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Tuesday, June 16, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

Na wah oh...............











STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
HUSBAND SNATCHER FRIEND


I am a big fan of this blog and I admire all you do Stella. God bless you!



Straight to my story... We are three girls, more like best friends and we work with a private organization.


 The three of us share our fears, goods news and many more.

 OK so there's this man that comes to the company (he was about 33years when we met him). He's rich and cute. He started coming close to two out of  the three girls and we became so close and took him like our big brother. Then one day, he opened up to us that he is interested in our third friend who doesn't really talk to him.


 He actually made a bet with us that we should give him one week and he's gonna sleep with our friend. We were shocked and we cautioned him. Note, this man is a married man and he's been married for close to six years when we met. 


Before we knew it, this man and our friend started talking, he started taking her out and all. I warned her to be careful, that he's married and has no good intention for her. My girl ignored probably cos the man is cute and rich. 

Two weeks later, this girl told me they are dating. In my mind, girl are you okay?? Next thing, she packed her things to the man's house, she only comes to pick few things from the house and go back to sleep in this man's house. Also note that the man stays in a different state but travels home at weekends to see his family. 


My friend started performing wife's duties for this man, sleeps with him, cooks for him and finally left the house we rented and packed all her things to the Man's apartment. 

My other friend told me plainly that she won't put mouth in the matter. One day, I called her at our work place and talked sense to her head. Questions like "do you wanna ruin someone else's home?", can u take what u are doing if u are in the woman's shoes etc. She said the man and the wife have issues already so it's not her fault. Long story short, I started withdrawing from her. Next thing I know, the man divorced the wife o. 


The girl is a white garment church member(cele precisely) and she does all these 'strange' things some cele do, all the celestial members on the blog should pardon me lol (but I guess the man was jazzed). 


My friend got pregnant for the man and when the baby was about six months old, they tied the knot legally. She started flaunting the man o and always gushing about him on all SM platforms. She left the place of work and we stopped communicating. After like a year, she chatted me up that I'm a bad friend and left her just cos of the small issue.

 I told her point blank that I can't pretend to be happy with what she did. We started communicating again, sent me her baby's pictures plus wedding pictures. Now the problem is our third friend has sternly warned me that she will stop being friends with me If I don't cut the girl off as she's a disgrace. 


I don't know what to do cos there's this family celebration coming up and I invited the husband snatcher friend. My other friend is saying she doesn't want to see the girl at my party, else she won't come. 

I am really confused o. Is it okay to cut her off cos of her past sins? I need suggestions please!





*Why did you even start mixing with her again?what intentions do you have?is it because she married a rich man or will you come and allege that she also ' jazzed' you...

You stopped talking t her cos she was dating a rich married man and now you are talking to her cos she married him?you are as bad as she if you judged her then but now friends again cos nothing has changed!

Respect to your third friend for standing her ground!

122 comments:

  1. This one is heavy. Why the sudden communication with her? The girl is wicked for doing such to another woman. Becareful with her.

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    1. Some girls are just devil himself. If it is jazz one day she will pay for it.

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    2. If I were in your shoes, I will cut off all ties with her. Having her as a friend is synonymous to been friends with a python. One day, it will curl round your neck as strangle you. Las Las, egungun be careful na Express you dey go

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    3. Sonia, lemme stay beside you abeg.

      Poster, you're not a good friend either, I put it to you that you're a two-timing friend. Jesus!! So this man had a bet with you girls over your third friend & all you did was ask her questions & let her be?? And then you come around to paint yourself good & claim she's doing cele jazz.? Excuse you?!
      What evidence do you have that she's into jazz? So when all these was going on, there was nothing you or your other friend could do to salvage the situation? You couldn't warn the man off or y'all stop being friends with him? You watched that man destroy the beautiful friendship you had with your gals..you are as guilty as your friend who made the man divorce his wife.

      You aren't as innocent as you're painting this narrative!

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    4. Poster, so a man actually placed a bet on your friend's head and you all were laughing about it. That means you don't sincerely have each others back.

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    5. The man got played because he thought he was going to just chop and clean mouth.
      His former wife dodged the bullet.
      If your reason for cutting her off then is still valid why do you still remain friends with her?
      Choose your battles wisely else,you become an accessory to the crime committed.

