Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Monday IHN

Advertisement

Advertisement - Mobile In-Article

Monday, July 01, 2019

Monday IHN

There is light at the end of the Tunnel......................










BIRTHDAY GIRL JULIET COVERS IHN

Hello Stella,
Thank you for this beautiful platform you have created. Here is my good fried who introduced me to this blog.
She has being a bv for 6 years now without an ID. Please make her the face of IHN.
Happy birthday juliet

From Lydia.J




Happy Birthday Juliet,you look like a version of CeeC...or is it my eyes?






...........................................................................................................







HOW I WAS ALMOST RAPED -BY BV NKIRU




Dear Stella please post this part of my life I want to share with my fellow BVs so that they can learn a few things about this thing called rape.




Parents should be very fierce when it comes to your children or wards living under you. My dad was a civil servant in Lagos working in the ministry of industry, he was transferred to Abuja and we moved down here. Life was good both parents were working,we went to school.


We lost our father after a brief illness. Our mother was all we had left. My mother was a church fanatic. She went to any church that suited her. She never knew how to have a personal relationship with God. She believed so much in men of God. She would fast endlessly for no just reason.


She didn't want to or know how to pray to God. In this whole process she dragged us from one church to another. I was already a baby mama in my
 teens (story for another day) my son was loved by my mum as he was her first grandchild. When I had my baby my mom suggested at that time that we should do child dedication in her present church located in jikwoyi.


I have forgotten the name of the church but I remember the pastor name Mr Anyanwu. I was skeptical about it I had no money but the pastor came to our house and assured us of his assistance in making the dedication successful. he even promised bringing money to assist us. After all preparations the child dedication was held at his church this pastor didn't contribute a single kobo like he promised even the money that was contributed for my son in church was collected by pastor.


After the dedication in his church he became a frequent visitor in our house, he comes to eat and talk of how he was traveling abroad to preach and that he wants me to come along as his PA. I didn't respond to his talks as I was not interested, I was only interested in taking care of my son. The pastor told my mom that he was coming for special prayers in our house so everyone should be around. He arrived our house and went into one of the bedrooms and called my younger sister inside closed the door and started praying after like 20 mins my sister came out and said she will not continue the prayer again.


The pastor said I should enter my turn, he was holding a bottle of olive oil in his hand. He said I should kneel down which I did then he started praying and speaking in tongues. The next thing he told me was I should take off my clothes I asked him why? He said I need to pray to God the way I was created naked, I removed my clothes I was only on my pants and bra, he also told me to remove them. I was stark naked before him. He used the olive oil and started rubbing my breasts and body the next thing I knew he inserted his fingers into my vj with the olive oil the next thing he started removing his trousers and brought out his penees to insert into my vj, I jumped up and told him I can't do that...



he said he needs to bless that place by rubbing olive oil on his penees to insert it in my vj. I told him No I can't continue with this prayer I practically ran out of the room naked went to my mom in the other room and told her what her pastor did. But could you believe that my mom was so calm she never believed me only my sisters did, my mother went to meet the pastor in the room I don't know what they discussed apparently she was brainwashed, he came out of the room we served him food and he left.



After he left our house my younger sister also told us that he almost raped her, we told our mother but she was not bothered she said that we should not lie on a man of God. Me and my sisters stopped following her to church, we even told her we didn't want to see that man of God in our house again but she still continue to invite him to eat at our house. Me and my sisters now had a plan on how to disgrace this man of God since he refused to stay away from our house.


We invited him over for prayers that my son was sick when he came I took him inside our bedroom and told him to pray for my son which he did, after I told him to pray for me I started removing my clothes and told him to remove his own, he was praying while removing his clothes, I collected his clothes and took it to the bathroom and put them into a bucket of water,then I told him to open his eyes and leave our house. I opened the bedroom door called my sisters and mother and told them what happened.


He started begging that we can't push him outside our house without his clothes. My mother was just too shocked to say anything. We pushed him outside our house naked without his clothes and that was the last we saw of him. My mother couldn't go to his church anymore. We later learnt that he got a church member pregnant. The pastor has a community penees!



I don't know if he is a changed person now or he still continues with that. As for church going I and my sisters stopped following my mom to church I even stopped going to church for almost 10years after that incident. As for my mother she continued going to different churches from one after another she was even duped in one church we let her be.


PARENTS please be the first line of defense your children and wards have in this life. A Rapist can be a brother, uncle, pastor, cousin, neighbor, friend, stepfather, stepbrother,houseboy, workmate,it can be anybody teach your children s#x education the earlier the better. Since this busola rape story I totally understand how, she feels. Apart from my family I didn't tell anyone about this because society will always look for ways to blame the victim with questions like why didn't you shout or scream, why didn't you fight back,why didn't you report to the police, why didn't you tell? Why?Why? Why?



