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Tuesday, October 15, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DIRTY NEIGHBOURS



Stella :

please I need some advice: our neighbours are so dirty (please forgive my "bluntness") They have this "I don't care attitude" that is so irritating. 


When they moved in, my mom specifically explained everything to them that we all take turns in sweeping the compound, plus the compound is tiled o, so it's easy to sweep, then sweep and mop every Saturday.

 Initially, they complied but after sometime we saw their true characters. They don't sweep or mop, when it gets to their turn, we would have to remind them and of course quarrel started. 


Secondly, we recently decided to complete some repairs in the house (it's a new building and some installations are still on going, people of God when my sister took the plumber into their toilet to show him what to do, she had to run out and call us to come and see wonders. The water system is almost broken, the water tank is completely off, and you need to see inside their toilet.


 I actually took a picture I wish I could post here. We couldn't believe our eyes. Then their kitchen nko, they cook with stove ( which is not a bad thing) the kitchen walls are stained with charcoal, everywhere is filthy. Now we understood why sweeping the compound was a big problem to them.

 And these are mature siblings o, 2 girls, 3 boys. Now the issue is that they are orphans,their rent is being handled by their church. My mom said I should write giving them quit notice but I just feel guilty.

 I wish we could resolve this amicably. I wish they could behave themselves, please people I am so confused.How do you give orphans quit notice? I'm tired of reminding them to keep their environment clean, it's like reminding someone to take a Bath or brush their teeth.



*Their condition has nothing to do with being Orphans,they are Dirty and need to go before they contaminate that Environment..I have a problem with hearing that a Toilet is not well taken care of.....like OMG its horror for me ............

Please give them the quit notice now!!

87 comments:

  1. Give them a warning notice and tell them you’d do a mandatory visit every month or quarter to check that every thing is in order and if not they’d be asked to vacate the premises.

    Since they want to be treated with kid gloves then by all means because the day they’d decide to leave they won’t put your feelings into consideration and would leave with you having to fix their mess.

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    1. Yeah.... Start with a warning notice first with specific number of months!!


      If they don't change or comply, you can proceed to quit them!!

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    2. Please give warning notice - like doppelganger advised and give them maximum 3 months to improve or you will serve quit notice. Like you said they are orphans, it is even the church who is supporting them with rent. If after showing them mercy, they refuse to improve then you can serve quit notice. God has a special place in his heart for orphans and he does bless those who are kind to them.

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    3. Give them a warning,and there is no change,please by all means evict them.
      With this level of dirt,dem still get mind to act anyhow.
      EVICT THEM ASAP AFTER THE WARNING.

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    4. Yes, a warning notice first like Doppelganger suggested. And tell them if they don't comply, they get a quit notice next.

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    5. Pls give them quit notice immediately, they will spoil everything in the house, some tenants are horrible abeg, they will come to your house and throw the whole place upside down, when they finally move ehn, you will have to fix the place up again. Haba

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  2. Quit notice asap, that's why most landlords will only accept couples




    *Larry was here*

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    1. take note

      a notice to quit
      GOD BLESS U

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    2. Yes, one of my uncles in Enugu only accept singles, just you alone o, and when you want to marry, biko leave his house, and their is a fee he collects incase you spoil anything in his house, he use the money to fix the place, if the house is in good condition when you finally move, he refunds you your money.

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  3. Aunty,,u need not waste ur,time abeg,,a notice to quit is the best option.


    some people are so dirty to the extent that,when they packbout,using that same room becomes an headache cuz alot of damages would have been done.

    if this said tenant,is pauing yearly then ur notice to quit will be 6months after which,you,give another 3weeks backing it up with a legal letter and thereafter,if they fail to leave then court niyen ooooo

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  4. Woow this is unacceptable.


    Sdk i saw where you wrote you attended the school in olodi. My kids attended too but didn't finish.
    I remember how the school was a big deal back then. Which government school did you attend. Hope not the dirty one with red and white uniform.

    Nigeria i am so filled with pity. Have a nice day all

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  5. If you want to know someone who is clean, use the toilet and kitchen to judge.
    Poster,may God give you wisdom to handle this.I think you should also let the church paying for the rent to know about this.
    All the best.

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  6. Orphans or not they are dirty!!! I cannot stand dirty people. Not that we talking about kids or a baby but to think mature people can choose to live inside dirt! It irritates me! Your mum is right! They have to go!

