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Thursday, November 28, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative ...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSED WOMAN


Dear Madam Stella


A big thank you, Your blog has thought me so many things pertaining to life. May God continue to increase you in all ramifications. Ever since I got introduced to this blog by a colleague of mine in 2013,it has been wonderful.my day is incomplete without going through SDK.


To my Honorable BV’s, who have made this place a fun house,“Una too much” Thanks for always making my day.(Abeg na advice I need for this chronicle,no be curse,Na me- your fellow BV Dey talk ๐Ÿ˜.


Now let’s get down to the main gist. It’s going to be a long read but please bear with me,I’m not very good at summarizing stuff. This gist involves 3 different men.(Kelvin,Greg and Steve)



Years ago, I met this guy in school, let’s call him kelvin.he was in his final year while I was in 300level.we dated for close to 5 years. He was so possessive of me to the extent,that he doesn’t even want my friends around me,because he feels they are of bad influence to me,of which they are not.


He beats me,say some hurtful words to me.

We finally parted ways because I couldn’t contain his character.which he’s regretting till tomorrow.there was also trust issues.


Funny enough,I’m this nice,church going and humble girl who cannot date two guys at a time. I’m loyal to the core when It comes to relationship..


I finally graduated after him,got a banking job as a marketer in another state. all hell broke loose.he tried by all means to stop me from taking the job offer because of his selfish reasons but I refused and stood my ground. I acceptted the job offer and moved to my new location.That was the beginning that led to our break up.


Kelvin will travel down from his base to mine unannounced,simply because he feel or think I might be with another man (Remember I said earlier that-there was trust issue)I got tired of his attitude that I had to let go.


After 10 months,I lost my job because I couldn’t meet up with the targets demand. During this time,I’ve already broken up with kelvin.


I relocated to Lagos in search of a new job and was lucky to have gotten one.


Now to the second phase, I met Greg during the course of my job. The first time I met him was the very day he proposed marriage to me. Until now I still wonder how it happened. I was never desperate to get married.He was living in South Africa while I was in Nigeria.we only met thrice before we got married and the marriage parked up after few months.

This guy is a package of lies.he painted a picture of him so well that he made Me believe all was real. I never knew that he was after what he can get from me. Initially I saw the red flag the first time he asked me for money.


Generally When it comes to money in relationship,like the guy asking me for money, my love no dey reach there o. Except I want to willingly or freely give it to you or buy stuffs for u without you asking.Greg started asking me for cash that he wants to use it to complete a part of his house which got demolished. I refused. 

He tried to play a fast one on me because I already told him my total take home pay and the total balance in my account.(I told him because he asked for it and I felt,I should be very open to a man I’m getting married to)


I took in the 2rd time I visited Greg.I was so ashamed of myself,like what will my family and people around me say? That innocent girl.so she was just pretending to be a good girl bla bla bla.


We got married,I resigned from my job,relocated to South Africa.we stayed together for few months and discovered that we were not compatible so we went our separate ways.too much emotional,verbal and physical abuse. Greg will call me names ,say things like- See you ,you are not even my class. I’ve dated so many high class girls. You are not even wise. You are this,you are that e.t.c. I went through pain in the hands of Greg. So many things I can’t type now.

I gave birth to my lovely son after 9 months of jumping from one house to another,looking for where to hide my shame when I left Greg’s house.


Also, thank God for the multi international company i worked for.while this truama was going on.the company called me that they are planning to open a branch in South Africa and they would like me to head the branch and team and they re-employed me as their staff. I tried to push this jobless Greg into the company but he was not so adamant to work.
3 months after,my company closed down for some reasons.sacked everyone and left me as their employee.I cried hell.the reason for my tears was,after the effort I put,with Greg stressing me out not to do the job.


My boss who I remained grateful to,asked me to say what I want,if I will like to come back to Nigeria to work? I told him no that I will like to work in one of our branch Canada.the reason why I chose this option is because I needed to go far away from this thing called marriage.i needed peace of mind .that was how it was approved,all trip paid for by my company with accommodation for 1 months before I settle in. I took my son who is 7 years now to my mum and traveled to Canada.


Third phase, Two years after,My son joined me.


I met Steve in Canada .Steve is my best friend till date.steve prosposed to me after 4 years of just friends and I accepted his proposal.Steve takes care of my son like his.(He is also a single dad) My son calls him dad. Steve is such an humble guy. He loves me so much like he said.he respects me,threats me like an angel ,listens to me,shares ideas with me,we make decisions together. He is 34 years old while I’m 38 years old. His working but I earn 10 times more than him. I’m still in doubt if he truly loves me or he’s with me because I’m comfortable and to some extent I lack nothing. Though he doesn’t ask me for cash.once in awhile I do things for him that he least expected.


