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Friday, February 28, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative......

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BROKEN ENGAGEMENT

I really want to know if I did the right thing.....

Last month I ended my engagement! 


We were engaged last year. Our plan was to marry early this Feb.. I believe in relationships , is ok to know your man's financial strength! This was a long distance relationship. He hurried me to visit his parents! He visited mine. Sometimes I try to ask him his salary becos I noticed since we started dating he does not give me. Thou I don't ask him. I am independent kind of a person that doesnt like asking.

He always tries to dodge that question. Sometimes he will be like borrow me I will tell him I don't have . That money thing has destroyed two of my past relationships.


Sometimes he will be like! let me send you money. Later he will suddenly come up with excuses. I don't get angry but I left becos of constant argument! 


Initiating s#x. we said no s#x in the relationship but Later this year he started demanding. Like he wants me to know his s#xual abilities Bla bla. 
I wanted it too! Not like am a virgin thou but he kept saying it over and over and I perceive it is not right. .. he started telling me a girl was giving him attention. Like toasting him. I said ok.


Now what lead to the break up. He promised January ending he would send me 10k. Exactly that month end, I knew he would come up with excuses. I said ok. Fine. But do you know its your normal habit huh. But on this is ok. He flared up t
hat do i know i am BOXED up than him.😰. 

How?? I earn 55k he earns 120k.

 He said that I have savings. Why cant I take from there. That do I know he can check people account with their bvn?? I was like wow! I never asked you! Why going to check my acct to know if I have or not before you decide if to give me or not. I know am in my late 20s but I got tired of the whole thing. I ended it.

 A girl you engaged you are still telling her to wait to get to know each other well. After he said wedding is early this year. Engagement go soon turn a year oo. Omo I ended it and moved on. 

He has hot temper! Childish attitude and lie over what he is not. I Am not perfect but I deserve better. 




*You probably just escaped a one chance Marriage!

108 comments:

  1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 February 2020 at 15:05

    Hmmmmmm Thank Your God poster say you jump am pass this one.

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    1. Poster, you did the right thing. Any man that doesn't give you when you are courting or dating even though you don't request won't still give you when you are married. You just escaped human corona virus.

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    2. First of all,you type,sound and probably act like a baby.
      Secondly, when you start acting too independent to a man,he sees that there is no need for him to even buy you little gifts here and there.
      Thank God,that that engagement was called off for the love of God.
      You just dodged a bullet, hallelujah.

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    3. Is his name chuks? Is he a twin and lives in Abuja? Hahahaha. We plenty

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    4. Poster you be small thief ,but you never know yet. Money is not an issue but why ask how much he earns? And truly if this guy was boxed up,you won’t she the childish side of him. Why most women always want a man to take care of them? Why don’t you just do urs and let him do his. Most he give you money?why do you feel entitled to his money and his not to yours? Your not a virgin na for him turn you come wise to close let abi? That’s the most stupid thing any body can do,not sleep with a person before marriage. If you marry am now and the sex no make sense you will still come here to give use assignment on questions and answer.i hate pretenders like you.

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    5. So you will not ask how much someone that you are marrying how much they earn? ISSOKAY

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  2. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'28 February 2020 at 15:05

    Chronicles this days na really helele!

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    1. I wrote this and I never knew stella will post it. Thank u stella nd I know he will see it. He is a blog visitor too

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    2. I still don't know why Nigerian girls are always having entitlement mentality over a man's money."He doesn't give me", do you give him? This mindset has derailed most relationships. That's amongst the pressures men are under and relationships aren't cordial anymore because of such demands from the girls to the men.

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  3. U didnt make a mistake coz 100% of home responsibilities would've been on you.

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  4. "Check peoples account with just their BVN??" That one raised my antenna

    Well, i think the relationship suffered a financial blow, you know whats best for you.
    Goodluck.

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  5. Why does he have your BVN tho? Emotional manipulation.. a girl giving him attention.. best believe they're sleeping with each other.. mtchewww.. good riddance! May we continue to have the strength to walk away from unserious men! Amen.

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    1. Poster how did he obtain your bvn?

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    2. Every ‘walk away from ‘unserious’ men’ is a walk towards Shiloh every December

      It’s sooo wrong to conclude by just listening to one side of the story

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    3. Believe me Odin, this kinda guy no get another woman. Even desperate women Dodge this kind of built. He was just trying out his baby manipulation skills.

