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Monday, July 29, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

Hmmmmm,na wah!!!!






STAND ALONE NARRATIVE:
MARRIED WOMAN PREGNANT FOR MARRIED BOYFRIEND!!!


I am married and pregnant but its not for my husband. Now before you judge me, listen to my story.


I have been ttc for 4yrs now. Lately my husband threatened to impregnate another girl. He even beat me up because of his side chick. During this period, i was so down. He asked for forgiveness. I forgave him and went back. But then, i decided to be more vigilant.


Around that time, i reunited with my long time friend. Though he s married now, he is a Muslim and in government now. One thing led to another and okafor s law happened over and over again. As it is, we are in love. We share almost same views, etc. Note: He is filthy rich and in his late 30s i am in my late 20s. But i am not interested in the money.


 I love how i feel around him. 

Its something no one will understand until you experience it.
 With him, i love s#x and yearn for more. But with my husband i want it over with asap and i do it for baby making purposes. Something i have yearned for long, within a period of 2months i am pregnant.

Well i told him about it and he is so happy. He says i should leave my husband. He will take care of myself and my family. If i want him to marry me he will, (he is a muslim and its allowed). if i want us to keep it as a secret he will, he would get me a job, a house, so i can be independent, etc. Whatever i decide, he is in support.

Oviously i can't abort this child. Never! 

What do you advice i do? I know i have hurt my husband and his people. These past months he has been more loving and caring but those words he said to me keeps echoing.


My intention was never to take another woman's home or husband. How do i tell my husband? What do i do? Easy with the judgements pls till you walk in my shoes, you wont understand. Thanks.....




184 comments:

  1. Oro di uunn....this one pass me.

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    1. Oro pesi je ooo,Oro di uunn

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    2. Madam poster, i understand youre not a muslim. Youre finished!!!!

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    3. I will not judge you. The decision to tell your husband or not is yours to take but first and foremost, as quickly as you can, ensure that your boyfriend sets you up very well, so that at anytime the shit hits the fan, you can comfortably take care of yourself and your child. If you end up leaving your husband don't think of marrying your boyfriend and wreaking his home. The deed has been done. Bare in mind that the alot of Nigerians will condemn you meanwhile your husband has brazenly informed you how he will get side chic pregnant and you would have been expected to throw your (childless) arms open and welcome his 'first fruit' while side hen insultingly struts around basking in the position of 'O' favourite one'. Your husband that beat you up because of the side chic, that lovey dovey will end once she gets pregnant and his true colours will come out again. Hold on to that child and don't let any harm come to that pregnancy. That baby will be your succour when trouble hits and its going to hit you hard.

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    4. Madam I was ttc and still ttc for the past 10 years, lost my marriage to it, I'm single now but I will never imagine myself in this your gbege. This is real gbege o. What will be your excuse for living your husband now? I'm as confused as you. The heatwave is tearing my brain.

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    5. Anonymous 16:05 aka fear fear don't wisen up inugo? Stay dia make pant dey wear you.

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    6. In my opinion I think people marry for all the wrong reasons. You probably left your ex because of his religion but in the end your paths crossed again.
      The westerners have understood that mistakes do happen and when there is a falling out between a couple, they mutually agree to move on.
      There are a plethora of examples where people found love after their initial commitments.
      People makes mistakes and the older I become the more I realize that things are not always black and white. Sometimes the lines are grey.
      The truth is some people just bring out the worst in others and the sooner we understand this and move on, the better life is.
      It is obvious your heart is no longer in your marriage and there's no need to force things. You'll end up doing more harm than good.
      You know what you have to do. Stick with the truth. For the sake of your happiness and your child's. A happy mother is a better mother rather than a broken one.

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    7. The deed has been done.Do not abort that child.Make sure the guy open a good investment and buys you a house before the arrival of your baby.Since he is a Muslim, he is entitled to four. Abeg live your husband if the table was turned, guy man wont send you at all.

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    8. WELL,I AM WRITING IN CAPS SO SHE CAN READ IT WELL WELL..same story above was my lot.he even married her already.That same month I had Avery steamy sex with my ex and got preggy.I was happy.I told him and before my eyes,my life transformed.My hubby left for a burial in the east with new wife and I zapped all my belongings. That's how I moved from zero to hero..I am a proud mother of 5.with my business doing great..hubby has divorced the chic...where he is now..I don't know and I don't care.. I remember those years of beating,slapping,kicking.they still resound in my ears.but am good as a second wife with 5 blessings.I don't even disturb this second husband or the first wife..I just dey my dey to the extent that the first called me on her own to enquire about my daughter's ill health.And even suggested remedy and even suggested universities in Cyprus.I dey my dey jare

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    9. Fan exactly what point are you trying to make here. Should I come and get pregnant for your husband?

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    10. Anon 17:49 is the real MVP.
      Poster, follow this.
      He who wears or has worn the shoe knows where it pinches most.
      I'm out!!!

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  2. Your hubby is obviously infertile. Keep the baby, tell side boo to get you a job and face ya front in your home. Dey your dey

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    1. What if the man later found out? Sometimes don't you think people should plan for the worst when they get into shit like this? This is too dicey I must say.

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    2. @Sylvia,you got it!
      @teejay,if her husband finds out and threatens her,she should tell him the truth about his infertility and if he divorces her,she will fall back to her job(side boo must give her a government job)and live her life!
      Dear poster,keep that baby but don't tell your married side boo that you are expecting his baby at least for now.
      Don't allow sanctimonious people on this blog to make you feel guilty because you did absolutely nothing wrong!
      If you want to keep seeing mr married boo,continue but don't destroy his marriage,I take God name dey beg you o!

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    3. I can only tell you to do what gives you peace and makes you happy.
      Love is just too complicated, just choose you.

