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Saturday, May 30, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PASTOR PASTOR!!!


Hi Stella and fellow bvs, I hope y'all are having a nice time. 



Well, over to my story. early this year, I visited an old friend of mine. (One week visit) and so, i went with her to church. She attends one of these new generational churches in the south south. The church is quite popular.


 The pastor is a young guy and should be in his late 30s if I am not mistaken. He has a young beautiful wife and a two year old son. My friend is a prominent and dedicated member of his church and very popular because she is very friendly and jovial. 


So at the close of service, we didn't leave immediately. The pastor held a meeting with the excos and my friend is an exco so she stayed behind. Since I was new there, I decided to sit at the back and wait for her. So after the meeting, the pastor came to where I was seated and greeted me. He asked if I was a new member and I said yes and told him I was waiting for my Friend.


 So he greeted me very well and told me I am always welcomed and free to come anytime. He asked for my WhatsApp number and I gave him. He said he would like to pray with me sometimes that he sees a very bright future in me, bla bla bla. So I said no problem.


 That evening, he called me on phone and asked how I was doing, if I had eaten, stuff like that. We just talked normally and he said he would chat me up on WhatsApp. Later that evening, we started Chatting on WhatsApp, he said I am a very beautiful girl and he was just admiring me at the altar while he was preaching, he asked me if I'm in a serious relationship and I said no. 


He said I shouldn't worry that my own husband will locate me this year that he can see me getting married this year. I said amen. So he prayed for me and since then, he has been disturbing me with calls and messages, the most annoying thing is that he is fond of asking personal questions that I am literally not comfortable with. 

He always tells me to open up to him so he can counsel me. He said he would love to see me and I told him I have left my friend's place and already at my parent's house.


This lockdown period is even worse. He calls me everyday most especially at night. He tells me to send my pics that he wants to see me. He said he would like to hang out with me after the lockdown. Sometimes I always ask after his wife and he'd either say she is fast asleep, she is not in the room or she is working.


 I am trying to set boundaries cos I don't want any trouble. I told my friend about it and she said the pastor is just being nice and friendly that I am just being paranoid over nothing. I don't know if she is right. But I am just being skeptical about this. Though he calls me sometimes to pray with me and all that. But I am not ok with the questions he is always asking like

 "do you love s#x?, what turns you on, what do you like in a man, do you like kissing?, when was the last time you had s#x, how was it? What are you wearing? How many guys have you dated? Do you love anal or oral," etc. 


Sometimes I just pretend to be busy and end the call. Sometimes he calls me on video and I don't pick. I am trying to avoid him in a polite way but my friend says I am over reacting and the truth is she reverence the pastor so much. She said he is very dedicated and God fearing and I should be free with him that he is not the kind of person that chase women around and he doesn't have any scandal yet and I fear too much. 


I told her I don't want any trouble that's why I am just trying to avoid him. I already blocked him and he reported me to my friend. She called me few days ago and told me to unblock him and stop being childish. She was really angry that I have no regards for her pastor that the pastor doesn't even have time for ladies and I should be happy he is calling me and asking about my welfare. I told her I'm not interested in the friendship and will unblock him anytime I feel like. 


My dear bvs, am I overreacting? He called me with another number few days ago and said he would love to see me this week that he wouldn't mind paying for my tfare that he really wants to see me and it's not something we can talk about on phone. I told him I won't be free cos the distance is really very far. He called me again last night and said he saw a vision which is not so good that's why he wants to see me so he can pray for me to reverse the vision he saw. 



I thanked him and told him I will continue praying. He still insisted in seeing me saying he wants to pray and anoint me that I need serious prayers. I ended the call and blocked the number. He told my friend that he has been seeing some strange visions about me but I am too stubborn to listen.


 My friend said i should just chill and try and see him that he is a powerful man of God and i am just being paranoid. Should I just play along or continue to ignore him?



LMAO,Pastor with hot pants!
he wants to sleep with you ooooh and its either your friend does not know the kind of person he is or she has been handpicked to convince you on his behalf.....

138 comments:

  1. Why are you still entertaining him? How do we women entertain people that we can blatantly see have no morals? Continue to ignore him , your friend is in on it

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    1. Mad randy pastor. You are too nice. Rubbish him and give him scandal if possible. What impetus. See, I donno y but this chronicle offend me. So many different available fishes in the sea, y you?!

