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Tuesday, January 28, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post...

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    1. End of situationship.

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    2. I will get him arrested for assault and end that situationship there and then.

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  2. Stella, end of relationship. Take your ring, bye bye.

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    1. Definitely end of relationship. But I can't hate a man so much and return his diamonds, will sell the ring ๐Ÿ˜€

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  3. I would end the relationship the next day. I wont even give him a hint that i am angry that day he slapped me.

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    1. Pls explain how you won't give a hint. Would you smile or what?

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  4. I won't do anything, just walk away. But that's the end of our relationship, I hate to argue.

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  5. I will break up with him but if he buy me a car, I will forgive and take him back cos forgiveness is divine.

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    1. Chai fan oooo๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

      Me I will run four forty. Relationship is over.

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    2. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    3. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Fan you're not a serious somebody ah swear๐Ÿ˜‚

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    4. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ aku(wealth) n'esi obi ike.

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    5. Hahahahahahahahahaha. You no well

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  6. First time, Na mistake

    Second time, I'll likely walk away...

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    1. You should walk away the first time. Every women motto should be once beaten twice shy.
      There are some mistakes which should never be categorised as one.You would never MISTAKENLY slap your lecturer, parent and even your boss at work, or would you?

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    2. @gates no second chances in your dictionary?

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    3. @gates I've reflexively slapped an authority figure in my life. I no plan am o! As I receive slap na e my hand move by e self return am. Lol. Point is, mistakes happen and anything can happen when you're in a disturbed and highly emotional state of mind.

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    4. I personally believe when you are brought up in a loving home there is no way you would entertain such humiliating gesture for it would be naturally unacceptable to you. Your whole system would recoil at being around someone who could hurt you like that. Even something as stupid as "oh shut up woman", or a man pointing his fingers at you or raising his voice would trigger an alarm that might never go off, not out of anger but the huge shock you felt simply because you aren't used to such a nasty treatment. You know even your Dad who raised you never spoke to your mum or you in such a demeaning way.

      The moment he slaps you and you let it slide, trust me, he has lost the little respect he has left for you. And men don't love women they don't respect.

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    5. Second chances after a slap?Okay

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    6. 19:45 You got slapped and you returned the favour without having enough time to process what happened. You did so in retaliation and in a dazed state. It's different from when you threw the first punch due to your inability to regulate your anger. So I still insist you can't hit your parent or boss and come forth with an excuse as flimsy as "anger" except you have made up your mind to be disowned or fired. Such thoughts won't even cross your subconscious and if you were tipsy enough to consider it, the mere thought of it would make you feel nauseous and hate yourself. Why? You know there is a limit to how you mete out your anger or frustration when it comes to these people. There are exceptions and there is a boundary that can never be crossed for your mind is already programmed that way. This is due to the fact that you hold your parent in high esteem and you literally worship them.

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    7. Correct explanation!

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  7. There will be no fiance anymore. ๐Ÿ˜Š
    Even though I know my DH won't ever have done that.
    Anyway, let me say that for SOME of my "friends" if the man is loaded or lives abroad, them go tell am "thanks sir" and apologize to him. Even if he cuts off them hands, them go stay o.
    ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Ndi uta, hope una see SOME?
    Okwa ajuju o
    ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  8. Slap him back shake my bum bum while strutting away and leave the Cunt! Ikwakwakwakwakwa

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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  9. Lemme grab a chair & watch most of them lie to themselves on how they'd call off the engagement.... even after announcing & preparations for the wedding is already on.

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    1. You got it right.

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    2. Why don't you tell us how you would stay because preparations for the wedding are in top gear rather than brand people liar?

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    3. @macbeth, your head dey there. Same thing I said to myself after I read the first set of comments.

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  10. I'm walking awayyy, from the troubles in my life... I ๐Ÿšถ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ‍♀️

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  11. I would apologize to him first and then explain to him who it was that called me and mind my business. Give him the silent treatment for a while, that will bring him to his knees.

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    1. Lol desperate much??

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    2. SluttyChic you can pretend ehn forming good girl on blog.
      Are you searching for a husband here?

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    3. Slutty the way you want to present yourself as a perfect wife to be or girlfriend to be shock me oh. He slapped you without not asking whether it was an emergency call, and you're talking about apology MSHEWWWWWWWWW

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    4. Hmmmmmmmm.... Really?. Wonderful

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    5. Youve taken over from Iphie dearie abi? Miss goody 2 shoes

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    6. This made me laugh. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    7. Sluttychick this your miss two goody shoes I pray you see you're looking for.

