In her words:
"Love Letter to myself
Hey Queen, glad your well. I don’t need to ask how you are because I know you are Gods Child which means you are always abundantly accounted for IJN. . I want to simply remind you of your achievements and your worth and all the positivity that runs through you. Nothing great is easy and I want to thank God for saving your life. The last year especially. I’m just glad that you have transitioned from not understanding why you are alive to simply being someone appreciates every second of life has.
I want to apologise profusely, for not always taking a chance on you. For allowing you to empty yourself to fill every vessel and leave yourself empty. You did not deserve that treatment from me. I did not value you, I doubted you, I denied you, I stifled and buried the essence of who you are and made so many excuses for doing it. I have learned and realized how wrong I was. Venita you are enough and in fact you have always exceeded all that was ever required of you. You are a winner, and I’m prepared to stand behind you for the REST of your days as best as I can.
I’m not saying I’m perfect but I will always give you my best. You deserve it and more. For every time you feel alone, or discarded or insignificant or simply empty....I WILL LOVE YOU THROUGH IT! God will LOVE you through it. Don’t expend energy towards negativity, that is not your path. You are human, forgive yourself often enough and know that even at your worst, someone still sees you as their best.
Unconditionally yours
A woman in healing.
My second favorite image of all time.."
Unconditionally yours
A woman in healing.
My second favorite image of all time.."
A woman that offloaded
ReplyDeleteIf only she knows how much I love her.
DeleteI love her so much too. My favorites in bbn 2019 were Avala,isilomo (even though they didn’t last but I was rooting for them in the beginning) venita and mercy.
DeleteAya.learn to forgive your mistakes and move on
ReplyDeletewow am touched..I am happy she was able to pick up her pieces and move on..At least she is not riding on the domestic violence stuff..God continue to guide and guard you all the way...
ReplyDeleteGod bless Venita... More Grace darlington...
DeleteI liked her in the house. I wish she will get some endorsements.
ReplyDeleteI pray she does.
DeleteSo glad she went for bbn. People lamented on how a Mom would come for such a show and I say, Why TH not?
ReplyDeleteI pray this takes her career to a whole new level. She needs the breakthrough.
As in..honestly why not. Instead of usimg the pity-me narrative she's out working. Very brilliant and hands-on lady with many talents. Thumbs up Venita!
DeleteBeautiful..This Letter just Teared me up and I'm still in tears.. it just inspires me too.. Thank you Venita..
ReplyDeleteVenita I wish you'd stop back biting you betray people and it's not nice once the people you roll with are going broke you distance yourself from them and worst till gossip about them it's not nice.
ReplyDeleteShut up!
DeletePerfecto
You people cover bad character with 'nobody is perfect'. Rubbish.
Delete15:03 you be the reason for your own doom if you do not take corrections!
DeleteI pray God heal you completely. May endorsements fall on you dear.
ReplyDeletemore grace babe.
ReplyDeleteNaija Go better abeg
ReplyDeleteNo one will ever love you, like yourself.
ReplyDeleteLike in the case of rescue, the rule is, be very sure you are safe first, before you attempt to save anyone else.
Despite my awakening to this fact, l am still selfless, because l love people.