Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Advertisement

Advertisement - Mobile In-Article

Sunday, June 02, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

WOW....!!!









STAND ALONE NARRATIVE....
BIBLICAL EXPLANATIONS ON LESBIANISM NEEDED


Hello Stella

I am a lesbian and I became this way from bad experiences in the hands of men. The first man I met took my virginity after promising me heaven and earth then suddenly I became rubbish in his eyes and he started ignoring me. 



This hurt me because he was the first guy I accepted into my life, I kept to my self for good 4 years and hated anything male. I saw them like s#x predators but after a while I opened up and tried again and I met Ebuka . From the onset he showed me love, I told him I was celibate and don't want s#x with the hope of protecting myself from harm if he decides to sleep and run away. 


I got carried away with the love he showed me and he started talking about marriage took me to meet his parent same as mine. After we did the introduction we made love constantly then i got pregnant since the wedding date had been fixed and it was just a few months away, i wasn't bothered same with our parents. That was when he started giving me attitude. I was shocked because he has always spoken about us having our babies only to start avoiding me and saying this wasn't the right time. countless times I asked about the next step on our wedding preparations but he wasn't responding.



 I went to see his parent who said he told them he wasn't interested anymore that am not the right woman. To reach him was a problem go to his office was never allowed him till I got tired and stalked him around his home. I waited from morning till evening around his house till I saw no movement so I was about leaving then I noticed someone opened the front door and I saw he has been indoor all along but not alone Stella. He was with another woman. He saw me and I held him to tell me what I had done wrong he told me he never loved me but wanted to sleep with me since I guarded my private like a prize that the other lady was his future wife. 

I collapsed how evil can a "man"go. I had my baby alone and decided to lay off men for good. I always ranted to my friend not knowing she was one. This particular day I ran over to her place and cried my eyes out. She held me tightly and cried with me.


I was moved and shocked at the same time I have never had any one feel my pain like that before. One thing let to another and she sucked the living day light out my****. Before i knew it we were both naked and she was on me riding me away and i didn't want her to stop.


The s#x was intense and the emotion was something I had never felt with a man before. She really took her time and made sure I had pleasure in every way. I had orgasm countless times and that was my first orgasm. With men they seems selfish in bed and moody distance after the deed is done that you start wandering when he is going to dump you. With her i felt safe afterwards she cuddled me like a baby went to the kitchen prepared me dinner. 


She really took care of me ,I was quiet all through asking myself what just happened but I couldn't deny I loved every bit of it. That was how we started dating and f#cking. I had my baby and he is really cute am still dating my girlfriend and I love the way she loves me. Truth is I have fallen madly deeply and crazily in love with her.

She also can die and kill for me.

 She loves me with her life Stella and I know it.she has gone up and above for me. She told me she has always loved me and was dying in silence all along waiting for me to realise this. She doesn't cheat on me because she has been cheated on before. Truth is I am really happy and feel fulfilled with her.


Now the problem is this, I saw a post by a bv recently about this being a sin. The explanation was deep and detailed that that comment by him/her made me restless and i haven't been my self since.


I ask myself how can something this beautiful be a sin mind you am a Christian but I am not religious. I believe in God and I know heaven and earth exist. I don't want to leave my girl because I have fallen madly for her and I realise that men come for me but deep down I don't desire them anymore nor does the thought of s#x with a man excite me.


 Like I feel absolutely nothing for men and I don't find them attractive just friendship. it's disgusting now.I only want her with every fiber of my being. Since the post by that bv I have been avoiding my girl and she is hurt and it hurts me to see her hurt. Yet what do I do?. I need real answers from Christians on this blog Because i am about to make a decision. 


Is this thing i am feeling really a sin and would I go to hell or heaven if I don't stop? Yes or no would do I don't want sugar coated answers like it's a sin I hear that all the time. I want detailed response please like the one that brought me to this confused state and my mind hasn't being at peace since.


P.s if I leave my girlfriend I won't be with a man anymore I would just stay on my own. because I know what love is already I have felt it and I can't go back.





Let me wait for the explanations to come.....
I wonder what this lesbianism thing is that excites you people too much.....I tried this thing a long time back and my body rejected any kind of feeling towards it..........I am shocked when i read stuff like this...I cannot even love a fellow woman to that extent of desiring her..its disgusting for me...I dont mean to sound anyhow and I am sorry if this hurts anyone's feelings oh...

Let me wait to read!!!

200 comments:

  1. I am speechless......to each their on but lesbianism, homosexuality is evil.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank you Stella for not judging

      Delete
    2. Dont dump that girl oh, Love is a rare and beautiful thing, your sexuality doesnt concern anyone, God will not let a humanbeing fall in love with a goat, forget religion, ask the so called xtians if they do all whats in the bible, lesbianism will NOT take you to hell, this ur confusion is even annoying me, you've finally found love & i want to use ur own hand to scatter it bcus of Rachucce abi wetin be her name sef comment... hold on to your love, if u were abraod you'd have seen its a normal thing, ladies even kissing on the street.

      Delete
    3. Where is Ceasar when you need him?

      Delete
    4. I am not speechless but I will go anonymous on this.

      See babe, the Christians you are expecting their comment are HYPOCRITICS!!! Just because they sin differently. They are extremely hateful and judgmental so trust me, they are just charlatans and do not understand what spirituality is about.

      Listen, hell and heaven exist and it is all about YOU and the quality you put in your life that brings about what kind of eternity you will transit into. The worst sin you can commit are self-hate, self-doubt and subjecting yourself to sadness. You must love yourself before you can love another correctly.

      Now to the matter at hand, FIND YOUR JOY. If withdrawing from this woman will make you resentful, unproductive,pained and generally not exuding positivity then my dear, that is the sin. You and this woman are not hurting anyone and if your friendship with her brings about positivity then it is no sin.

      I am not religious but I understand the laws that govern the universe. Religion is jus the opium of the masses and thrives only in fear and guilt.

      Whatever you do that does not help you love your neighbour as yourself is the sin. By all means, guard your JOY and and remain kind to yourself.

      Peace.

      Delete
    5. Anon 16:47, the word clearly says that there is no place in the kingdom of God for homosexuals. So if that life won't take her to hell as you claim where will it lead her.
      This her lesbian relationship is borne out of hate, regret and pain. Perfect love has no fear. There is nothing wrong with being alone. Poster raise your child, elevate your life. Let your trials prepare you for the purpose ahead.

      Delete
    6. 16.47. It's Recherche hun....Recherche.

      Now poster. I am so glad that my post touched you and those epistles I typed weren't in vain.
      All these questioning, uncertainty and fear... well that's the holy spirit convicting you.

      Listen! heaven is a personal race and at the end it's just you and God. I am not saying I am perfect, no far from it. The truth is I am still a work in progress. Yet we are asked to move away from the level of an infant talking baby milk to that of an adult. We will get there..trust me if only we just surrender to Christ our heart, mind, body and soul.

      I am sure some of these comments above mine has got you confused but please when you are done rummaging through all these, kindly go back to that former comment of mine that stirred your spirit to begin with. It will help declutter your mind from all debris you may have likely gathered on here by a few comments.

