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Wednesday, May 06, 2020

WEDNESDAY IHN

Sending Wednesday hailings your way....
Don't forget to wash your hands frequently and and observe the social distancing directive......











FROM WEDNESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST COMMENT SECTION


Dear fellow BVs. Good morning. I am the lady who wrote to Mrs Stella about selling her Virginity. I read the comments and I was in awe. I cried reading the words of encouragement and all. Y'all comments touched me and I regret ever imagining that not to talk of typing and sending to SDK. 



Truth is I cant just type to explain all that has happened that left me with no option but this but in all I give thanks. I wanna use this medium to thank Mrs Stella cos I cant even thank her enough.



 I thank God I sent it to her because if not for her stern reply, maybe I would have done the unthinkable. The reply reset my brain immediately. May we never find ourselves in situations that would make us do the unthinkable. Thank you, and God bless.






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MADAM TOK TOK DON LAND
OVERCOMING FEAR


The realities of the times we are is overwhelming. Some of us are not sure of what the year holds for us anymore. The uncertainties starring at us in the face are far greater than what we expected. We are clueless at to what might happen to our means of livelihood.



You can choose to be afraid of the unknown or believe that this is just a phase that would pass soon. Our thoughts are like magnets, they bring to us all we have ever taught about. Fear would therefore magnet negative things to us. Normally I always have sore throat whenever I take excessive cold water.


 The other day I had sore throat; I started reading all the symptoms of the virus. I was so scared thinking of when fever might start. Days later I became well when I stopped the intake of cold water. You can imagine my unnecessary fear.

When you think of the pandemic it is better to always remember that there are more recoveries than deaths. You can choose to see the positive side of everything and be happy or look into the negative side and fall into depression. Instead of thinking about the uncertainty of your job, think of a way of making money out of the whole situation, some people are still making money this period even with the lock down.

As you go through the news, have a positive mindset always remembering humanity would prevail in all circumstances. Write down all your fears and counter with a positive thought. Whenever fearful thoughts creeps him immediately attack the thought with the positive one. Where you have lost your job remember it is an opportunity to own your own business. We know all entrepreneurs started from somewhere. Pray about your fears, everything would work out just fine.








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*I AM A WOMAN*


So what?
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.


I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.


Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.....


Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"


I cheat, and I am called a Love Peddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.


So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.


He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.


I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh"
And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.


Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.


Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.
Because I am a woman.


A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living.


A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman.


Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.
But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!!







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188 comments:

  1. In life,your beliefs affect your choices.
    Your choices shape your actions.
    Your actions determine your results. So in order to achieve that success you desire and want, take note that the future you create and hope for simply depends upon the choices you make and the actions you take today.So stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive about what could go right.

    You have three choices in this life, GIVE IN, GIVE UP, OR GIVE IT YOUR ALL.


    Good afternoon everyone, trust we are all doing great & being safe out thereπŸ™πŸΎ

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    1. Hello BVs, so I have to make a choice, I have two options and hoping you guys can help me. I lost my job during this pandemic because of oil price fall.

      I want to go to Canada to further my studies or my aunt in US ships me stuff from US to sell, make my own profit and send her, her own share of the money.

      Which do you think is better for me with food reasons please. Thank you.

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    2. Thanks Stella, isaac and PA.. My account was credited last night.
      May God bless u all.
      Thanks isaac once again

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    3. I AM A MAN - THE RIPOSTE
      In Defence of Men

      I get into a little disagreement with a tigress of a woman. She tears my shirt, scratches my neck, and clutches my scrotum all the while spitting in my face with all sort of names. "Shameless man, NFA (No Future Ambition). Yet I hold my peace, because I am a man.

      The table is turned. She screams down my face, choking my throat. I almost suffocate, and with my survival instinct, I swiftly extricate her hands and she falls hard to the ground. Hell is let loose. Women swear under their breath, others call me "an irredeemable coward. Go and look for your mate", they charge. The man dies who keeps silence in the face of tyranny (Prof. Wole Soyinka), but no I am a man.

      Is it because I am a man, that I dont have blood running through my veins? That I am devoid of emotions?

      Tragedy strikes, and women are given free licence to mourn, cry, wail, scream, roll on the floor, let their wrappers go loose, almost to the point of nakedness. But I am forbidden not to release a drop of tear. I persevere. I stifle the tears to the point that my shoulder is jerking. Strong arms and stern faces remind me that I must not let the world see my tears. Because I am a man.

