STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TOHTOH WITH GENITAL WARTS
Please Stella I beg you post for me ,this is life and death . I really need advice before I make a mistake Please no one should insult me , I'm already down .
Please Stella I beg you post for me ,this is life and death . I really need advice before I make a mistake Please no one should insult me , I'm already down .
I have known this guy for 1 year but we started dating beginning of this month after we had unplanned s#x but with condom...
The second time we had s#x without condom , it was a mistake and the next day I went for test ,I did 3 different tests and all came back negative so I thought all was fine and we started unprotected s#x .
I have treated genital warts last year ,no visible warts again , until I had small itch in my anal region ,I decided to check and I noticed few bumps ,I think it's back . Have I infected this guy 😭😭?
Should I tell him I had STD before and I may have infected him ?
I'm confused because the test I did, nothing was found . This guy is too neat and I think I should just kill myself than tell him I even bought sniper but I dont know if its worth it..
*Please if you are not sure you are OK,do not ever have unprotected s#x again...Was that not the same way you got infected?So you did not learn your lesson?If you have infected him and he has another lover,he would have infected her as well..
You want to kill yourself?you dey crase!!!
The worst that can happen is that relationship will break but you need to tell him so that he can get tested....You Dont want anyone to cuss you out because you are fragile already?Well wont curse you out but i will advice you to rest your tohtoh and go for thorough check up...REST THE TOHTOH!!! ...mscheeeew!!!
Stella said it all. You want to die on top prick matter,you no get anything important again for life than that
ReplyDeleteBut a lot of you here are dying "on top of prick matter"
DeleteLmaoooooo Stella 😂😂😂 wen we talk dey will abuse us and call us assistant Jesus. It’s for ur own good o close ya legs Nd if u know u want to do by all means use protection biko! However there r stds no condom in this life can save u from ! To d poster God epp u o
DeleteYou don't need sniper, not when you are already committing suicide by unprotected sex. You have HPV, which is incurable. Shouldn't that make you want to protect yourself at all costs knowing how at risk you are? I'll tell it to you straight (which you probably won't like because you'd prefer a cocktail...of STDs, I mean), you are a danger to yourself and to whomever you have chosen to dash your HPV to while collecting some of whatever they carry too.You deserve all the curses from the comment section today.
DeleteBetter put your selfishness on the back burner right now and tell him so he can run tests as early as possible.
@ UNUSUAL AMY Don't mind them! YThey are plenty on this blog and know themselves and know that can't even render assistance to their colleague.
DeleteYou will fornicte then When the condom now burst or the contraceptive did not work they will now get pregnant and suffocate. They will now ask how to not tell their future husband their past and how to keep a secret because it was in their past. Chanting past is past everyone has a past like they are in everyone's life. This is how the so called past starts. Young woman close your leg.
People will tell you they are fornicating but will never tell you the pain it puts them through. It's never worth it.
Better to be called sanctimonious than a fornicator without rest of mind.
Why are you always ready to blame yourself, what if he was the one that infected you, if truly you treated the warts very well and it is over a year and you didn't have warts but then the warts showed up after you had sex with him. It is of two ways it is either you didn't get a good treated or he infected you. And Sucide for what? Are u normal at all?
DeleteI dont know why some women are still engaging in premarital sex when they are at the receiving end of it all. Let's leave the spiritual aspect aside for once because I feel a lot would talk about it.
DeleteAll the post-effect of fornication you go through afterwards for that 5 minutes pleasure, if the men you sin with you go through half of it do you think they would bother themselves with fornication? Yes That's Me for you. Selfish and intentional. I am sorry but we are wired differently.
You got infected through this means and you still continue in your ways. You are a woman and I feel sorry for you in this society of ours where the man would be advised to go out and try another woman out there if his wife isn't concieving. Have you ever gotten worried about the effect of that on fertility?