      If you want to talk to me you can as well send your mail to Stella and I will reach you.
      Remember only Christ loves you and he has the final say And his word is final. Not the society, civilization or that America you have been advised to abscond to.

      Delete
    7. POSTER if u like yourself dont meet her oh, she'd brainwash you. Then las las you'd be the one living in pains and regret

      Delete
    8. There’s a place in the book of Romans that says because they rebelled against the Lord, He gave them over to a rebrobate mind and they committed all manner of abominations. This was in reference to sodom and Gomorrah where homosexuality was first mentioned.
      May the HolyGhost give you understanding.
      Trust me this heart you have that makes you seek help here is on the right track. However help is not found in faceless commenters but in meditation on God’s word.
      Selah

      Delete
    9. Poster forget all these long grammars some BVs are posting. Lesbianism is sin, not God's way. The agents of Satan always want people that will accompany them to HELL fire that's why they're always telling people to forget and enjoy it while it lasts. Or some will tell you about Grace of God forgetting that God doesn't change.

      My dear don't lose HOPE on real love from good men and I pray you find that real man.

      Take that decision to stop doing that and I know God will not leave nor forsake you only if you'll seek Him diligently.

      Delete
    10. Poster concentrate yourself in God's word ,strife to be what God wants you to be, no one is perfect but we running the race towards perfection through Christ that strengthens us, flee from sexual immorality .Lesbianism is a sin. ..on the book of Genesis, God created womaan For man, and not woman for woman or man for man. Ask God for forgiveness and open up yourself to his word,from there you can get a deep conviction.
      Ps:animals of lower thinking don't practice lesbianism or homosexuality ..then why will you ,an individual created according to the image and likeness of God.
      I pray God's grace and mercy on you to come to this understanding .

      Delete
  2. Chineke save us!!! Stella I think she is talking about that post by that bv called recherche. Recherche bring yourself here ooo. This one pass me🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. She has commented already .

      Delete
    2. There's a saying that goes thus; sin fascinates and then assassinates. My dear, this is the Holy Spirit of God convicting you of sin. I once made a comment on this blog that lesbians are mostly females scorned by men in past relationships and some people attacked my comment because they didn't want to accept the truth.

      You see, most of the sins we commit make us happy. For instance, last year I had a boyfriend I loved so much but I know that the premarital sex we were having is sinful, so I had to end the relationship. He's very handsome and nice to me but as Christians, we must die to sin and live in union with Christ Jesus. You cannot call yourself a Christian and you're still living in sin. Forget the stupid, dirty love you feel for your girlfriend. I can assure you that if she gets a nice rich man today, she will dump you because every woman wants an acceptable family with kids.

      My advice to you is to reconcile with God, ask Him to forgive you the sins of your past life, repent of them and confess them, join a good church. If it's the Catholic church, join the charismatic society so that you can hear undiluted word of God and yield entirely to Christ. Trust me, it's not easy to be a true born again Christian because trials and tribulations will surely come. But you have to decide and stick to which you choose to serve; your flesh or our Lord Jesus Christ .

      Peace be with you my dear

      Delete
  3. Nne inaa!! May Jesus fix you

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I don’t even know what to say 🀭

      Delete
    2. Everyone’s shouting it’s sin, you need to stop. But what if She stops and dates men and isn’t happy anymore. Or becomes depressed.? Poster, your happiness is paramount and that which makes you happy is important.
      Funny enough, you might not be a lesbian but someone who finds comfort or love with humans irrespective of their gender

      Delete
  4. I read the 1st paragraph and stopped. Do you know how many times my heart has been broken by me? Stop blaming others for your decision.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. dear poster, that poster's message got to me and I loved her explanation, I felt like posting it on every platform.
      it is a capital letter SIN,same as fornication.
      I am not a saint, but you felt betrayed after breaking your vow for the second time, and you got hurt. Now imagine how God felt, it was still a sin you commited. The devil used your heart break as an avenue to mock you.
      Please, do not continue such a lifestyle, you have a kid to take care of.

      Delete
    2. Poster if you want to be sensible go read Betty Irabor comment about life. That's what it is...what you are doing won't make you happy because you know you are doing wrong. Look for new space in your heart to fill. Humanity makes us happy. I have not seen anyone who reached out to people and became sad.

      Delete
  5. Don't leave her. Every good thing comes from God and God has given you the gift of true love. Don't let santimonous broken hypocrites fool you into losing what u have. The conviction of right or wrong will come to you with time.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. 😯😯 I rebuke your lies!! Don't bring God into this your evil and false statement

      Delete
    2. Poster please do not take this advice.

      Delete
    3. Anon 15:06 I appreciate your thought process, not judgmental atall. Dear poster if you two are based in Nigeria, fins a way to leave the country ASAP and enter America. For only in western countries will you be able to live your live to the fullest without any inhibitions!! Don't punish any man by being in a relationship with him, good enough you already have your own child, stay true to yourself.

      Delete
    4. @15:06

      If only you wrote that "god" like this, I will not rebuke you.
      It is small "god" -Baal, Baphometh, Ashtoreth, Molech ...gods that are
      not God. The Almighty God who created this poster says it is wrong; 1 Cor. 6:9-10

      Delete
    5. @15:44
      America is not heaven
      When they die and face God
      it won't be any person that will save her.
      What she needs is The savior; Jesus irrespective
      of where she lives.

      Delete
    6. Every good and PERFECT gift comes from God. I'm sure when poster was with her baby daddy and fornication, she felt like it was a good thing from God, after all he had done introduction. What was the end result?
      Poster, lesbianism and fornication is not and can never be from God. Don't let anybody deceive you

      Delete
    7. Find your way and enter America ? @anon 15:45 Why not tell her to start trekking down to America tonight?
      Sick mind

      Delete
    8. Poster, you have to accept the part you played in breaking your own heart by yourself. You were engaged in sin, and that sin left you heartbroken. I'm sure people told you that "fornication is not sin, after all, it is pleasurable and you are in love and you are engaged, just remaining ordinary certificate of marriage".. But look at the heartbreak you experienced as a result.
      You already know lesbianism is a sin and if you need more proof, a lot of BVs have taken their time to quote supporting scripture for you.
      You mentioned that you are a 'Christian' but not religious, meaning you are just a christian in name only and you probably attend church service sometimes. Look, no man is perfect but we strive towards perfection in Christ. If you became a lesbian because of heartbreak, what will you do when this your lesbian lady leaves you? Will you turn to dogs? Horses?
      You are seeking love in all of the wrong places, you just want affection but affection fades, pleasure fades... The only constant is God and his word. And God in his steadfast love is calling your heart to him, to let him show you love. Perhaps, he will even match you with a human MAN who will love you as Christ loves the church. Hopefully you will listen and turn to him.

      Delete
    9. @Adabekee, I love your comment πŸ‘

      Delete
    10. This is a lie from the pit of hell, I don't know what God you are speaking of but the one true God doesn't even accept fornication let alone hpmosexualism. never be confident about leading people astray.

      Delete
    11. @Adebekee God bless you for your comment. Lesbianism is wrong and the poster knows it. You can never find peace in the devil's playbook no matter how it is justified with common sense. You will be left heartbroken again. You will need to find peace with your heart, channel your energy towards productive endeavour and seek God's face the best way you can.