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    2. Poster do not unblock him and tell him point and plain that he isn't your pastor and you do not appreciate his calls and text messages and you aren't going to see him. Stop answering his calls, if he uses a different number once you hear his voice drop the call.

      If your friend feels insulted that you dishonoured her God of men, keep her for one corner biko.

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    3. Poster when next he calls and starts saying all those rubbish, record the calls, and send to your friend, then ask her how innocent it is. Especially when he asks you wether you like sex. But make sure you don't go to see him

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    4. You want to avoid him in a polite way ke
      You are too calm joo,kilo Fe fa radarada: when you had sex last?
      Stop being polite to him when next he calls and stay away from that your brain washed friend. Tell the ashawo that you gonna call him out when next he calls you. Awon alayeibaje somebori

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    5. One uk Nigerian priest is on this table

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    6. You better seat in your house and dont get raped. I would never advice any young lady to go see a pastor alone; always go with someone,d person can wait for u outside.
      If he has a problem with anyone following you,know he has evil intentions.
      Pls dont join statistics of victims dat are raped by clergy men,be wise.
      Never see a pastor alone as a young lady. He can even claim u seduced him if caught in d act and gullible members will believe, be wise.

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    7. Your friend is very silly. You need to cut her off as well. How well do you even know her? What if she is a part of the plan and only pretending? When push comes to shove, she will be on her pastor's side and you will ne the sacrificial lamb.

      Please cut both of them off, let her go and jump in the lagoon with her fake pastor. Stop taking his calls, stop praying with him, just cut off every communication and do not unblock him. That fake pastor is on a mission to destroy you, you had better run. He will either rape you or charm you, watch your problems triple the day you go and see him. You are not a baby oh so don't say we didn't advise you.

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    8. Did not even finish reading it. Just give him long spoon. Imagine preaching and admiring woman from the alter.

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    9. The bastard pastor just wants to screw you? What's his business with when last you had sex? Your body count ?? Etc. Just keep it distance from the
      "pastor" and the 'friend'.

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    10. Onome no long spoon

      She needs to leave the dining table otherwise she might be the next part of the meal

      GOD doesn't support immorality
      HE also said by their fruits you shall know them

      People can use occultic means to see that one is a star a d the future is bright and want to steal the glory


      Aunty he is a destiny and future ROBBER

      RUN!!!!!

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    11. Her friend has been chopped by Pastor and she is a pimp for him - you know these guys have access to free cash.

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    12. The Original ShugarGirl30 May 2020 at 20:49

      Poster just one question, Do you want to be raped???

      Abi you want to sing the 'had I known' chorus?
      Use the little knowledge you have about God here and you know God doesn't do the things this man is asking you to engage in.

      Better respect yourself and cut off anyone who's trying to manipulate you.

      Are you sure that 'friend' of yours isn't with the 'pastor' on this?

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    13. No allow person use your destiny take get plenty members for church oooo......don't pick his calls again......your friend know's how he rolls, be kiafullu (in Ahmed Isa''s voice)

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  2. His type will rape you. Keep running!

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    1. Get a no nonsense man preferably your dad with a big voice to shout the incubus and sucubus out of him without listening for explanation. So he will know you are well protected and have people who will ask the right questions if shit goes down.

      This is the exact kind of obsession that does not end well if care is not taken.

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    2. Exactly my thoughts. If he is fetish, he will use charms on her. Poster better cut him off your life. If your friend protests, cut her off too.

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    3. Aunty cut him , cut her and anyone else who wants to justify nonsense

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  3. Please you are not overreacting. What kind of a pastor is that one?? Why will he be asking you such personal questions?? Please let him remain blocked forever. He should keep his prayers to himself.

    And that your friend that sees nothing wrong with what the pastor is doing, are you sure she's not a part of whatever the pastor has in mind.

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  4. Stay away from him dear he's carnally minded.

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    1. Exactly! Stay away from him and cuss him out. Ensure you cut ties with that friend of yours. Who knows, it might be time of year (renewing sacrifices.)

