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Thursday, September 12, 2019

THURSDAY IHN

Una weh done oh..................

I just dey Observe!!!










THE CRUELTY OF A PARENT....



One evening I had returned from work when I met a group of people gathered together. I peeped through and saw a little boy I presumed to be less than ten years of age being held and what look like olive oil rubbed all over his body. "What happened?" I had asked a lady among the crowd.



 I was told the father flogged him terribly with a strong whip, the one you people called koboko in local parlance. His only crime was that, he ate the food kept for his father. Obviously, he was hungry and decided to eat some portion of his father's meal.

Yes, it was an act so disrespectful but what father would have done that to his child because of meal? The bruises left a sore sight to people around, that neighbors had to bring in the police. You can't believe, the same little boy messed up by the father was actually the one crying and begging for his father not to be arrested when the police arrived.

I have seen a woman naked her daughter and rubbed pepper all over her body simply because someone reported that her daughter was spotted with a guy discussing. Was that the best thing she could have done? What happened to sitting her down, educate her on sexual matters and the opposite sex? Will her action teach her about the consequences of early pregnancy?

Sometimes, seeing the kind of punishment some parents melt out to their kids, you will be tempted to know if truly they are actually the biological parents of such children. There are families as soon as the father arrives home, the children all live the sitting room to join their mother at the other room. These set of kids now live in fear of their father's harsh treatment and attitude towards them.

What about the inhumane treatment of starving a child for their stubbornness or mistakes? Or sending children to hawk on the streets during school hours and most times, they ended up under the rain or being abused sexually by miscreant. Any child you starve, you harden the heart of that child unto hatred towards you. Believe me when I say that, for there are better ways to correct a child behavior that's bad but not to the extreme.

Finally, it's an act so cruel to place a curse on a child no matter what the child could have done. Sometimes you don't live to lift off those curses and this child becomes miserable growing up in life. We have such cases in the society today.

Child bearing is much more than just bringing children into this world. You need to do more and better to build a good family and a better home.






The Bambino dread me telling them to kneel down or pick pin,thats the only way i punish them but i cant stand the way it hurts them when i punish them...we have reached a truce..BEHAVE YOURSELVES AND MAMA WILL LOOK THE OTHER WAY....lol






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COMMENT SECTION




Sometimes I just stay quiet...Read people's comment on Gender and Patriarchy issues..Read their typed gullibility..and BLOCK. Even when they are not my friends I still BLOCK just to be on the safe side.

It's overly gross to see what Men type about serious issues pertaining Feminity and the worst of all is Women themselves and how they think of themselves with so much low Grace.

Now I am not just talking about AFRICAN WOMEN.. I was stunned to hear and see what Majority of Indian women think of themselves.. How they are being trained to be under the Mercy of father, Brother, husband, husband brothers etc. Highly unthinkable!!!

I have met Girls who are even afraid of saying their names loudly, afraid of laughing loudly, scared of smiling too much, shy about walking too fast, They were taught these things are too much for a lady.
I have been to very rural communities here and as much as I have been to some communities in Nigeria, my south Africa and Zimbabwe coordinators have hinted me on the many ways women die daily..

Dear Learned/Learning Woman!

Your Mother's Mother's Mother's voice was too low to be heard..your mother's Mothers probably never spoke anything...Your Mother thought it wise to be Quiet because she was told her children should give her the peace she desires and not her Husband.

You have been shown the Light not so that you should remain Stupid and Unreasonably enduring of rotten Crab served in decaying pan of Patriarchy!!



You have got Mediums and various platform to keep celebrating the Rich, Noble and Resiliency coming up in form of the 21st century Woman! 


You have the Right to Speak for Your Mother!

Why choose to die daily then?

BV Ogechi  






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INVITATION TO ALL BLOG VISITORS IN ANAMBRA STATE

You are invited to our Healthy food Café opening on Sunday, September 15th Onitsha mall (Shoprite) Anambra State

We look forward to sharing our day of joy with you.




Congrats to you...So proud!!!







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RELOCATION SALES



I would like to rent out a standard shop at magodo shangisha off C.M.D road, reason is i just paid for the shop and in less than a week I received ITA for my Canada express entry process and would be disposing off a lot of things to make up for required funds. The shop rent is 200k yearly but I'll remove 2 months. It's brand new with toilet and water, also on a tarred road.