You swallow pills which have it's effect, get scared of unwanted pregnancy till you sight your womanly monthly red visitor and that is when you are at peace just for a little while till the next month comes and you have heart palpitations again and it's an unending circle. If the pills fail, you get pregnant, which can disrupt many things in your life if it happens outside of wedlock (you get called a baby mama) and most men prey on single mothers a lot which is another issue on it's own. If you are in school you miss out on a few years while the guy continues to go on with his life with another lady like nothing happened While you are left to carry the weight. If you decide to get rid of it God help you with the guilt afterwards or the fear of complications to your womns arising from the doctor who fixed you.
I am sorry ladies but sometimes I feel most of you don't love yourself enough. Take this advice from me. Close your legs it will save you from a lot of pain. You bear the repercussion of fornication the most and alone and I make sure I let the women around me know too.
Go to the clinic. Treat yourself. Rededicate your life to Christ and stop fornication. May God help you. 🙏
Gates.
Okay stella I agree with you, she should rest the Tohtoh
DeleteWanted to write*that is men for you*
Deletesorry for the typo up there and any other typo you might see.
Gates.
*your wombs* sorry.
DeletePoster, rest your vagina walls. However you Do not have to tell him anything he should figure out then learn his lesson and Insist on using condom next time with you or anyone else
DeleteEveryone else you can still get genital warts if you use condoms. As condoms do not cover the entire genital area. To reduce your chances of getting warts it’s advisable to have the HPV vaccine together with using protection
Back home in nigeria I always use protection ,with the girls I dated, guess what I got to the us and I have a short affair with a Nigeria girl so fine fresh babe just one fuck gbam she infected me with STD,you know the way it is in the us without prescription you can never get antibiotics, finally I got amplicus from a Nigeria for $20 for one pack.i fear fine girls ,all this yellow pawpaw girls.
DeleteJoy and happiness is all i see around ever since i came in contact with this great man. i complained bitterly to him about me having herpes only for him to tell me it’s a minor stuff. He told me he has cured thousands of people but i did not believe until he sent me the herbal medicine and i took it as instructed by this great man, only to go to the hospital after two weeks for another test and i was confirmed negative. For the first time in four years i was getting that result. i want to use this medium to thank this great man. His name is Dr aziegbe, i came in contact with his email through a friend in UK and ever since then my live has been full with laughter and great peace of mind. i urge you all with herpes or HSV to contact him if you willing to give him a chance. you can contact him through this email DRAZIEGBE1SPELLHOME@GMAIL.COM or you can also WhatsApp him +2349035465208
DeleteHe also cured my friend with HIV and ever since then i strongly believe he can do all things. Don't be deceived thinking he does not work, i believe if you can get in contact with this man all your troubles will be over. i have done my part in spreading the good news. Contact him through his email and you will be the next to testify of his great work.
Really, it pays to be in Christ, obey him and have peace of mind🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteFlee fornication, keep your body pure. 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
Life in Christ is full of peace, abundant life 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
Life outside of Christ is full of crises and way too burdensome to live 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
You are always afraid of everything including the unknown 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
My advice? Be in Christ 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
This was my life as a single girl, no sex, no heartbreak, God gave me the best husband, I’m so proud I married a virgin, girls stop having sex before marriage it’s not worth it, you are the only one that will suffer pregnancy, most STDs, rejection, abortion etc respect God and have peace ✌️
DeleteThumbs up! The freedom and peace of mind that comes with keeping yourself pure is priceless. It really pays to be in christ 🙏🙏🙏
Delete👊👌👍
DeleteThat's just it!
16:02 they will pretend as if they didn't see your comment and your testimony now. And later say even virgins that close their legs this and that like it is all virgins that are suffering in marriage while all none virgins are enjoying.
DeleteKeep preaching my lovely cartwheeler💋💋💋
Thats just the way.
DeletePoster please REST your totoh in Stella's voice.
STds, one of the things that causes infertility...
Love your comment... I rarely comment, but this is exactly what Jesus said ''...In me you will have peace, in the world you will have tribulation". It's difficult especially in these times but it's really worth it. Be in the know.
DeleteThere's nothing like purity of mind, body and soul. God's commandments are the secrets to wisdom and happiness. Poster, you are unbelievably dumb to think you are in the clear because you did test after 3 days of unprotected sex and gave yourself more clearance for more unprotected sex. Have you never heard of window period for HIV for instance?