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  5. Your grind said you should be happy that the pastor calls you. Unbelievable!! Who is he by the way?
    Some of you have brain and eye washed, you don't even know what you are doing anymore.
    That pastor wants to sleep with you. Forget all the prayer and counseling.....he's manipulating you, trying to know stuff about you and you weak points.
    How can a pastor be asking how you like sex? When last you had sex and all of that?
    It's not right and it's none of his business.
    If you have unblocked him, block him again. Such men do nothing but ruin your life.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. That pastor wants to use you as sacrificial lamb. Once he fucks you,you are gone. Shine thieves hiding under the guise of "pastor" tueh!

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    2. The fake pastor is a ritualist!!!
      The questions he asked clearly point to that. Girl, run for your life!

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  6. You don't have a good friend. Tactically and gradually put some distance between you and that your friend. Yes, pastor wants to sleep with you. Be prayerful on your own though, before he starts attacking you.

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    1. Exactly my thought. That her friend knows much about the pastor. Probably slept with her so called friend sef.
      I just don't like women that run after pastor, go church, pray then go home.


      Open your eyes and choose a spirit filled church if you must attend one. Most of these men are just running a business center and recruiting girls to have sex with.

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    2. The pastor is sleeping with you r friend girl ,open your eyes.

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    3. I agree with you. She's not to be seen as a good friend at all. Who knows if she's also a victim that wants you to share in the misery she's in.

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    4. Exactly Don. Pastor is prolly sleeping with her friend sef.

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    5. DON, I agree with you πŸ’―%! πŸ‘Œ

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  7. Pastors have no business with your sexcapades and your sexual orientation let alone a powerful man of God. Play along? You have played enough!

    Your friend and the pastor have a past, she's very aware of what he's up to. You should be more wary of that so called friend.

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    1. You have said it allπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌ


      END TIME PASTOR & FRIEND😩

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    2. Perxian, you nailed it!πŸ”¨

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  8. My dear run and leave your slippers behind you oh. Your future is not in any mans hand but God.
    Also withdraw a bit from that your friend other wise you will fall for his antics like a pack of cards

    Wisdom is profitable to direct. This is 2020 shine your eye. Cant you pray on your own. Is he God?

    Run from your friend too. Dont say you were not warned

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    1. Poster let your parent know about this too so that if he won't stop they call him to warn him and your friend his satanic agent.

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  9. Block this Pastor like hot coal. And warn him not to call you. He is not your pastor why is he so concerned about you? When he is not God. Tell him you can pray and if you have any issues you know where to go.

    As for your friend, if she brings this discussion up about him. End it. Don't give in to discussing him. Life is a choice and you've made yours.

    Tomorrow now jf something happens you will he blamed on all counts .You know he is married, you know he is a pastor.

    Don't go any where to meet him jo after the pressure. And no, you are jot overreacting. That's how it starts.
    And stop telling him about yourself or intimate things. The next time he asks you if you love sex rebuke him sharply.

    All the best.

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    1. No need to even rebuke him if there is no connection to him

      Tell your parents before he tries something funny

      Cut off that friend

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  10. Poster,stay in your house oh.Pastor is looking for new hole to drill

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    1. Pastor vis sleeping with her friend, he wants threesome.

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  11. Poster run ooo, before you'll go to visit and get drugged and raped.

    The vision he's been seeing is just a ploy to lure you to visit.

    Please run away from him πŸƒ and if your friend persists in trying to get you to see him, cut her off.

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  12. If I talk now somebody will come and quote touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm

    When I see men like this I just milk them financially from afar and ghost them. You can clearly see what he's doing but you don't want to admit it. These are the kind of people that make you lose faith in the Church of Jesus
    Pastor my feet!

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    1. Please burn the evil anointing. Cus the way it is now . Touch the anioted and do the harm abeg their wahala is too much. As joblessness has taken over Nigeria na prayer house full everywhere. Pls be break their evil anioting biko

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    2. Some even their money is tainted , don't be deceived

      Sometimes a goat is lured to the edge so the crocodile can get it

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  13. You are not over reacting, pls ignore him, ashawo pastor na acho onye o ga araputa.

    Melancholy

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  14. Pastor form the pit of hell!
    Becareful of that friend of urs
    Nah plan work them dey do.

