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Thursday, June 04, 2020

Correct Number Of Bridesmaid To Use In A Wedding.....

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    1. I used 4 and this it's proper,I hate crowd that are mostly not useful.
      Stella thanks for the data giveaway,God bless you with more money,love,wisdom and peace!.
      Blog P.A you dey try and more strength

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    2. It all depends on the bride people like me that all my friends want to ask ebi madam they regard bridesmaids for small pikin, so if I get 4 or 5 sef I don try.

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    3. I had only a chief bridesmaid.

      It depends on what the bride wants. I didn't have strength for it so I didn't have any. Same for asoebi too. I didn't sell asoebi.

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    4. In addition, my husband also didn't buy the train thing. He didn't want asoebi too. Even when his sister said she wants to sell, he refused.

      So it all depends on what the couple wants.

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    5. Lol if i had my way..i'd have none. But between 4-6 is a good number.

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    6. It can also depend on the brides age. In my 20s i did so many bridesmaid and chief bridesmaid twice.
      Now im in my mid 30s and my husband to be is 39. We dont intend doing bridal train,we feel too old. Probably just best man and chief bridesmaid.
      Besides we are only doing registry and traditional marriage.

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    7. As many has one likes. For me it was just my chief bridesmaid. I don't like crowd.

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    8. As it pleases the Bride. Her choice is most Paramount, no specific nos

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  2. It all depends on what the bride wants.
    I had 5 maids and 1 chief maid.

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  3. As many as the Bride needs to make her feel happy and loved.

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  4. It all depends on what the bride wants.
    I had 5 maids and 1 chief maid.

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    1. ISAACBABA are you ready? I've go a number in mind so are you ready?

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  6. A bride, her choice. There's no specific number.

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  7. 3 for me, I wonder who'll be my bridesmaids, I don't really have female friends. Maybe I'll recruit my colleagues (all males) 🤣🤣.

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  8. As the couple desired.
    When I did my wedding I didn't use bridesmaids only my maid of honour. I'm the last in a family of 10 ladies so my sisters who worn same clothes served the purpose. Case closed.

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    1. Just one more you guys would have had the perfect football team. Thumps up to your mum.

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  9. It depends on the number of friends you have,mine was 6

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  10. Hmmmmmmmmm....let's say 4-6 is ok joor.

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  11. Na you know how many you want to use.

    Me that I don't have much friends and some are even married sef. I might not even have any sef.

    It gets me worried sometimes when I start counting lol😂😂😂😂. I'm almost a loner when it comes to female friends.

    And even if I will, E no go pass five

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    1. Dyou have younger sisters? Cousins?...just leave the bridal train wahala for those ones. Just give them yoou color and watch them do their thing. Then your homegirls will do asoebi, that way you can include both married and unmarried ones and they will slay!!!

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    2. Ahhhhhh you're on point Miss Aboki. Never thought about that

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  12. Between 5 & 10, if you are out to make a statement.

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  13. It's a matter of choice. There are no rules to these things so do as you please.

    Mine may be between 6 and 10 sha. I don't know yet but it definitely won't be more than that.

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  14. There is no correct number of bridesmaids, But i think 6 is okay.

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  15. I think Eight is okay Stella.But I had 10 during my wedding.

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  16. Depends on the individual sha.for me 4 it's fyn.

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  17. It all depends on the bride, for me 8 is ok.

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    1. What is husband dearest likes the whole train affair?

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    2. We are on the same both dear, except husband man says otherwise.

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  19. Well it depends on her big the wedding is! To me to each its own

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  20. U can have as many and as little as you want, depending on your pocket

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  21. Every Woman with her own. I really don't like crowd, so I may work with 5, doubt I would want ladies on lace etc.

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  22. It depends on how you want it. For me 2 or 3 is good. Other acquaintances can do their own asoebi if they so wish but I would like my bridesmaid's to be my friends and they are few.

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  23. The brides choice is the correct number. There's no standard to it.

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  24. If possible for me, None.
    Except a chief bridesmaid...which it’s very very important it’s someone you are close with.
    I know the whole dramas that surrounds this stuff after experiencing my sisters weddings. It’s crazy!
    Bridesmaids forget they are there to help the bride. Many think all they have to do is show up beautiful, go to the church with the couple and walk in with them at the reception, take pictures and go home.
    I’d like to give responsibilities to each one of my bridesmaid without them feeling like I’m using them. But common Can’t you be a maid for a friend for just one day? It’s like literally in the name of what you signed up for.
    But I love the whole Aso Ebi gang thing tho.

