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Thursday, October 10, 2019

Cheating On Your Partner Is A Choice

Most Women say that ALL men cheat but BBNaija star Mike Olayemi has shown that a man can tame his deek......

A man can decide to stay Faithful one partner.....

Some say he controlled himself in front of the cameras because he knows everyone was watching but i say what about the one that could not control himself even when he know everyone was watching? #NotAllMenCheat









98 comments:

  1. Well.....this one he has decided to relocate to lagos i pray they dont give him the lagos water drink

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    1. Exactly my dear..He should watch the kind of men he rapports with...Naija arean men are something else..

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    2. Why should he cheat????? Some that got married 1mth b4 bbn

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    3. Gbam gbam gbam

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    4. Lily simple haven't you seen guys inviting their girlfriends to their weddings? Mike is a disciplined man, yes, but i put it to you that he would cheat when the curtains are down and unfortunately he is back in Nigeria, naija girls will cast him, big time.
      Is it not this kanyamata island girls, he go hear am. They will break his guard and he would enjoy it, then they drown him. I pray he never regrets his decision to stay back. Na here we go still read am.

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    5. Some men cheat on their wedding night. So what are some of you on about?
      #ManlikeMike#

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    6. This Mike is the real cheater leave that three months TV display

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  2. Mike should be applauded! To encourage other men, but what I liked most about mike is his maturity and sportsmanship... when guests come to the house he makes sure he gets them water or Pepsi... he is very courteous and well behaved

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  3. Where do they get these skewed quotes from?
    Did God create Adam with many wives?
    When Jesus came, did he not say that in the beginning God made them male and female... and talked about a man and his wife (not wives)?
    But let me warn men. If you are not in Christ, stop the rant about staying faithful. You have to be faithful to God in order to be faithful to the partner he has given you.
    Until the dominating powers of darkness is employed to hex you, you may not understand that only in Christ is true safety and faithfulness. I speak also to ladies because I for one had overcome that in the past.

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    1. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹
      Thank you for this.

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    2. Thank you, anonymous 13:06

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  4. This Mike ish!!

    Let me break it down for yall. . Mike is a cancer zodiac sign. Those set of people are very hard to penetrate, it takes time for them to let you in, he didn't cheat because no one was able to get through, you see how Mercy entered Ike, she get the skills to get them, be friends, be playful, be motherly before long they will let down their guard. She almost got Mike, almost,but the show ended. Even Jackie for succeed but she wasn't all bout getting him. Mike didn't cheat cos no one in that house could get him to let his guard down.

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    1. What kind of analysis is this???? So a man cannot make a choice not to cheat???? I hope you are not a woman making this analysis. We should expect higher standards from our men.

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    2. In essence, what you are saying is that, consistency would have made Mike give in to Mercy if the show didn't end at the time it ended? In as much as I believe in the power of consistency, I may also one to believe he could have still not falling over. What if it was a promise he made to the wife before coming to the show? Most men who don't cheat could also be as a result of the respect and regards they have towards their wife, along side the discipline they grew up in.

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    3. Stories that touches. Are you happy now?

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    4. On the day of finale he was hugging Mercy in the house,his Pipi come strong and long...abeg leave matter for Matthias

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    5. 13:07 you are delusional! your type are psychos and sexual pervert! since you can't tell the difference between agape love and sexual love.

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    6. Mercy too deserve accolade the way she did not give in to temptation even when drunk.

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    7. Anon 14:13; you had absolutely NO reason to call that anon names. You lot should stop carrying over beefs/aggressions on this platform. You will be angry at something/someone and be lying in wait for d slightest clue of a look alike commenter and start ranting even when you are making zero sense and worse off the wrong person sef.

      Really it's terribly low n trashy of y'all who do that rubbish. Drop your own opinion and keep it moving abeg!

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    8. Chybabe abeg leave matter. Mercy had sex with Ike over ten times in the house. If you now add the vibrator own it becomes uncountable.

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    9. Biggie and his camera men did not want us to see all the gbenishing between Ike and Mercy

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    10. Which mercy? The one that came into the house with a vibrator or another one?
      Chybabe try again.

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    11. 14:45 guilty conscience! that's why you are ranting I see nothing wrong in what 14:13 said it's you who has so much beef and aggression in you that's why you are on a charade bursting nerves not every love is sexual and that's the kinda relationship Mike and Mercy shared if you can't see it from that perspective that means you are also a pervert period.

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    12. So dietitian so all the while he was hugging mercy in the house why didn't it rise? Stupid analysis

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    13. Anon 15:26, if I was the anon you tried attacking with your useless life, my reply will NEVER be that mild ode! It was just a little observation I pointed out for you miserable thwart.

