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Saturday, July 25, 2020

Saturday In House Gists -The Reason For The Breakup...

Some Breakups are toxic and some are celebrated but a break up is a break up...







People break up for several reasons and some will shock you..
Did you have someone you loved so much but no longer with cos a break up occurred?what was the reason for the break up?

Was it you that broke it off or the other person?


Mine?I almost married the Yoruba demon but his lies kept making us change dates for the wedding after the intro.. until I saw what i was supposed to see...He was very loving,offered me a one way ticket to America (which was what i wanted at that time),licked my feet and loved me like there was no tomorrow but he was a serial emotional scammer.......

He broke it off cos he said i was rude when i nicely asked him of my suspicions...he broke it off and waited for me to beg but instead i went on a party ride....

He waited a few months and came back begging but my attention had been captured by someone else....

Anytime he makes contact,it is to tell me how much he regrets what he did...If i had ended up with him,my chronicles and bag of STD's and STI's would have made it to the guinness book of records...hehehhehehehehe

what is your break up story!

242 comments:

  1. I broke it up myself. Dude was a chatterbox. He can talk the talk of next tomorrow in 3hours. It was draining. I ran for my sanity.

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    1. Guys dt tolk too much are huge turn offs fr mi

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    2. πŸ˜‚I understand. once went on a date with one like that. he would ask u questions and reply the answers. Got home and well it was boy bye πŸ˜‚

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I am literally cracked

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    4. I broke things off after years of dating. His mother wasn’t fully accepting which was not too much of my issues, it was the fact that our sex life was rubbish, 1minute, no Romance, no head. I could subject myself to a life time of torture. Sex was very important to me and I voiced out a few times especially about the head and he never changed. I got tired and took a walk. Also our future career goals were not moving in the same direction. I never told him the real reasons for the breakup. It was one of the most difficult decisions I’ve had to make and I feel bad sometimes that I took so long to make it and walk away while wasting his time and hurting him but mehn better late than never. I don’t regret it one bit as I’m happy where I am and I suppose he is too atleast he’s married too. My happiness was important to me and I didn’t think it was right to marry out of pity or number of years of dating or because everyone on the outside thought we looked perfect.

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    5. You escaped a future nag and gossip. Guys like that,your secrets are never safe

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    6. @Bini are you for real πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ He will ask question na him go answer @cupcakes same here.I dislike men that talk too much, it irritates me..You dodged a bullet though

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  2. I broke up with one. He was in the hospital for 2weeks, and I never missed a day, even when having bad cramps. Dude had guts to tell his girlfriends to come see him. Chairs were limited, I went out to get something, came back, met one sitting, she put my bag on the floor.Told her to get up. Dude asked me to stand. I just took my bag and went home. Broke up with him 2 days after he was discharged. Won't allow myself be disrespected abeg.

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    1. TF!😳

      Goodbye to Bullsh*t!😏

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    2. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    3. The guy no value u abeg

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    4. Bye Bye to yeye boyfriend πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    5. Characters everywhere!! He must be thinking himself a price.
      Well thank God you are not in the league of shits eaters all because they want to remain in a relationship or because they want to get married.

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    6. No Candy, he broke up with you. You were the side chic

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    7. Dude told me his mum told him a prophet told her that if he marries me, he will die

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    8. THe TOLDER families. Good thing u Told urself to get sense and walk

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    9. @Official Merchant, goodbye o
      @Tbabe😁
      @Chummy, you can say that again
      @Cupcake, I value myself, no time for nonsense
      @Bini, help me sing the song o
      @Chisom darling, he thought he was the price, I am the Prize.😁
      @Anon 15:18, oh wow. I didn't know you were helping me to live my life to know he broke up with me. πŸ™„πŸ™„
      @Anon16:13, he should waka faaar from you, abeg

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    10. That was damn right disrespectful

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    11. @Candy Wow candy you did very well

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  3. He used my passed to mock me. That is a deal breaker for me.

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    1. Can u imagine? Childish men with leaking mouths

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    2. Lol! Next time, keep your past to yourself. I believe you have learnt your lesson.

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    3. He used your PASSED?
      Eziokwu?
      How about your forward?
      🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    4. Good radiance to bad rubbish

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    5. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†anon ooooo

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  4. He was Albanian, an expat here ...his mother said she doesn't want the bloodline mixed, 😁 me with d rugged naija blood...my nationality didnt sit well with her sha..not necessarily d color. But we still dey hide chop once a while..

