STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PROUD BABY MAMA
I got pregnant for a married man and gave birth to a handsome and healthy boy, six months later I got pregnant for this same married man and gave birth to a healthy and beautiful baby girl. The wife later got to know but refused to divorce him because she doesn't have the means to take care of herself and her four children so she stayed.
Now I can't be with the man I love because the wife refuses to leave and my boyfriend the married man is a deacon in the church so everyone is advising him to stay with the wife. We still see each other and since I gave birth to his children is like he can't get enough of me. Before I had the children he never told me he loved me but now all he does is to remind me of his love for me. He told me he wants to divorce the wife but I told him to stay with her while we continue our relationship.
He's a great father and he takes good care of our children and I. I've known him since I was a teenager. He is 19 years older than me. I've always loved me and after we both betrayed each other and caused each other pain we reunited and had children. When I was pregnant he seriously warned me not to abort his children despite him already having 4 children with his wife and I listened because I knew that if I aborted he would break up with me.
We've been through a lot together and I'm happy I got pregnant for him. I love my children and I love him. Sometimes I find myself asking for forgiveness from God but deep down I know I can't live without him and I will never leave him. Off topic but I wanted to share. I'm 33 years old by the way. If you insult me know that we all sin differently and no sin is greater than the other.
Have a great day.
This was dropped in a post it does not belong to........
Well,the deed has been done.just make sure his first marriage does not break,see to it that the Marriage survives cos if it breaks cos of you eh,Karma might not visit you but you will hear from it.....
Madam you are wicked and you will surely not go unpunished!
ReplyDeleteI can’t say my sister, il say the devils sister when the egg you are boiling is ready pls break it Nd eat it alone! Idiot
DeleteShe's under punishment already.
DeleteAlayebaje.
Lmao. @ poster, should we now fry eggs with this your gist? You clearly are enjoying your foolery. You sent this "chronicle" to be insulted. Be gone you dingbat!🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteYou're simply wasting away..
DeleteYou have no husband to call your own, so no matter how young and sexy you think you are eh, one day very soon, you'll become old, lonely and bitter!
Nonsense husband snatched!
AH AHNN... Come and see abuse! She's already cautioned that you don't insult her 😂😂😂 Show some compassion naww
DeleteThis is chronicle of a sick woman.
DeleteI cant share pls. Leave or or leave me. God forbid!
DeleteSee Concubine abi mistress bringing kids in an illegal way.
DeleteWoman na your cross shah
Relax people. It's polygamy. It's has always been since the days of our fore-fathers and days of the bible.
DeletePoster, let him do right by you and pay your bride price and marry you. It's not a sin though we all wish our husbands be faithful to only us but that isn't so natural in some places. This is Africa and monogamy is optional because it's a highly patriarchal continent. Every sensible married woman should know at the back of her mind that this is a possibility and have a plan so you don't fall apart if it ever happens. Have a solid plan in case oga decides to step out, what would you do? How would you make him/her pay? Or how do you intend to avert and squash it once and for all? Have a plan and don't be weak about it.
I only wish Polyandry was also an option and I am glad when we read of women who brazenly date and even marry more than one man on this blog.
Let's quite the pretence. All of us here have ancestors who were polygamous.
Laughing at the fact that you think the man really tried to divorce his wife.
DeleteOh you had two kids thinking the woman would leave🤣🤣
The liesssss
Saphire, speak for YOUR ancestors biko.
DeleteIf you are an African, you have ancestors who where polygamous including you 17.49. Which day did oyibo come teach us monogamy? Or maybe you don't know the meaning of ancestors. It means your fore-fathers.
DeleteFree her abeg. Her life;her choice. Some women actually dont want to be living under a man. They just want his visits,sex and taking care of her and her kids.
DeletePush up forget leave dat thing. Men dey divorce dere wives and marry someone else. Many people are on their 2nd marriage. Is it TY Danjuma;Daisy collected dat man from his 1st wife and didnt leave change , or its Adenuga,Otunba Balogun,Dokpesi. Many men have left their wives and are on 2nd 3rd marriage sef.
Its not my way of life and i guard my marriage jealousy. But this shit does happen. Some women dont mind polygamy.
Hmmmmmmm
DeleteTruly we all sin differently
So, ALL Africans were polygamists? Have some sense sis.
Delete@SAPHIRE I love u my sister but please just as you’ve advised poster to get her brideprice paid and u also support polygamy... please don’t vex for your husband when he gets anor pregnant , brings in a second wife or carries side chics. Madam African
DeleteAhaaa.
DeleteProud Babymamma,proud mamma till some peopl sit together, put their palms on each other's and take a decision then what happened in 2005 will repeat.