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  15. That's why I try so much to aviod moving close to a pastor. Se adura so Amin ni church mi. It is not a social gathering

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  16. Princess Sarah30 May 2020 at 15:18

    Don't mind him. He wants to sleep with you. Always block his number.

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  17. Please ensure not to see the so called Pastor. There are two things involved, it's either it has been planed with your so called friend or she doesn't know the dark side of the pastor and hence acting on ignorance too. As a matter of facts cut all ties with your friend for now and ensure to be prayerful because the enemy will always want to win. Hope you stay wise!

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ no small o

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  19. Poster, that fake pastor is cancelled, yeah, CANCELLED!!

    They keep bringing reproach to Christianity.
    You should always learn to speak for yourself. If someone is overstepping their boundaries, always make sure to let them know.

    If a man that calls himself a pastor is asking you if you like sex and how you like it; you should tell him off immediately. Tell him not to ever ask you such questions again and that its non of his business.

    As for your friend, she should respect herself. They are always fond of defending their pastors.

    Don't unblock him and don't go to that church again.
    Avoid sin and everything that leads you to sin.

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  20. Pastor is a human being that has blood running through his veins..
    Poster,tell him you need money like 5 million naira and watch him flee..

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    1. The Queen mother🀣🀣🀣🀣 abi o, 5M and Oga will run four forty.

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    2. And if he (steals and) pays it, the girl becomes his fornication slave?

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  21. End time pastor! Poster please run and don't look back.

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  22. Collect the transport money, buy nkwobi and cold malt and block him again....if your friend disturbs you block her too

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  23. This is why most of them are clamouring for churches to be opened,not because they care for your souls.What most care for is their pockets and penises.

    Poster,better block him and don't follow your so called friend there again,she might even set you up with him.

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    1. Is good to see your comment Iphie...

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    2. May their P burn though. Opening church to run penis package. It’s well o

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  24. Covid 19 Pastor🀨

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    1. You've said it all 😁😁😁😁

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  25. Please do not go anywhere. Block the new no and keep on blocking him. You will regret it if you ever visit him.

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  26. Pastor that is asking a woman who is not his wife, if she likes sex. That one is no pastor. Block him everywhere and run! Do not get entangled with him in anyway. It will end badly. As you have started avoiding him plz continue on that path!

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  27. This one is not a pastor na, God will reveal all the visions,dreams to you if you only trust and rely on him,anoint you for what,buy anointing oil,pray over it and anoint yourself,command things in your favor,speak mysteries over your life,don't go anywhere oo,all these are all signs of the end times

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  28. better don't unblock him.
    Anytime he calls with another number,drop the call when you hear his voice.
    Your friend isn't a friend.
    A mo ye pastor ti mo block ni watsapp?
    That's how one was telling me he loves ladies with big bum bum,like WTF?

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    1. Cut off all communication with the pastor and your friend.
      Listen, you're not over reacting, the spirit of God in you is guiding you right now that's why you must listen to your inner gentle voice.
      Endtime pastors of doom/business men.

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  29. Block that mofo. He's not a pastor but a scammer.
    I won't be surprised if he has gbenshed your friend sef.

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  30. Bill him. Mk a good request everything on WhatsApp make sure d phone does crash o( na ur receipt b that) collect d money and πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

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  31. He will drug you and then rape you mercilessly. If you talk, they will term you agent of darkness that want to seduce the holy pastor. Please block him permanently.

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  32. Infact, you have entertained him for too long, He clearly wants something else, he has even made it obvious with the sexually related questions, cut him off and keep your friend far away from you.

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  33. Wish I had these advise when.he took of advantage of me. I was only 17. That's the modus operandi, pray, be nice, form father figure, ask stupid questions. You are an adult, so FLEE!

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  34. Poster it's obvious the pastor has an evil intention. Please advoid him and your friend if possible. Don't allow anyone to push you into sin.

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  35. My dear, ignore your friend and block the man. The whole sign is there that he's a cheater and wants sex from u. Your friend is blind to the truth and facts. So the man doesnt have job than to pester a woman he only just met? He has resorted to blackmailing u with vision and prayers since all his tactics are not working. Dont play along, just ignore him and your friend. Fake people everywhere calling themselves pastors.