I was almost raped but I couldn't tell apart from my family members. That my son is 17 years old now it happened when he was 3 months old. So you can imagine me having the courage to speak about it. I couldn't even bring myself to tell my husband. Most pastors have a secret life they live we should be careful. No be all pastor Na pastor. # NOTORAPE#


Thanks Stella for this platform!




Hmmmmmmmmmm...I dont mean to sound insensitive but this is Rape?Cos i used your headline exactly how you sent it and there was no rape in the story...I think you meant near rape?or he tried to trick you to sleep with you?cos he was trying to convince you to let him annoint your kini and he couldnt have forced you or tried to use violence as your mum was just outside.......


Before he even brought out his dirty privates,When he was rubbing your Vayjay with his fingers why didnt you jump up and slap him until his dentition drops.?bloody pervert 







.............................................................................................................................................................................







SHOCKING COMMENT FROM RAPE POST



I Am raped by closed family grow @ 12yrs ,got pregnant with my 1st ever menarch, my family married me off to him to protect the family name, had my son 3 days to my 13th birthday, I actually lived with my rapist for 10 yrs before leaving the useless marriage @22 with 3kids.

He doesn't even take care of the kids I do that alone, Ikechukwu you will never know peace. This is the beginning of your suffering.....





JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH!!!.......first child at 13 years?you must have been through hell and back...I feel like hugging you!!....13 years???I am in a cold sweat!!!








...........................................................................................................









VACANCY FOR PHOTOGRAPHER


Shiloh photography studio located in Ado-Ekiti is in need of an expeerienced photographer. Interested applicants should call 08038567889 and BVs too should please contact us for their events. We're ready to travel and our service is top-notch and affordable.






..............................................................................................................






MAKE UP ARTIST NEEDED IN JOS


Please I am in need of a good and affordable make up artist in jos for my wedding in August.
I can be contacted through WhatsApp 08136804048. 








...........................................................................................................







CAREER ADVICE NEEDED


I graduated with an HND in Secretarial Administration after NYSC I also did PGD in General Management immediately, I got a contract staff job with a Bank which I did for 2 years and the salary then 12 years ago was 52k and while I was there the Management said if we have higher qualification like MBA will would be converted to full staff with this paltry amount I was able to do an MBA programme in Marketing Management , which cost well over 500k and I tendered it , we were meant to go through series of test and till tomorrow no feedback as regards the outcome.


After 2 year there , I moved to another Bank with a better condition of service and welfare package and I spent 4years there but the merger of 2012 in the banking industry made my bank to go under, I was able to get another job with another bank 2month after but on contract basis which I took because of the fear of staying home and jobless, before this time I also acquired an MSc in Social Work.



I later got a job some months after in an FCMG company with a better offer and work condition I have spent over 6years there and I haven't been promoted since I joined, hence the call for concerns.




I used to be in a HR department and the people there feel threatened and that I usually stand up for others, they moved me to a department that doesn't even relate to my field of study just to make me irrelevant, I got to this new department and over the past three years, I have already been recommended for promotion three times by my present boss and when it get to the Management its not always effected I have spoken to the Management , and I am feeling so frustrated that I feel like resigning, but my husband said I shouldn't resign because the work is closer home , we live in Badagry Lagos and the work is in Agbara,. I believe if I look out further for better opportunities on the Island I will get a better paid job, on the other side my children are still within the age of 4-6years so my husband it will be too demanding on me coupled with traffic along that axis.


Over the years I did different Professional examinations and am a chartered Member of CIPMN, Risk Manager and some professional Bodies,I also would like to go for my PHD programme abroad if possible but when I look at the cost involved I am so worried as regards this, also my challenge now is that am confused as regards which field of study to settle for due to my diverse field of study.

My main course of worries are these below:


1.I am Considering leaving my present place of work , due to stagnation and no promotion to have feel of fresh air in any organization



2.My husband wants us to leave this country but we don't know which particular countries and how to go about it, people advised him that if we go for schooling routes it will boost our points and chances because he also has an MBA, we need suggestion on countries that are easy for PHD programme and which field of study do you think is mostly relevant in all the academic qualification earlier mentioned which we can access scholarship easily



3.We have a new Rental and Event Company that we are growing and looking at cost of relocating with our family which is over 10M for Canada processing , I am of the opinion that this money if we invest it well we should have good returns.


Please BV in the abroad,, HR /career Expert /Counsellor and Our Amiable SDK please I need you all.

Thanks as I will be reading your responses in the comment section.








..................................................................................................................................................












.............................................................................................................................................................












