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Thursday, June 18, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MARRIED TO A USELESS IRRESPONSIBLE MAN


Dear Stella and bvs, I've been reading the trending divorce stories and decided to share my own..


I met this guy December 2014 he was about 35 and I was 20s, and by Feb 14 2015, he proposed to me and told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, to say I was shocked was an understatement, but I decided to give him a trial as he was really cool(they all are)


Fast forward to early 2016, we did our introduction, and preparations was in top gear for our marriage plans, that was when I got to know that he didn't have any savings in his account despite the fact that he earns a good salary, but when we met he told me he has over a million naira, that he's ready for marriage.


I was really shocked as to what he used his savings for, he lied that he used it in paying his siblings school fees, which I later found out to be lies... I should have broken up with him there but I continued the relationship..


Let me also state that at this point we were already living together,(I got the house and we joined money to pay) I later got to find out from his cousin that he wasn't a graduate that he claimed to be, (he's using a fake certificate to work).. I cried and cried but I couldn't walk away as I was already pregnant, so marriage plans was put on hold, till after I deliver. I later lost the pregnancy...


This guy was a smooth talker, I caught him so many times chatting with my friends on social media, he adds my female Facebook friends up to toast them, he even goes as far as stealing their numbers from my phone to chat with them, he's always in communication with his ex gfs, and he discusses me with them, he never posted our wedding pictures, he tells the babes he's not yet married but has a child..


There were a 1001 red flags I saw, I wanted to move out several times but people kept telling me that the angel I know is better... We had a fight sometimes in 2017 because I refused him s#x, he threw me out of his house around 2a.m, and I was pregnant the 2nd time.. I had to sleep in the neighbors house till the next day, I came and packed my stuffs to a friend's place...


He called everyone to plead on his behalf, that he was going to do me right by going to pay my dowry.. My parents cried and begged me to come home that i won't be the first person to get pregnant out of wedlock that I shouldn't go back to him, but I guess they say love is blind... I went back, but I lost the pregnancy.


There's no kind of names he hasn't called me, from witch to ashawo, he even called me barren that I used several abortion to destroy my womb.. He refused me doing anything, if he finds out that I have little money in my account, he'll make sure he collect everything before he rest..


Any little issue we have, he'll call up my family and anyone that knows me to say all manner of terrible things to them about me, at a point my dad started believing him, but my mom will tell him that I carried this girl for 9 months and I don't know her with such character.


My people refused giving him the list for traditional marriage because they didn't want me to marry him, that the marriage won't last, but I refused to listen as a girl in love, when they saw that I was hell bent on marrying this guy, they gave him date for early 2018 for tm..


Some week after the traditional marriage we left the east back to our base, I didn't even know that I was already pregnant, in the vehicle I was spitting and throwing up anything I eat, it was the guy beside me that was helping me, what my horseband will tell me is that I should stop disgracing him, that I am not the first person to be pregnant.. I died that day, and was filled with so much regret and the hatred for him resurfaced..


We got back to base and he got transferred to another state to work, that was where the marriage began to crumble because he practically abandoned me and due to my high risk pregnancy, I had to move in with my parents. He only came to visit once through out didn't even stay up to 4hr, I cried and cried but my mom told me to be strong for my baby and think less due to my HBP.


Fast forward to when my pregnancy was breached and I was to be operated on, he came but instead of staying back to find out what's going on, he was in a drinking joint with his friends drinking and smoking it took a call from the Dr to come and sign form before he came as my elder brother was already on his way, As God will have it, he brought shame to my enemies and I delivered my baby prematurely, every other women in the ward their hubby was around to support their wife's, but my own was in a beer palor declaring drinks for people.. 



After she got her baby weight back we where discharged, after 3 months I dusted my cert to go look for a job, because during my pregnancy anytime we had little issue he always shut me out and I end up borrowing money to buy drugs or go for antenatal clinics, so I told myself I couldn't live like that..


He refused me getting a job and it caused a big issue, but we settled it and he promised when baby gets to 1yr, he'll open a shop for me to sell baby things that he doesn't want his wife working for anyone..
Meanwhile he tells his own people that I've refused to do anything to support him, that I am lazy and every burden is on him..


After I gave birth, for a whole year, he only came 3times, We had a big fight last year that made me makeup my mind that this marriage filled with lies, cheating, etc was dead on arrival, he came around for holiday and was spending money on his friends dashing people here and there, but he refused to buy anything for us at home, his mom even called from the village crying of hunger..



So that night I was trying to talk to him about how he neglected his parents in the village and doing 'oyeoma cy' in the city, he flared up and was shouting that I shouldn't tell him how to spend his money, he packed his clothes into his car and zoomed off.. 


That was the last I heard from he, I sent text called he never responded so I ignored him thinking when he calms down he will come back, but he went cold on us even refused to attend his own baby's 1year birthday..


I went through his phone one night, I discovered he chats and calls his ex that refused to marry him before because he didn't have money, all the romantic text I usually send to him, he edits it and send to his babes, but tells me he's too busy to reply.. He once told me that he married me out of pity..


This guy has pushed me into depression and he keeps using my situation to make mockery of me, I've been scared of people making mockery of my failed marriage, but lately I've been thinking about what to do to him to make him feel pain, I think it's high time I take the bold step by WALKING AWAY before I kill person pikin and go to prison for nothing..


Please ladies learn from my mistakes, I married a very useless irresponsible man and always learn to listen to your parents when they vehemently kick against your suitor.




*The Marriage was Dead on arrival....

61 comments:

  1. This was posted last week naaa.

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    1. This is a repeat Chronicle oh Stellz

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    2. I think I have read this Chronicle recently.