      Delete
    12. Dear Poster, lesbianism is wrong in the sight of God. God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of this particular sin. Don't let anybody deceive you.
      Put a stop to it. It might not be easy but the Holy Spirit will help you.
      I wish you the very best.

      Delete
  6. Replies
    1. The Bible says sin is sin and no sin is greater than the other. The Christians you talk about also lie even when the Bible clearly states thou shall not lie. The very religious ones call it white lies. Please, find your happiness and live by it. Sending you love and light.

      Delete
    2. All religions lie with their Holy Books not Christians alone my dear.

      Delete
    3. Christians aren't saint but a work in progress. No human is perfect, aetheist lie,buddhist lie,Hindus lie, all humans lie, but what differentiates us all is the conviction of the Holy Spirit.

      Delete
  7. Anxiously waiting for comments.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. We term to misunderstand God most times, because we judge his instructions with out mortal mind. He says- his ways are not ours and his thoughts are not but the word of God is his clear thoughts Isaiah55v8-9
      Poster what got God angry with the case of Sodom, they went against his well and purpose.
      Christian is not a religion but a walk with Christ, obeying his instructions, corrections , 2 tim 3v16. Going to church doesn't make one a Christian only religious.
      Only the holy spirit, convicts us of our sins not man, what you read from the bv was the Holy Spirit speaking directly to You.
      God created man and woman and thats the way it stands in his will, how you feel to another woman sexually is just the manipulation of the devil not how your wired or created as most lesbians would say.
      You have fallen from grace,doesn't mean the end of the world.
      1. Repeat of your sins.
      2. Believe Jesus died for you and has forgive every sin you personally confess.
      3. Caught off that relationship its not healthy and not what God planned for you.
      4. When you feed on his word and God sees your ready he send the right person your way a man.
      My experience was in a worldy relationship for 7years, found Christ and 6months into true relationship with Jesus my ex without my knowledge already broke up with me, when she came up with the news, i was heartbroken but found peace in Gods word.
      I studied this word and was lost in his service for 4years no relationship. Today am blessed with the best wife, married with kids when i though i could never love a woman again. Learnt from my mistake where i hurt my ex also .
      Look for a bible based church, to hear the word and renew your mind.
      Am not afraid of the gospel of Christ, if you want me to recommend one. Come to winners chapel or connect online and study some books you would be blessed.

      Delete
  8. Babe Christians are judgemental trust me you are free to love anyone you want and leave the rest to God. There is no sin in it. The Bible verses that will be quoted are all in the Old Testament nothing in the New Testament so just live your life. And if you want to be with you partner you need to relocate from Nigeria this people here don’t have joy. Enjoy dear

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Ekwensu @ anon 15:12, see how daft you are??? So you have not seen the new testament quotation that they are reeling out here? Beside old testament is still very much the word of God! People like you will still run to psalms and read.

      Delete
    2. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars2 June 2019 at 16:33

      Dear poster of 15:12, you are wrong.
      Pointing out to you that you are wrong is no judgement. Most of the time, your conscience is being pricked and you decide you are being judged. But check out what you are told forget who says it and see if its right or wrong.

      Delete
    3. People like you 16:28, who claim to be Christians chase people farther away from God by your utterances. Just read what you wrote and tell me if there’s any correction in love there. Smh.

      Poster I don’t think you should avoid her just like that. I think you should meet with her even if it’s in a public place and tell her your worries. She helped you through something so leaving her without any explanation is to me callous. Meet and tell her how you feel and her reaction will tell you if you should see her again. If you truly want to come out of it, take it one day at a time. Your hatred for men won’t help matters at all. I have met men who are scums but not all men are scum. There are still very good men. I’m so happy you had your child though.

      Delete
    4. POSTER!!!
      Are you seeing the full hypocrisy is christians like 16:28 ? Thats how christians are, using one hand to call God and the other to call ekuensu... those are the fools you want to throw away your joy for? You better open your eyes

      Delete
    5. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

      Anon 15:12, you are being deceived by the enemy. So deep that you're now telling lies about the word of God so you can lead people to satan.

      Delete
  9. What do I know Stella? Let's sit n wait for others.* Spreads mat and grabs popcorn*

    ReplyDelete
  10. 1 Corinthians 6:9 Don’t you realize that THOSE WHO DO WRONG will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, OR PRACTICE HOMOSEXUALITY

    The Lord said that it is WRONG and those who practice homosexuality will
    not inherit the kingdom of God.
    What will they inherit? The kingdom of hell -a city on fire of course.
    If you are a Christian, then follow Jesus.
    The fornication you were involved in
    previously was also mentioned in the
    above litany of sins that are
    atrocious before God. So as you keep away from homosexuality/lesbianism,
    keep away from fornication also.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Plzzz stop there and don't tell her to move away from what makes her happi...ahhh i hate people that use manual book to tell people dey are right or wrong cos u are not in her shoe.

      Delete
    2. @Leomasluv
      Is it the Bible that you are calling "a manual book?"
      May God have mercy on you.

      Delete
    3. She called it a manual book, she even hype am sef, that bible is for children to read and sleep, then to threaten them to behave well, im glad atheism opened my eyes! Plenty bullshit in there, you christians do pick and choose inside that bible.
      Poster if you like mumu and throw the one true love you have, you'd be so miserable

      Delete
    4. @Leomasluv,cocaine, drugs,killing, makes some folks happy, does it mean it's right and should be condoned?
      Stop talking foolishly and posting like a child all because you want to counter someone's comments.

      The poster has a child, a child she loves that came out from an unpleasant union, yet she LOVES that child. This should speak volumes. ..homosexuality isn't normal, because some folks indulge in it doesn't make it right. The world as we know it wouldn't be today if the world was homosexual.

      The poster is just emotionally down and sought the support from the wrong person. If her heart has been pricked by a post,God is probably talking to her. She should just seek God and he will show her the way.

      Delete
    5. I read something about perversion and ever since my mindset on a lot of things changed. I'd like to say that one good thing God did for the human race was to give them the freedom to choose who or what they want to be. Since time immemorial the Devil has been in the game of perverting what was good that God made. God created man and woman, the devil perverted it, God created peace, the devil perverted it, God created truth the devil perverted it. The Devil cannot create anything on his own, so whatever God created he perverted. Remember that you're not living your life for anyone but God only. How other Christians live their lives is not a checkbook for how you live yours. I ask that the Holy Spirit of God will help you in seeking out the truth that you find.

      Delete
  11. Yes, it is wrong and I am a Christian.
    You are on the right path to stopping it
    But let me warn you, the spirits will
    fight back. You have to fast and pray like thrice a week to discipline your flesh to overcome.

    1 Corinthians 6:9-10
    Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.

    Leviticus 18:22
    You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination.

    Romans 1:24-29
    Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers,

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. 1 Timothy 1:10 The law is for people WHO ARE SEXUALLY IMMORAL OR
      WHO PRACTICE HOMOSEXUALITY,
      or are slave traders, liars, PROMISE BREAKERS, or who do anything else that
      contradicts the wholesome teaching


      Do you see that both you and your boyfriend/fiance belong to the same group
      that God will judge by his laws. You need to come out of that group by
      repenting and accepting Jesus' salvation by Grace offer.