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    6. You can't play with sin and go scot-free.
      See where this man's foolish bet landed him.

      Men stop putting your marriage vows up to ridicule. God takes the marriage covenant seriously.

      Poster girlfriend, you have no fear of God.

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    7. I guess your friend doesn't know the guy very deep.

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    8. You are good friends like you described. Someone placed a bet on your friend and you didn't her tell point blank what the man said. You and your other friend are wicked.

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    9. Poster, you are a worse person than your friend. What is it about you girls that made a man confident enough to take a bet with you that he would sleep with your friend? You all are a team of vipers, sorry, so no advice here.

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    10. Anon 18:52 seconded. How can you guys claim to be friends with her? So if that man actually used and dumped her will you be writing this whole epistle? That man deserves what he got,in his next life he won’t try such and as for you two, you are bad friends!

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    11. Well i don't think the man was jazzed and am sorry to say whatever sin was carried out is on your head, yes you the poster. Apparently you guys had a crush on the man and since your friend didn't buy into the crush, you foolishly allowed a bet, you could have warned yor friend or better still, no bet should have been made now a home is broken from one stupid bet. Welldone

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  2. A friend to a husband snatcher is a husband snatcher.
    A friend to a jazz patrol lady is a jazz patrol lady.
    A friend to a concubine is a potential concubine.
    Tell me whom you go with and I will tell you what you are.
    🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️

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    1. The is stupid for playing game with his family. you are such a wicked friend.

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    2. Poster no comment. Stella comment says it allπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜‹

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    3. All of una na d same ship una dey, including d 3rd poisons snake. U sound jealous,
      You were happy to watch a married man mess ur friend up , by chopping and cleaning mouth but disappointed he wifed her? Nne u r also fucking that dude on d low. HYPOCRITE

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    4. God bless you image scaleπŸ™πŸΏ I wonder what she wrote this epistle for mtchewww.

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  3. Cut her off completely and move on with ur God damn life,u absolutely confused lass.Nawa o in Stella's tone

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    1. You dont need to be besties with her, stick to a "hello and hi" relationship.

      I am however happy that a man who decided to have a bet about sleeping with a lady got more than he bargained for.

      I only pity the wife who went through alot with him for 6years.

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  4. Poster please stand your ground. If you were against the relationship in the past, what changed now? I admire the other friend for putting her foot down. Afterall she was alsi friends with the said man and the friend. I pray God grants you wisdom to take the right step....at the end of the day i'm human

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  5. I cant really blame the poster because honestly, I don't see anything that my friend can do that will make me cut ties with her, except maybe she does things that deeply hurt me personally tho.


    Why's your other friend giving you an ultimatum? Is she your mother, father or God????


    Poster, if u like ur friend despite her flaws, no one has any right to tell u who to be friends with or not, no matter the reason.

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    1. @Eka, is this really you? Did you really type that up there. That's double standards. You don't like the fact that she broke s man's home by whatever means, hhhhmmm.

      What exactly will they be talking about? And why do they have to remain friends when they are not on the same page. There is God .

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    2. You see why I dey like you with 3D eyes? Adults have made their stupid decisions, what is with being hostile with them? That your second friend is not telling you what her problem is poster.

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    3. No matter the reason abi,okay oooh

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    4. Eka, you are right but again but what of the saying that says show me your friend and I will tell you who you are?

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    5. Too much wisdom eka joy, I just wonder what most people are on about. It's only she that will end the relationship if she wants to. But keeping a relationship with a husband snatcher doesnt automatically make you a husband snatcher please. You can be friends with both of them and still respect and treat them like your mind tells you to. I see no reason why your other friend should tell you to cut ties with the husband snatcher, she has done that herself and I think that's enough already. You are the only one who can decide to cut ties with her, the fact you reneged and went back to being friends with her doesnt make you a bad person, it only means you changed and didnt allow her mistakes destroy your relationship. I know what she did is a sacrilege, but follow your mind please.

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    6. Eka even the bible say don't be unequally yoked with an unbeliever..My people say good goat wey dey follow bad goat chop yam, the good one soon become that bad goat..What is wrong is wrong! Dont seat on the fence

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    7. Eka Joy
      If she can hurt another woman without battling an eyelid, you are not safe from her.
      Her selfish interest will always come first

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    8. You don't see anything that your friend will do. I hope this includes sleeping with your husband??

