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Thursday, August 13, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Oh Dear!!!!






STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
JEALOUS AND HURT.....



Good day Stella. 

Here's my story. I served in a military barracks few years ago and it was loads of fun even though I didn't have much fun because I am a total introvert and I need a lot of persuasion before someone can drag me out. 



And as a lot of people know, many of these military guys are so handsome especially when in their camouflage. So I met so many young, rich and handsome officers but i didn't flirt with any. 


Straight to my story... One week to our POP, I met one young officer in the officer's mesh. This is a guy I have never spoken with even though I have seen him on few occasions. The night we met, we exchanged numbers and we started talking. My POP came a week after and I left the barracks. We started talking often and I started having feelings for him. He never asked me out, but always saying he likes me and from the way we flow with each other, one would think we were dating. 


So I summoned courage to ask him about our relationship status lol, his answer was he love me so yeah we can be official. I liked him so I felt there was no need to pretend, we started dating. 


All of this happened so fast, like within a month after my NYSC POP. After I traveled back to Lagos from Kano where I served, he invited me over back to the North. He was already in Kaduna. I foolishly risked my life, lied to my family and traveled to Kaduna from Lagos (One of the actions I regret in my entire life). I got to Kaduna, he delayed me for about an hour at the park in the night before he came to pick me! 


When I got to his lodge, I went to the bathroom to shower and I met a used condom so I guess a lady just left his house and that was why he delayed me. 


After shower, he was talking to a lady for close to one hour. That was when I knew I had entered one chance lol. I made up my mind not to allow him sleep with me cos obviously, it was a fruitless journey.


 Two days after, I left o because I was treated like trash. This guy left me to go play football/tennis for a whole day, he came back later in the night. He said since I didn't allow him have his way, then what's my usefulness. 


I left and returned to Lagos. He told me to give the info of how I got to Kaduna from Lagos (eg the bus I took, the route I followed and the garage I took the bus). I ignorantly gave him and asked him why he needed the info. He said his friend's wife is coming so he wants to know. My mind told me it's a lie and you know we ladies can find things out if we want to lol. Long story short, this guy invited a girl I know down to Kaduna, just a day after I left. Few days later, I started noticing him withdrawing. Anytime I call him especially at night, he will be on another call for hours. 


I will wait and wait for him to return my call but he won't. This went on for days and he will only say he was on call with his friends or family. And this is even when I personally call him back the next day. Thereafter he broke up with me with the excuse that I'm too childish for him. Me sef no kuku beg. I moved on immediately! 


We still have each other's contacts and view each other's status for close to four years now without talking. Recently, I saw a viral picture of his proposal to a beautiful lady and my heart skipped! 


I felt so jealous (not bitter anyways). He didn't post the picture on his own status (or he probably blocked me from viewing), I only saw the picture on his friends and family's page. I know I don't wanna have anything to do with him again, but I almost cried when I saw the picture. I think this is due to the fact that I haven't dated anyone after my relationship with him ended. Is anyone experiencing same? How do I move on from this guy completely cos I seriously hate this feeling. Please help...





Babe,its been four years,move on!!!!
You didnt even date him,you dated yourself....
delete his number from your phone,unfollow the pages you have been monitoring him with and please move on.....

4 years of being a monitoring spirit must have taken its toll on you but honey,you will be fine,OK?

114 comments:

  1. Yeah...you will be fine sis!
    Do as Stella advised!

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ You are still daydreaming and it be nice you move on with your life,lovely

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    2. Try and start another relationship

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    3. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'13 August 2020 at 17:40

      All I can say is Hmmmmmmm while reading this. Why do some women love guys that rejects them? Poster listen good that guy was never your boyfriend nor your lover and how did you generate love from a guy who you was never involved with in the first place? God! My heart dey skip pity for you, please kindly stop that nonsense you are feeling because you deserve the Best Pretty. Cut every viewing centres in which you use to watch all that makes you jealous and make sure never to speak to his friends or family. Give one Correct Guy chance to love you, also give love . Good luck !

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    4. Your monitoring spirit dey high.

      Move on

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    5. Dear Poster, please you owe it to your mental health not to be in contact or still have the contact of this kind of person. Please what are you still viewing his status or social media pages for till even 4 years after? God delivered you very early, you should have moved away from this kind of "rubbish" since. Kindly do so ASAP and restore your peace by God's grace.