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  7. What are the fact that they're orphans got to do with them being dirty adults? Do you know how many orphaned adults are out here holding down paying jobs and living decently and not like pigs? If they're children then I'll say give them a pass but they are adults!
    Is it until they create expensive and extensive damage to the property with their lifestyle and you cough out plenty money before the apartment can be made habitable for another tenant that you will read the riot act for them? If they want to live like pigs, point them to the nearest pig sty ok?

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    1. Give them a warning notice..then if no improvement..You have to evict them..

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  8. What does hygiene has to do with quit notice ,Nigerians always make show of everything so Stella is the one that will advice you on that ,I think you are more dirtier than them may be your conscience is judging you as in the case of the woman caught in adultery,otherwise why are you afraid to throw the stone.

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  9. Dear if they paid you a house rent and the rent never expire .. you have no right to give them notice.

    What is your Business with the type of life they live , i have a house that someone paid 500k yearly , only to discover that she wants to use it to be rearing pigs , a new bungalow , dear i just went to her and we discussed properly.

    she agreed on renovating the house after her stay , which is documented ...

    she also paid for 10 Years straight.

    if you never finish house , why must you rent it out in the first place.

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    1. What are you saying?? If we have a serious government and we have health inspectors..A dirty house is enough for them to seal it off and sue the landlord...Lets say the truth at all times..dats why we have the type of government we have..

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    2. Thank u. This poster is a gossip. Even took a pic. Suwah

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    3. 10years? 5m for 10years? sorry you were cheated.

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    4. @sermons


      let me educate you a bit,,,u cam give ur tenant notice to quit even before the expiration of his payment,HOW?

      if a tenant pays 300000 yearly and he is to renew by january and as a landlord,u tend to evict such tenant due to dirtiness or what so ever,,then you ask ur lawyer to send a notice to quit which will start from febuary to april depending,,if you are giving six months then it will,be,febaury to july.

      with thw above,u have given him an nfo ahead telling him not to bother renewing his rent by febuary

      thats how it works

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    5. So because your own tenant agreed to renovate your house, poster should leave her own tenant to spoil her house.
      As a good person that you are, you should allow your tenant leave without renovating your house after rearing pigs in it

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    6. U need to see a doctor. Is like ur drugs hv finished. U seem to hv mental issues with d way u talk.

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    7. You can issue quit notice even if they paid for a year and it is yet to lapse. The notice will be made to expire on the eve of the tenancy.

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    8. Ever heard of someone not conforming to tenancy agreement, before?

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    9. Seriously, you allow pigs to be reared inside an apartment. Where at the end of her 10 years humans will stay. Have you not heard of a pig sty?
      My house here they send the care taker to come every 3 months to check the wall being of everyone’s house. And I concur cause if you see the way some people mess up their house. Even the caution fee they paid can’t repair.

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    10. Seriously, you allow pigs to be reared inside an apartment. Where at the end of her 10 years humans will stay. Have you not heard of a pig sty?
      My house here they send the care taker to come every 3 months to check the wall being of everyone’s house. And I concur cause if you see the way some people mess up their house. Even the caution fee they paid can’t repair.

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  10. I detest people like the ones you just described.

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  11. Because of folks like this, I prefer to let to cooperate organizations or for offices/businesses

    Can you imagine. House still under construction.

    Some folks could be dirty and I can not watch my property go down with dirty tenants.

    Quit asap.

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  12. This is gross, really gross.

    Maybe you should notify the pastor of their church to come and see the wonders too.

    Who knows, they might turn a new leaf after some holy sermon.



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    1. Why should everything be pastors?? God gave us brains to use in full capacity...Nobody needs to preach to you..

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    2. Everything pastor pastor.

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  13. did being an orphan stop you from keeping your environment clean? me that things irritates me and it may makes me to have goosebumps all over my body. I will not even be able to talk with such people not to talk of visiting their room. Please if you can talk to them about hygiene or how to maintain a clean environment and see if they will change else biko give them quit notice before they destroy your house.

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    1. We like being emotional in almost everything instead of thinking deeply...Warn them very sternly then quit notice..

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  14. I don't understand.. Sweep and mop compound? I understand the sweep part but I don't understand the mop part., Like you guys actually mop the whole compound?