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    8. Anon 18:47, it’s a free world.
      If you have a problem with the way I present myself, next time, do not read my comments. I am in my own world and I deal with situations however I deem fit.

      Anon 19:01, me, miss goody 2 shoes? You are silly.
      Y’all expect me to walk away from a man I love just cos he slapped me one time? If this happened in marriage, would you walk away?
      So many of you are being dealt serious blows from your men, they use you, take your money, infact, they treat you like slaves, yet you remain.
      Some of you do not even have boyfriends in their lives. Some of you are begging men to fuck you for free ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟ‍♀️
      I don’t pretend and I have no reason to present myself as perfect to anyone of you....who cares about you and what you think of my ways?
      Sometimes, we go through stress, we have our moments. We tend to take it out on our partners. If it happens like all the time, then I can take a walk. Besides I am not the type of woman that can be oppressed. I know when to react and when to be humble....apologizing don’t mean I am weak.


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    9. Bitter anonymous bunch up there.. Is it your slap? Or your goody two shoes? Must everyone think like you??? Abeg leave our slutty for us abeg.

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    10. Most people here shouting 'I will walk away' are being physically and mentally bastardized in their relationship yet they remain stuck in their holding onto a particular flimsy reason.

      While it is wrong to raise your hand on your partner but the reality is that it is easier said than done to walk away.

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    11. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    12. I love honest people

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    13. So it's better to have a boyfriend who slaps you than non at all? Wow!!!
      Things we read on the internet.

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    14. Lmao, It is actually ok for you to choose not to walk away but to say you will apologise?? Wow!!!

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    15. Anons 18:29 and 18:45, is it your desperation and pretense? Why are you both pained? Am I expected to react a certain way....your way?
      Looking for a husband here ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
      Oh well, that we comment on the same blog don’t mean we are from same world.
      I will apologize to him!!!! You silly fools can go to hell.

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    16. Abroadian BV, you can’t tell me how to react when it comes to my man ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟ‍♀️ I have my ways and i am good.

      How come y’all are in Anon mode ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ cowards.

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    17. Slutty your comments made me puck... It shows your level of self esteem... Jeez! There is more to life than MAN

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  12. d spirit will direct wat i will do next.lol

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  13. I must sue him for assault! Hmmmmm...God abeg o. Let idiots be in their lane

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    1. where madam tenth oya o come and tell us how u will respond o..madam perfect hubby.A bv was writing abt her life after she lost her hubby u told her she married a wrong man.

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  14. I go stay I enjoy being beaten. And choked. And brutal sex . My clit now becomes an entity of its own . It’s a sight to behold. God help me

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ
      You need love,not pains!
      May God help you dear.๐Ÿ™

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    2. Oh gawsh. You need a Gray in your life.

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    3. May God help you. It's a soul that's living that can think of a brutal sex.

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    4. You need help. Seek help before it gets too late.

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    5. I am ashamed I can relate to this comment. Mine is just crazy: I like the choke, rough sex, spit on me. I like how when we argue, my partner grabs my neck, throws me on the floor and brutally have his way with me.

      But you see, I like all of that pain and assault only during sex. Once I am out of that zone, I won't even tolerate the slightest verbal abuse, let alone physical.

      Knowing that I enjoy sex that way makes me feel like I am disrespecting woman who have had to deal with sexual abuse for real; Apologies and healings to you all.

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    6. It is well with una

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    7. Haaaaaaaaaa this one weak me gannnnnnn ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ต

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    8. Anon 19.14,don't be ashamed.You are who you are. People like all sorts of things and so long as it is always consensual,then no biggie. I hope you are with a partner that understands you and is able to satisfy you.Just be safe,always.

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  15. I will walk..more like run, right after i slap him back.

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  16. I no dey use nonsense day play,case close ni oo

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    1. If the man is a billionaire?

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    2. And sends a million dollar credit alert to say I am sorry?

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    3. Shebi he sha cannot reverse the money back? No problem now. That will serves as compensation for the assault. Shikena

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  18. With all these stories of 'the first slap was just before the wedding' into marriage full blown WWE smack down, mba!!! I jump and pass.

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  19. When ever there's any conflict that's not my fault, I always go mute till I'm ready to come out. My silence and absence will do the talking...It will be so so loud..

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    1. I'll turn d oda cheek so he can slap that side.ill now lie down flat and apologise..Papa Biko gbaharam o,bikozienu Papa.ill now run into d kitchen to prepare his favorite soup egusi and pounded yam.ill serve him while kneeling down until he finish eating.abeg make una no blame me o cos my first world I no see husband marry o... mtcheeew

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    2. Lol.. you sound like bv shakara..