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    6. GOD saved you by exposing him early
      Sex means nothing especially to a promiscuous man

      He told clearly you were only useful for that

      Block him physically, spiritually, gsmitically, statuscally


      His life is not worth monitoring

      Delete his details
      Move on

      Na person wey you know before
      Never was your boyfriend sef

      Your ego was hurt

      LET HIM GO!

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  2. I feel like cussing this poster out.
    This is were you female friends will talk sense into your head.

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    1. Sadly she doesn’t seem to have any.

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    2. Babe why keep his contact.

      Now I remember last 2weeks I saw my ex engagement too. I dnt have his number but a mutual friend uploaded it on WhatsApp.

      Babe my body no shake at all becos I am happy I left.

      Better delete his number and stop dreaming. Obviously you were hoping both of you might come back??? 4years you are hoping.

      Why do I feel you slept with him!! If not.. why the emotions on a chronic cheat like him? Dnt be desperate pls. Concentrate on urself and delete all those mutual friends and his number asap.

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    3. You said he treated you like TRASH yourself, you knew it was FRUITLESS and u was smart enough to even avoid SEX,u should be thankful...... !

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  3. Why keep is contact? You're the one doing yourself. Someone that is enjoying himself, you're there feeling sad and all that. You better delete, his friends and family contacts and move on before you will get BP on his wedding day.

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    1. Imagine after treating you like ewedu soup and poured you out, you still dey draw dey go back.Nawa you

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    2. @Jerusalem. I weak for her and it's 4years already. She try sha

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    3. As in. God knows I don't know how to tolerate crap. I will just block you, straight up@

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    4. Oh dear,4years is long enough for you to forget him,delete his contact and find a way to heal.
      Yours will come dear.

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  4. 3Amigos Bread @ 6 Okesalu St, Ikotun. 0813851632813 August 2020 at 15:06

    You basically did not date him.
    He treated you like trash.
    But you can’t move on after four years? A tad confusing. But then again, people process things differently.

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    1. She is not saying everything, trust me.

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    2. Poster, were you ever in a relationship with this man?

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    3. Even if introduction has been done

      And she had a child for him

      She should MOVE ON!


      NOBODY SHOULD BEG YOU TO SOCIALISE

      COME OUT SOMETIMES TO REASONABLE PLACES TO MEET REASONABLE PEOPLE!

      YOU ARE NOT DOING YOURSELF ANY FAVOUR

      THE GUY WAS AN OKPO
      SO OF NO VALUE

      YOU LOST NOTHING

      BUT WASTED YOUR OWN TIME THINKING AND BEIBG AFRAID THAT NOONE WILL LOOK AT YOU AGAIN

      MY FRIEND STOP FOOLING YOURSELF ABOUT HIM, THERE was no relationship

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  5. Aww Babygirl! It can really hurt and I am so sorry..What if that lady he proposed to has been in the picture all these years..Forget him! Unfollow him! It's not easy but take it one step at the time! That is life for you! You need to open up and make friends..Be happy, fall in love, pamper yourself, be kind to yourself..Love will find you but not when you are a hermit..He has moved on and you should do same dear..There is no need waiting a train at the airport, it will never happens..E-hugs and All the best..

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    1. You are so correct Phoenix, sending you hugs and kisses poster.
      You will be okay.

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    2. Some airport get train stations nawπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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  6. Unrequited love/like/crush happens to a lot of us and it's part of the many experiences life has to offer.

    The best way is to let go of the grudge you bear against him for leading you on and move on.

    YOURS WILL COME and you will be grateful he was not the one.

    Be open minded and don't shut out others who are interested in having something worthwhile with you.

    I am even happy he didn't rape you when you went visiting.

    Peace πŸ•Š️☮️

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  7. Sweet sis, I understand how you feel and your feelings are valid. Please try to block him on social media if his pics would make you feel bad. He never loved you. You are worth more than anything he gave you as a relationship. Try move on my sis. I wish you all the best!

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    1. Her feelings are not valid. Sorry.

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  8. "He treated you like thrash" really?
    Nne, you dumped yourself in the thrash
    site and complain that you were treated
    like thrash?
    Less than a month of meeting him;
    "what is our relationship status?"
    Wow!
    So if he had told you, "marriage"
    yes, "we are married," you would have
    believed it then?! Wow!
    A decent girl;
    *defines the relationship boundaries, not status as in this case.
    *stays in her mother's house and let the man do the visiting.
    You lied to your mom and went to far north to supply fornication and got angry
    that another lady had supplied the
    cookies before you?
    Wow!
    And you have been visiting this blog for how long?
    Nne, make Jesus your first relationship for that is what is
    lacking in your life, so that you will
    have direction.
    Let me🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️🀸🏻‍♀️ in peace.