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  36. Poster, runnnnn!!!!!!!
    From Pastor and your Naive friend
    Refuse to be manipulated pls

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  37. He wants to sleep with you.

    Let me tell you my story.. Early this year, I decided to put away every form of ungodly relationships and become closer to my creator. Everything was going on well, God was speaking to me, I was becoming soo close to Him that I could feel His presence around me. It was an awesome time.

    Then a pastor in my church came into my life. He sent me a message on WhatsApp one Sunday afternoon, pretending like he mistakenly sent it to a wrong person ( I don't even know how he got my number cos I never gave it to him), I introduced myself and he said it was a mistake oo. I said no problem sir and moved on with my life. But I was surprised at the same time a bit cautious he's revered in church and respected too.

    The calls and chats started, first it was greetings, sending me prayers daily, words of exhortation and telling me that God sent him to clarify any confusion in my life o.
    I guess God was missing our communion, cos I became more close to the pastor, the dreams started.. My resident pastor kept on warning this pastor to stay away from me,, telling him that I'm way above and he wants to bring me down to his level. First dream, secondd dream, third dream all saying the same thing, stay away from him !. I was confused cos physically he was a good nd respected man and I could belive he can harbour such thoughts oo. So I told him about the dreams and he said it's the devil trying to prevent me from getting the message or blessings God has for me through him.
    I asked him if he had any evil intentions and he denied it, that he has and will never have such thoughts about anyone who isn't his wife..

    and the last dream was... I was with this man and he was taking me back to an old house I lived in o, the house was old and filled with thrash and a helicopter came with gifts but because I was inside there with him, I could not reach the helicopter on time before it left with my gifts.

    I foolishly told the pastor my dream again and his interpretation was, God was using him to bring me out of my past. Kai!!. Well that was the last dream I had. I stopped praying, we had not engaged in anything illicit oo, but I knew we were heading there from our conversations. Anytime he travels home to see his family he blocks me or stops chatting with me.

    Then I kept telling myself, it's just calls and messages no physical contact so it's not a sin.. My koinonia was gone, I couldn't pray cos my conscience was feeling guilty. Well, one day it happened and I went to his house to drop the stuffs he asked me to help him get from the market and then the first kiss. I felt terrible but I went back the second day, the kiss deepened and some smooching, I guess the scale fell off that day and I left immediately and blocked his number.

    This is something I wished I had done long ago, but I didn't cos I felt it was a sin to do so since he had not said anything about having sex with him. He only asked about the subject and said I should open up so he could advise me like a father. He has several "daughters" in the church who he advises... Mtcheww,. He tried contacting several times after then, followed me on Instagram and I think Facebook, I still blocked him. When I see him on the road, I just face front without even greeting him sef ( don't even know if that's wrong)

    I'm trying to rebuild my relationship with God and pray He forgives me, gives me another chance to commune with Him like before..

    So my dear, don't run away from that pastor,... Fleee!!!!!!! and block your friend as well.

    Forgive my typos.

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    1. The next time you would have had sex with him thank God it ended that way. This poster is headed that way if she is not careful. The next she might write is, "I don't know how it happened".

      There's this actor that turned evangelist one time and lost his wife. His wife's family were dragging him sef. Anyway, it happened that a friend invited me to her church and after the programme she introduced me to her pastor. The pastor turned to the so called evangelist and said he should collect my number and pray for me. Toh calls started coming in. I was telling me friend and she continually waved it off as follow ups. A certain Saturday he called to say I should come to his house and I asked for what. He asked if I was a small girl. Lol. I told him off and told him not to call me again. My friend was so shocked or pretended to be. Best thing is to put an end to it before it starts.

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    2. Wow..... that was deep.
      Thank God you ran for your life.
      Awon destiny destroyers

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  38. Poster..you arerare not overeating,run and don't look back, it's either your friend doesn't know who he is really or she's part of the plan! But whichever one it is,don't give it,his just using the dream part to manipulate to come over so he can have his way!start praying on your own too for God's protection cos some are diabolical!keep blocking his number,as for your friend? becareful and stop telling her about him too! I don't trust her

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  39. Avoid both the pastor and your friend. Cut them off totally.