OFFICE AND SCHOOL STATIONERY

Order for your office and school stationery,
we sell in wholesale and retail prices.
Kindly call us on: 09098618612, 08027572245.
Instagram: officesolution2019.
location is Lagos and we deliver nationwide.




.........................................................................................................................................................















I learned this during my Nysc days as saed in Kwara.. We make Shoes for your comfort, try me today and you won't regret it.. Anywhere in Nigeria we deliver if you can pay the price..
Fb: Omotara Morenikeji Lewis
Twitter: Hormortee_Lewis
Instagram:OmotaraLewis

Order for yours or send any design you love and we Build it perfectly..

#HormorteeCollections










.............................................................................................................













Kids are going to fall, crash, slip and tumble. It’s all part of being a kid but there are little things we can all do to ensure that kids avoid the more serious injuries that can lead to disabilities and even death.
Image Scale have made it easy for you.

Think of us as your go-to source for Child protective home safety
accessories. Contact:0809 308 6090.






...........................................................................................................











CUTE TOPS FOR SALE


Holla stellz and awesome bvs, I've got this cute top for sale available in different colours for #2500 only..

THE FIRST TEN PEOPLE TO ORDER GET A FREE HALTER NECK CROP TOP!!!!
Delivery charges will be added depending on your location, alternatively pick up can be at enerhen junction, warri.
Kindly send a WhatsApp message to the number on the photo to place your orders






............................................................................................................







COMMENT SECTION


Good day everyone. Moms in the house, please o how can I wean my baby in 3 months time...






..........................................................................................................





ADVICE NEEDED


Greetings to you nwanyi oma and my fellow BVs, pls I need advice cos I want to start ok biz on office and casual ladies wears ie gowns and tops. Where can I buy such bales in Aba? 



What's the name of the bale? I know they have different types of bails, I want to know which bail that contains trendy casual and office wears so that I don't make mistake. 


Pls if you know what will help me in the biz do share to enlighten me. My location is Umuahia. I will be in the comments section. More blessings







......................................................................................................














The cold season is here again, feel the warmth of your bed with our quality BEDSHEETS and duvets which is made of 100% cotton.
It's available, it's affordable, it's long lasting...
@ glad_thrifts_and_beds
Csll/whatsapp 07033964462
Delivery within and outside Lagos
Payment validates delivery.








............................................................................................................









Are you moving into a new home? You want your home beautified? For all kinds of window blinds and whatever designs you want, we have you covered.

Day and night blind
Roller blind
Wooden blind
Vertical blind
Venetian blind
PVC
Installation
Location : Port Harcourt/ Nationwide
Call / Whatsapp/ : 07032481566
Instagram : chevaintegratedservices







..........................................................................................................








INTENSIVE MAKE UP TRAINING IN BENIN


It’s not advisable to sit at home doing nothing in these times... empower yourself by learning a skill today.

We ‘re introducing you to our personal and professional makeup training at highly discounted fees.

If you reside in BENIN CITY, all you need to do is call us and mention ‘SDK Blog’ and enjoy intensive makeup training at discounted price that you will forever be grateful for.

You ‘re assured of one -on -one monitoring in the course of the makeup class .
We’ll also put you through the business of makeup, and how to get clients.
IG: trendy_beautyy
Phone no: 08073600562






............................................................................................................












Get any of these beautiful laces at an affordable price.
Price : N2,500/ yard
Instagram : glam_fashionplus
Call/WhatsApp : +2348189559079
Available for bulk/wholesale and retail.





.............................................................................................................












Available for asoebi, retail, wholesale, etc.
Prices start from N2,000.
Location is Lagos.
Call/whatsapp 07017108022.
Instagram @ankarakulture.
Delivery is nationwide.





..........................................................................................................













Looking for an affordable quality bedsheet?

Tm Beddings got you.
No shedding,no fading.
Order today and get it with the speed of Usian bolt in the next 24hrs. Oh yes!
Delivery in abuja is free.
Other states 1000 -1500only.
6/4,6/6 with two pillowcases -3000
6/6 with four pillowcases -3500
Brand Designers 6/6 with four pillowcases -4500
Call or whatapp: 08166214233.







...........................................................................................................................................................











Quality foot wears available at affordable prices kindly call/whatsapp 09017946967 delivery available nation wide.




...........................................................................................................







LAND FOR SALE. 


Location: KARASANA North. Abuja.
Landsize : 2.43 Hector for
Mass Housing.
Price : 200M.

For enquiry contact: 08037311417.

2. Location: Asokoro by AIT
Landsize: 1,962sqm
Price : 190M negotiable






..........................................................................................................











