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Monday, June 22, 2020

Reality Star Tacha Talks About Fame And Grief And Explains The Source Of Her Self Confidence...

Ex Big Brother Naija Housemate, and one of Nigeria's most-notable influencers and trendsetters, Anita ’Tacha’ Anide, opened up to Chude Jideonwo, founder of Joy, Inc., about her experience with fame and grief as well as her journey towards gaining self-confidence on the latest episode of #WithChude.






Speaking on the personal attribute that solidified her position as a cultural icon, Tacha said: “My self-confidence came from being disregarded by people. Right from childhood, I had always been in places where there were cliques I was never invited to. My mother made it her mission to help me stop wanting to feel validated by other people and to be okay with being by myself. She taught me how to let my happiness come from within.”



The social media sensation and serial entrepreneur who has since gained a massive following of more than 4 million ‘Titans’ across her social media platforms, revealed the human behind her brand - a part of her that goes beyond her steady rise to fame.



Tacha who lost her mother at 18, also discussed her approach to dealing with the loss and navigating her grief. “I am still not over it honestly. I wish she were here to see the confidence she had helped to build. When the memory returns I would either say a prayer or I let myself feel the pain and move on from it.”

73 comments:

  1. I listened to this interview on youtube and all I can say is HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM....... May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss of your mum and also give you the strength to move past it!!

    Also may God grant you the courage to take responsibility for your mistakes, accept it and then genuinely change.... May God give you the eyes to see that everyone is not the enemy!!! You need to your shit like a boss

    Also you'll be 25 this year according to you, how come you said you are 23 in your interview Sis?? I pray God comes through for you Tee🙏🙏

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    1. Amen Cookie🙏🙏. She will get better. Please give her time.

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    2. I do wish her success and good friendships... Shes lack great friends thats why she sees everyone as an enemy and is always defensive.

      Its important to grow up so you learn a harder way, i dint watch the interview but why did she loe about her age?

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    3. Push Up, I really don't know oooh, I was surprised!!!

      I wonder why her management keep doing damage control interviews!!! I was checking something on youtube when I saw it and watched it and I was just SMH all through!!

      Tbabe, yeah she will🙏

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    4. Why will you not hmmmmmmmm, when it's not your favorite? Nonsense and ingredient.

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    5. Age problem for Africa women

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    6. Hahahaha, Cookie

      As if I knew you would follow her interview. Awon monitoring spirit aye 😂🙌. Well done oo may your hustle and obsession with Tacha pay

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    7. Anon, so this is how I occupy space in your mind? For you to 'knew', Knower, omniknowest🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

      For your info, I subscribed to Ytv during Busola and Coza saga!!

      Keep keeping up, Fan😛🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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    8. Your obsession with her is too much.

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  2. It can only get better Tacha. I am still a fan.

    Lots of love😍❤❤to you

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    1. No wonder she is so aggressive. I believe she has alot of tins she is fighting behind the scene. Her background upbringing have alot to play.

      Change is a constant tin thou. I was once very aggressive like dat as a teenager. Becos I felt is the best way to defend myself. But with growth u cn change alot about urself and relationship with people. Tacha let that growth be real not for the camera. We all are not perfect. More win girl👌🌶

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  3. I love confidence people not arrogant,silly,bitter,rude people. They are 2 different people all together.

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    1. How come she did not display that confidence during reunion?

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  4. Good for you girl👌👌 confidence is bae

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  5. I will never play with an animal in a mud. Dear Tarsha ignorantly noded to Seyi calling her a pig. Sad#

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    1. How does this relate to the interview?

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    2. Get a life imageScale

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    3. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 please please please!

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    4. Did this girl offend you? Even if she did which i doubt because she doesnt know you exist,why not let your soul be at peace and forgive her. Just drink some water,and you will be alright.You accused her of not having good attitude yet you are doing the same here. Is this not stupidity?

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    5. And you aunty/uncle omniknowest who also failed to spell Tacha correctly or is it your hatred for her that made you type her name like that as well? Get a life hon

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  6. Yeah I really like her confidence"unashAmedness"😏😏

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  7. Very nice interview. Loved how she answered her questions.

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    1. I am surprised you like the girl honestly or should I say surprised you are drawn to the girl. I don't hate her but...ahn ah.
      The loss of a mother, I really can't imagine. There are a lot of things she needs to let go of. 4 million followers? Huge! I feel she is a work in progress sha compared to the person we saw in the Big Brother house. As for confidence, she still needs to work on that.

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    2. Kiks, yeah she like the girl deal with it girl and you that hate her continue dwelling in your hatred for her or is that too much for you to do? Miss perfecto

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    3. What's the colour of your problem 13:27? English is obviously one of your problems and I sympathise.