      My wife cheats on me with another man or a woman. I am blamed for my inability to fend for my family. "You are worse than an infidel", damning fingers point in my direction. I weep in my closet, but I must not show it, because I am a man.

      And even when I do provide for all my family needs, and she still cheats on me, I am labelled a "40 seconds man".

      I take to the comfort of beer parlours and bars to drink away my sorrow, yet I am called an irresponsible man. My ego is bruised, and I find myself in the soothing arms of strange women. "This one na community dick", they quip.

      So the marriage packs up, and as the head of the family, I am being made to bear the ignominy of a broken home.

      She is 22 and runs a vendoring company. Almost all the offices she enters, men run to her rescue, patronizing, referring, supporting, dashing, etc. Soon, she becomes a tycoon, rich and doing big things.

      I am 35, a professional with years of experience. I move from one office to another, one state to another, one country to another in search of the golden fleece. I toil with little or no support. "To be a man is not a day's job", I am daily reminded. So with my blood and sweat, I work hard to earn every kobo, every stripe, every achievement. Because I am a man.
      M = Morning
      A = Afternoon
      N = Night

      It is not permissible (mark my words) for me to apply for SDK data or cash giveaway else I be labelled "shameless man, shame leave am dey catch me". And when I do participate in SDK face competition, I do it with extreme caution lest I be christened "effeminate". Just because I am a man.

      Because I am a man, this post will raise dust, and some women will try to berate me. But do not forget, that I am a man, and it does not mean that I am a SUPERMAN.

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    4. Good rejoinder Epic Pen. Each gender has its challenges. That is life.

      Everyone should try to do what is right rather than unnecessary focus on gender this and that.

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    5. Good afternoon chocolat dear😊

      you are welcome GCN lady G, God bless you real good

      Thanks buxomebony


      Shola i will advise you do the business with your aunt for now and add to your already existing savings before heading to canada to further your studies okay(the school will always be there, but this business opportunity from your aunt won’t)



      Bv epic pen such a nice piece from you and also from the women writer as well....let us all practice gender equality/equity people😊

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    6. Shola, we answered you the other day Nah!!

      Most people said you should go to Canada and further your studies🀷‍♀️🀷‍♀️

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    7. Who send you???

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    8. Da epic pen,
      My advice to u is go the bobrisky way!!! Hence in that way, no need for all these lamentations, jealousy, feelings of self defeat or loss, feeling like a loser just because because u r a man.
      U know there's escape from ur gender, if u feel it's stopping u from fulfillment in ur life. Ok!
      There's no need to hate, humiliate or to trash women.

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    9. @Anon 02:39 I wanted to let your comments slide, but doing so would mean affirmation of the words you used on me. Women hater. I CAPital NO!!! My riposte wasnt intended to diminish the struggles of women in a patriarchy society.
      But as Anon 15:41 aptly puts it:
      "Good rejoinder Epic Pen. Each gender has its challenges. That is life.
      Everyone should try to do what is right rather than unnecessary focus on gender this and that."
      Try and see things from the lighter side of life. I am not competing with anyone.

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  2. We Don go, we Don come.. A tii lo, a tii de.😝😝

    Na pursue dem pursue us comot market this afternoonπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

    Before dem allow us enter nko.. Checked our temperature..

    Allowed us stay for like 4 hours.πŸ™„πŸ™„
    I still sell small market today, that one we go manage am till next market day.. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

    Since we are all asked to use face mask, why dem still dey disturb us.. πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Hope you sanitized the money abi they did transfer.

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    2. Ola, thank God, you were able to make little sales.
      We pray that this pandemic blows over and let a vaccine be available for all.

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    3. ola my guy please stay safe at all times and am glad you made sales for today....more customers locate youπŸ™πŸΎ

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    4. Hahahaha Ola you are very funny.why did they pursue u people by this time of the day na?is too early

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    5. Ola, you aren't an essential worker.

      You can sell your fabrics online for now and look for ways to do home deliveries.

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    6. Thanks oooo.. Na transfer shaπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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    7. Abeg I be essential worker oooπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  3. Anonymous6 May 2020 at 08:05
    My introduction was supposed to held last month but because of this pandemic my boyfriend couldn't come to Nigeria.. I noticed ever since then he has been so frustrated and he will be picking offense at any slight opportunity, i dare not missed his calls or late in replying in texts, he will be angry to the point that he will wants to cry.. He is not usually like this, he is a very calm person but i noticed this frustration started ever since he couldn't come home foe the intro.. Please how best can i handle this? He is a doctor also i don't even know if it's also work related.

