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Saturday, April 11, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post

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  1. I move on so fast now ,unlike before.

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    1. you never jam better love, no worry.

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    2. I think alot because things get to me easily.
      Even what am not supposed to reason.I always wake up with headache.

      But now everything have changed.
      What I always tell myself is that,if you like think from today till tomorrow it won't change anything.

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    3. You people sef, what is u never jam love? Hahahahaa, see , no matter how intense that love is, some people move on with speed of light. Everyone is not wired the same. To them, life is YOLO!

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    4. This YOLO mentality, once mastered, is the best and the sweetest even the most productive.

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    5. blackberry, if you move on quickly you were never deep in love, well you wouldnt know the depth of true love cus uve never felt it.... so youd argue movin on is easy, you were right we are not all wired same... you dont love deep

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    6. Same ere... i have never done dat heal before you start another relationship tingy, i move on asap. There's always a replacement Immdly

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  2. Anger...by reading the word of God constantly and asking Him to help me defeat the spirit..I bless God I'm free from it

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    1. LOL Shooter Gyal, you quickly claimed the prophecy. 🀣

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    2. Perxie, I just had to πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. Shooter oooh🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

      I also need this in my life biko

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    4. Awww Shooter hunπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

      God will surely help you

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    5. Lmao
      Shooter . Id be watching you closely from now on πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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  3. Smoking. Weed was my favourite. Oh, I'm female.

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    1. I used to masturbate a lot. There was something I wanted so bad in 2018 and my mind told me masturbation was blocking it. Whenever I part my pants and touch my clit, I remember my need and jump out of the bed. Somehow it stopped. I later got what I was looking for in 2019. But had already lost interest in masturbation. If I do it now, it's because I may be feeling stressed and doing it on purpose to relax myself. But then, it was beyond my control. Any private place, I must reach for my clit.

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    2. How did you quit smoking weed?

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    3. Eesah. Determination.
      I knew it wasn't good for my health.

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  4. I'll be reading comments to learn one or two things.

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  5. I'm still working on my anger mgt. It's not easy but I pray I overcome anger completely.

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  6. Washing my hands regularly and keeping my hands to myself when I'm out (I like to touch). Dropped that talk on "disease no dey kill African man" πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ thanks to COVID

    I sha don wash away the first layer of my skin this period

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£ we are in the same whatsapp group @ Aproko queen

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    2. My son can wash his hands for Africa now... He is Just six, sometimes he reminds me to do same.

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  7. Stubborn...

    I've learnt to keep quiet. Ponder over whatever it is and get it done. Instead of outrightly saying No and sticking to that.

    Chai, it was worse when I was younger. My parents didn't scold me much and I got away with a lot. Thank God for his Word that has cultured my character.

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  8. I used to be a heavy eater from my teens, in fact my mum nicknamed me 'ngaji puta nri eyego, ori ma o vio and Chidi onye afo nri' .

    I just noticed that after my last babies, food lost its appeal. I have almost gotten my shape back and I can stay till midday and not feel any hunger pang.

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    1. Chidi afo nri and ori ma ovuo where my late grandma favorite words for some of my cousins.

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    2. Kama o ga ado n’ite ka odoro n’afo🀣🀣🀣

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    3. Food for me too. I got older and realised it was useless giving my body what it doesn't need. Somehow I started disliking food. Now I can go 48hrs without food and won't notice.

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    4. 48 hours without food ke? Na die be that oooh😩😩😩😩

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    5. 48 keh?


      Except fasting
      No use ulcer crack joke o
      Abeg

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    6. Na ulcer you dey call@ anonymous

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    7. No it's not fasting and I don't have ulcer. I made it a rule not to eat anything or else I am truly hungry. So somedays hunger just doesn't come. There was a time it happened for four days straight. My man had to force me to eat and I threw it up. I just drink water and keep moving. Making myself hate food was done consciously before it became a habit. I am loving this habit because it is better for my life than when I loved food. I am in a good shape and don't fall sick. And when hunger comes, I eat whatever it is I like. If it likes let it have one billion calories, I don't check. Because once I am full, I lock up till whenever I feel REAL hunger again.

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  9. I used to care less, now I care more

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  10. I would say being lazy... but not to the point of dirtiness or being scattered (I've always disliked these) but with chores and other stuff. I kept telling myself that work doesn't kill, I muttered it under my breath until it sunk into my being. Well now, because i also have tendencies of being extreme, let's just say i try my best.

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  11. Accepting bullshit.

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  12. Little thing gets me upset due to what I've passed through but, in all God is good.