DeleteDiseases that can be avoided should be avoided instead you are among those collecting and sharing. Tueh!
Poster Please stop mentioning suicide as the option when you have made a mistake or as a form of escape..Learn to face your demons..Please let that guy know about your status so he can get tested and also try other diagnostic centres for proper analysis..I will advice your ABSTAIN FROM SEX till you get married..STI's like chlamydia are very stubborn to deal with and also so you don't become infertile..
ReplyDeleteRepent and start living your life on a clean slate..Hold on to your faith, give your life to God and avoid triggers that indulges you in sexual sin..all the best..
Oh! Unprotected sex on top all these ones wey we dey so? You girls no de fear o. Sex, yes you are an adult but biko, 1 month you are on skin to skin?!. The last std you got didn't teach you anything? Please even if you don't fear anything, fear for your fallopian tubes biko. Especially warts are stubborn to treat and goes far beyond the surface to block your tubes.
DeleteKill yourself ke?! You are not serious. Go get thorough treatment and when the guy comes around tell him you noticed you were itching after the last time you guys had sex and you want to get treatment. Suggest same for him too. You need not go into details telling him of your history with sti. He too would have been a careless fucker too to have jumped into skin to skin with you just like that. Both of you should go clean up. It takes time o and money.
Aunty, the best thing you can do now is to say the truth and tell him to go and check himself.
ReplyDeleteThat's it.
Say the truth.
Akpor!!!🙆🏽🙆🏽🙆🏽🙆🏽 What will I not read here??
ReplyDeleteYeppy, it's time for another chronicle,
ReplyDeleteDead poster, I don't know if telling him is the best, but how are you even sure that he is not the one that re-infected you.
Biko nwanem, don't tell him I some men can't handle the truth. Kindly stop having pre marital sex, or raw sex abeg.
Sex is worth the wait dear.
To all singles, pls sex is Worth the wait, let's keep waiting
Thank you for saying the truth even though they try to silence people like you on this blog by calling you sanctimonious.. Thank you.
DeleteWhat is the reason behind not telling him?@blog wine
DeleteWith everything you read here, you are still spreading legs?
ReplyDeleteAnd you are mandating us not to talk about it? Okay ooo 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐
She wants to her suicide threat as a bait to silence us from hitting the matter on the head.
DeleteTell him so he can go for treatment.
ReplyDeletePoster,don't take the sniper. Tell him and keep treating yourself. Above all,abstain from premarital sex and face God.
ReplyDeleteI pray you get your total healing
When God advised you all to close your leg till marriage you refused. 🚶♂️
ReplyDeleteThey will tell you they have blood in their veins like it is water that is in your own vein.
Delete15:47 That is just one, out of the silly excuses out there.
DeleteGates.
What if he is the one that infected you?
ReplyDeletePlease, it is 2020, ignorance is no longer, bliss.
DeleteGenital warts can never be cured. It is a lifelong ailment that can only be managed.
What I have read is that it has no cure o. But it can subside and occasionally you will have flare ups. Don't know how true. People need to be educated about their conditions. Is that not a symptom of HPV that also causes cancer? Madam run to a doctor now.
ReplyDeleteWhy should you tell him you treated genital warts?For it to reappear,that means it wasn't fully treated.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to avoid all these wahala,use CD or avoid premarital sex.That your boyfriend has his own palava too and so your disclosing it might jeopardize your future with him. Tomorrow he might insult you with it if he notices any little changes reproductively.
YOU ARE A FOOL. YOU WANT TO DRINK SNIPER BECOS YOU FEEL YOU INFECTED SOMEONE?
ReplyDeleteThat's all I saw o.
DeleteBecause you think you infected a NEAT guy, you want to kill yourself. There is more to your warts,I don't think you are too fine.
Both of you should see a doctor together
ReplyDeleteDear poster go and treat yourself in the hospital
ReplyDeleteWait., You bought sniper because you suspect you have genital warts? When did STIs become death sentence? I laugh in opposite direction.
