There are different schools of thought concerning this tasting before Marriage thing...Some tasted and realised they could not deal and moved on,some didn't and regret it cos there was no connection......This preacher says tasting is not good.....
What is your opinion
Quoting the person who asked the question, he noted that 'seeing' was a polite way of asking if she should taste it.
He stated that it is expedient to open up during courtship.
"in courtship, a man should be able to tell you if he has a medical problem, that's why we teach you not to hide anything from the one you want to marry. You don't have to see it to know it, that's why the man should tell you if he has a problem so that you'll know if both of you can pray over it."
How can you see a man's organ and then your eyes will just leave? Stop deceiving yourself. Can you see the man naked and your body will not act?
You don't see the organ before marriage, it's not pepper soup that you have to taste, they don't taste it.
He went further to say that in his church, if an intending couple sleep with each other, they will not be wedded.
To maintain integrity, don't taste the man.
He advised those in courtship to calm down because this is what they will do for life so there is no point tasting.
which organ is that? us it organic matter ni
ReplyDeleteHow many of his church members will confess to him that they tasted? Yimu
DeleteI'm #teamtaste
I tasted and I was satisfied before I married him.
I remember one fine Igbo guy that I dated back then. First son of the family o. His dick after erection was like my thumb. He made up for it with sucking and licking every part of my body but I wanted a good organ that can pound very well. This guy's dick will just be dangling inside of me, it was not even as long as my middle finger. Even condom sef was too big for his dick, it looked like oversized Tshirt on the dick. I had to dump him. Best, I hope you are fine wherever you are?
Team taste any time any day.
ReplyDeleteHow many men would come out truthfully to tell their women that? Some men agree to this "no sex before marriage" cos they know they are sick down there. To avoid such lies, have a taste to know it's strength and work mode.
Sluttychic.
Don't see but you can touch to know if it has life.
ReplyDeleteNo body wants story oo
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DeleteI agree with you Princess Yori, I must feel for size and life, I can't enter a one chance marriage.
DeleteHmm, he gave a good advise but what if on the wedding night you now discovered that oga's thing is not working and he didn't mention it to you, you start hearing things like I don't know what happened, it use to stand before, don't worry just keep rubbing it, it takes time. As for me even if I don't want to do and I don't want to seee I will surely feel its standing with my hand biko
ReplyDeleteI think if its discovered on the wedding night that "Oga's thing is not working" that will be a good ground for annulment of the marriage. However I don't think anyone wants to go through all that emotional stress.
DeleteSo maybe if one decides to abstain till the wedding, having a feel of it to give u a clue as to whether it at least reacts to the touch could be the way to go.
Yes peanuts, for me I will surely feel it even if am abstaining
Deleteits not about peoples opinion Stella. Its what God almighty our creator said we should do and its what we should live by. When god gives us a blue print on how to live by we always ignore but we keep asking for his blessing.
DeleteNot him but what the word of God says. The Bible ask us to flee all sexual immorality. May God forgive us our sins.
ReplyDeleteExactly. This is what God said, not Pastor Ibiyeomie, he is a pastor and has to follow Bible principles.
DeleteI hear u Sir!🏃🏃🏃🏃
ReplyDeleteIn this coronavirus period,this is what he came up with????Mtcheeew
ReplyDeleteMedical testing is necessary to ascertain the penile size and rigidity.
ReplyDeleteAre you kidding me? Why go through such a long process when my eyes and tongue can do the magic in 3 seconds?
DeleteHian.
@Finny you have got a wonderful test kit there
Delete@finny because you want to obey God and there isn't any excuse left for you anymore not to close your legs before marriage and keep hiding under the umbrella of "what if he is impotent? since there are other alternatives to figure that out that won't lead to sin.
Delete🤣😂i tire @Finny. Testing is necessary to avoid stories that touch
DeleteFinnyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!! Looooooool
Delete10:15👏
Delete@Finny I like you!!! We should totally be friends 😂😂😂
Delete10:15, get your useless holier than thou ass outta here
DeleteShooter you are the useless one. Utterly useless Gosh!
