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Sunday, May 10, 2020

Chronicle Of HOPE......

Those who have ears,let them hear.....








Abortion is bad... Please ladies stay away from it. When I was 19 I had 4 abortions each month back to back.... I was naive and ignorant... I had complications in one of them told my then boyfriend to take me to the hospital he said.. "Why do you people believe in hospital" (i did medical abortion)




I decided to go over the counter and got some drugs and I felt better.

 Last year i got married to another man and we decided to wait for 3 months before getting pregnant.on the 4th month we started trying and I didn't get pregnant after the first try. I wanted to die.. 


The guilt was terrible... I cried all night.. The following month I couldn't wait to start ovulation so we could have s#x.. After ovulation I started taking home pregnancy test six days after and no result...I was almost losing my mind..I thought to myself what about women that have waited for years to conceive how do they handle it?

 I prayed to God for forgiveness.. Weeped. Lo and behold. I missed my period and decided to take a pregnancy test and saw the most beautiful two red lines ever.... 

This is more like a testimony post for me... Pls ladies stay away from abortion. The guilt is terrible. And to every woman TTC this is your time.its your season...God is merciful. Hold on to him.... He never fails...  


I forgot to add, God opened my eyes and made me to do more research and found out some of the things we eat and think are healthy could hinder pregnancy.


I found out eating ginger roots, Dogoyaro (Neem leaf) could hinder pregnancy.. My husband was taking neem leaf and that's a form of male birth control pill..

73 comments:

  1. Thank God for his mercies,

    Lots of people have had abortions out of fear of family and stigmatisation ,
    Some were bold enough to face the music.
    One of my cousin's got pregnant in uni tried everything possible to get rid of the foetus but it ended in futility,
    She was scared of what her present would do, the church as well cos her parents are well placed in church.
    My mom counselled and prayed with her today she is happy 😊, her daughter is everything, unfortunately she doesn't even have any info about the baby daddy , she's just praying their path would cross some day .

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    1. I don't believe anyone including you poster had an abortion for the fun of it. You weighed your options and made your decision even though it wasn't easy or pleasant. Stop beating yourself. People will take decisions to cope with their circumstances and will face the consequences. I have come to understand that sex is a need and no amount of preaching has ever reduced or prevented it.

      For young adults, teach them that abstainance is best but safe sex is an option. Lay it open and demystify all the possible outcomes then leave them to it. Some juvenile mistakes alter the rest of their lives and when they are stuck and turn to you for help, please do what you can.

      Yes, I am a pro-choice.

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    2. Sex is a need? Hmmm
      How about we even preach safe sex since abstaining from sex is a big deal.
      Please try and avoud abortion at all cost.
      People taking decisions to cope? How about avoiding taking such decisions and if you do it once why dont you try your best not to repeat the same situation.
      My take on people having multiple abortions is lack of discipline and knowing theres an easy way out.
      You take in once? Okay... But to keep at it just so you can enjoy sex to the fullest is selfishness.
      Dear poster, i thank God for you and i happy you truly repented, our God is always available to forgive.
      Dear people, sin is not your right, avoid it at all cost.
      Premarital sex should be avoided, if you cant abstain please practice safe sex.
      #prolife

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  2. Congrats🎈 May you deliver safely🙏 premarital sex and not just abortion
    should be discouraged.

    Your last paragraph is the truth. I discovered that too and was shocked when I googled One of the supplements I was taking and found out it had other side effects.

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  3. For men, who still want to have children, don't take Zobo drink, lime or any drink like Teem and Schweppes, they are natural birth control food.

    Poster thank God for you 🙏, God will remember others trusting Him for children.

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    1. Is Zobo drink good for women? I'm asking because i love it and take it alot

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    2. What of women?can they take lime?

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    3. Lime and Zobo are not bad for women except pregnant women but it kills the sperm in men.

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    4. No, zobo drink is not good for women trying to conceive.

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    5. Zobo?Male infertility? Where did you get that from? Please show the scientific study where this was mentioned. Sounds like old wives' tales.
      If it was true most northern men who drink a lot of zobo would have been infertile but I guess you know they are the ones that give birth the most.

