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Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A STORY TO LEARN FROM


I want to share my story and no I don’t need any advice I just want to encourage women that are going through the same hell I was made to pass through.


Please mind my typos and bad grammar o.....

I met this guy when I gained admission into secondary school,he was our class senior.i was in JSS 1,and he was in SS3.I was the most brilliant student in my set and so he picked certain interest in me and before you knew it we became close.

He didn’t take advantage of me,I was just close to him,they called me his school daughter.after he finished school he gained admission into the university,we still kept in touch and all.

Fast forward to when I was in SS3 he was serving and that was when he told me he liked me and that he wants to get married to me,meanwhile I was saving my weekly allowance to send to him while he was still in school ,saved up money to buy him stuff when he comes home for holidays.

After his NYSC,he came home n tutored me,I took jamb and scored 325,and it was the day I went to check my result that I lost my virginity to him,that was 2006.

Some months later I realized I was pregnant,his friends advices us to go for a DNC but he declined as said he would face my dad,mind you my dad was a brigadier general in d army then,but he still faced my dad and told him that he got his 15year old daughter pregnant.

We did our introduction and traditional wedding but oh,how I broke my dad’s heart,that was the first time I actually saw my dad cry......

After the wedding my dad gave me 5million since I couldn’t go to school,I told him to give it to my husband,he initially refused but he later agreed to,and that was where my trouble began I was just 15 and pregnant,I didn’t have a mother or a sister just a father and brothers.

This man squandered the money,he told me he was duped,I couldn’t stay in d 1room he rented,begged my dad to move us to somewhere convenient,my hubby started making soaps and I was helping him supply them.

Some months later I had still birth and decided I needed To go back to school which I did,my dad was still ready to train me to school,I was still the one that was carrying the home,by then I was 17yrs old,and my dear hubby started cheating on me with different girls,and he started beating me.but I thought I was at fault n I would beg and cry and complain and all,I was called a nag,silly and being too sensitive

When my dad retired,then I was in 400level my dad gave me 10million to start up something,I gave it to dear hubby,I’m stupid right?he invested the money n before you knew it,we started living okay,he bought land n we started building,but he was quick to tell me at any little misunderstanding that I trapped him with pregnancy,found out I was pregnant again d day I went to defend my project n I told him,he wasn’t really excited but I kept it n I gave birth to the most beautiful set of twins ever.....and then the abuse tripled,by then my dad was battling with his health so I couldn’t bother him n my brothers were still too disappointed.i stayed n swallowed all the ill treatment he meted out to me.he stopped me from working or having friends.i was forbidden to even tell my dad anything.


Until one fateful day in 2014,I came home with my kids n met him n his now wife on our bed,I went berserk,I went to drop my kids in the next compound,I chased him n d girl outside,locked the gate n destroyed all the electronics in that house,packed my things,went to pick my children n I left.....by then my dad was responding to treatment,I told my people to send him his bride price and thank God we didn’t do court wedding.


Travelled for 6months with my kids and when I came back I was renewed,by then I was just 23years old.

Met with my university toaster who I didn’t even know was married n divorced,as I was divorced already myself we started talking and he gave me a contract to supply some stuff,before u knew it I started getting deals n contract,money just kept coming,I bought myself a good car,built a duplex,bought my dad a Benz and my children were happy.

One day my dad called me to tell me that my ex husband came looking for his kids,I’m not a scorned woman so I told him to come see his kids somewhere,he has married his girlfriend and all


He saw me from afar and immediately he started crying and saying shit about us being his family and about how he messed up his home and about him needing his family back,I just laughed.I was already dating the divorced cute guy that helped me start my life back,told him I was already with someone and that was how the whole pleas and sweet talking started,he has made money,I have made more money,now he wants to start spending money on me,I Dey collect o......last week I asked him for 2million he sent it yesterday,and No I am never going back to him,I love my man and I’m not sure I would wanna get married again.And yes I am just 28years old:::

100 comments:

  1. hmmmmmmmmm with you jare.

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    1. You are going to loose your new man if you don't stay away from your ex husband.

      Face your good new life. His wife may assume you are sleeping with her husband and harm you.

      Stay awayyyyy.

      You are blessed already and have more than enough.