ORIGINAL PHONE CHARGER,BLUETOOTH AIRPOD AND POWERBANK AT GLOSSY-MART



Hello,Get our original 20000mah powerbank for #7500.its a fast charge and comes with 3 USB port,Torchlight and one USB Cable.

Also get quality Bluetooth Airpod/headset(has space for M.card plus very long lasting rechargeable battery) and original Android fast charger for all phones..our products range from Samsung,Amazon,Infinix,Tecno etc..

Free delivery for all Lagos BV's on any product,while other states come at VERY affordable prices..

Call-07037317400 or 08116202737..whatsapp-08116202737,location is Lagos..





.........................................................................................................







THREE BEDROOM APARTMENT NEEDED IN JOS

Please I am in need of a 3 bedroom apartment that has water in a secured area in Jos. My budget is 250-350k. I can be contacted through WhatsApp 08136804048.







.........................................................................................................










Instagram : zingykreations_beddings
Facebook: zingykreations
WhatsApp: 08038143753






..............................................................................................................................................................

















...............................................................................................................................................................








82 comments:

  1. Bv pls i need help, i made a transaction to from my bank which is Ecobank to my mum account which is polaris bank former Skye bank, and i was using quickteller application to make this transaction, i kept on trying it never went through, till the two transaction went through

    I went to the bank and complain, after 2 months of shouting and screaming, only for them to bring out a particular account number with sterling bank, funny enough i never even knew such bank exist to even make a transaction there and that it was this same day i made the transaction.

    I almost ran mad in the bank, a whole 85k and you people are talking trash and funny enough this transaction has not reflected in my statement of account but only the unsuccessful and successful is what is reflecting, which i told them to show me where i made the transaction on my statement of account

    I feel so frustrated like they don't want to do anything about it, plz what should i do, what steps should i take as im almost running mad. Plssss

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Write to cbn and tag your bank. Once you do that they will start working on it.

      Delete
    2. exactly,email the bank and copy CBN
      check cbn.gov.ng for their email address

      Delete
  2. When I saw the news of the DSS storming the
    residence of the man of God, I knew something
    was fishy somewhere. Two weeks ago when I got
    some information about the despiracy of
    establishing the RUGA settlement in the south, I
    told a friend that he should watch out for divisive
    stories on social media because that's the only
    platform they have not been able to successfully
    restrict people from venting their opinions.
    I bet you that these people know us in the South
    and perfectly understand our psychic. They know
    that we don't truly love ourselves like Jesus said.
    Unlike their own tribe and religion, they know that
    we are not always happy with each others success
    and can approve of anything that's capable of
    pulling down any successful one amongst us
    without a second thought. They know how to get
    the Judas's trait in many of us in order to get to all
    of us. I was born and grew up amongst them. I
    used to be of the same faith with them. My very
    own imam who taught me Qur'an was a known
    pedophile and very many other clerics like that in
    the north and very many Alhajis too. In fact, it is not
    a big deal with them over there. It's rather a usual
    experience and a norm with them. You can never
    see them trying to pull down each others success
    no matter what! You will never see them trying to
    crucify their own over such allegation as we are
    doing against the Pastor as if one sin is greater
    than the other in the sight of God. They are fully
    aware of the fact that we are more intellectually
    inclined than we are spiritually and they perfectly
    know how to divide us. They know that we are all
    potentially envious of one another's success unlike
    their own tribe that will support their own even at
    their own detriment.
    The game plan is to get the RUGA SETTLEMENT
    established in the south without any social media
    agitations from us. To get us distracted they need
    to demonize a prominent figure amongst us
    especially the yorubas and throw the person to us
    so we can vent our energies to destroy the person
    while they effect their settlement of evil and
    destruction in our backyards. At first, it was
    Obasanjo but that didn't work out as expected.
    Then, they tried Soyinka and that also didn't last too
    long as expected. I told a friend of this game and
    that we should expect more attacks on prominent
    Yoruba figures even in this coming week. They
    know that we all have our prices. They will pay
    anyone anything to get any story to distract our
    attention until the killer herdsmen finds location
    behind our towns. May we wake up before it's too
    late!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You have spoken like an intelligent and a true Christian!
      Unfortunately,gullible fools will attack you and call you an enabler!
      #muslimsdontbringdowntheirow
      #christiansarebeingmocked
      #notorugasettlement
      #thereisanivisiblewargoingon

      Delete
    2. anon with Ecobank ish. pls pray to God to help u. pay your tithe regularly. this can never happen to a tither. God help you to solve the issue successfully.

      Delete
    3. You are absolutely correct. We should talk about more important thingd and leave Pastors alone. Mind you, I am not supporting the idea of rape in any form. People should also bear in mind that in the biblical days, David had the opportunity to kill Saul but he didn't do it. We need to wake up from our slumber.
      My question is this: How many times have we expressed our displeasure on what is happening in our country today? We are sitting on a time bomb but we don't know it yet
      May God's wisdom continue to guide our steps and utterances. Amen!

