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Wednesday, January 29, 2020

Reasons Why Men Are Supposed To Stop Dating Mentally Broke Women...

This post will piss off a lot of women but please learn from it................

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What is your take on this?????

68 comments:

  1. I totally agree with this. Uf there's a woman like this then she is totally useless to herself

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    1. @Miss Ess
      Do you mean "IF' there is a woman like this?
      Plenty o. Plenty girls are very fine faced but
      nasty characters. They are liabilities in any relationship
      not to talk about marriage.

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    2. Most Nigerian girls are mad. They think a boyfriend is a machine not human. Uses, the lot of them.

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    3. Abeg, rephrase that to "some". Not all of us reason like that mbok

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    4. Anon 13:21,you sound really pained like someone who has been rejected a lot of these fine girls when they noticed you are the type that likes and want to take without giving and so valueless. The women you described might be giving the real men joy while suffering fools like u. Smart and beautiful women contribute to the real ones and chase the losers away through various methods

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  2. When most ladies are the ones taking care of some men now. Stella and bvs please forget this mad man that wrote this. My own bf borrowed money from me and till today, he has never given me even an handkercheif. Is it because most women wants everyone to feel they are dating rich guy, that why a woman will never talk about how she gives money to the bf, the day women start opening up ehhh

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    1. When in love, be smarty. No correct dude would even ask his girl for money, except it’s a very very serious issue and won’t waste time paying back. Please be smart about thisnso he can pay you back what he owes you.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ anon you dey para!

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    3. @ 13.05, you remind me of a colleague that used to buy things for herself but will come to the office and say her husband but them. One day, she got tired and she mistakenly said it.

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    4. Stop lending money to men oooo. Some are so not it. A colleague of mine lent close to 2m or more to her so called fiancΓ©. Guy man engaged her some months down the line. Babe started asking for her money back as she needed to sort out family ish. Dude started forming is it us, our money, engaged et co. She reminded him it’s a loan he asked for with the promise to refund. Oga vex, call off engagement, left babe with pregnancy. Till date, have no idea if he paid back or not. Baby is 2 years now. If you must give, let it be an amount that won’t hurt you.

      This should be for both genders because slyness and cunningness doesn’t have gender.

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    5. @SluttyChic but correct babe can ask her boyfriend for money right? That's what that post up there addressed.
      What I don't understand is why we ladies can but a guy can't? What is not right for one, shouldn't be right for another. I think a post Stella started IHN on Monday put it well.

      We want a guy to go all the way out for us but we are often reluctant to reciprocate. Maybe at of we ladies are just too selfish - we enjoy receiving but frown at giving. No wonder most of us are sub-consciously bitter and sad.

      That's it's a man responsibility to do this and that, doesn't mean we shouldn't meet them half way.

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    6. Anon 14;23,slutty chic is right,no real man will be comfortable asking for money except if it’s serious;men are born providers not takers.meeting halfway can be done when he has shown he is not a leech or loser

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    7. Anon 14.23. Yes!!! make d correct babe. Just like is the right of a man to cheat and sleep around. Is our right to collect money.

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    8. Anon 16:42, no one is born a provider or taker. Rather, we are socialized to be that way by family, religion and the society at large. There are women who are trained to give and not take and men who are trained to take and not give. This belief that men are 'naturally' givers or providers is often an ideal that some men use to cheat and disempower women and others, just as some women with the mentality that they are to be cared for go too far. I understand what the guy said and agree with him. The problem is that like all generalizations, he is citing the extreme part, forgetting that there are some women who are mentally rich and men have shown them pepper. There are also men who don't appreciate mentally rich girls/women. They start to use that provider belief again to break these women.