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  4. Stella Thank you for this segment.


    To all the women who are looking on to God for the fruit of the womb, the time is here. Believe it, and it's yours.

    I waited on God, the waiting time is usually the most terrible, but early this year, He answered me.

    Last week, I went for normal routine check, the doctor said, the baby is bigger that the date I gave, and asked me to do and ultrasound immediately. Well, sad news came, a very large cyst ( guess that was what she felt was the baby) i was scheduled for another ultrasound in 3weeks time, I know my God will see me through. Whatever God decides, is okay and I totally trust in him. Doctor said my baby is fine, and doing well.

    If the cyst doesn't shrink back, it will be removed. I'm not scared because I trust My God. Friends, remember me in your prayer. I strongly believe that a lot of women in waiting will take in soon. Thank you Jesus!

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    1. God will see you through.be strong 😘😘

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    2. God will keep your child safe and you shall birth only at term.

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    3. Amen! The God that began the good work will perfect it in Jesus name!

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    4. God will be with you all the way!!

      Amen to your prayers ❤

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    5. Amen
      We all join you in faith 🙏 .
      God would see you through.

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    6. You would be fine in Jesus Name. All sorts were found during my pregnancy, I was even labeled high risk.
      My daughter defied all odds and lanred gallantly, the most beautiful and agile 13 month old girl ever.
      🤗😘

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    7. God will see you through sister

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    8. God won't leave you alone. Remain blessed

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  5. “Why do you people believe in hospital” that’s strange. Ignorance kills.
    There’s this young lady that’s heavily pregnant and would birth her baby soon.
    She never registered for prenatal care, she said she doesn’t believe in it and that when it’s time to deliver, she’ll have her baby in her church 😮

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    1. No, that one is backwardness.even in Church,we pray against things and mentalities like this.

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  6. I had one in the past and i couldn't forgive myself.. Please forgive me ya Allah, i made a terrible mistake and i wish i didn't. I'm afraid of marriage now cos I'm scared i can't conceive again, my fiance is getting fed up of me poatponing our marriage😭😭

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    1. Anon..God has forgiven you long ago..the sacrifices of God are a broken spirit and a contrite heart...the day you realized your mistake and came to him truly sorry he forgave you..God is a loving father..I think its you that has not forgiven yourself. Forgive yourself all will be well..

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    2. Relax. You are fine. At least it's good to know you are fertile. So women have never concieved before and think they were careful with their contraception.

      Go on. Get married. Don't forget abortion is not the only cause of infertility. So it doesn't mean every ttcing woman you see was as a result of past abortion. God bless you.

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    3. God is a good of forgiveness, just as you have asked, He has answered.
      He has seen your heart, thats why He is beautiful in His ways.
      Do not be a slave to fear, you are a child of God.

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  7. Wow, merciful God, congrats poster, safe delivery.

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  8. My friend had 8 abortions while we were in the university. All of us were weak for her. Well she is now married with 3 adorable boys. Those things affect people differently. To each his own.

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  9. Congrats. May God continue to keep you and your baby.

    The above roots and leaf you mention has dosage but in this Nigeria, we self medicate a lot.

    People will say don't eat pineapple, don't take lemon and so on but if you can't take water during pregnancy, some doctors will tell you to add little lemon to your water(my sister did for 3months and her kids are 3 now) Hospitals still advice pregnant women to take pineapple and other fruits.

    The truth is, only take as advice by your doctor and take in moderation and not everyday.

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    1. When i was pregnant with all my children. Foor is always my worst enemy. Can't take fruits or vegetables. I vomit till i vomit blood. Nothing stays. The only thing that could stay was just coke and some days plain boiled yam. Told my gynaecologist and he told me to take my coke like that. What didn't people say,your baby will be roo big and all. But in all my biggest babies was when i had my twins. Their combined weight was 3.6. Apart from that my babies where small. So eat what you can during pregnancy.

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  10. To each man his own. If you want to opt for abortion go ahead but do it right by going to the experts. I had many abortions and still had kids without stress

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  11. It is because of the hypocrisy and forming holier than thou that many young girls who want an abortion go to quacks or use the wrong drugs n end up having issues later. If u want to have an abortion for reasons best know to you go to an expert and do it right to avoid all this tales my moonlight.