      I think he may have got burnt like the poster by a conscious parasite years back and instead of learning his lessons and growing, uncle choose to register in Denon school. From his tactics, I don't think he came first in class.

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    4. *demon school

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  6. Good girl. Some of you are learning fast

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  7. No Chronicles here you did the right thing..Look ladies I want you to believe in whatever decision you make and forget about seeking validation from people..Believe in yourself and back up with God's help..Thank God you dodged a bullet..Your case reminds me of Beyonce's Best Thing I never had song..

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  8. He wants sex to prove his sexual capabilities to you πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    No sign of maturity at all.
    Be with a man who gives you utmost peace. This type will leave all responsibilities to you. He is selfish too. You are better off without him.

    Sluttychic.

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  9. You DEFINITELY deserve better.

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  10. So sad to read that your relationships have been breaking. 😒

    Do you want to know why?
    What breaks your relationships is supply of "forks"
    That one na my truthful yarns o.
    All these "childish, hot temperature..." make I ask you my ajuju n'ese okwu...
    If this man was earning $120k, will you see childishness or hot temper?
    Will you write us a chronicle?

    I have a cousin who told us that the husband was so hot tempered that he chased her with a loaded gun and she ran out to the streets naked. She stayed in the marriage; why?
    Ajuju -the man na ntubata afia tycoon -Chinese importer.
    Later, she offloaded the man because "she caught him on top of a side chick". We reminded her that she did not leave even when chased naked with loaded gun?
    But the truth be say the man's business crumbled.
    😊😊😊😊

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    1. I started dating him wen he has nothing ok. He earn less Dan 50k. Yes I am the poster.

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    2. @19:48
      That still did not answer the question. If this guy were to be earning $120k monthly, will you be writing this chronicles?

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    3. Anon 00.19. Even if he earns 1billion my sister I cannot continue ok. If money makes most of you stay in miserable relationships. I cnt. I work and take care of myself. Like I said. We were dating when he was earning 50k or less. So if you are intelligent enough from the Chronicle. I never said I left ok because of his salary. I left because of constant argument and him telling me thrash. I have dated bigger and richer guys . Money is not love ok.

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    4. How can you say what breaks her relationships is the supply of ‘forks’ when she expressly stated she didn’t sleep with him. How is it her fault too? Or is there something I’m missing here?

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    5. What is this one even saying...? @anon 15:14
      My dear poster you made the right decision.
      I was in the same situation last year, my guy was even rich, but I had to leave because of the emotional stress- unnecessary lies, very stingy and manipulative.
      Money is not everything

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  11. You DEFINITELY deserve better. And you will get better in Jesus name.

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  12. All these chicks chanting, "you did the right thing?" If this man were to be earning say 1 million Naira monthly, will you still be writing that?

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    1. It's not about his salary, he is childish.

      Sluttychic.

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    2. She did the right thing based on the scenario described. If the man was earning in millions and taking care of her, the advice will most likely be different... do you understand?

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    3. Read to comprehend, it's not just about money. So many red flags abeg.

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    4. All the more reason he should treat her right...the man o ga-abu ogbenye bulukwa amusu??! He cannot be poor and a "winch" at the same time. He should pick a struggle abeg. Why do you think most broke-ass men are humble and nice to their wives?

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    5. Anon15:16 you nko, if your partner earns 1million will you let the person go that easily? Abeg park well

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    6. All these una "red flags" na due to the 120k salary, say the truth and shame yaselves
      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Salary na Naija girl's definition of "red flags".

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    7. If he earns millions, he won't be behaving like that

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    8. I looked at the guy's behavior when making my comment it to be honest, if that guy's earning 500,000, this girl won't be writing chronicle, we know how things work here. 🀣🀣🀣

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    9. @Baltika
      Una see wetin I mean πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      If he earns 1 million naira monthly, you won't brand him childish and hot tempered.
      that is the eziokwu -truth here. 😊😊😊
      Ndi anya ukwu -greedy Naija girls. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    10. Truth be told.
      🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    11. Even if he was earning 1 mil he for still dey behave like this.him own na follow come.

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    12. Even if a man earns 10 mil once he’s stingy and childish I beg waka go.