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    1. First time in a long time I didnt skip your write up(your opening statement didnt put me off) ,I'm impressed.

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  9. Move on from what?? There was never a relationship,he's not worth it all,grow up girl,thank God you didn't give him the cookie(from your write up tho)so why the emotional Entanglement?be strong pls,he isn't worth it at alllll and you are here talking about moving on,**dey dia make trailer jam you*""πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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  10. You guys didnt date, it was supposed to be a fling but u caught feelings.

    Now why would u be hung up on someone who doesn't even give a hoot about u? Wait..how old are u?

    Na wa o.

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    1. Small girl dey disturb her. Thank your God you didn't get HIV.

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  11. Come to think of it, you were annoyed
    he did not propose to you?
    No man, I repeat, no decent man will
    marry a girl who left her parent's house
    to visit a man in far north in military barracks.
    When men want to marry, they look for
    character, good characters in all
    the girls they've come across. And sorry to say, dear, you do not have it.
    😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

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    1. Weldone ooo...
      Character detector

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    2. So,its the man that has good character abi? Clap for yourself!

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    3. @Shantelle
      The man did not write a chronicle to us, did he?
      The man is not sulking, is he?
      The man is not angry that he was not "proposed to," is he?
      The man is not the one that has not moved an inch since 4 years?
      The man is not the one that has refused to graduate from missed
      engagement after 4 years, is he?
      That gender war going on inside your head need to be expunged!
      Declare ceasefire! 😎😎😎😎😎

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    4. The guy illustrated up there was a refuse site

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    5. @jet
      And those girls are his refuse?

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  12. You should have deleted and blocked him immediately you came back from his place, I guess you had hope you guys would reunite.

    Anyway, you can still block and forget him, it might not be easy but please try.

    Oya take hugπŸ€—. You'll be fine dear.

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    1. I swear, and she was even calling him, complaining he wSnt picking up.hian. Wouldn't you have been shocked if he did otherwise?. So, if he had proposed to you, you would have married him?. Someone who basically told you all you're good for is supplying the P. No nne.
      I hope you haven't been driving guys away cos of him oo.
      Remember this, That you placed your life on hold doesn't mean his would be on hold. Life doesn't work that way oo.
      That you don't eat a lion doesn't mean it wont eat you

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  13. See this one ? Because you never dated since then, he should not date or married again ?
    Dont be a witch.

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    1. You dey mad ni. ode

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    2. E no go better for that girl wey break your heart & turned it to ice block..
      Kaiiii, you sound like a wounded guy everytime🀣🀣🀣!!

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    3. ���������������� savage 17:21, don't mind this bully called don.

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  14. Dear poster, you have no reason to be jealous or hurt. Let go of this feelings towards him once and for all. After all, you didn't allow him have the cookie jar. He was a playboy, you simply allowed him play with your emotions! Move on very fast...

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  15. This chronicle is annoying. Poster, you risked your life to go sleep, saw condom in the trash (were you snooping?), didn't have sex with him, he treated you like trash (from your write up), he was misbehaving when you got back, and you didn't take a walk??? He broke up with you, you were still stalking him, and you guys monitor yourselves on whatsapp. Gosh! Delete his number ASAP, and place value on yourself before any body o.

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  16. Poster after 4 years!!!! Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Na wa for you

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  17. Delete his number and move on. Everything good will come .

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  18. When I read about all this stories and I say thank God I'm still as Jehovah made me. Infact if care is not taking, I will die a holy man.. But who holy helpπŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’. Dear poster abeg move on to something better, like making mooney and you will forget about him.

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    1. Ask those in heaven

      And those on earth GOD is happy with

      It EPP them o

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    2. Ask those in heaven

      And those on earth GOD is happy with

      It EPP THEM OOOO

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  19. Girl u should have deleted his contact and blocked the entire history u had! 4 years viewing status?! Jeez. How to move on? YOU MOVE ON BY MOVING ON! Onward ever. Cry no more baby love will find you just give love a chance and stop being stuck up with what never was. Yes that wasn't a relationship. It is well with u πŸ’•

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  20. Let this be a lesson to all ladies. When a guy gives you greenlight, say sweet nonsense, acts jealous when he suspects you are talking to another guy but find it hard to open his kpomo mouth to ask you out DIRECTLY" WILL YOU BE MY GURL". then know he is an emotional abuser. Run away with your two legs. A guy tired that with me and I blocked him after talking for one week. Acting like he likes me but won't ask me out while making it look like he wants something serious but won't bodly say it giving you double signal. He saw me with another guy later and was hiding out of shame because I peeped his game. A guy who wants you will come out directly to ask you he will pursue. Poster move on. He is not a prize.