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    9. Anon, 00.15 it's like u failed English comprehension in primary school.

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    10. Eka Joy, the matter tire me o. Double standards, betrayer gbogbotigbo. I just tire. Leave your friend to be. If she no wan come party, make she stay. We seprate come settle. I have pointed her fault out. She knows it. Life goes on. Everyone love with the consequences of your actions. Eh made me judge and jury.

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  6. Poster why are you putting yourself in a quagmire? Na your 3rd friend come be better person..You know the lady may be into jazz and you are urging her on, yes you are urging her on because you are communicating with her and even invited her for your occasion..3rd friend please for your sanity dump this poster and face your life..She go soon use pigeon knack your head too..All the best..

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    1. How is the girl a snatcher? The only problem here is the man! He brought it on himself. Shey the girl wasn't even on talking terms with him? But no! E wan chop clean mouth,now bone don hook him throat. Good for him!

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    2. @Shantelle yes the man is involved quite alright!! Infact all 3 friends are all on the same whatsapp group..But the girl knew he was married now so why did she go that extra length to jazz the man.

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    3. Why do you feel the guy was jazzed? He was married and knowingly went after the girl, then divorced his wife. Ya'll are bad friends. 2 of you kept quiet to allow her enter pit, but alas the outcome shocked you guys. Ya'll need to go reevaluate yourselves and your priorities in life.

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  8. I will gladly accept a friend like the third girl because she's principled and disciplined than you....

    Tomorrow, you might feel what she did is alright and even be encouraged by her to do same...

    Look at the man, in a bid to play a fast , he got played leaving his family to suffer because if his inability to control himself...

    Let's stop encouraging rubbish and always stand on the truth....

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    1. They will never listen. They think they are having fun, but they don't know what these girls are up to... make them continue!

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    2. Why did the 3rd girl not end the friendship with the man as well. How come he was so bold in the first place. All 3 of them are the same.

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  9. A lot of the girls that will be bashing this girl should look inwards; are you dating a married man or broken some homes?
    It is so common with Nigerian girls these days and that is what that man was saying yesterday to the girls carrying placards.
    You can't come to equity with soiled hands. Another lady is in pains, a family is scattered, some babies are made fatherless, some inlaws have been robbed...but the typical
    Nigerian girl does not care. All she sees is the so called "way to make it".
    Please do not come and tell me it is "poverty". It is greed, it is avarice, it is a blatant effrontery to the only wise God who instituted marriage.

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    1. Are you dating a married man? Have you broken a home? Since you're also against what she did.

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  10. poster you need to stay away from the bad infleunce of a friend. By the way who jazzed who in this situation,cos the man said 'give me one week and i'll sleep with her' how did he do it. She on the other hand not only agreed to sleeping with him but kuku took over. I think they're birds of a feather

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  11. Na you sabi 😢😢

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  12. You won't be there if the man was broke, stop being an ass licker. I am not saying you shouldn't talk to her but that should be done with a long spoon. That friend of yours is a very terrible person, someone will also do same to her.

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  13. You make friends with her means you are OK with her lifestyle and what she stands for. I stand with your other friend. Have you put yourself in the other woman's shoes?

    She probably doesn't have any more friends and looking for one. If you don't like her lifestyle it what she had done why are you keeping her as a friend. That's double standard.

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    1. What's her business with the other woman?
      The man had a bet to sleep with the third girl and they didn't deem it fit to tell her? They're both horrible people abeg

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    2. Shooter very objective viewπŸ‘ŒπŸΏ

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  14. All of you are horrible friends
    I can imagine a married man coming to place a bet with me that he would sleep with my friend
    The effrontery!You people really let the girl down in the man's front sha.
    I hope you stopped talking to the man after that!
    The hunter has become the hunted
    He wanted to chop clean mouth but e hook am for throat.
    Ndi special package
    What exactly is friendship continuing for?
    If I were the third girl, I would keep farrrrr from both of you.
    Married men friend ko, elder brother ni!

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    1. God bless you RSQ. He wanted to chop her, she used special package on him & his family fell apart. Imagine the "give me one week". Tueh!!