ReplyDeleteSis, get your arse to the hospital for treatment ASAP & tell him to go get treated too. If you choose to have sex, it's up to you.. stop saying it's a mistake to feel better.🙄
Discard that poison too!
You had sex yesterday and went for test today and you think you'll get anything positive? Please inform the young man even if it will crash the relationship. Looking clean doesn't mean infection free. Protect yourself always.
ReplyDeleteFor him to be having unprotected sex, he is very dirty.
DeleteYesterday after praying about my petitions, I got a message to pray for my future spouse. This above is just one of the reasons. May one's future spouse not be living recklessly today and come and join someone tomorrow, God forbid. Wherever you are dear spouse, may the conviction of the Holy Spirit always make you live a life pleasing to God alone, Amen.
DeleteWhat a chronicle!
ReplyDeleteGenital warts can be transmitted even with condoms
ReplyDeleteGenital warts has no cure, only lies dormant and resurfaces when conditions are favorable
Telling him is your choice.
😂😂😂 This post is somehow and Stella is spot on too
ReplyDeleteStella ti binu tan ( Stella don vex finish)
ReplyDeleteYou should go to the hospital first for checkup instead and let him know immediately so he can help himself out instead of taking the Cowardice way out which is 'suicide'. The guy isn't clean if he was he won't have the std by the way. Maybe you meant to say physically clean but spiritually unclean he is.
ReplyDeleteSo many unnecessary issue people would have avoided if they only listen to God. You brought his upon yourself by having premarital sex now you want to commit suicide again. Please stop threatening us. We weren't there when you were doing it so don't put fear of suicide in our heart biko. Look now, You have forgotten the pleasure of it all. After this whole situation boils over and cools down stop immoral relationship. You were the one who engage in the act and we are the ones you are bothering with chronicles. You having unprotected sex which also means you swallow pills like crazy. What if your pills fail you then you come back here with another chronicle. Please be smart.
So true! People should learn to take responsibilities for their actions. What do you think was going to be the outcome of it all, a gold medal? I don't know why this chronicle made me upset.
DeleteYoung woman stop messing with your life.
Gates.
You want to drink sniper cos u think you infected someone with an STD?looks like there are warts in your brain too,you need a brain scan.
ReplyDeleteLol. .Savage
DeleteLol!!! Stella will not kill person. Na really rest your T*t*. with all the HIV and other STD flying around, people are still having unprotected s**?
ReplyDeleteI follow stella's advice
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't worth killing yourself
Are you sure the man didn't reinfect you? The fact that a man is neat doesn't mean his d*ck is neat nor in one place.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk Tabitha, that man had an infection hence the itching. A person clean for face no mean clean for inside o.
DeleteIt is more likely she has infected the man.
DeleteStay off sex until marriage, stop going about infecting people with STD it’s wickedness. surrender your life to Christ and live for him alone and he will help you overcome the temptation.
ReplyDeletesex is overrated and you can actually live without it.
This babe, e be like say u dey crase ni like stella said... And u want make we no cuss u abi?
ReplyDeleteMtchewwww make I just reserve my comment because if I open my mouth eh, u go drink the sniper by force. Onye iberibe.😡😡😡😡
Stella has said it all. Do as she said
ReplyDeleteStella cracking me up oh 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 but you hit the nail on the head! Poster close your legs and close your kpekus 🤦🤦🤦 tell him to get tested, highest the relationship will break.. but don't ever think of suicide, It's not and will never be an option
ReplyDeleteTry to explain to the guy in such a way that the infection just started. Plead with him that both of you should go for test and start treatment immediately to avoid reoccurrence.
ReplyDeleteNote that both of you must be treated even when he's not exhibiting any symptoms for now. Abstinence is still the best or use protection. Hope this piece of advised will help.
Which infection just started? So she should lie to him when she could have just learnt from her own mistakes and pretended to be a mermaid in the first place?
DeleteNawa o,uv had STD before and still having unprotected sex. Like u dont like urself.
