Please remember that if it works for someone else and has not yet worked for you,does not mean that love is far from you....
Any strong connections from the last Singles Mingle?
Should we do a single Single Mingles post for Blog visitors in the Diaspora?I ask because some of them are not looking for partners in Nigeria...Even though those in Nigeria do not mind relocating for love...
We will be having another Singles Mingles post after the Valentine fever dies down and everyone's head is clear again...lol
Church,Restaurants and Cinemas are also good places to check out if you wanna meet someone new..
So,gist us about your Singles Mingles Journey so far...
Here to read updates,I must participate in the next snm,cupid,your arrow must remain for me
ReplyDeleteNice one
DeleteThere is one UK doctor that appears in many s n m. How come he is still searching. Abi he get agenda ni
Deleteyou need to, because am enjoying my mummy(that is what i called her) she make me feel like i own the world, am always the first person she called if she is annoyed & she is the first i call if am annoyed, and i like that, am her friend, brother, daddy, love, sugar daddy...and am always happy when am talking with her on phone...we can talk for 3 hours no stop, she is my best friend..stella thank you very much..GOD bless you...i will do everything in my power to always make her happy, by the grace of GOD...Mummy is you am talking to. am bless having you in my life..i will not let you go...you go no where..i like better thing sha
DeleteStella, please do a SnM for people in diaspora. Thank you!
Delete@16:02,
DeleteTemi
@ Sine!..supported 👌
DeleteI kind of find a sweet soul, very polite . Still early in the abroad. And I have never been opened to any relationship since 4 years ago. So, I am taking it slowly with him.
DeleteWe are planning on meeting. Hopefully it goes well. I do have my reservations.
Thanks Stella for this platform..xx
I chatted with three girls, I wasn't able to have a headway with one, we end it within five five minutes.
ReplyDeleteI chatted ith the rest two for like a month but I think they have their hands filled with other guys, so we drifted apart and I'm back to my place.
I dropped my details but no one contacted me.
Maybe another time will be better.
Chatted with like three guys but I just lost the vibe. 🤷♀️
DeleteWork on your written and spoken English.
DeleteThank you English teacher.
DeleteI was out for friendship but the two people I chatted up never seemed to be interested. after the first introductions they would wait for me to chat first. So I got tired and boned ,it's not like I'm jobless. Just wanted a new network of friends so no,it didn't work for me.
ReplyDeleteI met one lady years back and we have been friends since. We moved from bbm to Whatsapp.shes not in naija but we get along well.
ReplyDeletei see u hon.
DeleteI have a friend like this, still looking for her though. Doisc...u know the rest if it's u. Hope to connect with you again
DeleteNothing when Stella no go see for bvs matter.. I meet one f*$k boy like that who unknown to me was a gigolo living with his girlfriend in gwarimpa claiming rich man son and following Abuja big boys upndan. Anyway as I street girl when soji he casted himself by himself.lol
ReplyDeleteire ooooo
ReplyDeleteYes ooo...
ReplyDeleteMet someone on one of the editions of single and mingle in 2017.We started and it looked as if it was not going to work.Then we grew stronger and better.Intro done in December,white wedding comes up in April.Stella I can't you enough for making our path cross.Bvs please put us in your prayers Fox better jobs for us..
Congratulations
Deletecongratulations and all the best in your forthcoming wedding. The favor of God will locate you and give you better jobs in Jesus name.
DeleteCongratulations dear
DeleteCongratulations!
DeleteCongratulations to you
DeleteSweet one
Will speak regarding a lady I met on this blog. Actually I wanted a friend and nothing more. But this girl puts forth a macho attitude, every little things gets her angry, ordinarily 'maam' got her angry without prior warning regarding that. I cant even complement her. we never saw each other cos we were very far apart.
ReplyDeleteAt at time she attributed my apologetic nature on issues to weakness. I never asked for nudes, never even lusted after her, at the end of the day, she wakka.
my question is, what do you ladies really want in a man? when u see a cool headed man, you misbehave.
