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Good day Stella and lovely bvs

I am 26yes old and i got married 2yrs ago, I was down with pelvic pain, discharge and fever last month that i ended up in the hospital.

 After series of test they found out i had chlamydia and it has turned to PID ( i had chlamydia for 2years), my world almost collapsed.

 I have been with only my husband so how come? Well my husband was sent to the lab and he tested positive too, the nurse told us it has been lying dormant in his blood For years without knowing. 

We haven't been being trying for a baby cos I'm undergoing treatment for heart issues. I have been treated and I'm okay but I'm scared and worried, i want to have a baby and i read STDs causes infertility. 

The doctors said they can't conduct fertility test on me until we've been trying for at least a year.. I'm just so worried it has affected my fertility. I will die from the heart issues sooner or later anyway but atleast i want to have a child.
 I don't know why this is happening to me, i don't sleep around and i am always careful.. please i need words of encouragement as this anxiety is aggravating my heart problem.::

*Why do you want to have a baby you will not be able to take care of?Why not forget about having a baby first and treat the heart issues and then stop worrying please...OK?


  1. This is seriously serious.

    1. Poster,if you're not careful fear,anxiety and worry will kill you faster than the heart disease.
      Haven't you heard about Jesus the healer?
      I want to encourage you to believe in God,re-dedicate your life back to God and watch how God will take all your worries away.
      God will heal you,bless your womb and heal your husband too,if only you will believe.
      Please believe with me,cause starting from today, I will pray for you and I believe God will come through for you.

    2. I hate reading sad chronicles I swear. It disturbs my soul I don’t know why anyone should suffer .sometimes I wonder what this life is about

    3. God is always in control, take all medication necessary and you will be fine.

      With God all things are possible and you will carry your own child.

      PID can be treated and you can still have kids. Stop thinking of the worst and have faith.

      Its advisable to run tests on other sexually transmitted diseases before marriage oh, i have never heard of it being dormant.

    4. Hi lady, I just want yo ask, y are u pronouncing judgement wen the lord hasn't said anything?

      I will advise, join the HALLELUJAH CHALLENGE by Nathaniel bassey everyday by 12midnight either on his IG page or YouTube. Table ur matter to d greatest healer...master Jesus, d he will sort u out.

      Be of good cheer and seek the lord, u wi be fine.

      Pls stop being a pessimist.

    5. Reading this arouse my fear, my ex boyfriend infected me with HPV(he wasn't loyal) it has been 8years now I had warts i went to the hospital and was given some antibiotics. Should I be worried?

  2. Uhmmm. Poster for now take care of your body first.

    I Pray to God for you to givr you direction..
    You will be fine..

    Don't think oo, so that you don't have panic attack.

    1. Poster, it is only God that has the final say, the mother of Joel Osteen was given six week to live about 30 years ago and she is still alive today, it doesn't matter what doctors say about your heart, you can outlive the diagnosis. The first step is to stop any kind of negative confession like the one you said up there, words kill faster than ailment. Speak life to your body and to your heart. Look for scriptures that talk about God's plans for your life and your health and Meditate on them, cram them and rehearse them till your spirit man absorbs it.
      You can also do the same for your fertility. God gives His children the desires of their heart, so if it is your desire to have children, He will give them to you and make sure you are there for them.
      Just know that God feels your pain and it is not His will for you to suffer both infertility and a weak heart. He is not punishing you for any sin. There is just one word in the scripture that you will find that will put an end to this pain you are feeling.
      When all else fail, Jesus doesn't fail. He is your creator so He knows how to fix what is broken. Just go to Him, hold tight to Him, feed yourself with the word, Kill every fear and stand on Hid promises to you.
      You won't die, you will carry your babies and we will hear your healing and fertility testimony here.
      Remember no negative confessions or statements regarding your health. I'll kepp you in my prayers dear . It is well

    2. Thanks, hope she will read this. God bless you, positive confessionsreslly help.

    3. Poster be positive and prayerful. Only positive thoughts and you'll be fine, trust God

    4. My dear, thank God they caught it early. It is not the end of the road. God that gave Sarah and Elizabeth babies at old age is still alive. He opened the wombs of young Hannah and Rachel ( blocked fallopian tubes was likely the problem) and they conceived, please this is the time for you and hubby to encourage each other.