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    2. Poster I wanted to call u ewu for giving him 5million and then 10 million but let me just say na small pikin wey worry u then. And about catching him with a girl in your home, I wonder why u didn bath them with acid??? And about collecting money from him, plz keep collecting if not for anything,be the karma to that his whore he's now married to. Let her see wat it's like to be with someone's hubby...finally, I'm happy you've moved on and doing well for yourself. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger...wish you the best

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    3. Thank God you got your life back on track. Lucky you. Your ex is a confused fool. He will probably still treat you cruelly if you go back so continue facing front. Goodluck.

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    4. I support 15.32 above jareh. Stay away from him. Not out of fear for the lecherous wife but for self respect and dignity. Open an up keep account where he can deposit periodically for his children's up keep if he wants.

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    5. Good choice. You don’t have to get married again dearπŸ’‹πŸ’‹I think this institution destroys women.

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    6. Keep collecting, its your due abeg, you really suffered abeg. Pls in case you change your mind and decide to get married, especially to your current lover, shine your eyes wella, this one he is divorced, find out why he is divorced, Infact contact his ex wife. Good luck

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    7. sincerely i cried reading your story. i couldn't hold back my tears. My sincere pray is for God to have mercy on me and help me choose and get it right. I sincerely want to enjoy my marriage and i want to be happy. God please help me get it right.

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    8. You were so lucky to have found your feet after so much trauma at such a tender age. I will advice you stay away from him as much as you can but collect your kids maintenance money from him. Don't be tempted by anything he offers. You are not new to his character.

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  2. Please collect as upkeep for your kids, you deserve it after all you went through.

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    1. What made me happy the most is that you took care of your dad and he is alive to see how you turned out. You have done well for yourself poster.

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  3. At such a young age, you don dey give man money πŸ™†πŸΏ‍♀️ Na wa.
    You have more money now, but you dey collect o. You asked him for 2 million, he sent it yesterday πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    What’s here to learn exactly? You are not wise still.

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    1. Idiot have u not made mistakes in this life before?? Judgemental mental case like u

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    2. She should ask for more, she's still slacking asking for peanuts.

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    3. Ode sges wise. She should collect. First to make up for all the money the idiot stole from her. Two to take care of her kids 'its their fathers money' and 3 to spite that whore that is now his wife

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    4. Anon 15:31, Of course I am a judgmental mental case, how else could you understand me?

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    5. Anon 15:38 what makes you different from what you just called someone now,ask yourself who is the bigger IDIOT.

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    6. Slutty is right. Poster, u have not learnt anything. I promise u, u will still bring in more chronicles. Collect money...YES...but for ur kids not to give him hopes. Punish him?? You've already done that.

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    7. Anon 15:38, it’s not my fault you were not properly raised 🀷🏿‍♀️you certainly do not know what dignity and self respect means.
      And why do you think his new wife is a whore?
      Real queens don’t go about spiting people, they keep it real by moving like you don’t matter. SMH.

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    8. I won't keep it real and move wen karma presents itself. I'll be your karma if you mess with me...who dignity and respect help???

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    9. @ Poster, ngwanu congratulations!

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  4. You are one lucky woman.

    First 5m the second time 10m and you still made it, God really loves you...in your own case there is nothing like opportunity comes but once... Opportunities kept knocking on your door.

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    1. I love the end of the story better than the beginning. What kind of father gives out a 15year old in marriage,he would have encouraged you to further. Being pregnant is not a life sentence.
      My dears, please make money o, your ex is begging you because you can take care of yourself.

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    2. @push up most parents do it out of shame. I dont agree with it at all. I will keep my daughter and help her raise the child and build her a bright future, still. He should have sent her abroad to school, with all that money. She wont have gone through all the heartache and still kept the child.

      Poster Im still happy for you.

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  5. I don’t believe this story

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    1. Thank you 15:11. The story doesn't add up. But if its actually true, the father has really failed to marry his daughter off at 15 years no Matter what. The poster has still not gotten over his ex and I see her repeating the same mistake with her current man if care is not taken.

      Poster, I don't believe this story but if its really true, learn to love yourself and get proper healing. You have not healed yet, if you have, nothing will make you to be asking money from your ex when you are not cheap. Let that man drop his children's upkeep in an account at the end of every month and keep it moving.

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    2. Anon 17:38 Why do you think the story is not true?

      My own friend had a similar experience. Her mom gave her 5m over 5 times for her Masters degree, she gave the money to her husband each time and she was way. older than 15.
      The last time she was forced to give him because he beat her up.
      They got divorced some years ago though they have a child together.