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  13. I don't forgive easily before. But with the help of God, I overcame that.

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  14. I used to consume a whole lot of alcohol and was addicted to crack cocaine. I overcame alcohol by cutting of most of the people I used to have around me and throwing myself completely into my job (this was after series of jobs and flunctuating performance due to hangovers). Then I overcame crack by moving to a whole new environment and staying away from people/places it can be easily accessible.
    I've been clean for over a year now and after a beer or 2 I'm good. I stopped drinking spirits completely and do wine occasionally. Just goes to show that there's a lot a person can do of you put your mind to it and remove distractions.
    Now my family members look at me and wonder at how much I've changed and grown up (they never knew about my bad habits but I'm sure they suspected).
    Truth is I actually love my life right now and all those other things were dragging me back and unnecessarily complicating my life.

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  15. I don't forgive easily before. But with the help of God, I overcame that.

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  16. I used to draw conclusions based on the current situation. In recent times, I have learnt how to tread carefully, by controlling my line of thought as against what is playing out. Also, if opportunity presents itself, I make inquiries to trace the beginning of the situation. This has helped both myself and others in figuring a way out of dicey situations without transferring blames.

    It’s a continuous journey.

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    1. Nice one sisπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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    2. Good one! I would have never acknowledged I sometimes, maybe, somehow somehow jump to conclusions if I hadn't read this. Now one more thing I need to work on.😣

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  17. Porn addiction. I fasted and prayed. God saved me. I find the thought of it disgusting now.

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    1. im addicted and loving it, i dont even want to get over that sweet thing. Its a good addiction.. its not an addiction if its good for your health & improving your metabolism

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    2. Aw, thank God for this testimony. Please do not go back. Find like two days in a week to fast
      and pray like Jesus taught. Sin shall not overcome us. 🌹🌹

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    3. im addicted and loving it, i dont even want to get over that sweet thing. Its a good addiction.. its not an addiction if its good for your health & improving your metabolism

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    4. @Posh,
      YOu believed all those lies? Remember that a person is a slave to whatever master that person.
      You are a slave to porn and can't get free by yourself. Only Jesus can set you free.

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    5. Havent you seen slave that dont wish to be free? na wao..
      I dont need Jesus hand in my porn oh.

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  18. Carelessness

    My dad didn't used to send me to get him drinking water, because he knows I might not check the cup or rinse his cup properly.

    I once lost our bank draft (my youngest sister and mine) my mum said she knew I was very careless but to miss place my school fees? She couldn't understand itπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚, after I had cried and gotten tired, I started praying, somehow I found it under the bed. To make matters worse, I married a very careful man, was wondering how I would cope but now I am better than before (although I an still learning how to sit properlyπŸ˜‹)

    So I started praying about it, I have gone half way to it and I am glad I am doing well.

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  19. I don't even know if I'm human enough,I get to numb pains and anger most times.

    But I'm making conscious effort to Care now

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  20. Used to get upset and angry easily, even over a minor issue but I'm overcoming it now. Will get there.

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  21. Anger. I don't get angry easily again

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  22. Anger and easily annoyed,hearing the Word of God and reading His words and i thank God for the testimony so far thru.my friends and family...

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  23. Masturbation. I'd masturbate everyday severally. It was just boredom doing me cos after I got admission I stopped since I got too busy to be imagining wild things

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  24. Stubborn, but I have learnt how to mellow down,bend and accept not to win argument all the time.

    Please I am a serious victim of over thinking.

    I mean I can think over the same things for complete 23hrs in a day even while working, i wiΔΊ be reasoning and imagining things, i no lie and I am a very emotional person.i am always afraid of the future, i guess my age doing me strong thing cos I'm 34years old and already seeing myself as stuck up and still single.

    Please help me to overcome all these if you can please.

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    1. I also have the same problem with you looking for a way out l have high BP now as a result of this and l'm 28yrs

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    2. Try to socialize,be liberal and accept things you can't change. Never force anything and above all make God you stronghold.

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    3. When it comes
      Break the thought by thinking about something else that is positive


      Also learn to quietly meditate on the Word of GOD

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    4. You described me... Only not anymore. I'm usually very enthusiastic and smart so I tended to over-think and over-calculate thinking it was by these things . Needless to say I was also emotionalso i understand what you.
      Try hard to distract yourself, if you're thinking "34" and not married,don't even worry,your suitor will come when u least expect.I learnt to be very specific in my prayers and to watch and befriend young children, your whole perspective will change and people will find you a more refreshing company rather than troubled and expectant... By then you would have imbibed new qualities that will make you better off

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    5. Thank you all,i am the anon .May God help me to overcome all these by applying all you have said,Amen.

