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Saturday, February 15, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post

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    1. Had several abortions, please if you are not ready for the consequences that comes with formication, use a condom.. Thank God in all of it I did not contract Hiv/Aids but you might not be lucky.. Let's live right nothing is worth the pain.

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    2. Getting married at of parental and societal pressure
      Was so naive and stupid!
      There's nothing like late age to get married people
      Take all your time and enjoy your youth girls

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    3. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'15 February 2020 at 19:49

      I regretted the day I decided to try a new recipe that cost me so much money as the chef that I is na, only for it to flop, since that day fear no gry me try oyinbo food recipe again. I just dey my dee!

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    4. Epique abeg dress make me too Kawasaki with style.

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    5. Dating married men and thinking I’ll never fall in love with any of them but I found myself loving one and when I say love,one that lasts for a lifetime. Question now is how to walk away.

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    6. I regretted that one abortion I did too. For a long time I felt God would not forgive me. But eventually i believe God has forgiven me.

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    7. Investing money in agriculture far from home is a big risk, this is the 2nd time losing money because the host community decided to become hostile, climb the walls of the farmland and pour chemicals on 2 plots of nuetured land.

      My mint leaf plantation a pharmaceutical company had made downpayment for, ready for harvest then it withers? Just out of wickedness from,some quarters? Ok na.

      This country frustrates on many fronts.
      Hoping on making some profit from the soursop and guava farms anyway.

      My advice:have a plantation near home, pay for local info, they see 'tomorrow'

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    8. Took me too long to start saving

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  2. Giving some people too many chances and end up getting hurt over and over.. But never again

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    1. Trying to see the best in some people and holding on regardless of what they show me, now when i get a whiff of bullshit I slide backwards with ease and speed.

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    2. So I ain't alone. So good to know.

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  3. Getting married into this family. Husband is good, but I Inlaws are terrible. Regret knowing them.

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    1. I feel u babe.

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    2. Jumping into relationships too quick and end up hurt. Pls ladies learn to carry Good along in anything u do

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    1. Please tell us more... would like to know what happened...

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    2. I regret relocating back to Naija. I for just dey my dey jeje, but I thought the country was getting better.
      To comot again now na stress and I’m getting old and set in my ways.
      God help me.

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    3. same here,i regret it everyday...

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  5. Pls pls and pls, whenever you're using that bank code for recharging pls always count the zeros. That is how i wanted to recharge 1k card then and i mistakenly recharged 10k only God knew how i survived that period

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    1. Your case is simple. call few friends and sell it to them

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    2. This thing happened to me on Wednesday, wanted to recharge 500 but mistakenly recharged 5k. I called Airtel, they said I should call my bank, I sent mail to the bank’s customer care and even live chatted them and they said it will take up to 11 working days. Well they have not worked on it and the credit don kukuma finish. I just counted my loss and moved on but it pained me that day, as in it peppered me wella, it entered my bone marrow. Chai!
      One has to be very very careful when recharging or transferring money.

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    3. Rosie I de feel the pain on your behalf!!

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    4. Me wey go recharge person phone last week Sunday. 1500. I mistakenly exchange d two last number. I nearly faint. Call the woman. She lied not to have seen it and stop picking my calls

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  6. I made a mistake loving someone whole heartedly and was taken for granted.
    I loved too hard and was loyal to the core. He came first in everything.
    Infact, I practically lived my life for him and in the end, I was treated with so much disrespect, no value whatsoever.
    I settled for less and got burned... Oh boy.
    Well, I don't put nobody before me.
    I am still sweet but...

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Has happened to the best of us...we live and learn.🤗

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    2. I think majority of us went through this phase .
      Such a sad thing .


      Big hug .

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    3. Sluttychic.. I think we are in d same boat . I nearly settled for less. But I walked out.i cnt biko

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    4. Same here, spent my life savings on a guy, did all I could to make it work but the guy broke up the relationship without any reason. This happened last December. Still nursing my heart and the money? I've decided to be more wise.

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    5. Prettiest 💖
      Essa 💋
      Choc noir 💝
      Sexy hips, in fact eh, thank God for everything.
      Chroniccherry, sorry sis, you will be fine. Just don't feel sad for too long...not worth it. Pick the lessons and be happy. You deserve the best 💖

      Sluttychic.

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  7. Being in love , hopelessly with this guy that is my dream guy but he has some small mental issue.