      Delete
  12. It is sin biko, desists from it and ask God for forgiveness.This generation is/will be worse than sodom and gomorrah, God have mercy on us.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Dear poster, yes, lesbianism is a sin. I am not saying this because I am judgmental but because that's what the Word of God says. When one truly loves you, he will tell u the truth in love to save you.

      I do hope u will listen to your conscience and turn around. You were at your most vulnerable state, you wanted love and what looks like love found you. But truth is - that's not love. All your life you have been looking for love in the wrong places and u end up being hurt. And now you meet someone of the same sex who gives you what you have been searching for - love, attention, companionship and the normal response in this situation is not to let go. You build your world around her but you forget that she is only but a man and man fails. What happens when she fails you? You get depressed, suicidal?

      This is the time you get up and build your world around God. Only He cannot fail. Receive Jesus into your heart and leave the rest to Him. When the Holy Spirit dwells inside of you, you will know that lesbianism is alien to God's nature that became your nature when you received Jesus as Lord and Savior.

      Jesus is the true love you seek. Don't let the devil decieve you with what looks like love but isn't. He is a specialist in doing that.

      You are loved.


      Delete
  13. "Now the problem is this, I saw a post by a bv recently about this being a sin. The explanation was deep and detailed that that comment by him/her made me restless and i haven't been my self since."
    I copied this from your narrative.
    If you already have this up there, who then are you giving a research work to help you support or castigate the path you have chosen?
    If that which you have read so far is not enough, then all I can say is;
    'Your discretion will preserve you'

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. This comment has been removed by the author.

      Delete
    2. πŸ™„huh???? How many 'mama Mia' do we have here???? Na wah ooo. Ndi fraud!!!

      Delete
    3. This comment has been removed by the author.

      Delete
    4. Thanks a lot for the compliments.
      This one you're answering my blog name, am I safe?
      Please pity me and leave my name for me na...

      Delete
    5. Hahahahahaha what is happening here?

      Delete
    6. See as you open ur own nyash, coming back to hype your stupid self

      Delete
    7. πŸ€—catch am πŸ€—

      Delete
    8. hahahahahahahaha.

      too much sense fall on you Mama Mia☺

      Delete
    9. different account guys.

      Delete
    10. 🀣🀣🀣
      Seriously though, I think someone cloned Mama Mia's account. The profile pictures are not the same. Something similar has happened on this blog before and it caused big fight.

      Delete
    11. AdaBekee very possible. I’ve seen a comment on here with my name blabbering and I replied that it wasn’t me. I replied the comment with a disclaimer, came back to the post and I couldn’t find both the imposter’s comment and my reply.

      Delete
    12. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ busted.

      Delete
    13. Lesbianism is a sin no matter how light you wish to paint it.

      Delete
    14. Anon 16.31, Pipi Lee, AdaBekee and Kiks thanks a lot. You people are real smart with a good eye for sporting out frauds.
      Anon 16.55, not me darling, I don't do such hypes or any kind of hype that does not reflect positively on my account balance.
      Sugar babe, there's really nothing to bust if you look closely...

      Delete
  14. Lesbian love can strong sha, ive seen it first hand

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. They fit kill for love. Fear le le o

      Delete
    2. Read Rom 1:25-27. It is a sin but you must first deliberately give your life to Jesus so the Holy Ghost can come on upon you and help you to overcome it, you can’t do it on your own. The Holy Spirit will also lead to the right man you are ordained to be with, just open your heart and give Jesus a try.

      Delete
    3. homosexuality is from the pit of hell. It is a demonic act and she really needs to be prayerful to get out of that evil initiation.

      Delete
  15. As a Christian that wants to please God, stay away from it, is as simple as that, there's no two ways about it.

    ReplyDelete
  16. “Before i knew it we were both naked and she was on me riding me away and i didn't want her to stop”.
    Question: Biko how does a girl ride her fellow girl? Does she have preeq?
    Abeg na question I de ask oh.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. thank you for this, i wonder too

      Delete
  17. Let me find out that Stella Dimoko was bicurious and experimenting with thangs.

    ReplyDelete
  18. Rubbish and ingredients #hiss
    Some of you will not listen, you are not supposed to be sharing your body with men and women.

    If you had waited for Ebuka to make a better woman of you before jumping into bed with him, you won't have found yourself in this disgusting and messy situation.

    Go and seek the face of God, ask Him for forgiveness and change your ways.

    No matter how much they try to sugarcoat it and force it into people's throat, homosexuality is a sin and it is not normal.

    Satan is really trying hard to win more souls into bondage.

    Disgusting 🀒 🀒 🀒 🀒

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Fool did you also read that ebuka only wanted to have his way,he’ll still dump her after marriage madam holier than thou.miss goody two shoes

      Delete
    2. Disgusting indeed.says a divorcee that her ex ran from.

      Delete
    3. You anon trolls should let Ms A drink water and keep cup. Shameless bullies.

      Delete
  19. Leviticus 18:22: ” Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is an abomination.”

    Leviticus 20:13: “If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them

    Romans 1:26-28: For this reason God gave them up to dishonourable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done

    Jude 1: 7: “And don’t forget Sodom and Gomorrah and their neighbouring towns, which were filled with immorality and every kind of sexual perversion. Those cities were destroyed by fire and serve as a warning of the eternal fire of God’s judgment.” (NIV)

    1 Timothy 1:10: “The sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine.”

    Copied

    ReplyDelete
  20. 4“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning
    the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ a 5and said, ‘For
    this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be
    united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ b ? 6So
    they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has
    joined together, let no one separate.”

    Yes, poster, God made them "male and female", not female and female
    That two men betrayed you does not mean all men are bad.
    You betrayed God by sinning against his temple which is your body.
    How did you do that, by fornication.
    So you sided with the evil one and he began to manipulate your life.
    If you truly surrender to Jesus, you will find peace and he will give
    you that good gift that adds no sorrow.
    Stay away from that girl, she is only human. If you die today, she
    will not accompany you to God's judgment.

    ReplyDelete
  21. Poster I've been in your shoes. The feeling is out of this world. I'm praying for God to set me free. I can never watch porn that's not lesbian porn and it makes me wet. God forgive me.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Lol! I'm not lesbian and I love lesbian porn. It has no bearing on your sexuality. I know a married couple that just watch lesbian porn only and their sex life is banging.

      Delete
    2. This is terrible! Then stop watching porn!!!!

      Delete
    3. I watch porn alone or with my husband I don’t enjoy sex anymore with him my clit doesn’t get erect any more with him . I only enjoy lesbian sex. Especially the ones with huge clit

      Delete
    4. @18:49
      You don loss o😯😯😯😯
      You and your husband made the wrong choices
      and Satan is out to dismantle your marriage
      if you don't repent.

      Delete
    5. I pray God delivers you all from the deep pit you are putting yourself into.