During a Thanksgiving Service in a Big Cathedral on Mainland, 12year old Oge ran to his Mum, saying Mummy Mummy,baby Faith and Baby Steve were calling my daddy,daddy,telling him 'daddy see the,rosette they put on our dress'. His mum squirmed and retorted 'what？'
Spying followed and 15years later, Sister in the Lord is still missing and Baby Faith and Steve are still with their grandma.
Some wives of Deacons,hmmmm,very sophisticated and mute,their actions very jankara and shrewd. Stay awayyyy.
I no dey abeg,be prouding you hear.
Jesus Fix it!
ReplyDeleteJesus has no business with this chronicle sef
DeleteJesus don't fix fix stupid things and stupid thinking people.
DeleteDon't insult Jesus.
Get sense.
Jesus fix wetin??? This lady is a bitch
DeleteDon o, this your comment put me in stitches. 🤣🤣🤣 Jesus don't fix stupid things.
DeletePoster, your karma is in your door step.
We wont judge you my dear, you already feel a certain way, you say you are happy but you know deep down you really want him all to yourself.
DeleteSo you've known him since you were a teenager abi you started doing things when you were younger.
We all sin differently, but we dont speak proudly of our sins and we try to avoid sin.
You have chosen the part you want so enjoy it.
Wetin I just read. This is serious. Some women no get shame for body.
DeleteAunty carry go na God go judge you and that fake deacon of a useless man.
Lovelace.
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ReplyDeleteI had to Laugh because Honestly i have no Words to say
In a way it's hilarious. I mean the stupidity of it all its just mind boggling!
DeleteLet me just join you 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
DeleteExactly. I'm still wondering why she's telling us.
DeleteI had to laugh to. Poster you're so justifying your actions. May God have mercy on you and your sugar daddy. Deacon indeed
DeleteAm speechless too. Na wa oo
Delete@Swag, she's telling you because she fills guilty and sad. She knows she has failed herself but dey carry bold face cover am. Unfortunately, the man will not leave his wife.
DeleteI tire too. Why are you telling us poster? Na wa o
DeleteMe neither!
DeleteAnd so? You are not legal...simple.
ReplyDeleteNo matter the love una share...na outside you dey.. until you become the second wife.
I mean! When people think of his wife, their mind goes to the one legal.
Delete@Blackey
DeleteIs "second wife" legal under Nigerian laws? 😏😏😏
How about under the laws of heaven; the Scriptures?
She's illegal for life.
DeleteYou people are talking of Karma, nothing like that. But you people are praising Regina Daniels, or is she the first wife? She is living the life and nothing like karma, so you guys should leave the poster alone.
DeleteMy step mother is legal. Perfectly protected by customary law which is well accepted in Nigeria.
DeleteIn heaven, well...I doubt polygamy is frowned upon. I only think the betrayal, the sneaking around and adultery is the sin. If he went abinitio to marry her as a 2nd wife, notifying the first wife even if he does not get her approval, I don't think it's a sin. Polygamy has been part of man-kind for a long time even among primates and animals.
Sorry girls. I know we wish it wasn't so but it is so.
Saphire, it's not about what you think. For any Christian, polygamy is a sin.
DeleteFor Muslims, it is allowed. So please, next time qualify your statements properly.
Fine! Are we going to be judged by different Gods based on your religion judgment day? Abi the heaven for Muslims and Christians and other religions is going to be different?
DeleteWhich day did this Christianity even come to us sef?! We were traditional worshippers for centuries before the white man came.
Who are the we? Stop trying to rope everyone into your errant ways abeg own it personally and solely. Mschew
DeleteGood for you my sister
ReplyDeleteIt's about time people stopped consoling themselves with your last line.What exactly have you been through with another woman's husband?Keep wasting your youthful years but remember that his wife has reminded you that you are driving a company's car.It can never be yours ewu Gambia
Delete@ Spongebob its really sickening!!!!!
DeleteWeldon poster as long as you are happy keep it up. I pray the table will not turn around.
DeleteThe AUDACITY And TEMERITY!!!
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her.... Her own nemesis is still cooking inside the native pot.
DeleteLike seriously!
DeleteThe IMPETUS and DAUNTLESSNESS!!!
Deletesupu!
DeleteDefinition of audacity gangan.
DeleteThe EFFRONTERY and INSOLENCE!!!
DeleteOyibo elika!!
DeleteThe boldness and alacrity.🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😡😡😡😡😡😡😠😠😠😠😠😠😠
DeleteThe LIVER AND GINGER
Delete😂🤣😂🤣😂
DeleteLmao Stella come and see your people o
The Ginger and SWAGGER😂😂😂
DeleteOMG 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Oyibo nka dizi too much biko😂
DeleteThe garlic and lemon
Delete😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@replies
DeleteTHE BOLDNESS AND TEMERITY!!