      You can keep ranting I kuku no send you!

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  5. If a man can control himself in front of a camera that means he's got "control" and he can control both off and on camera. Cheating is truly a choice

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    1. Best comment here.

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    2. you have nailed it dear.. Cheating is a choice for both male and female folks.
      Enough said...

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  6. The day my fiancΓ©e told me not getting enough punana from me can make him cheat on me. That same day I told him no man has the monopoly of cheating,that any day he's caught cheating on me I'm gonna cheat on him back. Come and see how his countenance changed immediately. He asked me to repeat myself and I said it out loud this time around with every seriousness you can ever imagine in this world. Who has time for rubbish? Sometimes men needs to be put in check gaskia. They think they're the only ones that cab cheat abeeg leave matter for Mathias.

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    1. He will cheat on you?

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    2. go Nd STAY in ur Gaza's house

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  7. Hmmm, were you expecting a man that just got married to cheat in in public? Was the marriage up to 2 months before he left for BBNaija?

    Enough already!

    Take off the camera, leave him alone in a different country where his wife won't see him or know what he does. If he remains faithful, then, you can hail him.

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    1. You tried...oh you really tried. But you're yet to make sense.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Chaiii
      God o πŸ˜”

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    3. common... You all should free the guy.. there are some good guys out there ooo... whether you like it or not. not every man is a cheat last last.

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  8. That kiss up there πŸ‘†is everything.

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  9. Mike is naturally a good and disciplined person

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  10. Honestly, can everyone shut up about this already. In a few months time if you hear news about him and some chick, yall will come here to change mouth.

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  11. We are celebrating something that should be normal.......It shows we have accepted negative behaviour and wallow in it that when we see what is the norm, there is so much applauding. Na wa.

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    1. The screwed-upness of the world actually makes celebration of good behaviour, the RIGHT thing to do. If for nothing else, to show people who don't know it can/should be done. Cos believe it or not, people are desperate to see the right thing being done. And to appreciate the person who bothered to do well.

      It's for a similar reason that we clap for a cleaner or taxi driver that returned a suitcase of money to the rightful owner. It's what they're supposed to do but why not celebrate them since there are many thieves doing the opposite?


      OA

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    2. As in ehn
      I’ve had this thought in my mind for a long while hi kept mute cos I don’t want to be tagged a hater

      Like is it not normal for him to be faithful nii?? We are so used to men who cheat ...Lord help meπŸ˜”

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    3. Talking from both sides of the mouth. If Nigerians have accepted negative behaviour then why are we celebrating positivity(A faithful man)? You see how stUpid you sound abi?
      Las las,it is not your celebration. Quit crying!

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    4. Shantelle, I understand where you both are coming from, but if it was a woman who went into the house and was faithful would the media give her all this appraisal given to mike? No. However this doesn't change who mike is, from what we saw, "a decent man".

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    5. Mystery,Nigerian men pride themselves in adultery,Nigerian women don't. They claim they were born/created that way,with all the naturally wired to cheat crap. Mike proved those entitiled mofos wrong that's why he's getting all the buzz.
      #manlikeMike# I'm super proud of him.

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    6. I'm with Shantelle on this one. Mike should be celebrated.

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  12. I will sit here and wait for the people that will say "So Mike is being praised for doing what a man is supposed to do" Bitch it seems you all don't know that these men are fucked up! allow people praise a man who's well behaved! to cheat is by choice. Well done Mike you gave a whole new definition to the meaning of "Man"

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    1. The only reason why he’s being praised is bcos most of our men these days are scum

      If TTT has been like this while in the house,Mike’s own won’t surprise us but we are so used to dogs(men) and when we finally see a man who is different it sounds so surprising

      God help me πŸ˜”

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  13. If not for the decadence in the society
    Everyone who took marriage vows should stick to their partners. Mike did well, and yes there are a lot of men like him.

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    1. I tell you my sister

      Decadence is the word o

      Sigh πŸ˜”

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    2. My husband is one. I laugh at women when they say all men cheat not true. Most men that don't have the fear of God are the ones cheating. my husband is not cheating on me firstly because of God the fear of God have enveloped him and secondly love. But I don't tell anyone before bitter women will say all manner of nonsense.

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    3. Anon 14:02. We are in the same boat, my husband does not cheat on me and can never cheat on me because he fears God and is scared of not making heaven because of sin. I don’t talk about it before they will tell me I’m sitting on a long thing

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    4. Don't tell anyone anon. Keep it to yourself,it's safer that way.
      The reason mike is on most ppls lips is cos he was in our faces for 99days.