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    4. Exactly this happened to my friends mom. She ttced for over 10 years and her hubby and people were maltreating her. She fell in love with another married man and within a month she got pregnant. People were gossipping about her but she carried the baby with pride as it was God's answer to her childlessness. It was a long story Sha but to cut it short, she married the man that impregnated her as the second wife. She even birthed my friend abroad It's over 20 years now and all seem well with them

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    5. Lolz. Some Married women tho'. How about we see it this way. @ those encouraging this abomination. That the said Married Ex is in reality your own husband and here you are encouraging/welcoming your husband's married sidechick to your home. And oh yeah, maybe you are suggesting she just take the money and vamoose , how about you find out your husband (which could be any one you people's husband) was lavishing on a pregnant sidechick.

      Honestly, watch what you dish out cause you might not be able to take. Tide turns and you don't want to be caught up in

      Life 101.

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    6. *caught up in the wrong side of the fence.

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  3. How come your red pen is not here Stella?

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    1. I am an only child and in the heat of frustration some 30years ago my mum called my dad a cheating impotent man.
      She appologised till her tongue swept the floor but my dad still married a 2nd wife just to prove to her he is not impotent even tho he took the babies and chased the woman away.

      Bottomline poster, you are not doing or haven't done anything new. Men have been doing it for millennia. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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  4. 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

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    1. My advise
      D decision to tell ur husband is urs!
      Thank God side boo is capable. Make sure he gets u d house n job...thatd very important

      Enjoy ur life.

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  5. Wow!! This got me speechless.

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  6. You are afraid of judgment πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    You disappointed yourself and family.
    I am sure you hate your hubby for having a side chic, but ended up being one.
    Obviously, your husband is the one with the issue.
    You have to tell your husband and family about your pregnancy.
    I wish you safe delivery ❤️❤️

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    1. @Slutty chikito
      This is no laughing matter.

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    2. Opening up earlier is the best decision ever but it's not easy. That marriage won't be the same again if the husband knows about it. I don't think men can stomach their wife's infidelity ooh. This situation calls for wisdom but in all I believe hiding the truth may be more destructive at the long run than revealing it.

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    3. Poster you said we should not judge you because we are not in your shoes. So what now are you expecting from us?

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    4. @slutty dear,how are you doing?
      Telling her family about her infidelity and pregnancy would make them throw her out like a filthy rag and she doesn't deserve that kind of treatment.
      Let her conceal the truth at least for now and pray that the baby doesn't have "strange" and suspicious looks that could make them doubt the it's parentage!

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  7. Stella, this one shock you hahahahaha... As e no give you mouth talk. Poster your action was wrong. So terrible. There's no justification whatsoever for what you have done. Truth, is that your husband will find out someday through test when blood may be needed. What if he opt for a DNA test? This your situation is so dicey. If you tell him, you may lose your marriage. If you keep it secret, it becomes an evil to your conscience roping another's man child to your husband. What if by tomorrow the ex boyfriend comes for his child.

    Now, I understand why a good number of children may truly not be fathered by their supposed father. Things like this tend to create future problems if it got leaked.

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    1. Teejay the truth is that most women TTcing are due to their husband's issue. But the husband will not be supportive of them rather they will be mounting pressure on their wives as if they are the cause. I am not supporting her but the truth is that if her husband has the ability,he will would have impregnated more than three women during the waiting period.

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    2. Teejay the real father already knows. The issue now is how she will leave the loveless marriage and couple with Alhaji mai mata a gida.

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    3. Wait a minute. How is everyone concluding that the man is impotent? Or did I missed a line in the chronicle? The fact the woman is ttcing and got pregnant outside doesn't justified that the man is impotent. I wonder why the assumption.

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    4. Teejay, the husband threatened to impregnate a side chick, he probably tried, but didnt work out, cos he cant father a child. This woman just beat him to it. We would all have asked this woman to accept the side chicks child, if she had any for the husband. Madam, I cant judge u. Let your bf set u up with some big time business. It obvious u don't love your husband anymore. He is all lovey dovey, cos u dont care anymore, and he can sense the distance. I pray he doesn't hurt u or that pregnancy if u tell him. Do you.

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    5. At this point, I believe it will be better to walk out of the marriage than rope another man's child to her husband. Even if the man is impotent, what happens to adoption? At least that one is more honorable than adultery.

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    6. Anon 17.00 you hit the nail on the head. Poster your hubby is all over you now cos he senses that your heart is no longer with him and he’s scared.
      He might even suspect that he’s the cause of your inability to have children since his dalliances with side chicks haven’t yielded any pregnancy. That’s if he doesn’t even know it outrightly.
      I wonder why a TTC couple wouldn’t even go for tests and check ups together.

      Anyway, that’s all water under the bridge. You have to come clean to your hubby and tell him the truth but do so knowing that the marriage is over. You can’t even remain in that marriage since your baby’s father already knows you’re pregnant for him.
      Let him set you up cos you need all the help you can get at this time.

      It’s a pity things happened this way but it’s already happened.
      Way forward oh.

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    7. Teejay, the man didn't think about adoption, he planned on having a baby with his side chick, except it didn't work. That man would have kids with his side chick, if he could.

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  8. Tell your husband but not now . Wait for bf to set you up first. Then when you have nothing to loose tell your husband n move. Goodluck. Some of this men feel they can do what ever they like n trow it to our face. His even the one that has an infertility problem. Congratulations

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    1. Yaba left escapee29 July 2019 at 15:37

      Delayed pregnancy doesnt always translate to infertility problems in either the man or wife, the man might be healthy... but she never relaxed & enjoyed the sex to produce enough vagina fluids to promote the swimming of the sperm to the egg.

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    2. Pls take this advice Seriously. Let the gbensher get you a job or a big business,house not rented oh,car and enough cash in hand(Regina standard).These men cannot be vouched for,so when dealing with them, one must have Plans A,B and C. Maka adighi ama ama!

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    3. Poster please do not tell your husband you're carrying another man's child, maka ndu gi.
      This one that he's even impotent he may kill you.
      You shouldn't have told the other guy, he may come for his child in future. Just tell him you can not leave your marriage because you don't want troubles. Pin the child on your husband and keep everything as a secret.

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    4. Fan emmanuel, i surprised this advice is coming from you

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    5. Yaba, meaning his side chick wasn't relaxing too? Abeg, that man has a problem, and he might even know, hence the threat.