DeleteThe GINGER AND GARLIC!!!
DeleteTHE BOLDNESS AND CONCOBILITY!!!
DeleteAm just speechless
ReplyDelete🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDelete🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
Nkea wú akúkó ndi rijúrú afó..
ReplyDelete@MARTINS
Holy Ghost fire burn that your ugly mouth!
ReplyDeleteYou think you will reap where you didn't sow, look at her saying his wife stayed because she can't take care of herself and her four children.
You're a heartless biatch👹👹
The woman will never leave her husband for you.
Loving another woman's husband kill you there!!!
Poster you are mean o,what if the man dies today?will you be able to fend for those innocent kids?you got pregnant 6 months after having the first boy....Enjoy it while it last
DeleteShe has wasted her youth loving another woman's husband. SMH
Deletelol Ms.A don't waste your energy on this poster,her ways seem right in her eyes
DeleteDon’t mind the idiot!. She was thinking that when the woman finds out she will back out so the criminal can easily back in but the woman outsmarted her 😂 kikikikiki
DeleteLol you don vex😀😀😀😀
DeleteSmall small na madam...
DeleteLouder, Ms A!!! Habamana!!!
Delete'If you insult me know that we all sin differently and no sin is greater than the other.'
ReplyDeleteWith this here, who's even ready to blame you. Carry go, go ahead and keep popping them kids for your pastor. Who knows how many other Baby mamas the community dick has. I just feel pity for the wife sha.
Yes so much pity on the wife and the innocent kids.
DeleteThe wife always suffers the shame. But poster if this man truly loved u he would damn society and that wife and leave everyone to marry u. Anyway na u sabi. U and him are birds of a feather. Useless!!
DeleteNne, baby mama, you insulted yourself,
ReplyDeleteyour creator and that insult of a man and his wife. You don't need another person to insult you.
Once you cannot do without someone or something; that thing becomes your god (that does not save).
You walked into adultery with your two eyes and vj open.
When the harvest (of your evil) arrives, do not forget to write us another chronicle if you live to tell your stories.😠😠😢😢
How can you be so wicked to want to take over another woman's home?
ReplyDeleteYou are arrogantly and mischievously proud.
If the man is strong enough, let him pair both of you.
Ask yourself why he hasn't sent his wife away just to bring you in since.
May I ask, what the moral of your story is?
Sluttychic
Close 👏🏻 your 👏🏻 legs 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 married 👏🏻 men. - Nene Leakes
ReplyDeletecontinue your stupid relationship with him and be causing his wife pain. your turn is coming for same pain too. woman number 3 loading.
ReplyDeletecome on, how do you women do it, getting pregnant for a married man knowing fully well. gush, you poster is disgusting.
Highly disgusting.. Teuh!!
DeleteHow a young lady, probably very beautiful and educated 😍 decided to be roped into such a mess is very loathsome, so didn't and still don't think you deserve to have your own man? Rather than a man who's already has a family and to think that you were waiting on the wife to be shattered enough to leave the marriage so you could waltz in is highly laughable and impetuous.
DeleteFYI infidelity isn't a deal breaker for everyone, you're only wasting your years , if they're married In court i pity you .
You better pick up whats left of your life and move on you're not going to be the apple of his eyes, he tells you what he wants you to hear to remain on his leash and you're seeing such an irresponsible man as a price .
Don't worry your pretty head in no distant time you'd be contending with his new mistress .
You have my pity .
Aunty you dey mad.
ReplyDeleteOloriburuku somebody.
Yes we all sin differently but yours is somehow. What happened to 'chop and clean mouth' ? Tell him to take you as his second wife na. Mbuk nkpong ntipe
ReplyDeleteThe first wife doesn't deserve both of you I wonder why she is staying. I actually think he should leave her so he can fully focus on you and give you the same treatment he's giving her. Both if you are terrible humans and deserve each other.
ReplyDeleteHmm,that woman might be there cooking up her revenge..because thats exactly what i will do.i will never leave my husband for a side chick but he will live to regret it
DeleteFelt the same way. The wife doesn’t deserve both the husband and this babe. Let that man die then u will see the wife’s power!
DeleteAnon 16:16 I thought the same thing and I've laughed so much about it. Her only saving grace if the man dies is if she has a job or business of her own. Other than that, she will suffer! She should continue wasting her youthful age on a married, older man. She and the man deserve each other.
DeleteYou and your accomplice do not need any insult but judgment is waiting for you if you don't REPENT.