This your question and last paragraphs so wrong and it doesn'thatch your narrative Considering you never wanted anything serious with her.
DeleteWhy will you refer to her as maam??
DeleteIs she your mother/ female boss?
Or you just wanted to rub it in that she is old?
You might have no bad intentions but your choice of words suggested otherwise.
* last paragraph is so wrong and it doesn't match*
DeleteI can see you are the one that do not know what you want.
DeleteI'm not surprised some of you will keep defending your I'll gotten attitudes.
DeleteSo starting as ordinary friends is a bad thing right, if you're bad as a friend, then you surely can't make a good wife.
Regarding a lady as ma'am is courtesy, I wonder how some of you anons who commented above grew up.
You guys can keep defending yourselves till thy kingdom come, candidates of SnM
Anon 12:25
DeleteI see ur point. seems u no be G-boi na, and u nor use Xup, Hey, Bighead, f**k, na wetin dey make ds gwegs happy be dt na.
If he nor address unna well, wahala, if he does, wahala.
Candidates of snm? Don't be silly15:43 I have never joined snm and never will. I am happily married so roll over with your pettiness.
DeleteYou said you wanted just a friend and nothing more and you still came back to say you wanted to start as ordinary friends first. Did you let her know that? Why trying to play smart? You are the one who obviously had a bad bringing if you think it relevant to throw a shade at how someone else was raised up to make a point that doesn't exist.
candidates of snm? Is that one an insult? Then you just insulted yourself.
Don't change your crafty ways. Yes! You are so crafty and acting ignorant at the same time. Very sly.
Anon 16:26
DeleteI see your pain, eeeyah, kpele, don't cry again u hia, oya take biscuit. Happily married you say, you wish, Lubbish
If you're happily married, so you never went through platonic friendship with him, it was fuck fuck from day one abiiii...
won't answer you anymore
She dodged a bullet oooo chaii😂
DeleteIs this one a man or specimen with with a dangling bits? 😅
Stella your bvs won't kill anyone. Whoever she is, she saw through you biko. I am sure if she brought her own version of the story, you would go into hiding. Look at the person chanting good upbringing up and down writing like a "tata". Grow up boy. It is your type that will be engaging in verbal altercation with your wife while a wrapper is tied to your waistline and still clapping your hand like a market woman at the same time😋have this🍼.
Anon, you may think that referring to a lady as ma'am is nothing, but to some women,it is totally wrong. Why would you refer to a love interest as ma'am. If a lady is single and probably advanced in age, you don't refer to her as ma'am. More so, if she is a love interest, you don't refer to her as ma'am, likewise. It makes her feel old. As trivial as this may sound, it is the sad reality. You have no business dating for now because you lack the emotional intelligence to handle that.
DeleteAnon, you may think that referring to a lady as ma'am is nothing, but to some women,it is totally wrong. Why would you refer to a love interest as ma'am. If a lady is single and probably advanced in age, you don't refer to her as ma'am. More so, if she is a love interest, you don't refer to her as ma'am, likewise. It makes her feel old. As trivial as this may sound, it is the sad reality. You have no business dating for now because you lack the emotional intelligence to handle that.
DeleteSo you haven’t even met this lady & you’re already casting aspersions on her? She really dodged a grenade. You’re asking what women want, obviously not your type!
DeleteA friend introduced us to this platform because she met the love of her life here.
ReplyDeleteOne Wale, a married man with kids added us(3 of us faa)a member of four square church for that matter. A very useless man me I blocked him 3days after when I found out he's a useless man and father with two cute sons faa. Don't know about my friends though.
My friend gisted me about one she chatted with. After 3 weeks , he started complaining that he was broke.. my friend said she told him that she wishes she could help but she is also broke for now. That dude now asked how much she has...lol. she said nothing and that was d last time they chatted. Close to a month now.