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    2. Thank you RSQ and Odun Odunayo. You both really hit it! Poster both you and the third girl and the so called married bingo are terrible...so the two of you back stabbers accepted the married bingo's deal to sleep with your friend in a week without even a second thought...hmmm...the effrontery! And now you back stabbers are playing what exactly? Holier than thou?? Oh pls....you all are as guilty. Nonsense and ingredient! Kmt!!

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  15. Or do you intend to snatch the "rich and cute" guy from your friend as she did to his ex wife?

    I'm only asking for a friend oπŸ‘€

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  16. The movie has just started.
    It is a tragedy. It is not snatching that is
    the issue, it is the consequences of charade they
    call marriage.
    Wait for your friend outside the friend zone as she
    will reap bountiful tears. 🐀πŸ₯πŸ₯πŸ₯πŸ₯🐀🐀

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  17. Hmmmmm, na wa o.

    I hope she will continue holding the man with jazz because anytime she stops, his eyes will clear and he will throw her out.

    Poster, why do you still want to be friends with her?

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    1. Abegi. Nothing like jazz..the man was probably pressured to marry his first wife but this new girl na him real spec..it is not a pretty truth but it is true
      Sometimes these men use all these jazz talk to excuse their philandering ways when they have had their way with the side chic and wanna come back to wifey with their tail between their legs and wanna be absolved of all responsibility and blame and want the blame to put on the "evil" side chic bbecause experiment no work out . From my own experience as a single lady,some married men are just randy and looking for a way to escape from responsibility of being a married responsible man with kids. The men are 100% to blame so let us not deny them of that blame. God knows I don'don't use jazjazz. I just simply deny their request and move on. Sometimes the side chics know how to play their game right and end up chasing wifey out because they know how to push the man's buttons and study him well to know what he likes. Some do it without opening legs. True femininity is a lost art in naija that is why we need to teach young girls that as we prepare them for marriage. Feminine wiles can go a long way in preserving a marriage n prevent a woman from entering marriage with a man that just sees her as a level up button to be used and dumped when true spec arrives in a guy's life

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    2. 19:54 God bless you.As a single woman ,i have met do many randy men that will say all sorts about their wives to have a fling.things like i am divorced with fake court papers oo(girls it is piblic record o so cross check at court registry oo),i am a widower,make their wives look like demoms etc all for a fling then later blame it on jazz.most of thier wives know their husbands weakness but will form ignorant.if you no waka waka and you respecr yourself and marriage,how juju wan catch you

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  18. This one hot small.

    Wisdom fix it!!!

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  20. This lady is only angry that the "married rich man" who she was eyeing when coming close to
    her ended up with her friend that was indifferent.
    You are the real snatcher here cos you would have done worse than your friend.
    😏😏😏😏😏😏

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  21. The man got what he deserved. Madam poster face front and mind your goddamn business

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  22. Hmmm. The part where the poster said the guy told she and her friend that he was going to sleep with their friend was when I deduced the kind of people they all are.
    For the Chronicle, I don't have advise.

    #AUGUST

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    1. Terrible set of friends. I'm sure if the man had used and dumped their friend they would still be friends today. I thank God the hunter became the hunted. Biko make she enjoy her marriage because I don't see anywhere were God said polygamy was a sin as far as she has been married she is good to go.

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  23. I don't think there's anything bad in still being friends with her and I don't see why the third friend should dictate who your friends should be. If she doesn't come for the occasion because of that, then let her be.

    The both of them are your friends, cut the girl off because you want to and not because someone asked you, iburo umuazi mu.

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  24. You see life..so MR rich man wanted to go and have one night sex and ended up being jazzed.please,just be cordial with both friends.there is no need cutting her off

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  25. She didnt finished the story.....the part of her jazz friend giving her some goodies to keep the new friendship alife ......if i were your other friend and i see the jazz one in the party, sister u are off radal of friendship....i hate nonsense and condiments

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  26. The third girl is principled. Personally, I can never stand by a friend who breaks another woman's home. It speaks to me the kind of person they truly are.

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  27. Useless men everywhere!!may all the curses of adultery never depart from them!! In a bid to use and dump, he got playedπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚, the wife should move on, he doesn't deserve her, by the time he comes to his senses, he would have been 65years!white garment church? I trust una! No dulling...

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    1. Madam or mr anonymous pls don't generalise.The poster only speculated that she used jazz because most celestians are labeled as "jazz people". Pls note the word "most".