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  40. Poster please run from this pastor o
    He is after ur pants
    For a pastor to be asking all those kind of raw questions na another tin him dey find.I think that your friend may even be gbenshing the pastor
    Mtchhhew sometimes all this pastor shit dey tire me

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  41. Please block him and never look back, you have played enough with him.
    These are mortal men like us too so treat him the way you will treat a married man chasing you.

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  42. I will tell you straight! That man is an unholy man of the flesh (devil). He treats that 'church' like his personal harem. Block him everywhere. Keep screenshots of his dirty chats. Do not allow yourself to be psychologically manipulated by a narcissistic adulterer. Most importantly block that your friend. She is either wilfully ignorant or his pimp.

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  43. Your friend is an 'agent'. They've both been assigned to run you down by the devil himself! Watch out!!

    Some of these new generational churches & their leaders,may God have mercy

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  44. MY SISTER HE WILL RAPE YOU STAY AWAY FROM HIM
    CHANGE YOUR NUMBER IF POSSIBLE STAY AWAY FROM YOUR FRIEND HE CAN USE JAZZ

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  45. You're not overreacting, it's good your antenna is at alert and you have a good heart.

    Please avoid him as much as possible and never listen to your friend, she may just be so loyal to him and not see that he's just a human like both of you that can also fall into temptation. Don't go and see him, it won't end well.

    Premium regret is looming, avoid it!

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  46. It is so obvious what he's after. It was very convenient for him to start seeing bad visions when you blocked him. Your friend seems very gullible or might just be part of the scheme to get you laid. So I'll say keep him blocked and stay far from that 'friend' of yours.

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  47. And don't collect any money from him. The smart and wise thing to do is to avoid both of them. Wisdom is key and it's profitable to direct.

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    1. Exactly my thought Stella. The signs are there, your friend is part of the scheme. Avoid him please.

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  48. Collect the tfare and set a date with him but don't go, on that very day switch off your phone and put it on the following day which am sure he will call, just give him an excuse that you aren't feeling well and need to go to the hospital but no money or tell him your car is faulty and you need money to fix it, he will give you the money in anticipation for you to show up at his church office or where he wants you guys to meet but continue to stand him up and always tell him you are short of money,he will eventually receive sense and leave you alone.

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  49. Darling, I know it's somewhat flattering to catch the attention of any man holding any position of power, regardless of the relevance of said position of power. It's positively thrilling to be zoomed in on and singled out. Like, of all the ladies in church that day, why you, no? Yeah I get it, trust me, I do. Be that as it may, savour the moment that very instant, if you must and shut it down immediately! This pastor keeps coming on to you as long as he has because you allowed it.

    In my opinion, you underreacted. Sweetheart, You indulged him and refused to set boundaries early enough. Some of these pastors are predators, they use their positions and influence to prey on ladies with shaky self-will and personality issues. They have so mastered the art of seduction and manipulation that if you aren't careful, you will find yourself doing things you never thought you will do.

    You are a grown lady, you don't need your friend to tell you what is acceptable or not. If she sees nothing wrong in her pastor asking a lady about sex and how she likes it, then that's her own moral standard not yours. To a large degree, you determine how people treat you. If you don't like a line of conversation, you shut it down promptly. I doubt you will entertain this from a random John on the street.

    Keep that randy pastor's number blocked. On no account should it be unblocked unless you choose to. If your friend is making a fuss about this issue, perhaps a reevaluation of your friendship is in order. I'm even questioning the company you keep if no one in your circle of friends can't see the depravity in a man of the cloth showing more interest in a lady's sexual proclivities and less in her salvation. If he calls you with another number, let him know you are not some cheap slut that he can bounce his sexual fantasies off on. Just because you are single doesn't mean you are his play thing. Your dignity as a lady shouldn't be dependent on whether you have a man in your life or not. If he insists on this foolery, let him know you will not hesitate to add his wife to this unholy threesome. Let her tell you if she likes it up her ass or down her throat. Imagine the nerve of this imbalanced lascivious man making a mockery of the Christian religion. Truly infuriating!

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    1. Very annoying. This is one of the reasons some are giving up on their Christian faith.

      Welcome back, Ronalda.