  3. Calm down, they will treat the PID n it will clear, it's just an infection. If you are worried, go and check your tubes, if they are open then forget it, you go carry belle sharp, then let your waka waka husband check his sperm cells, left it not be that chlamydia has turned his sperms to ordinary water without sugar.

  4. But how did you know, you will die soon? Stop talking negative please. It's well with you sister.

    1. Enter your reply...How on earth could she wish herself death and at the same time seeking for encouraging words from the public. I am totally upset with you already.

  5. Stress of caring for a child alone can compound to your heart issues. Unless you have family support system to help care for your child. Like Stella mentioned, take care of your heart and health please. A child deserves a mother in his or her life. I’ll say you’re being selfish based on your current situation. But then again I understand why you want a child as children brings happiness and blessings to a family. Wishing you the best honestly and prayers to you. Ps: sit down with your husband and find out what’s really going on with this STD situation.

    1. Please get a surrogate.
      Dont go through pregnancy.
      Pregnancy stresses the heart and lungs.
      Please dont do it

  6. The power of life and death lie in your tongue! You will not die bv, you will live long to carry your children’s children. Do not give up hope trust in God with all your heart he still does miracles! Take it easy on yourself ok? Sending love and light your way! I will put you in my prayers .

  7. Poster please stop be negative in your thinking, Jesus has all the spare parts of our body, go to in in fervent prayers and in Faith, and receive your own brand new heart, and total healing and restoration, don't give up on God, cause he won't give up on you he is able.

  8. Sweety....God will keep you. You will notndie. Also on the PID, you have been treated of it, be positive, your fertility is intact. A number of ladies have treated same thing too and went ahead later to have their kids. The worrisome part of this your narrative is the heart issue. May God heal you completely. Amen.

  9. O God, please take control

  10. So sorry poster, it is well with you.
    Please follow stella's advice. Treat the heart issue first. Don't give birth and render the child motherless, don't be selfish PLS, consider the child. It's not easy growing up without a mother. No one can ever take care of your child like you would honestly not even your own mother. God will heal you, keep praying,be positive and keep pushing, you'll be fine by God's grace

  11. Poster I'm sorry for what you're going through. This your post shows that you're not even strong for yourself yet; how much more when you have your kid? Kids come with their own stress and you don't sound like you can handle that. Please follow Stella's advice. Don't punish your baby by birthing it and leaving it to suffer in this world without you. Please be strong. Sending you love and strength😘

  12. Please reject negative thinking and focus on getting better or managing your health situation.

    You might be surprised that when you and your hubby are ready for kids, you'll get pregnant and have kids without any issues. So stop worrying about something that hasn't happened yet.

  13. Oh dear poster, I really feel your pains. Don't worry yourself about not being able to get pregnant; just start trying to get pregnant while putting your trust in God.

    God will heal and cleanse your heart from every toxins and make it fresh and new again.

    You will not die, you will get pregnant, give birth to your kids and raise them with your husband.
    Be positive and make sure you and your husband take and follow your doctor's advice while you keep praying and doing everything right and eat right too.

    The Lord is your strength, stay positive dearπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

  14. Why are you so afraid that you will put a death sentence in yourself? Your body responds to what you say. The Bible says we will eat the fruit of our lips. So how about if you declare life and health to yourself daily.

    How about waking up in the morning to.declare that you will live and have children and be able to take care of them.

    Do not be anxious. You have no idea what God can do. Decide to live and live well without a care in the world about your challenges. Do what you need to do, but dont let it weigh you down or decide for you how to live.

    I see you living, and I see you birthing your own children. And I also see you living for a long time to come. What you see is what you get, what you say is what you get.

    All the best.

  15. Dnt say you will die anyway from the heart issues??? Please speak life! God is still doing miracle and you case is not the worst ma. Why not concentrate on urself first.