      Delete
  3. Oya laff joor with this old jokes and forget Ur
    sorrow
    1. Nigeria sef, how can two policemen be sharing
    one gun... Nigeria I hail o
    2. I pay 80k to sleep at silverbed hotel and you
    tell me not to urinate on the bed. You well ?
    3. Don't depend on anyone, even NEPA office
    has generator.
    4. I payed 20k just for rice, chicken and wine and
    you are telling me not to lick the plate and take
    the empty bottle home. You well at all???
    5. “WITCHCRAFT" Is when a Yoruba girl had an
    accident and then quickly picks up her phone,
    logged in and posted “just had an accident, #
    injury fell on me. # Red on legs #
    blood_on_cheek #" the wahala is now when you
    tag me “feeling like dying with NO CASE and 99
    others"
    6. Those of you guys that are busy telling girls
    that you met on Facebook that you are missing
    them. What are you missing?, her handwriting or
    her photogenic voice??. Am with my village
    people incase you want to meet them
    .
    7. If you have attended over hundred weddings
    and you are still single, sister you are no
    different from a canopy.
    8. You don't have to be in UK to be OK, help
    comes from above not abroad.
    9. no matter how expensive your wrist watch is,
    as long as it won't be able to tell the time of
    Jesus's second coming. It is has useless as the
    p in psychology.
    10. As a matter of fact there is no female angel
    in the bible so if a guy calls you an angel its a lie
    ooo.
    11. A cockroach is afraid of a rat, a rat is afraid
    of a cat, a cat is afraid of a dog, a dog is afraid
    of a man, a man is afraid of a woman, a woman
    is afraid of a cockroach. That's the circle
    of........... (Complete it).
    12. You buy data bundle every week and you are
    still using the same toothbrush from 2016. My
    broda you need to be
    # arrested #.
    14. There must be something about single ladies
    with nose ring. May be they are trying to smell
    an engagement or wedding.
    15. Even if you are as ugly as hell, women will
    still find something cute on you. They will be like
    “awwwwww, he has nice finger print's"
    “awwwwww he has such a cute shadow". Girls of
    nowadays aha.
    16. I seriously need to stop listening to peoples
    conversation in taxi , I once followed someone
    home just to hear the rest of the story.
    17. Girls that plait Ghana weaving with Brazilian
    wool on their Nigerian hair. tell me, common tell
    me, how do you survive with three nations in
    your head?
    18. Not all couples have sex on their wedding
    night, some of them spend it arguing about how
    the food and drinks disappeared. Lmaooo
    20. Nigerian parents be like; mayweather $300
    million dollars(114 billion naira) In one fight,
    thunder fire any teacher that separates my child
    when fighting in school.
    21. Death is when you want go give your mom
    money, but then you take out a condom...........
    Even fainting will not save you.
    22. When you ask people for advice and they tell
    you to listen to your heart but all you here is
    “tum-tum tum-tum ".
    23. Boy: from the day I met you, I've not been
    able to eat, drink or smoke
    Girl: how sweet, so you are madly in love with
    me
    Boy: shut up, you made my pocket empty.
    24. You have 8 shirts, 7 are adieu mama/papa.
    So if person no die you no go get cloth abi...
    Mtcheeeeeew.
    25. Nose ring, naval ring, finger ring, leg chain,
    hand chain, neck chain. Now the bank door
    refuse to open for you....... Abeg move lemme
    pass.
    26. Real men don't play temple run. Like me now
    I go into the zoo, slap the lion and start running.
    27. I have been crying since yesterday when a
    slay queen I like posted that her favorite fruit is
    YAM.
    28. I knew economy state was getting worse
    yesterday when I saw a guy pricing NEPA bill. He
    was like “abeg bros how much is low current".
    29. A teacher will say write an essay about the
    day you will never forget only to give you 13/50
    as if she was there.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks for sharingπŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’›πŸ’›

      Delete
  4. Wishing Mrs Akere Kaystar and her family a wonderful July, God bless Stella, chop kisses

    ReplyDelete
  5. Good Day Stella thanks for posting! Thanks for correcting me it was near rape ordeal!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Ruga = Jihad!!!

      Delete
    2. It's well. God might be merciful but not asleep.

      Delete
    3. Omg it was your story. Thank God for you. They have spoilt the name of God and hhouse of God. They made people to see God as a partial God.