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    6. Fan Emmanuel you too?

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    7. YLE you know nothing of biology. I worked in reproductive medicine and conducted sperm analysis for several years and can write a book on the morphology and properties of semen. In many cases, male infertility was usually the cause of delayed conception but it is easier for our society to blame the woman.

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    8. Anon 18:17, YLE is right. Sometimes anxiety kills conception, when the cervical mucus is not friendly enough it kills sperm.

      I was TTC for 7yrs after my first nothing happened. I took all I did and almost died yet nothing. I stopped taking anything, going for scan etc after we were told that hubby has 5m count and me pcos and nothing can happen expect IVF. 2months of me removing my mind from conceiving and planning towards IVF test I became pregnant naturally (now 17weeks with a son), no drugs nothing only thing I did was ACV and that was cos of my heartburn, while hubby was on diet and lots of fresh tomatoes.
      I was relaxed and never bothered myself or hubby. I was just begging God to help us get a positive IVF result.

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    9. Yaba left escapee29 July 2019 at 19:34

      Biologist of mens sperm, youve concluded its the mans fault, ode. You worked sperm bank or clinic, so you think no one else knows, if i slap you eh.

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    10. Yaba L hope you didn't forget your meds

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  9. Cheat outside your home as a married woman, the way the sex will be sweet and everything looks so beautiful. i always conclude that the devil is indeed real. That thing you had and never enjoy, sin with it and see how it turned sweet

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    1. Sin starts most times from temptation, when we are being drawn in by our base desires . After capitulation it is often sweet. But the consequences can be very dire.

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  10. Why did people like trouble? Why do people like disturbing the devil in his den and look for people to blame? Both you and your husband are wrong in the first place. You should have simply walk out of marriage when he was giving you the red light. Now you have put yourself in a big shame.

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    1. What shame??? Abeg madam, carry your pregnancy with pride. If oga husband finds out the truth if he cannot bear it, take a walk. But make sure Alhaji has set you up financially very well.
      Finito!

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    2. She can still walk out becos the Muslim guy knows about the pregnancy already. Though i do not support what she did, let her get a least a house and huge sum of money to start life and even more kids if possible. Some men are bad luck to women, she can be in that marriage and not have kids.

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    3. Anon 17:26 yes its shame,everyone is doing it doesnt make it write.ur husband have sex with someone and you too have sex now will 2 wrong make a right?you have failed your husband ,yourself and family.all those saying its good will anyof u wish same for ur family or your children?

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  11. Where are those people that like to use the word "pervert"
    Una see una disciples?
    People commit atrocity and brand it Okafor's law? How about the Law of God the creator who set up marriage and said that he will judge the adulterers who defile marital beds?
    There is nothing I read from Naija girls on this blog or I hear anywhere
    that surprises me any longer.
    Was it not a Naija girl that asked "Stella shall I suffocate it" -a full
    fledged toddler, bouncing boy, she wants to suffocate
    to clear way to marry abroad man.
    Did you not read this deceitful poster; "he is stinkingly rich, he is in govt. but I am not interested in the money..."
    Yes, you are interested in his knickers.
    You judged yourself. Whatever you ever chanted your husband did is not the issue, he can deny everything.
    You have the evidence of your adulteries.
    But let me warn you, this "stikingly rich Muslim" lover boy will deal with you. His wife will deal with you. Devil, whose ways you are following will deal with you.
    And if you do not repent of your adulteries, God almighty will deal with you..
    But if you confess to your husband and repent, God is faithful and just to forgive you and cleanse you
    of all unrighteousness.

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    1. An adulterer, she is..Pervert, she is not.

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    2. Please ooo poster do not confess to anybody.
      Just keep it as a secret and pray the guy will not come for his child. You are not the first to give your husband another man's child,the only mistake you made was to tell that guy. Next time you seek for our advice first.

      Just beg the man to establishe you while you all keep the secret because you don't want to dent his political career.

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    4. Judge Judy,well done o!
      Jesus PA,na you holy pass?
      After confessing to her hubby and he throws her out,shebi na for ya house she go stay?
      Mtchewwww!

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    5. Hehehehehe but men are PRO in this game na

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    6. @Perxian
      This is a perversion of God's marital laws. Go to the google dictionary and look at the first definition of perversion.
      @Pharisee Fan
      YOu did not disappoint from your usual Pharisee course. So why attack side chickens like bees?
      Is this woman not a side chicken, stealer of fork and husband snatcher/home wrecker all in one.
      So how many "other men's babies" have you passed on to your husband?
      Zam ajuju
      Nne talk about repentance here inugo.

      @Veteran
      This is your stock in trade na. Chop belle full from ??? and give to your husband
      Yes, after all I wrote up there, my last line is invitation to repentance and seeking God.
      If they throw her out, it is merely the fallout of her adultery. That is not the end of her life
      It is better she is thrown out now than in eternity.
      Joseph was thrown into jail in Egypt for what he was even innocent of, did he not end up being king?
      David lost his kingdom after the Bathsheba episode, is the Messiah not the Son of David?
      Supposing the husband finds out from even blood tests, has it not happened before?
      Know that there is nothing hidden that shall not be exposed.

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    7. Poster it's better you take a walk from your marriage than pinning that pregnancy on your husband. Giving him another man's child as his is pure wickedness, no matter his crime.

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    8. ANG if my husband has ever cheated on me, on top still beat me because of his side chic I WILL DO WHAT THIS POSTER DID WITHOUT BLINKING AN EYELID. although not with a married man

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    9. @Pharisee Fan
      You see as you succeeded in crowning yourself THE CHIEF PHARISEE?
      "though not with a married man" but you are supporting and advising her
      to do her's with a married man okwa ya?
      Complete the fullness of the iniquity inugo?
      😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

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    10. But how about the woman that said she did same and moved from zero to hero. I am not understanding this life sef

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  12. When they said that women cheat more than men, so many women flared up here. I hope you all can see this now.
    You don't enjoy sex with your husband, you doing it just for baby making, why did you choose him over your ex that's stupendously rich?