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  8. Staying where I am not wanted/needed

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  9. I remained a virgin till my wedding night only to discover that my husband is a 10 second man and his sperm could not fertilize my eggs... I couldn't tell my parents about it and my own libido is very high. I cry most nights and watch pornography in order to masturbate...

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    1. I dated a 10 seconds man as a virgin. How did I know? He confessed. The guy ejaculates without reason. One day we were just gisting and he suddenly stood up from the chair and shouted did you know I just released? This happened twice. I didn't even take notice of it until my friend told he has an issue that who ejaculates anyhow like that.
      So one day he said he wanted to ask me a question then he said "can you marry a one second man?" I said "why do you ask?" Then he opened up that he doesn't last up to one minute. He probably thought I already suspected so he decided to come clean. Too much porn and masturbation from the age of 12 like he said caused it.

      Your man knows he should have told you about it. About the sperm being too low, I think before marriage there are various tests carried out on both partners to know these things.
      Poster God will see you through. Don't be sad.

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    2. So sad
      But there is a natural remedy

      Fasting with plenty of pineapple juice. That did it for my friend. Her husband now lasts 30 minutes +. The man stopped alcohol.
      They read the Bible every morning and pray.

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    3. Please stop the pornography. It's more sorrow.

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  10. I dated a girl friend out of pity.
    Got so pressured by her to the point i had to break up the relationship.
    She was so obsessed about the title Mrs, that she failed to realise one must plan to make a marriage work.
    Lest I forget, she wasn't working.
    #Incured huge debts all because of her.
    Still trying to find my footing, earning salary but servicing so many loan platforms.
    #I suffer ehn.

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  11. Let me read comments. Can’t remember any

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  12. Committing abortions, cheating on my spouse that God forgave me by allowing my husband's sperm to fertilize instead of that of the side cock and finally allowing my mother control me in the early years of my marriage.

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  13. Buying sneakers from Aliexpress, if you try am, "regret" go be your second name.

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    1. You and sneakers🙄. Why do you seem so familiar though? You remind me of someone. 🤔 Oh! Yabaleft escapee. He was also crazy about sneakers and you write like him.

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    2. Sherlock Anon Holmes, you might be one to something. 🤔

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    3. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'15 February 2020 at 19:44

      Hahahahahahahaha abeg try another one .

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    4. Na wao... see me wey just join this blog after Tonto n Stella saga, abeg o.

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    5. And your twin disappeared around that time. Hmmm... What a strange coincidence😁

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    6. She Na Yaba left u b stop 🛑 lying abeg

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  14. Getting married knowing full well i wasn't ready.

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    1. Awwww sorry sis.
      Mine is getting pregnant not knowing the journey ain’t that smooth. Now I wish I can turn back the hands of time and stick to adoption.

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    2. Almost had this experience
      Out of pressure
      I don't know how I managed to pull through.

      🤗🤗🤗🤗

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    3. 😘😘😘 Queens. I fell but got back up better.

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  15. Avoid friends that say "Guy abeg make i just use your car pick up something for junction sharp sharp"....

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  16. I regret choosing a friend without seeking the Lord's perfect will about it. And sticking to that friendship when the Lord's Spirit was leading me out of it. She had become wayward, fetish and betrayed everything we held dear...even suggested I joined her to a medium...but I thought then it was a joke.
    Jealousy gripped her and she asked the medium to wipe out my entire family. Everyone was escaping death by the whiskers. Had begun a lengthy fast with all my believing siblings two weeks before. Just heard recently that she took her own life...a Christless eternity for someone who once preached him? So sad😰😰😰 😢

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  17. Making my former stupid colleague my friend. I thought I found a friend in her until she showed me her true colours.
    I'm different now at my new workplace

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    1. Pele. Some people are the devil 😈 himself.

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    2. One strong principle I've held dear is
      Never make your colleague your friend.
      There is always a silent competition they're hardly truly happy for you .

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  18. ..not working before getting married. so difficult getting a secular job especially now that kids are involved. Thank God for handwork

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  19. Carrying my family financially at a very young age.
    It weighs one down financially. it will be as if you are stagnant in life.
    God is my strength.

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    1. I feel you. I wish I had been stronger and said no to family a bit more. Now I'm old with no savings or pension. God is my strength.

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    2. I'm in your shoes and even being disrespected for it. Thank God for his mercies

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    3. Bringing my ungratefull siblings to europe and carrying family reaponsibility. Thank God i stopped and doing well.