DeleteYou are full of bile. Swerve away from me. What I have written now that warrants insults? Did I talk to you? mannerless girl
I tasted..
ReplyDeleteand i saw that the organ was good and it was pleasing to my eyes. God has forgiven me, pastor. 🤷🏻♀️
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I like you joor.
DeleteI hear you @ Perxian
Delete@Perxian
DeleteYour reasoning is vain;
Wisdom that comes from selfish ambition is demonic:
james 3: 15 Such wisdom does not come from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic.
**** of course, my reasoning is vain..hence, the forgiveness.
DeleteChai... Wetin Sanusi no go see for Kano Emirate?🤭
DeleteYou tasted since now
DeleteFrom first marriage to the present to the next.
@ 13:09 In as much as I don't believe in sex before marriage and I don't support it one bit, the truth is your comment is really bad. Why talk about her private life? Are you wishing her a broken home? What do you mean when you say "from present to the next?" Please be careful how you use people's story to mock them. It's not fair.
Delete13:09,you are silly. Why are some of you so insensitive? When you want to be nasty, you go anon, coward.
DeleteAre you praying her marriage fails? Guess what, it won't. You see your type, you will never progress in life cos of your evil heart. What you wish for other people will come crashing on your head. Ugly bitter soul.
Sluttychic.
Anon 13:09, I reject it on her behalf. God forbid you. What a wicked thing to say.
DeletePerxie Darling, your marriage will last and you will enjoy every bit of it in Jesus name. Anon 13:09, get thee behind...
Delete@perxian. Lol I like that.
DeleteHere to read comments,I wonder how he knows church members who have slept together before wedding them
ReplyDeleteMaybe they use lie detector machine during counselling
DeleteEnter your comment... opportunity for we incomplete men to deceive our women.
ReplyDeleteyipee.
You no well.
DeleteMarriage is not something you waltz blindly into, its already a necessary risk to most people that desire marriage, why deliberately raise the risk bar higher? Of all the evil we unavoidably see around us today, the sight of a dick isnt one that'd lead us to hell, if we're not hell bound.
ReplyDeleteThis advice doesnt sit well in 2020.
@MacBeth
DeleteRevelation 21:8 But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, THE SEXUALLY IMMORAL, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars--they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death."
Whether it is 2020 or 9090, it does not change the fact that the Word of God is settled in heaven. Psalm 119:89
And when you get a disease from tasting, you die before the marriage and face same hell?
DeleteWhen you get pregnant before the marriage, you kill an innocent baby?
What does the bible say? The bible is everlasting for all generations, it doesn't change as the year does!
DeleteMay God help us all.....
The bible clearly states dos and donts for devoted christians, which has remained unchangeable & considered holy for centuries, but sadly, reality & bitter experiences has changed the human mentality with each passing year. Alot of christians often finds themselves stuck between making a decision based on reality... or based on their religious faith.
DeleteA Christian walks by faith not by sight dear macbeth
DeleteHe is probably joking. In this age and time of 2 seconds men with Biro cover amu? Man you better stop joking.
ReplyDeleteNot only will i see it, i am gonna hold it, I am gonna suck like lollipop and I am gonna ride on it like a damn horse. Come and beat me, I am in my house.
Yen yen yen yen
He's only saying what's in the Bible. Its left to you to obey or not. Some saw and tasted yet their marriage is still hell. Some didn't and are also not enjoying their marriages. Still wouldn't change Gods word
Deletelol @ 2-seconds biro-cover amu...
DeleteWetin be your address mek I come beat you like Odumeje boys beat sombori
Well said Omeh.
DeleteLeave your Bible alone, we all can't follow it.
DeleteLet those that want to taste and rest go ahead.
No be by force to follow Bible o.