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    1. Same here. I'm not doing any bridesmaids stuff. My cousin has volunteered to be the chief bridesmaid and that is more than enough.

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    2. I'm definitely not having a train lol

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  25. As the bride's wants it! Me nada😏😏

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    1. @Chulo mind yourself😏😏 I don't have time for all that! Just maid of honor is okay for me

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    2. We will only use maid of honor then. No bridesmaids.

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  26. it's all about preference lool
    Me i want none
    My eldest sister had over 20...thanks to my extra mum 🤗🎉🥳

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    1. Hahahhahahaha... Mums can be extra!
      You and me both! Zero bridesmaids

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    2. Lmao im telling you
      My sister practically attended her wedding as a guest
      Mama planned everything it was the first wedding so she was over the moon 🤣🤣
      1500 guests in attendance id never forget this wedding !!
      As for me I'm sticking to not having a train 🤣

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    3. 😄over 20.
      a sister had 12 and we were complaining.

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    4. My sister had none. I liked how everything went so I did same.

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  27. My younger sis will be my chief bridesmaid so I'll leave her to handle the bridal train ish. She can include all her friends, na she sabi so for as they give me plenty slayage!!

    Then my home girls are going on asoebi for maximum slay!!! In short I'm going to have 3 asoebis, one for my Lafia friends, one for my Abuja friends and one for my meeting people. That day go shele!!

    Dear future husband, wherayou? Ayam ready!!!😭😭😭

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  28. To me 4 bridemaids is okay for me.

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  29. The bride's choice. Any number of mails that will make her happy.

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  30. I don't like crowd. 2 and one CBM is ok

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  31. No specific number, it depend on the bride.

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  32. Eight is okay for me for white wedding
    But for traditional marriage if you get money to buy aso-ebi you can join the train

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  33. I think it all depends on what the bride wants.
    For me, I doubt if I would want any.

    I attended a wedding early last year. The lady had 28 bridesmaids. I kid you not! The pastor who took the sermon said he had never seen such a large number of bridesmaids. And each one had a groomsman oh!

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  34. Well, I would like to have as many as possible but I got no female friends at all even In my family.. cousins o, nieces o.. everybody just dey their day. My only friend is my twinny

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  35. I got married in 2009, and I had 30 people on my train! It was so awesome and colorful. They ranged between the ages of 2 years to 24 years.

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  36. I used 6 but left for me, I prefer only chief bride's maid.

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  37. Its the brides choice. I had four bridesmaid at my wedding

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  38. 4 is okay for me but it all depends on the bride.

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  39. It depends on the bride

    I had 10 bridesmaids and like 50 aseobi girls at a point the seller had to puruse me😂 he said he was tired of looking for the same fabric and it was lace each person needed least 3 yards. The week of the wedding my friends who did get still wanted,


    It made my day colourful teal green ce and yellow headties.

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  40. Its a matter of choice.
    I had 5

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  41. Stella if I have a way, I will only have just 10 people in all/attendance, no asoebi and others. I am that shy.....extremely introvert.

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  42. Between 2 and four.
    I don't even have that many friends.

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  43. Stella honestly if I have 20 I'd love VE that. I love crowd, I love buoyant and elaborate celebrations. If I can have it as it was back in the day; little bride, flower girl, bridesmaids and chief bridesmaids. Kid relative and relative aseobi too

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  44. I think it would depend on what the bride wants.

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  45. Left to me, just my chief brides maid and I'm good.. Sometimes, I wish my wedding will just be 20guest but mom gives me this awful look each time I say it.. I have just one friend and I still can't figure how I'd go about this train and asoebi stuff.. Potential hubby shu come fez.. God biko hear my cry

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  46. 6, Incase 2 may refuse showing up

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  47. I really don't like the train idea, would prefer just my CBM bt even if I will end up using bridesmaids,just 2 is okay for me. But I'm definitely having my asoebi ladies to come and slay and do pepper them. Can't wait for my big day

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  48. I didn't want any bridal train because I have only 2 close female friend, one was already married with two kids at the time I was getting married, the other one was my CBM,I had to get 5 ladies because my husband already had 5 male friends on ground.

    2 of my fellow choir member, my sister and her friend and my husband's cousin(she cancelled at the last minute). It's stressful, especially for people like us who don't have female friends. In my next life, no bridal train.

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  49. I had 12 bridesmaid and 12grooms men
    Very funny pose in all the pictures!

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