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  6. Hmmmmmmm... My heart nearly jumped out of my chest when i read where u said you gave him 10million naira again.... Thanks God it all end in praise. Collect whatever you want to collect from him bcx its ur money but never for any reason go back to that user not even for the sake of ur kids bcx your kids are doing better even without his presence in their life. If you must remarry, marry this guy that help you rewrite your story on a clean slate so that ur dad and brothers can be proud of you. Nawaoooo.....

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  7. The best form of revenge is to be successful




    *Larry was here*

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  8. Here is the problem Africans have.
    That a girl got pregnant, yes a mistake has been made but must she marry the man that did the bad job?
    I have told my cousin's story many times here. A woman is a jewel if she knows her worth and having a child or children is no barrier to
    marring a good and loving man. "In all things God works for the good of those that love him..." The problem arises when ladies keep away from God and live their own checkered lives.
    God is so loving, but he judges sinners too. If you come to him, he will give you life in abundance -meaning life here and hereafter.
    Making money can afford you certain things, gains in this life
    but it is not a guarantee to living a joyful life (not that I said joyful, not happy) and it is not in anyway related to eternal life.
    Hope my yarns have helped to add to the lessons?

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    1. πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»⛈⛈⛈⛈⛈⛈

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  9. I will always say it" Family Support Matters" Do whatever Makes you sleep Well at Night.

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    1. Including killing?

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    2. If it makes you sleep at night.

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    3. 😁😁😁😁😁.
      What makes " You Sleep Well at Night " so if "Killing" will,Please do You

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  10. Wonderful πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  11. @poster don't collect more from him again.since u said u av moved on bcos by collecting f I'm him he might find a way to trap u back. But if he wants to be responsible financially towards the kids let him be. Best of luck

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    1. Why should she stop collecting money from him? Who is the father of her kids? Poster please keep collecting and spending the money on your kids. Those children need to enjoy their lives. He is their father so he should keep taking care of them.

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    2. Exactly!! Why ask him for money when you have more? Not like they are still a couple.
      It should be strictly daddy duties to their kids and nothing more. You have a new man, face him.

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    3. Sluttychick, if the money she is asking for from him is titled child support, she has every right to ask for that irrespective of whatever she makes IMHO..now what she uses the said money for is story for another day.

      Anyhoooo...They should reach a compromise on what should be sent for the kids if the man feels he has to spend on his ex wife by fire by firse so that no one starts feeling entitled.

      Besides her ex husband may bebfweling indebted in regards to the initial 15million hence he can willingly give her the money on request to ease his conscience. For all it's worth the ex is paying back the money
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      Poster, limit interactions with your ex since you have moved on. I'd he must give you some money ensure iya for upkeep of his kids and If not probably write an agreement to state he is paying back the 15million with interest accrued so that the past won't come back calling.
      You still like your ex though coupled with him being the father of your kids, he was even your first love. Something tells me you will pull an Okafor's law on him and in your mind think you want to hurt him but will end up hurting yourself..

      If its possible you refrain from collecting money from him, it will do you more good and if he must spend money on his kids allow him to pay directly for whatever instead of paying it to you first. Since he has money enroll them in good expensive schools and he pays directly to the school, if they are going on vacations he pays for their flight and probably hotel fees directly and you handle yours atleast for peace of mind

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    4. Someone who collected N15m from my father?? Ifa hear say I no collect am back. Namsense

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  12. This story sweet o, don't even know what to say again. Poster collect the money o after all it is part of the money you gave him that he squandered, but in all you do shine your eyes and don't let him sweet talk you into going back to him.

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  13. The problem is that a lot of people equate making money to being vindicated.
    No it is not so. Your ex-husband committed atrocity and he has lost his bearing.
    Yes, he made money but it will never vindicate him. Only godly sorrow/repentance can.
    My advice is that you do not ever keep his kids away from him. He should see them
    whenever he wants and it is convenient to you. He should take care of them
    however he deems fit. But please, the fact that you made money did not in anyway
    vindicate you. And marrying the person that helped you make money doesn't equal to
    happiness or a healthy marriage. You seem to be making the same mistake initially,
    you jumped into marriage with the person that helped you make good jamb grades. Now
    you are going into marriage with the person that helped you make money, de-ja-vu?
    You do not owe this man marriage at all. You can argue this but search your heart
    very well.

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    1. read well and digest before commenting trash.shes not marrying again!!!!!!!

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    2. @16:31
      Easy o
      No war is going on here
      She did say she is "in love" with her new man.
      Do you know what "being in love" means?

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    3. ANG doesn't read cos she is always in a hurry to pass judgement. You want make judgement escape assistant Jesus of sdk blog?