      Delete
    4. Thank God for you Nkiru. And thank God your story ended in praise

      Delete
    5. I used Holandia yogurt the blue pack for my baby,don’t buy the small packs , but the big packs it’s thicker and it holds them all tru the 9t. Good luck πŸ€

      Delete
    6. Nkiru wow, I just love your personality. Thanks for sharing.

      Delete
    7. Thanks Anon! I appreciate 😘

      Delete
  6. Thank God for u Nkiru. That man could have had his way and your mum would have not known what was going on because she would think you are being ‘prayed for’ by the ‘man of God’...
    Great how u guys dealt with him but that experience should not have happened. For that I trully am sorry. May God keep all young girls safe!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks so much for your comment Bini. I appreciate you 😘

      Delete
    2. Is it BV Nkiru Iwuchukwu?

      Delete
  7. Gave birth at 13 was all I saw, what!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Choice, as in..my mouth is still hanging open

      Delete
  8. Replies
    1. Please all those that sent in mails for the school fees giveaway should check their mails and get back to me immediately. I want to conclude everything before the end of the day. Thanks

      Delete
  9. Oh Lawd of this generation. Come to my aid. My 3 year old is now singing this yen yen yen song that is threading on IG.
    🎀🎀🎀🎀 Yen yen yen yen yen. I want to bathe.

    ReplyDelete
  10. OMG!!! The 12years old girl that was married off to her rapist just to cover up her family shame. Your family failed you (I would have insulted them) he kept raping you for years and your family supported him.
    Where is their conscience?
    I am boiling inside just reading this. I pray God in His grace, mercy and favour continue to be with you and your kids and open doors of suceess and prosperity for you. Hugs

    Ọh dear Nkiru, that useless pastor sexually abused you even without using his member, he sexually abused you by touching your breast and getting his finger into your honeypot. He will continue to be useless. Your mother also failed you by not believing you and your sister, she endangered you and your sister's lives. Thank God for granting you both the wisdom and smartness to disgrace him.
    Your life is a testimony hugs

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes Mrs A my life is a testimony ooo! Love your comments! Thanks so much 😘

      Delete
  11. The issue of rape is such a sensitive one... a major cause of PTSD of a rape victim is self blame... why didn't I scream louder? why didn't I fight enough? Why didn't I report to the police immediately? Why didn't I gather more evidence? Was it my fault...… All of the questions you are asking them, they've already asked themselves --- over and over again. To everyone out there... who may have experienced this type of trauma..... Jesus loves you.

    ReplyDelete
  12. Gave birth at 13.....And your parents gave you out
    OMG...... Parents should do better now

    Nk thanks for sharing your experience
    Stellz, she was almost raped under her moms roof

    Omotara, God bless the work of your hands
    My female cousin also learnt shoe designs

    ReplyDelete
  13. Oh Nkiru
    Oh poster who married as a twelve year old, The Lord is your strength. So so sorry about your ordeals.

    ReplyDelete
  14. To all who were victims of rape or molestation, I pray God continues to make you strong and better versions of yourselves.
    Thank you so much Stella for the advertπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
    You're the best ❤
    Who can guess what I'm advertising??

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Let it out already πŸ€ͺ

      Delete
    2. Shuga girl, I know you were the one who advertised for 'cute tops' there. Just try and broaden your collection with time so that we can make choices. That one is fine BTW

      Delete
    3. 😝@slutty chic
      Pumpkin, thanks
      I will definitely, with time

      Delete
  15. In house news making sense since 1900.

    ReplyDelete
  16. Enter your comment...please, Chikito and other bvs I am in dire need of your advice. I am a recent graduate of English and to improve my CV, I am planning on taking professional HR exams and Advertising exams. Is it advisable? As they are quite expensive. Also, do you know of any reputable institutes I can go to them for. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  17. Enter your comment...please, Chikito and other bvs I am in dire need of your advice. I am a recent graduate of English and to improve my CV, I am planning on taking professional HR exams and Advertising exams. Is it advisable? As they are quite expensive. Also, do you know of any reputable institutes I can go to them for. Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
  18. Sign out meme.... On point πŸ‘

    ReplyDelete
  19. Nawa for some mothers....your 2 daughters tell you what happened and you say they're accusing a man of God? This means this man could've succeeded in raping the 2 of you right under your mom's nose and she would defend him....chaiii

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks so much for your comment! That time I didn't even understand my mom!

      Delete
  20. Good day bv's.to the lady that has her first child at age 13 my heart goes for you.I hope you doing great at the moment.The lady with pastor touching ur vjay with anointing oil glad nothing more than that happened.and to all those selling its a new month and its time ror harvest.