      Delete
  22. Please I beg stick to your girl. Sin ko sin ni. You are happy and fulfilled and that's al that matters biko. I'm not a lesbian but I appreciate love. Although with your type, you always make your way back to men. I am not even joking. Your lesbianism is not pure. Once a really different man comes, you'd be all over him like blood and hound. It's love you want and love not lesbianism. I wish you the best.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anon 15.30, who are you to make light the teachings and commandments of the Almighty?
      Is that supposed to be sophistication or civilization?
      You appreciate love, what love? Is wallowing in abomination love or self destruction?
      Lev 18:22 and 1Tim 1:10 says it all.
      You sound so arrogant and full of yourself forgetting you're just SAND...

      Delete
    2. May God bless you.

      Delete
    3. This mama mia na goat oh, wont you drop your comment and waka?

      Delete
    4. Shut your mouth @mama Mia. We have read your comments now allow others share their views and opinions.

      Delete
    5. Anon 17.05, you shut that big hole in your face, Call a spade and not a fork!

      Delete
    6. Anon 16.59, at least goats have some kind of value. You're a wall gecko!
      I don't go anonymous to say anything and I don't care that you're on anonymous mode, if you insult me, I will drag you to hell and back.
      Foolish fellow...

      Delete
  23. Follow your heart my dear..

    ReplyDelete
  24. Poster please read the book of Leviticus chapter 19 and 20. Please stop the lesbianism. It is wrong in the sight of God.

    ReplyDelete
  25. Leviticus 20:13"If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death , their blood will be on their own heads".

    ReplyDelete
  26. Hello Poster,

    I am mot here to judge you. You wanted biblical proofs if what you are doing is wrong and I will give you some. All quotations you read next is from NIV

    Romans 1:20-28 NIV
    For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities---his eternal power and divine nature---have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.

    [21] For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.

    [22] Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools

    [23] and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.

    [24] Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.

    [25] They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator---who is forever praised. Amen.

    [26] Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones.

    [27] In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.

    [28] Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done.

    These ones are the explicit portion of the scripture where Homosexuality is condemned. If we read the old testament from the story of Lot, we can see Sodomites engaged in these grievous sin too that necessitated their destruction.

    However, no sin that has ever been or will ever been committed by humanity is to grievous for God to forgive because He [God] himself already paid the price by sacrificing His son

    What was done to you is callous and wicked but not enough reason to sell your soul to the devil by turning into a Lesbian. I will encourage you by saying you are not and will not be the only one who have had these kinda experience. If others could pick themself up by whatever means and later have testimony of victory, you too can. Also, since you believe that heaven exist, you won't get to heaven and accuse Ebuka or anyone as the reason you sinned to your God. You will stand for your sin, Ebuka will stand for his and if others can turn their stories around and make heaven, you won't have excuses for not turning your own life to God for help.

    Pls go on your kneels (at this stage you don't need a pastor yet, I perceive God is using that BV's comment to reach on to you), so just confess your anger, frustration, sin and all to God. Tell him exactly how you feel, tell him all that happened that led you here. Ask for Grace to turn a new leaf...You may need to let go of angst and forgive all men that have hurt you and may God heal your wound.

    Should you need further clarification, send a rejoinder chronicle to Stella and how to reach you by email. we dont have to see, I will be willing to exchange a few email with you to keep up

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Mtcheeeeew...
      Poster jump and pass all these comments and go lick pussy & enjoy urself, ure hurting that poor girl that has always been there for u

      Delete
    2. @anon 15.36 and na you go sin pass o with all this big dictionary wey you write so

      Delete
  27. You shud have kept the thing till he did the marriage stuff. Some men can deceive women just for the cookie. Now most of us have been hrt broken but we did not become lesbians. I think You have always been a closet lesbian. Lesbianism, lies, n alot more is a sin. Repent now

    ReplyDelete
  28. Stella, what are you saying? You tried it before but it's disgust. So why did you try it? You were probably experimenting.
    Well poster, I've never had lesbian inclinations so I can tell you what to do. Sometimes love happens in the strangest way possible. I can't judge you, I have my own sins. All the best.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. But u already judged Stella.

      Delete
  29. It's so disgusting.
    How without penetration
    How do u enjoy it.
    How will your son feel.
    It is morally wrong.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It's actually mind blowing.I did in my world girl days but I decided to stop on my own.

      Delete
  30. Lesbianism is an abomination in the eyes of God. Please stop it.

    ReplyDelete
  31. You took the right decision to stop. It is a sin. If God wanted female to female or male to make sexual relationship, he won't waste his time creating opposite sex. When he created Adam instead of making a woman he would have made another man. All these are sexual perversion,the devil trying hard to abuse and destroy the image of God in you, trying to distort the divine order God has established (he delights in seeing this) God will help you stand by your decision.

    ReplyDelete
  32. Why was one of the reason for Sodom and Ghomorra to be destroyed...

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I dont know i wasnt there..
      But i know lesbianism don tay no be today, and we've done worse than sodom and ghomorraa, so what are u implying

      Delete
  33. You can't blame men for your situation. It's a plain case of a hustler getting hustled. That's what happens when you pretend to do the right thing for the wrong motives, shit often blows up in your face. Your plans to use your virginity as a bargaining chip failed and then instead of you to lick your wounds and carry on in peace, you slid to the next extreme.
    Who are you asking if lesbianism is a sin? or you think there is an alternate gospel that justifies it which you are not aware of?
    There is none my dear, so the position as stated in the Holy Bible remains extant.
    I'm not here to judge you or even advice you. I just wanted to clear you on two issues:
    1. Like I said before , it's not men that caused your gayness. You just love having your pussy ate , own it.
    2. You are not in love, you are just in the thralls of good fuck, which you never had before cos you were busy doing goody two shoes and hoarding it.

    Right now it's a drug to you and you r going to keep going back for more until you loosen up.
    Nothing anybody says here today will change anything you don't want to change.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Finally!!! Someone can see this bullcrap for what it is.

      Delete
  34. Every sin is abomination in the eyes of God not just homosexualism.

    You can feel close to God, regardless of your sexuality. Your heart is what matters.

    Some gay people claim they were born that way, so i ask..Isn't it God that made them? Were they not created in God's image too?

    Bottom line is Jesus looks at your heart before anything else.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Jesus looks at a heart that believes in Him, not an unsaved heart.

      The heart of man is wicked and deceitful, who can know it?

      Homosexuality is actually an abomination to God. It's unnatural. Reads Romans 1.

      Delete
    2. Perxian has spoken well.

      Delete
    3. 17.05 As the Lord Jesus Christ that she is?. Open your bible my friend! who knows everyone here for or against lesbianism, could be lying to you and you will never know. Read the word of God by yourself

      Delete
    4. I love this every sin is an abomination in the eyes of God.

      Chinwe Uba

      Delete
  35. I dislike people who blame others for their mistakes and lifestyle. No one turned you to lesbian, you choose it and stop blaming men or anyone for your waywardness.
    Bye

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Exactly. You need to take responsibility for your actions, not start by blaming circumstances or other people. You are in chatge if YOUR life via your choices.

      Delete
    2. Exactly. I am speechless.
      So many babes here are into lesbianism.
      Who hasn’t experienced heartbreak?