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    4. Lol @ escape assistant... hahahaha

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  14. This your story brings back lots of memories.


    Still waiting for my second chance and I hope to get it by God's grace.

    Do what makes you happy.

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  15. What are you collecting that's making you feel you've won? Money he owes you. Meanwhile, you married a paedophile who never loved you. If he ever had any love for you, he would have waited. He entered your life to downgrade you. And your family that gave you to him at that age, hmm.

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  16. You were so young and naive, if not you would have seen through him. For him to be collecting your savings shows that he's a gold digger. He knows you have a rich father and desperately wants to eat from him.

    I thank God you've grown wiser and better now. You're a strong woman and not all ladies will take this kind of step you took. Some will prefer to live with him and rather die in silence. Be safe and don't let yourself be bitten twice.

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  17. Nice story. Since you don't want to marry, why don't you stop fornication and be with your children.

    May God give you wisdom as you desire what you want in life.

    Goodluck as you start your journey

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    1. Daft comment

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    2. On the last day
      On the last day
      We go know the true believers
      🎡🎡🎢🎢🎡🎢🎢🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️🚢‍♀️

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  18. Don't really know why bad things happen to good people. It will definitely end in praise

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  19. I stopped reading Where you after 10 million. Can't be reading a nonsense story this hot afternoon.
    Mtchew 🚢

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    1. Very nonsensical and unbelievable story.

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    2. I hear you Don.
      Where did a Brid. Gen., get all that money from?

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  20. Wow,you are indeed a very strong lady. Achieving your goals after everything u passed through, More grease to your elbow.

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  21. Poster this your story get as I be. So around 2006,that is 13years ago when money had value your father brought out 5mil.Secondly how can someone with such status in the society like your father allow you to give money the second time to someone who already misused the first money. Thirdly, You scored high in jamb and still didn't go to school, Do pregnant people not go to university? . Lastly the boy was around 20_22 when he got you pregnant and they still gave him money to start up something. What happened to asking him what he wants and creating it for him. Next time you calculate before telling this kind of plot in Nollywood or zimbawood because the former no longer tell that kind of story. If you added up so we won't know you, be careful with the last guy i. e the divorced guy as well. They already know your weakness which companionship. My head is turning on it own.

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    1. Your head get oil. I swear, I don’t believe all this her story. The age and money calculation. No way!

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    2. Anon 15:51, of cos we all know she lies. Most scorned damaged women dream their revenge and actually believe it,including yours truly. I'm also an abandoned scorned, damaged, bitter woman. Sometimes, I act in my small world how my ex is suffering and I will later be soo rich and he will die in regrets, haahaahaahaaha. But I feel better after my day dreams,but deep down I know its for show,???. So, let's leave much investigations and help her mindset. To each, his own.

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    3. Sparkle your comment sha πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£

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    4. Not everyone is like you all . secondly poverty and stingyness will make y'all not believe her story! Poverty die! Die die

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    5. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚Sparkle oooo. Please you and that anonymous up there should leave me alone.

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  22. Kai! Why don't I believe this story. Maybe I no "jasi" shaa.

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  23. Collecting his money?
    Girl, you may feel it's your right abi payment for the money he wasted, but if care is not taken ehn, you're headed back there.
    Please don't make a demon of this new man in your life that helped you find your feet when your ex was being his skank self.
    That's how it starts, from I want to make ex suffer to forgetting what separated you in the first palace, then making excuses and ending up back in his arms.
    Then this new man becomes an advocate for women are scum after what he'd go through.
    Madam, if you reject the devil, reject all his gifts. Stay far from that man, collect nothing. Just write it off as lessons learnt.
    Face your new life oh.
    I've said my own.

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    1. Exactly, reject the devil and all his gifts. I almost made this mistake but God saved me from my self that day.
      My ex with don't burn the bridge..., we can still be friends..., ask me for anything..., I will help with your business... etc. And the next thing we are having dinner dates and occasional pop ups at my house. Of cos he knows the things I like. Attention, communication, companionship, great convo etc this guy knows me and I forgot. The next thing he is in my room on my bed and he didn't even kiss me, he didnt have to tbh. he just held me and that was it.
      Na when I no see condom my eye clear. I said no condom no show. He said he can go get one. I just got angry with myself and told him we shouldn't even be in this position in the first place. Then the truth came out, on how he patiently and systematically planned to walk his way back into my life. I was livid. He left my house that night but not without telling me that he is still not giving up. And that he has not loved again since we parted ways, this is 5yrs after we broke up. I have moved on, or so I thought until that night. Never again Satan!