    Stop using your ttc as an excuse, you're loose woman from time immemorial. Move and marry your accomplice in peace.
    Pack out and leave in peace.

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    1. My worries is that, the man has started being nice to her to be greeted with such an information. Madam you went too far I must say. Even if you must cheat which I still condemned, why not use protection? Or was it purposefully done because you are ttcing?

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    2. He is only nice, cos the woman is happy, and doesn't care about the things he he does. That's how most cheats behaves, when their partners dont care anymore.

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    3. U must be a total idiot to say women cheat more than men. Male chauvinist pig, anyway what was I expecting from you...poster if I were you I would divorce my husband and stay on my own for now. Let the alhaji set you up since you are joined for life. Wait till you find love again and marry. Meanwhile do not tell your husband you are preggy b4 packing out...if he knows you are pregnant e go tie u down by fire and if he knows belle no be him get am jealousy fit make am kill you..men think they can always treat women anyhow and they will be at their mercy...carry your belle with pride and close your ears to wetin people go talk cos na start e just start. Even some people for your family go throw you stones.

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  13. So why didn't you leave your husband before doing reconnecting with your boyfriend and forgiving your husband? What are you asking us to to tell you? Abeg fuck off!

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    1. Ajuju! Did her husband leave her when he was busy putting his flash drive in every hole? Why do we have to shame only the woman? I'm happy that her revenge fuck landed her a baby. Madam, hope you have registered for antenatal? Safe delivery in advance!

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    2. I'm so happy for her too...Imagine going thru TTC and domestic violence at the same time...Her priority now is how to get things together before her delivery time...Chop knuckle wise lady😘😘😘

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    3. Poster, you will carry to term and deliver safely by His grace.
      As Sapphire said, try getting things that will give you your own money together before your delivery. Best of luck.

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    4. Poster listen to Mrs E.
      Safe delivery my darling... I understand because I have walked a bit in your shoes though not fully... hahaha.
      Enjoy dear, God is Great and His Mercy endures forever.
      Hallelujah!!!

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  14. No one need to walk in your useless shoes, you're a cheat. I pray the other woman make your life miserable for coming to disrupt her peaxeful home.

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    1. The husband is a cheat too. Two can play the game.
      U men think its only u guys that have sexual needs abi. When u take ur wife for granted, someone out there is wishing to have her.

      My only problem is that uve told the other guy u pregnant for him already, if not u for enter ur husband house take care if ur pikin.
      Just collect money from side nigga and set ur self up biko

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    2. Anonymous you yarn am as e be. Poster tell the guy to keep the secret since you both are married, you don't want to damage his political ambitions. You are not the first!

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    3. Exactly....My partner was doing the same for the whole 13yrs of relationship with 2kids.....Now I'm seeing someone else , he saw our conversation and now forming heartbroken...Useless man

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    4. I'm not surprised, you're the same set of people we read about their secret sexcapade on anonymous post. You must find a way to justifies infidelity.
      Shame on you..

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    5. DON the anti women. Did you also read the part where her husband beat her up because of his side chick? Biased mind

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    6. Don, Shut the fuck up!!!
      Hypocrite of the highest order.

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    7. Anti-women Welcome! but the husband can beat her cos of side chick ba?.Her husband has also cheated but his own did not produce any child cos his sperm is empty.Awon oloriburu okunrin.

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    8. Don 'nothing' I pray u get married to a woman like Me, na u go use ur hand kee yourself.

      You didnt see where she wrote the husband cheats and beats her up kos of side chick shey?

      As men like tasting egusi, okro, and other kinds of soups, so are some women too.

      I don't know how we got here! Men think they alone can cheat. When u see how women run thingS fear go catch u.
      U all will keep training other people's kids if u don't get ur acts together. Mfks

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    9. See the association of bittered and self righteous women..
      Kill myself because of women? You're the most foolish woman I have ever seen here on this blog.. Maybe that how your dad killed herself because of your mother but I know better and hoe to deal with people like you because you can't hide your trade.

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    10. I pity u @don
      People like na woman go humble u.
      Mtchew!

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  15. Yen yen yen yen..
    Hisssssss
    The way married women including men cheat this day ehhhhh.
    Who ask you to marry huh?
    They tied your neck and force you you to marry him!
    If you are NOT happy leave the marriage honourably!
    Stop getting married to please the society or your parents!
    Stop make a mockery of a sacred union!

    Please Ronalda don't sweetie or darling her! Her husband infidelity is not enough excuse.

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    1. @Favor,
      But when I yarn
      una go 🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹
      Ndi uta

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    2. @Favor,
      But when I yarn
      una go shoot una arrows 🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹🏹
      at my smooth nyansh
      Ndi uta

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    3. One bad egg......I look at all these married women making noise here with one kind eye now. Your atrocities can make satan repent.

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    4. That one na una headache. Poster CONGRATULATIONS. God works in mysterious ways!

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    5. Anon she said the truth plsssss.
      Marriage is never a bed of roses and these are one of the storms..

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  16. You shouldn't have told your boy friend about it. You should have birthed this baby for your husband and stop the relationship with your boy friend immediately. It is complicated now. But whatever you decide, don't abort the baby.

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    1. That marriage is good as gone as soon as the man find out. In all commandment given to man, only one is man authorized to take the law by his hand. And I tell you, this is that aspect of it when Christ said, except on the issue of adultery, a man shouldn't put away his wife. Madam prepare for the worse should in case you finally tell him or he found out himself.

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    2. See your evil mind.
      Give another baby to another man. Witch.

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    3. See another evil soul.. She should give the baby to her innocent husband, bring bastard into the house ?

      Nothing surprises me again about your women here. You all call God when it suits you but you're all evil.

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    4. My dear this kind of secret will be too heavy to carry .
      What of dna is done?
      What if they need blood.?
      Baby looks different?
      How long can she carry the secret?
      The BBY deserves the truth.
      It can only be if she and her hubby agree to keep it

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  17. Chronicle poster of two days ago was right to be weary after all. All these friends even though married can'the trusted. You are pregnant for your friend not ex so this is not okafor's law in action madam!!