That pastor tasted his wife and it was good. Times have changed, men are no longer trust worthy. Can you buy television or generator without testing? Something you will use for a long time? Sex is not the only sin on earth and besides all sins carry the same weight before God. Sir collecting stollen money from politicians as seed in your church is a sin. You will not preach that one. Sex before marriage is a broken record. Let the sleeping dog lie. Concentrate on preaching for salvation of the soul. period.
ReplyDeleteThank you Anon 9:14.
DeleteLet him tell us and proof he never tasted his wife so we can follow his example.
Soro okwu onum...Esola omume m.
Politicians are dropping stolen bags of money in his church and he is using it to buy acres of lands in choice areas of PH. He has acquired almost the whole of GRA Phase 1.
One politician that I know does not even pay his graduate workers up to 50k but drops millions as tithe in his church. Bought sound-proof generator for his church in 24 hours just because he was present in church service when gen shut down.
But his staff in his companies does not say anything good about him. The eye-service bunch among his workers are now attending Pastor Ibiyeomie church to buy favour and promotion.
So you now compare yourself with generator and TV, no wonder the devil is busy playing ludo with the life of folks like you who do not understand that they were created in the image and likeness of God.
DeleteHe is speaking specifically to Christians. That is God's standard for us. So you either chose to go with God's standard or not. It is not a general opinion for everybody.
ReplyDeleteSo if you say that you a Christian brother or sister and you are "Tasting tasting" then you are not following your Father's desire.
He desires the Bed undefiled. There's no middle ground 👌👌
100 likes for this.
DeleteYea, sure. A lot of God's standards we 'Christians' including pastors aren't following so let's keep it 100.
Delete👍👍
DeleteThank you engraced.
DeletePeople have completely trumped the bible commandments with reality.
Good and godly words or wisdom.
DeleteNice yarns 😊😊😊😊😘😘😘
DeletePerxian speak for yourself alone. Simply because you and the pastors aren't following doesn't mean others are. When you use a fallible pastors as the benchmark for your righteousness instead of Christ what do you expect.
DeleteThere are Christians and there are also 'Christians'. Know the difference.
A man can decide to trick you into thinking he isn't a one minute man. Take all sorts of sexual enhancement drugs before the marriage to please you and fool you into thinking he is a stallion. Then you get married and he stops after some time. So what will you do then?
DeleteWe have read a chronicle here where the woman complained of this issue and said before marriage her husband could go on for hours non-stop but now he doesn't even last two seconds. Testing is not a guarantee. If you can't obey God just say it and stop making excuses using others as a measure of your own personal walk with God.
Exactly, he's just reminding us of what is in the bible!!!
DeleteIF this is a basis for hell, e go bad ooooooh!! Looooooooool
Perxian I don't understand the keeping it 100 🤔🤔
Deletewhether pastors are keeping the Father's standard or not... is not my cross to bear oh.
I just want to make our Father proud...thats all. so I strive to do His will...thats how much I love HIM.
10:08 Okay, cHrIsTaIn.
DeleteSome people will be trying to justify their sin and lead others down the same path. Continue doing the devil's work for him.
DeletePerxian bold move right there, love how you aren't ashamed to admit where you obviously belong.
Delete11:54 and be forming woke on top.
Delete11:58😂😂😂🤣😅
DeleteHope he advises men to close their legs too.
ReplyDeleteWhen the Bible says "flee from fornication", it's as if God does not want you to enjoy. Imagine if ALL abide by this law, there would be no such thing as "his kini is not working", "his kini is too small or too big", "she's too dry or too wet", etc.
Sexual problems wouldn't exist if all had lived by God's standards
We have heated. Most people that didn't taste like me ended up regretting it
ReplyDeleteAnd what is the guarantee that after tasting, the whatever won't stop working at any point?
DeleteOr that the marriage won't scatter?
The marriages that did not endue, did the ladies tell you that they were not sexually satisfied?
Is sex the only thing that can sustain a marriage?
did you marry the penis or the man?
DeleteShe married the penis and the man! What is a man without a penis?
Delete@Aboki
DeleteA man has a penis already. It is just like saying "he' married a woman and her womb and breasts, doesn't a woman have a womb and breasts?