ReplyDeleteHeb. 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
The sexually immoral will have their place in the lake of fire...Rev. 21:8
‘we all sin differently’. Keep telling yourself that as it makes you sleep better at night. I bet you thought his wife would leave when she found out. You have given your youth to a man who belongs to another. A man who will never leave his wife for you. I almost feel sorry for you.
ReplyDeleteDeacon having extra marital affairs. What sort of church enables this wayward behaviour?!
LAWD 🙆🙆🙆🙆
ReplyDeleteWhat did i just read??
I'm short of words 😷😷😷😷
Plzzz forget that thing called karma... marrying two is not a sin jare abeg enjoy ur man becos back in the days men marry more than 2 so y is this one diff..infact the time has come to marry more than one leave all those single ladies make Dem dey find one man.
ReplyDeleteAbi ooo, the man should just marry her to save all this bullshit. Being a second wife better than being a concubine
DeleteDon't you guys get it?!! The fact that the man has the option to make her second wife but has refused to do so should tell you what he thinks of her. TRASH. A secret to be hidden for eternity. It's like a porn addict. After has finished wanking to the porn and fulfilling his fantasy and cumming he moves on to his real life to be with who he really wants to be with. The wife will give testimony about how God defeated the Satan trying to ruin her marriage and aunty ode will be there drying up with her trophy(child) after so many wasted years
DeleteYou guys are missing the point, the man isnt ready to marry her.
DeleteA man that truly loves you would have wifed her, but he keeps telling her he loves her yet chopping and cleaning mouth.
She will remain a mistress for life.
@anonymous 16:56 He can't make her a second wife if in the country she lives in is considered bigamy. I'm not siding with the poster but you seem like a scorned wife whose husband keep cheating on her. Calm down
DeleteOhkay...Thanks for sharing.🤷♀️
ReplyDeleteYou send a post in and then you went ahead to try and silence us with the "don't judge" pistol.
I don't know why you sent this in, maybe to get it all off your chest. It seems your chest feels really heavy and you want to make it light. You judge yourself but you are still in denial but why act all defensive if you are fine with the whole arrangement deep down?
The marriage won't break if that's your fear. Trust me the man won't leave his first wife for you even if she wants to leave him, he would plead. He is okay where he is at, with the both of you. So relax.
Yes na, no peace for the wicked!
DeleteA deacon must be faithful to his wife and must manage his children and his household well. 1 Tim. 2:12
ReplyDeleteNigerian women will do anything for money.
* You are there lusting after him for the money.
* The wife is there
because of the money.
* The church that made him deacon is there because of the money.
* God is not there because of the sin. That is the only person missing.
* And Satan is right there waiting on the fringes to reap harvests of destroyed souls because of the sin.
😭😭😭😭😭
Sooooo 👌👌....I weep for this generation, hmm, except this is all "fabu"
DeleteAnd the man?... Blameless because of the money too?
DeleteExactly! Poster know that the Lord is not involved in this. The devil is the chairman of your relationship and the day of reckoning is coming.
DeleteReally, enjoy while its last,for ur mind now,u be second wife,for this Coro century ...people still have such guts.hmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmm na wa oh..Look at how you are making mockry and desecration of the house of God..A deacon indeed with a seared conscience and committing abomination..I cant waste my time insulting you provided you can sleep well at night stealing someone's happiness..Continue..I just pray you will come into the knowledge of truth very soon let it not be too late..
ReplyDeleteThis one is a lost case. Chei Satan got a good grip on this one. What a pity. A married man with 4 children. And you got deceived into thinking you could never have your own man. I am sorry you believed a lie.
ReplyDeleteYou will cannot be proud to around him. And he will never show you off. And to think you really want his wife to leave. You are very wicked in capital letters.
All the best to you.
You have such a low self esteem. Is this the best you can get in life?
Aunty pls shut your dirty trap called mouth saying we all sin differently. We have done so much harm to someone’s wife yet making noise about sin being different. When you sow wickedness I hope the wickedness you will receive in the future you can handle it. Cus it’s going to come in a form that days months and nights you will be praying one prayer. What’s the prayer mercy lord mercy. It’s good it’s sweet God said He would visit the iniquity from the parents to the 3rd and 4th generation. Enough said.
ReplyDeleteIs this some kind of joke or you just dropped that comment so pple could comment
ReplyDeleteAbi I’m not understanding again
Imagine you are even “prouding”
Ah
Serious prouding ooo...😂😂
DeleteHian!!!!! Okay oooh... carry go naa. While at it, make sure you he invest in landed properties solely in your name and your children's names.
ReplyDeleteSecure your children's future.