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣

      You ehn!..πŸ₯‚

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    2. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒBB, You eh

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    3. No need to continue chopping na. He's at advantage until he finaly get what he wants

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    4. You ehn🀫🀫🀫

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    5. Kai Blackbuddie after you na you

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    6. Kai BB I just like you, you are just you. No pretense. Do you wish you to get married or you are good and dont mind being a single mum. If you don't mind being a single mum then mama, make yourself some cute babies na.

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  5. Nobody breaks up with me o. I just don't go into relationships for the fun of it. Now, I don't waste time in relationships. I look out for potentials. You have to be a dude....reponsible,intelligent, mature and with great goals.
    I'm nit all about wealth though, but if it comes with the package, I'm good.
    When I'm with someone, I don't expect total perfection. As my man, I expect you to know what's ups.
    You shouldn't go to public forum to start talking jargons. Speak like a gentleman. Proffer solution when the need arises. That's if you have any. Don't be everywhere. I like my man to be have class.
    When in a relationship with him and I find certain things irritating, I just call it off or ghost you. I don't have time to start managing relationships.
    I'm not perfect, but I try. If you don't meet up to my expectations, I'll walk.

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    1. Clap for yourself aunty. Kpai kpai kpai kpai kpaaaaaiiii.

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    2. Wow...looks like men will take entrance exam just to date you ...na you biko

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    3. @anon 14:10 how market with all your above qualifications and unnecessary turn.offs. You must be a PhD holder and a corporate executive yourself. Get off your high horse and face reality

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    4. Anon 14:10 I don’t think this is the post for u. This post is for break up reasons. When the bragging about yourself post comes pls u can come and post. Until then kindly take several seats!!

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    5. See them. When they see someone that is not in same league with them they start talking anyhow. I'm in a place where I'm supposed to be. Marriage is in two weeks. Oya start crying na.

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    6. Okay..... Perfectionist...

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    7. You haven't been in love before

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    8. Girl you dunno **in patoranking's voice** @Marvel abeg tell her again

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    9. @,anon 16:40,the guy don store am in a cooler for you, trust me, your eyes will soon be wide open. Naa men you dey take playπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

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  6. Never really hard a conflicting breakup, it was always mutual and peaceful

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  7. 😏He went Broke. My heart went cold.

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    1. C'mon!🀣

      Will you go back if he makes it again πŸ€”

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    2. Is there anything l will not see on this blog! Na wa o 🀣🀣🀣

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    3. Officialsmerchant YES! He was at d process of getting owning his Airplanes. The cash flow will warm up the heart. He knows ga. Still have that special place in my heart waiting for him.

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    4. I want to believe you are joking right?

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    5. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣cold room.

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    6. Wow nice rhymes: broke and cold

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  8. Mine was a 40 something years old man o, I was around 23 or so then, finished sch and ready to serve. I actually wanted to settle down and live my life jeje. D guy pride wear abgada. He kept saying d women in his church are telling him they willlike him to marry their nieces, daughtersor sisters. He will say things like 'd lady I will marry will be dis and dat' and I asked my self, whT am I? D lady he will sample? Well, I jejely carry myself away from d relationship and met my husband immediately. Did my wedding and have my kids. D man is hitting 50, still very single and stalking me. He wish something can be done but never ever!

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    1. Can you imagine? I hate men like that. Encountered one like him too. Don't regret rejecting him. Nonsense

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    2. Good you left and happy.

      Regardless..,wish him well.πŸ˜‰

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    3. 40, and still didn't know what he wanted
      Thank God you took the walk πŸ‘

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  9. He can call and talk for 2 hours straight burning airtime but will never send me #100 airtime. Whenever I call him at night, he's always on call with workers or aunt( 11pm oo)
    I spent my transport to visit him in his state and he gave me only my return date back even after telling him I'm broke and a student.
    In one word, huncle was stingy, and within one month of boyfriend and girlfriend, he was talking about marriage. O wrong na
    What annoyed me most was when I told him I couldn't go to class cus I don't have T fare (which was a lie Sha) and he said can't I call my sister to sende money?
    Call me whatever you want, the truth remains I'm allergic to stingy people cus I'm not stingy

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  10. I won't call it a breakup because I never really accepted him.
    Reason; all he did was come around and
    throw living and working abroad to me as if that was being in heaven. Always talking about what he has and does and how he is a price to be won.
    Arrogant, disrespectful, not in Christ...
    And you know what he did not not know?
    He didn't know that I was a US citizen and indeed, that I hid from all of them.
    In the end, after getting the cold shoulder for sometime, he drifted.
    🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣🀣. Clown! Other girls would have fallen for his scam.