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  8. You can be confident,confidence is bae but dont be rude and arrogant,it destroys every other thing. I pray you see where you are lacking and work towards getting better,nobody is perfect.
    May her mums soul continue to rest in peace

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  9. I think this girl is cool only that d wrong pple advice her. Aunty not everyone is d enemy and u don’t v to b ‘alone’ . Confidence is different from being toxic! No man is an island .23 kwa u shld b 25 this year of which we know it’s audio age yal claim. Happy 28th birthday in advance 🎊

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  10. Anyone supporting this☝️and calling it confidence, may u all walk into a marriage ur MIL will be exactly like her, may ur daughter's turn out like her and may ur sister in-laws be a replica. Can I get an AMEN from the supporters club...

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    1. Your bitterness is too much, I will rather have her than you as a mother in-law.find peace biko.

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    2. For you to have this kind of mindset for someone who doesn't care if you exist says a lot about you. Why this bitterness? I bet lots like you would rather prefer she commits suicide so you can be happy abi. You continue to point a finger at her that she is this and she is that while the other four fingers are right back at ya. She is growing and i hope this new change brings her joy. She doesn't need chronic haters like you to come here and spill nonsense. Just wish her well and move on but if can't do that then read and learn from others here and shut your mouth. I am new here and it annoys me when i see comments filled with bitterness like this.

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    3. Na fight, image leave her alone, she is trying to change and we hope the change is in and off camera

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    4. We are a REFLECTION of what we support.

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    5. 😂😂😂😂😂 savage mistress @ImageScale!!
      Meanwhile i am yet to see an 'amen'oh!!!

      We are a reflection of what we support👌

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    6. Same as what we write,Safe to say you are bitter human. ndo

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    7. ImageScale, remove the log of wood from your eyes before trying to remove a speck of dust from your neighbour's eyes.

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    8. Hahahaha, imagescale you that is perfect. Pele oo

      As if we don't seems to see your venom self here. Abeg swerve

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    9. Imagescale, I bet you're worse than Tacha. That you've not appeared on a national TV to show your real self doesn't make you any better! You post says alot about your personality, BITTER!

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  11. Pls let her be. To each his/her own. Who amongst this judgemental blog commenters did she offend on an individual basis?

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  12. Nice one..
    Best of luck dear Tacha

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  13. She should not interchange insecurity with confidence!!

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  14. Babe you are getting it all wrong, what you have doesn't even belong to the family of confidence, all this damage control interviews self na wa, are people in her management uneducated abi wetin. May the soul of your mum continually rest in peace darling. Happy 27th birthday in advance.

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  15. Fame, confidence?
    And I don't even know who she is? 😏😏😏😏😏😏

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  16. Why is tacha trying hard to add lies to her resumé, watched the interview and I know it's all in the bid to change the narrative people have of her. If you truly changed babes we would all see it, you wouldn't have to do an interview centered on your emotional side for public sympathy. May the soul of your mom rest in peace

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    1. Bless up!!!! It's more like a damage control interview!!!

      No concrete discussion about her future plans and all.... Or maybe there's more that we didn't see!!

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    2. Of course you can't see it when your bitterness towards her won't allow you.

      Was she asked about that and she refused to answer? You people ehn

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    3. No cookie ,the interview was done over a week ago and she has fixed the appointment during her live session with chude on her instagram live before the reunion.

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    4. Cookie you are a fan in denial, see how you are going around looking for people to pitch tenth with them against her. I put it to you that you didn't go to youtube to do anything you simply went there to watch the interview. Awon monitoring spirit.

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  17. Tacha baby, what you have is not confidence, maybe when you stop lying to yourself and face your truth, you will realize this.

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  18. Confidence is one thing, arrogance is another thing, may God give us the Grace not to mix them up

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  19. I think tachas management should chill out for a bit, I get the damage control and all that but I think they should let her be,so she can genuinely find herself and not always do what is asked of her, so she can change how the public see her. She is not a robot but a human being and as humans we make mistakes, learn from them and grow everyday. If they continue this fake wokeness, one day damage controlled interviews will not be enough to save the damage

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  20. Everybody should leave this girl alone, who is advicing her sef, you are trying so hard to change the narrative of how the public see you why not try that hard to really work on yourself. Do you fa and leave the public first. No doubt you are confident, but being confidently rude or confidently arrogant is not the way to go

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  21. That interview was well and alright till she said she is 23, that was when I pulled out from the damage controlled interview.

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  22. Can everyone leave this girl alone, even you Tasha leave yourself alone for a minute, take a deep breath, sit back and relax. Nobody is perfect, you are focused on changing the narrative of how people see you which is wrong, why not focus more on yourself and your change will reflect without you even doing interviews. Leave that word confidence first and focus on other words like peace, love, kindness truth etc

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  23. Was the aim of this Interview for public sympathy, cos she just got mine, mummy tacha rest in peace, your babygirl is doing well. Can she leave this word confidence alone, nawa. So Tasha is still 23 after celebrating her 24th birthday in 2019. Titans our queen is aging backwards another Benz loading for her 23rd bday

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  24. It is not kind to judge people without considering where they come from and their experience in life. I wish you well Tacha. I'm never been a fan of BBN but I was impressed that this lady scaled thru all the humiliation and insults that came after been disqualified. Another person would have gone to hide herself but she didn't. Very impressed.