Does this one look like she is smart enough to do that. This fool that is gloating over some shared community dick. Her brain is in her private part, very faulty. And she is not even smart enough to know that she aint the only side chick or baby mama. You are all his playthings and toilets for him to release into you and flush and move on. he will never leave his wife for you so keep dreaming
DeleteAccording to barrister obus
ReplyDeleteHOW DARE YOU😤
Have nothing to say to you, you, re already damaged or from a broken home, my problem is the so called deacon who climbs the pulpit everyday and preaches condemnation upon him self!! My dear, all sin ain't the same!! If you ever have the time to read about the curses following Adultery in the bible, you will cringe in shock!! Just pity the poor children you keep popping out!! Just give us feedback in 5 or ten years time!!
ReplyDeleteFit be white garment church or these small up coming churches.
DeleteOdé lè lèyì sha. C'mon, you ain't proud, you just plan stupid!
ReplyDeleteCriminal ... Onye oshi di nmadu
ReplyDeleteHapu ya... Anakogheri!
DeleteOnye oshi Amu
DeleteDear poster, issorai! Have a great day too!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are baby mama for life. He will not divorce his wife and he will not marry you as second wife.
ReplyDeleteIf my calculations are correct the man has been dating her since she was 14, which makes him a pedophile... He has coached and groomed her to the point of no return. She feels she cannot do without him. She needs a therapist and the man needs to be kept away from children maybe he is grooming more who knows.
ReplyDeleteHe's 19 years older than her, not that she's known him for 19 years... but yes considering she got to know him as a teenager it raises red flags. Don't know if they were doing the do then though.
DeleteThis is very shameful to read
ReplyDeleteAs in extremely shameful!!! What happened to chop and clean mouth?this one is waiting for the woman to divorce her husband. Hian!!!
DeleteI tell you sis!!!
DeleteI just imagine how this lady will feel if the same man cheat on her😂🤣
ReplyDeleteHe cheated on his wife and you think his cheating ways will just die down because he met you....lol
Babe your worst mistake was having a baby Sha!
They need single ladies to thrive!😅🤣😂😵
This post got me feeling some type of way...What has really happened to our conscience as humans??..Smh
ReplyDeleteThis was exactly my aunt 17 years ago! She had a set of twins at 32 for a married man way older than her and she taunted that woman saying she and the man were in love.The married man died a while ago and one of her twins got leukemia and died and the other one is not all there. He suffers from extreme schizophrenia and paranoia. He is a mess. The man's wife moved abroad with her 2 children shortly before the man's death. I heard she's a lawyer now and her kids are doing well(don't know, can't verify). As for my aunt? She's always at one prayer house or the other. She suffers so much now!I think it is karma sha but my brother has pointed out about three other really good people we know that have dead or disabled children, so I don't know. But come to think of it, if he loves you so much why can't he divorce his wife to be with you? Why is he waiting for her or rather why are you waiting for her to do it? Honestly, you aren't that valued then. Why does his wife deserve legitimate children and you deserve bas*****? It's unfortunate but these things NEVER end well. Goodluck sha.
ReplyDeleteSometimes i blame these irresponsible men...Imagine a man that got a lady pregnant after 3 wives o,only for her to realise she has been infected with HIV thanks to the man. She kept the baby and moved on with her life. As soon as the baby was just a week old,the man started appearing to her in her sleep,you don't want to see this lady!! She was acting like a mad woman. She succumbed and gave the man access to his child just to have her peace. Now uncle is insisting on marriage and says the lady must take an oath first off. Sometimes,men are the devil. I don't blame this poster 100% but the cursed man called deacon
DeleteReally speechless 🤐🤐🤐😯
ReplyDeleteWelldone MA, only time will tell
What!!! How can i unread this?
ReplyDeleteYou said the woman refused to divorce her husband because she could not take care of herself, were you expecting her to divorce her husband because of u?I guess u are disappointed because she refused to divorce her husband.
ReplyDeleteGod will not forgive u if the marriage breaks because of u.
What a bold fool. Something deep inside of you already tells you how foolish you are anyway, that's why you are scared of people insulting you. Nobody needs to insult you, your life choices and how you have condemned yourself to being a second fiddle is already insulting you.
ReplyDeleteThank God you ve a daughter, so please remember to give her this story when she comes back to complain that another woman is having kids for her husband. You ll encourage her to remain with the man cos that's the same way you gave birth to them. Stupid and selfish personality
ReplyDeleteWho else should be blamed if not the man.He went the first time and still didnt give himself sense to stop the affair.Dear poster,I won't insult you ooo but put yourself in his wife's shoe..I hope if someone does this to your daughter in the future that you won't be upset?