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    This was in Spain this morning and got no response. Please let's help her.

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    1. In House News is gradually coming back to life. Whoop whoop!

      The signout message is nothing but the truth.

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    2. There were responses later πŸ˜˜πŸ€—πŸ˜š
      You're kind .

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    3. Oh thanks dear, my bad then.

      @Chocolat thanks baby😘 I'm learning from the best-You😍

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    4. 440+ comments at 2:50pm,hahahaha

      My heart cut,thought something was amiss but it was in good faith.

      Dem be think say members of BVN be garri,dem come soak us,we come dey rise dey rise now,we plenty. Ahaaa

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    5. I responded to her..... She needs to talk to him about it, no one should pour their frustration on the other person

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  4. What a sunny afternoon.
    Boredddddd

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  5. Most men will never realize what great woman they have until she's gone for good and they're stuck with another woman that doesn't even do half the things the woman they took for granted did for them.


    Treat and love your women right guys, a woman properly loved will reciprocate it a thousand times and give your life true happiness.

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    1. First paragraph is true...... Both Men and Women❤❤

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    2. hello cookie...trust your day is treating you nice?


      my regards to lucious😁

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  6. Good afternoon
    Thank God things are going back to normal. Normal adverts have started on IHN. Let me go and prepare mine.
    Stella take 😘😘

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  7. Shebi I talk am say na girl Mercy Johnson dey expect. Una don see am. And no, I don't know her from Adam. Congrats to her and the family. Her mother just came back to her.

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    1. An exceptionally beautiful gift you have there
      Now tell me, when will Coronavirus leave us alone? Say the time and date

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    2. Anon 14:44 πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£Savage!

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  8. Crazyhornywife6 May 2020 at 14:04

    Beautiful piece about life as a woman.

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  9. Pls ooo what can I do to "draw" network to my phone? My network has been really bad since it rained with serious wind last week. It's really frustrating.

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    1. miss Aboki pls permit me to use your space😍
      PLEASE BV'S WHERE AND HOW DO I DOWNLOAD A MOVIE...
      Please help a sister

      Good afternoon

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    2. BV BemoreBliss according to BV MartinπŸ‘‰Go to your playstore and search for this app "Nigerian Movies Latest Nollywood"..

      It has a green logo and you would see the name "Olayinka Adedokun"..

      It's an app for 9jarock and doesn't redirect(unlike the website most time)..

      If you are in Nigeria;you can download more movies at Night using affordable Night plan for #50.There are other packages too

      Hope this helps..

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    3. If it is Nigeria movies,
      You can download from net Naija or even an app from play store called NIGERIA MOVIES with green logo or through you tube too.

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    4. Be more, download Nigerian Movies: latest nollywood with the name Olayinka Adedokun, it was recommended by Martins and it's good!!

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    5. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€@TheMysteryWoman..

      @Bemorebliss;kindly follow the step above and you will have a lot of movies in your Gallery..

      @MARTINS

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    6. I will try it too. Thanks

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    7. Thank you guys for all the replies @Tmw,Jessi,cookie and Martins

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    8. Pls Martins, what of foreign movies?

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    9. Martins i've been unable to download any movie since i installed that app. Once I click on "download" it redirects me to different links, these links end up taking me to porn site, betnaija etc.

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  10. Hello guys ✋✋

    Thank God for you virgin babe,God has taken over..trust Him

    Good sales y'all

    πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€ΈπŸ€ΈπŸ€ΈπŸ€ΈπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌ I'm just happy for no reason tho πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

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    1. Hey Paris, trust you're good.

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    2. Choco boo πŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ€—

      @TMW thanks darling πŸ₯°πŸ₯°I'm doing just fine

      Where is Phoenix??

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  11. Bulbs fan and tv, ?.
    I think you need more than 1.5kva.
    1.5 will do for only bulbs and sockets for things like phone charging

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    1. Nah...mine is 1.5 and carries fans, bulbs and TV. The batteries used to last 48 hrs and have reduced to 5 hrs, I guess it's time to change the batteries.

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    2. Ify... you overloaded yours,reason it got weakened, get a supercharger for your batteries and boost the battery life.