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    5. Whatever!unilag sexformark lecturer na pastor,foursquare pastor for that matter,I'm sure everyone will believe he is God fearing until bubble burst, if your husband doesn't truthfully cheat,I must say u are a lucky woman,I basically don't want to know if mine cheat,though I have not caught him,I just can't trust any man abeg, i remember when I was single,two young couples living in same compound with me were asking me out,meanwhile d wives are my friends,my sister's husband nko?that one will stylishly be flirting with me,wetin my eye never see,I just thank God I was very strict then.I see all men as same dirty creatures without shame.

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  14. Cheating is a choice like I will always say. It takes only a disciplined man to stay faithful to his partner. Someone asked me sometime ago if anointing can keep a man faithful. I said to him, anointing without discipline can't keep him no matter how he prays everyday.

    David was anointed you know but couldn't keep his sexual fantasy away from Uriel's wife. What about the contemporary ministers of the gospel today that are associated with sexual scandals? Only discipline can keep a man. So in essence, I will say, not all men cheat but vast majority does.

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    1. But you vigorously defended the contemporary preachers and asked for proof na. Why are you now making a point with them?

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    2. Yeah anonymous 14:07, I asked for proof because it was almost taking a legal action and trust me, the law will need more than mere words to convict the accused. I never exonerated the accused but only asked for proof which anyone else could have done.

      Do you know Neymar Jnr the Brazilian football star that was falsely accused of rape? I hope you know how the whole thing ended? Do you know some persons had already condemned and judge him guilty? It takes proof to exonerate him from what would have been his destruction. So dear, asking for proof isn't wrong, neither is it saying the act didn't happen. Hope you understand me now?

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  15. I will sit here and wait for the people that will say "So Mike is being praised for doing what a man is supposed to do" Bitch it seems you all don't know that these men are fucked up! allow people praise a man who's well behaved! to cheat is by choice. Well done Mike you gave a whole new definition to the meaning of "Man"

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  16. Im tired of this ish I swear.

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  17. Mike couldn't cheat because his wife had the money. Now that his gonna start making his, we will seethe real man. When the stories start hope we will cover our mouths.

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    1. 13:51 stop the lies before you die prematurely! ask Kojo to tell you about Mike. Which money does his wife have? you people lie too much!.

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    2. Repent. Purge your self from bitterness.

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    3. Stop lying please. They're both doing great.

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  18. There are still so many faithful men out there but most people won't believe they are faithful...Mike has done well for himself.

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    1. Cynthia me and you know say this one na lie. Especially in this naija.
      Many faithful men where?
      They are few,very few sweetheart,and i applaud them.

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    2. Shantelle, I gbadun for this post😁😁

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  19. I agree the man did great and deserves to be praised. A couple of men have been in front of the cameras but still cheated on their girlfriends or wives. I see him as someone that is naturally disciplined...many men should see this as a challenge and try to emulate the man Mike.

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  20. Mike has just set a standard!!!! We all saw how this married man carried himself. I give him thumbs u abeg. Nigerian guys take note!!!!

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    1. What standard? In as much as I have nothing against this hype, seyi, frodd and shola that are not married did the same thing, big deal!

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  21. Mike has just set a standard!!!! We all saw how this married man carried himself. I give him thumbs up abeg. Nigerian guys take note!!!!

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  22. I give up on auto correct mbok. Changing my own English, helping me to speak English!!! Inukam akuko!!!

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  23. Mike did really well and must be applauded for doing well. To build a balanced society, we must not only condemn evil doing but must also commend good behaviour.

    That is why in a race or even at work high performers are usually recognised while the others are ignored, reprimanded or retrained. That is also why those who have returned misplaced goods or items are praised and more often than not rewarded.

    Mike did very well and must be applauded for it!

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  24. My hubs said Mike should be celebrated and rightly so because he did what was expected of him with flair. It was never about him not cheating but being comfortable enough to be free with the girls yet with clear boundaries.

    Men like Mike are husbands to some of us and should be celebrated too whether it is expected of them or not.

    I agree with my hubs.

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    1. You should have Stella create a column for you and maybe you name of “my hubs”.........
      Everyday my hubs



      Delusional being.........yeye Dey smell

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    2. 15:09 you are jealous

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    3. Anon she just Gottfried for crying out loud. It's not even up to a month yet. Isn't an suppose to be crazy over her husband?
      Probably they are even in honey moon and her 90% conversation daily might be with Him.

      Abeg free the babe.
      Let her enjoy her hubs in peace.