  16. Poster it's well with youπŸ™πŸ™ pls stop the negative confession and declare positive affirmation into your life daily,read the word of God and take all your worries to your Maker, there's nothing impossible for God

    You can connect on IG, Facebook and YouTube for the hallelujah challenge that's is currently going on and I know you will testify soon

    You need to be in perfect health first to birth a baby,take care of yourself first plsπŸ™πŸ™

    Sending you strength and love πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

  17. Young woman at 26yrs, why give yourself unnecessary problems?. You are just 26 for crying out loud this one you chose to be this negative, it won't lead you anywhere, rather it will compound your problem. There is no way you can conceive with these worries. Free yourself from all the thinking.
    Learn to be positive towards yourself. Encourage yourself in the Lord.

    Allow the doctors do their job, your duty should be pray and trust God for a good result.


  18. Seriously there's nothing wrong in having a child. Even if you won't be here long your husband will be. But don't let the worry kill you first. You need to relax, & let life take its cause .
    You both treat your STD, then make sure your heart is in a good condition and then try for a baby, if baby comes fine, if not fine. Do not worry again

  19. Poster never say never. Kindly take care of yourself first and enjoy the life you have. Why bother about tomorrow when it is not promised to anyone. Has worry ever solved any issue.

    Kindly leave God to take control and be a wife for your husband.


  20. U will not die anytime soon by God's grace, u will die at a very ripe age. Stop confessing negative things about yourself. Take care of ur health for now cos the stress that comes with pregnancy and child birth is not what your health need now, u are still young. Except u are going to use a surrogate no matter the family support u have that nine months is not easy for some at all myself inclusive. U might not be among those that have smooth, uneventful pregnancy. U will be fine, PID is treatable.

  21. Dear poster,you need to be optimistic. Take your mind off detrimental thoughts and you shall not die but live to reap the fruits of your Labour. Hold on so as for the doctor to carry out fertility test which i know is gonna come out positive,also make sure your husband is also clean medically. Once you have a baby it would give you something to live for. Never give up on life😍

  22. Jesus please fix this. AMEN.

  23. Madam, why are you condemning yourself like this??? Please put your trust in God, stop worrying and allow your treatment to work on you.

    Infection can be treated and you will conceive.

    Please stop being anxious and allow God to help you out.

  24. Madam, heart disease is not going to kill you anytime soon. Get treatment and as for birthing, you can have a baby and make sure someone from your family will be there to care for him/her no matter what even if the child has a father.

  25. Wow. Why do you want to be ing children into this evil world and not be there yourself to direct their path?? Your husband might (most likely) re marry when you pass on. Why give the burden of looking after that child to the new wife.

    1. This your comment eh, its not it at all. She doesn't own her life. In fact you have put a death sentence on her. I pray she doesn't give heed to your words.

  26. Do not fret for it only leads to evil Psalms 37:8
    Jesus taught that worrying does not add a single hour to your lifespan.Matt. 6:27
    Instead, worrying steals hours, days, years, decades from your lifespan.
    The first step to peace (of mind) is to make Jesus your Lord. Study his Word, his teachings
    in the New testament. There are no better encouraging words than those. And these are
    the words that will grant you eternal life. And do not forget that he is a healer too. You
    will find out when you read his word. He created that ailing heart of yours and can make it
    whole again. He is your creator. Trust him, pray to him, worship him.
    Let the weak say I am strong.Joel 3:10
    And to the rest of you ladies and gents reading this, I say "repent". Peace to you all.

  27. May the Lord coke through for you ❤️

  28. PID can be treated.

    Right now you need to go to God in prayers. Stop saying you will die soon. Doctor Jesus is still in the business of doing Miracles.

    Take one step at a time and everything will fall into place. Treat PID, make sure your heart is in a better condition and start trying for a child.