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    3. Pls how much for the inverters biko?

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    4. Not true @anon 14:08,I have 2batteries of 1.5few months old and I still use TV for hours,the bv looking for recommendations can send me hi on watsapp as Im not sure its right to drop the details here!!

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  12. Good afternoon bvs
    I hope we are all good
    God will locate good customers on these advertised products πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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  13. Nothing beats waking up to an alert in this coro period, thanks so much Isaacbaba, I got your gift.
    I can't wait to have my life back but won't trade it for this cutie smile and innocent look.

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    1. Congratulations...how is baby?

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    2. Thanks Choco
      Thanks Rainbow, he is fine

      The men's club got me, that movie got me.

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  14. Please say NO to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE of any kind no human deserves this ,

    Last night one of my friend's nephew was cut deep by his wife the photos are too gory his flesh literally fell off 😭

    This lady in question is cheating on her husband , their second child is even for someone else she leaves the house for days and then comes back he has been condoning her attitude for a long time πŸ˜’.

    He finally found the strength to leave and she pounced on him for the umpteenth time.

    He has 38 stitches and in a terrible state.

    Guys please leave while you can before its too late .

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    1. Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!

      I hope she gets arrested and made to pay for her crime

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    2. OMG😱😱😱😱😱.. What a wife!

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    3. That man is a weakling. He remained with her after finding out his second child is not his?
      He stayed there and let the wife do all that to him? Unbelievable!!!
      Does he not have sisters? This is really painful.
      You are the one cheating and bringing home another man’s kid, she get mind o.
      What a soft man. Nonsense .

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    4. @Cookie she was called in by the police but she said she didn't do it .
      I'm just happy that she wouldn't get away with this 😌

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    5. oh my that is just terrible and i hope he gets well soon, that wife should be arrested

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    6. What! 😲😲😲😲😲

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    7. Damn! This is so gory to read sef...but that man is weak sha, someone he would have since bundled and sent back to her fathers house, he had to wait till now. I pray he recovers

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    8. Evil wife from hell! She must pay for her crimes

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    9. Hmmmmm, this is heartbreaking, can't the man leave the marriage? Is he under a spell that he stayed till now?

      Choco, tell your friend to remove her nephew from that toxic sham of a marriage.

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    10. In this life,don't allow anybody to see you finish otherwise the kind of wicked things they will dish out to you will tingle the ears.

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    11. Is the wife the breadwinner of the home? Is the husband jobless or has the wife gone 'jujuistiscally' on him? That man needs to be save from her pls he might not be lucky the next time.

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    12. Slutty, you're still blaming the man in this case??

      It's well!!!


      Thank God she didn't kill him..... Some Men just love you unconditionally

      Choco, please oooh, she shouldn't!!

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    13. What😲 I hope they make her pay

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    14. If she did the crime, she has to do the time. Hope he heals quickly.

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    15. So the family has been talking to him but he chose to forgive an unrepentant woman who didn't even ask for forgiveness,
      He has a good job , she is even the jobless one that prefers to sleep with other men ,
      He is now ready to leave but she doesn't want him to leave ,
      They're going to file a restraining order and hopefully they'd get divorced eventually.
      πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ no juju at all

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    16. Is she a billionaire's daughter? Or may be American/ Europe citizen whose husband is "using her" for visa/ resident permit things?πŸ‘€

      U never tell us the full gist there!!! There must be a catch to the story! No man or woman dey get stuck with a bad marriage for nothing, dear! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜›LMAO

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  15. What you're stepping into is greater than what your stepping out of!

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  16. Please bvs that know about calories should tell me how many calories to burn with 1000skipping ropes abeg.

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    1. Download health app to help you determine how many calories you burn by skipping 1000.

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    2. google it

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    3. Also get a smart watch.

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  17. God please have mercy on us and take bad news far from us.

    I am just downcast πŸ˜”

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    1. Please cheer up. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    2. It's well dear..pls cheer up,God is on the throne

      Sending you πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    3. Don't be dear...whateverit is will soon pass okay πŸ˜˜πŸ€—

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    4. Having faith is important,it is the source of inner peace,be sure that all your wishes and dreams will come through by Gods grace!

