvious she is not doing well? Who fights with everyone? This Lady needs help and not all this bad mouthing. Ms A, from your reply to that anonymous, I understand your also devoiced but you and your ex are in a good place, but tonto is not. Please instead of judging her and placing high societal expectation on her about how a woman should handle messy devoice, pray for her. Its people like her and I that Christ died for. We are wired differently .. May she find healing in Jesus name.

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    1. God bless you o! Tonto even said she would accept prayer only

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  18. Take this info to the bank , Tonto still smokes like chimney ,possibly she stopped during those times but she's back to it . If you're changed to meet with any of her domestic staff, you'll get her horrible gist .

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    1. And so?

      Why has smoking cigarette got to do with it?

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  19. In a world where the only way to heal is to tear someone else down. How does bashing someone about how short a time they last in bed help you heal? I see oritse femi's wife@nabs fash supporting this, oritse femi's is an area boy better Don't even imagine pulling this Tonto stunt with him because the whole ajegunle boys are going to physically come for you

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    1. Just because someone supports tonto doesn’t mean she’s about to tear her own husband down. First look at the supporters’ men and look at Tonto’s ex, are they the same? Are those other men doing what Churchil is doing? I am a married mother too and even though I extremely disliked Tonto at first, I support her in this. Just because I’m in a good relationship doesn’t mean I agree with another woman and child getting used and attacked anyhow. If you’re a man and you’re worried that your woman is on Tonto’s side, then you must have some of Churchil’s characteristics or your mind is still very backward and think women must keep quiet no matter what you constantly put them through. And that is just not right....... Just Saying

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