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Wednesday, May 20, 2020

Couch Convo - When The Test Backfires......

Have you ever tried to use someone to test someone you love and the test backfired?

Read further and you will understand....










I cannot call names cause my University 'Friends' might be reading....
This happened to someone i know in school and even though she is married with kids,I doubt that she will ever recover from the shock...

87 comments:

  1. Personally, i see such moves as the most senseless thing to do. It is stupid.

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    1. I've never been tested and I've never tested anyone too. I no dey play rough play,to avoid stories that touches the heart and pricks the bumbum๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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    2. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

      How are you doing Miss?

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    3. Too blessed to be cursed20 May 2020 at 14:25

      Very senseless move Ese, what are you testing for? Ordinary human being lasan lasan that disappoints themselves every now and then, talk more of trying to put them into a test loju kpali.

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    4. I don't know how my experience relates with the post but I know it is somewhat similar.
      I (let's call me Elena) was seeing this guy then we broke up. So I made a fake account (let's call her Naomi) to talk to him online. Naomi was showing no interest in him and he could sense that. Being the person he is, he was very open with Naomi and they had very deep conversations like they were old friends. With all discussed and revealed (I cannot really get into that now) Naomi suggested to him to maybe consider an old love. So along the line, he mentioned, in his own words, that he was going to go over a list of ex-relationships and consider going back to one of them. Naomi nudged him on. In fact, she gave a very convincing speech on why it was a good decision. True to his decision, he reached out to me (Elena) immediately but I was playing hard to get and forming "moved on". Eventually, he got tired and moved on to the next person and married her. So, it all backfired on me.
      Lesson learned: Testing people has some really unpleasant repercussion.

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    5. So something similar happened to my uncles wife.

      She was friends with a lady around her shop area. The lady is advanced in age but not married. She had issues with her hubby and begged the lady to go help her talk to her husband. Today, that lady is married to my uncle with a son.

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    6. My now wife tested me with her cousin and we almost started dating.As a matter of fact we almost fucked the first night we met till madam came and scattered everything.Girl liked me immediately she saw me.See family meeting on top the matter for their house..That test shit is so stupid abeg.if u test most women with otedola they will fail so why test a man with a very hot chick?

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  2. I wont advise anyone to try such, because It will always backfire.

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    1. It always backfires.
      As humans, we don't trust ourselves not to talk of putting someone else to a test.
      It always ends in PREMIUM TEARS AND REGRETS.

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  3. I wont advise anyone to try such, because It will always backfire.

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    1. It will always end in premium tears ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ jare

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  4. One word to describe this act is CHILDISHNESS. Oh, and FOOLISHNESS.

    That Anita did very well. In fact, if she was close to me now, I'll buy her ten bottles of chilled coke ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

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    1. So that she will have diabetes no thanks to u?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. Real childishness. Inukwa

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  5. I don't believe in using people to test my partner.

    Its small minded people that do this testing of a thing.

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    1. Yea your last paragraph says it all.

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    2. All those tests are local level crafty way of reasoning

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    3. Gbam! ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  6. Why will you send someone to test your boyfriend,what for??mcheeeew
    They should not even have his number in the first place

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    1. Childish stuff,they will tell you ' I want to know if he truly loves me' ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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  7. Children play.

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  8. So, this thing happens? But some friends are wicked. Why would you fall for a man you were asked to test? May be she already had feelings for him and she used the opportunity to grab him. The man too no loyal at all.





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    1. When a man that knows his onions talk to you. Walahi you must fall for him . No be magic. Ask girls that carry belle out of wedlock most of them will tell you, “how he begged them with his life. Fear men.

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    2. Is she a test kit? hehehe, not right though.

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    3. I swear. Back then that’s what boys use to do when they want to break up with a girl. Another friend will start toasting and gbam, they will form they caught the girl when he is smooching the girl.