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  18. Please who knows natural remedies for menstrual cramps.. tired of taking drugs every month

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    1. Try ginger and hot water, then add little lime and drink about two days to your period day. You can also try taking dry gin, but I don't drink so I have never tried it

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    2. Teas: raspberry leaf tea - the actual dried leaves. Chamomile tea too. Also eat lots of apples (can blend it with carrots and take it all through the day), it ups energy and helps to reduce flow too.

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  19. Mi love the sign-out meme. Some fights are really not necessary, not worth it.
    You get drained from it all. Just keep walking for your sanity sake.
    Virgin poster, I’m sorry about what I said to you yesterday, that wasn’t right.
    I just didn’t like that you had such an idea when you can actually do better. May God come through for you.
    Some of us are going through stuff but keep looking on to God for better days.

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  20. Madam virginity seller,
    Just take things easy.
    Hussle no matter how small and keep the faith.

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  21. Thank you all for the wishes for my Mum

    She had a swell day, I wasn't present I'm glad she enjoyed her day with her husband...... My Mum is such a sweet tooth and dramatic🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

    I wish there was a voice note feature here, some gists are better narrated with mouth than typing😁😁😁


    Thanks again guys❤❤❤❤

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    1. I'm glad she had a good time πŸ˜πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸ’žπŸŽ‰πŸ₯³πŸ₯³

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    2. You're a naughty shildπŸ˜…πŸ˜… I'm glad she had a Fab oneπŸ™πŸ™

      Be good boo xx

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  22. I opened SP, left one or two comments then back to yoga. Checked again after 2 hrs to see 400+ comments..all positive!

    We are doing well and i love to see it. πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    1. Aswear, i woke up to over 400 comments on SP and was wondering what was hapenning

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  23. Married ones please your is needed. I get so angry when my husband touches my phone and goes through my messages and watsapp. i dont lock my phone cos i feeel there is nothing to hide but i feel he should accord me the same respect i accord him. i dont go through his phone so why is he being this irritating pls! he does it when i am sleeping, showering.. basically any out of sight time. he is obsessed with even the conversations i have with my mum and friends. im i overacting pls... i thrive on mutual respect

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    1. Does he lock his own phone? Of yes, start locking your phone too. If he does not lock his phone, start checking his messages too. If he talks, tell him he should also stop doing same to you

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    2. I am like you my phone is always open but i totally find it disrespectful and invading when someone goes through my messages and WhatsApp in the pretense that they are looking at my pictures. You need to talk to him about respect of your privacy and you. I would have screamed at him, it is more irritating to me too. Please you are not overreacting.

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    3. Get your phone passworded.

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    4. you need to sit your husband down and talk about this. I guess he has issue trusting you. have you guys ever had a conversation concerning trust or you once cheating on him? just asking, either way: talk to him and ask him to accord you the same respect you accord him regarding his phone.

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    5. you need to sit your husband down and talk about this. I guess he has issue trusting you. have you guys ever had a conversation concerning trust or you once cheating on him? just asking, either way: talk to him and ask him to accord you the same respect you accord him regarding his phone.

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    6. Let him know you are aware he snoops on your phone without your permission and if it must continue he must also allow you the same privilege towards his own phone.

      If he disagrees don’t quarrel or fight him, just simply set a code you alone know and start locking your phone

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    7. Yes you are over reacting, since you have nothing to hide like you said, why dont you let it slide. If there are convos btw you and your mum or friends you dont want him to see, you can delete them

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    8. Eeyah.. Just password your phone...

      Maybe he's feeling insecured..

      I love this your energy of not checking his phone..😍😍😍

      πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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    9. Don't password your phone "if" you have nothing to hide...
      TRY AND DISCUSS IT WITH HIM

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    10. Rainbow the man defender πŸ™Œ na wa!

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    11. thanks guys... just annoying sometimes. his phone is locked but i have his password. i dont bother going through it. he says my converaations with people are exciting than his. he does same with my instagram. great husband aside from that

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    12. I don't mind him checking my phone, got nothing to hid. But if it bothers you, sit him down and talk. Don't password your phone, its a wrong move. All the best.

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    13. Anon 16:06,do you believe his reason for checking? It might even be an harmless habit like he is truthfully just catching up on your convoys with people,since there is nothing to hide,let him....
      You have his password too so the trust is mutual!
      Talk to him about how you feel though or try to overlook and see if u will get used to it...
      Im just looking at how u want to say it irritates you and he wont term it as u are/want hiding something

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  24. My fellow teachers in the private sector. How we go take cope this time of pandemic? Nigeria is tiring. Someone mentioned online teaching..how na? Where the data? Where the parents wey dey even interested? The pandemic has taken over everyone's thinking RN. The govt no send some of us in this country sef. How i wan take feed myself o, house rent dey sef? I feel for us at this time.God pls answer our prayers and die this pandemic. Last months and May salary na voice mail. God PS end this.