Other items for sale is my 2001 Nissan Altima silver color, Samsung Galaxy A8 plus (gold color), Haier Thermocool medium deep freezer.
The kids shoes will be going for 3500 each.
I have attached some pictures.
I also want to give out toaster, rechargeable fan, small washing machine and blender to a single mother.
I can be reached on whatsapp 08125917856.


















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Knee protector for babies and wooden photo background for product available.


If you have a baby that is crawling or learning how to walk, the knee protector is available to protect your baby from bruises , dirt and it's also anti-slip. The wooden photo background is also available along with the leaves and flamingo.
Baby Knee protector - 2k
Wooden background - 3k
Leaves and flamingo - 1k







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New Arrivals!!! New Arrivals!!!
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Quality UK Sandals,Heels,Flats,Slippers are now available for size 36-42.
They are very clean and affordable
Are you a student or working class and need additional income????
Wholesale prices at #1,500 only ...
Available for 10pairs and above.
Watsapp/call Olori on 07064356845
Nationwide delivery.






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Window Blinds And Installation

Location : Port Harcourt/ Nationwide
Call / Whatsapp/ : 07032481566
Instagram : chevaintegratedservices







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LAND FOR SALE - PORT HARCOURT


Six (6) plots of land with C of O located near Mater Misericordiae Catholic Church at Rumuomasi in Port Harcourt available for sale.
Price : N35 Million Naira / Plot (Negotiable)
Contact: 08076495641






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Beautiful First Grade Tops in different sizes
Whatsapp 08145916811 for more pictures
IG @fabglam_online_thrift_store
Location - Lagos
Delivery within Nigeria is available.





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CLASSY BAGS @GLOSSY-MART



Shop with us for different quality leather bags.

All our bags are foreign and of the best quality;plus we also provide live videos of any bags you are interested in so you can first see it before purchase...

Calls-07037317400,08116202737 or whatsapp-08116202737,Instagram- Glossymart_enterprise
Location is Lagos AND DELIVERY WITHIN LAGOS TODAY IS FREE,while we deliver nationwide at VERY AFFORDABLE prices..







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How Security Conscious are you?



Watch over your home, children and offices without stress with our spy gadgets like watches, Pen,Car Key Holder and Eye Glasses.
The Spy Wall Clock/Table Clock videos and records, you also hear conversation loud and clear on your mobile phone without anyone noticing it has camera.
Price: 28,000
We also sell and Install CCTV cameras, Finger Print Time Attendance and Inverters.
Location: Port-Harcourt ( we deliver Nation Wide)
Contact: 07064790308








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FUMIGATION/CLEANING SERVICES
AVAILABLE



Are you moving into a new house? You want your home to be sparkling clean, pest and rodent free? then look no further.


We clean your home to be as good as new. Even old houses are cleaned and made to look new. You don’t have to lift a finger, leave it for us to do. Just pack in to a fresh and clean home.
We also pack debris.
Location- Lagos but can work nationwide.
Contact- 09082493557







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Shop for Hair Products and Tools



Are you natural or transitioning to natural hair or do you have relaxed hair. We have amazing products to solve your hair problems. We also recommend products according to your needs and budget.Our products ranges from Cantu,Creme of Nature,Shea Moisture,Vo5,Sunny Isle Castor Oil,Mamiya Organics , Satin Hair Bonnets, Spray Bottles ,Eco Styler Gel,Moco de Gorrila Gel,Scalp Massagers,Detangling Brushes and many more are available. Our prices are affordable.


Check our Ig page @exclusivehairproducts
Call and WhatsApp on 09091446964 for prices and pictures
Location:Ibadan
Payment on delivery available for Ibadan bvs


Please patronize me and help my business grow,it is a new business. No scam zone,I'm legit(what you see,is what you get).Please when ordering,just indicate you are a bv.Thanks for your patronage






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In search of a room


I need a place to stay in Lagos island for just 3 months for a job. Any agent or anybody that can help me get a place at an affordable rate should reach me on; succulentdamsel@gmail.com







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Cute Little Black Shoe
Size: Kids Size 8
Price: 6,500
Instagram: Fikz_Haven
Facebook: Fikz Haven
WhatsApp: 08098224532
Call:0902 246 9992 ,0706 817 3529
Email: fikzhaven@gmail.com
Location: Lagos but can deliver anywhere.






