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Sunday, November 24, 2019

Sunday In House Gists - The Secret Spouse...

Are you a secret Spouse?











It means a secret husband or wife of someone who might already have another spouse at home......

A secret spouse - Everything about them is hidden or kept a secret from everyone else...
I know a man who was married for a long time and they had delay with the kids coming in.....He took a secret spouse who began to have babies for him.....
She took part in all family activities in the village during Christmas periods,during burials and naming ceremonies,some family members knew about her but the real wife didn't.............

The secret husband was the one making the wife pregnant for the real husband...

Are you a secret spouse?Are you happy?Do you feel fulfilled with the hiding?
Or you know someone who is a secret spouse?

Or are you the secret boyfriend or girlfriend who is only needed when the other partner is not around....you come in to fill their roles and you know all about them but they know nothing about you because you are a well kept secret.

Let's gist.........

84 comments:

  1. In today's world, men are women no longer hides it from frolicking with people's wives and husbands

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    1. Someone suggested that to me last year. Wouldn't have been such a secret because his family would have known. Even after I found out he just got married a week ago, he insisted it would work. T'almbout, 'I didn't marry her fully'.

      Is there half marriage? Because they only got married in church and not traditionally. End time husband. To think he's a young man of 30, so from 25 I'll start hiding as a shadow wife? Am I a ninja?

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    2. Hahahaha the nerve of some men. Except that person is Bill Gates abi Dangote tell me the use of being a secret wife. What is your gain there ???

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    1. Going anon on this. I was a secret spouse, hubby's family knew about me though, they supported our marriage. The only person that didn't know was hubby's wife in the abroad. Well she knew when we were dating though. Eventually she bugged hubby's phone and found out about our wedding and she packed out of hubby's place with her kids only to return a week later. Lol. His dick game is strong sis, I understand her. Now they are still living together and she seems to have made peace with the fact that hubby has a Nigerian wife. I'm hoping to go over there next year with my kids, hubby will rent a different apartment for us and visit occasionally. I'm ok with the arrangement for now, we can share him. I don't want to be the reason that woman and her kids separate from hubby and resent him. One love.

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    2. Go over there with what papers? A married man cannot file citizenship papers for a second wife be guided as you go abroad, don't go and enter legal kwanta

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    3. Aren't you shameless? May another woman do unto your kids what you've done to that woman

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    4. Anon 15:31 be very afraid oh.Those white women are crazy.She can burn you and your children alive in the house or come shoot all of you to death.Don't take her silence for stupidity.

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    5. The Bible clearly states it, one man to multiple wives , men r scarce if I see 3rd secret man I GO MARRY

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    6. @15:31,enjoy your marriage!
      πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    7. Trust pinklady to always support EVIL.

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    8. How will he bring u over to the abroad if he is married there? Hope he isn’t deceiving cos he can’t bring u over if he is legally married

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    9. Pink lady doesn't disappoint. Ndo o? I only pity the gullible souls you will lead to their destruction.

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  3. There are plenty of them here
    Some are even secret wives for the clergy
    These are the ones that will attack any message that
    tells them to stop fornication
    Watch out for them.

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  4. Na hidden kpekus and Gbola dey sweet passπŸ˜πŸ˜‹

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    1. and it will never depart from your household

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  5. An ex once asked me to be his secret wife after he thought he was doing me when we were dating and was cheating. I left and he married the other woman. According to him, years later he wasn't happy in the marriage, looked for my number because I had changed number, reconnected and was begging me to forgive him and let's come back together. I said oga I'm not interested, God will bring me my own man and moreover what do you want to tell your wife? This guy opened his mouth to tell me "she doesn't have to know ". My people I insulted him to the extent that myself I was shocked I could insult someone that much. He was so surprised and kept saying I have changed.

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    1. This has happened to me before. He even said i will be living in his house in Lagos while his wife will be in Enugu. His family already knew me because we dated before he chose her because I'm not ibo. He was really serious about this proposition. That he still loves me. He will keep taking care of me as he had been doing and we would have kids. He's looking for boy cos His wife has girls. His business is in lagos and he comes over for business.
      Told him such life is not for me. Let him hold his money. Wicked man.