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    1. Who are the experts?i already have 3 kids and i dont want any more kids but unfortunately my contraceptive failed me and i got pregnant.

      The day my period was suppose to show, i did not see it and i have never in my life missed my period so missing it only means one thing.The two times i missed it was what gave me my 3 kids.

      I went to a nearby pharmacy,she gave me a particular drug which i used but i only saw a little blood so i was very scared,i went to a particular hospital,he was a gynaecologist,i explained what happened and he said i should leave it.

      How do i leave a pregnancy i have tampered with?i went to another one ,i have never been embarrassed like that in my entire life,he sent me out of his office .After i have tried all this option,i went to my family hospital,the doctor sent me for a scan and i was told the blood was lifeless,i was scheduled for an evacuation,that was the most painful experience i have passed through. It was pains mixed with guilt.I have never done such in my life.

      I hope God will forgive me and have mercy upon me.

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  12. Thank God for you. You shall carry to term and guve birth safely in Jesus name. Congrats.

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  13. All the people saying abortion is bad now will not help you as a single mom. They will shame and judge you that why did you fornicate and have a child you cant care for. So it's better to go for an abortion if you know you cant cater for the child and the father is not ready to cater for it too.

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  14. I did 7 abortions before I got married . While we were dating , I told my husband it was just two. Before the wedding, I tried getting pregnant and was always praying to God for forgiveness, because the thing was always disturbing me and I was scared of karma. But I thank God he answered my prayers, I got pregnant before my wedding date. I have a beautiful boy now. Pls no matter what you do, don't do abortion, because your conscience will not allow you rest, and also there might be complications, not everybody is that lucky.

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    1. What great advice after 7. U didn’t advice urself after one. Now it’s to be telling us. Go and sit down my friend.

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    2. Anon 18:35 Judge Judy, hope you are sinless.

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  15. Thanks for this post dear poster.
    I had an abortion in the past one time. I have been praying for forgiveness ever since, as much as I like to believe that God has forgiven me, I will forever remain with the guilt.
    I got married and my husband and I decided to wait for 3 years, I couldn’t help but wonder if I ever would get pregnant when it was time but as amazing as God would be, I got pregnant during my second ovulation of trying. I am grateful to God because he chose to bless me again. If I had known better I never would have even had sex with the person I did or with anyone ever.
    God bless those who are looking to you for fruit of the womb and forgive those like me who have erred. Amen

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  16. I am 39, single and broke.i just found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant and I am about to abort it.i am so scared.the father of the child is interested in keeping it.before now, I wanted to get pregnant and we planned it.now I am pregnant, I realise I am not ready.so confused, been depressed since I found out

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    1. Please my love don't abort that baby, I beg of you

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    2. Oh pls! Don't terminate it I beg u in d name of God. TTC is not a cross I would wish on my enemy. I just did my 4th hsg n it was hell on rather, all in d bid to open my tube n get preg. U are almost 40 n God blessed u, pls keep it

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    3. Please keep the pregnancy. Don't abort it. Each child comes with blessing.

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    4. Abort at 39?? Please Don't!
      You will be fine eventually.

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    5. At ur age?? Not advisable

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    6. At 39 you are single and you're still thinking of abortion because you're broke? I pity you. One thing is certain if you are hard working you can not be broke for ever but you never can tell if you will ever have a child or even get married. If you have this baby you'll have the company of a child.

      Poster thank God for you. Abortion is not an option.

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    7. @39 yr old lady,pls don't ever abort your baby.you may never have another chance.at 39 you are already running late and your chances slimmer.i am a 39 yr old health worker trying to conceive for a while now.its been so tough.wish we can swap position

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    8. Please dont abort, look for a job, start selling something.
      If you got married and had a child and lost your hubby, would you kill the child?
      You will definitely find a way, at 39? Please do not

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    9. Pls leave that baby. He/she will wipe your tears in time to come.

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  17. Poster thank God for you.

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  18. The truth is abstinence is very key.

