S#X AND FEELINGS.
A man can have s#x with a lady and still don't have any feelings for her, men only need space to have s#x but women need reason to have s#x.
A woman cannot have s#x without feelings except s#x workes. A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have s#x with a female friend and yet, not love her.
S#x makes men act as if they are in love while they are not. The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for s#x and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love.
S#x is not an act of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from s#x dies in minutes. It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for s#x would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.
S#x drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for s#x. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life.
You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?
This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.
Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into s#x. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.
The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become s#x symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into???
The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love.
S#x is not an act of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from s#x dies in minutes. It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for s#x would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.
S#x drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for s#x. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life.
You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?
This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.
Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into s#x. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.
The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become s#x symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into???
Very true!
ReplyDeleteDayo Amusa is so on point.
Is she just knowing? Only people I pity are those girls fighting over and juggling one man that is deceiving them all. One travels all the way to Lagos from ibadan so she feels she has won. Next weekend the guy will post another girl on his Snapchat. It's just a circus and I am glad I am not part of it. A grown man will be tossing girls up and dan thinking he's style in university or secondary school. Msxhewww. No time for games o
ReplyDeleteIts a game of Pussycation...
DeleteTrue though...
ReplyDeleteShe should write copied
ReplyDeleteIs that your own problem? Drink cold water my friend
DeleteWhere ANG!! Wetin you get for Naija girls?.?
ReplyDeleteOdodo oro 👍👍👍
ReplyDeleteIn as much as this made sense to some point,not all men have sex without feelings or love.....I can categorically say that for myself I have never had sex with a woman I dont love or have feelings for.... I can't just do it,that's why I don't do friends with benefit even though I have been offered and see an avenue for it I can't just do it because I have to love you before I can....no wonder I have just had sex with 4 ladies in my 32 years
ReplyDeleteLearner.. I'm 28 and I've lost count..
Delete."no wonder I have just had sex with 4 ladies in my 32 years" You make it sound like an achievement.
DeleteJust curious- did you LOVE all four of them?
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Delete13:31 congratulations your achievement. Sex is a natural instinct just like when you birth baby you don't teach them how to suckle, they just know how to. 35 no sex and yes I loved my ex. But there is time for everything under the sun. Nothing special in immorality.
DeleteWhy did you go Anonymous before? 🙄
DeleteBigbanty why did you go under anon before nah
Delete14.21 well said. Respect 🙌
DeleteShe is wrong. A woman can have sex with a man and not have feelings for him, for her the sex is just for fun, she might even stop taking the guy’s call after having sex with him. And no, that doesn’t make her a prostitute. This her ideology is a myth created by men hundreds of years ago to make women feel that if they act a certain way, they are labeled prostitutes. It goes both ways, a man can have sex with a girl and falls deeply in love with her even after the sex. The thing is that for both men and women, any gender can use sex for fun as well as for commitment. It depends on the individual, it Is not a gender thing.
ReplyDeleteYeah... I totally agree with you on this
DeleteExactly I have sex when I'm bored sometimes not because of love...
DeleteAre prostitutes not women? Slave mentality, men has caged their brain in a way that when you catch your husband cheating, he will tell you he only loves you that it did't mean anything, you will foolishly forgive him, and yet the side chicks are winning most of the time. But when a woman cheat, the same man won't believe it meant nothing because they have put that mentality in you that women cheat with emotions. Big lie. Every gender can cheat with emotions, also every gender can also cheat as fun.
DeleteAnon 12:50.....wa gbayi!!!!
DeleteSometimes I have sex if am too stressed or tensed, I don't really love most of my sexual partners
DeleteAnon 12:50 i totally agree with you.
DeleteInteresting!
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
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ReplyDeleteLol,lies,women too have sex for fun,stop letting what patriarchy told you become your truth,it works both ways sis
ReplyDelete@anon 13:56, loud it!!!! This is patriarchy indoctrination and nothing more. Men and women do have have sex for fun without feelings, period!
DeleteWomen have sex for fun also. I can find a man sexually attractive and not love him. With such men, once I have sex with them, I stay completely away from them because I have gotten what I want:to get laid.
ReplyDeleteBut most men are are so cheap they keep disturbing anything in skirt. Even if a lizard should wear skirt, dem go toast am.Most Men don't even have standards. You will see a Ph.D holder toasting an illiterate. If they eventually get married how would such a marriage work?