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    1. Sorry *One month* but he started showing interest in one week.

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    2. As I was saying, He will tell me 'who is that guy' don't let him snatch you from me o' and I was wondering if I was his to begin with. He will call and if I don't pick or I was talking to someone like my phone says 'busy' he will feign jealousy. He will Send text messages that are vague and you will start thinking is he trying to tell me he likes me?. He will sell that idea of wanting a relationship with you without really saying it and not making a move. The third week he asked how may kids I will like to have and I told him I only dicuss that private matter with someone I am dating and he said then who am I to you? That was when I realise he didn't have sense so I told him who are you to me tell me Nah and he said don't worry later you will find out and he still didn't ask me out. So I stopped picking after that but he begged two days later and planned a date. He planned a date and cancelled twice which was the fourth week and came up with excuses I just blocked him because it was obvious the nonsense he was doing. So poster don't feel bad. I was really young then then but I realised early a guy can ask for your number for various reasons it doesn't mean he likes you. Maybe to flirt, waste your time if you allow it, or string you along to feel important. So many sick men exist. So don'feel bad just have sense and keep your self respect intact. am anon 15:19

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    3. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘

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    4. God will bless you for this 😘 Same thing happened to me , the nigga did all that u wrote up πŸ‘† and more but he never really asked me out, I thought he was too shy so I “Shoot by shot” Worst mistake of my life...

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    5. Thank you Anon. You are very correct. A guy that wants or desires you will ASK and PURSUE you. Men are territorial in nature. If they don't ask it is more because they don't want or are indecisive. Same reason i'm not for this modern day style of asking a man out or proposing to man. It is risky in my opinion. If you do, prepare your heart for the way it will turn out. Na 50:50 something.

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  21. Na wa for this poster o. I doubt the guy even remembers your name. Move on!

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    1. Dante this one really pissed you off. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  23. 4 years??? Please come and be going

    Tell yourself the truth, you wanted his money then. Thank God for you that you gave yourself sense not to have anything sexual with him

    There wasn't a ship, you only thought there was. Please go on.

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    1. Which money wey soldier wey dey live for barracks get??
      Pretty sure that he wasn't a "general"..

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  24. When they tell you girls to allow a man chase you ,you will say you are woke, shoot your shot bla bla bla.a man is ready to sleep with as many girls as gives him the cookie but his heart belongs to only one.you must not date all the cute and well to do guys you meet.date only the one that loves you not the ones that admires you cos you are cute,he will admire every cute girl he sees but will love only one

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    1. Then him and his heart are both thrash. A man ready to sleep with everything in skirt that wiggle it's bumbum at him. No class or value. Such a man isn't a prize tbh. A loose and cheap man. Though I support your comment about not chasing and being with a man that loves you not because you are cute but someone who loves you for you and has self worth. The man in the story is really cheap. I wonder why she is jealous of the wife he married.

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    2. Some men's heart belong to nobody

      Emotionally unavailable
      Number dialed is switched off

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    3. I agree with you Jet Li. Some of them are just narcissists. They love nobody but themselves.

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  25. So you still contacted him after that ill treatment???babes move on..

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    1. That's the painful part for me in all of these

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  26. Pele dear, you will be fine last last. Military officers are like that. I come from a military background so I know how it can be but girl most of them are flirt and they know we babes like thie uniform that is why they misbehave around town. Even the married ones have their mistresses. I used to have one as a friend even after he got married he still used to try to woo me, even trying to use money to entise but I just had to delete him and all his contacts from my brain and phone bfr I fall into his trap.
    Back to the story The good thing is that he didn't sleep with you.
    Just free the guy and move on, He was not into you probably he saw the jelling part of you that is why he played along thinking he could have his way. God must have saved u from something ..STD's, HIV, unfaithful partner etc.
    Your husband will find you,it doesnt matter your character. put God first and all will be well.