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  28. Men be very careful!!! Look at a girl he planned on using and discarding within a week, has ended his marriage and even "husbanded" him!...

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    1. Lol! As in ehn! When people think they are smart. The man is a big fool. Imagine at that age looking for a girl to use and dump. This bone has hooked his throat!
      I only feel for the wife who got married to him.
      Both snatcher and snatcher deserve each other

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    2. If they like they should continue..Their cup of garri..Both the man and girl brought it upon themselves..

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  29. Poster, Did you say past sin? What is your definition of past sin? Her sin is even worse now because she graduated from dating the man to living in an adulterous marriage. If the guy were poor would you be so keen about carrying on your friendship with her? Or are you secretly hoping she would introduce you to jazzing rich young married men? If not than what exactly is your motive of wanting friendship with her?
    Your friends are to be commended for not wanting to have anything to do with such a person.

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  30. You had better just cut off from that husband snatcher oh..

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  31. First of all,i'm a celestian and we don't do jazz( I don't know about other celestians tho). What makes makes me think you aren't any better than your friend. Nobody should come for me,i only stated my opinion pls feel free to state yours.

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    1. Anon 15:51 ALL celestial churches use demonic powers and practice witchcraft.

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    2. Why do you people use pigeons in the church. I also had someone from your church who after touching my hand in a bid to check my watch.I never stopped
      thinking about him. To the extent of begging for his attention(I normally don't give a damn ),rejecting and comparing suitors to him.I was constantly dreaming about him. I prayed and fasted .The butterflies in my stomach stopped. This post opened my eyes to the obvious.

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    3. Anony 17:19 how do you know celestians use pigeons if you haven't been there yourself looking for what is not lost? Abeg shift na your type Dem dey knack pigeon for head,claiming self righteous ...nonsense and ingredient

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  32. My dear, no right thinking well brought up girl dates a married man!if you want to continue being her friend, goodluck, like they say, show me your friend, i,ll tell you who you are! So much evil in the society!! Guess the hunter became the hunted, it's before, you, d say you, ll sleep with a girl and run away!lol, ladies are dealing with them now! My neighbour and the wife have been battling with infertility from the s.t.d the husband brought home! A once peaceful home!a wicked world we live in.

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  33. How do you ladies do it,keeping nuisance in the name of friendship,I can't even be close to a practicing celebrate for the love of God talk more of her treacherous act,show me your friend and I will tell you who you are,birds of same feather,continue,you will soon start following her path thinking it's normal

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  34. While I am against the fact that she took someone’s husband, there is no established evidence that she jazzed the married man who was busy cheating on the wife.
    In the issue of friendship, poster what you wrote up there didn’t suggest that she is still your best or close friend. There is absolutely nothing wrong if you decide to invite her to a one-time ceremony..
    Finally cutting people off is rather done with shrewdness.
    Those couples have made their life choices and they alone will answer for it . That doesn’t call for unnecessary enmity, rather a friendship from a distance. I will advise you go talk in person to your second friend and let her see reasons why cutting that girl off shouldn’t be so abrupt but in a more discretional manner..
    Try and live life with sense, free of unnecessary enemies!

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  35. Let your moral compass be your guide....
    Can’t you just keep being friends with her from afar? You mustn’t be involved in her life anymore if deep down you know you aren’t in support of what she did.
    Yes she messaged you first, but that may be her way of stunting on you cause you were the particular one who actually confronted her On the relationship with the man. Her friendship isn’t pure either.....So what exactly are you gaining from it?

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  36. The first thing that came to my mind was: the Hunter has become the hunted.

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  37. Please aunty poster, we celestial church faithfuls do not do jazz, point of correction.

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  38. Poster and her third friend are wicked. You made a bet on your friend. Poster you are wicked. The poster and the third friend and the man started this tirade. What would you have achieved if he slept with your friend.? How can you set her up? And still call her your friend? Now she's a husband snatcher and does jazz Abi Cele stuff. You have being friends for years, have you seen her do Cele stuff? Poster is wicked.

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  39. Things are happening. Since the married man doesn't respect his wife and their vows, he was thinking of sleeping with a single girl within one week. That man is a fool. Some girls are terrible, they will only break your home, milk you dry and still will not be with in poorer and in bad health. By the time his eyes will be opened he's already an old man full of regrets. Young married men should be careful of these girls you think they are cheap

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  40. Poster,so BC os she,attempts Celestial Church now means,she jazzed him? You people labelling white garment church with negativity should fear God first of all.