Another issue I have with Steve is our s#x life. When it comes to banging,he’s a 2mins guy. Most times he feels so bad immediately he ejaculates. I’ve told him we will go and see a doctor which he agreed. He can smooch for like 10mins but immediately he inserts the rode is phammm. I’m ready to assist him get through this even if by tomorrow we ended up not married.


Kelvin who is now based in US contacted me again,got my international number and we reconnected.Seriously I won’t lie I still love kelvin.i used to tell Greg stuffs about Kelvin while we were just friends .


After few months,kelvin called me to informed me that he’s getting married. I was so shocked. Then I blocked him on all angle except my official number. I didn’t know he had it when we reconnected . He sent me messages asking why I blocked him? That is not what I think and I told him plainly that now that he’s married I don’t think we should be in touch anymore.once in a while he will send messages. He’s wife gave birth to his first son then second (2kids)


Since Two months ago,Kelvin has been on my neck,begging for us to come back that he got married to the lady because he needed to get his stay. That I should please forgive him for everything he has done to me.that he’s a changed person now.asking his siblings to plead with me. That I should have coded that it wasn’t real,that he gave me a clue and he thought I understood.


Stella and Bv I can’t seem to take this boy kelvin off my mind. Please advice me on how I should go about this? Should I remain with Greg or go for kelvin. I just tire jarry


Sorry for the long episodes.


 

147 comments:

  1. I felt that slap๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    1. You're really don't know what you want in life. Stick to the current guy that loves and cherish you. Let your past be gone with 2019.
      How can your heart long for someone that treated you like a thrash? Madam get your self esteem from wherever you've drop it and keep it moving kiakia.

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    2. Lols stella this your slap ehnn๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
      Poster, please stay away from both, Kelvin and Steve. Thank you

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    3. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    4. The possessive and abusive Kelvin?please go back to him because we don't want our chronicles pot empty.se dandan loko Ni?

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    5. Madam the slap has said it all,BC u begged not to be insulted let me respect it but you need that slap again and again.metchewee

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    6. I hope the slap resets your brain dear poster.

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    7. madam if not that you mentioned your age i would have thought you are a teenager, what is it that interest you so much in an abuser? Please stay away from that man

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    8. Madam at 38 you want to complicate your life. kelvin a married man with 2kids that use to even beat you, you need that slap Stella gave you. The wife is just for papers yet he got her pregnant 2times. is that how they do to get papers ?
      You better stay with the one giving you peace and is a good father to your son. Help him through the 2mins issues. And forget him not earning well, afterall you earn pretty well. Things will still pick up for him, he is just 34. A word is enuf for the wise. Stay with the man that treats u well.

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    9. @poster, only very few people earn at least $140 an hour and assuming Steve is earning the minimum wage of $14, you are insinuating that you make $140 an hour??? Lol, not in Canada my dear and definitely not with your very limited education going by your grammar up there ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†

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    10. Stella this your slap is really what she needs right now to reset her brain. Is marriage all about sex? A nice guy who is willing to change and work on himself for you, you are leaving him for a guy that treated you like shit before? Men don't change. He will just use you as the side chick and be enjoying his wife.

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    11. Poster I will advise you to stay with Greg, you can take him to the hospital so as to get his other room game improve. Just relax. It will definitely end in praise

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    12. Stella thanks. She needed that reset!!!

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    13. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ That Slap na wetin fit you! An abusive man will always remain abusive. Lover girl!

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    14. You never see husband o
      Be wise woman!
      The broke one wey be 2min noodles go dump you when things pick up for am or after he marry you, begin use your money on gehs

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    15. Thank you Stella of life
      ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    16. Poster you got Steve mixed up as Greg your ex-husband in your last paragraph.

      Please, accept this in good faith - you are quite foolish at 38 and with your experience.
      Better stay single and "grow up first."
      While you are at it, stop claiming you are a good church girl because you engage in premarital sex.

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  2. U can't take the sex off your mind you mean. At 38 ,you're still as confused as 14year old. Let me leave u to bvs, cus,sorry to be rude, your chronicle is smelling.

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    1. This girl is as confused as the word itself.
      Omo, wetin sex no go cause for naija.