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  3. Correct yarns wey I don dey yarn tey tey! 😊😊
    The dudes are getting the gist say some (Naija) ladies na bad news.
    When you come fine well well, get boobies (natural or sewed), get nyansh (follow come or gummed), come dey flash am day and night for social media, na only forkboys you go attract.
    The ones looking for wives are looking beyond those boobs and buttocks you put in the public space.
    What are they looking for?
    That's ajuju there.
    They are looking for;
    1. Character
    2. character
    3. Omume -character. 😊😊😊
    And if you did not have the privilege of having godly parent who brought you up, you can still get good characters by being in Christ.
    When you are so eager to spread legs and chop belleful to trap dude; you be number 1, bad news for marriage for that dude. Ndi uta are free to contest this one. but I have told the truth just like that dude up there told it gbowaii!
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  4. His actually right shaa...but this advice goes to good guys not d bad ones.

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  5. This guy is on point

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    1. What point. All the girls who bought gifts and brought birthday cakes for guys were usually dumped as if they were desperate in the eyes of the me. Now they want such girls back..fact

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  6. I agree with the rewrite up....makes sense.
    These days, a lot of people act based on past experiences, how they were raised and the environment they were raised in.
    Some people believe doing stuff like getting gifts for their man is a No No. they will tell you they will never try it.
    Some ladies will never use their cash to prepare food for you. I mean it’s not an everyday thing, once in a while is not bad.
    I can’t date a mentality broke man. All you talk about is sex, sex, sex, nothing else.
    You wait for me to ask you for stuff, and even when I do, you don’t give me.
    All you offer are head and heartaches. How are you adding value to my life?
    When I am genuinely in love, I try to be fair in all ramifications. I don’t have to tell you what to do, you SHOULD know. On my own part, I know what to do and I go for it. How I hate selfish men.

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    1. I read here sometime ago of a woman who said she can't prepare food with her own money.when her husband gets broke, she hides her money. She doesn't cook but would eat out. What kind of a wife does that?

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    2. If u are married to a giving and good man,what is wrong with helping him when he can’t do much;some women sha

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  7. I am sitting on this table right now. Is it a must I will give you money to travel after partially funding your birthday. Informing me just a day to your travelling. Even when I called, you refuse picking my calls for two days because I didn't give you money to travel. I want a woman that will appreciate the one I can do. Always flash and hardly calls

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    1. Drop her like a rotten potato.

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    2. You are trying and should be appreciated

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  8. He has a point. BUT for any man looking for a lady whose assets are not limited to her physical beauty, who are you and what are you bringing to the table that such a lady will consider and accept you?

    Some of the men talking like this are predators and vampires looking to suck women dry of their virtue (glory), looks, money and time. Some are bonafide sons of the devil looking for "starter wife" they will replace with a younger but brainless model when pepper rest.

    One of the ways I knew the men before my husband were not "it" was that (even when I tried to force it or manage) my spirit was never at peace with them cos on a level, I knew they wanted (to take) something from me. One wanted to use himself (and not me) for juju. Some wanted a trophy. I'm fine, I have sense, etc - so? Is that news? What about you? Every man has penis, you'll never be the richest man in the world, I can make my own money. So what am I getting out of my association with you that I can't get anywhere else? Ladies, if a man can't answer that, there's nothing worth considering about him and he has NO right to be with a certain calibre of woman.

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    1. Are you the kind of man that deserves the kind of girl this writer wants you to date?

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    2. Youv spoken well jare. Everytime women this and that. Let em go out there and see how ladies are hustling.

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    3. Youv spoken well jare. Everytime women this and that. Let em go out there and see how ladies are hustling.

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  9. Only if I data to see what the "awon boys" wrote sef. Nonesece ingredients.
    Lazy men pareding upanda.

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  10. Right Bro .But these days we have more of mentally broke men compare to women. Most men are now ORIAKU,,,if you doubt ask some independent wives and some financially stable single ladies.Most men have nothing to offer both financially,emotionally, spiritually,intellectually and otherwise,all they do is keep running after things in skirt even the poorest ones.