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    2. One tin i notice is dt ppl dt brag and show demselves are usually empty vessels

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  11. i have broke up for few funny reasons

    few broke up with me because i wasn’t there emotionally

    SDK gave me one little relationship advise back then after i passed out from service, till date it has helped me 😴 applied with o

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    1. So, what are the reasons then?? πŸ™„

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    2. *applied with others i have learnt along the wayπŸ€—

      shooter gyal 😎 😁

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    3. Applied with others?
      Bia Isaac,how many are they till e come become others

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  12. My wife broke up with me after I mistakenly impregnated our house maids.

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    1. "Mistakenly impregnated"πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„. Wooo. If true, own up to your faults.

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    2. 'Mistakenly' bawo? Did you trip over your shoelace, hit your head on the ground and fall into their respective vaginas???

      Please elaborate?

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    3. "mistakenly"? Excuse me?

      I'm proud of your wife. Na better woman she be.

      Not like those that will be blaming housemaid and devil. Nonsense

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    4. FAntaBUlous

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    5. Professional mistake maker

      Hailingssss

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    6. What do you expect? To pat you at the back and tell you wehdone abi.

      Mistakenly my foot, your eyes are cleared now ba.

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    7. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Mistakenly ko, intentionally ni

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    8. Una get strength to dey reply every comment on this blog, It's obvious the anon is just seeking attention and you guys are granting it to him/her.

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    9. So you mean, you tripped and fell inside her VaginaπŸ˜‘
      Wonderment πŸ˜‘

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    10. Na so ...mistakenly entangled

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    11. You guys do not even notice that the maid is in plural, he impregnated several of them and the wife got tired of the jerk and moved on for her sanity

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    12. Mistakenly?
      Hope you didn't get yourself injured.
      Mkpo ase aba o

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    13. You are a bomboclat!! Mistakenly you say

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  13. Mine lied that his ex cheated on him and got pregnant for her dad, which l didn't believe. When He later said that he has done intro with the lady, then I know that all is lies. Only for me to confront him that the baby is his, the real characters shows. He opened his mouth and told me that am so lucky, that his plan is to get me pregnant and become baby mama number two. I ran without looking back.

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  14. My boyfriend of 6years and i had to part ways cos he went for his masters in the abroad and got another lady pregy,he didn't tell me about it until a week to her due date,to think that we were planning a life together and he didn't tell me about it,its so heartbreaking,cos i felt we were friends first and we tell each other everything.Its been over a year and i still can move pass it.

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    1. So sorry dear. That's so painful.

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    2. I'm sorry babeπŸ€—

      Better days aheadπŸ˜‰

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    3. Awwww sorry darling. I feel your pain. You will be fine

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    4. So sorry. E hugs. It is well with you.

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    5. That must have been painful

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    6. Awww so sorry but you gats to move on..For him to choose her over you should motivate you to forget his arse

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  15. My break up story was between mi and a yoruba guy frm a traditional family in ogun state. Told mi i must get pregnant first to ascertain if indeed i was fertile lol. His mother supported d motion. With Gods help and his wisdom, i got to knw he had 2 kids from two different women. I confronted him. He and his mother bad mouthed d ladies saying dey had bad character, lol. Thank God i resisted every form of fornication, so moving on was easy

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    1. Smart of you.

      Can you imagine? Some women are bad mothers sha

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    2. God bless you!
      When God says we should obey, it is always for our own good.πŸ€—

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    3. All them tester of Fertility. Thank God for youπŸ‘

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    4. Smart lady. you did the right thing

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  16. He was a smooth talker and liar. I had to speak some senses to myself before I regret my life.

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  17. The lies are unbearable, he lies to me like I'm a kid even when it's so obvious. I keep praying I meet someone who is as honest as I am.

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    1. My dear, honesty is key in a relationship o

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    2. His must be pathological, obviously.

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    3. @Sabella exactly what I wanted to say.

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  18. That I'm too fragile and don't like stress.,he's not sure I can handle children..what if he has to leave town for something,..bla bla bla😏

    Here at work my boss commends me for always looking out for everyone.,in his word..you have maternal instincts and are concerned for everyone..🀷‍♀️

    #InsideLife🀣

    Abeg I wasn't born to suffer..We move!πŸ˜‰

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    1. That's a very flimsy reason, abeg.