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    13. Don! I loved him nd started dating him even when he earns 50k ok. I loved him. We got engaged even then. So forget dat moni aspect.

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  13. I agree with BeeVees saying u deserve better but yes you deserve a better man that still earns 120-150k. Don't go and kill someone's son with your entitlement mentality.. You don't ask but you want.. Lol Naija girls

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    2. What's wrong with wanting? Shouldn't you use your cmon sense ? Broke man comment

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    3. Even if he is earning 100 million naira a month, he would still be posting her for N10k and be doing research with her BVN. He would still be asking her to loan him money so he can weaken her financially. If broke people think being rich will erase bad behaviour and that every complaint or concern is from a place of poverty, it is not their fault. After all, they are broke people.

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  14. My sister poster, I dont know if it's your maturity or Jesus christ that made you dodge this bullet. Either one I am happy for you. Congratulations! Please the man that will marry you won't put you through this back and forth and manipulation.
    Under no circumstances should you return to that disgrace of a man.
    Thank you and God keep you for your right partner.

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    1. Maybe she might end up molding the man herself

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    2. Nobody did, molded that is. Do not accept bad behavior just because. Poster better run for dear life. This one will use issues to make you grow grey hair.

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  15. I'm here looking for a working class Lady to marry and this guy chased one out with his attitude.

    Poster please drop your contact.

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  16. You've done the right thing. Let him go now. Broken engagement is better than broken relationship.

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  17. Poster it seems you've done your assessment and graded yourself. What else do you want to know?

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  18. Congratulation dear you just escape a marriage that you could have not enjoy.Thank God you have foresight pray God will send you a better person. There is something that happened to me that I believe in this sentence "every disappoint is God's blessing"

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  19. The marriage was dead on arrival...

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  20. Ah very true,girl you escaped o..move on the better things.

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  21. Best thing you could have done... To avoid longer chronicles tomorrow. You for don hear wheeeen for the marriage. Better to be single and face your personal problems, than be in a marriage where you are alone

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  22. At least, we read chronicle in peace today after so much pleading yesterday. You try by not falling in love with your eyes closed.

    *Exhales*

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    1. That yesterday own no be here. I was actually sweating πŸ˜„πŸ˜†. Please we need update o.

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  23. Jst 10k Naira u cannot give someone u r engaged to...
    dat man na real aka gum like Union bank horse 🐴
    It’s better u left already!!!

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  24. The guys of these days. That is how my now ex boyfriend keeps ringing it in my ears that girls throw themselves at him, to the extent of showing me a message from his ex telling him that she wants to have him .. really?? Someone that was still on probabtion and besides, my instincts just was not right with him like something keeps telling me that something aint right. The day i stumbled on baba's account balance and saw 24 Naira. I just put my shoes on my head and ran for my life... Nibo, for this Naija? Now baba has been calling and sending messages that he is dying. told him he will be fine by God's grace. I moved on the first day he told me girls throw themselves at him but nhad to wait for the right time to leave. I am just happy I was able to do this. I hope you do not go back to him for I am sure he is a disaster about to explode, for him to even have access to your account balance.......that one is wa oh.

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    1. Sorry o! 24 Naira or 24 billion naira πŸ€£πŸ˜‚. Please keep running. This one would happily move in if you fall pregnant. Let those chasing him come and do management course.

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    2. 24 naira???? 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  25. My bf behaved this way for a full year. Wouldn’t tell me his salary doesn’t spend on me but wants my money. I later on found out he has a three year old child with another woman whom he sends money to take care of his baby but they are no more together I even called the lady to confirm and she said they are no more together but he takes care of his child. Long story short we are no more together.

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    1. Is it a must to spend on you ? You're not his wife but a girlfriend.
      Relationship is not all about money. Making it look like once you're in a relationship, salary must be paid to una.

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    2. Don think of your sisters or daughters.
      The issue is at the very least the man shouldn't be stingy and be able to financially take care of his wife and family. How else will a woman know if her fiance is not caring?
      Of course asides money other issues are important like character. But let us not pretend that money is not a major issue in marriage. It has caused many divorces.

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    3. Abeg work and take care of yourself @ 1644
      Won't you do things for yourself if you're not in a relationship ?