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    1. I think this poster and her family are at fault and they are exaggerating!
      Her mum is a wicked land lady,her sister is a gossip and the poster is just a busybody!
      Why would she take a picture of their dirty toilet and mock them?
      Check well,na ordinary caretaker dem be!

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    2. @pinklady,,dont be quick to judge her mum,,she demand respect,,pls learn to be careful

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    3. You must be the poster.
      Is your conscience judging you already?
      Be careful!!!!!

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    4. Pink lady u seem to hv a dirty room nd toilet. Reason u cn relate and support dem. Wait till u build ur house nd tenant turn it to gutter.

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    5. Thank u pink lady. Poster and her family are at fault. This is the type they will be flogging at village square. Onye ibe ri be!!!

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  15. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'15 October 2019 at 16:00

    A whole 5 people chai they are just too dirty and it has nothing to do with being orphans.please just give them warning notes for now and see if they ll change for good.

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  16. It's is their mental state they are all depressed and need counselling, one sign of depression is lack of desire for care and tidiness. Been there after I got over my borden still am things changed. If you can contact the church to counsel them please do at least before you kick them out.

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    1. You must be a psychologist. Na ur type run enter building go save Dover wen no where dey burn. Story. But they were not depressed to cook and chop???

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    2. Yes, give them warning to inspect their house every month, report them to the church and if they still don't change you can give them quite notice. I have no pity for people who destroy others properties especially the dirty ones as if they will be happy if somebody does same to their properties tomorrow.

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  17. That feeling of guilt is real, God wants to protect you from harming yourself. See;


    Proverbs 23:10Do not move an ancient boundary stone or encroach on the fields of
    the fatherless, 11for their Redeemer is strong; He will take up their case against you.
    12Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge.

    Proverbs 31: 8 Open your mouth for those with no voice, for the justice of all the
    dispossessed. 9Open your mouth, judge righteously, and defend the cause of the poor and needy.…

    Jeremiah 7:5For if you really change your ways and deeds, if you act justly
    toward one another, 6if you no longer oppress the foreigner, the fatherless,
    and the widow, and no longer shed innocent blood in this place or follow other
    gods to your own harm, 7then I will allow you to live in this place, in the land
    that I gave to your fathers forever and ever.…


    Be patient with these people.
    I am really encouraged to know that there are churches out there who still fulfill
    biblical injunctions of taking care of the fatherless. Wish you will name that church
    here. Please do not drive them away.

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    1. Thanks for these Scriptures. The Bible is indeed deep

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    2. May God bless you for this!
      You are a true Christian!
      The christaindom needs more of your kind!
      Not all these holier than thou pretentious snakes!
      Ehen,poster come and see!๐Ÿ‘†

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    3. Wawu!
      Veteran Chikito complimented me today instead of shooting arrows?
      ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
      E good o. Make you dey spare my smooth ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค
      Wawu, veteran, sure I yarn you say you go preach the gospel?
      ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป orubego!

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    4. Oh,so it was you?๐Ÿ˜ฎ
      You typed like a true Christian without being judgemental and sanctimonious...as usual.
      I am surprised!
      I don't shoot arrows unneccessarily,unless you curse naija girls.
      Keep it up!
      ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜‹

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    5. @Veteran
      I don't curse Naija girls. I tell them the counsel of God in the Scriptures;
      what you call curse or judgment. I love Naija girls and that is why I tell them
      scriptures and about eternal life and hell. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
      Yes, I am a true Christian by the Grace of God.

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    6. You are one of the problems we have in this country. Using holy scripture to back up rubbish. Madam pastor. Wait till you build your house! When them burn am down! Use scripture cover am. Holy are thou๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Come and beat me .bug head

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    7. Antichrist. Preaching from both the side of God and the devil at the same time.