  29. Lady, Stella has advised you well. You have to be alive and strong first to have a baby.
    And please do not be hard on yourself or husband. Most people made mistakes/deliberate acts in
    the past and some are now wiser and resolute.
    The sins of some people are obvious, going ahead of them to judgment 1 Tim. 2:24
    That Scripture there is for those who use their waist to do Gulliver's travels.
    YOu may not be sleeping around but you may be sleeping about; from one relationship to another.
    Sexual immorality begets STI/STD/HIVs/eternal damnation. Nothing good comes out of it.
    Think about it. Jesus is calling, for he died for all of us.

  30. Dont ever say you will die soon are you God..poster be strong and relax yourself God is your strength.

  31. poster take it easy with yourself, you will have a baby but first of all you will need to take medications to cure the STD first before trying for a child.

    I know is not easy not to have a child but your health is more important. Follow what your doctor is saying to treat the STD and stop over thinking of the STD causing infertility because is curable.

    you and your husband should stay off sex while you treat the STD, if you are on treatment please hold body to allow the drugs work well. You both will be fine.

  32. Pls dear, stay calm. Avoid too much Google for now cos they can only compound issues.just follow your medications and have a positive view. The devil always works on our fears ,and the more you focus in the negative, it soon becomes a reality. You will be fine and you will carry your kids ok. Sending plenty hugs.

  33. if bothering or anxiety can remedy the situation, then i advise u continue... bt if by worrying and stressing yourself wont remedy or solve the situation, of what need is stressing urself... pls calm down and relax, your case is not closed.

  34. May God heal you.

  35. Poster pls just take good care of yourself and forget about having a baby for now. You need to be healthy first before having a baby.

  36. Poster stop worrying. There is nothing impossible with God. Just take all to God in prayer. Did not let fear set in abeg. Have faith.

  37. Poster stop worrying. There is nothing impossible with God. Just take all to God in prayer. Did not let fear set in abeg. Have faith.

  38. Stay positive dear poster, it's only God has the final say.

  39. Poster, just know that there is nothing God cannot do, and He will come through for you. Amen

  40. Poster don't kill urself with worry please, I had pid, ovarian cyst and one other sickness, doctor put fear inside me that it can affect my fertility, I ran to God and drugs, I bought several drugs plus prayers,I and hubby started taking treatment and stayed away from sex.a man of God advised me to pray with the result and ask God to change it.i prayed with hubby for severally on the matter and after few months I decided to go for another test, the doctor said am fyn, my womb is OK, am OK for a baby, but I should relax the baby will come. So my sis relax the pid will go, go to God in prayers and take ur drugs u will be fyn, one of the drugs I took was gynomarch and several others, don't forget to bombarb ur body with supplements after u are done with those drugs, it can help to balance ur hormones and body. God be with you u will be fyn

  41. I'm shaken up reading this.. I don't even know what right word to say!

  42. Poster let me tell you what you don't know the anxiety will kill you faster, do you know what I want you to do be happy treatment for sti will go you will have your baby as for the heart issues you ll be fine ,why will you condemn yourself that you just want a child,say to yourself I'm a miracle, I will have a baby I will train them ,I will have grand children too.
    Faith moves mountain dont beat yourself too much , learn from my story I'm positive but I now have a child,baby is negative too, was I a good girl then yes I was ,but d guy I was with then infected me, did I brace up and forge ahead yes, and today I have a home that will be full of children.
    Sometimes we cant predict how it will be but try and shake it off, pls and pls don't say you will die you just want to a child and die,who will now take care of them ,step mother abi wicked relations, smile be happy and believe me the best is on the way

  43. God will heal you and you will have your own baby.

  44. Poster why are you saying you will die soon anyway? Are you God?

    I tell you my father's story,2 months before I was birthed in 1987, my father fell ill, the first is that he is diabetic and has serious heart problems that he wasn't himself and couldn't even walk. No hospital was able to decipher what was wrong, they went from prayer ministry and hospitals like that for 1 yr plus before he could even regain consciousness and returned home.

    Because he was diabetic and with the heart problem, doctors were predicting he will die in 5 to 6 years. They were telling his brothers to get ready, of course they didn't let him know of this.