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  18. Marry the new man
    Let hubby for his side chick.

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      "Marry the new MARRIED man"

      Ahaaaaa, that is what you intended to write.
      Hope you take not of the correction.
      😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

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  19. I would have slapped you if you had the opportunity of getting pregnant and didn't use it. Imagine he was the one that got a lady pregnant first, what will your fate be? Congratulations! Do what your mind directs you to do. Above all congrats for the Lord has blessed you.

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    1. Hahahahahaha... I love you jar!

      Poster get ready for baby no2. Na belle you carry abeg you no kill person. Just don't leave your marriage for a polygamous home ooo... Let this one be your secret.

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    2. Hmmm...may be the Lord will soon bless another woman with your husband's seed.

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    3. @Mrs E.
      Mmmmmmmmmmmmmhhhhhhhhh
      I heaved a sigh of relief when I found out I wasn't reading Ms. A
      So how many "bastards" have you handed your husband?
      Are you and that Pharisee Fan not a shame to married women?
      Za m ajuju o
      Which "god" blessed her; baal abi na ashtoreth or Molech?
      The Almighty God said in his word that he will judge adulterers. Heb. 13:4-5
      Did he say he will exonerate them if the husbands did same?
      A lot of married whores are here n' azu ahia o
      😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

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  20. Tell you husband its not working anymore and leave. The truth is you do not love him anymore, beating you up for his side chick made u hate him. Do not destroy that other woman's home. Move out and raise your child. U have hurt your husband and your marriage with this infidelity, and you cannot pin this pregnancy on him, so jejely move out but leave the married man alone. He can assume responsibility for his child but forget any romantic intentions u are harbouring.

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    1. Gbam wise words, poster you cant eat your cake and have it. Dont expect him to leave his wife because of you,(all that one he is saying whatever you want, men can change in a flick once they feel pressured, once your atrocities comes out in the open and the heat is on him trust me that loving tone will change sharpily) respect yourself and have the mindset that you would be a single mother and hopefully the man would be responsible enough to provide adequately for his child. You have made your bed.

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    2. Good advice....You don't have to marry the married man.... Because he won't respect or trust you because you cheated on your husband with him...

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    3. He is s Muslim
      He can marry another

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  21. As you lay your bed so you must lie on it.

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  22. Tell your husband & be ready to leave the marriage, don't put another man's child on him. Don't be quick to marry lover boy too, I sense you are a Christian yourself & might not be able to adapt to the change of religion & culture. Will you be comfortable when wife no. 3 comes calling? If not, I will advise you tell loverboy to get you Visa and all necessities to relocate abroad since money is not the issue. Let him be the father of the child while you nurse your child as a single mom for now. Later, you will be in a calm state to decide whether to marry him or get on with someone else. In the western part of the world, it's easier at least you won't face much of societal demeaning.
    Good luck.

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  23. Yaba left escapee29 July 2019 at 15:33

    *shaking my head*
    Are you sure about the paternity?
    Why open another door without closing the legitimate door?
    Youve now realized its a mans world abi?

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    1. That’s true. Unless she has not slept with hubby since how does she know he’s not the father

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  24. You honestly could divorce your current husband and marry to the Muslim man as a second wife. Like, this situation could strangely work out smoothly in your favour without having to do too much. Your husband was already beating you so you know what he is about. I cannot in good faith tell any woman to stay with an abusive man, today it is childbearing why he is bearing you, tomorrow it will be another reason that will be legit in his mind. If you don't want to be a second wife then let the man spend his money and set you up in business or get you a good job somewhere. Get a home of your own out of him for you and the baby and move on. Your character will be tarnished when the truth comes out so at least get something out of it. If he is fifty rich then some things will be easier for you. I wish you well.

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  25. Ceaser will surely come for you

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    1. She has given him food for breakfast.

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    2. My thoughts exactly.

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  26. Marry your baby father since you do not love your husband at all apart for baby making purposes and stop disturbing blogsville with rubbish talk

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  27. Ceaser will surely come for you

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  28. Where is Doppleganger????? Dopple come abeg I want to know what ya think.

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    1. Dont you have brain of your own??

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  29. No need to beat yourself over this. Forget about these BVs telling you to tell your husband and all! I say you should be smart. I won't advise you to marry that man, but I need you to cash out big time. Get the job, get the house and possibly monthly credit alerts. Don't tell your husband Jack(he is not a saint)... You need these things from your side boo cos sooner or later, the truth may be out and if that happens, you will have want to fall back to. No need to work yourself up over a man that isn't worth it. A sterile man for that matter. Incase there is an extra Co next for job, I won't mind.

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    1. Poster take this advice. But I pray the truth never comes out.

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    2. Another evil being..
      I wish all what you wish this man on your brother.

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    3. This one you are in full support of poster, pray that another woman in similar situation will not get pregnant for your husband. Be careful what you support.

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    4. This is a good advise ,take it, please.

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    5. Fan we are going to be here when your husband bring in a love child to your house.
      You think you have arrived abi? Wait for it..

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    6. But Don why do you refer to poster's husband as an innocent man, when he is a wife beater and an adulterer chasing side chicks, not even stable enough to support his wife who is ttc. He actually caused everything by his evil behavior towards his wife. And you have nothing to say about the Alhaji that is happily gbenshing another man's wife. Your only grouse is with the woman. Art thou Caesar?

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  30. this is complication plus entanglement..the best way to solve a problem is not by entering another problem

    since you have already told the man,tell your husband also and get ready for whatever will be the outcome.

    Infact ehn Jesus fix you poster

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    1. Poster keep us posted on what happened next

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  31. Poster,divorce your husband,do not marry the Muslim just allow him to provide for u and the kid(s) cos you'll have more with him.

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  32. Last,Last women are also scum.i fear some married women
    Okafor law.

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    1. This is one thing I hate with a passion.
      Been biased due to gender.
      Men do this everyday

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  33. Its simple na. Go with your Muslim lover,marry or don't marry,have your baby,enjoy the money,live with the guilt of what you have done to your husband. It will fade away soon,after all you have no child with him. Be safe .