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  19. I had abortion a few lot of times, I am a mother of three beautiful kids today but with 3 different father's, it's something I am not proud of, the waywardness is too much, I have repented, but the guilt is still unbearable and it huthu to remember who I was

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  20. Zobo is great for men and bad for women ttc, but good for women avoiding pregnancy as it lowers the oestrogen levels

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  21. Thank you for sharing your stories very encouraging and up lifting. God can be trusted.

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  22. My first ever abortion was terrible, no complications though but i got a drug inserted into my V and i birth it dead,that memory still in my brain and i always wish i had the baby plus the vision seen about me is so scary that all i pray for is natural conception, am not married yet but am scared of the future....

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    1. Ask for forgiveness, pray fervently to God.
      He cancels all our sins provided we ask, and learn to trust him completely.

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  23. To each his own, some ladies who do countless abortions end up having mutilple kids. I have seen virgins ttcing, God's way are not the ways of men. Sometimes I wished I had kept the last pregnancy I terminated but my then fiancé was a psycho. But I know God will surely make me smile sooner than expected.

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    1. Still it doesn't change the fact that abortion is wrong and has adverse consequences. some only did just one abortion and hasn't gotten pregnant ever since. It's best never to compare yourself with anyone because your destinies are different. So many women also have abortion and aare experiencing child delay. If you are a virgin and didn't get pregnant fast your mind is at rest and have nothing to worry about not like this poster whose mind was doing gbim gbim out of fear due to conscience of guilt.

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    2. 18.50 well said

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  24. I had one abortion. Towards the end of my youth service I got pregnant and I knew I didnt want to keep it. Cos my parents would be so disappointed. Well at 6 weeks I went to a pharmacy and I was given a drug to use. I took it and the tummy ache was so severe. My period came heavily with lots of clot. It's an experience I have pushed to the back of my mind. I'm married now with four kids and I pray God forgives me.

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  25. Congratulations...You will deliver like the Hebrew women..

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  26. I had an abortion when i was 18,it was a really traumatic experience. I asked God for forgiveness and promised never to do it again. It's almost 9 years now and i stuck to my promise to God. I already asked God for forgiveness and i know he has forgiven me. I don't regret doing the abortion as the guy i got pregnant for then wasn't someone i would love to end up with but teenage exurberance got the best of me. I'm happy to know that i am fertile and i'm not scared of the future.

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  27. Abortion is simply another name for murder. That is a child who never got a chance to fulfil his or her destiny. I am saying this specifically for the likes of Saphire that promote it.

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  28. I am always perplexed when people judge themselves over this abortion issue. Pray tell how many people were taught sex education when growing up? I am not talking the stories told by parents to scare us from interacting with the opposite sex and all this church sermon on abstinence, I'm talking about real sex education why your body is changing, how it will affect your emotions and mood, your ovulation period and how it affects your emotions and thoughts, how to notice this changes and things to do to stay distracted and also how to responsibly prevent pregnancy. The whole process of getting pregnant is biology, your body is at a stage that is ready for procreation and you can't stop the process, you can only prevent it hence it's not you, it's biology(this is the name of a book and I encourage people to read it).
    You cannot give what you don't have. Yes you make a mistake that you are technically not guilty of, forgive, accept and educate yourself and others but enough with the unnecessary judgment.

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    1. What do you mean technically not guilty? Repentance and a new beginning starts with acknowledgement of guilt so please stop trying to downplay it.

      Meanwhile, hope you know in the Western countries, sex education starts very early but yet unsafe sex and abortions still take place.

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    2. Not guilty how?this excuse you prepared in your mindset is morally and spiritually wrong!
      No body old enough to consent to sex is gullible about the repercussions!

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  29. So Many young girls and ladies having unprotected sex with males that are not their spouses or males that they won’t be proud of to be their baby daddy.
    The poor foetus is then murdered and aborted like a mere mistake. May God forgive all abortionists.

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  30. Abortion cuts short the life of an innocent child. Your own child. That you later had ten children does not change the fact that you shed your child's blood. Genuinely ask for forgiveness from God and from that baby. Mourn that child as you would mourn him/her if you had birthed and lost him/her.

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