    ReplyDelete
  21. That's how one stupid pastor almost raped me at 17,he was the assistant pastor of the church..Wanted to deliver me from spiritual husband according to him, told me to go down on my knees and close my eyes shut,that I shouldn't open them no matter what, that if I do the already cashed spirit will return with full force.. Prayers started my eyes were closed the next thing I felt his hands on my breast, I started feeling uncomfortable ,I removed his hands, he will bring them back again I kept quiet, only for him to bring out his penis and started rubbing it on my face, then I started panicking, the devil in me told me to bit him, I hesitated a little bit, but he continued and he asked me to put it inside my mouth then I listened to the devil inside me, I almost bit off the head of his useless penis, see blood everywhere, I ran home took my bath, told my brothers,they almost burnt down the church.. The pastor came to my house and started rolling on the floor begging my father, the other pastor stayed in the hospital for almost one month.. Before that day my sisters will always tell me to bite any man's penis that's trying to rape me..

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Wow!
      You were so brave!
      You did well!
      πŸ€—πŸ‘

      Delete
    2. Good bite. Abeg hope you used mouth disinfectant to wash you mouth?
      Tomorrow when im see skirt and blouse akwukwu convulsion go catch am
      😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

      Delete
    3. There is one special bread in Enugu that they call "happy bite"
      I like happy bites 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

      Delete
    4. Hahahahahaha. You did well!!

      Delete
  22. Please does anyone know I can preserve aloe Vera gel from the stalk?
    I just received a large bundle of aloe Vera and I'm not able to replant.
    How can I remove and preserve the gell please?

    Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. When you slice it open and scrape out the gel, make sure no green particle follows it. Then refrigerate. Expect plenty wastage if you don't know how to scrape it.
      You can also slice it all up, dry it and grind to powder, it will still be aloe vera just not in gel form.

      Delete
    2. Wow, Shakara thank you so much.
      Is it okay I I preserve in plastic?
      Or must it be glass?

      Delete
  23. Too much rape incidents. I could not bring myself to read all the stories because I don't know how am feeling.

    May God heal all who had passed through this wicked acts Amen.

    Happy birthday girl. The showers today turned to blessings for you Amen.

    Too many pains. We are all passing through it. May God come to our rescue Amen.

    Happy sales to all sellers

    ReplyDelete
  24. Hmmmmm! It's as if everyone had gone through or near this rape incident. God help your children.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. That’s very correct. I escaped it 3 times.

      Delete
  25. Good afternoon beautiful people of SDK

    ReplyDelete
  26. omG, you mean you gave birth at that tender stage, hope you are doing well now.

    ReplyDelete
  27. Good afternoon everyone...
    The lady married off to her rapee....chai,it is well o
    Nice footwears...


    Grateful for the gift of life.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Good day brothers and sisters. Please does anyone know if it's recommendable to apply cocunut oil to the face at night? I need to know if it's touted efficacy with smooth and flawless facial texture, is a farce or a reality? Thanks umunnem for your kind responses. Daalukwa nu.

      Delete
  28. This year would have been 5yrs anniversary but am here in d rain, going in& out of court premises all for ex-hubby to pay children support. I don’t feel happy right now, I just remembered pains I went thru in that marriage. I ran for my life& never looked back. He would beat me, lock me up in d house which I fought against but it led to more beatings. Reported me to relatives, almost reduced me to nothing but God prevailed.
    At present, I can’t buy new clothes, nothing for myself as all my little savings are channeled into d children’s care. Lord knows I never wish anyone goes thru what I am facing. Even if God is silent now, I believe He is with me. I sincerely pray for single ladies out there not to marry their enemies

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Sorry darling. God got your back.
      Stay blessed!

      Delete
    2. Be strong.
      It's always darkest before dawn.

      Delete
  29. Happy birthday beautiful juliet😍😍

    ReplyDelete
  30. #Say no to rape.

    #Parents need to be vigilant.


    #stop entrusting your kids in the hands of these clerics. they rape more

    ReplyDelete
  31. Happy birthday Juliet. you are naturally beautiful

    ReplyDelete
  32. Thanks stella for that "SLAP" you mentioned there in that "rape story".
    I took time to read most of the rape stories yesterday and I did not
    see "SLAP OR SHOUT" The only person I may not slap is the one with a gun
    or knife.
    I am telling you that "slap or a knee kick in the groin" has a way of
    driving away lust for the moment.
    The slap was what I did quite early in my own case like I wrote yesterday
    and added a heart-rending scream to it.
    The brat confuse no be small. I was told that nobody has ever challenged him
    in that company.
    Ladies, slap, shout, kick, bite... yes do it and watch the rapist recoil like
    a snail into its shell.
    Ndi anuofia rapists.😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. See, sometimes fear for your life kicks in, what if u slap kick n he overpowers u n strangles you to death? Or disfigure u with blows? Some of them are demons...eg how can a 12yo slap n kick a full grown uncle?