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    1. My sister,it is well.sitting at home,and no income coming in.i feel your pain.

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    2. Try the online teaching sis,its working!
      Since you have watsapp, just make videos teaching a topic acting like your pupils are infront of you and put on your status, no matter how few,it will interest some people!

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  25. The sign meme is so true.

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  26. I've noticed that I do have migraine during ovulation or before period ever since i stopped breastfeeding...its so disturbing,cant even concentrate.

    can it be cured?.Doctor said it's normal..
    Don't even know what to do again.

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    1. My dear it's normal for some people,just try as much as possible to rest

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  27. Good day bvs. Please can someone explain what double drawn weave means. Before this wig seller cheats me. Thank you

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    1. Double drawn hair strands are of the same exact length and thickness meaning all the hair in a weft should be thick from the tip to the end.

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    2. They are full from the root down,they are also same length as well. It's the best human hair weaves without split or thin ends and also pricey and durable compared to single drawn.

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  28. Lovely ankara. Welcome ihn

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  29. Inverter Poster:
    What you quoted for is low for the electronics you wish to connect.
    Increase your voltage and go for Felicity Inverter.

    Please for your batteries, insist on Lithium Ion not Lead acid batteries to avoid damages and weak power.
    Else you will need extra superchargers which may lead to another damage to the battery.

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    1. xp, I saw your message on spontaneous post earlier.

      Thank you for the tip. I will try it. Thank you

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    2. Anony 15:01
      You're welcome.

      。。please before applying,use a dry cloth and dab off any wetness on your edges。。

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    3. Xp is right. Make sure you go for Lithium Ion batteries. Check for Wattbank U inverters.. They are located here in Nigeria. Can visit their website www.photizzo.com for more information.

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  30. Welcome IHN
    Virgin girl it is well with you

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  31. Hey lovelies!!

    Cyclone, I'm doing ok and staying safe too. Trust you are fine?

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  32. Good afternoon everyone.
    More sales to u all
    Lovely weather in pH City

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  33. My own ANGRY this afternoon is the ukwa I am cooking.

    How can I cook ukwa for 2hrs,done e no gree done,the pressure cooker ma don taya.

    I am turning to Mrs Indaboski to draw power and strength to melt this ukwa,so I poor it into a better pot and declare that:
    I am the Lioness hersef,the Mrs Indaboski Pahose, the Sepre, the Lamante.
    M sinye gi n'oku dika ukwa,i wee ju na iman ghe,ekponyem gi akanwu,i ghee by force.You must ghee.

    “I did not call anybody name,na power I draw”.Ehen!

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    1. Ukwa, one of the Nsukka dishes I hated the most.

      The only Ukwa I like is fried(abi na roasted) Ukwa. That type u eat with palm kernel or coconut.

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    2. Lol! Ukwa must ghee by fire by fire

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    3. πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚. Try hard. Na ukwa isii ike you buy.

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    4. 'pour it

      Hahaha,thanks guys,the ukwa don finally done.
      It's the dry one from Enugu,was wondering whether alum was involved.

      Eka...have you eaten our own version of ukwa called 'ukwa aho'?
      It comes in 3plates and a mug.
      Plate 1.Ukwa porridge―butter colored from a little red oil,plenty mangala and panla fishes,yellow ose nsukka and red pepper,salt and blanched bitter leaf pieces.
      2. Peppered sauce from a blend of red onions,2seeds of efuru,seasoning cube,salt,ground crayfish,red oil and diced fried beef.
      3.Diced,salted and fried sweet potatoes.
      4.Mmilu ukwa:the water you take out from the porridge before adding fishes and bitterleaf.

      Eka leave matter,chop this one and see,I wanted to impress with the special dish when the ukwa wanted to dull my shine but I won.hahaha

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    5. Lol... You are so funny.

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    6. Hahahaha Xp I hail thee, been in the east for over 2 years and have never tasted ukwa.

      The day I do, I definitely celebrate.

