Good day dear Stella, so Friday kind of went well with my supervisor,so I went early to his office,knelt down and started begging this man, begged him for over 10mins,he was like I shouldn't kneel down and I shouldn't disturb his ears but I persisted,I told him I don't have 80k and I can never sleep with him,it's against my conscience...
I tried my best to avoid paying him money but it was so obvious,that was d only way. And then its today I heard that I was not d only one he asked for s#x, some girls agreed, most paid 50k,everyone is keeping it hush hush, I guess we all want to graduate.
At last he said that the date is so close and that I'm so strong-headed,OK i should only stroke him so he can release,I said God forbid.
Well he now agreed on 40k and I should bring my other chapters in a flash drive so he can just effect corrections so i can go print. Anyways I called my mom immediately,we got 30k today,I went to buy d flash drive, transferred all my project work and gave him with d payment .so by next week latest Thursday, he'll be through with it.
I tried my best to avoid paying him money but it was so obvious,that was d only way. And then its today I heard that I was not d only one he asked for s#x, some girls agreed, most paid 50k,everyone is keeping it hush hush, I guess we all want to graduate.
*I feel so disgusted!!!
So despite all the expose on these Randy lecturers,some of them are hell bent on continuing with the harassment of Students?
Is there no way we can expose this man without getting you exposed?
Is there anyone out there that can help disgrace this man out of this Job?These are peoples Children he is messing up!!!
Thank God you were able to raise the money to pay him since that’s all he cares about. Now you can rest and focus on graduating and going for service. I wish you the best.
ReplyDeleteAs for that lecturer, he’ll get what’s coming to him.
reminds me of Dr. frank in Uniben history dept. chai... that mam can gbensh anything that has hole and he has mouth odour
DeleteSomeone needs to record that man in the act and report him.
DeleteCan you imagine such rubbish? the man isn't even afraid, like some lecturers just lost their jobs and this one is proudly oppressing the children of God. When he is caught he will blame the devil.
Lord, please have your way, help these children.
That’s the problem, ‘he will get what’s coming to him’ I agree, but when? When?
DeleteKai I feel so much pity for people being molested by their lecturers. I don’t know what I would have done. It’s really hard to stand up to someone who has some power over something that matters to you, but if people don’t name and shame and follow through with taking it up with the appropriate authority, it won’t ever stop.
I guess the question is - who will bell the cat?
@anon 16:23, lemme help you shake the table 😁😁😁 them plenty for that dept but Dr frank is the real MVP. He won't even collect money. No wonder he's still stagnant...
DeleteThat is why I hail that masters student that sought for justice and followed through despite the shaming and abuse. She was vindicated. But the truth is not many are strong enough to toe that line.
DeleteMost people have sold their conscience to the devil. Very soon this man will be begging for help and people would be pitying him. May his soul rot here on earth before he dies. May he be denied help at the time he'd need it most. This is pure evil and I'm so mad about this right now.
ReplyDeleteThe exposure would have been done before or during the deed. If they
ReplyDeletewent in group and contacted had core
investigative journalist, they would have hidden a recording instrument/camera on their hairs; will he search the hairs?
Then that was then.
Now, they have to wait till they graduate to do the gang-up exposure.
But without evidence, this is tough.
Stella. Its a sad thing. I'm angry though but happy the poster has scaled thru.
ReplyDeleteIts difficult schooling n Nigeria. Forget your post abou thow hard it is schooling n East London about Vicki
Its more difficult being a Nigerian nd living in Nigeria.
Such nonsense? That man is shameless, he isn’t even scared that money transfers can be traced to him or how will he explain collecting money from you and other students? We are too docile as a people. Well you got your wish which was to complete your project with your peers but bribery is not the way.
ReplyDeleteWhat you people are doing is encouraging this man and it is not right. He should know and do better. There are other students who wouldn’t be so lucky to get away by paying 30k and may just use their body because they’d believe it’s the only way. Report this man, let’s stop encouraging nonsense. Send his details as anonymous to school authorities or external bodies who care about cases such as these. Kiki Mordi is probably swamped at the moment but she might be able to help.
Not to sound heartless
ReplyDeleteI hope you’re a virgin
I hope you are not sleeping with your school bf without getting anything in return. Fornicating with your bf should also be against your conscience. Now that you have paid him, hope he won’t ask for more from you.
This anon is just an idiot! What's the correlation now? Mtchewwww.
DeleteAre you ok madam born again life ndi witches.
DeleteDon't be an idiot. Fornication is wrong. But it's her choice.
DeleteNo one should be forced to have sex which is what the lecturer wants.
Are you okay? Like really, cos she should become a prostitute?
DeleteStella, there's nothing I will not read on your blog.
I am not sure why you think your comment makes sense. If she decides to sleep with her boyfriend nko, so what? Does take away from her the right to say ‘NO’ when she feels like it? Everyone has a choice to choose his/her sin, be guided.
DeleteI refrain myself from cursing you out in Jesus name
DeleteUseless men. Cold room tinz.
ReplyDeleteSee why I can’t send my kids to a government university be it federal or state???
ReplyDeleteIf the poster,hasn't given him the money,i think she should write something on all the money ,snap it and then give it to him and then make a case.