      Delete
    2. I used to beat my chest and say that I can never be raped cos I will bite, fight, kick ,maim etc till when it happened to me.

      First of all, nobody could have heard my shout cos he played music to the loudest, also neighbors dreaded him cos he was a cultist( later found out) , police dismissed the case afterwards (he was that notorious).

      I cried, pleaded fought and when he held my two hands with one hand all the while pinned on the bed with my legs spread, I knew there was no way he wasn't having his way at that point.

      Prior to this time, I never thought it's possible to hold ones both hands with a palm while removing my jeans with his free hand.

      This happened 15yrs ago and I can still remember ever detail.

      My dear just pray not to jam wetin pass you, it's not by making mouth.

      Delete
  33. Stella God will Reward you, Thank you

    ReplyDelete
  34. Good day bvs.. Please i need help in getting placement in any teaching hospital for internship.. Thank you

    ReplyDelete
  35. Stella e be like say you know sabi wetin rape be...I hear say dem say even if the two parties involved don kiss,finger,suck Toto but finally when e reach for the man to put im penis for the toto & the girl say no,say she no want that one again ,but the man come talk say by force o I must do am,or e begin try persuade the babe & e take style style put im penis for the Toto na that one be rape o.

    ReplyDelete
  36. Replies
    1. Your appreciation is full of pride,learn how to formally appropriate,

      Delete
  37. Blog visitor with HND and work experience in the banking industry, I think that you should change career field right now. Especially if you want to thrive in a developed country's labour market. It is not too late to enter nursing. Please take this advice seriously. As PhD is 4 years, so is a nursing degree and I think you can work as an assistant while you are a student.
    Think properly before you invest in any business in Nigeria. Think very very carefully and consider all the cons. Watch Dave Ramsey's videos on YouTube. Especially the ones he's giving advice about career choices. What I am saying about switching careers will make more sense to you afterwards. Get on nairaland and online. Read the accounts of like 10 different people who planned their relocation and relocated successfully. It will give you a bit more confidence.
    Your masters in social work is useful there too, but the wage may be just above subsistence level.

    ReplyDelete
  38. @15:28 There are times certain things happen to you that you are taken aback. You become so speechless, confused and disappointed in the other person. I don't blame then as people respond differently. I only pray for everyone to have enough strength and courage to defend themselves at the appropriate time and not to be overwhelmed with the shock.

    ReplyDelete
  39. Poster seeking career advice, I must confess, I'm very impressed by your drive, I'm not in your field neither am I seeking to relocate abroad so I will defer to more qualified opinions but I hope someone else particularly young professional women pick a thing or two. πŸ‘πŸΎ
    Blessing, if I were you, I would start by going to ahia ohuru on Monday morning to select the OK first, from there you start learning the business. Bale is a very risky business because rags abound. Sometimes, it's better go meet people that already know the trade well to open the bales for you to select. You get to see what you are picking , select the ones you like best in the appropriate sizes for your target market. That way you can also mix your goods cos you can get them to open different bales for you, like skirts, top, gowns etc. hope you know it's grade by grade, even country by country lol, cos you will be hearing London bale and Korean bale etc. That's actually the best way to start OK business to avoid tears of anger. It's a little more expensive but going to carry what you don't know in the name of bale so you can make plenty profit is penny wise , pound foolish by the time you open it and half of what is inside is yobris. And when you get there don't be dull if not them go put you for inside that bag tie am well and sell you back to yourself , you no go know.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks dear. I will apply your advice 100%

      Delete
  40. Again, for the BV who wants to quit her job/relocate.
    1. You want to quit your job to feel fresh air. If you can save 500k per year from the job, don't quit. This is the time to scrape anything you can get.
    2. You don't know the countries to move to: From Norway to Canada and New Zealand, they have shortage of skills in healthcare and vocations like electrician, truck driving or construction equipment operation, etc. If you spend 1 year or so learning a skill plus the language, you have a better chance in a non English speaking country. It is even good as your husband is in on the plan. Forget about the PhD. Even me I am considering PhD but still looking at it with one eye, if not that I am in a field with an above average demand. But I really don't mind throwing everything away to become nurse Eliza there. If you are comfortable enough to, inbox me let's rub minds.

    ReplyDelete
  41. Please I need help... .Stella there was an advert on Children birthday packs ..(IE gifts for children birthday). .Please I need that service ,how can I get across to the person ...Please, it's urgent

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. BV Olawealth does that. Stella or blog PA should have his contact.

      Delete

Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of StellaDimokoKorkus.com

Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact Stelladimokokorkus.com and corrections will be made..

If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact StellaDimokoKorkus.com Via

Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com
Mobile Phone +4915210724141