LMAO. No penis, no Man 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteWhat's the usefulness of a man without a working penis ?
DeleteSuch a man should be treated like an infidel.. 😆
But man can see & taste. Umu nwanyi, see as dem take us dey do bebeye
ReplyDeleteThe deception in the world is way too much to even do this. Most men with issues always jump at this idea. You see them seriously looking for victims that will help them cover their shame after marriage bcos of their religious stand.
ReplyDeleteThere is too much to deal with in marriage, wahala of a functional sexual organ shouldn't be one of them. Except of cause its stops functioning few yrs into the marriage.
Almost every comment I read on all blogs concerning what this man says disagree with his statement. Why are we going against the rules?? Forniation Fornication is now a norm. I remember telling my friend I've never had sex, come see the look she gave plus insults as if I have disease. As much as it is good to know the sexual performance of your partner, lets be wise about it. If u taste a d*** and it's not too good for you,will you keep jumping from one d*** to another till u find the perfect one?
ReplyDeleteMaybe They will keep tasting and tasting till they kingdom come.
DeleteYou have spoken well. We are ALL answering Christians but denying the power of Christ available to us. Omase oo.
DeleteYes, I will keep jumping from one d*** to another till I find the perfect one. Nne rapu okwu
DeleteEven if you dont really like the d**k at least you are emotionally prepared to manage it like that, for the rest of your life. Nobody wants to be getting that kind of shock after they sign does papers.
DeleteThere is nothing wrong with keeping your self until marriage, it's your choice. Allow others to make their own choice.
If you want to add sexual frustration to the list of marital challenges that comes along, by all means.
Let people choose their "Sin" themselves.
And while you are jumping like a frog pion pion pion...may you not have leg accident Amen.
DeletePauly, that's why it's good to know your stand and stick to it. Continue being yourself.
DeleteWide is the way that leads to destruction.
10:50😂😂🤣
DeleteGod's Word is final on any and every situation,you don't embrace some and try to muddle some with human reasonings,"No Sir" You embrace His with all of you when it comes to receiving favour,mercy, blessings or destruction of satanic powers but when it comes to His moral principles you reject ,analyze,observe,turn it upside-down ,watch it on 1000D,strech it,sieve,try to sediment it etc all in a bid to find errors.It is well. The Word is there for all of us, let's try and stop making it seem like it's the pastor's.
ReplyDelete#UDO
So how many are you ladies going to "taste?"
ReplyDeleteIs a "serial taster" not an ashawo?
Who teaches the new born the "taste" of breast milk?👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻
Is there a newborn that is incompatible with her mother's breast milk?
If you choose the person that God wants you to marry without the sentiments
of "where the money it, what I will gain from him; wealth, abroad" etc, don't you
know that the God that espoused and instituted marriage wants you to enjoy intercourse
and be fulfilled in it?
When God says "flee fornication" 1 Cor. 6:18, isn't he talking about abstaining from sexual
intercourse before your bride price is paid?
So when God says that all the sexually immoral will end up in the lake of fire Rev. 21:8, do
you take him for a joke?
Ladies, think wholesomely like adults and avoid the trap of Satan who want to make your beautiful
bodies his temple; the temple for his demons 👿👿
God wants to dwell in our holy bodies and bless us 😘😘😘
Yes,there's a new born incompatible with his mother's breast milk.Use something else for your comparison.
Delete@13:22
DeleteAre you talking about "lactose intolerance?" That one has got nothing to do with the mother's breast milk
but with all milks and any sugar (lactose) from milk. Explain what you mean please.
A man with a micro organ will find it difficult to open up and its takes wisdom to go about this issue...
ReplyDeleteWhat he speaks is God's standard from the Word of God...
Reading comments activated..
I agree this is God's standard.
Delete@ Stella Maris. Did the man create himself?
DeleteI will see and taste oooooooo
ReplyDeleteIt's not me that will be managing sex or be doing vigil for sexual compatibility when I can avoid it all.
In this time and age,God will forgive me.