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    2. Was this necessary? Telling her it’s “flattering“ and what not as though the woman hasn’t recognised his ill intentions or that she’s considering it. The poster isn’t stupid and you must learn to stop being so patronising and using that to be condescending and lowkey judgemental. The woman has already blocked the pastor and never acquiesced to his advances. And referring to women that do welcome sexual advances as “cheap sluts” is really unbecoming for an exposed person, especially a woman in 2020. Please do better in the way you respond to advice. You almost always victim blame and it’s counterproductive

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    3. I love you. You said it all.

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    4. Those giving up their Christian faith because of fake or carnal pastors ARE NOT LOOKING UNTO JESUS CHRIST as the author and finisher of their faith.
      Such people look unto their pastors as their gods/idols.

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  50. He actually saw something glorious in you that is what he is after. You are taking the right step, block him, don't go see him and don't need your Friend's pressure. He did not see anything,even if you go ma lie him go give you.
    Pray on your own God will hear and answer you. There are so many wolves in sheep clothing. A Pastor asking a single lady if she enjoys sex...is that one a Pastor?? Abeg flee from him, he is a appearance of evil.. Even that your friend be careful of her..

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  51. It’s very possible your friend is not in on it she probably adores him as per man of God and sees him like a very great one at that, the pastor might be acting ok to her cos he doest like her he actually like u so it’s the case of one person , and 2 people seeing him from different perspectives my dear Tk off ooo

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    1. She is not involved indeed but her friend is telling her the pastor is hitting on her and she does not believe. Tell him to leave you alone or you will record his messages and report to his wife.

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  52. If anything happens even if you just reply his message his wife will blame you and call you a witch etc and the society and all the commenters here will do the same. Stay away

    It is sad how people use positions of power to manipulate people especially knowing that women and children and youth are taught not to question authority in Nigeria. Keep blocking him. He may message you for months and even years but one day he will get tired. And stop telling your friend everything. You never know what she has against you

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  53. Be careful o, most of these pastors are not ordinary, maybe he had seen your glory and wants to tap for himself,please stay far from him, he has probably brain washed your friend,most of their wives are partner in tapping. Be wise

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    1. Absolutely true

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    2. The man is a RITUALIST!!!

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  54. Please kindly block this acclaimed pastor and before you do, give a piece of your mind..
    Heediot!

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  55. Lady you acted right and wise.
    It would have been better if you did not give him your number at all.
    This should not be a problem if people know their Scriptures; IN THE CHURCH,
    LADIES TEACH/FOLLOW UP LADIES: Titus 2:3-5

    Please that man is not a pastor but a devourer. And you know what, when you give in
    and he gets you pregnant or transfer diseases or both, nobody is going to believe you.

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  56. Totally agree with Stella on this one. Your friend is definitely in on it. Cos I don’t think someone can be that brainwashed.
    Block every number he calls you with and do NOT meet him anywhere before they drug you and have their way with you.
    If he persists in calling you, tell him you will get a police restraining order against him if he doesn’t stop.
    Also. Stay away from that friend of yours. She’s a fanatic and they can do anything for what they believe in.

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  57. Poster...i am in your shoes ooo
    I dont wanto be rude
    But the whole tin is disgusting to me
    Promising heaven and earth
    Asking mi sexually related questions
    Even using bible quotations to back it up
    Its sickening
    Married man with 3 kids ooo
    He calls i dont pick
    Blocked him on whatsapp
    The house of God is supposed to be a place of rest
    What are these ppl turning the house of God into?
    We run from randy outside
    In the house of God too?
    May God help us

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    1. No wonder the Bible says that judgement will begin from the church. We have no many filthy, demonic people who call themselves men of God. Most of them are after vain things and self. Let's be guided not all men who call Jesus Jesus are truly called by God.

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    2. 16:56 Tell you dad or brother to call the silly randy man. Or brief them about his ungodly calls, then get your dad or brother to take his next call.

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  58. Delete/ignore. Whatever you don't feed with attention, will naturally die off (most of the times). If he is coming stronger on you, check, you are directly or indirectly feeding him with attention. Cheers!