ReplyDeletePls dont tell him about your history. Just go to a neutral hospital and tell him u will like both of you to run test. If ur lucky u are both negative,u can continue to rltshp in peace. But if u both have warts you may need to come clean and seek treatment;tell him u thot u were cleared.
He may end the rltshp so be prepared but atlst u did d right thing. If he has a forgetting spirit he may forgive. For all u care are u sure he too doesnt even have Std before sef.
If the sex was vigorous that's what triggered it. If you didn't have a breakout before the sex then he hasn't been affected I mean the chances are low. You should have told him before but I dont think you have infected him if you didn't have an open sore when the sex took place. Tell him you are feeling a certain way and that you want to go get checked. Then tell him to go get checked too because it's possible you have not checked after the last time you had sex. It's possible he has it before you as well, like herpes they stay dormant in the body vigorous sex and stress can trigger it after a long time of no breakout. Don't beat yourself up just tell him you have a discharge and would want to go checked and advise him to go too... it's immaturity that causes this stigma so many people around you have worse but you have no idea. PS, They can only determine it by blood work o a common swab won't detect it
ReplyDeleteI think you're mistaking hpv for herpes zoster.
DeleteWhat if it's the young man that reinfected her? Or is that not possible?
ReplyDeleteMadam, you bought sniper because of this? Not even the fear of the STD but because of the fear of telling him? My dear it's not a death sentence, go and get yourself treated and look for a way to tell him so he can get tested too.
No, it's not possible. Genital warts is not ccurable.Once you have it, it's for life.
DeletePlease tell the guy so he does not infect someone else, whatever comes after that take it in good faith. Go and get treated properly in a hospital and stay away from unprotected sex cos you are now, if it was HIV hmmm! It's well. You can also put your reproductive health at risk if you don't get treated properly.
ReplyDeleteAunty biko you deserve a course out..what the freaking hell!
ReplyDeleteOnce beaten...yours is 100times beaten....100 time shy
You lack common sense self that is what is annoying me.
Common sense did not tell you to tell the guy to run a test before you start doing unprotected stuff since you already treated std.. yes you can ask a boyfriend to run a test, dont know about you guys.
common sense did not tell you that Condom is your twin until infinity, atleast
before marriage.
Aunty I put it to you, its either you did not completely treat that g.warts or the guy infected you period. Guys don't show symptoms quick like that when it comes sti/stds.
SOLUTION
.... the relationship is over, BUT...
Do yourself and conscience a favour, tell the guy...If you do not want to be blamed, put on the guy that he infected you, but if he goes for a test and he's negative (which he might me in early stage) then it's on you....he will hate you for ever.
But if you tell him you just might have infected him unknowingly, it's either he will move on with his life after treating himself or get back with you(thats if he loves you scatter)
Either way, you've got to tell him, it's the least you can do.
Goodluck
Ana ekwu na corona di, unu adi busy n'enwe unprotected sex upandan. Mtcheeww.
Stella o🤣🤣🤣🤣 ‘’ You wan kill yourself? You dey crase!!!!’’ Killing yourself over such. May God forgive you.
ReplyDeleteTreat yourself and abstain from sex until you are married.
ReplyDeleteAbstinence comes with so much peace of mind with no headaches too. It's for your own good biko. God is always right!
Just when I think BVs on SDK can not shock me even further...some of you'll prove me wrong!!!
ReplyDeleteThe fact that there are people actually advising her to keep the STD a secret and go about her life as normal, is truly disheartening!
There have been stories online about men keeping their HIV+ status away from their wives and GFs, and there is always an uproar. The men are labelled as being evil and despicable!
Yet, those same people are here telling this woman to take it to her grave, because "men cannot handle things like this". What if the men that passed on the virus also didn't tell their mates, because the women would not be able to handle it? What is they feared the women throwing their status in their faces whenever there was a disagreement?
FYI...Genital warts CANNOT be cured! It can only be managed and treated when a flare up occurs!! Off course she should tell him, and all further partners about it. It is nothing short of wickedness to keep it a secret!
Take it easy! How many people have actually told her here to keep her STD a secret?