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  3. Hehehehe @ stella's reply.๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  4. I don't know what to advise you with, but I'm very sure if you marry Kelvin you will still divorce and for the Greg, I don't trust him too




    *Larry was here*

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    1. You mean Steve๐Ÿ˜‰

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    2. She called him Steve all through then got to the end and started calling him Greg. Now I believe she is really confused. Close your eyes and pick one๐Ÿšถ‍♂️

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    3. 15:28 Steve and Greg are two different characters in the Chronicle. Did you even read it?

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    4. I should be asking you if you really read it @perxian. Go back there and see the mistake she made at the end which I was obviously referring to. She talked about Steve being a good man then ended it with, "should I remain with Greg( she is currently with Steve mind you) or go with Kelvin?" That was what I pointed out. Even others pointed the mistake below.

      If not that I like you ehn? And I am one of those Anonymous who normally fight those who dare to troll you. Perxian baibay don't let me vex for you ooo.

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    5. Yes Perxian but at the end of her chronicles when she was asking if she should pick between Kelvin and Steve she mistakenly wrote Greg.
      Poster is as confused asf. That stell's slap should help reset your brain.

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    6. @Perxian Anon 15:28 is actually correct,kindly read last part of the chronicle again...the poster is confused really.

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    7. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ Don't vex, anon baibay.

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    8. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜…@ perxy๐Ÿค—

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  5. See me as i just dey laugh because of this E SLAP. you deserve that slap a resounding one even...imagine "Stella and Bv I can’t seem to take this boy kelvin off my mind. Please advice me on how I should go about this? Should I remain with Greg or go for kelvin. I just tire jarry" yeye

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  6. Stella these your slap can blind someone oo

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  7. Poster:"Sorry for the long episodes.
    Me: Sorry for yourself ๐Ÿšถ‍♂️

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    1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 November 2019 at 16:05

      Hahahahahahhahahaha, I never predicted the chronicle until I got to the end, madame abeg take back your sorry we no want . we women are the cause of our problems, this one na broad day light gbasgbos you want enter so and to think that you are dreaming heavenly on it Chaaaaaaaaaaai!

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  8. You seem to think that you can’t survive without a man. You are clingy and at 38 should be wiser from all your experiences. You mentioned up there that Kelvin used to beat you and was possessive but here you are in 2019 after many heartaches asking if you should go back.

    The thing about women in “lust” is that no matter what we say today you’d still do what you want which is to have Kelvin in between your legs again. All this story of the nice guy who is two mins is just to make it juicer. I just want to know that you are taking proper care of your son because God has blessed you with a job that pays you well.

    You are enough, stop seeking for validation from men. I don’t know what it is with women and men who treat them badly. Kelvin is bad for you but I’m sure you know this very well but his joystick is too sweet for you to let until he completely ruins your life. God keeps saving you from him but you keep going back. You knew Steve was younger and earned less yet you went into a relationship with you. Tomorrow if your ex husband comes back begging you’d be back to square one. Woman, marriage is not for everyone, stop poking around for what isn’t lost. Take care of your son, enjoy your life and take Kelvin out of the equation. He hasn’t changed, he is still a lazy ass who lives off women. Aren’t you ashamed to admit that you love a man who was bad to you and married another woman for “stay”? What more do you need to tell you he is bad for you? Anyway, do what is best for you but just know that Kelvin is bad luck.

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    1. Well said dopel

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    2. As in. I don’t understand what else we are suppose to tell this poster. After all the hailing’s and all the bs this is what you served us with?
      Babe you shouldn’t even ask this question.
      I’m embarrassed on your behalf

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    3. As in. I don’t understand what else we are suppose to tell this poster. After all the hailing’s and all the bs this is what you served us with?
      Babe you shouldn’t even ask this question.
      I’m embarrassed on your behalf

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  9. Just collect Stella's slap leave with your confusion. Na you leave Kelvin because he's abusive now you still want to go back to your abuser. Are you mad? That's not an insult but a question ooo

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    1. And I am sure that question came from a place of love๐Ÿ˜€

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  10. 38 yrs old and still no sense..

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    1. Both guys are not for you.. keep moving,your man shall soon get to you.

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  11. that slap that Stella gave you is the best of all the best.

    If after all you went through in the hands of three men and at this point you still cannot make up your mind then i cannot say anything. I feel by now you should have reset your brain to know what is best for you.
    I will be reading comments. Thank you.

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  12. Your chronicle is not complete..

    Why should you put fish on top of the fridge for rat to eat? Ehn.. Pure fish..๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค

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  13. Dear poster it's best you follow your heart. But don't follow your heart to where there is complications ooo. And beware of those that come saying they bring change or they have changed. For me forget kelvin and move on,it's only a dog that eats it's vomits.