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  20. Letting people into my life too easily. After getting so close, they then withdraw and start acting busy, making it seem like I did something wrong. I don't even know how best to explain this but I understand what I'm talking about.

    I'll be there feeling so sad that I've offended someone not knowing that I've been taking advantage of.

    Moral of my story: I must screen whoever wants to come any inch close to me as either a friend or neighbour. I detest emotional blackmailers.

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    1. Cynthia I know what you are talking about. Trust me. They would force the friendship on you and out of politeness you will accept them and become their friends only for them to turn around and make it look like you are the one forcing yourself on them. Honestly, I don't understand such nonsense behaviour. Well! It seem people want who they can't have and the moment you become their friend they lose interest. This is why I pick my friends and I don't let anyone pick me. If you like call me proud when I refuse to accept your friendship na you sabi. I don't make friends out of pity anymore. I am not a toy that you will be pushing back and forth.

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    2. Cynthia, I understand you perfectly. My childhood friend is so much like you (right into adulthood) - so friendly, loving, generous, innocent and naive. Her heart is as pure as a child's. I call her an angel.
      Her parents are that loving too. They make you feel like you're one of their children.

      Some people take advantage of her a lot and still make her feel she wronged them.
      She's forever trying to make up to undeserving 'friends'.
      Thank God she married a man who loves and protects her.
      Over the years I've been able to get her not to bend over backwards to please such people or go after them with endless apologies.

      Oh, I almost forgot...she's so beautiful, brilliant, tall, shapely and fashionable with NO AIRS.
      Maybe that's what some of these narrow-minded people find disconcerting.

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    3. Cynthia there is something great about u that discomforts them, they r silently competing against u. Don’t feel bad u r on to GREATNESS,they can’t stand it ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  21. If you have motion sickness and don't have your own car;please don't enter Molue in Lagos..look for smaller Bus

    @MARTINS

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  22. Committed abortion once *crying* i have been asking God for forgiveness and i don't know if i can conceive again.. Pls foegive me God

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    1. when you give your life to Christ, He forgives you unconditionally and he says "you are a new creature" that means when you give your life to him, you become a new creature that never existed free from flaws. paul was a persecutor of Christians yet he said " i wrong no man" did you commit more sin than paul?

      stop letting the devil remind you of what God has forgiven. yes you committed abortion!! let it go and move on. you can never go forward by looking backward or your past. dwelling on the past can lead you into depression

      "picture your future from the scripture"

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    2. Mourn for the baby; fasting

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    3. I had an abortion in Uni. I lived with the guilt for a long time. I finally prayed and sincerely asked God for forgiveness .I forgave myself too and moved on.I got married in 2017. I am a mother of 2 kids now. Forgive yourself and ask God for forgiveness.

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  23. Believing whole heartedly in my husband!! Biggest mistake of my life. Been married 19years.

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    1. I understand you..I've known my husband all since I was 18( fresher in school), he saw me and liked me and said he will marry, he waited, I believed in me , promised to treat me like a queen, I didn't bother to advance my self and explore my youth I was always with him, I was always with him, I supported him and forget about me , I just wanted to finish school and get married, he was upgrading himself in every way, I was there doi6 unofficial wife and counting down. now we are married, I'm useless to him, I'm now inexperienced and naive. this is someone I've known all my life, he doesn't value my opinion because he feels I'm not exposed. I wish I explored more. he caged me then,he has always said I'm homely that was why he was attracted to me

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    2. Please u still have time to upgrade yourself or embrace it. Forever is too long to endure.

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  24. Not securing a job before marriage.

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    1. Many women fail to do this. They rush being MRS. Ladies hv small saving or business before d Mrs title. Thank u.

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  25. I had abortion for different girls for close to twenty time.
    A particular girl did it for me nine time, I was just twenttt five years old then.
    I'm 44 years now, no kids of mine, no family , nothing.
    I was afraid of my parents then, they always shout on me not to impregnate any girl.
    Now they are breathing down on my neck asking for me to give them grandkids.
    Every day I regret my actions, I would have my children in higher instutuon by now .

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    1. Your story is sad but are you really going to blame your parent? Why didn't you use protection? What about those ladies you aborted for close to twenty times did you marry either of them? Only God knows what they are going through from their end right now.

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    2. i hope all the stupid womanizers on this blog are reading this. Useless and Fucking pieces of shit!