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    3. SDK we have seen this before

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    4. We have dealt with this madam, she should check previous Chronicle...... NEXT!!!!!!

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    5. I’m not this foolish so don’t count me among the single ladies that should learn from your chronicle. Like stella said, it was dead on arrival✌🏾

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  2. We read this same chronicle a few days ago

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    1. I stopped just @ the beginning,the story is still fresh in my memory

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  3. This story has been posted before abi na my eyes?

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    1. I even thought I was READing old post.

      #Covenant

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  4. Stella you have posted this before earlier this week..

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  5. Please go back to your parents. Dont allow orgasm and big dick confuse you anymore.

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  6. Stella, you posted this before.

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    1. Stella this was posted some days ago
      Please post today's chronicle

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  7. You have sent this chronicle before

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  8. “You think it’s high time?”, you are not ready from this narration. You haven’t even made up your mind despite all what you’ve gone through. Certain you’d stay back if he comes back and shows even a pinch of remorse but do you know what? You are stronger than you think. A broken marriage is not the end of the world.

    People will always have something to say even to those in seemingly good marriages. If you keep getting worked up about it, you only will continue to suffer. Walk away today, it would be hard because of how you’ve programmed yourself to think you “need” a man to be fulfilled but you’d be better for it. He didn’t tell no lies when he said he “married you out of pity” so you better believe it and move on.

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    1. Yay! Doppelgänger is back...... I've always been looking forward to your comments.

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    2. Some ladies will never learn sha

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  9. We just treated this chronicle recently na

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  10. If I were you ill buy special package to tie him up and deal with him.

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  11. Il like this chronicle has been posted before and the poster written to to thank her advicers.
    My yard people na tried abi na only me Waka come?

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    1. ***Is like**
      ""*Na true**

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    2. And insulted those that didn't support her.

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  12. We have read this before

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  13. This chronic was posted on Monday...

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  14. we have treated this before na

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  15. Stella u made a mistake by posting it again, it's been treated before

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  16. That listen to your parents part is the KOKO. trust me.

    Don't be in haste and don't insist on marrying the person no matter what?
    Remember, you are the only one blind in love. Others around you are seeing clearly and can judge rightly

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  17. When he has money she wants him to wife her, he is
    Darling
    Sweetie
    honey
    ATMie
    But when money finishes or develops wings and vanishes
    He is
    Useless
    Irresponsible
    Abusive
    Ehm
    Narcissistic
    Balistic
    BEAST-istic
    Dude
    Who is deceiving who?
    🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️

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    1. You surely didn't disappoint

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    2. Bitterleaf Anon! Na who do you this kind thing? Chai! Your negativity is raised to power infinity. Is there even the word 'compassion' in your heart? Always quick to see what is wrong even when that is not the case. Biko learn to accentuate the positive. May God forgive us all.

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    3. Anon 25.26, why do you worship money this fiercely?...

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  18. Dear poster, don't go anywhere inugo?? Stay with him jor! You are a girl in love naw, why do you want to give up suddenly?? Of course he married you out of pity!! How the hell did you allow a marriage to hold even after God exposed him to you?? You where a girl in love, what exactly were you loving about such a human bikonu?? This chronicle is about the most annoying I have read, tufiakwa!! Even if you where 50 when you met him, why take all that rubbish from someone?? Even your parents warned you to leave him but you stayed and lied that you loved him. What the hell was lovable about the character you described here?? This goes to show that some females are usually the architect of their problems, God forbid abomination abeg. You do whatever you want, I detest characters like yours🤮🤮🤮🤦‍♀️.

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    1. Chisom, it's like the chronicle annoyed you as much as it annoyed me! I was so irritated that I couldn't type more than 2 lines which even Stella refused to post.
      Like the poster should have just come to life as a tuber of yam, to be eaten and passed out as stool. Or as a sachet of detergent, to be used in washing boxers/briefs😡😡😠😠😠...

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    2. My sister, will you eat her type of yam?? She'd definitely want to purge you to death, I won't buy her if she was a yam! Detergent?? Sis your whole hands will peel off and it might also spoil your washing machine so think of another thing. I wonder what her younger sister (s) will be learning from her, God forbid abeg🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

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    3. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Chisom, please not tonight!!
      I'm having "headache in my stomach" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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  19. Stella please when you post a repeat chronicle. Put repeat in the title so we don't waste eye sight

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  20. I think this is a repeated chronicle!
    Poster, go back to your parents

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    1. Ms A, you want her to go back to her parents so she'll have peace of mind?? That's a wicked advice for someone who clearly forbids peace...

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  21. Hmmm

    You met December 2014 and he proposed February 2015.

    I personally learnt a lot from this chronicle.Poster thanks for sharing.Though it's a repeated post,but it feels like I've not read it before,probably because there are so many moral behind the chronicle

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  22. You have posted this sometime last week

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  23. Cheflyndanaija18 June 2020 at 16:48

    Am very certain I have read this post here.

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  24. one thing about all this chronicles is that it alwys one sided..u nevr hear from the other person ..everyone keep playing victims... now the guy man is useless.... o ma se ooo

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  25. in marriage there is noting like i want to give him a trial... make up your mind b4 marriage ...for better for worst ...
    but seems u went for the money

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  26. The mistake has been done but the future can be bright.
    Walk away and please before listening to anyone that asks you to go back, look at your child and ask yourself if she deserves better.

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  27. I feel so guilty cos I did not even go through half of this and I packed my bags, kikikikikikiki

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  28. Thank God it's a repeat Chronicle even though I didn't get to read it the first time it was posted so I don't have to waste my time on such foolishness. Whoever this poster is, no advice can help you until you develop self-love coz from what I read up there, you really really HATE yourself.

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  29. I read this chronicle last week.

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