ReplyDeletewao, see gut. Jesus, intervene
ReplyDeleteAs proud as you are your life isn't yours!!!!!you can do that to another woman so will her God not have mercy upon you n that useless man....dont be too proud ....Your life can be talen
ReplyDeleteSo many of the girls here cursing this woman are sleeping with married men for money.
ReplyDeleteRepent all of you and believe the gospel if you do not want to all perish. 🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔
Tell them!!👌
DeleteDon't mind them!
DeleteEnjoy this moment while it lasts bitch
ReplyDelete🙄🙄🙄🙄🤐
ReplyDeleteMadam, hope you are working and very mentally strong because very soon you will be treated like jezebel by this very man. Very soon you will be just a nanny taking care of his children when he gets a near death experience that will reset his brain and soul.
ReplyDeleteBecause others have done worse does not justify your actions. What is bad or what is evil is evil wether some people are doing it or living like that, it is still a sin or still odd. Let him go and begin your life. He can still care for his children but you need to let him live with his first family
ReplyDeleteYou lied! Regina is not the first wife and you people praise her and wish for her lifestyle, now you are castigating the poster. Hypocrite.
DeleteAnonymous17.06 Regina,s Case is different, Mr Ned married Regina legally,if the Man really love her as she claimed ,let him marry her. Then it will be adifferent a case.
DeleteHmmm, devil dey him own jejely oooh. This is not devil oooh. This is the INTENTIONAL AND DELIBERATE CHOICE of two wicked people. Nemesis and karma are very real. Madam, you are 33 years oooh, not foolish 19 years, abeg. Another woman's husband, another woman's husband, another woman's husband!!! I just pity the innocent products of these two wicked minds.
ReplyDeleteMay God have mercy on you poster
ReplyDeleteWe actually don't need to judge you, you are already doing a good job in that regard.
ReplyDeleteYou noticed too right? Her mind is so unsettled. She lacks peace.
DeleteWhat did I just read? ewoooo!!!! she how comfortable she is with another man's wife. She doesnt even care. I wish everyone all the best ohhh.
ReplyDeleteBecause she get luck say the wife never pour am acid or do am strong juju. Na why her smelly mouth just dey run like tap. She for jam the wife wey go send boys rearrange that her fine face or better yet, kill her. Then the mistake of a child would never have happened. Funny enough the wife may be choosing to stay because she has one wicked revenge planned out. Poster, you're a capital fool! This man's wife probably has access to your location, your whereabouts. The man fuqs her regularly and lets his guard down around her long enough for her to see his phone n find out about you and you think she can't track him to your place? Lmao she has access to her husband's phone since he has nothing to hide anymore nd you are there feeling relaxed when you should be thinking of how to hide your face in shame and guaranteeing the safety of your mistake.Sorry. I mean Child. You lack sense, tact and class and because of this Your day of reckoning is coming soon. Quiet and nice wives like her are the ones to fear. Moreso you have opened your smelly shameless mouth bragging and thus infuriated her further.
DeleteYou're just being sarcastic right? I mean you can't really just say these things out confidently and shamelessly....this is like that sin you wish never happened because it's not just shameful but pathetic too. Na wa oo
ReplyDeleteEveryone is just insulting her as if the deed can be undone. She don born for the man already nw. But madam baby mama u no try o. The reason people are faced with curses and yokes in their lifes is because of the sins of the parents just like this. May God help you o because i'm really pissed off at this nonsense story.
ReplyDeleteI won't insult you but sis honestly, you deserve better.
ReplyDeleteNah. I choose to blame the man who gave the poster the effortery to write this rubbish. The useless man who is supposed to be an example to the flock. Single women, just pray for good husbands who will never disgrace you like this.
ReplyDeleteThe status quo isn't going to change because there are women like this poster and it is not by age. They say women get more desperate after they turn 30 but poster has been with married since 19. Greed is her motivation, not love. The man has been providing for her.
The same way you taunt the wife that she's refusing to leave because she can't take care of children, is it not the same with you? God forbid the man dies as your kids are young, what will happen to you? You'll find another home to destroy.
Married women, please empower yourself financially. I wish the man's wife did just that and left the man so that poster can get her wish. When the Karma hits, she'll know how far.
Your children will be mocked at
ReplyDeleteThey will grow to hate you...
Keep on rocking,if that man drops dead be rest assured the wife knows why she is staying back..
Can you imagine!!! My dear it's just a matter of time, you must surely taste your own bcos karma still exist.
ReplyDeleteI am short of words Gen 8:22 is your answer I pray your kids don't get affected later in life
ReplyDeleteAs long as he did not marry you poster, you gave birth to bastards. I pity those products of these fornicators. The woman did well for not leaving her marriage for you leach
ReplyDeletePity the product of fornication?