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    3. I blame myself for everything, though I tried to blame my mom a bit for my mistakes but I cant say that to her now, I can't bring myself to hurt her, she was the one that always said to me not to impregnate any girl, that my mates are building houses and buying cars,
      Nope, I haven't married till now. I wish Ikeep one of those pregnancy, I wish.

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    4. Regret is one thing. Repentance is another. Godly sorrow brings repentance. Go and read in the book of Jonah what the people of Nineveh did.

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    5. U dey mind am. Na ur parents say make u dey do like dog on heat???. Your parents only wanted d best and not bring a child out of wedlock. You kept on fuvking any hole at 25. Obviously you messed up ur life at early age. Started sex at early age too. Were u expecting your parents to suffer nd send u to school nd instead you turn to sperm donator???. Beg God for forgiveness. He is ready to lose u out of d babies you killed in the past as a result of ur high libido nd sweet adventures.

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    6. I am wondering why your parent would tell you that. At that age were you dependent on them financially?

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    7. You are only sorry because of the situation you find yourself in. So far, you dont seem to have accepted responsibility and all you've done is deflect and blame your parents. You are 44 not dead. A desperate girl in her 20s will still marry you even if you don't have nay money. Your focus is solely on children and not on building a healthy relationship and family. Seek God wholeheartedly, repent and change.

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    8. Pray and fast. God hates hands that shed innocent blood; Proverbs 6:16-17 and that is why the works of your hands/having a family is hindered.
      But he is a merciful God. Seek him in prayer and fasting. Humble yourself and he will have mercy.

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    9. get allowance tofrom them. I was the ohave my brother and sister staying with me as at then
      I only dropped my comment, not expecting some asshole opinions.

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  26. I love how you try to pin the blame on your parent. How smart. They told you (not shout on you) not to impregnate any girl. They meant you shouldn't sleep with anyone and focus on your studies till you know you can stand on your own two feet and don't rely on them anymore. They meant you shouldn't do what leads to teenage pregnancy since they were probably struggling to support you and you sleeping around would mean they would have extra 2 mouths to feed making it three including you.
    I am sorry but it hurts me when children blame their parents. They go through a lot for you and given you an advice shouldn't be an opportunity or an excuse to put the blame of your misdeeds on them. My cousin was sent to school but got a lady pregnant, this was someone whose parent's job I can't mention here out of pity and this job couldn't feed them let alone send him to school but still struggled to anyways. But the only favour he could repay his parent with, was to impregnate a girl.

    You are a grown man now, so please learn to take responsibility for your actions. I pray God will show up for you and make you happy and may he meet all your heart desires but don't ever blame your parent. They only advised you and that was what every loving parents do.

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    1. God bless you! His parents' advice was very good. They probably knew him to be a wayward child and he proved it by impregnating women up to 20 times!! 20 innocent souls destroyed and he is not sorry about that. No remorse sef. Just blame game up and down.

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    2. God bless you real good Anon.
      His parent only told him not to impregnate anybody outside of wedlock they didn't tell him not to get married and not to Impregnate his wife. Honestly, I don't know why he is heaping unnecessary blames on their head.

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    3. You guys are just jumping to conclusions, I was living on my own and independent t that time, I wasn't with my parents any longer. Started staying on my own since I was 21.
      I didn't ask you guys for any input please.

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    4. Are you guys that serious, with my parents, I started living alone at 21.
      I didn't ask you guys for input or comment.

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  27. Marrying from that particular tribe and family. Very fetish.

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  28. Not dating early on.I'm turning 23 this year and i don't even know how to start or how the dating thing works.

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    1. I will advise you to calm down. The right man will come. Sweetheart all you gat to do is open your heart to love. But again map out wat u want in a man.

      Dnt be in relationships with any man out of pity! If u dnt want a struggling guy. My sister look for high level! No crime and I repeat no crime in doing dat. But make sure you 💘💝💞💕 love that person enough.

      I say all these becos I dated out of pity! Am 29 now. No serious man, am always with the fucked boys! Thinking is all about love! Sticking with dem! Spend on them. At the end eeh. Na those fucked boys go piece person heart nd walk out on u like they are doing you a favour.
      Pls no go near fucked boys. Broke guys are not marriage material. See no special book for dating. Just make sure u love first nd u like tins about him. No go dey do love love. LOVE is not enough my sister.