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    1. Sad but true

      Too many morally bankrupt, mentally and physically lazy males

      Very shameful

      Priorities are

      Women
      Drink
      Clothes
      Swag
      Travel
      Cars

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  11. How about broke people (whether Male or Female) stop dating. 🀷🏻‍♀️🀷🏻‍♀️

    If i have to be brutally honest, it's mostly men/women who have nothing to offer that are worried about a man/woman's pocket. Periodt.

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    1. Mumu talk.broke people have other things to offer apart from money.saying broke people should not date is very insensitive.as if you cane to this world with wealth.

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    2. @Perxian
      Calm down, there is no men-women's war. This post is not primarily about pockets, it's about poverty of character.

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    3. You can be broke and have other qualities that rich ones don't have. Saying broke people shouldn't date is like saying having physical wealth is the only needed quality in a relationship.

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    4. 13:53 Okay. If anything, i was being neutral..

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    5. Good point perxian. I always say if you don't have money then please don't bother dating. Wait till you've got a job or business running cos dating takes money and this applies to both sexes. No matter how much money one has, it always feels good to be taken out on treats and given gifts by your partner. Pocket is important cos nobody wants a liability hanging around.

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    6. Anon 1 and 2.. I'm not saying broke people don't have good qualities but in the dating world, having your own is paramount.

      Broke mentality is only made more obvious with physical brokeness.

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    7. But most times being broke in the pocket starts from the mentality/mind. They go hand in hand and it's an illness. Get cured b4 looking for someone to hook up with so you don't infect other people.

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    8. Perx you said the bitter truth which of course won’t be accepted cause it sounds harsh.

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  12. DON. Food is ready

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    1. I have cut ties with these kind of women mentioned up there since.
      I can't have anything to do with any women in that category, never.
      I have been there and I have seen it all when it comes to mentally Broke Girls.
      Once I perceives you from distance, I delete you everywhere with immediate effect.
      I'm not asking you to do anything for me, just try and help yourself to an extent.

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  13. He is 100% right, some girls are not just it..
    Their selfishness is in high definition..

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  14. As much as the poster is right to some extent, some guys too are damn broke not financially but in every way(psychologically, spiritually, physically, emotionally etc).

    I could remember when i made a wardrobe and my ex said i was trying to take his shine by making it, whereas he could not afford it at that moment.

    Some guys are shallow minded that they will make you regret meeting them and doing things for them...

    When i met him, he wasn't rich but was comfortable, he later resigned from his job saying he want to start his own business, i tried everything as a human to support this guy but he frustrated me and use them against me...

    If i make soup, i have poisoned it
    I give him money, i am taking his position as a man
    I buy thing we might need, i don't want him to progress...


    The list is endless.....

    May God help us anyway

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    1. This your example is what poverty mentality is all about. Some people are not it at all.

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    2. Then the poster captures your situation perfectly naw. You should agree with him just that it's the man suffering from the broke dieses here

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    3. I'm glad you left .
      Such a person would make you go mad.

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  15. Thanks to whoever wrote this. This applies to Nigerian girls! Especially those in the motherland. It's a sickening mentality that SHOULD push away any right thinking guy. NB:I am a lady & this some disgusting sh*t.


    I keep asking Nigerian girls & women what do you bring on the table. Is it your complexion, bleached out or natural, the borrowed dead person's or demonic human hair you carry? Or nowadays the silicon enhanced bod? Wetin dey your brain? Coconut water? You think only to con a guy to slay? No sense at all to even empower yourselves financially even with the money collected from the guy?

    Then the greed in these girls is on another level. Infact it's on a witchcraft level. They only want to collect but cannot give a reasonable gift to their so called boyfriend or fiancee or husband. Kai !!! THE GREED EHN.. Jesus Christ!

    The broke mentality cannot let most on this blog to appreciate hardwork or a struggling hustle. I have read where they laughed at some Nollywood female actors who've branched out into some small biz & struggling. Then when it has made profit, ah they will attribute it to maybe a sugar Daddy.