      Problem started when one guy did this and his friend started dating the girl frfr even after the ‘catching’. Nothing boys did not do to break them up. They are in California now. The lady is an IT professional and the guy is a doctor living their best lives with 2 kids.

      This games are dumb because if even fatherdmv spends enough time with Toke Makinwa, he will smash last last. Purรฉek and tontoh matter, nobody can understand

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    4. Don't just try it with anybody. I hate what I don't like.

      Uou think you're the only one that like good thing.
      That testing is like giving your dinner to cat.

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  9. i went through this and whether it was a test or not i have no idea, my girl told me that before we met a guy she was into but styling for and wanted him to work harder, one of her close friend slept with him and she had to find out and it affected their friendship for years, we started going out and her friend from way back who smashed that former guy started apologizing and her being a good girl forgave her, few months later she came to visit her in school and found out my girl was staying in my place. Told my girl to go to her hostel and accommodate her friend but she begged me to allow her stay with us, being a supportive guy i said okay(worst mistake). just few days staying with us she started acting up whenever she see’s us getting romantic or loved up, would not even hide it and even go as far as smashing the door when going out, i complained but got tired, then whenever my girl was not around she will become extra nice and wear revealing clothes( was tempted bcos she was fine, but restricted myself bcos of the story my girl told me about her). if am bathing she would jokingly come to the door and be saying weird stuffs like do i need assistance and all that, i wanted to tell my girl but could not do it, as i saw how happy she was around her always... One day she went to the library and came back early to find the door locked and i had no idea she had locked the door because i was watching movies on my laptop with my headphone on, after knocking for long with no response, her friend who was hearing her this whole time stood up and told me my gf was knocking and she walked into the bathroom, i stood up to open the door and i have never seen her that angry, she entered the room and her friend came out from the bathroom smiling. my gf got angry and told her friend to leave with her now to her own place...she refused picking my calls for days until 3 days later she came to see me after her friend had traveled back with various allegations heaped against me by her , that i was always peeping her when she’s bathing and that we did all sort of things when she was not around. i was confused and defended myself but she was not having it, her elder sister had to intercede on my behalf saying she believes me over her friend because she knows her friend so well.... We made up and settled but things were never the same as it was again and it lead to us splitting up because she no longer trusted me and i was also angry she choose to believe her friend over me. So thats that my people๐Ÿ˜ฉ

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    1. Wow! What a wicked friend. To be sincere, if I were your ex, I would likely believed her over you based on their past relationship. I hope your ex sees her friend for who she really is before it's too late.

      Some friends are evil Sha!

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    2. Wow! Just wow!!
      Your girlfriend had an unpleasant experience with her friend and still allowed her into your home.This is no longer a case of being nice to a fault,it is simply stupidity.

      What a bitter experience you had.Pele dear

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    3. Thank God she learnt her lessons the hard way. Why bringing such wayward girl close again?

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    4. Too blessed to be cursed20 May 2020 at 14:30

      I hope she has vut off that lady else she will get what is coming for her.

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    5. Wow. It’s sad you were caught In this web.
      However I think both ladies are better off out of your life cause a lady who would chose to believe her friend over her bf over same thing she’s experienced with said friend is๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผ‍♀️....well, let’s just say at times birds of a feather really flock together.

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    6. Isaac,its good you dodge the bullet, imagine if she was your wife and this kind of mistruts happens.
      Thank God sha.

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  10. That's the most insensible thing to do.

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  11. I can never do such,I mean never!

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  12. Some childish guys still do this. They'll set up their friends to go ask their girlfriends out, or even entice her with money/gifts to see if she'll date the friend instead. ๐Ÿ™„
    Children everywhere

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    1. How are you feeling today Boo? Hope better๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’

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    2. Lol, @ Children everywhere.