DeleteIn a country where many people ask women to get pregnant before marriage?
Maybe not you, but a lot of people on this blog just praised, encouraged children of rape.
Just like the ones from rape, children from fornication are not to blame for their parents sins.
May we not be tools of punishment in Jesus name!
May God use us for His glory!
May we not suffer for our parents sins!
enjoy while it last
ReplyDeleteWomen snoop, catch and stop them early highest he will call you insecure wife. Stop giving room to all these hungry efulefu girls. Poster may red thunder strike you for saying we should not insult you
ReplyDeleteCome this girl you are a coded thief. Tell us the truth is hunger that has been pushing you to the man. You must be an illiterate, did not learn any handwork, the only thing you know is the position of a hairly prick,
ReplyDeletePoster you don't have any shame at all. I feel pity for your kids.
ReplyDeleteYour entitlement mentality is nauseating 🥺🥺😒😏
ReplyDeleteThe woman did not leave because she know you have killed her husband spiritually. She needs to arrange her Hubby's properties. No wonder women do juju when a man start bein stupid
ReplyDeleteWhy are you telling us? It's obvious that you lack the peace of God and you just need to console yourself.
ReplyDeleteI just pity your old age. The man you call a Deacon will stay with his wife till death do them part in their old age. What will become of you when your kids leave to have their own sweet life? Na you sabi.
Wow, what a chronicle.
ReplyDeleteGOODLUCK OH
ReplyDeleteCeaser probably assembling his insults for SP and this the only time i 'd love to see it. ☻
ReplyDelete😂🤣😂🤣😂 same thing i thought !!!
DeleteI better set an alarm.
As in!!!😂😂😂
DeleteHahahahahahahahah
DeleteTruth be told if the man wanted his wife to be gone she would be gone. no be naija men. That guy DOES NOT WANT TO LEAVE HIS FAMILY!! This FOOL is busy there blaming the wife for not leaving when in reality the man is okay having her as his little tart for easy access when wifey is fighting with him. The reason he asked her to keep the baby is so that he can keep her as permanent side chick for his convenience. And I mean convenience like the toilet. When he is done and him and his wife are good again he flushes the shit down for side chick to swallow and leaves to see wifey.. Chances of side chick moving on and marrying her own man are slim especially if she has a kid by another man, Married man at that.Married man keeps side chicken satisfied long enough so he can run off to wifey, and when he returns he can enter with ease. Rinse and repeat. And this girl is too DULL to see that.
ReplyDeleteSide chikito thinks she has won but just bought herself a lifetime of slavery, sadness and disappointment. If that man dies you think he will will anything to you when he has 4 other beloved kids nd a wife to spread it among. Legal wife that can sue you. USE YOUR BRAIN!!!
Women will continue to be used like this as long as they have fish brains. I kinda wish he leaves his wife for you so that you take on full stress of being his wife, getting old from the emotional stress he puts you through by cheating, losing your hair and tending to his needs while ignoring your own needs. It is only fun being side chick cus u don't have to deal with him on a daily basis.
You have just said my mind.....
DeleteChai. Poster, you're a confam idiot. So you think as you are you are safe to come online and rubbish his wife and brag about how he has refused to leave his wife for you. Let me tell you men are easily manipulated. Just as you manipulated him, so can his wife manipulate him too. After all you both are women. And she has leverage especially because he legally married her and they are both together under the same roof on a regular basis. When they bond together with their children I hope you know that you are nowhere in his thoughts at that moment. After all you both are women. Whatever issues he had in his marriage that led him to you, once they are solved I hope you know he will change mouth and he will start to act coldly towards you and your child. Hope you know. I just don't want you to come here and start crying when that happens cus it will.
ReplyDeleteAnd what makes you stupidly think she is not planning to end your life/disfigure you as we speak but acting nice so husband won't suspect a thing. Whatever happened she is still in his life and he has refused to dump her for you so she is doing something right. You are not smart!
She won't leave him or He won't leave her. Continue to deceive yourself. LMAO. OLODO
ReplyDeletePoster you definitely had a poor unbrimging and foundation,else you wouldn't have towed this part,your write up reeks of low self esteem,it's well with you
ReplyDelete#KNOWYOURWORTHLADIES
Is this what marriage is all about in this generation. Why won't people stay faithful to each other, its worst among men with small dick, few seconds men, lazy in bed husbands, they usually desire other women aside their wife
ReplyDeleteIs this what marriage is all about in this generation. Why won't people stay faithful to each other, its worst among men with small dick, few seconds men, lazy in bed husbands, they usually desire other women aside their wife
ReplyDeleteLol, my dear you are wasting away, you are not getting any younger, the man will not marry you and if any man comes near you, this same man will chase the man/mwn away, stating that you are the mother of his kids so you cant leave him. Is that what you want for your life? Time flies quickly, before you know it you will turn 40,then 50. Just being a baby mama in bondage,no real love.