      Delete
  36. Romans 1:26-27

    26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

    27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

    ReplyDelete
  37. This is terribly disgusting! Devil is really out to undo God! But ko le werk.

    ReplyDelete
  38. Leviticus 18:22
    Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination.

    ReplyDelete
  39. Find these on Youtube, they helped me:
    * AN EX LESBIAN TAKEN TO HELL
    * A Former Lesbian's Message To LBGTs

    ReplyDelete
  40. Lol some people are judging firnposter even after fucking their boyfriends girlfriends. Lesbianism is a sin, but you fuck someone that’s not your legal partner everyday. We always bring out our judging prowess when someone wins different from us. Guess what, you all are gonna rot in hell, both liars. Adulterers, fornicators, haters, thieves, you all with lesbians are headed in the same direction, sonposter you might as well stick to what makes you happy.

    ReplyDelete
  41. I don't really know much,but but biblically lesbianism and gay is a sin.
    It is the holy spirit that will convince you totally. It will happen.
    Again you can decide not to date again,finally when the man for you comes around you will know.
    Anything that doesn't give you peace isn't right .You need to keep off.
    God bless you poster.

    ReplyDelete
  42. Wawu
    Tohtoh chopping Naija Pharisee girls don dey hide for
    ghost mode dey dish out them abominations okwa ya?
    Tomorrow now una go dey chant "god, god". All of una
    get guilty conscience and that is why una dey hide.
    Oku mmuo n' enwusi ike o; hell dey born well well.
    Make una repent.
    This poster wants to repent. Make una no carry her
    return to the dungeon.
    Poster make you run away from this destruction wey
    you dey destroy ya soul so.
    See these Bible verses: 1 Cor. 6:9-10

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. @Prettiest Rosie

      I no understand this ya *burn for under my comment bikon
      Di ka ree oku? 😯😯😯
      Make you carry sofly dey enter my goal keeping area o

      Delete
    2. Hahaha @ goal keeping area

      Delete
  43. I used to be a lesbian from age 7 till age 29.i had a girl friend who showed me love like ur gf is showing u love.God delivered me,she was heart broken cos we dated for 10years but nna mehn i had to go.

    ReplyDelete
  44. See as everyone has started quoting bible passages.Religion is what is killing us in this country. The sins most of you are commiting on this blog is worse than homosexuality.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Let me just add for emphasis sake. If you are sleeping with a man or woman who is not your husband or wife, you are no better than the poster. If you are a liar, thief, a slanderer or backbiter, any sin you can think of, you are not better than the poster.

      Delete
    2. But nobody here has said that they are better than the poster. Christians do not live in sin and revel in it. When a Christian sins, they repent and turn away from sin... They do not sugarcoat the sin and call it a good thing and begin to call other people hypocrites because they are telling them the obvious truth.
      You are encouraging this poster to live in sin. You are seeing a bad thing and calling it good.
      He who justifies the wicked and he who condemns the righteous are both alike an abomination to the Lord. Proverbs 17:15

      Delete
    3. @Kiks, very indeed. Except you'd rarely find anyone arguing that they were born a liar, thief or murderer. Except of course the idiots who claim that men are polygamous by nature. Essentially adulterous by nature.

      Delete
    4. Kiks now you are calling it a sin and putting it in the category of other sins. This is what lgbt's do When they want to create an argument. They use other sins to nullify another sin on one hand. Yet still go out to say it's love not sin on the other hand. Like pick a struggle already. Those sins you mentioned are acknowledged by those committing them as sins but lesbians and gays don't acknowledge theirs. So that's the issue.

      Delete
    5. Kik you're not making sense, no one is talking about who's better. Stop talking out of point..

      Delete
    6. Just the same thing Perxian said every sin is an abomination before God. But most Christians thinks that telling lies doesn't follow.

      Chinwe Uba

      Delete
    7. Yes Chinwe uba while most lesbians thinks homosexuality doesnt follow and it's not a sin but LOVE

      Delete
    8. Kik is actually right, before God no sin is unforgivable except the sin against the Holy Spirit, therefore every other sin weighs the same before God but the consequences are different, poster work more on accepting God's love and loving yourself the more, it's obvious your live language is attention, give it to yourself and your son, give yourself treats, reminiscence on God's love the more and it will help you out

      Delete
    9. No Satan get thee behind me. I’m not doing this with you. @18:57.
      I stand by my comment.

      Delete
  45. I see so many judgmental fools here

    ReplyDelete
  46. Caster Semenya the female South African runner is the husband of a wife.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. So she should use caster a mere human being as her benchmark in gauging her walk with GOD?. Biko swerve to the side. Thank you

      Delete
  47. Fake story another one to tarnish the image of men. I see the agenda.

    ReplyDelete
  48. Poster go to 1 Corinthians 6 vs 9 read both Amplified version and NIV you will understand. God can not change his standard for anyone, time and season will pass but his word remains the same.

    ReplyDelete
  49. Homosexuality is poo,infact it is the smelliest poo ever,flee from it.

    ReplyDelete
  50. Poster all i can say is that lack of peace you feel is God speaking to your conscience.

    Gently nodging, he stands at the door of your heart knocking will you let him in?

    I knoow how you feel trust me, its feels so right, you feel soo in love.

    "God will understand" ,

    "doesn't God want you to be happy"?

    "She will get hurt, after all she's done for me its not fair"

    There is so much hurt in your heart, love yourself first, No one can save you but JESUS fall in love with him make the right decisions for the sake of your son so that 10years from now you will be glad you did.

    "Seek ye first the kingdom of God"
    And EVERY OTHER thing will be added.

    End that relationship now tell her the truth that it is wrong in the eyes of God send it as a text deep down in her heart she knows it's true she might try to convince you other wise but if she doesnt repent then in the last day when she is face to face with the master of the world Alas! She will realise it was a life of folly she lived.

    You are so beautiful, strong, amazing and lovable don't ever feel other wise.

    Lots of love.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. The best comment so far. I was going to type something like this. Poster, please take this

      Delete
  51. Stella please do a post on the scenario that leads to lesbianism. I'm so surprised at all I'm reading here. Let those who got caught up in the act tell us how they got entangled

    ReplyDelete
  52. Replies
    1. You are demented. Give advice if you want which one is insult.oversabi

      Delete
    2. Really? u had to insult her? she wrote to stella cos she is seeking advice and all u could is insult her.... u ain't perfect my dear...

      Dear poster, take it to God in prayer.... He can help u and deliver u.. it might not be easy but he will surely help u.

      Delete
  53. Hmmmnn, heart break has turned u to a man hater and a lesbian. See why they said we should close our legs bfor marriage. So if this babe disappoint u, u will now turn to a peadophile,ehh kwa? My advise, gradually talk and stop,no hurries as u guys are too close. Use Jesus to remove the girl,inugo. Its not ur fault and u will not want ur son to be a homosexual in future. So do right by ur son and God.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It's her fault.. She got herself into it.