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EARN #50000 MONTHLY.

Make #50,000 in a Month.
make money before the year runs out
Business of Ankara can make you #50,000 in a month with your outside monthly income.

Buy a bag of Dutch hollandaise Ankara @3850 each yes #3850 in a bag containing 15 pieces x 3850

Sell out to friends at work, at home, in churches and schools.. And see yourself smile at the end of the month..

Reinvest you profit and you are on your way to riches..

Call/whatsapp 07037210981
Email olawealthq@gmail.com
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Shop Address; HB 67, KAURA MODERN MARKET, OPP PRINCE AND PRINCESS ESTATE, GUDU, ABUJA






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Hello BVs it's your market woman again #DafricanStore. We have well cleaned out Crayfish,Bongafish fillets, Oporo(prawns), gutted cleaned out Catfish and more to offer you.
Please place your order now,call this number:
08188376168, IG: dafrianstore.






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A Room in a Flat for a Serving Corps Member in Ibadan



I have a room in a flat for a serving corps member in Ibadan, the house is located around eleyele area and it’s going for just 60k. I can be reached on 07068585396(whatsapp only)







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I do wholesale and retail .Thank you ma.Here is pictures of my shop and goods. My instagram handle:@redruby cosmetics
Wats app no :08068149192
Shop no: shop 2 idemilli plaza, Abia gate,trade fair. Lagos







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JOB OPENING


There is a Job opening in Benin City for someone with a
background in Accounting/Business Administration or relatively good
with numbers. Female.

 She MUST also possess good computer skills and
should be presentable. All mails should be forwarded to
osasere1994@gmail.com






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72 comments:

  1. Suicide is not an option.
    There may be a MILLION reasons to let go. But just remember there's at least ONE reason to hold on. You’re on His mind and He sees your faithfulness. Don’t lose hope. BREAKTHROUGH is around the corner!

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  2. Who else ate chin chin after in house picture. I am still eating it.

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  3. Good afternoon my beloved Naija girls😊😊😊
    Live in peace with each other and may God's peace abide with you all.
    May God bless all the arrow shooters

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    1. ANG for life!
      I like you jare.
      Your haters plenty sha, have u been to SP this morning?

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    2. @14:30
      SP is one post I do not meet up with because of my daily morning routines.
      Being hated does not bother me one bit. Rather, I rejoice in their hatred.😊😊😊😊 Read what my master said:

      John 15:18 17This is My command to you: Love one another. 18If the world hates you, understand that it hated Me first. 19If you were of the world, it would love you as its own. Instead, the world hates you, because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.…

      Luke 6: 22Blessed are you when people hate you,

      when they exclude you and insult you

      and reject your name as evil,

      because of the Son of Man.

      23“Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their ancestors treated the prophets.

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    3. Only you go comment, only you go reply, nawah!!!

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    4. @16:39
      Fine another line of attack.
      Why not say that ANG is also 16:39

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    1. Ese please learn to ignore ok.

      Severally I've seen some ill-mannered comments directed at me by this particular bv but i choose to ignore her cus silence is golden.

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    2. Two low life gutter rats! Esedog you'll soon die with the way you're going o hian 😆

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  5. A BV commented on a chronicle that the poster should watch a film called ‘agbokolori’
    I decided to watch the movie today on YouTube mehn....lots of lessons to be learnt. I recommend the movie for all young ladies and newly weds. Oh please watch it and learn

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  6. Congrats on your ITA, I have a cuz who had 497p...but no ITA, I dunno why.

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  7. Nice shoes up there @ the relocation sales poster

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  8. e get this palace way dey bursts my logo



    #GOAT™

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    1. YLE gave u pills, take them you say no.

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  9. Stella post my comment please! I will never curse people out cos they have a different opinion from mine

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  10. I just viewed a video of a woman alledged to be a girlfriend of Ex Gov Okorocha being mobbed by full grown men. She was beaten and stripped naked by these idiots who call themselves men. These same bastards will turn around and call Nigeria a zoo while they are pure bred wild animals! If indeed this happened, those involved and their hailers will live a very painful life. I wont pray for a painful death, but the life they will live will be worse than death.

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  11. Please, I'm trying to register for my registry wedding online and I was required to upload spinsterhood and bachelorhood certificate.
    I went to the local govt in my area and they are giving me an amount that seems like they want to extort me. Pls as urgent as possible, can anyone tell me how much it costs?