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    1. And look at how you can fix it with Greg and if greg has a child with another woman please do move on

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  14. Hahhaahhahahahahahahahahaha.... STELLA YOU ARE A CASE! MY 1YEAR AND SIX MONTH SON BE LOOKING AT ME LIKE "MAMA, HOPE ALL IS WELL"? THE SLAP GOT ME ROLLING...

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  15. You say make we no curse you so make I no type wetin dey my mind. Hanty, receive sense in Jesus name Amen

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    1. Rules were made to be broken ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

      Kelvin, Steve, Greg are enjoying the life of their head on top Aunty wey ni wise.

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  16. A man worships the ground you walk on. He is good to you and accepts your kid as his and u are still dying for the one you will never have. Be guided! Don't be stupid plz

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    1. your head is correct

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    2. Neither of them is best for her, to be honest.

      Steve is too good for her
      Kelvin is a danger to her

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  17. This is the most stupid chronicles I’ve read, so at this stage in life men seem to be the most important thing to you. Smdh

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  18. You still love Kelivin? ๐Ÿ˜ฒ
    You are asking if you should go back to same man who treated you like trash?
    That guy is a user, selfish and wicked man.
    Is kelvin not married? What do you want with a married man?
    Whether he did it to get his papers or whatever, he is a a very married man and you should stay off.
    He’s succeeded in brainwashing you that he still loves you. You believe him?
    Do you know what he is telling his wife about you?
    Even if he was single, I won’t advice you to go back to him cos clearly you guys are not compatible. How can you even think of going back to such a man? Are you so desperate you can’t get someone else? Where’s your self esteem?
    Steve is even a better choice, only that he doesn’t last long in bed....that can be worked on, unfortunately, you don’t even love kelvin.
    Please leave kelvin if you can’t be loyal to him and stay single, get a fuck buddy instead.
    You don’t know what you want and you will messing yourself and emotions up. Take a break!!!


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    1. *please leave Steve if you can’t be loyal to him.
      *You will end up messing yourself......

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  19. Kelvin is married, leave him alone and face Steve

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  20. this woman is very stupid oooh ok go back to kelvin foolish girl

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  21. Madam confusion, I thought you said you and Greg are no longer an item? Which one is should you remain with Greg or do you mean Steve?

    I thought people don't go back to their vomit but this your chronicle weak me. May be God gives some people money and remove all their senses...chai...and I guess you're beautiful too. If you like go back to your Kelvin so that in few days time you'll run back writing endless chronicles. That slap from Stella is to reset your medulla and I hope it does.

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  22. Stella please give her another resetting slap...What are you saying?? You dont love Kelvin, repeat after me ''I dont love Kelvin''.. I believe you just miss the way he fucks you thats all...Steve is your better option for now...Please always follow love that reciprocates...All the best...

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    1. I hope she repeats after you๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

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    2. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 November 2019 at 16:09

      Wetin f*ck go do some people eeeehn , them go endure all forms of violence rather to be
      mature and save their head

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  23. Poster, my advice to you is to be with Steve since you are willing to stay with him while he sort medical help for his 2mins ejaculation. Forget about Kelvin biko

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  24. Stella, Why e come be dude you land slap for im face? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

    Nne, you are just a serial supplier of
    fork -period.
    You have not learnt anything at all.
    Even after all the shame in Naija and S/Africa, you went to Canada and
    immediately began supplying fork to
    "2 min. man?" ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Wawu! Okwa ajuju oo
    Why are my friends -Naija girls this
    fork-crazy bikonu eh?
    Can't ya legs close till a man pays bride price????
    Bikonu zaa nu m ajuju oo -make una answer my questions o.
    All that you've learnt hasn't "thought" [sic] you to close your legs and respect your dignity as a lady?
    Well, all I can tell you is that you have strayed far away from God who has been so kind to you (if you ever knew her as innocent as you told us).
    Get back to God and do not be deceived to think that financial security is godliness because it is not.
    If Jesus is not your Lord and you do not read his teachings in the New Testament, you aren't going to stop
    making this mistakes and be confused.
    You need to know what love is in the
    first place.
    Please you do not need a Kevin in your life. He hasn't changed one bit. He is
    stringing another lady along just to "get papers" and is breeding kids.
    ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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    1. Supplying fork to 2 min man got me rolling on the floor.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. @Mystery woman
      Any supply of fork(nication) whether to 2 minutes or 2 hours man is wrong.
      It is a sin before God; an abuse of the human being.