      Delete
  54. Girl please stay with your girlfriend. This is coming from a straight Christian girl, people on this blog are only going to make you feel more guilty. Just continue with your happy life o

    ReplyDelete
  55. First of, stop blaming anyone or men. See in life, until we stop he blame mentality, we aren’t ready for change. The problem wasn’t then, it was you, it was what you allowed! You allowed them to sleep with you and use you. If you hadn’t allowed it, it wouldn’t have happened!

    Second, yes indeed it is a sin.You already know it. The truth is that you don’t even need to be with anyone right now. You need to heal! You haven’t even done that. So yes, end it and stay away from her. No contact at all, and get yourself right! Learn to love yourself! All I see is sex sex sex, as validation of love! Sex isn’t love my dear.

    ReplyDelete
  56. The moment u realize nobody’s opinion about your life matters, the more peaceful and happy you would be. People like to judge because they sin different. You have found love, for once you love someone and the person loves you back, now you are contemplating on ending it because of what people think? Where were they when you were suffering from heartbreak. Aunty, please live your life, love and be happy. You currently have the perfect family, please realize that. You guys should work on getting out of the fucking country.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Not what people think but what God think. Please read the poster's post again for better understanding. It's interesting you are calling it sin just now so as to castigate other sins but you will still go ahead and still say it's not sin that it is love. Please why are you guys so confused. Is it sin or love hianestt!!!!

      Delete
    2. 18;44 you r d BEST.

      Delete
  57. All I can say is Jesus loves you, very much and He is calling out to you to repent from it and take this opportunity He is offering of a brand new start, a life of abundance, inner peace and contentment. Please, accept this new start. I pray for you, that you will receive the grace to make the right choice no matter how difficult.

    ReplyDelete
  58. Poster, two wrongs cannever make a right. Judas Iscariot would have been saved. ( Peter was after denied Jesus three times but felt remorseful and cried for mercy) but Judas killed himself (suicide). That is why Jesus said it was better Judas was not born. Therefore you cannever cure wrong with wrong.You were heartbroken twice. Always pray this prayer Jesus thought us "Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from all evil" say itt continously every day you will be liberated from Lesbianism for God knows we are all weak to sin.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Jesus also said to the woman caught in adultery that He does not condemn her BUT He told her to go and sin no more.

      Delete
    2. So poster, please go on with your life and be lesbian no more

      Delete
  59. It’s a sin. We all sin in different ways. It’s good when we decide to be better. You need to stop.

    ReplyDelete
  60. Prov 14:12, there's a way that seemeth right to a man but the end there of are ways of death. My dear don't mind those that are cheering you on, yes they can say whatever they want about Christians and unfortunately they are right, a lot of Christians are a disgrace but Rom 6:1, must we continue in sin that grace may abound??? What is God's standard? Who in the Bible did we read that God approved to lie or marry same sex??? Jesus is our standard forever!!! Those who want you to continue in sin today might be saved tomorrow and see it how God sees it and won't support you again. My dear sister lesbianism is evil and practiced by people with reprobate mind,Rom1:28. Don't let the Joy of a moment becloud your thinking, yes some men are evil and honestly I lack words to the extent some can go to get a taste of the cookie but it still doesn't mean that there are no good ones out there. Receive the strength to say no to evil. Start studying the word by yourself and see how God will deliver you, heal and restore your heart and if you let him, he'll give you an amazing partner. Google about biblical implications of lesbianism, YouTube it too and hear first hand messages too. No one is perfect but we lean on Christ to renew us to become perfect.

    ReplyDelete

  61. I want to tell you that I am a Gold star:I have never had sexual intercourse with a man.In retrospect while growing up, i was never attracted to men.There is absolutely nothing wrong with Men,But i have just never seen a bloke and go crazy or anything of that ilk.My best friend of 10 years is a guy so it's always been platonic with them.

    I battled with my sexuality since I was 12 years old.i had always know I loved girls,But what do you do when your parents are pastors?.well,I buried it deep and never acted on it.Everyone would ask me why I wasn't in a relationship at 23, my friends would tease me about it and call me sprikoko.My parents would always say I made them proud,But little did they know I was a Lesbian and it was the fear of God and knowing if I acted on it, I would lose my relationship with God that made me remain a virgin till that age.

    Anyways,l'll get to the pith of my advise, God is Love.There is absolutely nothing wrong with loving someone - be it the same-sex or opposite sex-Love is Love.

    I am happily married(for the past 3 years) to a woman, I had to leave Nigeria to the US; because I wanted to be happy, we all have one life to live..i did not want to marry man and be miserable for the rest of my life,so I make society and my parents happy. You are not doing anything wrong...You cannot control who you love..DO NOT LEAVE YOUR GIRlFRIEND..dont do it.

    Ps:I came out to my entire family on my masters convocation day when my entire family flew to the US for it and I just sat everyone down,and said "I am a Lesbian", my mum broke down and dad stormed out,But my siblings came one after the other and placed a hug on me-i have 3 siblings.Till today my parents are not happy with my choice,but I am happy and that takes precedence over anybody's happiness.

    God does not hate you...People are always trying to elect themselves his assistant..interpreting what God wants and doesn't want.Ny relationship with God is even better now that i am free.

    Live and Let live y'all.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. God is not a man that He should lie, neither is he the son of man that He should repent? Can God be mocked, whatever a man shows, he shall reap. I bind every heresy in the name of Jesus, living in sin whether its lying, stealing, fornication or homosexuality can NEVER EVER improve anyone's relationship with God. That is a lie from the pit of hell and we silence it with the blood of Jesus.

      Delete
    2. Homosexuality is an abomination to God, His Word makes that clear, so your statement that God is love be it same sex or opposite sex is FALSE. That the the world says something God hates is right can NEVER make it right.

      Delete
    3. Homosexuality is an abomination! The fact that you have chosen to defy the WORD of the Most High God doesn't make it right. There is a difference between sin AND abomination--the later mostly warranted death penalty under the Law of Moses and thus under the new convenant will be spiritual death and alienation from the Lord. You can repent and come out of that lifestyle....it is contrary to the order of God. seek the Lord while He can be found and stop justifying this abomination by twisting scriptures and basing your feel good attitude on it.

      The seducing spirits from hell that have been unleashed upon you as a result of this choice can be overcome if you are really ready to seek the Lord and I am by no means talking about playing church oooo…..Get in the scriptures from Genesis till the end praying and fasting to find Him and He will answer you.


      Poster please follow through on the unrest in your spirit because the Lord is beckoning on you. Shalom!

      Delete
  62. You are still hurting and the attention you got from the lady made you feel, lesbianism is good, it isn't, forgive those guys that hurt you, (I am not saying bring them back into your life) forgive and let go of the pain, you won't stop being a lesbian in a day, it is gradual, make up your mind, ask the Holy Spirit to help you love him and yourself the more, the fact that you are praying and working on yourself doesn't mean the urge will stop at once, it is gradual, study the Bible more, dwell on God's love more and I await your testimony.

    ReplyDelete
  63. Lesbianism is a sin same as homosexual or fornication
    In the New Testament Apostle Paul taught in book Romans chapter 1
    24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.
    25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
    26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones.
    27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error…
    In addition for it been a sin unto death verses 32 reads
    32 Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.
    Another version of verse 32 reads
    32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
    Here we learn that any wo/man whose approve Sin be it lesbian sin homosexual sin or fornication are as well guilty and such can bring the wrath of God upon such a person for God will not be mock.