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    2. 'hes not sure you can handle children' wich kind small children tolk be dt? He was jus looking fr a way to discard u. Dt excuse no follow abeg

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    3. He just needed to find a reason to break up with you

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    4. He wasn't for you jare..Nonsense guy

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  19. My aunty introduced one abia state guy to me that he was looking for a homely girl to marry from church. I met him I liked the physical attributes I saw, then we started dating/relationship. Guess what, I found out that this guy was good gossiper(amebo) and very stingy in nature. And also, he was not ready to have kids but would want sex all the time(skin to skin),a man who is in his mid forties already.

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    1. You dodged a bullet my dear

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    2. Lolzzz could it be midlife crises happening to them

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  20. Let me go anon on this.

    I loved this my boyfriend so much. He was my Teddy cuddly bear.
    But... This man has chronic mouth odor and still be telling me my mouth smells of vegetable when I eat. He likes to deep tongue kiss and I have to hold my breathe.

    He hates rollon and so the armpit can kill a colony. Shave sef na wahala I have to shave him while lying down.

    Food nko? He will see a picture on the Internet and make me cook it. He is a foodie and can eat 10 times a day. After gbensh home girl will relax and cuddle oga will say he wants food.

    He drinks pure water and litters everywhere with it. If I don't show up for days the plates and cups will be sitting pretty at every corner of the house. Wetin???

    Now to the part that gets me mad. He is always right and sometimes disrespectful. I offend I will say a sorry, he offends I will say sorry.

    I sat down and thought about everything and the reason I loved him scatter.

    Lo and behold it was the great sex. Who do me? Me that was celibate for years. I just told him it was over and I never went back.

    It's been weeks and I don't even miss him I am tired of babysitting a grown man.
    Hnmmm

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    1. Please keep it moving girl.
      Good ridiance to bad rubbish

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    2. That kissing part made me🀒🀒🀒

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    3. Good you realised you had to move on

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    4. lmao, dis one dey find puppet/ housegirl

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    5. I didn't marry a guy because of his chronic mouth odour..I can't deal with it abeg

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    6. How do U cuddle someone that doesn’t use roll on and has mouth odor.kaii

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  21. I broke up with him because he was too proud of a person.

    Each time I visit him, before I will finish taking my bath,one of their house help must have cleaned his room, change the bed spread,make breakfast, then i complained that am not happy for not getting the opportunity of doing things for my self, he will say in his words. You don't no anything, a lot of girls will die to be in my position where I don't have to do anything but just be pampered, but me I want to go to the market,break fire wood and all.
    He will also always like to have his room AC and fan on at thisame time, when I tell him to put off one, he will say that am too fragile, that I need to grow up before we can get married.
    I left him few months before I meet my husband,when I told him, he said our marriage won't hold cos I need to let him have my body one more time or he will harm my husband, I just told him to ask about the guy am about to get married too before thinking of ploting any rubbish.

    Am happy i meet and married my husband cos he is everything I want in a man plus he is God fearing and half working.

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    1. The guys is a rascal and really full of pride

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    2. Wow, people dey o!! Ur last paragraph made mi blush on ur behalf. God abeg pick my call

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    3. Hey Chineke nna! God forbid bad thing! Thank God you didnt end up with him

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  22. He said that I wasn't Catholic enough:(

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    1. Can u imagine? Wetin i no go read fa?

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    2. I'm sorry, but let me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Whaaaaat!

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    3. 🀣🀣🀣

      I can't abeg!

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    4. Oh good bye to him! Bye Felicia

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  23. Mine was a mutual breakup cus he travelled out.

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  24. He asked me out for good three years and at that point I was done with men being obsessed with sex. If you aren't married to me, my body is none of your business. Don't you dare hassle me for sex, please! Have some shame!
    He said he was okay with the "no sex before marriage" kind of relationship. Besides I wasn't really feeling him because he wasn't godly enough for me based on a few things I figured out about him later on, but I was just bidding my time to break it up. Relationship hasn't really lasted close to a month and he visited me one day only to nag me about feeling horny. Like! What's my business with that? I broke it up straight.

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    1. I wonder why a man wud see a lady dt does not want to av sex bfr marriage, pretend to agree to her terms den later disturb her for sex. Why na? Most of dem end up chopping and ghosting her, thereby leaving her bitter and angry. Sabella, God is with u

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    2. One month! He never meant to stick with the NO SEX. He probably thought he could change your mind later on. Most of them are like this . Boy byeeee😁. Thank God you wasted no time with breaking up with him.