DeleteThis man vs woman gender thing all the time is tiring. And how on earth are you sure the exact same people telling her to keep mum would raise an uproar if the genders were reversed?
@@kami, MissE said her own, you can say your own kwa, it's up the poster to pick and choose...missE was stating the truth inmy opinion. It is wicked for this poster not tell her partner.
DeletePoster, please suicide should be the last thing on your mind. I have come to understand personally that every command from God is for our own good even though it might not feel so at the time.
ReplyDeleteI am not here to judge you as we're all a work in progress (myself inclusive) but we sincerely have to try and ask the Holy Spirit to help us. Please go treat yourself and close your legs like a mermaid. Also open up to the guy so he doesn't assume you're sleeping around while with him. Like I implied leave the sex till after marriage hun.🥰🤗
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Delete👌👌very soothing words,thanks Essa dearie...Op please take this advice
DeleteI am pretty sure that you are not the only girl that he is sleeping with though, trust me that he will not be able to figure out who gave him the warts 😁..
ReplyDeleteThat is the disadvantage of having plenty sex partners..When one person gives you a sexual disease, you will not know who to hold accountable..
Go hospital oh and learn to zip up biko!!
Na wa. You want to kill yourself? For real. It's best you tell him, so he can start treatment, if he leaves, life goes on. And please, if you must, STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX.
ReplyDeleteHahaha...stella got me in stitches😂😂 "Rest the tohtoh"😃
ReplyDeleteThe reason you want to commit suicide is because you know what you have and you think it will never go away and you think you are the cause of his infection. You need to abstain from sx for now and rededicate your life to God. He is the great healer. If Jesus can heal cancer and terminal illnesses, genital wart will not be an exception. People had HIV and never committed suicide. Take care
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I am suprised that your only problem now is that you infected your neat boyfriend. What about your life, I once had genital wart even tho I wasn't having unprotected sex and I couldn't sleep for days, my blood pressure was high. I was scared I had cancer and now you tell me your only worry is your boyfriend. Are you okay? Go see the doctor and get treated and do a pap smear test. Stop being childish mbok. Please tell him. If you can try boosting your immune system. Don't give up.
ReplyDeleteSo y'all are roasting her cos she has genital wart abi hpv. 90% of sexually active people have hpv. So you guys should calm down, she is scared and looking for advice. Help if you can, if you can't waka pass.
ReplyDelete90℅ of sexually active single or married people? Have hpv? Must you have sex if you are single? That's the reason they are roasting her. If she was married she would get a respectable response. Even you pointing fingers what help have you rendered her now from your comments I see no advice, no sensible idea. You only came here to rant without thinking. #Close your legs#
DeleteAnon 18:36
DeleteThe fact that you got married a Virgin or still a Virgin and she isn't getting married a Virgin is not enough reason for her to be dragged. Most people on this blog are having sex without being married and probably have had sti/std at 1 point in their live but will not tell anyone for fear of being stigmatised. I don't have any advice for her and you probably don't have any for her other than making her feel bad or more suicidal than she already is. What most of you don't know is that not everyone can handle all this online yab,Bv keep throwing not everyone is strong. Be nice for once and don't judge. Leave the judging for the most high God him no send you to do him work.
18:11 You said don't judge but you already judged when you said most people on this blog are having sex without being married and sti.....
Deletebut how can you be so sure?. Live by example too and don't judge and it will surprise you that a lot of people don't fornicate. When you are surrounded by people who do you think the whole world is like that.
She isn't being dragged but being told the truth. Truth is never tasty but bitter. Who is the one running helter skelter now? She is. Who is the one having sleepless night she is? She is the one attempting suicide for what she could have avoided. Trying to Take a life God gave her simply because she threw a away the manual This same God put in place for humans to save us from harm. You don't put yourself in harm's way and cry wolf later.
You know if you put your hand inside fire you will get burnt then you go ahead and do it then you come back and say don't judge. How would you react to such a person? Reason am Nah. God gave us brain we need to make use of it.