    Now if the guy had come for you ,would you be saying a these now?


    He saw you but went for your friend ,now you are here saying somebody is telling you to cut ties with her as perfect say she be your mom or breadwinner?

    Look if you want to be her friend be here friend if you don't want to be stay in hour lane pls.You don't red a time to tell you would to choose as your friend.

    If any of my friends or even me choose to marry a married man and finds happiness there,I will support and so be it.

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  41. I can't even remain friends with a lady who deliberately involves herself with a man who has a girlfriend or fiance, not to talk of a friend who succeeds in destroying a marriage.

    BTW, your other friend has no right to tell you who to be friends with. It should be your decision. Also, I advise you stay away from your married friend. She's not a good friend to keep.

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  42. Honestly, I think if you are principled and against what your friend did to another, you should stand your ground and keep off such a friend. Yes, I support your third friend. You said no initially, what changed?

    I can't be a friend to someone that brought pain into another woman's home.

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  43. I am not an advocate of extra marital affairs, the stories never ends well. That man got what he wants, he's a greedy man. It is even good the last used jazz on him and he left his wife. Let other men who visits this blog learn from this, those free pussies they are offering while you are married is for a prize. Onyinye ekwensu is always bitter at last

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  44. Go and read Psalm 1 if you are a christian...pls avoid such a friend, your other friend is right.

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  45. Madam poster, your friend is living her life. I don't see any reason you should cut ties with her. She has been your friend before she got married and she didn't jazz you. Is it now she will jazz you. You just need to set boundaries. There is nothing wrong inviting her to a social gathering. But just limit your friendship with her knowing her capability after all, it was the man that first went after her. Your other friend should not put you on ransom after all all of you were rolling together

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  46. She's a bad friend married to a bad husband, so.... Cut her off.
    Your other friend is right for standing her ground.

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  47. Poster I like whatever your friend used on the man after all she was on her own and the man came to seek for her attention. A good girl that was not even talking with him. Please girls should get more of that jazz and be using it on randy men, no more mercy

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    1. Jazz my foot. No jazz jere. The man don see escape route and he took the opportunity to japa. Younger model..that is why women need to stop building these men up and doing struggle love

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  48. You all took a married man as your big brother? I was wondering if the situation was different and you all knew the wife well enough if you would have readily taken her as your big sister. I am still gobsmacked at the effrontery of a supposed big brother telling his baby sisters of his intended evil intentions towards carrying out a deplorable act on one of his sisters. So much for the brotherly-sisterly relationship. I wondered if his wife knew at the time, he had extra sisters on the side, from a different mother though. What sort of discussion could have led a brother to discuss his immoral and dirty intentions towards his sister to another sister? You all must have been really really realllly close.πŸ™„ Or you guys were just fooling yourselves with the brother sisters' tag. Oh! Sorry, he is rich and cute? I see that was probably the criteria that made it easier in accepting this fake brother and hiding under the illusion of family even when you weren't related by blood. It's obvious the reason you are relaxed about getting acquainted with the lady once again after ignoring her like forever, is because she succeeded in being wifed up by the treacherous man right? You are whimsical, the type my friend would call "anywhere belle face". If the tide were turned and that man succeeded in his plot you would never have given her a second look. Your friendship with her at this point is questionable. I personally would never be friends with someone like you or her. You don't have to wait till someone hurt you before you see them for who they really are. I don't make friends with people based on how they treat me but on how they are as a whole. I personally would never overlook such behaviour in a friend. I don't have to wait before you hurt me to know, if you are bad then you are bad. You know she hurt someone but hey! It doesn't matter as long as it wasn't you, right? If you don't avoid her as you claim you would lose your friendship with your other friend, right? I don't think you are in a dilemma like you are portraying. you are smart and you know what you want. Kindly please yourself.

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  49. You are good friends like you described. Someone placed a bet on your friend and you didn't tell her point blank what the man said. You and your other friend are wicked.