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    4. You big mad, huh!

      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I'm not even the rub it in yo face type but you tempting me.

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    5. Anon 15:09, take some honey.

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    6. I agree the man did great and deserves to be praised. A couple of men have been in front of the cameras but still cheated on their girlfriends or wives. I see him as someone that is naturally disciplined...many men should see this as a challenge and try to emulate the man Mike.

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  25. Thank you very much Cynthia iyede.. my husband has always been faithful and still is right from when we started dating from my year two in the university and he was in year 3, he left for the UK and he stayed 1 year until I got there a year later.. there nothing extraordinary this Mike did.. let us not over flog it.. moreover he just got married people, not up to a year.. is he a Dog to cheat and he would have lost all his assets had he tried it, because his wife would have gone to the courts and filed for a divorce and take it all and he wasn't even sure of winning so why would he lose what he already has outside for a moment of passion.. it's not like Nigeria where the laws of marriage and divorce don"t favour women.. he came from the UK.. the wife would have cleaned him out period.

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    1. You stylishly praised your husband but down played Mike. A man without discipline will cheat, he will realize the consequences after orgasm. People cheat even on their wedding nights. Madam, na your type your husband dey get one coded chic wey dey service am. We have seen Mike on TV but you don't follow your husband around. That he filed for you does not make him faithful. It is not a big deal till you discover your husband's side chic.

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    2. 14:44 your husband is also a big cheat and your mumu self don't know wake up and smell the coffee. idiot see how you praised your husband but brought another person's own down.

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  26. Thank you very much Cynthia iyede.. my husband has always been faithful and still is right from when we started dating from my year two in the university and he was in year 3, he left for the UK and he stayed 1 year until I got there a year later.. there nothing extraordinary this Mike did.. let us not over flog it.. moreover he just got married people, not up to a year.. is he a Dog to cheat and he would have lost all his assets had he tried it, because his wife would have gone to the courts and filed for a divorce and take it all and he wasn't even sure of winning so why would he lose what he already has outside for a moment of passion.. it's not like Nigeria where the laws of marriage and divorce don"t favour women.. he came from the UK.. the wife would have cleaned him out period.

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    1. Has your husband been in a confined place with hot girls for 3 months? Until then, you've got no bragging right. Your husband is just being coded, his side chic may be someone you even know. She may be on this blog reading your comment.

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    2. Yess.. you are the side chic and will continue to be a side left over until you know love and weed yourself of inferiority self loathing complex.. first off, Go take care of yourself, have some self love for you, read to brush up yourself and then realise you deserve more than being a second best and a low life. We have been beat down so much in Nigeria that we believe we don't deserve our men to be faithful.. and only side dishes.. and I repeat it there is nothing extraordinary Mike did and soooo many men are like that..but you poverty stricken village peasant who lacks self love feels you are my husband's side chic, I will stylishly praise him, if I don"t, is it you low self esteem selves i will praise? When a man does nice things for a woman like ikenna did for mercy, he is a big dummy, when he is faithful, we can't believe it, women are so beat down in Nigeria, no self worth and self love anymore, and I have self love for myself that I am a confident woman which defines me first.. you peasant

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  27. A man put in same apartment with most girls in there, wearing skimpy things, showing their semi nude appearances, especially showing their bum bums and breast daily for awhole 99 days?
    They wake up in the morning it's either breast or nipple or bum bum that's greeting them, and same till when they sleep at night. And s circle continues.

    Most men that cheat, how many times do they are or stay with their Charing partners, before they start cheating.

    They all ought to be applauded. The temptation was too much.
    Wether some of you think its normal behavior or not, celebrate and encourage good things and morals.

    It's a battle and he won.

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  28. stella i noticed something about you... anyways i love the new you.

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  29. men can cheat but it's taboo for women to do so.

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    1. e go do you like season feem mumu man

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  30. I cheated on my wife like kilode but I love her

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  31. What about tin tall tony that denied he had a wife or children cos of money. Laslas, he didn’t win

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  32. If mike was not married .mercy would have make sure she jazzed him because she likes him a lot, despite the age difference between them.mercy is a hustler she wants the blue or red passport but genuinely likes mike she even kissed him on the stage.

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  33. Sex is not cheating. It is only physical exercise. One Toto dey kill prick.

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  34. What's the fuss about Mike not cheating, isn't that what is expected of everyone? aren't we suppose to stay truthful to our wedding vows? i commend Mike for holding fast to his integrity but that is what is expected of us all, as long as we are Christians, we are obligated to be Christlike in all our dealing by being upright and transparent in our lives.

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