I WILL SEE AND TASTE FIRST OOOO
Taste jare, God go understand why 😆😆😆
DeleteForever is too long abeg
So did he advise men not to also taste the cookie before marriage????
ReplyDeleteEverytime woman this and that. Male pastors will be advising only women, female pastors too will be advising only women, who will advise the men bikonu?
Pete edochie will advice the men
Delete@Pauly keep your virginity for your husband...forget your friend. A good man will marry you and treat you right.
ReplyDeletePauly seems to be a man though😁
DeleteNo she is a lady. I think paulina
DeleteWhether we like it or not, what he is saying is the truth. It’s now left for the people to either obey the word of God or do anyhow.
ReplyDeleteWe cannot twist the word of God to justify our actions.
It takes more than this for marriages to work.
I will say it over and over, i will not only seen, i must taste before marriage. I no de for chere ka m bia.
ReplyDelete😃😂 na chere were levels 😄
Delete...if an intending couple sleep with each other, they will not be wedded.
ReplyDeleteHow will he know those that have tested the amu b4 now or is he saying it's only virgins that can be wedded in his church?
I find it hard to understand when the word of God is spoken to a spirit filled individuals to understand and learn, church goers called Christians become hypocritical. Jesus said I know my sheepskin and they know me. He is not teaching the word for you church goers but for individuals that wants to live by the word. Your free to test and be prepared to receive the outcome of the Testing. Many marriages dont stand the test of time because the foundation of the marriage has been corrupted. You can force God into bending into your rules when he created the rules.. we shouldn't allow social media destroy our future.
ReplyDeleteOrdinary church goers ooo. By their fruit you shall know them. But be careful before they come to call you names.
DeleteWhy is everyone saying I will taste to know if he is that or that. I don't want story on the wedding night blah blah? In this computer age Where science can help you to figure it out without sinning. Why are you all pretending to be ignorant like you don't know you can figure all these out medically? If you want to fornicate and your thing is biting you just come out straight and admit it nobody will beat you Nah! Instead of using fear as an excuse.
ReplyDeleteEven me I tire ooo😅
DeleteSo science will tell you how long he can last in bed? Abi it will also tell you if his foreplay game is good too
DeleteI am a virgin but pastor I must see and feel biko. How would I know that the guy that wanted to marry me have a small dick? I would have been mourning that one in my marriage now. I want to enjoy sex in my marriage biko.
ReplyDeleteMy sister Ada Aguiyi, I had to run from an Abuja Lawyer I was hoping to say 'Yes' to...after spending a night in his house. His d**k is small and nothing I did could make it stand.
DeleteThat was the last time he saw me o. And fortunately, issues eventually came up that I used to say 'No' to his marriage proposal.
But meeeem! That was an eye-opener. Otherwise, how will I have coped in that marriage?
I think that as a Believer, "tasting" the one God has revealed as your future husband demonstrates a lack of faith in Him. Without faith it is impossible to please God. If one calls himself a Christian, one ought to belive that God has already made everything beautiful. {James 1 verse 6 But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. 7 Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. 8 Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do.}
ReplyDeleteMost people know that sex before marriage is a sin but are prepared to "test" simply because they do not trust God enough, and this lack of complete trust in God means that they have not fully immersed themselves in who God is, and what His nature is. To know Him, fully, is to trust Him unreservedly.
Mystique I know this your comment has to do with the topic but you don't know you just touched me in a different way.
DeleteThanks For speaking on 'faith' even when I didn't realise I needed these words. I don't believe in sex before marriage anyways but still I will screenshot this and would apply it to other areas of my life. May God bless you.
Anon 12.02
DeleteThank you for your comment. I am praying daily to grow my faith in Him and be unshakeable and deeply rooted in Him, come what may.
I pray that you will continually experience the immeasurable greatness of God’s power made available to you through faith. (Ephesians 1:19)
It's so funny what our generation has turned into. No one is heaven conscious anymore.No one knows when he/she would die, if only you have had a revelation of hell then you will know that 5 minutes pleasure is not worth eternity. The pastor would stand before God for his own life on earth and we would also stand before him and whether we like it or not the things we have read and heard will be used as evidence against us. Walk out your salvation with fear and trembling.. Be it homosexuality, fornication,lies,greed,unforgiveness.