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  6. Stella, lemme go anon on this gist. Many women are secret girlfriends and they know. My uncle is a man whore. He has a wife abroad o tho that one sef, her way no pure. But you see this man ehn, he too like woman. Different women comes to his house different night. Short o, fair o, tall o. They know they aren't the only women in his life oo but they're comfortable being his bed mate. I hear the instruction abroad wife left was that since the man cannot hold body, they must not get pregnant. He video calls his abroad wife as he likes even in this other women presence but they cannot do peem! Her pictures & things are all over his house & they compete for his attention. There's one he likes for her bedmatics, another because she's a doctor & she helps with his health.
    I hear hes planning to go & join madam abroad after he retires. May his children not inherit his sins.

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    1. Are you sure that you are not one of his secret girlfriends?
      *side eyes*🀨

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    2. Biko Stella let me off load my own. My BBD was separated wen I met him, was told by Ndi epere how he will come about and everything they said happened,also haven’t been able to conceive for 12yrs of trying prior to meeting him,this prayer woman told me this mystery man whom I have been married 2 in my water world, have 2 kids for is d only man to b able to impregnate me.
      When I meet him, everything about him screamed RUN , he is ARROGANT, BOASTFUL, SUPER ANNOYING HUMAN BEING but Extremely funny! I tried and tried to mange this goat , just couldn’t ,Very annoying GOAT. Then I had this dream about coco yam and started asking questions, it was pregnancy 😳!
      I quickly agreed to go see him, did the do and got pregnant, just one try o , I didn’t feel welcome in that house, at all , What’s my own Na pikin carry me come.
      Anyways I asked him what his plans was ? Onye ASI , he was stuffing cotton wool in my brain but I was way 2 happy with my growing tummy to care( ofcos I knew he was lying about his plans), he won’t talk about his brothers or sisters except d one he took me to her house but it seemed she was not friends with the wife that left him( u know that kin vindictive attitude towards someone else) I felt it, I knew something was off. Cos of d way she kept praising me.
      Baby came he started announcing to his mother, brother , this Na person wey been tell me say, mk we keep a.m. low low, y d sudden announcement? I jeje told him, u didn’t pay my bride price ( who wan marry wahala) so my baby automatically belongs to my father and he carries my maiden name! Spiritual and physical attack started o! Till today ! Na Jesus get me and my son. Ndi OJOR

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    3. What's the need of announcing that you wanna go anon to post a comment ,
      Please help me understand!!

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    4. @15:36 they want us to know they are popular BVs with IDs πŸ˜‚

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    5. 15:36 πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. It makes the comment intriguing.

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    6. You thank you anon 15:36. It’s useless announcing it.
      They are the SAINTS with IDs πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    7. Assistant JESUES wey no wan Mk then judge them 15;36. Na them dey criticize pass

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    8. Ehis, is that you with the romping unku.Lol

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    9. Those engaged in illicit affairs are defecating on their children's destiny.

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  7. I'm a wife who kept a secret boyfriend that pushed me into depression cos he thought I was pregnant for him.We just knew months and cos he wasn't good at withdrawal method had to have sex with hubby before meeting him.Just after two months of the rship,on my 10th day after menstruation, had to meet hubby and the next four days,met the fool.The next month,I missed my period,when I asked the guy if he was sure he did withdrawal method well,he said he wasnt sure but feels its his baby.Chai,I died and woke up!This guy kept tormenting me by always telling me he aint backing off that i should remember that DNA will be conducted when hubby wan invite us fr abroad.I asked him what he wanted me to do?to keep f#cking him with pregnancy?God forbid!
    I kept praying to God so it would be hubby's sperm that formed.I kept browsing about conception date,pregnancy calculator and if worse comes to worse,would tell hubby I cheated.God showed me mercy by giving me a baby that 100% resembles my hubby,facially and skin colour.I sent the foolish side dog the baby's pic and blocked him.He was dumbfounded and disappointed.Married women,abeg cheating is really bad and you might end up committing suicide and thanks to God I never did

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    1. Hmmm... Rev father dey hear things o!!!

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    2. from your write up you realized the dangers of cheating. Thank God the baby is your hubby's to prevent further complications..

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    3. You say? Wetin sango no go see for thunder 😩😩😩

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    4. Hold on,you slept with Oga on the 10rh day and slept with side bobo on the 14th? Forget the look jor side bobo na the papa

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    5. @Fan,not his cos the difference is clear,just thank God for me...lol,I don repent.