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  34. Let the boyfriend get you the house and job first then you can resend your chronicle.

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    1. Beloved you are wise. Some things are easier said than done. What if the man renege on his promise? Two things may be certain here. The boyfriend may not do anything for her unless she leaves the husband's home. Secondly, what if the condition given to her by the boyfriend for a better life is an exchange for the child if it happens to be a male child? Will she accept such condition?

      Reading some comments here shocked me like, the devil will really be surprised on how mankind have outdo him on evil. Some comments by married bvs leaves me with the question, have we really lost our morals as a people? I am not surprise at comments like this, for I have read more disgusting things at anonymous night post and tomorrow same women will want to mingle on SNM, citing Godfearing man when themselves aren't godly. I am not generalizing for there are good women here,only if one can differentiate them at SnM Lol....

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    2. Sanctimonious Teejay, pick a struggle. At least with Don or/and Caesar we know what to expect.

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    3. Anon 20:20 if you are one among those dropping bombs in ANG voice please cheharia maka ndu gi. This is all I have for you.

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  35. Wetin u come want make we advise you?

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  36. Divorce your husband. Don’t birth another man’s child in his house, a married man for that matter. As for your muslim bf, decide about that one yourself.

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  37. Mouth hanging.!!
    Marriage has it's up and downs
    What u did is inexcusable.
    Ur hubby said!
    What did u say in the heat!
    U kept mute???
    Depends on whom u are married to.
    I will advice u tell ur hubby and stick by him.
    Maybe this baby will open doors for other babies from hubby.
    Matrimony is to be respected.
    Or u walk away with ur baby but in all what u both did is terribly wrong.
    U destroyed ur home and scattered another for ur happiness.

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    1. Poster, Please do not tell your hubby or anybody. "Iko adighi enwe nwa" meaning a concubine cannot claim a child (The child belongs to the husband).

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  38. Leave your husband. If it has gotten to this point you have nothing to lose. Even if you don’t marry your muslim guy he will take care of you and his child. You don’t sound like you want to remain with your husband.

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  39. in other words your husband is sterile

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  40. Dear poster, the deed has been donea already so let's see how we can help you. IMO you shouldn't have told your married Muslim boyfriend just yet, what if it isn't his baby? Abi are you not still gbenshing your husband?

    Anyway, I think you should do the following and fast too:
    1) Get your married boyfriend to secure you a good job and house. Be as independent as possible before the next step!
    2) Look for a good time and tell you husband the truth. Don't make it look like he pushed you to another man, just make him realize you "may be" pregnant for another person & give him ample time to decide if he would want to "adopt" the pregnancy or if he wants the marriage to end.
    Now you should have also decided by now whether you want this marriage to continue or not. Tell him your own decision too.... please leave out theof information that you have a job and house out of your discussion!!!
    3) Do not marry your boyfriend, I repeat, do not make the mistake of marrying him. If He cheated with you, he will CERTAINLY cheat on you. He should remain what he is, boyfriend! Besides, he's Muslim and you're not, I don't see you ever coping with his ways and religion!

    All the best and keep us informed....

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  41. Ask your Boyfriend to get you sorted.. do not tell your husband about the pregnancy , just come up with some crazy behavior of possible try as much as you can to get evidence for separation simple as that .
    You really don’t want to bruise your husbands ego if he find outs you’re not crying his child

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  42. Aww I feel like hugging you right now; it is well, you have not killed anybody. This pressure you feel right now will die down, for now be happy you are pregnant. Pray and ask God for forgiveness and ask him what to do.

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  43. Hello poster. You have committed adultery Which God hates and the only ground for divorce which God also hates. I will advice you tell your husband because your lover already knows. whatever comes out of it,you accept it like that. Ask for Gods forgiveness and move on. Do not hide the truth because it will cause More havoc in the future. Don't listen to those that say you should keep it for your husband because that is the greater sin. All the best

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  44. you need to be very smart now not emotional......Poster please dont tell your husband, dont marry your Muslim guy yet,let him relocate you abroad and fund your life style from there. with this action you have saved yourself embarrassment and your hubby will get over it faster..... also you child will be secured with a better life as a citizen of a new country.

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  45. Sweetie, you have a child on the way. Congratulations on the successful conception. Now, beware of stress because it can cause a miscarriage. From your writeup, there's no love lost between you and your husband.
    Tell your family first and take it from there. With their support, you will raise a beautiful child and find love again.
    Cheers!

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  46. She's not enjoying the sex. Abeg leave that ur husband and move on

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  47. Stella it is complicated.

    Thank God you're speaking out and we have this platform.

    First seek repentance from God genuinely.

    For your safety and the innocent baby in you gently and quietly move out of your matrimonial home at least for the moment. Your husband should look for you if he really loves you, then tell him the whole truth and the reason you ran away because you already know you are at fault and have judged yourself..... Whatever the judgment just take it in good faith.

    The father of the unborn child don't fight him either, but as much as he is willing accept the gifts, employment or empowerment. But please move on , get closer to God. And advice him to take care and face his family.
    *my only fear is how you will tame your body (punani) as its called on this blog because you have been sincere to admit that you enjoy sex with him and also looking forward to it. Honestly God has wired the body that way but unfortunately you're doing it to the wrong person.
    If only you can endure and wait on God faithfully He will turn your mistake to glory.

    The child is innocent take care of him. If God wishes your husband will forgive you and save you from the shame, He can give you another man after weaning the baby or none of the above and make this baby give you joy later in life. Just be prepared!
    *wishing you safe delivery.

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  48. Stella it is complicated.

    Thank God you're speaking out and we have this platform.

    First seek repentance from God genuinely.

    For your safety and the innocent baby in you gently and quietly move out of your matrimonial home at least for the moment. Your husband should look for you if he really loves you, then tell him the whole truth and the reason you ran away because you already know you are at fault and have judged yourself..... Whatever the judgment just take it in good faith.

