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Monday, February 03, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post

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    1. @16 have you not begun desiring a husband?
      Say the truth and only the truth

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    2. Marry my daughter off at 16yrs ? Nope. Our female children should be given pen at that age not penis

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    3. Yes I can.

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    4. All of you saying you can, I hope you can also ask your 16 to 18 yr old sons to get married too

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  2. Pikin weh just finish secondary school? Never.

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  3. In my own opinion, even a 22/23 year old is too young...why would a young girl be robbed of her childhood/youth

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    1. Haba! How is 22/23 too young for marriage? If i had met the right person and he was ready for marriage when i was that age, i would have gotten married o.

      I think from 21 is most appropriate especially if the lady has gotten her first degree or learnt a trade by that time.

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    2. I agree with you. 22/23 is way too young. Right from teenagehood to being a youth and getting into marriage. I got married when I was 22. Had my 1st child at 23. Hubby was 25. 20 years later I wonder what we were thinking. The only good thing is you build together and grow with your kids. The in between is a story for another day.

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    3. Thank you. From 25 my daughter can bring a man home.

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  4. 16years for marriage? Mbanu. It's not ideal at all. She's not mature yet

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  5. Capital NO
    It's always good for a girl to live a single girl life before venturing into marriage

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    1. Enter your reply...
      16? I started period at the age of 16 sef. 16 is still a child please

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  6. No, not ok. I won't dare it.

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  7. What works for Tolu might not work for Lolu.

    There's not manual to this thing called marriage but I'll rather allow my daughter live are life to the fullest and know herself before sharing the rest of a life with someone.

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  8. It is not right neither is it okay, but people still do it, both in the western world, Asia, middle East and Africa.

    I will never support teenage marriage.

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  9. I will arrest that paedophile that has come to ask for marriage.

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    1. But were you not having sex at 16?

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    2. 18:42 you think everyone is rotten like you that started having sex from your mother's womb.

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    3. Aproko did not answer her question.

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    4. So @Aproko, who was I having sex with in my mother's womb?

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    5. Anonymous 18:42, let me give you an educated response; marriage is not all about sex, okay. Being married is way more than that. Living in a home and taking care of a home is huge part of what marriage is about, and that need physical, emotional and spiritual maturity. We shouldn't have a child giving birth to a child that's a no, no.

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  10. It is not okay at all, and I can never give out my daughter's hand in marriage at that age, that's a minor for God sake, who know next to nothing about marriage. I'm not ready to deny my kids their youthful experience.

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  11. Nooooo, Marriage is serious hardwork. Even being married to someone who is peaceful and very understanding doesn't reduce the mental, emotional and psychological responsibility that comes with marriage.

    I cannot permit my daughter to get married at such ridiculous age.

    BTW, I had my first marriage proposal at 13 cos I was bigger than my age

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  12. Can a girl of 16 years comfortably fend for herself? Is she emotional matured to face life? Physical maturity is not the same as mental, emotional or financial maturity. If our forefathers were primitive, should we also be? Is Marriage the sole purpose of life?

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  13. From my experience so faring life, NEVER will I give out my 16 year old daughter in marriage. My daughter must be Financially secure and dependent before marriage. she must also be Emotionally ready for marriage I will NEVER pressure her into marriage, she can take her time, men these days ehn

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    1. Most men nowadays are terrible. Tufia.

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  14. No biko, 16 is too early for me.

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  15. No
    The girl needs to become a mature woman.
    but make I ask my ajuju n'ese okwu oo 😊😊
    All these my friends -Naija girls wey dey chant
    No, never, can't cacan't, at 16, which of you
    have not shared cookies? 😜😜
    If at 16 you don dey do "saraka" cookies and dudes
    come dey chop am raw, why won't you be a mother?
    Make I drop ajuju 🎤🎤
    😊😊😊

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  16. A 16 year old is still a baby.

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    1. Check around your hood and l bet you, 7 out of every ten 16 year olds are already sexually active. So dey deceive yourself that 16 year old is still a baby you hear 😏

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    2. True. Many don sasu tire self.

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    3. Eesah because u are a Muslim u want a 16 ur old to get married. We already know ur type

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    4. so sex equates marriage ..abeg you guys can give he ache with your mindset ..

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    5. 19:20,dont be intentionally daft. I am just trying to show her that 16 year olds aren't babies like she said. Besides go and ask your grandma how old she was when she got married and come back and tell us if 16 year olds are babies

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    6. Paedophile alert. I maintain that a 16 year old is still a baby. That they are having sex doesn't mean they are adults and if marriage means sex for you congratulations. Keep deceiving yourself too. 🙄

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    7. Kiks, than for daughter to start having sex and aborting babies at 16, I'd better marry her out at 16. You wouldn't understand that now, would you?

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    8. EESAH, don't be daft! You are displaying a sub-par intelligence on this issue. Marriage is not all about sex. The fact that 16 year olds are doing what ever you described up there doesn't make it right. So, if you have a 16 year old doing all that would you accept it as right because other 16 year olds are doing such?

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    9. You would rather marry her out and when she poisons her husband or strangles her child, the narrative will be different.

      Some of them marry at that age and by 23, they have 3 children and are out of their matrimonial home with no job or source of livelihood.

      The fact that someone is having sex or aborting doesn't mean they are ready for a life time commitment.

      Marriage is no joke or child's play.

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    10. eesah boko haram we know your type. so your grandmother married at 1 by force you think she was happy? fool. even if a girl is sexually active at 1 does she know the gravity of the other areas of commitment and responsibility in marriage? fool always taking rubbish.

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  17. Never never ever!!!. 16 years gini??

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  18. Back in the day, it was widely done. In this day and age, it is almost a taboo. Times have changed, l will not let my 16 year old get married. Twenty five is a good age to get married. She would have gotten at least a first degree, s stable job and income.

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  19. Lemme see the bastard that will come near my 16yo and say "i want to marry her".

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  20. I can never do that, when my own parents did not give me out at that age..
    A girl at that age is still a child..
    Marriage is difficult for a woman, how much more a child..

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  21. As I marry at 30yrs, I dey complain say I marry early...... Who robbed my youth????

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  22. Never. Even 19 self, no way.
    I had the opportunity at getting married at 19 but I turned him down. Needed to achieve something before marriage. He was machochist. No regrets.

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  23. A 16 years old girl is still a Minor so I can't give out my child in marriage at that age.

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  24. Its to early. Where am i rushing her to.

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  25. there's a huge difference in having sex at 16 and getting married at 16 .
    The answer, is CAPITAL NO.

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  26. I got married at the age of 16, immediately after I finished secondary school. I am still struggling to find myself after 20 years. The only advantage I see is having birthed my kids early, we look like siblings!

    However, I WOULD NOT give out my kids for marriage at the age of 16. They will first have a first degree at least and should be earning for themselves, no matter how little.

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  27. Marrying at an early age affects the children later in life. Elder men are peadophiles.

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  28. Enter your comment... got married at 18 n not regretting it... have my lovely three boys n serving right now.

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  29. I married at the age of 20 i can say it was one of the worst mistake I've ever made, i can never allow my below 25yrs old child to bring a man home, marriage has made me useless,it has killed my dreams, i have nothing to show for my existence on earth apart from my kids, am 26yrs now but I wish am never married, i can't boost of anything, no proper education, no job, no money, no business, no handwork, and the funny thing is that am on the big side no body believe me when ever i cry out, they assume that all is well with me but they don't know that i am dieing in silence, so pls if you are to send your teenage girl in to marriage pls make sure she is equipped with everything she needs from education to hand work so that she won't suffer from depression.

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