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    1. I know someone getting married..Ikoyi registry is around 70k - 90K sha..Go and make enquiries there

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    2. Lol. Thank you for telling me. I ll pay 20 pounds here. Ndi ara. Everything n.a. opportunity

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  12. lovely things up there na money kill am.

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    1. Pls do you know where I can get first grade gowns in Ibadan

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    2. Youre in the brown roof republic?

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    3. @anno 16:31,check dubge market but shine your eyes because they might make you buy,what you don't want to buy.They can be tricky like that.

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    4. @ope thanks a lot

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  14. May the day be good to us,amen.

    Menstrual pain got me right now.

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  15. If you have not read what Caesar wrote today go back and read it. Forget the bad mouth and take your time to read. God bless you Caesar. You dont know how you motivated me today. Castle Windsor I dey jealous you. This your boyfriend na big asset.

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    1. I didnt see that Caesars post on time, so i didnt respond to it... so he just slept and woke up then assumed there are nigerians that love suffering & toiling in a country that kills everything living, really? You think half the people in this shit hole wouldnt leave if they have the chance? Have u been to the embassies to see the queue or the requirments? Most ppl dont meet the criteria... even after spending so mch & selling off properties to secure a future abroad, you still get turned down, and caesar is advicing u sell ur landed property and relocate, if only it was that easy, who likes suffer? You the caesar why are u still in this country ranting every morning? You have a good job abi? You know how the system works, why are u still here? Oga if ure unhappy as u say... Canada or Sweden cant cure the unhappiness in you, dont come twisted any fragile mind here, we all have eyes to see the country is going down in flames, your talks wouldnt open our already open eyes, it'd only motivate those that can be easily influenced and have nothin going on for them here, isnt it the foreigners that come here to invest in Nigeria? Dont we see people making it here and vacating abroad? Dont throw out the baby with the bath water caesar... ure clearly a prima donna, very very hard to please individual, you want evrythg to be perfect, i know ur type.... yes Nigeria is not good, why not say the good & the bad and the sides uve clearly benefitted from....

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  16. my people help me ooo how do i loose weight as a nursing mother without it affecting my baby..am adding too much weight. i need tips pls

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    1. Cut down or the portion of food you eat, replace unhealthy foods with healthy foods and exercise. E.g eat beans,fibre, eggs, fruits, veggies, replace poundo with eba etc.

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    2. Eat responsibly. Fruits, plenty veggies and protein. Not the one you'll unlock your inner glutton in the name of eating for two eating all sorts of carbohydrates and junk filled fried foods

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  17. Please what is another word for " follow up".
    I need it in the context of " i will follow up"

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    1. To chase up.
      Eg: You might need to chase it up. You can chase up a reference by calling the referee to remind him to get it done.
      Does this help? English no easy oo lolzz

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    2. Please who knows where i can take IELTS test in Ibadan.

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    3. Register online with Nigeria British council, choose Ibadan as the city of choice. They usually use mauve center for Ibadan.

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    4. Thanks and God bless you Kay.

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  18. I really can't fathom why a mother, father or both will be cruel to his/her child or children. Why abuse them and wipe out that innocence? You know what pains me; when one parent let's say the mother decides to beat the child and the father supports or vice versa.
    This also reminds me of the Instagram post about that beautiful young baby girl that was flogged to death because the parents accused her of being 'a witch'!!! My friend and I cannot understand till date what kind of mentality this is? That story broke me really, that baby girl was tired, really tired and her eyes were so sad.

    I believe many parents who abuse their child/children are unhappy, unloved, frustrated (financially or other reasons), and they were also Abused as a child.

    Please, if you know that you have not overcome your childhood trauma or abuse, do not birth an innocent child into this world because there's a high chance you will transfer whatever trauma that bothered you to that child. Seek therapy to battle that trauma before birthing any child.
    Children are so innocent and playful, it really pains me to see any news about child abuse especially from the parent who is supposed to Love and Care for them. Some parents do not know the line between Discipline and Child Abuse. Discipline breeds Respect, Abuse breeds Fear!

    If I ever witness anyone abusing their child, I will call the police; this is not about drinking water to mind business, it's about maintaining innocence and Saving a precious Life!