Instead of others like her having premarital sex to learn from this and stop... all would chant don't judge but still continue in their ways and still bring chronicles here. Does it make sense to you?... Poster If you are truly down then take this as a lesson and turn a new leaf. Become celibate and give your life to God fully. A celibate person is a virgin in God's eyes. You do do something you know has repercussion then come back to ask for advice them scream don't judge me, what exactly do you want you when you knew what you were doing all along.
Look at her situation. She had it before now and she knew but still went ahead in premarital sex with this new guy...haba nau! does she she act like someone who wants to learn from her experience?.
God did not send anyone to do his work?. But God himself won't come down to advice you again Nah after you ignored his teachings Nah.in mathew 9*35 He said the harvest are plentiful but the labourers are few... who did you think he was talking about?. God send everyone work(including you sef, he send you work)and if you can't do your part, bikonu let those who are bold enough for Christ do theirs even if they are called all sorts of name like sanctimonious, Jesus assistant and all of that. It is the same people speaking up about fornication and premarital sex, playing their own part in their own little way, that God will use and he wants to use you too. This same humans on earth that tell you all the true you don't want to hear all the time he is using them. Not everyone bashed her. Some people advised her in love. Look up again. Its however sad when the truth is being said people scream don't judge to silence everyone which shouldn't be so.
Dear poster,the world hasn't come to an end. You cant decide to take your life all in the name of having an infection. Already the deed is done. Just come clean on him and move on if he decides to end the relationship.
ReplyDeleteAlso as Stella said,rest the V.
You see your life? Two of una negotia finish say una wan do bad thing for bed, una come enter room, close door, off light, begin kiss,abi una no kiss? Ok o .comot clothe come lay down for bed begin do bad thing and you no fit holla us for advice as e dey happen. Una do bad thing sotey yansh come begin protest with boils as placard na that time you come remember say we dey here?
ReplyDeleteI go just reset your brain with slap.who you dey threaten with suicide self? You no dey fear God? You do sin finish come wan top am icing with another suicide. You wan die on top on top prick and sex matter. Com on run go hospital check if you catch anything and clean that evil thought of killing yourself because satan don begin gather firewood to roast you like goat wey Igbo people dey take do igbu ewu nna for woman head. Yeye pikin
My own is sha don't infect my future husband because my toto and unborn children will curse you. I cannot suffer celibacy and singleness and heartbreak for years only to find that loml/husband has genital warts (STD I fear most) just because you no fit hold toto. Don't come and use your own to kobalize my life and the God that has been keeping me all these years will spare you and heal you in Jesus name. Amen. God no go shame us o. Taink you
ReplyDeleteGenital warts are very contagious and it is estimated that about 60 % of people who have sexual contact with a partner with genital warts will also develop warts. The virus can be spread through oral, genital or anal sex.
ReplyDeletePoster you don't love that guy other wise you would have protected him and your self, please you both should get treated asap.
ReplyDeleteLol,sorry dear this soinds finnu ro me even tho it's not,I know it's unprofessional for me to laugh but here's my candid advice to you..CLOSE UP whenever you are in a relationship because am not an advocate of fornication,you took a very big risk by having unprotected sex,even if it was protected,you still took a risk by not getting tested,he could even be the carrier of the disease,tell him you are infected but don't know how,he should go for a test for you to confirm,if he is negative then you have it to him,stay away from him till you are treated and keep closing your legs till you get married,peace✌️
ReplyDeleteLadies, keep yourselves. Say no to sex before marriage and if you have had sex in the past, don't do it again. I'm in my 30's and have kept myself for this long, yes, I know it is worth it, because I don't need to worry about this sort of things. I believe that I'll meet a good man one day by the grace of God.
ReplyDeleteAnd you will by God's grace!
DeleteAmen Sis. Seconded. I've struggled with other health issues in my life but rarely this kinda stuff. Asides from the loneliness and the urges that come once in a while, celibacy is bae!
DeleteYou both should have gotten tested before having unprotected sex. What if he infected you. Go for a pap smear coz the hpv virus that causes warts also causes cervical cancer
ReplyDeleteYou have no reason to take your life. God owns your life not you.
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