ReplyDeleteWe have read your story,what should we do with it?
ReplyDeleteDear, ask him to buy you a house and ride in your name incase you guys break up, you will have a permanent abode. Its really hard being a side chic though, how do you cope knowing hes going to sleep with his wife. Try and move on babe. Never too late when you are mentally ready. Pele dear, na love/poverty cause am, dont mind these overly saints on this blog.
ReplyDeleteYou are the one with no morals instead of referring to others as "overly saints". Anyway, it is expected for past and existing side chics to support this poster. Mschew.
DeleteYou are a very wicked person... Because u know him since u were a teen so? That fact that he is married when u met him again should have made u stayed on ur lane... A glorified mistress like u, that's what u wil always b by the way
ReplyDeletePoster, you have talked about the love of a human being which is fickle and subject to the winds and storns of life.
ReplyDeleteYou have not talked about the love of God which is just and fair meaning He does not approve adultery or excuse sin and you won't be free from the consequences of "sinning differently".
Yes, children are innocent but these two children may still be used to punish you and your adulterous 'deacon' and bring you both grief all your days for trying to put asunder that marriage.
The man should no longer be a deacon because he doesn't qualify for that service according to the holy bible.
One thing you need to know is that the principles/laws of nature were set in place by God when He created the earth, - seed time and harvest shall never cease as long as the earth exists.
Get ready for your harvest , the early and the late harvests both of you.
HE WHO SOWS THE WIND, REAPS THE WHIRLWIND.
The guy is lying to you that she doesn’t want to leave because she doesn’t have anything, what do u have yourself? If u are financially ok u won’t be relying on the man either, that’s his legal wife nd if he wanted to marry u, he would have chased her out but he doesn’t want to marry u, he only likes u enough to be his side piece and baby mama for a long time . That woman owns his property nd u are on your own
ReplyDeleteMen LISTEN CAREFULLY, this polygamy thing nor dey work o, stop am o. As for you madam proud baby mama, it's your innocent children I pity, may they not reap the evil seeds you have sown.
ReplyDeleteWhat if he dies tomorrow?
ReplyDeletePoster, Sumbo Adeoye had twins for Tuface and has remarried.
There are still good men that will marry you.
You are gambling.
That man will never ever leave his wife
Never
All the best
KING XOXO MYSTERY
XO, they are 2 separate boys not twins.
DeleteForget this babe,no home training.she does not know her worth has a woman,and FYI, sin pass sin.lets focus on the man.why is he still a pastor abi deacon .why has he not been removed from the post.why is the church advising him to manage his wife,instaed of calling him to order.one thing I know is, God punishes people in positions that misbehaves more than others.cause so many lives are tied to yours and so many people you will lead astray.i pray God visits you, not the baby mama that does not know her worth , not the wife that is praying amd trying to hold on to her marriage cause the Bible says no divorce (which its written that infidelity is a legal ground for divorce).so you can leave.but you useless man ,you devil,you wizard that is sitting in a godly position and sinning and making it look like been.
ReplyDeleteInsolence.😡😡😡😡
listen poster...he wont marry u,he won't leave his wife...u are a certified side piece I mean #jara# to the main purchase..keep dreaming...and you don't know why his wife hasn't left maybe she just doesn't want to give u the satisfaction plus she must have invested alot in the marriage...abet do born more...free toilet.
ReplyDeleteAfter 4 children you want the woman to leave her home for you abi? Father give her the stregnt, courage and everything needed to stay and take care of her kids. Poster repent while is still day.
ReplyDeleteHow come no one is condemning Oga deacon? One man one wife aint African. Its the white mans law.
ReplyDeleteReading this post,I kept wandering how old you were, seeing 33,I was sorely dissappointed!babe, forgot story,guyman has eaten his cake and still has it!he has a dutiful wife and an ever willing side pussy!why give up either?he will keep spinning the stories until you are too used up to have an p
ReplyDeleteOption.happy concubinning!
Happy concubining...you are doing well...say ooinn....
ReplyDeleteNonsense!!!
Poster, clap for yourself!
ReplyDeleteThis you have done and are doing makes your family happy with you ba? Clap, clap for yourself!!
In the nearest future, your children will be happy with you? Clap, clap and clap for yourself!!!
In fact, clap for yourself the more, inugo!
BV Teetee.