    The father of the unborn child don't fight him either, but as much as he is willing accept the gifts, employment or empowerment. But please move on , get closer to God. And advice him to take care and face his family.
    *my only fear is how you will tame your body (punani) as its called on this blog because you have been sincere to admit that you enjoy sex with him and also looking forward to it. Honestly God has wired the body that way but unfortunately you're doing it to the wrong person.
    If only you can endure and wait on God faithfully He will turn your mistake to glory.

    The child is innocent take care of him. If God wishes your husband will forgive you and save you from the shame, He can give you another man after weaning the baby or none of the above and make this baby give you joy later in life. Just be prepared!
    *wishing you safe delivery.

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  49. Wow, I've learned not to judge anyone because it's not always as it seems. Your story is so much like the book I'm currently reading 'Love, In English' by Karina Halle.

    It is well oo

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  50. Honey, are you seriously asking us not to judge? How plausible is that? Unless you don't want people's honest opinions. I can't ignore the elephant in the room. What is wrong is wrong and cannot reasonably be justified to make you feel better. Just because you are pregnant doesn't make how you went about it, okay. That reasoning is profoundly jaundiced. The end doesn't justify the means in this case.

    That law you are trying to use as an excuse will not help your case, there are married women who have been treated horribly by their husbands but they remain faithful, or some left the marriage. You stayed married and got knocked up by your married ex and you think that's okay? That you got pregnant by your ex is no definite proof of your hubby's infertility. It's only a medical test that can rule that out.

    Of course, forbidden sex is almost always more exciting. Now this ex of yours seems like Mr. Perfect until the excitement wears off and the harsh reality exposes the real man he is. A man who can comfortably have sex with a married woman over and over again, is an unscrupulous fellow who shouldn't be trusted. You seem to have so much faith in him, I guess you are okay with his religion and being a wife among his other wives. I find it curious that the statement your hubby made about getting someone else pregnant shook you to your core, hard enough for you to cheat but here you are being impregnated by another woman's husband and you are even willing to come into the marriage as a wife. How, exactly, are you different from your husband's side chic? Can you really justify your resentment now? Your lover boy did with you what your hubby said he will do with another, and you resent him but love your ex.

    Sweetie, you've already set the ball rolling, I can't tell you what to do. I have a feeling you know exactly what you want to do. For those egging you on, I hope you know they will not tolerate their husbands bringing in a pregnant 2nd or 3rd wife? They are encouraging you to disrupt another woman's home while they guard theirs fiercely. A man sends his female money and some ladies were up in arms but they approve this reprehensible act? It's quite confusing. I wish you good fortunes in your future endeavors.

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    1. Ronalda!!! I know you will never disappoint. The truth is a bitter pill but must be said. Thanks so much Ronalda. You said it as it is without sugarcoating it.

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    2. Ronalda, hypocrites and pharisees full this blog, speaking from both sides of their mouth.

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    3. Ronalda Ronalda Ronalda! I used to beef you because I couldn’t stomach the endearments you always used in your write ups but you see this your comment right here, wow wow wow is all I can say. Correct woman with correct brain. Class started and ended with you abeg. I respect you.

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    4. Nwada Ronalda
      Ha aga anukwanu -will they hear.
      Truth is sweet to the ears of those who love God.
      If you scroll through this comments you will be appalled at the
      enormity of the Pharisees we are dealing with in this blog.
      Odiegwu ooo
      They are all congratulating her for pregnancy from adultery
      and next post, they will be chanting Jesus, God, God -which "god"?
      Nekwa ajuju

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    5. Ronalda over sabi...she said not judge but advise on the way forward...u ended uo just judging and giving no meaningful advice..in your oversabi mind you think she or we reading dont know what she did is wrong? Tiday aint lecture day darling. You have not said anything new. Rubbish I too know

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  51. Poster, the deed has being done.
    Like the bible/laws of nature/karma all says, we all will resp what we sow and for any action taken good or bad there are consequences.

    Delay in birthing children doesnt always translate to infertility.
    The couple may go through all the required tests which will turn out normal and still no child. They may go through different cycles of IVF and the procedures may still fail and surprisingly they become pregnant naturally after.

    You are already pregnant ,I am pro life so I will say allow the pregnancy to term and birth the child.
    You have told the side boo you are pregnant..that means you doubt your husband being the father. Except you are pretty sure that within these said period of conception you haven't being intimate with your husband, you can't be 100% sure the baby isnt your husbands'.

    You are already not in love with your husband anymore from the tone of your story but then that decision is for you to make. If you are no more in love with your husband with all these ok n ground it will be wise you take a break or get separated from your husband for a while to clear your head not because you have a Muslim man who may marry you but because you need to get real with yourself and make a better decision for yourself and baby on the way.

    My take is
    birth your child

    Go for a DNA test to determine paternity.

    If the paternity comes out the child is for your husband. You need to then determine what you really want. To still be with your husband who is trying to make kids with his sidechick now to your knowledge, or be by yourself or be with your Muslim man ,or find a new man entirely? It wont be wise to be neither here no there ,that's how full blown hoes get born.

    If the child is for your Muslim man, I dont think it wise you keep the true paternity a secret from the child. The child deserves to know. More so you seem to have fallen out of love with your husband given that the threat of him having kids with a sidechick keeps resonating in your ears.

    For your sanity ,after the birth if your child, come clean and make a choice for you. People will talk but then those were the consequences you should have thought of before getting intimate with someone other than your husband. You shouldn't put what people will say and continue lying to your self and living in fear of your secret getting known. Say the truth and come clean after your child is born and you have determined paternity. Atleats then you will know who the father is . I am saying come clean after the child is born because I know coming clean while pregnant and the issues that follows the knowledge wont provide a healthy environment for the pregnancy to thrive.

    My 2 cents
    Love and light.

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    1. Your second paragraph is my thought as well. The man may not actually be impotent. Your advice is encouraging and a nice one as well.

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    2. The deed has BEEN done... Hian!