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    8. Wawu!
      Antichrist, Bug head...I talk am say the names wey una don dash me for this blog fit
      make name dictionary. Same one wey call me madam pastor call me bug head? ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•
      Keep the names coming while I keep my truthful yarns going unu anugo?
      ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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  18. My dear port them to were they belong, you think they will consider all this for u if they are the ones that want to leave willily,i hate dirty people reason why I left my elder sister place to stay with a stranger,my sister and her kids will poo without flashing,the kids pee on the bathroom floor without flushing , the husband will pee and forget to flush all the time, the sitting room will look like we're they rare cattle,i Don clean ND talk I Don tire.the boys reaching from age nine down pee on the bed everyday and the room smell of pee all the time, my sister won't bother to change the sheet or sun the mattress!they wiil still sleep on it as it smell, I begin to wonder if her nose doesn't perceive,nd if you try to correct the kids on not wearing there slippers all the time or brush before they eat, she will tell me to hold on to give birth to my own before correcting children,im hanging with her friend pending I get my place,my sister will remove her pant liner ND put them over the toilet window, how many I won talk

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    1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'15 October 2019 at 17:08

      Nna meeeehn this your own tory pass becareful!-anonymous 16:21.

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    2. Yuck!! Your sister's own is laziness plus dirtiness.Some people are lazy but neat and some hardworking but dirty.This your sister own and her husband is both dirtiness & laziness.And those Children will grow up to be like this ones in this chronicle.

      Some parents are not trying at all when it comes to teaching their children hygiene and keeping their environment clean.Worst is when there are maids in the house and the children never make efforts in tidying up.They don't even know how to go about the whole cleaning stuff.

      Stella you need to start a column on roommates and neighbours dirty habit/culture shock/attitude.The things I don take my eyes see ehn.

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    3. 16:21 your sister, her hubby and children are Gross! Yuck!!!
      Can't imagine how you coped.
      Please, don't look back. You will get a nice place of your own.
      I can't stand dirt or untidiness.
      That's the first thing I size up in a person's appearance - my eyes takes it in all at once and zooms in to your teeth, finger nails and hair.

      I wipe down the mosquito nets on my windows with wet wipes or cleaning foam to take out dust and germs. If I am too tired, I pay cleaners to get it done.

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  19. I am also an orphan,it is not an excuse to be dirty,pls flush them out of the house stop that pity nonsense...

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    1. Exactly. No mind this supporter commenting up nd down! Being orphan or widow does not mean you should be dirty.

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  20. See, some people are dirty to a fault. I stopped visiting my sister because she's dirty. When I go there to visit, I would clean and clean. Shout and shout still nothing changes. I'm not a perfectly neat person but abeg some people no dey try for hygiene mata. My sister does not wash her toilet and bathroom at all,They only poo and flush in that house. Her daughter's potty doesn't receive any form of cleaning and washing unless I do the washing. Her husband is not as dirty as her but him too no dey try. Her house stinks most times and she doesn't know how to buy house hold cleaning agents. It's not just her thing. So many dirty things about her but I still love her. I'm the only one who cleans that house thoroughly. Right now, I can't stand the dirtiness and I have stopped sleeping over. I just go once in a while.

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    1. Husband and wife dirty. The house go soon collapse because of dirty.

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  21. I am not in support of their dirty habits but come on!
    They are orphans and they are being taken care of by the CHURCH.If they were your siblings or relatives,would you have denied them anything because of their dirty habits?
    Are you really a Christian?
    What would Jesus do?
    If you serve them eviction notice based on that alone,God will not be happy with you and you won't be able to forgive yourself.
    This is what you should do;
    First of all,talk to them and threaten to evict them from the building if they dont improve.
    If they remain adamant,report them to their pastor and you will see a huge difference.Trust me on this one.

    Let me advise you,be careful of how you deal with widows,orphans,old people,little children and the poor(less privileged).
    Be careful o!
    ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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    1. Madam make I hear. Supporting dirtiness up nd down .. even the so called bible said CLEANLINESS IS NEXT TO GODLINESS! If their pastor support dem self e mean say e no know bible. So becos they are orphans dey hv d right to keep the house dirty. Dey cnt sweep. Hope ur bro marry one of d girls as wife. So dat u cn be bathing with poo nd urine. Rubbish.

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  22. This just brings back bad memories of my ex roommate in uni.She was so dirty mehn!I really liked this girl but the dirtiness was just something else.
    Is it going to bathroom to bath and seeing used sanitary pad,unflushed toilet,the day she will manage to flush,you will still see stains or small poop remnant.Or is it the pile of unwashed plates for days and sometimes weeks until maggots start coming out,what of soak menstrual panties/clothes for days till the water starts smelling? I could go on and on but I don't want to cry.To think I left my former room for the same reason and this one became worse.I ended up living off campus and staying alone till I graduated,because I couldn't take it anymore after so many fights and arguments.