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    6. I'd advice you go and do a DNA test to be sure

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    7. Anon 16:09,not his cos I had 26days cycle...he withdrew but not sure of drops but hubby poured in.

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    8. Anon 14:30 I don't know what difference it makes to know the dad. ...but if it's that important to you then I'm with fan emmanuel on this...go do a DNA test.

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    9. Hope you have asked God for forgiveness and also gone for deliverance. Adultery is defecating on your child/children destiny. Please clean this mess before they grow up

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  8. Let me πŸ’Ί and wait for comments to roll in πŸ‘…

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  9. My own is someone wanted me to date and possibly marry him secretly because he had only just separated from his wife and they divorce process hadn't yet started. And if he showed any sign of being with anyone, she could get more in court. This would all be under wraps until he finalized his divorce.

    I was angry because he didnt even tell me about this in the first place. If not wetin for make me answer fresh divorcee wey eye never clear? Who wants that rubbish baggage? And which parent will hide marriage? My own?? Heheheh. Chief announcers of wedding ceremony. They will post and tag us on social media and tell their friends to repost sef.

    I just told him that he should be going biko. He was thinking I was one of those Nigerian girls that will follow because of foreign passport and money (he has a very good job in the abroad sha). I can hold my own passport by myself, please. Lol

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    1. Just imagine!! Before you know it, they label you a home wrecker, even though they had issues before you came into the picture.

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    2. @slutty That's why sometimes I dont put mouth in all this 'she snatched my husband' talk. Imagine I was desperate or probably in love and went into it (cos trust me, the people who introduced us were PRESSURING me. They said he is a good guy who just met the wrong person etc and we would fit. I had to scream at them to back off cos I was seriously choked) the wife would now come and say I am a snatcher, I broke her home, I am eating the fruits of her labour, yen yen yen. And putting the timeline together, it's easy to believe yea??

      They didnt have kids either (13 years) so I'm guessing that's why he was desperate to settle down secretly and start having his own children. She had promised to give him hell in the divorce process and he didnt want to wait.

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  10. My story....
    So chairman kept giving an impression that his marriage was not working and he wanted to start all over with me...
    We are all doctors..me ,oga and oga's wife.i started a very close relationship with oga.
    No do,no do... me and oga had issues and he formed vexing for me.Because we were very close friends, I felt really bad and apologized to him for a whole year...I was almost losing my mind when he still wouldn't speak to me.
    After one year,oga suddenly started answering me.Ahhh..I was so happy.
    Only for me to find out he and his wife had twins in the one year he was forming vex.Lolll.
    He is now back, telling me again how much he loves me ,that his marriage is only transactional..give and take, but with me ,he finds love.
    Hmmmm... men!
    Omo fool me once, shame on you...fool me twice?...no way!

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    1. Wondermentiful!!! So they were still pounding? You ma sef, your own ozour graduate from Harvard with 1st class.

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    2. I hope you slapped him after professing love to you. Stupid man.
      I wonder why you are still talking to him.

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    3. It’s good you have realized your mistakes, hope you won’t go back again, madam doctor!

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    4. You are a shaky resolution away from being a secret mistress.

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    5. Go back ke?!To now be a confirmed mistress? God forbid!
      Smh...

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  11. I am not secret. I am a known one. The wife and his family are aware of my presence. I have begged and appealed for a reconciliation of the marriage but he refused. The wife has refused to quit. I don't blame her. She is fighting for her marriage. But she is actually fighting and killing the marriage. If he decides to return to her, l won't be angry. I love him but enough to let him go if that's what he wishes. She has done all sorts including crippling his business and as she told me making sure he dies if he doesn't come back to her. She nearly killed him. The day he came back hale and hearty, she didnt speak to him for 3 days. Well let's see how it will go

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    1. One question - Are you the reason their marriage packed up or you met him estranged?

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    3. Until you disappear from this planet, that time oga go receive brain.

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    4. ..and you're comfortable to be in this mess right? As in, he's the last remaining human specie that has XY chromosome okwa ya? Your low self esteem no get part 2.