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    3. Hahahahahahahah @anonymous 18:54 ma kpa mi nahhh

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    4. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚@anon18:54

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  20. I will kneel down and beg him. I won't blame him if he beats me again. Why would I delay his call, who could be more important than the man who ENGAGED me? Ha! Abeg o. ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ

    Don, I just want to put a smile on your face.

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      Bye Felicia !!!!!!!!!!!!!!


      Bye ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. Castle, I will pull you up from that kneeling position.
      That’s how much l care about you.

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    3. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Castle ooh. Ocho Okwu, dikwa ike ogwu. Lol. I almost wanted to say did you really type that till I got to the end

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    4. Awwwwwww anon, thank you. May the Good Lord care for you just like you care about me ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜

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    5. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    6. You are crazy!๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    7. Hahahahahahahaha. Castle you be case study.

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  21. Stella please thank you for the data giveaway,I'm more than grateful honestly.. This days I hardly read during the days more of nights, that's why this is coming late..may God Almighty richly bless you..thanks dear PA, I'm grateful to you too for picking me

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  22. I will smile. No words needed. Safe to say that's the end of that relationship but he will be slapped by someone who's exactly his mate. After that, I'll sue.

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  23. I will tell him thank you, apologize so that I can escape at that moment before he kills me. Once I am able to escape from him, I will share goodness in fellowship.

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  24. Na so e dey start. Better to end the relationship

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  25. I'd walk away
    That's how it starts ........

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  26. the best option is to walk away...most single ladies will not understand the need to end a relationship because of a slap. if he slaps you or abuse you subtlt before marriage, he'll graduate to even worse in marriage..I'm married and I overlooked all my fiance( now hubby) used to do to me, he was and is domineering and controlling, i used to think he was looking out for me by making decisions for so I wont make a mistake, not knowing he has a controlling nature, most times he hit me, because love was sweeting me , I would think I caused him to react, I was blind to his flaws..my fiance then hit me once, I thought I provoked him to do that and I even begged , now he hits me without thinking twice...I've borrowed my self sense, I agree with everything he agrees and I dont give him the opportunity to hit him, I'm not available for suffer, I dodge him like bullet..when quarel is coming I run to my kids and stay with them,,,my mum has warned me never to talk back because I'm all she has

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    1. Are you going to live in fear of your spouse forever? He is supposed to be your boyfriend, your padi and your gossip partner. I am sure he married you because you were soft. They see tough ladies out there and avoid them like a plague.

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    2. What a life!
      Your voice, individuality and right to self expression is gone!
      Ndo!

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    3. and you want to live like that forever? you are not in a marriage, you are in hell. you are there because of lack, probably your family is poor but hey you can make it and elevate you and your family. get out, get something doing, I know its tough in Nigeria but please find something doing, Are you even educated? if you are, please start asking around for a job, you can send your CV to Stella and let me know on this blog or Stella will announce it here and i will send a personal email to Stella and get it from her directly. please send it if you have a BA or BSC, a detailed CV even if no vast work experience, I will help but you must start being assertive and have self worth because it is obvious and you sound defeated..

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    4. Oh dear!

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    5. @18:50, you are so right. Most abusive men prey on soft-hearted women and pick me's. Thats where they flex muscle. I love when they meet their match. It's good to be gentle as a dove but be equally wise as a serpent so you don't become prey of such men.

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    6. So sorry about what you are going through.

      But the sad reality is a man who hits you once will continue to hit you.

      He hit you while you are dating then is it when you live under the same roof when you are married he won't hit you??

      Women should stop tolerating domestic violence, it is a No No, totally unacceptable( men inclusive).

      When you hit your partner that means you do not have self control and that is a red flag.

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  27. Just negodu!!! Singing... I'm walking away from the troubles in my life..

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  28. It's very easy for all of us to open our mouths and shout "leave him", "walk away", "call the engagement off" but let's think about this objectively. Imagine a man you truly love, the one you are looking forward to spending your whole life with, one that you've been with for a while. Wedding plans are in motion, your family and his are working hard to make sure everything is in place. Something happens and he snaps and hits you, he apologizes, he cries and begs. It's the first time and he swears it'd be the last. He calls your family to report himself and swears never to hurt you again. And you truly love this man. Would it be so easy to leave?
    Okwa ajuju n'ese okwu.

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    1. Anyways me I'll sha slap my own back.

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    2. Yes because i will have my family's blessing, money wasted and all.

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    3. Also, it's imperative that the abused first reaction is to LEAVE even if she/he ends up not leaving.

      Abuse should never be taken lightly.

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    4. Thank you very much snarKer!!!