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    1. Ano12:01 pls hold it right there,what do you mean by the humiliation and insults put upon her?.now let me tell you that you are a huge fan of bbn that why you know the happenings oky.tacha fan should stop pulling the string of sympathy cos it's not really working well for her favour...she caused all she is getting from the public that all and mind you she is not a confident person but a rude and proud person.

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  25. See height!!! This girl should be like 6ft tall.Girl,you are a total package.

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  26. This is Anon from 11:02 to 11:29 is the same. You don't need to bother yourself about this girl. Allow her to do her thing the way she deems fit. She is minding her business, and i suggest you mind yours. TV C invited her for an interview and she honoured it. If she didn't and the news goes viral that she refused, it is the same people like you that would come here and say rubbish that she is arrogant. Make una leave this alone. Let her be.

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  27. My dearly beloved Tacha, I am glad at your growth and learning process of life. It's not overnight but I know you will get there. At first I was disgusted and turned off by her character but I saw some good parts of her and I wondered why she covered it up with such character. I am one of those who believe in giving people a second chance to learn, to grow.
    It's not as if those housemates are better than Tacha but she wasn't even concerned. It appeared like she was proud of her character and she had no remorse. She was rude, condescending, proud and arrogant. Of all these the biggest issue Tacha had was not knowing when to stop. She would go on and on and on. She also never took responsibility, never listens, never explained herself and never apologized. I always say it's kk to make mistakes, let's even say that she had anger issues and said stuff, an apology could heal the whole situation. Sure she has confidence, Tacha is very confident but she was both confident and arrogant. I think that disqualification needed to happen for her to be how she is today and I must confess that the Biggie did everything to help her but she never listened. Including wiping her face out of the wall, Biggie told her omashola was very sad, nothing stopped her from going to apologise or at least explain to him why she cleaned her face. On the day of the famous fight, she hurled insults on Mercy from morning till evening. She didn't stop. It was too much. Infact I knew the disqualification will happen and I was ready for it. Anyone saying Tacha hasn't changed didn't observe her well in the house. The Tacha I watched will not receive insult from seyi because of any management, she wouldn't even keep quiet for you to speak sef. Maybe they are expecting a complete change,it doesn't work that way unless it's pretence. I am going through comments and I am impressed, it's very kk to criticize not troll or insult. People insulting her are not better than her, just that no camera. You can't judge her for being rude and then use very vile words, that means you are no different from Tacha period.
    Some of these stupid characters, people pick them up thinking it makes them bigger than others or makes people fear them, as you grow u begin to receive sense and drop them.
    Tacha, keep learning, keep growing, keep changing. It's never going to be easy but you will get there.
    Sorry for my plenty comment. I am just glad at this reformation and I pray it becomes even better

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    1. I love this comment, a round of applause for you dear, Tasha just needs genuine people around her and genuine growth

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  28. Tasha please leave matter, this life ehn just do you and continually work on yourself for yourself, leave this confidence, startegy and changing narrative matter. During Efe's set people called tboss all manner of names thinking she was the worse, miracle set came then boom introduce ceec with it, ceec became version 2.0 of tboss, world people forgot tboss and said ceec was the worse, she is this she is that, then came Mercy's set, boom Tasha happened and became version 3.0 of ceec, the same world people forgot tboss and ceec And Tasha became the latest with bad character, guess what Tasha, another set will come this 2020 and the person might just skip version 4.0 and upgrade to version 5.0. The thing with damage control is the more you try to cover up one nonsense, another nonsense happens. There's good in everybody, nobody holy pass, her management should advice her well nau, mtcchheeww. Now she has said she is 23 abeg I tire

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  29. Nice Interview,served its purpose. I just want to say, Tasha please stop leaving for other people's validation, change is not rushed or rehearsed, stop all this let them see me differently abi changing the narrative nonsense your management is making you do and rest for real. RIP to your mum and happy 26th birthday in advance

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  30. Tasha was not the only housemate with a questionable character joor, seyi awolowo, I await your interview with chude cos a change needs to happen within the area of your mouth

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  31. Tasha is sha better than that anonymous who came to give us fake news on the reunion, the person said jackye fought with someone abi and Kim Oprah, can't remember. The person also said Tasha insulted ebuka , after having watched the reunion for 3 weeks all I can say is God will help me discipline that anonymous, liar liar pants on fire. Believe anything you see on social media at your own risk

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