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  34. So on Monday, two of my kids' teachers sent me texts telling me that they are conducting home lesson for a token, as in they will come into my house to teach the kids. I quickly told them I am not interested.
    I felt like reporting to the school management but on a second thought I felt the school may even be aware. What do you think bvs? Should I report?

    I saw a parent yesterday and I asked if she got the text, she said yes , that the teacher is coming to take her child that afternoon. I told her it is too risky. She said God will protect them. I just let her be.
    How can you risk your health and that of innocent children like that in this pandemic? Both teachers concerned and the parents that agreed to that arrangement, who is even more careless.

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    1. Mrs gee dont report them, just talk to them about this Covid19 and the dangers in what tgey are doing.

      They are looking for feeding money.

      I really pity private school teachers. They are helpless except the ones in big schools that do online classes. Those ones will get like half their salaries.

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    2. Report them to government authorities. What rubbish?

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    3. Mrs Gee, you were not interested, face your front. Report them for what crime? Offering their services directly to earn a living. Please, stop dragging what is not your problem. They have a family.

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    4. IMHO I think you're overreacting. How are they expected to feed? Nigeria isnt like other countries where they are still paid while sat at home. As long as the teacher ensures he/ she does not mingle with others then why not. This period is very dicey so let's try not to apportion blame

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    5. Official Prestige, so it is better they put the children at risk? Selfishness.

      Mrs Gee, nothing do you.

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    6. No need to report. They are just finding a means to earn pay. We of them have not been paid salary before the lockdown. If you are not comfortable, just ignore.

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    7. SMH @Nigerians!
      Sentiments is killing y'all slowly and you still have not borrowed yourselves some brain. Do you all know that these teachers will conduct home lesson with more than one child? They are gon' move from home to home. Jeez!
      I can't believe some learned or semi-learned people with internet and android phones are typing this. Teachers should feed at the expense of community health is it? Y'all still think this virus is a joke, by the time a relative of yours dies from it, your eyes will clear. Continue.
      Mrs Gee keep safe-gaurding your kids. Kudos to you ma'am.


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    8. Very risky please,why not teach online?watsapp is CHEAP and its working well if they think on how to go about it....please dont report them,hunger is a bastard!

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  35. Good day lovely people of SDK...shout out to u ma'am Stella
    We shall overcome this pandemic

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  36. Ihn is here, good afternoon bvs. More buyers to the sellers

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  37. rubbish write up.
    why on Earth would u slap a man?
    we can do and undo but as long as u are a woman,u remain under us.

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  38. Virginity poster thank God u changed ur mind..reason y I love this blog..it's a life saver.if I can overcome hatred and rejections,I'm very sure that u too can overcome whatever situation u are in.stay strong God loves u.

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  39. IHN Welcome

    Sign out meme is bae 😎😎

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  40. Repprt them to the government authorities. What rubbish!

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  41. To the person looking for recommendation of good inverter. The batteries you buy is what really matters. I'll advise you go for tubular batteries. I used mopower inverter with the regular batteries and they died after about 18 months.

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  42. Stella pls post....dear BVs, pls who knows about canadian work permit visa?...is it worth trying?...will i get a good job?,...i'm planning to apply after the lockdown as a single female.....any advice for me?...i've never been out of the country

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  43. That sign out meme ☝️ is exactly what I have been doing since early this year and I gat no time to waste on irrelevant fight. Fighting for my dreams all the way.

    Hmmmmm, I went to my tailor yesterday to pick some pieces of material I gave her to make casual dresses for my toddler but she told me to come back later, with the reasons that they are packed somewhere not close. My people I was stirring at a face mask waiting to be ironed that look exactly like mine.

    Anyway, is Obvious I have a dividend to collect from that investment I left in her shop at the end of this covid 19
    pandemic unless....

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  44. hahaha@dividend to collect.

    Don't know what the rush and tension for face mask is for,the medical ones we bought are untouched,our kids learnt from online school,used some of their old ankle socks to make so many.Very lovely masks.

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  45. Where can I get cheap materials from like Ankara,shifon,plain material etc I'm learning sewing and I need them for practicals.Please help a sister

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    1. Your location?

      If you're in Lagos, check oshodi

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    2. What's your location? I have one customer that sells really nice chiffon fabrics here in Lafia.

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    3. I reside in Lagos,Ajah. Thank you olodo sapiosexual I have bought the materials.

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  46. Beautiful write up Da Epic Pen. Well said. Every gender has challenge.

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