    The thing is, my Dad is still alive in his sixties and super healthy aside the diabetes. He never had any serious crisis except for some weeks in 2015 when he went blind due to diabetic complications and because he slacked on his medications. However, In less than a month he regained his sight and he is very healthy now.

    Poster don't allow this get to u. Enjoy ur life and plan ur life normal. Please stop limiting urself.

    Try for a child when you want but then it's nothing to worry about. Fear will do you th emost harm.

  45. Just believe and have faith in God

  46. Poster i hope you see this.
    First i understand where ur coming from when you talk about death. I made my partner take a life insurance policy on me because honestly its only people who are sick or wear ur shoes ll understand where it hurts.
    Now think deeply about having a baby interms of what ll happen to baby if your gone. If u feel baybi ll be well taken care of then go ahead but pls use surrogate or adopt. Don't stress ur delicate heart.
    I did thru surrogate, i have decided that death will come but it wont stop me from enjoying my kids. So i leave everyday appreciating what i have.
    Follow your instincts, people ll only talk and give their 2cents because they don't wear ur shoes plus thats what they know best.
    Last last we will all die someday, no matter how much we profess or believe .
    Just breath and enjoy.
    Love and Light to you poster.

  47. Poster, may God heal you. You will not die, in Jesus mighty name. Stella I want to thank your bvs for their kind words snd empathy towards the poster Every comment here was encouraging. Not one person judged her or said something negative. I am suffering from PID too and it has ruined my marriage. It is a very difficult condition to treat. I also need your prayers.

  48. Dear poster, please look into getting comprehensive treatment for your heart issues in Egypt if possible. A family friend was pronounced a hopeless case in Nigeria last year. But now, he is as fit as a fiddle and stronger than the doctors that pronounced his case hopeless and now he gets to take all the things that were hitherto labelled taboo for him.

  49. Poster look at Stella's red ink.

    Meanwhile chose and speak life.

    You will be fine,God will use your circumstances to glorify His name. Look for scriptures on healing and life, believe them and speak them but ensure that you reconcile with God as you go through this challenge.
    He will see you through..

    My prayers remain with you.


  50. Dear poster, your case is not hopeless. Continue taking your drugs, build your faith with scriptures. Listen more to worship songs. Check tracks by Sinach and Nathaniel Bassey. Be expectant, your healing angel will pay you a divine visit.

  51. Dear poster, yes you need words of encouragement yet you must also encourage yourself in d Lord.

    Challenges, including health challenges make us strong. You don't need to stress much as this may weigh you down d more or complicate your heart issue, but just sing praises around your medical reports for not less than an hour from mid-night can blossom your life & marriage, your hubby should join you.

    If you can, join d Hallelujah Challenge via Nathaniel Bassey's IG page, tonight is d 3rd night and table your case b4 the Creator.

    One can pray amiss but one can't praise amiss. Just worship God, hallow His Name and sing of His goodness, no prayer point, do this as many nights as you can, till you have a conviction in your heart. Your joy will know no bounds.

    I wish you the best and be well.

  52. Pls educate yourself and stop fretting.

    Chlamydia trachomatis

    Chlamydia (kluh-MID-e-uh) trachomatis (truh-KOH-muh-tis) is a common sexually transmitted infection (STI) caused by bacteria. You might not know you have chlamydia because many people don't have signs or symptoms, such as genital pain and discharge from the vagina or penis.

    Chlamydia trachomatis affects mostly young women, but it can occur in both men and women and in all age groups. It's not difficult to treat, but if left untreated it can lead to more-serious health problems.

    Early-stage Chlamydia trachomatis infections often cause few or no signs and symptoms. Even when signs and symptoms occur, they're often mild, making them easy to overlook.

    Signs and symptoms of Chlamydia trachomatis infection can include:

    Painful urination
    Vaginal discharge in women
    Discharge from the penis in men
    Painful sexual intercourse in women
    Bleeding between periods and after sex in women
    Testicular pain in men
    Chlamydia trachomatis can also infect the rectum, either with no signs or symptoms or with rectal pain, discharge or bleeding. You also can get chlamydial eye infections (conjunctivitis) through contact with infected body fluids.