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    1. Chai. It is well. Person future wives. To think say na these girls dey slay for IG but inside is rotten. Yuck๐Ÿคฃ

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  23. Sorry o, but please why would you rent an un completed house with an uncompleted toilet to someone? Because they are orphans right?

    Why go into their toilet without asking them first? Yes they are dirty but i see you are overstepping your bounds as a landlord because of their plight.

    Do you know if they have money for cleaning supplies even in the house?

    Do you know even if they have eaten at all?

    If you are told to mop and sweep compound would you do it every time?

    Please let's be sincere? Sweep,okay!Mop too? Haba nau.
    Mop where dust will settle every day? if na inside house I understand,its like saying mop a small road.
    Let's be guided, they probably feel like you are taking advantage of their situation.

    Please do not send them out,try this first..

    Buy cleaning supplies for them,call the girls and speak to them like an elder sister advising them on cleanliness and hygiene as a woman plus infections from toilets etc.Speak to them about the toilet like you care about their health as women and not just your house. Encourage them and see them change.

    God bless you

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    1. So not eating means u cn be dirty. Ordinary 50naira omo go clean house. Stop justifying rubbish. Poster try call the girls and talk to dem ok. Dat I only agree here.

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    2. All of u supporting these dirty pigs are obvious dirty too. Wait till disease catch una. No wonder most of u here complain of itching. Smelling pussy. Buy iron sponge nd scrub dat yash if una no go well. Exact tin one woman told her dirty neighbour. Person wife go tie wrapper e no go gree baff. Yuck.. chai.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿƒ‍♂️๐Ÿƒ‍♂️

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    3. Why hide under anonymous nau! at least give yourself a name so I can respond to you properly.

      When you have not been in such situations you can't undertstand.

      #50naira omo you say...hmmm it is well, may God not put you in situations where #50 omo would be hard for you to buy.



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    4. Come and beat me na. Even public house .face me!I slap you. Dey use only short broom to clean with water. E fit no too sparkle but e clean. Being dirty self is also poverty. Choose one.

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    5. Shut up there and respect yourself whatever you call yourself. Nothing justify somebody being dirty to the extent of destroying property. Read and comprehend is too difficult for people like you yet it is your type that will put pepper inside an orphan's something in the name of calling them house help. My orphan get PhD yet my landlord comes personally to thank me just because of the way I have kept the house. Six years and no stains in my house. I was not properly trained as there was no one to do it but I remember my mum being a very neat person.

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    6. MadamMirari, cleanliness is basic. It's not because they are orphans. I have seen very poor people that are much neater/clean aner than the wealthy.

      These people find alternative and cheap cleaning supplies.

      The Church that paid their rent have members who could give them soaps, detergents and disinfectant.
      Is it until an epidemic breaks out in that household you would know hygiene is extremely important?

      If they cannot keep their toilet kitchen and compound clean, then they are better off leaving in a place with old school toilet (pit).

      Poster mentioned that the compound is TILED!
      Are you saying 5 adults CANNOT mop the compound which might not even be more than half a plot?

      They are not children!

      Poster give them a written warning and copy their Pastor.
      If they fail to improve, quit them from your house.

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    7. All of you will give yourself headache for nothing! I never said they were "not dirty" I just gave a reasonable reply as to why and offered a solution. frustration will not allow full understanding of a post, already making "shut up" "beat me" your foolish reply, no intelligent response at all just wanting to show power on a blog.

      Oya continue nau! Because you are the poster and you are in the house with them. Solution you did not offer,be there antagonizing my comment. LAZY MUMU.

      ALL YOU FOOLS COMMENTING UNDER MY POST ONLY SEE "DIRTY TOILET" AS IF YOU ARE THERE WITH THEM.

      GIVING ORPHANS UNCOMPLETED HOUSE TO LIVE IN BECAUSE THEY ARE ORPHANS WITH UNCOMPLETED TOILET BUT AM SURE RENT WAS PAID COMPLETELY!