ReplyDeleteWhatever you want to write must be tiny and the same.Or you write out the numbers of the money ,and invite police. Make sure it's as soon as you give him the money.Goodluck.
pls call him out in anonymous mood
ReplyDeletePeople like you that enable this evil are part of the problem of Nigeria. Yes, you are.
ReplyDeleteThis is terrible, randy lecturers everywhere.
ReplyDeleteOh God,this is someone's daddy and husband😢😢
ReplyDeleteEveryday for the thief man....!!
Very shameful. And no, he has not won.
DeleteYou see why big gbola is not good . Had it been he had a small penis, he would have been too ashamed to be shoving it up in people’s faces.😂
ReplyDeleteI’m just joking though! Randy lecturers are something else when they prey on someone. The beast in them evolves and takes control.
Young lady pay the idiot,graduate and if you still can, get him exposed after you have left that school. The Key word “After” !
Some schools with seize her certificate
DeleteI was in your shoes,sex ,my mom offered him money and he refused.
ReplyDeleteMy mates wrote their project and went home and I was still in chapter two.
I went to experimental garden and cried to God,I went again he cancelled the chapter one and two,
I was frustrated,momsi settled a higher amount and I got a b,
Very simple project o,that I know with my head I would have gotten a b.
The man is something else. His own case is not ordinary. I pity the other girls that slept with him. I hope he didn't exchange their destiny tho.
ReplyDeleteHahaha not all pussy are real until e chop mammy water own
DeletePart of the reasons dead bodies of some lecturers are seen by road sides
ReplyDeleteThank Go's he collected the money. It's nothing new, most supervisors collect money during project writing.
ReplyDelete*God
ReplyDeleteThis is the kind of case/problem I hope our youth will put their time, talent, money and intellect into solving. Something that directly affects the young and if solved, will lead to societal justice and equity for all. Not fighting over BBN stars. That hunger, that drive, that passion..how I wish it is directed towards something like this. Why not do daily twitter trends on issues like this and bring all these randy men to book? Hashtag them to justice! How do you wake up to hashtag tacha&mercy when BBN is completely over? How? Why? What a generation. Pls I am not one of you.
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DeletePoster, you're having a laugh. You negotiated with a devil, fell to his level, proved that you don't even trust the God you said you were praying & fasting to, and lost your leverage. You're just one of many Nigerian girls who calls God when it's convenient! Talmabout that was the only way. Tomorrow, you'll pay in cash or with your body for NYSC posting, job, etc and say it's the only way. It's you I'm irritated at.
ReplyDeleteStella, please on the basis of what exactly should this man be disgraced out of a job? Cos an anonymous person said she PAID A BRIBE and claims other anonymous girls did same? SMH. Let her try it and see that she will NOT graduate, even after submitting that project! Where or what is her PROOF that she's telling the truth? What if he says SHE is the one that harassed her? After all, women lie. We see it all the time. She could be a trifling female trying to frame a lecturer for not passing her, for all we know. It happens. It's possible this one is telling the truth but we don't strip a man of his livelihood cos of a maybe. Especially as with her actions, she has successfully stripped anyone who wanted to help her, of the power to do so. Equity, clean hands? Her hands are now soiled. Y'all be playing rough play that doesn't even make sense.
Not that I return to read comments (cos I frankly don't care or need the validation), but just in case anyone wants to make themselves feel better by thinking I would have done the same - you lie. I've been in a situation like this. Did I lose the thing I was being pressured to compromise for? YES. Cos not every "If I perish, I perish" is followed by the extending of a sceptre. Sometimes, "I will not bow" will actually be followed by you being thrown into the furnace that has been heated seven times. That's real life. Did God make it up to me and actually redeem my time? YES.
There are things I don't do, by the grace of God, not cos I'm perfect (I'm not) but so that I will not chew mouth tomorrow when asked about them. A couple of years ago, my refusal to compromise is what God used to save my husband's life and simultaneously secure something we both didn't know we had individually been working towards for 20 YEARS! Only to be told afterwards that if I had compromised, we would have died.
Give God an excuse to give you a "because you have done this" blessing; some of you won't hear. You'll do whatever the devil suggests and say you're under grace. Make una continue, sha; Naija factor is greater than your god. Some of you will go to church weekly and not realise how you disqualify yourselves from certain things cos God will forgive you but will say, "We CANNOT trust this one not to cave under pressure. They will crack at the first sign of pressure. Look at their track record."
Thank God you could raise money to pay him. I pray he gives you a good grade.
ReplyDeleteThis is wrong in every way. Is he not collecting salary for his job? Does he not know what his job as a lecturer entail? He should be reported and a trap set for him so he can be caught in the act.
ReplyDeleteSet a trap not only for randy lecturers but also for your legislooters/politicians, clergymen, security personnel, bosses/recruiters,etc. The stench stinks to the highest heavens in almost every sector of Naija when it comes to this gbola/congo matter o.
ReplyDeleteShe would have used less than that amount she gave to buy a miniature recording device like that is strapped like a wristwatch. Some are like sunglasses, brooch, pen etc. This is the kind of thing I love doing. That fool of a he goat should be busted. So she couldn't mark the money? I'm so pissed
ReplyDeleteWhen will he get what is coming for him? Oh when? If I were the poster I would record everything and when I have graduated, I will upload it or better still, sue him
ReplyDeleteYou will need a concrete evidence to nail him.I will suggest a very sophisticated spy camera.it will do the job well
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