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    5. Then you must have been the only one doing all the loving. Why haven't you slapped him? You don't experience stress or you have never snapped before So did you slap anyone? If yes then you need anger management classes.

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    6. For a reason as flimsy as call waiting?Ah!

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    7. ohh yess and very easily too.. I would have given my name here for verification but this is an online platform and i must respect his own privacy. i was engaged to be married in 2006 to my university boyfriend and first love, we were living in the UK, he had every thing i ever wanted in a man, an excellent pedigree, fantastic home upbringing, and he had a fantastic job in London, very kind, loving, extremely generous, good looking, very very slim and very tall because i don't like men with flesh in anyway, I am equally very beautiful and excellent upbringing too, middle class home, but good home, we were both devout Catholics, we came back two weeks to the wedding traditional and all our siblings came back too, my childhood friends whom I had not seen in years came by to visit me and one of them her dad was having his retirement ceremony in their village Abiriba and i went with them, I called my fiance's cousin who had the phone then and told her and she said she would let him know, I went with my friend and her family and our other friends, I got back the next day and went straight to his family home in umuahia to tell him I'm back, i was shocked when he started yelling and screaming at me from the gate, I was so ashamed but i still went in to their house and he continued. I just sat down confused and when i felt it was not easing off because his mum had come to hold me to take me in to her room, as soon i got up, he slapped me three times and I slumped to the chair with stars flashing in my eyes and me being temporarily in a trance because i have never ever had such experience my entire life, his mum was now hysteric and begging him to stop. he barged towards me, i had never ever seen him like that before, my gorgeous kind good natured gentleman was in a rage, to make matters worse, so many people were there, my mum's driver hearing the commotion ran inside and started shouting and with his mum and sisters took me away in to our car still dazed, I got home and all hell was let loose but my mum asked all of us to calm down and let it go, after an hour he came to the house and my family told him i was tired to come out and in fact the marriage is over and they will be returning all the items they have bought and the money given to us for preparations, he thought it was a joke, he pleaded, pleaded, pleaded, begged, cried, wept, his whole family whom i loved so much pleaded, our friends who had all come for the wedding were confused and kept begging, but it was over, I WALKED AWAY, i wept for days and years but i healed, he is still not married but has 2 baby mamas, I was 31yrs then and would turn 45 yrs this year, he was the love of my life but I needed to be alive to see the world and impact lives and do good and i thank GOD, my family is not poor and i Did not need to run in to their family to have some form of financial upgrade, we were contented in my family and refused that i go back, my uncles from Ebem Ohafia where we are from all agreed in unison that i am better alive because we even lost my dad when i was young and my mum did well as head of schools and my uncle got blessed in government appointments, we were not lacking and were contented, he still calls me and compliments me on how well i have done in life and i take his calls because he was my first love. women stay in abusive relationships most times because of finances and not knowing how to come out and fend for themselves

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    8. My family would even be the one to remove me from such situations.
      I hate beatings, I hate pain, even in secondary school I try to avoid anything that would get me in trouble. I just hate it

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    9. That was a shocking turn for such a gentleman. He may be bipolar. Or maybe just plain abusive and was hiding it all the while in the abroad.

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    10. It's much easier to leave an engagement (even if it's a day to the wedding) than a marriage, so why won't you leave, when physical violence is involved? With any form of violence, your life is in danger. With everything I've seen and heard, my dear I will leave o. Usually such things happening is God and life's way of warning us but we don't listen.

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    11. My sister, you dodged a bullet.That mad man would have beaten you to stupor. You would have been miserable and subdued in the so called marriage.
      Imagine beating you in the presence of people even his mom? He will stab you if you guys are alone.

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  29. He won't even dareare to slap me, I'm asset to him,so he would think twice before raising that hand๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

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    1. ..... just go with the flow and answer.
      Dont tell us how mch of a price you are

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ anon!

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  30. He will definitely end up in the hospital!

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    1. Hahahahahahahaha una no go kill me here o.

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  31. Just rub my chin and walk away. Then quietly go to Zanga, get his size, instruct them to flog the daylight out of him and pay them. Everybody answer him father name afterwards.

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  32. In the first place I won't even get engaged to such a man. I would have seen the signs.

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  33. If it happens, I will walk away gently. I no fit shout.

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  34. Nothing....but we have finished "fiancing"

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  35. return the slap and throw his ring at him, hes a bastard for acting in such manner

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  36. Am walking away
    From the troubles in my life.

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  37. I will slap ๐Ÿ‘‹ him back . Even my Papa ๐Ÿ‘ด never slap me . Nonsense and ingredient . Mtcheww.

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  38. i will slap him right back what rubbish

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