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    3. @anonymous..king of written English.
      Is that the only typo you saw?
      Please read through and help me correct it.
      Couldn't start editing and correcting grammar while enroute...thanks

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  52. madam poster who am i to judge you when i have never been there? what i will say is that since the deed has already been done, all you need is solution and wisdom to handle it wisely.

    i will advise you don't just tell your lover immediately that you are walking out of your marriage first, use your head and his own. Tell him to get you that job as soon as possible, let him buy you a good house, car if you don't have, open a good business for you and then you can open open up to your husband and face whatever that will come out of it. Is best you confues now than covering up your mistakes with more lies, how long will your lover be able to keep the secret and how long will you both continue to hide your secret to your husband. Face the music now and after 6 months the gossip will be over, never you forget to relocate far from where you are with your husband at the moment. The fastest way to heal from your past is to relocate, cut off from people who will remind you of the past and move ahead. we all make mistakes, if you feel you want to be his second wife go ahead and do what makes you happy. Never you abort that child, keep it cos is your visa to a better life. Don't mind what people will say. Do whatever makes you happy. Afterall your husband has made his choice and he will never stop threating you.

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  53. Tell your husband you also have a side chic na and your own just got you pregnant. He should continue with his side chic its 1.1 na

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  54. If you are certain the pregnancy is for your husband,tell baby daddy to get you house and job he promised and quietly move into the house before you tell your husband the marriage is over so he won't kill you.Tell your parents,expect lot of insults and tears,but every body will be alright last last.If he was the one who succeeded in impregnating side chick,everybody will ask you to forgive and stay because men get away with everything.When a woman does the same it's an abormination.

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  55. No matter how the tide swings, please keep that pregnancy, it is not a mistake. If you want to be sincere with your DH, Come clean but keep the identity of your ex away and make sure you are out of harm's way as your DH may feel betrayed and want retaliation. Be prepared for the worst and quickly plan a safety net for that child. Sincerely ask God,
    DH and both families for forgiveness. Then live your truth. If you want to marry the Muslim as second wife, please respect his family and stay in your lane, don't just bother to create further problems for you and the unborn child in anyway. The first wife is not your rival, you stole from her even though the man's religion permits him, so accord her due and unadulterated respect please. When your child grows, please be truthful early because definitely, karma will come knocking but there are ways around these things. God knows and sees all things and sometimes, his ways can be.. . You are not the first or last to be caught in adultery so dust your are and go redeem your future and that of the child. May God show you and that man mercy because of the innocent seed.

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  56. If your husband is suddenly all lovey after threatening you and beating you chances are he already knows he has a problem or he feels he can’t live with the side chick. There’s no need lying, it’s very difficult but you just have to tell him. Before you do that secure your future and your child’s future. Don’t think the man will easily marry you with pregnancy cos you will experience all sorts of battles before you birth this child. The best thing for you might be to convince him if he is capable to buy you a house or apartment outside Nigeria and relocate. If he gets you a job now, you can’t work for few months and go on maternity leave. You need your peace of mind to birth this child first that’s the most important thing. I wish you well.

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  57. Let your husband check himself medically to ascertain his fertility status. It seems he has issues.

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  58. Please don't tell your husband when you're alone in the house o. He may kill you and use your infidelity as a justification for his actions. Sadly, in our society, most men and women would support him. So move far away and probably text him or call him to deliver the message. He's an abuser. It's not safe to tell him this news face to face.

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    1. Exactly. Telling her husband while still living in the same house could easily make the man beat her to cause a marriage.

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  59. Poster be wise, don't let "love" shack you to making a stupid decision. Unless your lover does everything he has promised to do and more, do not make the mistake of officially jumping to him.
    Let him buy you house, car, set up trust fund for your child to mature at 18YO, get you a job/fund a business you're capable of running and turning a profit first before you agree.

    Any delay is a denial in this case.

    And congratulations on the baby, they're always a blessing from God

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  60. Madam he would have married another woman that got pregenant with anothers child and you will have being thrown out. Sharpely secure the bag from ur bf , get a job and get ready to face bravely anything that comes ur way. Many people criticizing u will do worst if found in ur shoes.

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  61. Poster pls don't tell your husband anything o. He my kill you. Just pack your things quietly when he is not around and leave, then tell him the news from afar. Divorce him from afar too. Before doing this, make sure your new man sets up a business for you and gets you a house too. This is to secure your future and that of your baby. Later, you can travel abroad. But you have to leave that house now.

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  62. Messy mess!
    This is no longer a marriage. You and your husband have broken your vows and marriage covenant.
    Seek a divorce. Do not deceive your husband with a pregnancy that isn't his. Do not marry your Muslim ex. I suspect he was already married when you were dating him as a single lady. That was the real reason you did not marry him besides his religion.

    When your baby is born, then call your now ex-husband, tell him the real reason you divorced him and ask for his forgiveness.

    Money and good sex are not the things that make a fulfilling relationship.
    Please, have the fear of God.

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    1. Nice write up. But how do you convince people about this. Someone said she did same and left the husband married the side boo and she has moved from zero to hero.

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  63. Poster, your husband did you wrong. He had the effontrey to cheat on you and tell you to your face that he would get his side chic pregnant? That's enough to dissolve the marriage. I just wished you divorced him before moving on, to a single Christian man, preferably. You remember what the Bible says about being unequally yoked.

    Those advising you to pin your ex's pregnancy on your husband do not mean well for you. Your husband has disrespected you in the worst way possible. He doesn't deserve to have you remain married to him. He should go and marry the side chic he used to threaten you.

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  64. Poster, don't judge yourself so hard for what you have done. You did wrong but all that is in the past now. You need to think fast and in the present for a better future. Speak with your married EX and let him do you good by his promises (a house, a good JOB (Very important), steady income). Inform your most understanding parent or sibling, let them be aware of your moves and if possible, be around when you inform your husband of your infidelity. (It can go several ways, he might send you out (which you are prepared for), beat you up (so have someone around) or just walk away. Get your things out and start a new life alive, living with the consequences of your action. Never give your Husband someone else's child, that is worse than everything else!. You can't eat your cake and have it!

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  65. Ask all those IsaleEko women how they do it lol

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