      πŸ’•

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    3. Thank God for you sabella o. Imagine If you had gave in to his demand only to now meet your current fiance. The anger you would have felt ehn.... Being Resolute in truly christ pays in the end sha.

      Meanwhile there are thousands of woman who would readily give them what they want but they will be running after the one who made it clear from the start that there is no show. Mtshweeeee

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    4. I like that, Sabella πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    5. Can you imagine the entitled human being! You did well

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    6. Some men actually sticks to the initial agreement while most of them starts nagging in the middle of the relationship.

      Lol @whats my business with that πŸ˜‚πŸ€£.. No time for nonsense, haha.

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  25. His Mom was all up in our business too much,we'll plan and before I know it his Mom will call me that why didn't I discussed with her first?πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί I normally wears bathroom slippers inside the house,so when I go to their house I do same and once she sees me,she will start complaining that my own too much why do I have to wear slippers inside her very expensive tilesπŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™† when maid bring food to the dinner,I normally take mine to the room to eat,she will complain! At a time she told the maid to stop attending to me whenever I'm around that I should be fixing myself up anytime I come around..I will tell him how the Mom treats me but he will be defending her that his Mom loves meπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ finally she told me plain when that before anything to be done,my fertility need to be tested by getting pregnant before proceeding with any marriage plans..I told her my perception about marriage is not solely for procreation but companionship,she told me that's their family way😲😲 I left him so he can marry who go just dey born for him and his Mom

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    1. Hmmm, mummy's boy. Paris bebe, good thing you ended it, if not that woman would frustrated your marriage.

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    2. Lol. Na dem!

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    3. You dodged a bullet!
      That marriage would have been between the 3 of you. They should both sail into the sunset together abeg

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    4. For me,I think for the wearing of slippers and eating in the room part, you could have at least compromised on that. Relationships are all about compromise.
      It's the last part that is just not it. And tomorrow now she will change the son's mind and you become a baby mama

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    5. Chai na wa oh..Thank God you escaped..You know I like what you said ''marriage is about companionship but not about procreation only'' I had this argument with a friend of mine

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  26. Broke up because he was super controlling and obsessive. If I tell him, I want to go for a friend's birthday party, he will ask me it's just an avenue to meet guys.

    If I tell him, I want to attend my school's alumni program, he will argue that there's nothing interesting about it that I shouldn't go.

    Of course, I would go to such places cos no idiot has the right to limit non harmful movements of mine. And then we'd quarrel and quarrel over such.


    One day sef, we were having PTC meeting and he kept calling and calling. On my way home, called back and he was ranting, even after explaining my reasons. He said I should have gone outside to pick. Me, that was the secretary. Just hung up abeg.

    The one that finally broke the camel's back was when he got angry when he saw a chat where I told a male friend 'hello dear'.

    He said only prostitutes will be messaging a guy first.

    Came down from his car, took a bike home and for months, I never picked his calls again.

    Till date, he doesn't have closure from that break up.

    I once told him 'if u marry me, u will cage me inside the house and never let me have any form of freedom'

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    1. These kind of guys abound, thank God l never met anyone like that because I would have dealt with him. I dislike controlling people!

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    2. I trust you girl!! Mama raised no fool πŸ‘πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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  27. We dated online and off line, abi na me dey date myself nii. He came back and on the day we agreed to meet, despite seeing me on video getting ready to sleep over, despite seeing me on video cooking for him, I got to where we agreed to meet only for his phone to be switched off. So much for loving me, I called tire and drove home. When I eventually decided to still meet him, we spent the night together. Omo was tired and couldn't even go two rounds, it seemed as if he just wanted to sample the almighty me, fuck boy like him.
    I made up my mind not to ever go near him, I even treated candida an d took antibiotics cos I felt somehow.
    Na so love abi wetin end, almost three years of wasting my time. Ike, may u never blow musically and may Coronavirus chop yaa prick and may that woman u are using for green card fuck u up, idiot.

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  28. Everything was going smoothly and we were to marry last year but his prophetess told him I am a witch and he left me. I I couldn't believe it a medical doctor in U.S believing such nonsense.