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    1. Men are actually the ones not bringing things to the table:women are more ambitious these days and squashing goals while some men just want to take without contributing anything or be forced to.Men of these generation feel so entitled and want to know how solid your background is or what you do to see how deep they can leech! The beautiful women you are talking about work hard or get favored then these losers now want to come around! that is why intelligent women make demands to chase the losers away as most of them run from responsibilities but the right men stay because they are valuable and winning.real men do things on their own without always waiting for anyone and those are the men that deserve support from their women

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    2. 14:04 MANY of the women you're talking about learnt that witchcraft from their mothers who married useless men and used it as justification to tell their daughters "A man must not see your money". They raise their daughters with the mentality that men are put on this planet to a) pay for the sins of the woman's father and b) provide for women's every financial, physical and other whims (real or imaginary). That's why they start crying when their sons take care of the wife; because of the things they raised and unleashed on the world as daughters (to date and marry men), they believe their daughter-in-law is about to ruin their "precious son".

      The first time I sent airtime (mere airtime oh!) to my husband's phone, he was confused. Kept asking me why and if there's something I want. I thought he was joking or teasing me cos the airtime wasn't much (my account wasn't smiling cos of some projects I had to do). When I realised he was very serious, I had to ask him if he hadn't been with anyone before me - I just didn't (and still don't) understand how it's even possible that nobody he dated, had ever done such for him. He said no. His sisters don't do that for their husbands, either. So, here's a full grown man who has been led to believe that he has no right to expect anything but to meet the needs and wants of his partner. I thought he was strange till I discovered there are other men in the same boat.

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  16. Broke mentality is becoming more prevalent in guys these days,bad character,poor public relations,no financial investment plans,but plenty of university degrees and parade with tittles like Dr,Barr,Engr,Arch,etc but no goal or ambition in life except to work in a government agency and collect the salary to service recuring debts,but always want to rubbish ladies that are smarter than them, my dear the opposite is the case,most young men are mentally lazy forget the degrees and job they parade

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  17. The guy is saying the truth. This applies to both genders.

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  18. Wetin Trump no go see for impeachment.
    Have seen it all .

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  19. A woman should actually be able to take care of minor irrelevant things without involving a man while a real man takes care of the big and important things. A woman should support a man who is generous and loving but the issue is that most men are not hence the reason most women behave badly,some men are not even serious with the women or take advantage of them so why expect anything good? Some cheat and mistreat the women so why think it doesn’t become a game to them? Some men are stingy,lazy and broke and expect the women to carry responsibilities for them. Ladies,please only add value to a man that has added solid value to yours and only contribute to a man who can and will contribute in many more ways! Wise and confident women don’t give where they can’t collect. Leave men that are losers alone

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  20. Wrong timing. These says women run their homes and relationships and I'm one of them.
    Why it looks as if men bring all is because ladies don't go around making noise that they bring the whole bread to the table. Most like to their protect their men's ego.

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  21. I remember I once went on a date with a girl. She ordered a bottle of red wine and a 7k grilled fish. The bill was 19k plus which I gladly paid, only for her to send me a text after getting home requesting for a refund for her Uber..

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    1. You gotta be kidding .
      This better be for laughs!!!!!


      Huh wow 😱😱😱😱

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    2. Lmao πŸ˜‚ some babes are like that. I hope you didn’t send her a dime.

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  22. I'm in a relationship with this broke ass guy. In fact, we live together (in my house). Im
    tired of the relationship, not because he's broke but because he's too lazy and proud with this sickening entitled mentality. Hunkle no wan leave...I'm tired. I don't want to be too harsh by pushing him out (before people will say I left him cos he's broke) but I've mentally checked out of the relationship and waiting him out...

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    1. That’s how it goes. They won’t do anything, they’d rather stay home and be sleeping, watching movies or playing games.
      I detest lazy guys. Of course they will say you left him cos he is broke. Your bf would even say worse about you. If you can’t do it no more, leave him. Why did you allow him move in with you in the first place?

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