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    4. Don calm down. That a woman should work and take care of herself does not mean her husband should not take care of her. The truth is bitter, you are just showing that that is what you are doing.

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    5. I beg don’t mind Don. That kind of man can take ur money and take care of that his child or not even take care of urs when u have children. A man that can hide his child’s existence from u. Suwah!!!

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    6. Don, she did not claim to be jobless neither did she ask for a salary. Are you not the same person that was lamenting about a comedian owing you? This goes to show that money is exchanged among friends, neighbors and even strangers and limited transparency breeds problems.

      He did not tell her he had a son. If they get married, that child and his mother will not disappear but would continue to be a financial liability she ought to know about from now. No one is asking him to steal but if you can't afford to contribute your quota financially in a relationship of two people because you are still dealing with the consequences of a previous one, you can't afford to marry yet and should remain single.

      In marriage, this "second wife" would be bearing the burden of a two-parent home alone because Baba cannot properly budget for his kids inside and outside.

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  26. Poster it's like you just described my ex, the only difference is we were not engaged. That shameless man of 37 years will not take me on a date, has never given me money not to even talk of saying he will pay for my uber if I go visiting in uber. I got tired I asked him if he doesn't have money or do not see the need in giving sometimes, he says none of them but he will do better but there was no change.

    He will ask for stew and I will make it, he will come and pick but not pay. I told him the 2nd time to pay me, he said he will later but never did and I also stopped making stew oo. The one that shocked me was when he saw money in my apartment and asked if he could pick. I told him no, that he should be the one giving me money. This man said I have money more than him. Lol, I asked him what's giving him that impression but he kept saying I'm rich.

    His conversations are mostly centred around sex which made me cringe anytime and one day I asked him why can't he talk about things like business, politics etc, dude said I insulted him. Don't get me wrong, this person is a doctor by profession oo. I just had to end it at a point because of all that.

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    1. Don't get me wrong, I gave him a gift twice but I had to stop when it wasn't reciprocated. I wasn't expecting him to take care of me, I just wanted him to show he cared.

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    2. Babes like poster I think you made the right decision.

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    3. Omg you just described my ex!!!!!!! Is he in London? The conversation was always sex and he was stingy AF. I am well to do but nah I can't deal with men like that plus always expecting things but never reciprocating

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    4. 17:26 he schooled in London but currently in Ghana practicing.

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    5. All he had to offer was sex that is why he can't talk of anything else. Ask this man to sit up and have discussion with men from well rounded backgrounds in high places doing great things and he will be sweating. Move on. This man had nothing to offer you that would even make him worth being called a husband not to talk of head of house

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  27. Congrats dear , you just saved us from reading another chronicle in a few months times...

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  28. Congrats dear , you just saved us from reading another chronicle in a few months times...

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  29. Stella please where is my comment?
    Thanks.

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣 this Don you are not well. I use to get angry at your comments but naa. I realise you need not be taken seriously.

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  30. Ladies, it's good to be financially independent but please be wise so that you don't fall into the trap of men who want to use you for financial gain, who have no intention of taking up any financial responsibilities when you're married. Many of our women, especially those who feel or who society has made to believe they are getting old fall into this trap, usually between the ages of 28 - 35.

    How a man treats you when single will to a large extent determine how he'll treat you after marriage.

    I'm not saying your boyfriend should be giving you 100k and above monthly to show his love but a generous person is a generous person no matter how much he is earning. A man who truly loves a woman will want her to be comfortable in whatever way he can, even if it's to give her 5k, take her out or to buy her a gift.

    It would shock you to know that that boyfriend or husband who's stingy with what he has when it comes to you is very generous towards another woman.

    Just make sure you're that woman your man is generous to.

    The world will make you look foolish for taking finances into consideration when choosing a marriage mate but remember that those people are not the ones who would be bearing the financial responsibilities with you if you're married to a man who doesn't contribute at least 50% of the household's financial needs or who refuses to take up his responsibilities. The only reason he may not contribute up to 50% should be if he loses his job and is trying to get a new one, or if there're issues with his business and he's working hard to rectify it.