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  13. Year 2001 my friend then brought this offer to me to test his boyfriend who was in UK then! I told her what if the guy fall for me? She said no probs! So I did and the guy fell,I was sending her the mails the guy was sending me! She was livid and started saying I snatched the guy from her! My saving grace was my sister who was aware of the whole game...the guy was very angry with her for playing this game with him! Cos I later opened up to him reasons cos my friend later mailed him and said i am a fraud ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜such games hardly ever end well.

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  14. No never, this na temptation in P square voice.

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  15. You wanted to know how much the guy loves you. You have now known. If it wasn't with your friend, it would have been with someone else. As for the friend, it's better you know sooner than later what kind of friend she is.

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  16. When I was in college a friend of mine decided to test her boyfriend ๐Ÿ™ƒ to know how much he loved her ❤
    She gave some girl her boyfriend's number to call the guy under her supervision ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿง๐Ÿคฏ
    Mmmh the girl called the guy he first said he didn't know who was calling and hung up well after much persistence he started talking to the girl every night ๐ŸŒ™ and the phone used to be on speaker .
    One day he was asked if he had a girlfriend, he said he didn't have a girlfriend that she broke his heart and he is single and if the girl wouldn't mind they should hook up in summer .
    Ayee!!! The silence that filled the room was crazy, aunty wanted to die she was in shock that her darling Romeo had just played a Peter on her ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚.
    She broke up with her boyfriend that night after confronting him and it ended in Platinum tears ๐Ÿ˜ข.

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
      Even the Bible says the arms of flesh shall fail you.lobatan.

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    2. Best she knew what kind of guy he was sha!

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    3. Abajoooooooooo

      Chaiiiiiii

      He legit denied her o chim lol

      My twitter people will say,'men will disgrace you walahi'

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    4. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผ‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผ‍♀️.
      Why do they do this?

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  17. "I thought we were friends"

    "You thought wrong"

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  18. This is one of the most foolish prank anyone in a relationship can embark upon. If my partner pulls a stunt as the above on me for any reason, which ever way should I pass or fail, the relationship is so so over. If you don't trust your partner then there is no need for a relationship in the beginning.

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  19. Just pray for good friends, be watchful and be a good friend yourself. There are friends who help to enhance their friends' relationship, who the guy even consults when planning to propose to his babe. I know people who have had the same girl pals for years and they are still very close.

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  20. Just pray for good friends, be watchful and be a good friend yourself. There are friends who help to enhance their friends' relationship, who the guy even consults when planning to propose to his babe. I know people who have had the same girl pals for years and they are still very close.

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  21. Suicide mission,l no fit try am biko

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  22. I never tried it. She only used G strings to confuse the idiot. She was really loaded at her backside. They didn't date though but he dumped me for someone else that had big yansh.

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    1. Sorry,that big yansh got me๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. You no get gstring abi na flat arse you get?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    3. So na wrestler's pant you dey wear abi ?
      Try and be sexy next time and stop wearing Granny's pants.
      ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  23. Men have a way of getting what they want from a woman. And women fall for that: some deeds come with had I know.

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  24. This reminds me of the old movie Games women play

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  25. A foolish mission to embark on.

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  26. Why give yam to a ๐Ÿ or bone to a ๐Ÿ•? Test ko test ni

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  27. I'm not testing any man. They will shock you... I'd on their own they decide to leave then fine

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  28. ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ testing, testing 1.2๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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  29. Yes,the guy began to toast me,I told her,she cried and cried.
    We were in secondary school.
    Last last I heard she took in for the guy,she never knew the guy was a native doctor.
    She has three kids for him now but they are now sepreated.

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  30. I just started dating this guy about 6months(no sex yet) and all he could do was to give my no to his best friend to test me.His friend did unknown to me and I fall *yakata* for him, we dated for 5 months and got married. 5years married happily married to his friend and blessed with 3kids(had twins). My hubby is God's best gift given to me and he worships the ground I step on. His friend keep telling anyone that cares to hear,how he snatched me from him.

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ He was simply the channel to your marital destiny.

