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Friday, May 01, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post..

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  1. I later got tired and opted out.

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    1. Exactly. I catwalked out abeg. It takes two to make a relationship work, so does communication. Be waiting for me to do all the calling, and when I don't, I hear "I haven't heard from you". Yea, you haven't heard from me cause you didn't call. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

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    2. Yea, I told him and ended it.
      He kept begging for years.
      I'm married to someone else now

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    3. I dated him for four year, iwe were both working and he is not saying anything about settling down. I ask him one day where the relationship was headed, he looked at me straight in the eyes and said nowhere. I quietly left his house, cried myself to sleep that night, went to work the next day, applied for my leave. After two weeks, I tried to my sister's house and had a major breakdown. I resumed work but was still looking haggard and vowed to be off men. After two months,my boss told me he will like to introduce me to his son, I told him I wasn't interested. The young man collected my number from his dad and started wooing me. I resisted but, he was everything my ex wasn't. He made me feel special and important and exactly a year after my ex and I separated, I married the best man in the world. My ex came back later but then I was even wondering if he used juju on me, because I couldn't imagine myself dating him. He still going about telling everyone that I left him for a big man that I was already dating my husband, that I set him up so I will have excuse to leave. But I am too happy to Care.

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    4. Anon 21:23 nice it ended in praise. May God continue to bless your home.

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    5. Anon 2123 Imagine! God really loves you. That's how you would have missed your real husband if that time waster had married you.

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    6. What men do to women. I honestly feel good whenever I hear of a man killed by a woman or wife or babe

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  2. Never happened to me.๐Ÿคท

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  3. No!! But if peradventure it happens,I will simply GHOST

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  4. No, I've never been in that situation and I pray not to be in such a relationship.

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  5. Walk away.๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ

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  6. African Queen1 May 2020 at 18:04

    No time

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  7. I have dated two different guys who never liked my ear rings. I have three holes on my ear. I'm a very good girl with a nice attitude,I'm also loyal. To cut d story short one left me n got married to a lady with several tatooes. She wears seductive dresses n has a nose ring in while d second who told me that his mother won't accept me with rings on my ear if he should introduce me to them. Guess what,he has been dating a girl after me who has several rings on her ears n a nose ring too. Men just do u

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    1. Just forget those guys, they are not real men. You deserve better.

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  8. I just let the relationship die a natural death!

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  9. I comot....kpomkwem ๐Ÿคท‍♀️

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  10. Waited for a replacement, then switched lanes.

    Melancholy

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  11. I just walker, although I was still in love with him.

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  12. I held on to the relationship with everything
    I turned myself into a carpet to walked on
    Until he decided to verbalize his feelings
    He just wasn’t into me.
    I had no choice but to walk๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฟ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฟ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฟ‍♀️
    I eventually regained my confidence
    I wish I had taken the cue and left the relationship earlier with my pride n dignity intact
    Sadly, if he calls today, I think I might still go back to him. ๐Ÿ˜ž ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝ‍♀️

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    1. Eyaaa, don't blame yourself because the heart wants what it wants........
      Just continue to work on your self esteem and be happy. Wishing you a lovely boo that will love you to pieces. ��

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    2. Awwwwwwwww you really love him.
      You will get someone who will love you and treat you like a queen.

      Sluttychic.

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    3. Oh girl you may still love him but LOVE YOURSELF MORE!!! Yes I a shouting. Value yourself no matter what. It is okay to still love him. In fact you may never get over him. But biko, do not go back. You will look back in old age with shame and regret if you do.

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  13. I'm in one now, but I focus more on myself more than than the relationship.
    He travels a lot, and I don't complain cos he is pursuing his destiny. Me too I'm also busy in my own side.
    If it later works out fine, all I know we do say I love you.
    I don't give relationship 100 percent time until it leads to marriage.
    I don't like stress, what will be will be

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  14. I just bone and walk away peacefully.

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  15. Wo!!! Anuty I waka comot even though mummy was crying for grandchildren up and down

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  16. Quitely left like a cat.
    He got married April 2019 thinking he has done the worse(break my heart) and then blocked me on WhatsApp.

    By August 2019, I got married too
    Two saturdays after he unblocked me was my wedding and he was greeted with my wedding pictures. Still a shock to him till date because he's being trying to be friends agian with stories that touch the heart.

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    1. Now you can block him.

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    2. I like this. Better leave him where he belongs, the past.

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    3. It's time you do the blocking and permanently too.

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    4. Please block, blocker, blockest o. He wants to come back to destroy your destiny. Some men get off on the fact that they can click their fingers and any woman will come running. God has elevated you. Do not stoop to his level.

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  17. So how does it feel like you are paired, sex?