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  25. 1. A possessive guy will always be possessive no matter how hard he trys to....

    2. Stay very alert with Steve he might just be playing safe till he gets over comfortable.

    3. I don't see you ending up with any of those guys.

    What you have for Kelvin isn't love think deep and search well you will know it is not.

    And always remember once bitten twice shy.

    Ire o

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    1. Thank you. That Melvin should never be mentioned. And Steve should not be trusted. I wonder why she is sleeping with him outside wedlock though. She I s38 and needs to get serious if what she wants is marriage. Go to God, stop fornicating and don't bring different men around your son. Rededicate your life to God and focus on him and your okid while having a social life. Be it church or events where you meet more people and high achievers. Set a standard for yourself about the kind of man you want and work towards it. It appears you just accept any man that throws himself at you without praying first or setting a reasonable criteria. If not why marry Greg, a goldigger, why thinking of going back to Kelvin, an abuser,why in a relationship with your bestfriend, whom from your write up shows you don't really have any feelings for? Is it that men of high caliber hardly ask you out, or you don't have the slightest idea of what quality trips you in a man. At this age of yours you should know what you really want when it comes to a man.

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  26. hahahahahahah..poster stella has summarized every answer that should be given to you but..please weigh your options kelvin is a no no,Greg nko mba..what about Steve have you examined him well.. Okafor's law is about to happen between you and kelvin

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  27. Stella thank you for that slap jare, that's what she need right now. Let me tell you if you go back 2 that Kelvin of yours you gonna regret it

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    1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 November 2019 at 16:11

      Madame poster please for the sake of your son don't go back to kelvin oooo!

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  28. This one weak meooooh,when a woman is in love,no matter the level of advice you dish out to her,she will never heed to it until when her eyes clears,poster you are so in love with this Kelvin guy so no matter the advice u recieve here u will still not take it.kelvin that abuses u physically and emotionally,on top that he is married and u still want to put your head nawaoooh.

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  29. Thank you Stella. The slap said it all

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    1. She deserves the slap. If I were your friend, I will give so many pieces of my mind then ghost you. Seriously, do you realize you are now a mother? Are you even considering how that man will treat your son? Are you aware he is coming back because of your financial status? Finally, are you that broken inside that you live and breath ABUSE ?

      Please leave the single father to find a suitable wife and mother for his kid(s) because you are just a ticking time bomb for his quiet and peaceful life. YOU DONT DESERVE SUCH A FINE SOUL. GO BE WITH THE ABUSER(s).

      I so hate you right now for even have considered given him a chance. YOU! You gave him your number, no one else did. It is you. You searched him out on SM. Mschewww!

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  30. That slap aunty Stella gave you is too small. If na me slap you, you go see 1 million stars at once.

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  31. Did it ever occur to you that Steve being your best friend already has you where he wants you? He already knows everything about you till the last details and by now knows what to say or how to behave to get you where he wants you. He knows your financial worthy and may not be what he protrays himself to be.

    I am really sceptical about him because God saved me from such situations twice. The first guy approached me and was after me for some months, at that point I felt he had to be serious, but I was wrong. I don't know why I look wealthy and buttered though I am from a humble home. When he figured it out from the phone I used and the clothes I wore, he stopped showing interest and even asked where we lived I showed him and the next thing he asked was" all of you, including your parent? Like I was supposed to live in a big flat alone.

    The second one was professing love, just as I was about to believe him. He started asking how much my salary was and the job my parent has and if I could send him to america, he went as far as asking if I had an america passport. Since then I don't value not trust men I am wealthier than. All those experiences taught me a lot. About kelvin, stella already replied you okay? Gently scroll up. You should be fine.

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    1. *nor trust men I am wealthier than*

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  32. Woman thou art loose,u deserve more than the e-slap,don't worry o, just go back to Kelvin as him Sabi wella and we ll be expecting your dosmetic violence story, you don't even love yourself...Ode oshi

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  33. Lol.. I burst out laughing at the sight of that slap. ma'am, you need another brain resetting slap. Go back to who? The insecure liar? Do yourself a favor and block him permanently. Face you son & your career. You don't need a man who will bring you down again. Haven't you learnt your lessons??