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    6. I'm sorry Ng, may God heal us,Amen.

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  25. I had Nzu addiction,it was really bad. I kept telling myself it has no nutritional value and not good for my health. I also prayed about it,I'm free today.

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    1. Look at my second oo
      Mine was worse cus my mum used to sell it. I ate nzu to d extent I purged and vomited for 3 days. She had to stop selling it cus of me. I was able to stop when she stopped selling. That thing get spirit inside

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    2. Damn! Just when I thought I was the only one. I could travel from Lagos to enugu just to get Nzu... Mine was bad bad... Whenever I poo, it was hard and completely white in color... God truly saved me and I am grateful

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    3. Look at my group members πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜ that nzu is so terrible. Thank God πŸ™πŸ™ I no longer take it anymore.

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    4. Just load your body with iron and you'll stop. Google pika

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  26. Masturbation,like almost every night. I asked God to help me,I wasn't proud of doing such.

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  27. I am still trying to overcome pinching my nails, I used to bite them but I've stopped and replaced it with pinching. God help me.

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    1. I stopped one time, and my nails grew, very lovely. And i started biting again. Now, I'm trying to stop again o. God help me. My Mum even asked me if my nail is sweet that i'm always biting it. I said yes. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. I used bite my nails alot but right now I don't do it that often.i actually picked up the habit from my mum.

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    3. I used to pick my nails too.Expensive mani/pedis squashed that habit.

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    4. Haaaa i thought I'll not have something to write about.

      The way I ended my nail biting habit can make you vomit. But it worked Sha. My boyfriend likes his back scratched. Even when I rub, he'll insist on scratch. At a time he developed a rash and still obliged me to do it. I would manage and anything I feel like biting my nail, I'll remember. That's how I stopped o. It's been 2 years now. It's not funny at all.

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  28. Procrastination oh...
    Though I'm still working on it...
    Buh when I'm bout to procrastinate,I jus remind myself not to even try it...
    Me and myself begin to argue with the "do it now...no! Leave it till tomorrow then you do it"... Finally I end up grumbling with myself while going to perform the task... And it's working for me... God help meπŸ™

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  29. Nail biting. I just stopped, made up and mind and kept to it. It’s been 5 months. Funny I do t even have the urge to bite again.

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  30. Sharp tongue/mouth as it's called.

    My childhood friend called my attention to it and I was touched, I consciously stopped it with the help of God.

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  31. To lick nzu, I buy in basket then, but immediately I took in for my first baby, hmmm nzu no gree me again.

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    1. God has delivered me from it oh, I am so happy I cannot think of it again.

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  32. Pornography and masturbation. I'd been struggling with them for over 10 yers and I'd been praying to God for help but I never kept off for more than a month. IT IS TRULY A DEMONIC ADDICTION. One day after indulging in these evil acts I fell on my knees out of shame and guilt and literally cried out to God to deliver me. Ever since, I have been completely delivered, I don't have any urge to masturbate or watch porn, I do not even get tempted and I am ever so grateful.

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  33. My bad habit? I used to care very much about everyone around me but after series of heartbreak and betrayals, I stopped caring and it went too extreme now, I'm trying to learn again but it feels good bullshiting everyone but I know it isn't very good cus no man is an island

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    1. Having a heart of a mother is not easy to stop helping out. I have also experienced what you said but I still didn't stop being a nice person.

      Keep doing the good things that you have been doing. Your reward is in heaven.

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  34. I find it hard to forget when someone hurts me,now i can forgive but i can't still forget

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  35. My worst habit that makes me appear very weak is forgiving too quickly and easily. I'm quick to forget how badly I have been hurt

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    1. I am like you. Had to start writing it down so I can remind myself how painful it felt before letting them back in easily. But I still slip even with the writing because it is who I am.

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    2. I think it is a virtue. On the contrary, you are a strong person believe me. I wish I were like you.

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  36. I find it extremely hard to forgive and forget, especially when the hurt pierce right deep into my soul.
    Also have anger issue. I hardly take joke.
    Addicted to my phone.
    Addicted to soda and sugary things.
    Addicted to sex.

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  37. Addicted to smelling my used panties. I deeply inhale the smell and get high. I also insert a finger into my vj and smell. Difficult habits to stop. I also try to suck my nipple. I have a very long breast.

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    1. You don stretch the thing to slippers na wa o

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    2. Are you sure you wont love septic tank?