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  59. Babe do you know the meaning of dabimosheda? Go and ask - that’s who your friend is. Cut even her off. In life sometimes you must be ruthless if not people will step all over you. I used to be called a snub and my life was happy. Last year or from 2017- 2019, I let my guards down ehn people including my own mother showed me when from obedience good girl behavior I followed advice ehn! Better obey your instinct! God even warned me o in a dream yet I obeyed mama hahaha

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    1. I wish you heeded God's warning through your dream @17:31.
      Please, guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life.

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  60. You don't want to be rudeπŸ§πŸ™„? Continue okay; When he plucks the light he saw in you eh, your eyes will clear.

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    1. I tell you @ Jewel! I smell a ritualist in pastor's clothing.

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  61. Pastor this pastor that! Keep off from new generation church. They are pure business men. Don’t be surprised that your friend arranges girls for him. Hence she is not seeing any danger in your conversations with her pastor.

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  62. In my opinion, dear poster, you underreacted. Please, cut that man out of your life ASAP and your so called friend too. Keep her at arm's length

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  63. Poster na dem be that ooo.
    Na scammer and womanizer.
    He go rape you ooo.
    Don't go, biko.

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  64. If anything ever happens between, you would be blamed for having seduced a man of god! Cut off and continue to cut off any communicate with the He-goat!

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  65. Infact block him and block your friend if she is not careful...his intentions are crystal clear. He has got nothing to offer and make sure you rebuke every of his evil prophecies because they end up calling what is not someone's own into the person's life. May God help you In Jesus Name πŸ™πŸ»

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  66. Cut him off period. No need for long analysis

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  67. That pastor is sleeping with your friend and he has cast a spell on her so whatever he does is good and holy. Now he wants to initiate you too by using you and making u a robot. Solution: Block him and give your friend little space while praying for her deliverance because she's not herself.

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  68. Imagine preaching and lusting after females in church. Chai, God don see something. Op tell the so-called pastor... Satan I rebuke you in the Name of Jesus Christ.
    I pity every member of that fake church.

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  69. Keep blocking all the numbers he calls with and block your frenemy cos she is no friend.

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  70. Poster please cut all ties with him, don't even think of going to see him because he might hypnotised you, before you know anything you would have given birth to 3 kids. Keep blocking all the numbers he calls you with as for Your friend she has been brainwashed, majority of these pastors can't be trusted they have hidden secrets

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  71. Poster you did well to block him. What's his business with when last you had sex?

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  72. This chronicle is doing my body one kind and made me feel a certain type of way. I wish I could take possession of the Poster's body and answer that pastor or whatever he calls himself,by the time I talk to him,he would be the one to block means not the other way. Look ehen,there is a way you will 'set' your face,the man will reset his brain and konji, idiot man.

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  73. Dear poster don’t be shocked if the pastor told the girl to bring you closer . If he can sleep with you he would give her a million or more that’s the new scheme for ritualist. She’s doing her work while you are there singing babe this babe that and the pastor is also pressurizing her to pressure you. Some people aren’t good and loyal anymore they will do anything for money. So pls cut the pastor and gradually cut yourself from your friend all u see is fake and probably ill gotten.

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  74. I don't know what to say on the above topic.

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  75. Your instinct is not wrong! please cut your friend off!her hands aren't clean, period! don't negotiate, disengage immediately!

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  76. Block him and never go back to that church.

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  77. I feel offended anytime I'm been ask when did i have sex last. That pastor want knack you and maybe he has already knack your friend too. Lol ndi pastor

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  78. @poster, I'll just say may be you're telling us so that we see who some people who are pastors really are. I can't believe you are actually considering the vision scam he wants to use on you.

    I just wonder why people, especially females, in this 21st century still think that being/answering a pastor, deacon, bishop, priest, evangelist, apostle, or prophet gives ANYONE right over another, or makes anyone holier than others. Many gullible women have learnt the hard way after they have allowed themselves to be scammed/deceived by these wolves in sheep-clothing.

    Every NATURAL man preys on careless/gullible/naive/desperate/stupid/foolish/unspiritual females, and vice versa. Beware!

    No one who lives in the spirit fulfills the desires of the flesh.

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  79. Insult the hell out of him if he calls with another number. Yes, insult him, this one is not even a child of God talkless being a pastor. What nonsense. Threaten him you’d call his wife if he doesn’t back off.

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  80. Poster, please block him and just threatening to report him to his wife or the church...if he continues to disturb you.

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