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  34. From your write up and options, you dont have all the luck in the world with men. U better stay with the last guy as long as he gives u peace of mind. You have been married before..the last thing u want is to be a 2nd time divorcee. Na to wash ur head go remain. Good luck and keep us posted. My own stella..love you o
    Diasporianchick

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    1. She doesn't have luck with them, because she doesn't even know what she wants. When a guy shows interest it seems she just jumps on him whether he is good for her or not, whether she loves him or not. She doesn't have any standard set for herself concerning the kind of man she wants.

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  35. I hope that hot slap Stella gave you resets your memory.

    I honestly think that you've not learnt a thing from all you claimed to have been through.
    If Steve doesn't satisfy you sexually,why not take a long work from him?
    What attracts you to Kelvin after all you claimed he did to you?
    For crying out loud,Kelvin is married.Forget about the wrong or right reasons he tells you.He now has a family of his own.
    He knows you're very gullible that is why he keeps tickling your mumu botton to get you into his acts again.
    Open your head and reason practically and see the impending danger you're putting yourself and your son into.

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  36. Lol,thunderous slap...that pic up there is an advice really.

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  37. Don't settle.

    What you feel for Steve is pity love and that's not enough because he is lacking in the sex department and now have you thinking about the abuser Kelvin who can blow your back out.

    You will still meet someone if either of them don't tick most of your boxes..just don't settle, sis.

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  38. You meant to type remain with steve? As they always say.. Follow your heart.

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  39. u know slap am well,turn d other side,then land am again.... nonsense and ingredients

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  40. Stella well done ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ˜‚.

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  41. @poster, remain with the Steve. He seems to be a nice guy. If you go back to Steve, he will be the same person and will take advantage of your situation. Work with Steve to solve his problem. Also when you guys are having sex, do lots of foreplay, also when he gets into you, he can take breaks in between and do some more foreplay in order not to ejaculate fast. We can only say what we think is best for you but you have the final say.Use your head and think of your happiness in the long run.

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  42. I don't understand you, I thought you are with Steve now, which one is choosing between Kelvin and Greg.
    Anyway, there is no better advice to give you than what Stella gave you up there. Madam be wise!

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  43. In 2 years you'll turn 40, I doubt if you want to be a fool at 40. They say never go back to your vomit, block that stupid guy from your life madam and please move forward . If you're not happy with your current boyfriend , break up and look for a new guy but please don't go back to your ex. If I were you, a man who loves my child and treats him right will be my priority.

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  44. Seriously, after all you have been through, you still need someone to remind you of your self worth. Kelvin..really? is that the best you can do for yourself after all these years. please borrow yourself some brains and be good to yourself and your son whom you are about to put through another round of hell by reconnecting with kelvin.. i will rather you remain single if you are not sure of steve than loose your peace of mind.

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  45. Stella you don't need to talk too much. That slap is everything.

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  46. You cannot get Kelvin off your mind? Another woman's husband. Na wa for you o, by now I feel you should have been a wise person in regards to relationship BUT NO, you are still same. Do not give Kelvin any chance again, let him be, please. He doesn't have any positive thing to offer you, he is just trying to see if you will still fall for him, a married man should be a NO even if he divorces his wife Kelvin is not a good guy, tell him to stop calling you and stop taking his calls. It seems SEX with him is great, that is why you still have him in mind, forget him. As for Greg,let him work on his two minutes timing BUT you don't have to settle with him, reject every form of marriage talks with him. Whenever you are ready for marriage, Pray very well about it, a new man will be best for you. Make sure that you save very well in separate accounts back home and your Child should be your Next- of- Kin, do not allow any man get to your head to the extent of you forgetting your Son, please.
    Forget Kelvin and friend zone Greg. Best of luck.

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    1. Friend zone Steve.
      What do you really want in a man?? You deserve better than Steve, Kelvin or Greg. Work in yourself , stay off every form of romantic relationship for a while.

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  47. Stella thanks for that slap because that's what she deserves. You are contemplating leaving a man that loves you for a man that is so insecure just because of sex. Don't even try going back to that Kelvin of a guy because you will so regret doing so.

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  48. Madam I think you're the architect of your problems. Receive that Stella's resetting slap and thank her later. Inukwa akiko.

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  49. All this Bvs coming here to insult this lady don't you people have respect and shame. May you have all have common sense in Jesus name Amen. A woman that is confused with love is asking for your advice and not insults if you have nothing to say please read and move on.

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  50. Stella that your slap no reachoo, I join the hands of those hausa soldiers wen dey maiduguri slap mumu commot from your eye!!! Please buy dildo and fuck your Toto scatter instead of going back to that your vomit called Kelvin! Honestly I don't know why some women reason more with their pussy instead of their head! Dear poster God finally blessed you with a good man but the slut in you want to destroy it. Now I know why many guys don't take some baby mamas and divorcee serious!