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  24. poster you have plenty sense, do not ever go back to that fool. If you don't want to marry again just relax and take care of your children. Blow when you want to blow.

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  25. Instead of your father to lock up that paedophile, he sold you off at 5 million naira. So getting pregnant was enough reason to give you out to an idiot at 15? Just make sure to do better for your kids so they don’t end up like you.
    Also, you haven’t learnt anything and that 2 million naira gist is smelling. All the best though!

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  26. I'm glad you and your kids made it out alive. To God be the glory.

    So he gave you 2m ba? Okay. I think the balance should be: (5m+10m)-2m=13m abi?

    Please come and update us (me in particular) when you collect the balance. That man was an ungrateful, stupid ass!

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  27. Poster, make sure you gradually collect the 15million naira back

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  28. This story sweet πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  29. Make I send this story to my sister,this story sounds familiar.

    M******** from CDSS Ikeja,is that you?
    I fear social media o,if it is the same person I think it is,then you lie.everybody knew you were sleeping with this boy from JSS1

    No need to judge,let me forward the link to my sisterπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. You’re so stupid, see what is exciting you. People that always think they have the gist won’t let us hear word

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  30. Sounds like fiction

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  31. Success is the best revenge

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  32. This story get as e be lol.

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  33. Please stop collecting money from him. Open an account for your kids that he can send upkeep through to them. Maintain your dignity and self respect. And besides not all money that person suppose chop some dey purge belle if you get what I mean.
    Besides collecting money from ex is disrespectful to your current man.
    And my prayer for every woman who has at one point gone through hell in the hand of any man is that may our ex's be the ones to need us not the other way around. May we not seek help from our ex's in jesus name. Amen.
    My rich ex once told me to keep in touch that I might need him, I said keep in touch you will definitely be the one to need me. Wealth is not gender selective. God blesses all his children.
    Writer thank God for your life but be careful of a past that can ruin future.

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  34. Where is the lesson you want us to learn from?
    Secondly why is he trying to win you back when he is married now?

    Whatever gives you peace of mind 🧘‍♀️

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  35. Serves him right... silly man.

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  36. This story is somehow. I do not understand how a General in our own Nigerian Army, will let his fifteen year old daughter get married just like that. Not in this country with our over aggressive and over zealous military people. Dem for don beat the living daylight out of that guy.Besides, fear for nor let the guy abuse the girl too and waste a Generals money.

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  37. amazed at your ignorance in this blog abi na poverty mentality, don't know abut the story being true or not, I come from a military background, you see that money up ther? is peanuts for bri-general even at 2006.the general caught with 400million is what rank again?

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    1. I know l am ignorant because the ones in my family, did not steal and could not afford to give one child that amount of money. How much is their pay?

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  38. Naaaa I don't believe this story.

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  39. I don't understand. People like super stories like this because it reminds them of Nollywood trash they watch on TV. I don't see anything to learn from your story. You made silly mistakes and I hope you've learned from them. I don't see where you wrote that.

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  40. Sparkles.... Sending u love and light ....your comment is so sad. In fact that ur short comment up there is tragic. It hit me hard.please pick up the pieces of whatever is left of u, and just move on. Don't let your past define your future.Be of good cheer, Christ overcame all situations, including whatever ur ex put you through....no matter how long it takes, please renew ur mind daily and walk in the consciousness of the victory Christ got for you, and one day ul realise Ure not bitter, scorned or damaged anymore, Because Christ has fixed you. Please, Instead of daydreaming about your ex and him going through pain, take ur burdens daily to the Lord and learn to leave it there. I'll pray for you tonight. Love you with the love of the Lord.cheers....

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  41. Hmmm... the devil positioned a wrong decision to destroy you. But God showed you mercy.

    #IMO you were both young and without proper guidance - I mean, who takes money from a child, impregnates and marries her as a 15 y/o. Many older wives wont tell you the B.S. their husbands put them through when they were younger. I think you should give him another chance.

    In the end, it depends on you. Stay happy!!

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    1. Chikito, is this you???
      Give him another chance??????
      Wow!!!

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  42. Read your story and started crying, I dont even know if this marriage thing is destroying women or making us better. Am glad you were able to survive it all. Keep collecting the money, but stay very far from him, such men can kill.

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  43. It's your pension sister, collect it. Some tines when our parents object we should sit back and think

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  44. my dear not all are lucky God gave you a second chance use it wisely

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