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  12. I met one idiot online after much chatting he asked me for a relationship cos we became inseparable.
    Before i accepted the relationship i told him i wasn't into married men and he promised me he wasn't married. One day i was on Instagram searching for a profile when i saw a profile picture that looks like his WhatsApp dp only for me to check the profile and discovered that he was married to a beautiful lady with a son.. Stella i couldn't believe my eyes..To even think he sent me a picture of his wife telling me she's his elder sister lol. The idiot was planning marriage with me come march next year.. He has started processing my Canada visa lol..My question now is was he planning to marry and hide me in Canada?
    My only happiness is that i cashed out big time..TT i know you will see this God push u in that Thailand and keep thanking because i didn't tell your beautiful wife about us and no you didn't waste my time because i had back up boy friends..

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    1. Just add another T to the TT to make it thin tall Tony, na their way be thatπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Back up boyfriendS? Badoooo✊ I like you already😍

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  13. Wow this secret wife/husband thing actually does happen, from the comments here. My eyes just opened now. 😳

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    1. Stella when are we doing a call out of those guys on s&m who are married,have mental issues,planning to fuck multiple babes here?. Some are in our dms not knowing they've been busted.

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  15. Thought it happens only in Nollywood, ashey it happens in reality too.

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  16. ANG is going to have a mind blowing orgasm on this post teehee 🀣🀣🀣

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  17. Ok so we had this family friend Anto. Her husband was posted from ph to kaduna. He asked that she remain with the kids while his cousin come over to take care of him. 2 christmases later he and his cousin had a car crash on route ph and she died on the spot. Anto goes home for burial only to hear that late cousin who answered her husbands name was his wife . She never suspected the girl who was brought in as a sec school girl oga had married her given her his name. Told her she was his cousin. He was devastated...on getting to village when people started consoling her on the loss of her mate Anto was shocked but her sadness quickly turned to joy. God vindicated her. Men !!!

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    1. God vindicated her by killing the girl and her husband? Really? I tire for you.

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  18. I had a neighbour for 5years who was kept,oga is a govt official,obviously in his fifties...
    She was in her thirties, oga bought a flat and tore it upside down with an upgrade,wetin no inside that flat😊
    Her mom and siblings were living with her,if oga come sometimes like this,white nylon from spar go full everywhere,one of neighbours just hated her,always fighting for car park space Abi AC water spilling to the ground,she later told me she knows oga's wife and she is sure she doesn't know he has another life, only God knows what happened o,I just noticed oga stopped coming,then I asked and she spilled,cursing oga that he ruined her life,been after her since uni days,she was almost married at one point but the guy man Japa few months to so she came back to oga,they just fought small and oga left no upkeep nothing,he buys pack of indomie and co,bring it for his daughter and fiamm,then for about 3months he totally stopped, blocked her too,one by one she moved,left everything behind,I even said at least take some things and sell off to care for your daughter she say she no want juju things,thats she can't tell me the details but oga na juju man,apparently he got another young blood to the same with and left her alone,she kept the key with me d final day and asked oga to come get it from me,oga has sold the flat now,gone gone gone!!!!

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  19. My eyes are widesigned open o😨😨 from the comments here, things are really happening. There's nothing hidden under the sun after all. 😲😲

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  20. Yes, I know how it feels to be a secret she spouse, I am and some conditions led to it

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    1. Dii Obodo oyibo conditions?

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  21. A close friend of mine ended up in this situation. Hers was a sad story coz she actually had no inkling. We did the traditional marriage in Benin where her dad is actually a title holder. White wedding was supposed to be in 'the abroad' the following year. Only for my friend to insist on a mini vacation with hubby. Guy man took her his friends place in a neighboring city and lied that he had an emergency to attend to then left her there and disappeared. Unfortunately, while she was there (on the fourth day), her hubby's friend had a visitor who turned out to be her elder brothers old friend (all of them are from Benin) she hadn't seen him in over 15 years. That one got talking to her and they even did video call with her brother in Nigeria. Na there kasala burst. Turns out her DH is married to oyinbo with 3 kids!He even lied about his age, what he does, everything! my friend fell sick. She was so scared about getting pregnant for the guy as they had been lashing without protection. Meanwhile i had warned her when i noticed she was the one that paid for her flat in Lagos and even dropped most of the money for their wedding oh. She returned to Nigeria without seeing bros. When he was confronted, the bastard was not even remorseful. In fact, he didn't want to divorce her (coz they had gone to Ikoyi registry already). I really felt for her, it almost led to depression. Someone that had changed her name all over social media, did pre-wedding shoot and all. Shocking thing is his family knew oh. But claim they thought she also knew. She's back the the single life now. Picking up the pieces of her life small small. True story.

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