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    1. You deserve an award for this comment

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    2. Thank you! I'm 28 and was having discussion with some people at work. I said no matter what I am never going to settle because I went thru hell while single and I will now not get sense and continue going thru hell in marriage.?? God forbid. Ko jo. Once I see a guy is moving funny I abort mission. Another 21 year old girl agreed. And one man with us was telling me that I can't compare myself to the 21 yr old girl o. That I should not just dispose of men anyhow bla bla bla. I told him uncle look if you marry wrong and divorce 8ir you marry and are being treated like sh*t it is equivalent to being lonely because you have to start from square one again. So why will I not take my time and weed out the bad ones not meant for me. Lol. I sha told him to stop talking nonsense and my standards will not drop for any foolish man because the horror stories online can make people mad.

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    3. Omo it took one lekki/Ibadan boy to show this kind of game play to realize I NEVER want to go thru that again or marry a financially struggling man looking for a woman to feed him. The guy works and has business yet was very stingy with money.
      On dates I had to pay if not we won't do anything fun we will just be stuck staying in my house and call that bonding time. he will come to my house, lounge eat and sleep. I will prepare good food for him, nice bed and he will feel comfortable. I thought I was doing my own bid to support him so that he becomes financially buoyant on his feet. It took one small argument for him to say he was tired of having relationship. Ahn ahn. Me I was even thinking it was just one of our usual fights . I was even foolishly begging only for me to see that baba has started posting new gf on his social media. I shock o but I knew not what else to do apart from blocking him everywhere to keep my sanity. I no evr6n fit cry. The shock was much. All I was thinking was that while oga was claiming to be broke and that I'm the only babe, he was still grooming and toasting and spending money on other girls. That was bad enough. To make matters worse The guy was telling anyone who knew us together that I am the cause of the breakup o n that I messed up bla bla. I'm arrogant,baggy etc. He would even constantly post subliminal things about me mocking me lying that I'm harassing him and he and his followers would laugh at me. It was horrible. I mean it was bad enough the heartbreak but to rub salt on the wound by mocking me publicly esp. the girls he messed with. Na wa o. Clearly he saw nothing wrong. The bullying was so bad that his girls, side chicks would send me friend request. I started having to block 100s of accounts because of this.

      I did small research and got to find out that is more than one girl the guy was straffing. Leemao in this days of STD everywhere I gave myself brain n haven't looked back since. The guy hasn't also bothered to reach out and it's better this way lest I get dragged into the mind games again. When I think of it I get angry upset hurt all over again. Some men are really evil sha

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    4. Am so sorry sis. Men today are so selfish. Most will say why must you ask him for money. If you dnt ask is a problem too. You ask you. You have self entitlement. Niggas have to brace up their lazy ass.

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    5. Anon 11.26 same as mine ooooooooo chai !!!!!! You just described my situation I she ran.... mine will eat all.my food but not ask where food was coming from . Stella please do a post on manipulation and gaslighting so women can open up because plenty don't know this is what they are going through

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  31. Stella, please where is my comment ?
    Thank you..

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  32. For those bvs that said poster won't have ended it if the guy earns N1m, you haven't seen it all.

    What about a guy that makes hundreds of millions, splurges on himself, but still borrows in tens of millions from his fiancΓ©e that he does not spend anything on. This has been his trend over some years. She has moved on.

    Some of you just don't know what ladies put up with in Nigerian men.

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    1. It's not only Nigerian issue my dear, it's the who of Africa thing.

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    2. 18:54 I actually it thought it was a Nigerian thing. Very exasperating.

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    3. This "men borrowing from their women" of a thing starts small..first they will start by asking you to send them 1000 naira credit. 1,000 naira credit. Sounds small right? No biggie. With time it builds up. You will want to be a good gf so u tell yourself Hian if this man can't afford common 1k credit then definitely he can't afford to give me gifts or toast women outside with the money. Lie from the pit of hell! So you lend him more money and when celebrations come and he disappoints you make excuses for him. Ladies it is all a ploy. Women are smarter than men but men can rob a woman of common sense by playing on her emotions and giving her good nasty sex the way she likes it. Ladies learn to use yua brain

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  33. Even if the man was earning a billion pounds a year, I am glad you left him. he sounds like a lying, petty, immature liar. He is a time bomb waiting to go off. I am also like the poster, I have never asked a guy for a dime. But I cannot abide a stingy man as my dad was one. The type that will dash money anyhow to side chicks and outsiders and yet his own family will be suffering. Better to be alone than to be yoked for life to a horrible man.