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  50. Dear poster we don't do juju in celestial church but if you mess up with us, we'll settle your case at Mercy Land

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    1. Proudly Celestian16 June 2020 at 19:52

      Gbam!!! One bottle of Coke for you

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  51. The man had a choice. He chose to leave his wife and marry your friend. Perhaps they really were having issues, perhaps he fell in love. Who knows, but a true friend sticks with her friend no matter what and will be there when things go upside down. You told her off and did everything a good friend should. She hasn't done anything bad to you has she? I dont see why you want to cut her off.

    Pumpkin

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    1. Thank you. Abegi. Nothing like jazz..the man was probably pressured to marry his first wife but this new girl na him real spec..it is not a pretty truth but it is true
      Sometimes these men use all these jazz talk to excuse their philandering ways when they have had their way with the side chic and wanna come back to wifey with their tail between their legs and wanna be absolved of all responsibility and blame and want the blame to put on the "evil" side chic bbecause experiment no work out . From my own experience as a single lady,some married men are just randy and looking for a way to escape from responsibility of being a married responsible man with kids. The men are 100% to blame so let us not deny them of that blame. God knows I don't use jazz. I just simply deny their request and move on. Sometimes the side chics know how to play their game right and end up chasing wifey out because they know how to push the man's buttons and study him well to know what he likes. Some do it without opening legs. True femininity is a lost art in naija that is why we need to teach young girls that as we prepare them for marriage. Feminine wiles can go a long way in preserving a marriage n prevent a woman from entering marriage with a man that just sees her as a level up button to be used and dumped when true spec arrives in a guy's life..but no they want to chase men, toast men and spend their lives building with and building up undeserving men that don't see them as dream girl or the prize
      .Then wonder why another woman snatched the man so easily. The problem is the man not you or the side chic. Only blame that should go to wife is picking such a douche for a husband and not weeding him out in dating stage

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    2. I don't understand this idea of a good friend supports her friend regardless of whatever, It is totally wrong.

      So the only time I should have issues with my friend is when she hurts me directly? As long as the issue doesn't affect me directly, I should support her??

      Example is if I have a married friend sleeping around. I should support her all the way abi? My friend wants me to lie on oath, I should also support her??

      Hell No, I disagree with this thought process. Good friends should tell each other the undiluted truth and know when to end a friendship If they are both on different wave length.

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  52. This kind of stories always end in premium tears, Man wey go eventually leave you sef go marry another babe when he don tire.

    Truth is you are an evil friend, same goes for the said new wife Evil set of people ohh because he is rich he became your big brother overnight to the extent that he made his evil plans known to yall an evil plan that was targeted at one of your supposed sisters. Bruh

    Never ever take a Nigerian woman who was born and brought up in Nigeria serious like never ever. Poverty has clouded their morals to the extent that only Money can buy their love.

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  53. You're an adult, you know what's best for you.

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  54. What if na the man jazz the babe sef, a girl that doesn't even talk to you at all, then you made a bet with her friends that will sleep with her. From sleeping with her gbam to marriage. No be jazz

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  55. The man got what he deserve jor. He wanted to use and dump her but instead destroyed his first marriage and married her🀣🀣... Nice game girlπŸ‘. They think its everyone they can use and dump, stupid fellows. Sorry first wife you married the wrong man, God will definitely send a man that will worship you. Bin friends with her is your business, dats all i have to say. Go girlπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘tie him harder.

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  56. Cut all ties from that your friend, it is for your own good. If she cannot spear an innocent woman and her marriage do you think that you would be spared. A word is enough for the wise...

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  57. The man wanted to chop and clean mouth, now he's hooked. Serves him right if the previous wife moved on to someone better.

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  58. Wow, how you could claim self righteousness in all of this beats me. I don't know the type of friendship y'all are doing these days, but nobody is betting on my friend in front of me. Especially a friend i live in the same house with. Do you know how treacherous that is? That means you can sell her and collect change.
    This is the reason why we should not trust friends. You couldn't stop this BS sternly, the moment it was mentioned. You and the other lady kikied about it, what if this man went ahead to hurt your friend.
    The movie 'a fall from grace' comes to mind, we never know whom we call our friends.
    Ladies, be careful of friends. When they come telling you about gossip, ask them their response since they stood and watched people talk shit about you.
    Poster you are a bad friend. I think you should start by telling that lady how you sat back and took a bet on her head with a married man. Start from there.

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