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  27. 4 years and u are still in love, wow sounds strange to me,so after he treated u like trash u were still hoping he will suddenly realize that u are the best woman for him and run back to you, hmmm madam what have u been doing since four years now, didn't got occupied by work or something, pls fling Dat filthy feelings aside and move on, it's people with this kind of your heart that makes most men feel women are trash, soon he will tell u his wife is kini kon kini kon, he no longer loves her, it's u he wants and u will spread. Pls delete him from your mind, ask God for help, I suffered rejection but with prayers and strong mind I moved on after 4months.

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    1. Poster doesn't know her worth that is why she is still emotionally attached. You have to MOVE ON. He is not worth it

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  28. wait poster how can you still be in contact with someone who treated you like this?
    you should have deleted and blocked him the moment you stepped foot in Lagos. I’m guessing all this happened when you were young. But poster you are an adult now...and the nuisance himself have moved on. Don’t say it’s not easy cause you were never in a relationship to start with.
    I don’t know why I have this feeling a lot still happened btw you both when you were even apart.
    Like Were you both still flirting with each other through texts and calls? Did he give you some sort of hope you were gonna get back together?
    Place a value on yourself before you find yourself repeating this same thing with someone else.
    You should be happy you never slept with him instead of carrying feelings for four years.
    I’m pissed on your behalf.

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    1. As in Convince me, e piss me too that she didn't delete his number after the treatment he gave her when she went there. Na real wah

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  29. All these happened 4 years ago & you're yet to move on? This isn't about being an introvert, you clearly don't place premium value on yourself. Your self love, self esteem & appreciation is so low. You need to learn to love yourself, tell yourself you deserve more, delete his number, stop stalking him.. you both don't even talk.. so what's the attraction? Is he the first guy to tell you he likes you? Or you simply cant get over his being a soldier?

    Please stop being in your shell & begin to meet better men! Na wa o!! God forbid, I move on like it never happened!

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  30. God didn't designed that guy for you. Pls kindly move on, be closer more to God, your man will come when you give God the first love to Him!

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  31. What's with the lols!??!!!

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  32. Move on...fast. if he suspects you still have feelings for him, na mistress level get you.

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  33. Awwww! Sorry sweetheart, apparently a part of you still nursed the hope that you guys will reconnect sometime in the future. Perhaps, he would come to his senses and realise how special you are and what a fool he was to let you go. Darling, you ARE special, just not to him. If you keep carrying a torch for him, you will lose out on the right guy who knows you're all sorts of special.

    As I read your story, I could tell the end from the beginning. One of the worst things you can do to an emotionally unavailable guy, is to catch feelings and assume he is yours because you asked and he said he loves you. When a man loves you, you normally wouldn't need to ask because it would be quite obvious. Sweetie, you moved way too fast, the logic progression is for the "relationship" to burn out. All that within a month? Com' on now! You didn't even avail him the thrill of the chase. Were you scared that you would lose him if you didn't make a fast move? That, in itself is a sure sign that he isn't yours.

    You practically chased him and gave him the impression that you were down for whatever. You were willing and available so he did what guys like him do...a booty call which you gladly obliged, only for you to withhold the booty( good call, by the way). Of course you were useless to him because all he wanted was sex but you thought you were visiting your boyfriend for a romantic getaway.

    What you feel is absolutely natural. While you weren't done smarting over the rejection and checking him out to see whether he's back to his senses... BOOM! You get hit with the painful realisation that your Romeo has found his Juliet and she isn't you! Ouch! That's got to sting.

    Take a graceful bow, darling, the show is over. You may not feel so now, but consider yourself lucky. Sometimes man's rejection is God's protection. You don't need a man who can disgrace you in such a spectacular fashion. A man with zero regard for the dignity of your person. What use is a man with the looks of a Greek god and the attitude of a punk? Please, help yourself break free from this unhealthy obsession by deleting his number and any access to information about him. Choose the man who chooses you, to do otherwise is tantamount to emotionally abusing yourself.
    e-hugs and kisses.

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  34. I think I know this person. Is he and the wife dark in complexion? Is he quite chubby and the wife slender? Fill me in!

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    1. Yes anon you are correct.

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    2. Anon 16:09 hope you aren't the man this one she said you are correct. πŸ’…

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    3. No, I am not the man. But he married my coursemate and I can assure that that lady would be the end of him.

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    4. She is a disaster waiting to happen, trust me. I can't go into details so I am not decoded (the world is a small place)... Well unless if I have the wrong person in mind.

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    5. Bushmeat have catch the hunter then
      18:33

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  35. Hahahah!!Women😁😁😁😁😁

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  36. Just block everything pertaining to that guy abeg. He is not worth this hurt/stress you are putting yourself through sis. And to think it's four good years already. MOVE BABY MOVE.