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  18. That's simply cos the relationship was never defined from the start.

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  19. I left. No time for rubbish.

    He came back asking that we start afresh, I refused.

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  20. Well, I was the one that made him feel like he was single. He kept asking me why I don't love him anymore . I left because he's rich and just a yahoo boy. He has nothing doing. Wasn't easy , cos I was riding his cars and living in a big mansion. But I have to leave and work hard for myself. He taught I was cheating that was why I left, but I didn't tell him why. Now he bought a glk for his latest girlfriend. I'll keep working hard till I make it. I have 2 businesses that are doing well. God is with me.

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    1. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜
      Melancholy

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    2. You should have advised him to stop and invest the money he already has into a good business and not just walk away except he wasn’t that good to you or treat you that well

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  21. Never been in a r/ship before, looking forward to it though.

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  22. Yes...it hurts always claiming busy, then i told him my mind i cant continue with the relationship and i moved on now he is back saying
    we should be friends but mi o fo i cant fall for his trap again...nonesense.

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  23. I ghosted him without asking him why sef .He was waiting for me to start Nagging or complaining so as to boost his Ego'sbut I disappointed him.

    Later he started swearing true to God that this one happen and that one happen.

    I refused him till today.i kno fit shout.

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  24. I dump dem fast. Most men intentionally do it just to frustrate you to leave them alone. Pls move on.

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  25. I dated a guy like that!! He wont call me for days but when I ask he tell me I nag too much. I believe I was wrong being to emotional that I love him too much. I noticed he was just doing all that maybe for me to leave. Well I did. Good riddance to bad rubbish

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    1. Anonymous 19:52,your experience made me remember a certain guy whom I was dating with undiagnosed multiple personality disorder, a doctor. He self confessed that he had mood swings from the onset and I thought it was something that could be managed. We can plan to see one day, but when the day comes, he would say, he is not in the mood. Whenever, I called him out for his cynical patterns amongst other things, the dope said I nagged too much. Sweet me o! I realised he was manipulative and there was something he wasn't saying. So, one morning I just asked if he wanted to continue with the relationship, as I was already losing my mind. He said he would think about it and by nightfall, the dope said he wasn't willing to go forward. I cried ehn. Never in my life had I done so for a guy. I begged too.
      I kept hoping for him to change his mind and when I finally blocked him out of my life, the second after he called to ask if I intentionally blocked him. He disturbed me a lot after.
      Immediately after me, he went back to his ex-girlfriend before me. Tried to make me jealous too. Indent humiliated. However, I had lots of dreams about him.
      The weird thing about the whole thing was,whenever he was going to reach out time, I would have a dream that he was going to. All of these happened 8 years ago. Did I mention that he eventually married that girl he went back to? He did.
      As it is the habits of boyfriends past, they hit you years later to tell you they regret the decision of not choosing you. With him, that happened concurrently up until 3 years ago.

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    2. Wow, good riddance.

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  26. I ended it immediately. No time to waste. Always expecting me to do the calling

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    1. Wise you. That is always a bad sign.

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  27. I had one like that. Always busy and wouldn't hang out when he's less busy. Leaving a boring life and very stingy too. I took a bow and left. After a couple of months he tried getting us back again i blatantly told him it there's no room for second chance. After a while hubby showed up, we settled down almost immediately. 2yrs after i got married i learnt he passed on. He didn't get married, lost his job and was terribly ill before his demise. Too bad... inside life i guess.

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  28. Life is too short.. everyone deserves to be happy.
    Please walk away if u give in more energy than u get.

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  29. Once I see the relationship is not heading anywhere I would just discharge you jejely.

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  30. Go learn about mental health, and low self esteem issues.
    It's always either 1 or the other.
    Maybe the man / boy is mentally ill. Playing tricks, toying with others emotions to get reaction which a sick person will find amusing & fun game to play the hide & seek, or wait & see game to somebody they "say they care for"๐Ÿ˜ก

    Or maybe the girl/ woman have low self esteem issues. To turn herself into a mop, object of play for a man to toy with her heart & mind to achieve an intended reaction.

    ***if u see urself in such situation & u r not sure what it's all about, then sit the other person down to ask them why such attitude or behaviours, attitude sporadic episodes of ghosting u??
    If u have self respect & self love, let them know that a healthy relationship is meant to be mutual. Not 1 of 1 person always chasing after, calling, made to feel less important or desperate.
    Jump & Pass!

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  31. I dated a guy who on my birthday was busy romancing a girl in front of me and he gave a piece of my birthday cake to the girl to eat. I left him to God. After 3 years he came begging. He said i just came to greet you. How are you? I just started laughing. I welcomed him, he was scared to even sit down.

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