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    1. My dear sense is not by being a graduate..There are a lot of illiterate graduates

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  29. I left the Ibo demon because he likes sex too much but doesn't want children or responsibilities! I aborted so many times that I lost count may God forgive me! Always broke,borrowing from me and never paying back. He even had to call my parents and lie that I had an accident to get money to fix his car that broke down in Onitsha while going for a wedding I told him not to go. My parents gave him money even my elder sister also gave him money! So proud,full of empty promises. I left and never looked back. Now he stalks me and keeps telling me he is still in love with me after how many years! He has been through 2 marriages currently single father with 6 children from the 2 ex wives! I really dodged a bullet. I am married to a loving husband, my helpmate, my love,my heartbeat!

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    1. PleaseπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️πŸƒπŸΎ‍♀️ without looking back

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    2. Damn he is a leech not a man abeg

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  30. My heart was broken when the man who had been telling me he wanted to marry me for years, changed his mind and decided he wanted me to get pregnant first before marriage. I chose not to compromise, cause of my faith and relationship ended. I was heartbroken cause i was deeply in love. It took awhile to heal and I still love him but thankful. Trusting God that I will meet the right person for me

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    1. What’s with some men wanting women to get pregnant before marriage. Things are really happening.

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    2. And most of them do not even take care of the children they want before marriage ooo.thrn they will most times still not marry the woman

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    3. You did well! Please kill that love and keep it for someone deserving!

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  31. Broke up two days ago. He was my first boyfriend, loved him like no man's business but he's too jealousy to the extent that he doesn't want to see me even close to my female friend🀧
    I don hang boot for now

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  32. A 34 year old man o.. He calls me like 25times in a day(long calls o) I been wan choke (so picture what could happen in a day).

    One day I asked him if he has ever hit a lady.. He answered yes while in school, she wanted to hurt him with a knife so he was being defensive. (Well, I tried to digest that one, make e no be like say now now I don vex)! I asked another time, have you ever cheat in a relationship? He answered by mistake because the other girl drugged his drink while in school! In my mind, hanhan, why nau? Only you girl do this and that.. I look am from head to toe sef! I no fit digest that one, I don dey vex small small). Any small thing, "i can't be with you again" "I will delete your number" "I will block you on whatsapp" "don't talk to me" my wife shouldn't do this and that etc... Ahhh, I don swell with anger! My patience battery don dey blink red (I was trying so hard to be patient coz my family are saying he's a Good man and matured enough etc).

    Then came a question from him one early morning "when was the last time you had sex"?.. Ahh my people laaro kΓΉtΓΉkΓΉtΓΉ, mo change e fun with hot madness. Me dat I've been managing to hold in how much I despise his pride, I yam pepper scatter scatter everything and had peace! Mio raye rara


    The situationship lasted for a week.πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ My family asked me about him later.. I changed it for everybody as well, if they weren't being all pushy I won't manage for that one week at all!

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    1. All that in a week. Thank God your situationship ended o.

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    2. I kept picturing broda shaggi as I was reading ur comment..😁

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    3. Your narration is funny

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£.. Don't wound me o @BB

      @Candy.. I paid my tithe untop that case πŸ˜‚πŸ€£!

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    5. Wow too much drama in just in a week! He is very immature abeg..Good riddance to radarada

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  33. Hm I dated this guy for about a year. Lovely guy. Or so I thought. First time he slapped me cos he thought I went to visit another guy. Begged like his life depended on it. Second time he slapped me again cos i didn’t come when I was meant to and he couldn’t contact me. Blamed the devil. The third time he slapped me Cos I questioned him when a girl told me she slept with him. I just jejely carried a large amount of his money and disappeared. That was it. We met up years later and he apologized and told me he was immature then but I no gree o. That one na Beta woman beater. Heard he got married and beat his wife till she ran.

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    1. My dear marvel.. You are not in this life to prove a point to anyone! Why don't you just breathe, live and do you? Things will not be worse for you by God's grace!

      See, when you meet your own Man.. You will be grateful to God for fighting an unknown battles for you!

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  35. So this guy says he's in love with me. Infact eh,his own is obsession and it was sickening.
    To top it all,I said I didn't want sex and he kept disturbing me,like he will literally kneel and cry and beg.
    Dude is in his forties. Instead of concentrating his energy on making money to marry he will be disturbing my life for sex. I had to break up with me before I end up with someone that will rape my daughter was he is too horny if we eventually marry.
    I am trying to build a solid relationship with God,I am prepping to preach to others in church and you want me to be fornicating with you.

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