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  24. Pls what does being orphans have to do with dirt??? I know people who grew up with both parents and are as dirty as lawma. As for u poster u are nothing but a gossip. Taking pics and calling people to come to the house of someone who has paid rent to come and see? May God save us from landlords like u guys. U are the type that will not leave someone alone simply cos they rented from u. Useless set of people

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  25. I can't believe how some of you in a bid to sound sanctimonious actually end up sounding ridiculous.
    Buy cleaning supplies and give them to encourage them to start cleaning up after themselves? Like seriously?!
    How many times have your landlord supplied you with cleaning supplies to encourage you to keep his house clean? How many times have you taken a bag of Ariel and bottle of bleach to that your dirty neighbor to wash his toilets?
    Oh and that Bible passage no follow...why? Because you are not denying them their rights (it's not their right to live like pigs in your house and thus incur additional expenses for you to clean up after them if they leave due to their lifestyle), you are not oppressing them they're in fact the ones oppressing you. These are not toddlers, they're not children they are mature people aka adults! And here we are digressing so much and giving excuses for their behavior.

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    1. My sister no mind them. Supporting dirtiness! Obviously they are dirty. Talking with two sides of their mouth. So their landlord dey buying cleaning supplies for them. Some say be careful of orphans and widow! So orphans comes with dirtiness ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ. Stella blog no go kill person.

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    2. God bless you. That idiot quoting bible up and down forgot to put "cleanliness is nearest to Godliness" but what do I know, even satan quotes the bible as well.

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    3. Ralu m, a zillion e-hugs!๐Ÿค—
      Don't mind ANG quoting scriptures OUT OF CONTEXT!
      As soon as she read 'orphans' she started sounding sanctimonious meanwhile she won't minister with love to 'Naija girls' who fall by the wayside.

      ANG hear me loud and clear! God told Moses to instruct the Israelites to wash their clothes, wash their bodies and be clean before they come into his presence (worship). God does not like dirt, uncleanness not just in mind but in body also. They should also not uncover their nakedness (for those who go to church today or work in see-through clothes with undies showing).
      So, would orphaned Israelite go into the outer courts of the Temple for worship in their dirty clothes?

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    4. More oil to your lamp Ralu. Your responses are always just on point. It is a breath of fresh air. Thank you.

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    5. Ralu M

      They are orphans and live on charity.
      So is throwing them out the best solution?

      Because of dirty toilet and not moping compound.

      Even the poster said they do it before so why not try another approach!

      We are our own problem in this country, orphans with no help from anywhere except the church and you all are screaming give them quick notice,send them away.i ask, to go where please?

      Back on the streets? To probably people that will take advantage of them.

      God won't come down to help them,he will use people like me and u.

      Let's be guided abeg.




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  26. give them a notice to quit, set sentiments aside

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  27. Babes, that stove smoke will be hard to remove from the walls. Even if you paint it, it cannot be okay again.

    That toilet, you will have to buy a new one. You can't clean it up and it will still be okay.

    It's not everyone that starts out being clean. I used to be very dirty without knowing it. Until one day, someone told me that you know that you can use bleach to clean the walls right? It was like my eyes were opened and I could see the house the way outsiders saw it.

    No more hiding behind the fact that I was so busy and no househelps. I've gotten my kids involved in cleaning but it's such a herculean task for them because they are not used to it but I keep striving on

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    1. Way to go girl ๐Ÿ’ช. Keep striving at it. You are setting your kids on the right path. Trust me, they will thank you for it.

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  28. It's best to let them go. My dad is a care taker and one of the houses he managed, the family there fit the description you gave up there, they met everything brand new and when they packed two years later, they had to repair and refurbish the whole apartment, the damage was just too much. They even stole some wash hand basin and wires.
    please you used money to build your house so leave sentiment aside. some tenants are terrible so do what you have to do.

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  29. My dear i share a flat with some dirty individuals,my BP has been uncontrollably low for so long now that everyone is asking me what are thinking not knowing the amount of stress it takes me on a daily basis to clean the flats, some times they will use the toilet and flush it anyhow,could you imagine i travelled for two weeks and came back and meet shit all over the toilet like the floor was covered with poop i have to call their attention to it before they cleaned it, everyday is punishment for me living in that house, and to top it all i have kids so i no choice than to clean it everyday, to the point that i find it difficult to take my bath in the bathroom like i feel like crying everyday i wake up in this house,my case is a clear definition of God not hearing prayers,i think am cursed that no good thing or comfortability will come to me because if not God would have atleast granted just this request of taking me out of this house, am not asking him for gold or silver just let me pack out of this dirty environment before my kids will catch infection.

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