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    3. Annoys 21:45 you just killed me with this comment.πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£21:45

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  38. No matter how angry l am with him
    No matter how he offends me. Immediately he says he is sorry. All pain flies away. I know he is lying most times. Immediately he kisses me, My whole body will melt and l will be begging him to sleep with me. He knows l love him so much and he is using it against me. I need to leave him but don't know how. We are not talking about marriage.

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    1. You have sold your self esteem to a man who doesn't love you. The guy will use you and dump you for another lady.

      You should dump him before is too late, make up your mind and see how you will bounce back.

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    2. You are obsessed with him and it is NOT healthy for you!

      You must consciously start trying to detach from him. Whichever way you can. Don't worry; if the love is true love, it won't dissappear.

      But you have to get yourself out of that pit where it feels like he is your oxygen! It is a very dangerous place to be.

      He is human like you and NOT God. He will keep abusing those feelings of yours if he is a bad person till you DO something about it

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    3. Hmmmm.....you will have to do the needful soon. Thankfully you have realized there's a problem.

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  39. Mine is making friends so quick and they end up hurting me.

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    1. I know someone like you and she never learns.

      Her own is over excitement of making new friends and ditching the old ones. But they always disappoint her and she doesn't fail to run back.

      We her old friends don't make her comeback easy for her. Once she starts calling non stop, we know she is troubled and has been ditched again. We ignore her.

      Las las make she no go commit suicide, we go pity am.

      We have accepted her the way she is though and don't take her serious because e no dey hard her to jump onto the next excitement

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  40. I overcame porn by living in the Spirit

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  41. Sucking my thumb,i didn't stop until my late 20's,i literally got tired of it at a point...

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    1. Okay...this is funnyπŸ˜‚

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    2. @Kamikaze it was a serious addiction and i got beaten alot. Thank God for my life.

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  42. I used to masturbate. I stopped when I learnt that it results to quick ejaculation. I used to think it's spiritual. A female friend help me stop it. I didn't even pray about it. The way I stopped is miraculous

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  43. I am a foodie,even when I am not hungry,but when I am busy I forget.once I am less busy,I begin stuffing my face. I eat too much when am at home.I just keep eating.I dread weekends,because I eat too much I can't breathe properly. I am tired of eating. And what's worse,I don't like the food I eat.

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  44. I used to be bisexual but God brought me out of it.. I fasted and I prayed, I asked God for his forgiveness and gradually God brought me out of it. Now am a new creature.

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    1. Na lie.
      It hasnt gone.
      When u meet one hot girl willing to do it wit u and ure alone, then tell me if ure no longer Bi.

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  45. I used to get angry over little time I also argued blindly. But God has help me to stop. I started making efforts to change when I realised they were problems I had. Now I don't argue and people that knew me then thank God for me.

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  46. I move on like no man's business, no matter how much I love you. I cannot allow it affect me even for one seconds.

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    1. Me too oo, in my case, the next person is always waiting

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    2. Now this is what I need.i am suffering in this relationship

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  47. Reading comments

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  48. Where in the Bible is it written that mastubating is a sin? Or watching porn? Where??!!!

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    1. Can you finish watching porn and go out to talk about God. Can you watch porn and masturbate with people around.
      you know the truth but looking for an excuse to continue.
      Study Romans 1. read the whole passage with different translations. you will find the answer you seek there.

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    2. Oh I wish we understand How spiritual Sex is. it us a covenant and all those people you watch doing crazy stuffs are just pulling you down to their low-level

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    3. Sorry for you oh, keep waiting for who will argue with you. You go tey for dereπŸ˜’

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    4. It is written in your heart. Does it feels wrong in your heart? Do you feel guilty after the act? God has put in our heart and conscience the ability to know what is good and bad. Except the spirit of God doesn't dwell in you, you will just know that Masturbation is a sin.

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  49. I pluck out my lashes with my hands,is there anyone like me here,I can sit down for hours trying to pluck out my lashes till I’m lashless!!God needs to help me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. This is me, it's a messed up disorder, it's called trichotillomania and I need help.. Sometimes I vow not to do it and then I go for like a month without doing it, but it's so compulsive and I end up clearing my eyelashes and sometimes eyebrows all off, I just use my beauty to console myself πŸ˜”
      I think fixing artificial nails prevents you from picking the strands of hair out, just that I hate fixing my nails

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  50. OVERCOME STELLA NOT OVERCAME

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    1. The mistake was done by the person i send to that helps me format them....you can also overlook and move on and stop screaming like a mad person

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