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  37. Poster from what I read and understood, you practically threw yourself at him. It's time to "face front". If I were you, I would have deleted his number and anything that connects me to him the minute I landed in Lagos from Kaduna. You'll be fine las las

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    1. This poster has 1001 inferiority complex,what a shame.

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    2. Military and custom officers are BIG FLIRTS!

      Ladies, beware of them❗

      Poster, being an introvert doesn't mean no common sense.
      4 years of pining away and stalking a man on social media?

      You lied to your parents to go see a man - a man they don't know? What a risk! (accident, rape, kidnapping)
      Parents that made huge sacrifices for you from childhood through university!!! 🀦‍♀️🀦‍♀️🀦‍♀️

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  38. How can u be so into a guy you know feels nothing for you except to taste your honey pot..The only reason u may be feeling jealous and bad is that he has licked the honey pot severally which u denied up there..If truly he hasn't tasted d something, then you need Jesus ASAP.. Move on babe, your placenta is not yoked with his biko...

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  39. May love find you speedily, so you won't have time to be pressing your fone, watching other people enjoy their lives.

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  40. Dear poster, how you feel right now is valid. Somebody you felt deserved your love and respect, made you feel like you are just a piece of ass. You are an introvert, and virtually live in your head most of the times, so its natural that you won't move on easily, you keep playing the "what ifs" in your head, and hoping the guy would have one day come to see your true worth.
    ...The lady he is marrying didn't do anything special, your worth never diminished because someone was too blind/selfish to see it. You don't need this kind of man anyway! Sulk all you want, then wake up and smell the coffee, its time to delete that number. Cheers!

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    1. What ever she is feeling is not valid. Please don't deceive her.

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    2. I don't think you should support her completely.
      After reading the post,I can confidently say that she didn't tell us everything
      She'll be alright eventually

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    3. Anon 18:31. What's your problem exactly? She's hurting and needs advice and encouragement. Who are you to say her feelings aren't valid? GTFOH please!!! Leave those who have advice to give it and shut the hell up if you've got nothing to say. Madam validator.

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  41. Break free from this obsession and create space for a good man in your heart.

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    1. Play praise the Lord in the background as you take hold of your life and finally get enough sense to delete his number

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  42. Dear poster... That guy doesn't deserve a girl like you. You are worth more,keep living your best life and the man God has made for you will locate you. Don't get jealous over his low life pls

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  43. Poster, your nature of not having friends and self isolating is doing a number on you!pl plea interact more,go out more.

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  44. Babes I am very sure you haven't told us everything.
    I am also very sure you knew he had someone else he was dating but you were holding out hope that he will chose you.
    I don't understand how you claim to have gone to someone's house once and claim you didn't have sex,you came back and believe you guys were dating.
    How did you get to know that he invited someone else over from the directions.
    No matter how you feel about your looks,I am sure you are very beautiful. Try to socialize more. Smile more and start to ooze out positive vibes in order to get into a new relationship.
    That wasn't yours.
    Try to boost your self esteem and have an open mind. Love will find you.

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  45. My Dear, you just dodged a bullet. Please just face front, better times and your better spouse is out there.

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  46. This is what happens when you don’t go out! Overly introverted person tend to hold on to ridiculousness like this because you’re not out there meeting new people. The one and only man that showed you a little bit of attention, you held on to it like your life depends on it. A whole four years stalking a man?!?!!! Are you kidding me? Hope your mental state of mind is good. Because by now if you had mingled with people, maybe you would have been married with a toddler running around you saying mama. You’re something else man. bLOCK that man today and move the hell on! And go out once in a while for goodness sake! Or if your depressed, seek help ASAP.

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  47. Poster you and this guy was never in a relationship before from what you wrote up there,and if you both even had something,his behavior was already screaming chronic cheat so thank God for saving you from heart break and move up,your right man will locate you.

    Am wishing you more love.

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  48. This is a problem that NO CONTACT would have solved but you kept the windows open.
    Poster please never be so quick to throw yourself at a man. Let him be the one to make his intentions clear. Please never be too forward with men o. They are sly animals and will take advantage of the slightest weakness.

    Block him from your Whatsapp and all social media and allow your heart and soul to heal.

    He is not the man for you and it happened for your own good. Chin up, look ahead, adjust your crown and keep walking. But wisely next time. Cheers

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