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  29. An oyibo girl told me she was preggy for me in 2002 . She asked me what she should do? I told her do what she wished.

    Another girl in 2004 told me she was preggy for me again. I told her off because I caught her sleep out. I should have been calm here. Now am still childless at 48. The regret almost killed me. My Naija wife is yet to conceive. She will not conceive, infact. She got womb removed as a result of fibroid. No money for surrogacy.

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    1. browse miracles happen. People without wombs do get pregnant. Repent and pray

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  30. I regret abandoning the state teaching job I got just before I married. I was so excited about getting married and relocating. Now, I teach in a private school and the pay isn't much. I wish I had taken that job. I would still be married. The only difference is that it would have been a long distance marriage. It is well. I know God will give me a better job soonest. To the single ladies, keep your job even though you are getting married.

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  31. Dating some certain people, even when I knew I wasn’t in love I was just lonely. I am single now not so happy but I am happy I retraced my steps .

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  32. My mistakes....hmmmm...I wish I can turn back the hands of time.....had several D & Cs; now I cant have biological children. Made my husband my boyfriend; now am all alone. Had several opportunities to have been an abroad citizen, I flunked it all; now am stranded. Back to square one at middle age with a flicker of hope and faith.

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  33. Dating a guy way below my level because of desperation to be married.

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  34. Married a man bcos I have never had fatherly love apart from God who I found after marriage.prior to my marriage,dated my friends bf but we both knew we where deeply in love but I could not bring myself to marry him bcos I did not want to hurt my friend futher as if us dating was not bad enough. Decided to travel to Nigeria to bring a man that was introduced to me by his cousin lol. We both liked each other and I opened up my mistakes to him and all that I have been through. Had one abortion for that old fling with my friends bf which I spoke to my ex about.well after d wedding traveled back to my base. Filed paper work only for immigration to tell me that oga was hiv positive. Oh what a sad day for me...but who am I not to forgive. He begged and explained that he cheated while i was away. Forgave and still decided to bring him regardless. Brought him to Canada and after few months,started going out with different men. Later found out he was gay🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.sat him down one day and told him that there was nothing as beautiful as living his truth since being in Nigerian did not really allow him express his true self. If he had truthfully told me,I would have helped and would never have showed him off as a husband. Instead it will be low key. But I guess that was a way of getting paid back for all my evil.lastly to the glory of God,I am hiv negative even though the devil's plan was for it to wipe me out since the same killed my mother. But God changed it all around. Moral of the story: never marry anyone out of pity. When people are in their struggling state,leave them there bcos God sees where u cannot see. I am not one lady to believe that a man must have money b4 he can find a good woman but then again you do not know what people are capable of doing until they are given a chance. If there is one thing I am proud of is the fact that I let him go when I found out he was gay even though his family was saying I was the bad person. Today he is in canada even as a citizen and living his gay life!!! Me on the other hand,I am improving my spiritual and physical life. Thank God there was no child produced from the union. How I for come take dey narrate the story give my pikin. Your father likes his father? 🤣🤣All praise and honour to Him alone.

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    1. "To the glory of God...? And you are sleeping with different men...?'
      Please help me connect these two. I am confused.

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    2. @ 21.51, since you cannot comprehend, why not share your own regrets abi you no get?
      Grow up and stop being childish on this post.
      Let people express themselves, they do not owe you an explanation.

      No be only connect the dots na tie the rope, mstchew.

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    3. @ 21.51, since you cannot comprehend, why not share your own regrets abi you no get?
      Grow up and stop being childish on this post.
      Let people express themselves, they do not owe you an explanation.

      No be only connect the dots na tie the rope, mstchew.

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    4. Anon 21:51 Pls go back and read her write up again dont be shallow in your thinking and dont be a selective reader.she said prior to her getting married. Not after the marriage. Sometimes I wonder if some of you went to sch at all. The big testimony is there but u failed to see it. Instead you are there digging and look for what is not looking for you.

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    5. Anon 21:51 read to comprehend! The HIV positive husband she took to Canada was the one going out with different men, that was how she found out that he was gay!

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  35. My last relationship was hell, the after math is what I am still battling with. I cannot even trust any man because of it.

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  36. Getting married to my ex husband, I should have never listen to my sister's advice and pressure into marrying that guy. I pray that someday love will find me.