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  31. Never tested anyone but I had a friend that tried sleeping with every single boyfriend I ever had. Be them serious or just toasters. 2 guys actually fell and slept with her and that was the end of those relationships. Only one Person was bold enough to tell me of it In front of her, while we were dating. He is now my husband of 20 years. She would tell them rubbish about me and talk of how I am chubby while she has the killer curves. I eventually had to cut her off. looking back I think she had deep Seated abuse issues Coupled with low self esteem. We recently reconnected but I will keep it at a distance especially as she’s still single. Once bitten twice shy!!!

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    1. Better stay away from her completely. Some people only want that very thing that belongs to another.

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    2. Just like my former friend. Any and every guy I either dated, liked or just talking. I always knew but because I always let it go. But the last time was just too vindictive so I dumped her. Today she's married with kids. I'm divorced with no kids. God's mercy is wonderful tbh.

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  32. lmao, I remember when I was in secondary school something like this happened. my fried used our other friend to test her boyfriend. leemao, omo, they dated. our other friend fell for the guy I even met the guy later. but the thing wey come vex me be say, the guy too now started calling me thinking I'd be a fool like our other friend. the kind of epistle I told the guy ehn, that was the last time he called me. awon weyrey Okunrin

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  33. Stellz, my considered opinion is, if you have to condescend to the realms of the ridiculous to "test" the depths of your partner's love for you, perhaps, you are in the wrong relationship. True, sometimes doubt is inevitable, but if you observe how your partner treats you and not necessarily judge by what he/she says, your intuition would usually point you in the right direction. There are instances where you may want to know how your partner would react when faced with a not so pleasant situation, if you are so inclined, you can set a test but no third party need be included.

    For instance, a young lady tells her partner she's pregnant but she isn't. Her "Romeo" who has been aggressively professing love for her a la "Grenade" by Bruno Mars, suddenly becomes a philosopher, talking about how not to put the cart before the horse and how to make hay while the sun shines and how a baby should come after marriage, regardless of the fact that they continued having and consistently had unprotected sex. She got the answer to her "test". It wasn't the answer she wanted, albeit she knew how he really felt without including a third party.

    Involving a friend in a make-believe seduction session with your partner, to test his boundaries, show you have little respect for your friend, your partner and most importantly, yourself. A certain amount of trust is needed for a healthy relationship, though in any human endeavor, best leave room for what I call the "human factor", because no human is infallible.

    Yeah, Anita may be a cold hearted spawn of Jezebel and the guy a low down dirty dog but the Pearl chic isn't exactly the sharpest tool in the box either. That's a classic rookie move. It can be argued that he wasn't the right man for her in the first place but who knows, right?

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  34. Which one is premium tears and platinum tears? Gold, bronze and silver tears dey?

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  35. I don't agree with people playing this game at all but I still wonder how people easily betray their friends like this

    Matters of the heart though

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    1. No betrayal here.
      Don't give your dinner to cat, all in the name of testing.

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  36. Lack of trust and low self esteem can make some people do all sorts...
    The painful part is you don't have the concluding part of the essay with you..
    The theme might change...

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  37. If you have to test then the relationship is already shaky.

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  38. Well, I tried something like this way back in 2012 just when I started dating my first boyfriend. I loved the guy so much but it was almost like he just wasn't into me or he didn't live me at all. It was a long distance relationship and I was the only person doing the whole calls, text and generally trying to keep in touch. Anytime I complained, he gave series of excuses, busy with school, not able to afford airtime and not an emotion person that knows how to express himself through calls or text.
    I told my Aunt and we decided that we would try to 'test' him to see if all his excuses were valid. I gave my aunt his number and you can they started talking. I couldn't believe that this guy was always calling every night saying something about my aunt having a nice voice, easy to talk to bla bla bla. Eventually, my aunt talked some sense into my head that this guy doesn't value me enough to want to keep in touch or communicate. She eventually told the guy off, blocked him and I called it quits. It was painful though but somehow it was an eye opener.

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