    ReplyDelete
  64. Poster, I bind that marine spirit holding you hostage in Jesus name. I decree as you read this comment, the veil of darkness covering the eyes of your understanding shall be lifted off in Jesus name. I command your heart and soul to receive light in Jesus name. Every agenda of the enemy and his agents to damn your soul to hell and destroy your destiny is destroyed now because it is written that He disappointed the devices of the enemy so that their hands cannot perform their enterprise. Poster, you are redeemed, I severe with the Blood of Jesus any ungodly relationship leading to fornication, homosexuality or any form of immorality. You are set free in Jesus name. And I use the blood of Jesus to purge your spirit from accepting any unholy advice that'll lead you into further destruction in Jesus Mighty name. The Holy Spirit is convicting you poster and the good work He has started in your life He'll complete in Jesus name.

    ReplyDelete
  65. If you need proof that lesbianism is wrong, I will just ask you to look around,a female animal will never mate with its fellow female. Have you ever seen a she goat, chicken, dog, pig or just name it lust after its kind? Impossible ! So how come we humans who claim to be higher animals always want to justify our actions? its against nature and the will of God,stop it already. Trust in God, your own man that will treat you as a queen will locate you soon. It is well with you.

    ReplyDelete
  66. How can sex with a fellow woman be intense? Science says unlike charges attract. In nature itself, there is order. You only met the wrong men and at your lowest the wrong help came and looked so good and real. This is why you accepted it. I won't judge you but pray you retrace your steps. God looks like a myth and unreal so mankind continues to forge on in reprobacy but one day, He and the deceiver would be so real to humanity. I just pray for each one to be on the right path on that day because hell is not what I wish even my enemy...Selah

    ReplyDelete
  67. Hello poster you may think we don't know how you feel
    After all,we are straight people advising you without prior experience of the gay lifestyle. How about you read on former lesbians who gave their lives to Christ.
    1) A NOVEL TITLE "GAY GIRL, GOOD GOD" by jackie hill perry. She is on youtube. Now married with a daughter.
    2)Rosaria Champagne Butterfield: lesbuan all her life neber dated nor slept with a man. Who is now a redeemed Christian and has left that life
    3)Charlene Cothran was a radical lesbian and gay activist, who led millions of gay parades and like some comments here encouraged people to be gay but what happened afterwards? She left that sinful life and willingly gave her life to Christ and those she encouraged to love whoever they want in the lgbt communities all felt betrayed. She is now an evangelist telling homosexuals to renounce their firmer ways and follow Christ in their entirety.

    Most of these comments encouraging you may see the light tommorrow and retrace their steps like those ex-lesbians I mentione. While you have already gone deep in sin and can't turn back so choose God Now.

    ReplyDelete
  68. Today na anonymous post πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚Kai.....

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I tell you. A lot of blog visitors that comments everyday are nowhere to be found. I can count over 12 blog ids that have disappeared right now but will appear tommorrow or next tommorrow. It only goes to show where some of them stand. I already commented with my Id yesterday though

      Delete
    2. And so? People have a right to comment either with their ids or anonymous, how is that your problem or how does that change their responses?

      Delete
  69. My sister, this could be your last chance of taking the right decision in life.Going to church does not automatically mean that you fear God. Take a decision to fear God and trust him to give you a perfect peace of mind.

    ReplyDelete
  70. What you need is a real relationship with Jesus Christ. Ask him tonight to come into your heart. He will not show you the way because HE is the WAY! He will give you His Holy Spirit who will come and rest in your soul and begin to guide you into deeper truths about God's word and will for your life. Your flesh is happy in this relationship but you and I know your spirit is crying out for healing and restoration. You may be pleased but you're not at peace. I have struggled with a sexual sin and the moments when I don't feel any desire for it nor indulge in it are the moments when my intimacy with God is consistent. I didnt need to fight nor strive to overcome it, the more I spent time with God in His word, the less desire I had for that sin. It just falls off you easily. That is called GRACE.
    You think you've found love with that lesbian partner? Wait until you find Jesus. That is when you will know the true meaning of love and realise all other types of love no matter how good they feel are counterfeit. God is calling you to a relationship with Him and grace is already at work in your heart for you to feel uneasy. Don't resist that voice. God has a plan for you sister. Oh that today you would listen to his voice, harden not your heart.

    ReplyDelete
  71. You sound like a very emotional person and that ur nature has caused the men and even the lesbian girlfriend to take advantage of u.Even as a straight girl who has had multiple heartbreaks;it is well known that jumping into a relationship let alone a sexual one immediately after one bad heartbreak is a bad idea cos one is most vulnerable then and can make really bad decisions then.So she took advantage of ur vulnerability to rope u into Lesbianism.

    The word of God remains sure and unchanging; Homosexuality remains a sin.Many people have given Bible verses to support that..As well as fornication and others.We are all striving towards perfection;but I won't all of a sudden sugarcoat that premarital sex; stealing and lieing are not sins;just cos I do it.
    Those advicing u to go to America or to go ahead and live ur life; remember America is not heaven or ur final destination;and ur soul is the most vital thing.
    Please take some time off to fast and pray;do a spiritual detox ;repent;arrange for a meeting with the girl in a public place and as amicably as possible call it quits.Ur soul is more important than sexual pleasures.For now just stay off relationships and dating and concentrate on ur son; ur relationship with God and getting emotionally strong.

    ReplyDelete
  72. This your story reminds me of my own experience as an undergraduate.My campus boo of 3yrs cheated on me& I was distraught.My close pals were mad at him and wanted to set him up but I told them not to.There was this roommate in particular that suddenly became very nice to me; staring at me and my red alarm went up when her gist started to be about how men are scum & how's she's done dating men bla bla..As agbero wey I be;I just told her point blank that I don't do such;& d fake "niceness" suddenly stopped. .Humans will always be humans and continue to take advantage of ones weakness and vulnerability to use them.Which was what and is still being done to u.As for Homosexuality u and I know that stuff ain't just ryt and our spiritual books say so.Toughen up girl and stop jumping into the next available person and please close ya legs.

    ReplyDelete
  73. Poster God loves,not as the world loves,for all of us have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.that hurt and loneliness you will feel when u end that relationship,only God can take away,look for a living church and abide there,also let go of any grudge you are holding against your ex and go to God in prayer because we all need his forgiveness too.God values the time you spend with him,so poster i pray you make the right choice

    ReplyDelete
  74. What you are not proud of that you can show off to people is immoral and sinful. May God help us.

    ReplyDelete
  75. What does the Bible say about homosexuality? Leviticus 18:22 says, “[Men] shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.” Leviticus 20:13 says, “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act.” God’s Word says the homosexual act is detestable; it is an abomination.Romans 1:24-29
    Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers. please my sister jesus is the best bet,give your life to Christ.

    ReplyDelete

Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of StellaDimokoKorkus.com

Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact Stelladimokokorkus.com and corrections will be made..

If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact StellaDimokoKorkus.com Via

Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com
Mobile Phone +4915210724141