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  19. Good sales to all the bussiness men and women.... Beautiful items up there

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  20. My favourite IHN...Any parent that curse you has already curse himself or herself..Some parents are just wicked and narcissist in nature...

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  21. Stella warn Olori orente to stop selling shoes that have expired. That will open when you wear them or already peeling off when she sends them. Stop enabling scam because she is your favorite bv

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  22. Concerning wigs...yesterday I saw the call out of a wig seller. You see, while those sellers can be deceptive it is also good to know that as ladies we should save up money to buy at least one good hair. If you can save 30k, You will get a good human hair wig that will last you. I bought wig from this 15k wig sellers on Instagram and I still regret it. They will say it is 'Human hair' but in reality it is the lowest of synthetic hair. What I have learned is to save up money to buy one good wig for 30 or 35k than to buy two 15k or 16k wig. Also, I will rather go to Eko or Trade fair market to buy my wigs Or hair. I have learned my lessons.

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    1. Women with low self esteem, is it a must women wears wig, I can excuse those undergoing chemotherapy, what’s wrong with women not rocking their natural hair

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    2. You think it's everyone that wants to go through the wahala of keeping and nurturing natural hair? It's what makes them happy, do you and let others do them.

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    3. Is it your low self esteem./...?

      Is your balderdash Low self Esteem missing????
      Who the freak are you that, they should excuse you???

      Live and Let people Live....

      Is your hair abi head missing????

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    4. Anon dat thing can pain fa.
      You wii just recieve one portion of atilogwu costume in fancy 'lylon'.
      You by yourself will still pay delivery for goat hair.
      If you want goat hair, buy goat hair, shave it. You will still have meat boku sef.

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    5. So every body must rock natural hair? Do you know what winter does to African hair due to the texture? Please shut up abeg.

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  23. I read comments on yesterday's IHN about the wig seller and I just felt bad for the buyer. It's really annoying to order for one thing and get something completely different. The first time she advertised I bought 2 wigs from her and they were perfect. I ordered for 2 weavons and 4 wigs at once(cos my sisters saw mine and were impressed)this second set arrived on Tuesday this week. Everything was ok, except one wig and I called her immediately and she apologised and promised to send me another one, all on her. I am not the wig seller and I don't know wat happened but I know she is not a bad person. Buyer am sorry for wat happened.

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  24. My people pls help me
    I read about Rwanda on SP this morning.
    How much is the 'transport fare' to the place? How much is house rent there? One room o.
    Do I need a visa to go there?
    Pls help with answers, I am tired of Nigeria. I now have sleepless nights

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  25. You are looking for somewhere to stay and your email address is succulent damsel. ok na...

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    1. lol i had to scroll back up to check. hahahaha

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  26. Sister selling off things cos of ITA, isn't that too early. Try to find other means to raise the required funds. Getting ITA is not a guarantee of getting PPR. Moreover, after AOR, PPR could take 6 months or longer. All the best.

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    1. I agree with your comment. These days PPR ,is taking almost 6months and more. I know someone who was given ITA, since March, and till date no word from Canada. The truth is some people get it within shorter time, but just play the devils advocate. Give yourself sometime based on the analysis, before selling.

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  27. Hello beautiful people. Sunny afternoon
    Enjoy the rest of your day

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  28. About this beating of Children, a friend of mine was so beaten by his dad while he was young and it's still affecting him till today. According to him, his dad beats him at the slightest opportunity. His dad is late now but any time he speaks of his dad, it's always about the beatings he received from him. At a time, I was even forced to ask him if he has any fond memories of his dad at all and he told me no. All he can remember is how his dad beats him. I've told him to seek help by speaking to a counselor but he refused and told me he's doing fine. Because of all the beatings he received from his dad, he said he can never beat his own child. I don't know what I can do to help him. Any idea??

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    1. Therapy

      YouTube videos about dealing with physically abusive parents help too

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  29. Please how do I ask my boyfriend for money. Please who can teach me I hardly ask help from my own parents I manage my life with the little I have am so tired of not knowing how to ask for help

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  30. Enter your comment...Concerning that wig seller,i totally regret buying wigs from her.50k would have gotten me one 'good'hair than the rubbish 3 wigs I got from her.issokay tho,you learn everyday

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  31. Good afternoon house, thank God for the sun today

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  32. Thank you very much for the advert,Aunty Stella
    Customers fall on the sellers
    Our hustle must pay (buyers and sellers)

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