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    1. Reminds me of my late dad
      He would spend on prostitutes and side chicks and still be collecting money from my mum.
      Now I think my mum was stupid. Over my dead body will I tolerate that from my husband. Thank God I married a generous man. I know all about his finances and even dictate who he gives money to and how much, including his mum

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    2. Anon 19:52 they say that if a man isn't spending on you that he is spending on women outside. I don't care how broke he is. Even one guy for my office forming his salary is small and he is struggling financially still has time to toast girls on Facebook while at work and pay for runs girls and ashawo dining fee and fuq fee. Ladies learn to be wise

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  34. DEAR Don,

    Stop coming to the blog to shame women. When I met him! He earn less Dan 50k. I was with him nd got engaged with dat salary. Salary was never the criteria of love. I have dated a guy dat does not have job. Stop shaming ladies ok. Even if he earn 1m! A stingy man is a stingy man ok. money is not love and cnt be. He is a blog visitor. I hope he get to read nd write in too.

    Poster.

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    1. See your mouth. Tell Stella to post my comment that I sent to youi Said you should walk away from the guy, Eveif he beg you with all gods in the world, you should not take him back

      Imagine you're here telling me trash. Had it been my first comment was posted, you would have been happy hat I supported you leaving him but because I disagreed with some people up there, you think it's your write to send me a memo.
      Abeg go away and go sort your freaking self out of your toxic relationship.

      Na you wan tell me how to think, when can't even decide for yourself in childish relationship hat you're.
      Ode.

      Abeg stella post. . . .

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    2. No need to respond to him, dear. We know Don. No be today e start

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    3. Don learn to tame ur words. U are becoming toxic on this blog. You curse and insult everyone. I pity the woman that will end up with you. You talk anyhow. The poster never ask for your insult. Stop sounding pained.. and to all of you thinking the poster would have stayed if the guy earn million. I pity you all. Reason why most Nigeria marriages crash nd many Nigerian women are in prison thinking they are married. Why must she stay becos this man bf earn millions??? Most of you typing will u stay if he earns millions??? She never told you all she left becos of the salary. They even started dating wen he was earning 50k. Women stop that low self esteem that you cnt leave a toxic relationship becos your man earn billions. If you die. That billions wont save u. Jezz nost Nigeria women need liberation.

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    4. Don.
      The question is. If I was your sister would you have advised I stay??

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  35. Don,
    I admire your courage to write truth. Most Bv's here are female, hence will not support your point of view. Just continue stating your truth and mind. Most of us here support you silently. We know want we want in a man. Money first and then sex afterwards, all equates to love. All other characteristics are secondary. I hail you our Don!

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    1. only stingy men like you and don makes women dnt wanna be with struggling guy like this poster bf. what is your support exactly. she never stated she asked him for money, did she??? lazy ass men that is looking for women to prey on.pick a struggle bro. supporting rubbish.

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    2. He's replying himself under anon hahaha

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  36. Word of advice to you stop talking about your profession and how much you earn for the first few dates. I personally cringe when a man asks me this as first question or on a first date because usually this is a sign of a hungry man looking for a woman to feed him. I know it is tempting to want to SELL your self to a potential man so he sees you as best candidate for marriage. But this is a pick me and defeatist way of Thinking when we are in a lack mindset rather than abundance mindset. You think this man is the only man u will get for marriage so you feel pressured to sell yourself. STOP! This makes u easy prey to opportunists.

    Rather he should be the one trying to prove his worth to you and prove that he is able to provide responsibly as a man who wants to be the head of the household. Stop talking so much and start listening. The person talking the most is the person being interviewed. As far as I am concerned the men this woman keeps meeting are men that don't really like her but want to be with her for what they can gain momentarily. Women, be very and I mean very careful. Always ask yourself what a man stands to gain by being with you apart from your feminine allure, respect, moral support and feminine energy. If you take those added benefits away from him, will he stick around?? If answer is no then you know what to do. Use that as your test for a man and you will be able to avoid being used most of the time

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  37. Anon 10:47 you just expressed my thought. Thank you for taking the time to put it down - line upon line, precept upon precept.

    Ladies, it's high time you had this paradigm shift. You're not at the mercy of any man to marry you or societal definition of what you're worth and the value assigned to your marital status.

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