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  37. I can't say it. I have come to the conclusion that I am a foolish person. Who forgoes a master's program to get married? Who invests 4million in MMM? Who invests 10million in a business venture with no partner ship agreement? Who graduated with a cpga of 3.48 becos she's too dumb to settle the lecturer? Right now, I second guess every move I make cos I would never believe I could be this stupid.

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    1. No you are not stupid. You are stupid if you repeat those same mistakes. For now, stay away from investments and be proud you did not sleep with that bastard of a lecturer.

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    2. You mean fornicate with a lecturer? If you did not do that, then you are smart. Hold your head high for shunning victimization and the attendant risks. Let Jesus be your savior and find true wisdom in his teachings. Shallom.

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    3. Anon, you are not foolish. Don't downgrade yourself like that. You were wise enough to have up to 4million at once to invest. Thats a lot. Some ppl feel so smart but havent made up to that amount at once, even though you didn't invest correctly. Henceforth before you make major decisions, ask God for direction and also seek advice from ppl you look up to not just anyone. 3.48 cgpa is not the end of the world. At least you used your brain so you're better than those who sorted. Youv done well for yourself my dear

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  38. I regret the many abortions I had with an ex. He's married now with two kids... I was the side chic and I never knew. I'm O negative and later on read and realized the effects of blood sensitization.

    I'm engaged now and every day I dread getting married to this wonderful man due to the fear that I might not be able to carry my children to full term and healthy. I have the mind of confessing to him and I know that would mean loosing him after so many heart breaks I have gone through.

    I need your mercy oh Lord.

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    1. DO NOT CONFESS!!! Why burden him with your mistakes?? Is it forgiveness you want or absolution? Go to God instead. Pray, fast and get the best healthcare you can.

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    2. Your last line implies you've made Jesus your Lord. Is this man the same faith as you?
      If that last line is what I stated, and my second assertion is a yes, then, you owe him and
      the Lord the responsibility of telling him and finding a solution/alternative. God can do all
      things and you both can be happy having your own adopted kids too. Agape Love will stay.

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    3. There's an injection you will have to take during pregnancy,sspeak to your doctor.

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    4. Confess to God and let it end there. Has your husband to be confessed anything or na only you get past? Is he a saint? Do you know if he has raped before? Or was a cultist in school?

      There is an injection for that thing. Stop worrying unnecessarily, you will have children.
      See a good gynaecologist when you get married.

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    5. Speak to a professional there is an injection u need.

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    6. If it's only because of the blood sensitivity that you're afraid you can't have children, you're wrong.
      Even if you were married straight from being a virgin, you would still need the injections from the first pregnancy as long as your hospital knows you're O-- . It is called Rhogam for women who are Rhesus- with Rhesus + partners. Inform your hospital when you're pregnant. Don't be shy or afraid they know a lot of women need the Rhogam for reasons as yours or the other.

      About the abortion,fast and pray for forgiveness and don't return to it and God will forgive you completely. The Bible says,He forgives all our sins and does not call them to mind again!

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  39. May God heal all the hearts that are hurting and burdened with regrets due to abortion.
    Mmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhhh, every girl is going under anonymous to regret aborting. So who are the ones that
    attack anyone on this blog that tells them not to abort?

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  40. Quitting my former job where I got the chance to work in my desired field and had more chances of career progression for my current job where I have experienced no growth, motivation nor job satisfaction all because this job paid more. Never allow money dictate your career choices. Always put skills acquisition and career growth first.

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  41. I called off the wedding when i found out he cheated but still forgave him when parents etc put mouth
    I have not caught him cheating but trust isnt there as it should be . Its always at the back of my mind i keep wondering ...:

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  42. God surely have mercy on us anonymous 21:12

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  43. Hmmmm, not keeping in touch with my friends.

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  44. Do not confess anything. rhesus sensitisation is the least of your worries. you can also have a rhesus negative baby. Have you even thought of that?

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  45. I should have gone for my LLM after Law school. I got married instead, I would have achieved more if I had.

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  46. I regret betraying a friend-like-sister by telling all our close friends her secrets. I was young and hurting. Though she betrayed me first by secretly dating my bf. I should have forgiven her and moved on when I found out. Now I watch her being close to those who encouraged me disgrace her.

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  47. I got my ex at the time pregnant became incommunicado.She waited for me till they were 5 months,still didn’t show up so she had to abort and they were twins.We are both married with kids now but I have not forgiven myself for it.its been 14 years by the way.

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  48. Letting my fears imprison me

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