ReplyDeleteNice one .@ anon 12:15
ReplyDeleteDo single and mingles for whitemen
ReplyDeleteSo many married men are on this SnM, it's getting alarming... when my comment even specified i want serious single men. So annoying!
ReplyDeleteOne after adding me up and lying that he's single, just to uplaod a pic of his daughter, when i confronted him, the only thing he could say was his wife was out of town, he was bored and just messing around when he added ladies up on SnM. The other one too had a similar story. These are young men married not up to 2years.
Honestly SnM is slowly losing it's appeal. Plus it's happening too frequently.. Stella, isn't feb too soon for another one? Making SnM 3 times a year would be great, the anticipation and buildup will would be nice. Just my opinion.
I'm DONE with SnM biko! Had a good run.
Hopefully, I will try again next time. My grouse is that kids too much here. I will ask of from 40ies yet 28 boys still smelling momma's milk wil be telling me, "age is just a number" ooh chim. Pls Stella, can we have snm for ppl above 40 and single moms? I almost cried when I met the tata that was bothering me upandan,to think he feels it's nothing even annoyed me more.
ReplyDeleteI participated in 2019 Easter Edition and it was underage guys that added me, after clearly stating the age requirements i wanted! Lol
ReplyDeletei met a very good friend but i lost her number, J that lives in ikd with a cute son, i miss you.
I met one here through ur blog in 2017 and today we're married. I will to send my WNB but I'm nursing too. I don't know which one to send WNB, LRD, or OMUGWO???
ReplyDeleteSend WNB first,its been long,biko.
DeleteTheirs this fraudster, Gbenga. He called and we were getting on then he started narrating one story of eji gbaa nwa nnunu, nne ya ji nwuo. I realized but kept my cool, the next thing he called and was requesting for my atm details. When I refused or rather, I gave him wrong details, uncle insulted the hell out of me. Please beware.
ReplyDeleteBae,you too funny.Lol@eji gba nwa nnunnu
DeleteHow i wish participated,hope i will next time
ReplyDeleteSo men/boys will not have the respect to reply back after they have sent you and message.
ReplyDeleteToo babies mind in the single and mingle.
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ReplyDeleteI met a nice young man in the diaspora, a cute face too. What made me end communications was, he said he liked my necklace and wanted to show me he had a similar one only to send me a semi-nude pix of him. I am old school when it comes to love, that pic was too much. Can't people love without showing me your six-pack or dick. It was distasteful. Me I no talk I was done, walks out.
ReplyDeleteI am currently enjoying chatting with this guy for the past few days. But the problem is he has not ask me out neither has he demand to see my pics. He looks like a well to do guy. But am having a feeling he might be married. God pls lead me ryt. S guy earning 16k as a school teacher contacted me but I told him to go and secure a job lst that love shud not be his priority. I can't suffer.
ReplyDeletePlease give more hint about the 16k guy, like his area. Thank you
DeleteWhat's the meaning of love to you ??
DeleteYou can't suffer, so you think relationship is a paying job or a poverty alleviation program ?
Hungry girls looking for an escape route.
What if he pretended to see your reaction? Or he gets a better job within a few months later?
DeleteI refuse to believe you spoke to him in that manner, but if you truly did, then you lack tact.
You could have kept him as a friend if you weren't interested, you never know. You could end up meeting your husband through him at the end. In life you don't write people off like that and to think you are so vocal about it.
P.s. talking from experience.
And oh! The well to do guy must surely have someone he is seeing, that is if he isn't married. He is well to do, remember? And every lady is checking for him I suppose.
