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Wednesday, September 18, 2019

UK Based Actress Victoria Inyama Give Tips On How To Spot An Emotional Abuser..

UK Based actress and Pyschologist Victoria Inyama posted tips on how to spot when someone is emotionally abusing you.....









Emotional Abuse.............

* Always putting d partner/spouse Down ....

* Frequent Angry Outbursts 

* Often criticising d way U look or dress. 

* They refuse to leave your personal space, always checking and monitoring 

* They always want to control the people you know and communicate with...

* Using gaslighting tactics to manipulate U into doubting your experiences....

* They always want to speak for and over you....

* They always show physical aggression even if it’s not directed at U, just so that you’re always fearful of them.....

* They consistently pressure U into having s#x 

* They always withhold emotional intimacy and affection << There’s always a strong desire to leave or get away from a situation while simultaneously feeling frozen and unable to do anything constructive, resulting in a downward spiral of numbness, complacency and Fear especially where there’s a Marriage, live in lover or financially dependent on d abusive Partner ... Try and talk to a trusted person... Only U can decide what course of action to take......
I pray we all make d right decisionπŸ™πŸ½
#release#relive#restore#revive#living#loving#learning#laughingπŸ’œπŸ₯°πŸ₯°

35 comments:

  1. Exactly my babies daddy.........features and i have left ......the idiot wouldn’t let me be......but masturbation will be his portion.....because in next 2yrs he is not gona see even the hair of my pussy......

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    1. Enter your reply...Looooool πŸ˜‚

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    2. Yimu... except hes not serious, he will see it over and over again

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    3. So after 2yrs you'd resume giving him abi? So whats the break for?

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    4. You sound so pained you left. Leave in peace and never return to any abuser. They don't change!

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    5. 2 years too small, why not make it forever?

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    6. They cannot change until they know something is wrong with them

      Fat Chance of them realising that

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  2. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship before I met my husband. Infact I suspect the guy of having mental problem. He was always angry,no week passed that we won't argue. If he annoys me and I don't quickly answer his chat or call he will block me. If I go out, he will say which man did I go and fuxk,jokingly but it's not funny to me. I am usually an easy going person,this guy brought out the worst in me that i started having low self esteem. He will purposely put up another girls pic on his DP just to spite me. When I knew he was sick and left him for my sanity was once he asked me for nudes cos he was away and I said No,i don't do such. The relationship was already shaky and I didn't want to be blackmailed with it sometime in the future. He flared up at that and blocked me. Later he unblocked me and sent a nude another girl sent him to spite me. After that I knew I was done. I blocked him all round,he begged tire. Even said he will kill himself,threatening me with suicide. I told him to go ahead. I don't care.
    The guy I met after him who I eventually married is so different. Very calm,we hardly argue. Infact he jokes that I bully him.

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    1. You are even lucky. What of a lady l know. Whenever she comes back from an outing, hubby will ask to check her panties because'she don go fuck"outside. When she left him, he could not believe it.

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    1. The signs are always there..Pay attention to the subtle ones!!

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  4. I worked out of my relationship last week because of all these traits. The peace I have experienced in the last one week is beyond my imagination. #saynotoabusiverelationship#

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  5. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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  6. All I can see is 'd' in place of 'the'.

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  7. Stella this woman's last movie was in the 90s and we are almost in 2020. That was almost 30years ago.
    She is not relevant at all.

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    1. Keep quiet there, at least we know her, who are you again?

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    2. So??? So because she hasn't done a movie in the last 30 years means she can't make a post about something that will beneficial to people? Some of you people sef. Mind you she's a certified psychologist so it's not like she hasn't been doing anything. Whatever will help someone else is relevant. People are reading and learning.

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    3. LMAO, why do you people dislike this woman, even on a positive post there are still negative comments!

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  8. Mine would accuse me Always, we fight over little things, he expects me to praise him always, Blames me for all the fights I had to send nudes to him after much emotional blackmail once he’s angry I get insulted. I lost myself pleasing him, he calls more then 20 times a day, I left social media cos he asked me to. I lost my self esteem and confidence. Any of my clothes are ugly except the ones he buys, he always turn the tables around during arguments and i end up begging, I later got fed up, started doing the things I liked, went back to social media, then I was tagged rude and non submissive by him, friends and family, I summoned courage and left till date he’s still begging but am out,

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    1. What did I say? They can beeeeg πŸ˜‚ If you fall for it you're done

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  9. this girl is one of the only people i know that had the most beautiful face and most shapeless body

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    1. Let's see your own body + face
      Mschew

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  10. Madam Iyamu check your tenses i beg

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  11. exactly what my hubby does . I know better and I try not to allow him get to me.this thing called marriage ehn

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  12. My husband is really displaying his own emotional abusive skills these days and I am ready to leave . I can't comman die abeg.

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  13. Lived with one for a year and it was like a million years to me...my family had to come rescue me.
    Marriage ain't all that biko...find yourself first.

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