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  51. Madam them swear for u from your village? You still wanna be with an abusive man. Despite the advice you will get here i am so sure you will still go ahead with Kelvin.

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  52. #i stand with Stella's slap

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  53. let me get this straight, kelvin that used to beat you, the insecure one that didnt like you associating with people(remember you now have a son), kelvin that comes to your house un announced hoping to catch you with another man.........omg, did you say youve been a bv since 2013, you passed through this blog and refuse to allow the blog pass through you and you said we should not abuse you. You are never going to learn. i have no advice for you. OPEN YOUR EYES VERY WELL, GO BACK AND READ WHAT YOU WROTE AND ADVISE YOURSELF. Thank you for the slap stella!

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    1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 November 2019 at 19:44

      Nna meeeeehn the thing tire me o, see old BV of 2013 even had the mouth to confess that she has been following up steadily, kai , poster just fall our hand no be small.

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  54. I'm sure confusion would be surprised at you.

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  55. Stella, that slap is the most appropriate response to this chronicle!

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  56. Na wa...o God blessed you with a great Job,please live your life and take care of your son.Haba!!!Leave all these men will cause havoc in your life

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  57. ANTY STELLA THANK YOU FOR THE SLAP

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  58. What advice do you want from us again when you have already made up ur mind to go back to Kelvin the Woman beater? Suit youself biko.... Just do whatever makes you happy.

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  59. Ma'am get hold of yourself you are no longer a kid. Upon all the good girl see the men you settled for. please don't go back to kelvin or marry this present guy if you cannot cope with the 2 min sex.

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  60. poster your brain the touch..
    Stella thank you for that slap.

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  61. What a sl a p sdk slap her toto join idiot u don't need advise

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  62. Listen the kelvin in america will use your money to pay child support for his kids with the america wife if they divirce because he married her fir his papers shine your eyes.

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  63. Hahaha, I can understand why you're considering Kelvin's gbola not minding the reasons why you broke up initially, it's what a zero second dick can cause, it will send you running back to your worst enemy. So sorry...see it's really tempting but get Kelvin off your list, it won't end well, then work it out medically with your new guy and be patient, look for other ways to get sexual fulfillment so you don't go crazy with want. If it doesn't work out, break up and move on, don't be too hard on yourself.

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  64. I follow you confuse my sister.
    Wait, but I thought you wrote that Kelvin used to beat you?

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  65. Poster, be satisfied with Steve for now and if he is a 2mins man like you claimed, encourage him to wash your plate Wella before the do, that way you will be sexually satisfied. Please don't go back to Kelvin, he is bad news

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  66. Stella reply with slap landing on someone face is damn funny to me! lmao

    All i'll say is going back to Kelvin is a bad idea, kindly remember the reasons why you left him in the first place. The marriage is for him to get acquire his stay in US and the wife popped baby 1 and baby 2. BLOCK KELVIN ON ALL SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORM... If i'll choose, i will just opt for Greg, but then you are not so sure if he's sincerely with you because of love or because of what he can get from you, give it more time, his real intentions will show.

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  67. This one is senseless sha, continue parting your legs open like the red sea. Follow kelvin already why are you asking us. Mu raise to power 2.

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  68. You've still not learnt your lessons. He married her for papers, yet he has two kids with her. Your still confused when it comes to making choices(men).

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  69. @ poster look at Stella's slap and read meaning to the message behind

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  70. Most women with their fish brain, you mean you are still considering kelvin after what you went through and the fact that he is married with not just one kid but two.

    Woman what is wrong with you, dont you want to be happy in your life? I have nothing to advise you cause you know the better guy.

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  71. For real? A woman who says she reads this blog is asking this kind of question and at 38? Madam, which part of this blog do you read? Or you just read the Saturday and Sunday laughs?

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    1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 November 2019 at 19:46

      Yes oo she only reads Sunday and Saturday's laugh Lol.

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  72. Put the third through a test if he is after Ur money or not.its better for a man to love you more than you love him.

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  73. Poster are you saying you want to go back to Greg, the SA guy and father of your kid, I thought you are in Canada with Steve. So you are confused on whom to pick between Greg and kelvin. So what then happens to the guy in Canada Steve? . Hian
    Anyway forget that kelvin guy, you will regret it again.

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    1. I think she wanted to write if she should stay with Steve in Canada and mistakenly wrote Greg. Kelvin has entered her head that she can't think straight again. Na to dey confuse blog visitors with their names come remain.