ReplyDeleteEnd times..
DeletePreach it please. Hell and heaven is real. God help me to be consciously aware of this always Amen
DeleteIt's very scary .
DeleteReading some of the comments here make me feel like throwing up.
ReplyDeleteThe admonition the pastor gave is purely what the scripture says and it is not his personal opinion so those who have a problem with it should address the scripture and leave the messenger.
Those making silly comments and sounding like marriage only depends on the size of a man’s penis or his ability to use it for their insatiable pleasure should remember that Noah was preaching about the flood for many years but his generation rubbished and ignored his message until it happened.
I believe we all live by God’s mercy not because we are perfect but if we profess to be Christians we should strive to be sober towards his word and how we reflect our lifestyle including the over flogged issue of gbenshing and all that stuff
They pretend like they are insulting the person not knowing they are making big fool of themselves. God is the one who said that, so why pretending you are attacking the messenger not the one who said it himself (God).
DeleteWell said sir😌😌
ReplyDeleteLadies/women, pls let's be reasonable. If you insist on tasting/seeing the male organ b4 marriage, turn the table and explain how a man should taste/see the woman organ to know a woman with fertility issue. It seems many single ladies think marriage is ALL about intercourse.
ReplyDeleteLet us be reminded that what the pastor said is not his words, but the Word of God Almighty. Of what use is one's life if and when one lives it in COMPLETE DISOBEDIENCE? One is DOOMED.
I think it's high time we have a new testament of the bible.. Somethings are outdated and need upgrading. No sex before wedding?
ReplyDeleteHeaven and earth may pass away but my words will never pass away (matt 24:35 . He is the God of yesterday, today and forever (heb 13:18). He doesn't change neither does his word. Because of premarital we should twist the word of God? You are own your own.🚶♂️
DeleteBoth partners can test without intercourse and with their clothes on. There are many things a newly married couple need to deal with, bad sex shouldn't one of them.
ReplyDeleteRom12:1-2....1-2.There, I urge you brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God. This is our true and proper worship.(2) Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of our mind. Then we will be able to test and approve what God's will is. ...... his good, pleasing and perfect will
DeleteGod has never cared about the sex lives of human beings, not once has God ever spoken on it, all nah men speaking their own thoughts, not even Jesus spoke on the sex lives of human beings in his teachings. Why are human beings so fixated on sex?
DeleteIf you like follow this pastor's these pastor's at your own peril.
ReplyDeleteCan he tell me he didn't taste or test his wife before marriage ?
You all better test to avoid story that touch.
Prayer won't make a short dick long o.
There is something about sexual sin that is gravely damaging to the soul. I know cos I've been there. It grieves the Holy Spirit deeply and he wants us to FLEE from it. Fornication, adultery, all of it. This is the truth of God's word. But he doesn't leave us alone, no, he helps us to live celibately and avoid temptations by abiding in him. Clinging unto him. Loving him above anything the world has to offer, even above our desires. That is the sacrifice of love, and Christianity is love. Flee wordliness. Lust of the flesh. Lust of the flesh. Lust of the flesh. May God give us the grade, may God be forever praised.
ReplyDeleteAmen.
DeleteI personally believe in keeping God's standard before marriage. The bed remains undefiled till after the wedding, but I will not go about attacking those who don't believe in it. Let God be true... Let's preach the truth in love. We are not any better compared to those who are doing it, God's mercy and Grace kept us, so let's correct one another in love.
ReplyDeleteMy friend is going from one lawyer to anthoer seeking divorce, just because a brother in church decived her in to the marriage. She didn't touch,see or feel. she was just obeging her pastor. Only for her to find out on the wedding night that his organ was dead, I mean not standing at all. All this could have been avoided if only she had looked,feel or touched.
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