    The Chlamydia trachomatis bacterium is most commonly spread through vaginal, oral and anal sex. It's also possible for pregnant women to spread chlamydia to their children during delivery, causing pneumonia or a serious eye infection in the newborns.

    Risk factors:

    Being sexually active before age 25
    Having multiple sex partners
    Not using a condom consistently
    History of sexually transmitted infection


    Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). PID is an infection of the uterus and fallopian tubes that causes pelvic pain and fever. Severe infections might require hospitalization for intravenous antibiotics. PID can damage the fallopian tubes, ovaries and uterus, including the cervix.
    Infection near the testicles (epididymitis). A chlamydia infection can inflame the coiled tube located beside each testicle (epididymis). The infection can result in fever, scrotal pain and swelling.

    Prostate gland infection. Rarely, the chlamydia organism can spread to a man's prostate gland. Prostatitis can cause pain during or after sex, fever and chills, painful urination, and lower back pain.

    Infections in newborns. The chlamydia infection can pass from the vaginal canal to your child during delivery, causing pneumonia or a serious eye infection.

    Ectopic pregnancy. This occurs when a fertilized egg implants and grows outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube. The pregnancy needs to be removed to prevent life-threatening complications, such as a burst tube. A chlamydia infection increases this risk.
    Infertility. Chlamydia infections — even those that produce no signs or symptoms — can cause scarring and obstruction in the fallopian tubes, which might make women infertile.

    Reactive arthritis. People who have Chlamydia trachomatis are at higher risk of developing reactive arthritis, also known as Reiter's syndrome. This condition typically affects the joints, eyes and urethra — the tube that carries urine from your bladder to outside of your body.

    The surest way to prevent chlamydia infection is to abstain from sexual activities. Short of that, you can:

    Use condoms. Use a male latex condom or a female polyurethane condom during each sexual contact. Condoms used properly during every sexual encounter reduce but don't eliminate the risk of infection.

    Limit your number of sex partners. Having multiple sex partners puts you at a high risk of contracting chlamydia and other sexually transmitted infections.

    Get regular screenings. If you're sexually active, particularly if you have multiple partners, talk with your doctor about how often you should be screened for chlamydia and other sexually transmitted infections.

    Avoid douching. Douching decreases the number of good bacteria in the vagina, which can increase the risk of infection.

    1. If you read her post properly she got Chlamydia from her husband (he’s had it for years )
      I don’t understand why everyone’s overlooking and asking her to get cure and still have a baby with the man smh

  53. Dear poster and anyone else going through a health challenge. Hold on to God.
    Read God's words and promises about health, healing and protection in the bible.
    He is not man that he should lie.

    My child had a serious health challenge and after crying, I started reading and praying, holding to God's mercy, love and faithfulness and confessing His promises. Halleluyah! No more falling sick, (used to be sick every 2 weeks) and all the symptoms of the disease ceased.

    It's been exactly 2 years now from the time of the diagnosis. I read the bible using google to seek passages that promises God's mercy, healing and protection. I also read faith bible study by Kenneth Hagin Snr. Powerful book. I also followed some of the steps he used like communion, praying in tongues- this was tricky for me because I'm not sure how to just start speaking in tongues like I see people do, but that season, I was deep in sorrow and calling to God and one afternoon as I was praying, I just started singing to God and then started singing in a language i don't understand,I was trying to stop because⁰, I didn't get it, but I let it flow. When I was done I was kind of shy. I was wondering to myself that ah, this isn't how to pray in tongues but I googled it and I found out that the Holy spirit can make you sing in tongues! I was shaken and started giving thanks.
    From that day till now, been sick, and it's 'common' malaria on both occasions,only 2ce. Compare that with illness and hospitals every 2 weeks! Glory to God in the highest, the Lord almighty!
    And I confess and believe and decree that my testimony is permanent and even more to every of generation and children's children, it shall be told, Amen.

    Thanks to God for my testimony.


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