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  74. can i ask you a,question pls?


    DID YOU SLIM FIT YOUR SENSE OF BELONGINGS NI OR WHAT?

    pls answer my innocent question

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  75. I just wasted my time reading this bull shit. Poster you're very stupid and senseless. I thought you said you have learnt something here but it's gout no sense
    Idiot.

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  76. You don't love Kelvin. You have Stockholm syndrome and you are adficted to being abused. Use your money to go and see a therapist and work on your self esteem. Both men are not good for you in very different ways

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  77. Ma'am you really don't know what you want, at 38 u're still this confused? Stay off men and take time to think.

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  78. From another angle... Are u sure the 2mins man is not gay? Protect your son please....

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  79. Hehehehe Stella abeg this slap is importanter.. Kai u just made my day

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  80. All these women judging a fellow woman,you all are the same abeg....Everything is the power of PRICK,please raise up your hand if you don’t like a proper FUCK.

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  81. To whom brain is given sense is expected. Poster how can you consider going back to an abuser who's only coming back to your life to destroy it? Well if you decide to go back to Kevin then receive grace to suffer.

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  82. Darling, I had to go back and read your narrative again because the question you asked at the end seems incongruous with what I just read, so I had to read it again. However for the avoidance of doubt, perhaps I may be the one getting it wrong. Errr... Sweetheart, KELVIN, the one you are contemplating going back to, is the same dude who you dated for 5 years during which time he beat you, was pathologically possessive and controlling, no? Of course, his ineligiblity has been "upgraded" because he is now a MARRIED FATHER OF TWO? It's always safe to ask, even if you think you know the answer. So I ask yet again, is he the same Kelvin you're jonesing for and want back into your life and that of your son's?!

    Nahhhh, I refuse to believe you are that messed up emotionally and psychologically. Honey, what exactly do you miss? The beatings? The psychopathic jealousy and trust issues? What? Does he possess a magic wand in between his thighs, so potent that you have magically forgotten the horrible past you both share? I don't know about you, but I don't care if you are Mr. Bombastic in bed, if you don't treat me right with the utmost respect, I can't even get moist, let alone wet. Please keep whatever magic is emitting from your manly bits to yourself and hit the road Jack!

    Sweetie, I think I just realized what the problem is. Greg is so bad in bed that you now crave good sex even if it comes from a monster. Please, do well to snap out of it. If being with Greg, regardless of how "sweet" he is, has driven you to this point, perhaps he isn't the right man for you. Don't feel guilty and try to "manage" Greg. If he isn't fulfilling your desires, find the man who would because if you don't, you will end up cheating on Greg.

    As for this Kelvin character, darling, that ship has long sailed. Perish the thought of any form of rekindling. He wasn't good for you then, he is even worse now. Sweetheart, you have a son, you must be extra careful and very selective when it comes to the men you allow into your life as well as his. With one failed marriage, I thought you would be more cautious. Please do right by your son.
    e-hugs and kisses.

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  83. Please poster which company? I need a good job.

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  84. Here's a woman with no self-love. Must you be with a man? If you are still considering that Kelvin character, all I have to say though harsh is, thank God you are not raising a girl child.

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    1. Kiks are you trying to say boys don't deserve a good upbringing? Please!!!

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  85. Lol, another slap from me

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  86. Osheeeeey baddest29 November 2019 at 08:27

    FICTION OF YOUR IMAGINATION - You are supposedly with Steve now so why are you asking if you should choose between Greg and Kelvin?
    ode!

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  87. Poster you are a FOOL.You will be wrwcked this time ehn ..One naira no go dey your pocket .Why are some woman this Stupid pls ..Why?

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  88. Why are some of you insulting the poster, cant you people just advice her and move one,the anger and bitterness in some of you is sad.poster please allow kelvin to go,i know you still love him,but fight the love and move on with your life.

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  89. That slap is too small. they should use a a grinding on your head lmaoooooooo

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  90. Enter your comment...uuu

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  91. So after all these years, you are considering going back to a man who abused you and is now married to another woman. Are you even concerned for his new family? You seem like a selfish person with no self-control I'm sorry to say. You need to change your heart and mindset towards life. The way you're going will lead you to a life of regrets.

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  92. Confused Woman Indeed. I hope that slap reset your brain. At 38 you're this confuse. Hmmmmm

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  93. Confused Woman Indeed. I hope that slap reset your brain. At 38 you're this confuse. Hmmmmm

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