Anon 17:14 you are too much😘
DeleteStella I second the single and single for those in Diaspora cuz I am not looking for anyone in Nigeria atm
ReplyDeleteFor the Diaspora one, you have to be very care. There are still f**ker that are ready to leech on you. And the will be looking for mature single ladies & parents to milk. Forming Love at the same time..lol🤦♀️🤦♀️🙆♀️
DeleteI participated oo and I met one cool, sweet guy. I pray it ends up well between us. Man I dey gbadun you (please the gbadun is not about sex oo, we never reach that level). Thank you sweet madam Stella
ReplyDeleteI met one Abroadarian last year i think? Huncle is always about "show me boobs, show me pussy" Highly disrespectful and pompous oh..lolz .I just blocked him and deleted his number. Most of the abroad guys are married yet, they wont disclose. They are" getting through a messy divorce" Run oh! Its not everyone thats keen on relocating biko
ReplyDeletesnm, favour ooooooo, i met a wonderful, understand and sometimes stubborn princess here, she is like a mother, friend, sister,...very understanding. am blessed having her in my life..we are just like two children that is in love, i call her mummy..
ReplyDelete@15:50,Papa Moses,
DeleteI see you ooo
Hahahaha
DeleteYou ehn, I know you wella. I'm also blessed having you. We getting stronger by the day. Thanks for putting smiles on my face always.
Yea baby, I'm glad having you in my life.
Deletewhat is going on here?! loooooool
Deletei met my best friend here in snm and am so happy having her, we have done so many crazy things that i have never done before..(not sex ooooo, (people with dirty mind will be thinking is sex)
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I participate once and i met some guy but i later ended the chat because they always claim am busy
ReplyDeletebut i hope i find love in these new edition.
How I wish there will be Ann for 40s.
ReplyDeletePeople are not straight forward this day's.
Stella I want really love, the guy I met here is something else..You gave out your number that you are looking for a love interest but you always wait till the person chats you before you can talk..claiming busy all the time.No calls, have not even met him. Am done joor..my own man will come..Can't wait for the next one abeg
ReplyDeleteMaybe they think we too don’t have work and are not busy enough. But we still make the effort to keep in touch.
DeleteThem plenty for here.
Biko..what happened to the butterflies that were fluttering about the last post
ReplyDeleteThere are so many f**ker men/boys🙆♀️. Be careful ladies.
ReplyDeleteSo, I got emails from some of them, told them I am a single parent which I am, just basic. They taught I am interested in s**😳 at first chat. Because of what now?🤷♀️
Well, some of this men/boys do not know that, most of this single parents abroad are well off👌, which I am. But do not have time for relationship🙈🙄.
I decideded to give it a try because my last child will be off to Uni this September.They are saying I need companion.
Wow😱!!..see all of them(men/boys). Some will say age is not a number (which I do not care about but, they are not truthful).
Must everything be about sex or money?
Get to know the person first, all others things will fall into place.
Like I was saying, I made an appointment with one of them,to see him (I was actually going to book a weekend away with the person, and check on some project at the same time. I did not tell the man this).The person never reply or say he is busy. Only reply when I have gone and come back, saying he did see the message (I just politely Ignored him). If it is business, it will not wait for anyone.
Some will send you a message, you will reply and they let you
be hanging(ghost mood).I feel it is rude not replying a lady.
Well, there no more single and mingle for now(40 plus single and mingle will be better).
Thinking about my weekend getaway!!..🤪🤪
Cheers 🥂 to all the men/boys telling lies (you do not know who will change your life for good, be nice to who you chat with,and be truthful too.🏃♀️🏃♀️
I remember one abroadian saying that I'm not his type...married fool looking for who to decieve. Anyways couldn't be happier.
ReplyDeleteI need a companion
ReplyDeleteSame here
DeleteSnM some people will be forming serious discussions abi chats during work hours! Yes we want to mingle but not during office hours nau. I wouldn’t want my employees to be using my official time to chat so I wouldn’t do that to someone else.
ReplyDeleteEvenings are ok for chatting, official breaks. Even if you are the boss how do you just want to chat during working hours? Or even call during working hours? What discussions can you hold in the office environment?
Some people just behave unreasonably and they’ll be the first to run off and start complaining.
Thank you o. I personally find it very irritating when people (not just SnM) want to be chatting during work hours. Haba!
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